Dear AFRICAN/NIGERIAN MEN, Please DON'T COME TO CANADA !!!
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- Dear AFRICAN/NIGERIAN MEN, Please DON'T COME TO CANADA!!!(The hard truth, & Realities)
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Some of your words were invalid.
My late Mother cooks fresh food daily.
Lmaooooo 🤣🤣🤣
Then marry your late mother
@@adannapaul8248 dont you know their mothers and no else's mothers embody perfection?
Hopefully he finds the one who can cook fresh soup for him every night.
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@@mysteriesoflife540
Hear hear! Especially in Canada.
We live in times when women demand the most and offer the least. I was telling my wife that when I was younger, women in the family came together to cook during occasions while the men contributed the money, now the men contribute the money and still pay to hire a caterer. Yet, everything that goes wrong is the man's fault
We had our first child 3 weeks ago and I had him via C-section. We couldn’t get any one come over to help with omugwo , even though I had a friend come over @37 weeks pregnancy to help me with bulk cooking. My husband is the one taking care of me , bathing, cleaning and taking care of our son , bathing and changing him too. Waking up at night and all. Abroad is not for the weak or faint hearted. We are taking care of each other. You have to work as a team to survive in this abroad
Congratulations on your new baby. God's perfect healing upon you.
I can relate, with when my sis delivered via cs & my mum had eye surgery 2wks prior to her delivery. Omo, my sis really suffered bcs her husband is the type that doesn't know how to cook. It wasn't easy but God really saved her.
True talk
There are ladies that will not appropriate the little their man has done so far. Am in my mid 30s from my little understanding the laws are counted when one did not his or her TRUE love. I remember my mum told at adolescent that if I want to marry it most be that woman I will always run back home to meet after office time is over.
You have said it all. God bless you and your household ❤
Congratulations on your new born. This is proof that Nigerian men do help at home when abroad so helping is not the problem. The women that claim that men don't help have ulterior motives and are using house chores as a cover. Men are not stupid. They recognize when it is necessary to take on house chores and many bend over backwards to preserve their marriages and avoid divorce abroad
I have been In Europe for 20 years. Everything you said is true. Nigeria men who are not ready to change their African mentality better remain back in Nigeria.
This is a primitive and poor backward Nigeria lifestyle in the name of culture and traditions
Exactly
We are not getting married we are making baby mama's
@@animalworld3440 really
Omo ode
For someone with a family who has been in the US for about 8yrs, Naza is saying the truth 🙏
You’re Welcome !
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Anybody can say whatever that won't change the fact that Nigeria is hell for the majority of the citizens.
When they marry a white woman, they cook, clean, and even open the car door for her. 💯
💯💯💯💯
don't mind them.
Honestly
But the white women are very faithful unlike African women no way
Honestly, this video needs to go viral.
I don't even care what the video is about. I am not even moving to Canada. I just LOVE your energy. Much love from Zambia
Same here ohhh, she brings her videos to life
Her energy is so refreshing and entertaining and bonus that she is preaching facts.
Your greedy elders will be selling out Zambia soon to the Indians, Chinese and middle eastern people. Have you noticed the improvement of Rwanda, the changes are coming so you archaic men, you better start getting some council and get civilized. Marriage is a partnership.
The truth has been spoken. You will never understand until you're in it.👏✌️❤
If your wife is not your friend biko dont relocate the abroad is not for you. You nailed all the points Neze, welldone!
I concur with what you opined 100%. I told someone before that one major reason Nigerian men complain that the wives they brought to abroad have changed and is giving him problems, I tell them that they are the cause. Simple! You and your wife contribute financially to the upkeep of the home, but that same naija guy will be relaxed when it comes to chores. Oga you must do it.
I wish l could like this video 1M times. This has caused alot of serious problems in our marriages abroad because some of our african men in diaspora refused to adjust.
Kai...the part of "women changing because of years of anger" is very true. God bless you.
As an American, you are on point. This is important information you're relaying. ❤
This whole thing is about common sense and genuinely caring for each other as partners 😭 marry a man who has sense
You said it so well👏🏾. If you don’t adjust, abroad will adjust you.
Your very right, my relative in Canada separated because of everything you have mentioned. He only wanted fresh food etc.
This conversation is very important to have. Our Zimbabwean men need to hear this...😊
Our sadza eaters may not welcome this topic.
Nigerian Igbo guys are even the worse
Not anyone of them is better my dear.
the part where you said "your own na to on the car and zoom off even if the tire is flat got me😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Happy Friday. I am cracking up. It's the reality of life in Developed Countries (Canada, USA, UK, Europe, etc). As for abuse such as physical, sexual, mental, emotional (spouse, children, etc.) If call dont originate from home, even the neighbours, co-workers, teachers etc will call the cops on you just for suspecting abuse. Excellent preparation to migrate information. KUDOS Neze as you speak truth as is.
Ikkkmi
Thank you👍🌹.
So true!! 100% spot on. I have 3 kids under 4 years here in America. Myself and my husband work from home o. My husband would shower, change diapers, and feed the kids. We finally got a nanny, we pay $1600 every month for nanny!!!😢😢 ko easy
😳that’s a lot. May God continue to provide for you guys. Make peace reign.
You hit the nail on the head. I am about to dissolve my marriage because of all the points you mentioned. I am in the UK and he still behaves as if he s in Nigeria with all his negative behaviour.
Please sister, never think of dissolving your marriage, isn't easy to be a single mother here in the uk. The single mother out there have learnt their lessons and once they see any man out there, they are ready to take him. I wish I know you I would have explain more to you. Be patient and try to understand him. He will learn step by step. Wish you the best.
You are miserable,sad for you,because you need a companion ,you must stoop low and be mentally unstable because of an egoestic person.
That's sad, maybe you should try to show him this video
@@elizabeththomas3196this is not a nice comment. Do you know this lady from anywhere? Why would you make such conclusive statements about her. Pls next time if you don't have anything nice to say, just waka pass. It's not compulsory to respond to everyone's comment.
I hear you....
My 2020 summer onugbu soup is still consumed deliciously with no complaints and thank you so much ,compliments that goes with it.
Thank you for this video. It is a must see for many Nigerian men living abroad. I went through most of the things you spoke about. Thank God I survived with my sanity intact but I became very resentful to my spouse for not being a team player. Hope this video help other young couples.
Thank God you survived o.
Chichi, if you are a Moda you need to make sure your son learns to split tasks and burden o
Gbam! Neze, you have hit the nail on the head. I know people here in the UK who have divorced their husbands because of this issue of not helping with household chores and expecting to be eating fresh food every day. Even when the woman is coming back from a 12-hour shift.
The man is obviously insane!
Infact, kudos to you, you’ve learnt and studied your new environment so fast. As someone, who has been living in the diaspora for over 3 decades, I can confirm that you nailed it so hard on the head, you have addressed all the factors that can either sustain a home/relationship/good parenting or break a home. All it takes is learning and unlearning in order to acquire the right mindset. The Almighty God will help us to adapt to the new environment we find ourselves and create the right spirit in us, so that, we can unlearn all the archaic mentalities that are inborn IJN🙏
Thanks for sharing , this is how we roll here abroad. If you don’t want to adapt better stay in your country.
yep!
Neze, you are so correct. You can imagine me being the only child of my parents with lots of house helps growing up. Now traveled to USA with only my husband and having four children abroad without no help. It has only been the support from my husband and God. But I know it could have been different if we were back home.
You can also bring househelps to the US. However, many 9ja women cannot imagine treating househelps as actual human beings with respect etc. Most househelps in Nigeria are used as slaves.
@@chikeziekezinwaoha1970 thanks alot pls tell her to go back to her primitive and poor backward Nigeria without meaning , the so called Nigeria complain every where yet their are not the one developed the country their are enjoying
@@chikeziekezinwaoha1970fact 💯 treating house helps like slaves is just pure wickedness.
This is so true about Women beaters husbands, l have been a victim for so many years till l decided to take the matter into my own hands now. Many years of anger and bitterness. This is really true
😂😂😂. Moved to canada with my hubby this yeat and i concur! For us, settling was pretty easy in terms of marriage dynamics because its the same for when we were back in nigeria. The underlining root cause for all the issues you stated is false ego and a man with little or no ego and reasonable in marriage is one who would gain the most respect and submission (for me). I share my experiemces on my channel as well.
Nice video as always
You are so funny🤣🤣🤣my husband is well over 70! He cleans the kitchen after my cooking, he takes the plate into the kitchen! When I come from my flights, he prepares meal for me before I get home😎
My dear you have said it all 100% in agreement with you. Men have to drop their ego for Naija. Men get to reset their brain. You have learnt everything within a short time. I de wait for the women matter. We no get plenty.
Every African man living in abroad need to watch this video, it will really relief African women.
I hope my sons will listen to this. One of them is extremely HOT tempered (even at 34). And the other is extremely UNKEPT (even at 27). And still can not lift a broom. And yet they all want to travel. And you Neze, you are blessed with a "talking" talent.
Who raised them this way?
@Chataine92. Help me ask her
he better not travel. jail is waiting for him. that hot tempered altitude will land him there. he need to first renew his mindset.
Lol as you point at them point at yourself too
@@Chataine91you got me laughing hard 😂😂😂😂😂 who raised them
Facts as a Haitian who grew up in 2 countries this is so ever true. I’ve found ways to make things work with hiring someone just for the kitchen and bathroom every two weeks to deep clean. If you don’t work together the marriage will fail, especially in 2 income household where many woman are making more. Neze huh huh you always speak truths.
Neze huh huh❤
Facts
I feel you well and perfectly relate with it. It's already happening here in Nigeria and taking its toll on marriages. It borders so much on upbringing as well. Some persons grew up in homes that there was much love, peace and mutual understanding between parents. When such a person mistakenly marry a pretender in the name of love, everything starts going wrong. Do you wonder why a woman in her sixties suddenly it will seem, walk away from her marriage of almost forty years???
The truth is that the marriage actually ended long before she walked away.
Most of what you are talking about here is responsible. It's just that the woman realized the kind of person she got married to much later. For those who can bear the trauma, manage to hold on until they see their children become adults or graduate from the university.
@Ogheneferijomajoroh, you too much! Well said!
Sis is preaching 🙋🏾♂️l am not Nigerian and l don’t live in Canada either but this also applies to any man from any African country migrating to the western world.
Key point is “ do not start what you can not continue with” I love that Barr Neve.
NEZE YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT NWANYIOMA ❤❤, I HAVE BEEN IN GERMANY 🇩🇪 FOR ALMOST SEVENTEEN YEARS AND MY HUSBAND STILL HELPS ME IN SOME DOMESTIC WORKS AT HOME ANYTIME HE'S FREE FROM WORK, MY CHILDREN ARE GROWN UPS BUT HE STILL DON'T MIND MAKING HIS WIFE HAPPY IN HIS OWN LITTLE WAYS. I APPRECIATE HIM ALOT AND I THANK GOD ALMIGHTY FOR EVERYTHING ❤❤❤❤
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African Men, when you rellocate to abroad;
(1) Learn to read your watches and keep time well well. If its your turn to pick children.. you do that on time.. If its to get home so that your wife can leave for work, you do that on time... There is no excuse like I met so and so and we decided to catch up.. or there was traffic... or I went to see so and so...😀🌷
(2) Whenever you plan to travel.. you must say it well in advance.. you are no longer free to just mention it tonight, that you will be travelling tomorrow... Nooo!!😀😃😃
(3) When your wife is pregnant, you are pregnant too. You must attend all hospital visits.. Its not like you ask your mother or your sister to go with her.. According to them in the hospital /clinic, you are pregnant too...😀
(4) Remember to always prepare and carry your lunch...😀
The conqueror 😂😂😂,my God,you make me feel more Nigerian than Kenya with the way you put your stories 🙏🏽💜
Wacha hizo Foi😂😂
Nice topic, our men needs to hear this, it's the bitter truth, welldone Neze💯
Thank you so much Barr. Neze for this video. It is very educative, insightful and TRUE!
When you ask divorced parents what happened that resulted to divorce situations, there's no tangible reason
Always checking in because you have such a great disposition ❤❤🎉🎉 I just enjoy listening to you
Neze you've said it all. Life in abroad is all about humbleness and submission. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You have finally break this table and you know alot of people are sitting pretty on it.
I would really like to know, how many men on here are watching or have seen this video? Thank you Neze for making this video..i just hope most of our typical African men could just listen and see this video. I'm 100% with Neze.
Preach on Barr. Neze!!! You're spitting facts and figures...Living abroad is a totally different ball game...But it's enjoyable if couples make up their mind to work together as a team.
Nelo, and the first thing to do is a eject moda in law and aunties .That way you have only you and your spouse.
@@PHlophewell, if they are good people, I don’t think you need to eject them cos they could come in as a much needed help especially in childcare. Like if I have two or more children, I’m certainly going to bring in my mum or mother-in-law to come help me out. Like I said, if your in-laws are good people. If they are not, please look for other alternatives.
Neze!!!! You are a WISE and extremely BRILLIANT woman. How can I love this video a million and one times? You nailed it! Really spot on. I moved to Canada over 7 years ago and you spit nothing but the truth and facts. How you’ve been able to learn and know this much in just few months of moving to Canada is highly commendable and admirable. You too much Neze Peperempe. I hope the men with ears would listen to this video, especially with an open mind. Thank you for a hod well done 👏🏾❤️. God bless and keep you and your family.
😂😂😂😂😂😂. Oh my God I’m almost falling off my chair. Jokes apart, you’re so correct!
My dear, what you said in this video is absolutely correct and a wise advice for everyone both migrated and about to.
U know as a man that grew up in 3 different continents, I have seen and learn a lot. in terms of Marriage, the mistake most of do both male and female is that we fail to understand that marriage is an institution which hoth of you are students learning each other on a daily basis.
as an African where women are seen as the home makers, it's quite different in other countries because way back in the days of our parents, women don't work unlike now that women works more than men especially in western countries.
U have said it all but my advice to both male and female is that Marriage generally is an institution and it's more westernized in this 21st century, both of you should learn how to be a team player and avoid this Comment of "THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN IN MY HOUSE" Because what is acceptable to party A may not be acceptable to party B. this comment always happen in the midst of boys night out or girls saloon gistpoint. so avoid such and learn how to accept each others fault. As a traditional man, if you want to migrate with your wife and family, just drop that your chieftaincy title at the airport before boarding the aircraft, that's my humble advice to my fellow men..
Respect ✊ brother
The concept of women being the homemakers in Africa is a western phenomenon. It was never an African thing. White women used to be homemakers until the women liberation movements changed that.
These type of advice are what making all these women go crazy when they travel. You are a wife first and the role of a wife should not change because u migrated especially if you are a believer. Western women are switching roles and they are currently paying for it by dying alone or with a cat. The percentage of marriage is dropping dramatically in western world. The only thing we still have now as value is our culture and tradition in marriage so if we trade it and throw it away again because u re now in Europe or America you will not only pay for it our children too will suffer from it. Sarah and our mothers in Africa are not stupid when they call their husbands lord because that should be your god on earth.
@@fumeorji6692 There is something you are missing here, those our Mothers then doesn't chase carriers, they don't do any other thing other than raising kids but women if today are Carrier chasers and the level of Bill's that is waiting for you every month is not what a man can handle alone especially the migrants. so women work like men and they still have their in house duty waiting for them at the end. so what you as a man can do is to keep your ego aside and help, when you get back to africa where things are different, you can still live as you use to.
@@frankferdinand6571 My brother, I think you are the one missing the point. Do you think men are stupid? We know where and when to help. Women are dictating and switching roles. They want to be incharge and do whatever they want whenever they want. Only a lazy man cares about a woman carrier, u can trade your value for the coins she’s bringing but a value man didn’t marry for that kind of help. If her work will make her not to take care of me, my kids and home she should stop the work. Every man should be able to provide and protect his home regardless of where u find yourself.
I have been in Canada for 2 years. Everything you said is 200% true👏
You’ve said all that I have been wanting to talk about one day…very very true👏🏽👏🏽
You should ask me, my sister, I had frozen cooked last year frozen cooked foods and am still ready to eat.
You say good talk. I appreciate your speech. It is very encouraging and believed it will repair many homes . Thank you, Neze.
You don't even see people outside talk less of saying hello. Abroad is mind your business , I mind my business period
Not only abroad. Even in Nigeria, so many women are "dying" cos of house chores. Imagine living with no house help, no relative just you, husbands n kids. Yet the man just sits and presses phone, issue others, and complains at when you didn't meet up.
Their wives work, do house chores, sch runs, assignments, laundry , baby sitting, market just name it.
Barrister Neze, please advice our Nigerian/African doing this wickedness back here. It is not only when a man beats a woman that he is called wicked.
Haba nah
It’s abuse
Exactly, even in nigeria some men are still useless. You will see a woman running from pillar to post all because she is in a marriage.
Na d woman wan kee herself wit house chores. What’s stopping her from getting a maid in Nigeria? Or even a cleaning lady dt comes and goes?
@@toksakinyemi7350money
@@toksakinyemi7350you go talk ohh. the lazy man who is pressing his phone will pay for the maid. or u want her to go to the village and take a minor and impose child labour. husband and wife must learn to work as a team. if this life style continues in this 21th century divorce rate will increase.
Well said. This can really be helpful for those who dont understand these realities in Abroad.
You are so right. Totally agree with your points👍🏾
Yiu are 100% correct about your findings. Love you Neze. Thanks for bringing this truth in the purest comic way.
Self control and discipline are key ingredients to a successful life. Thank you for your sincere and revealing advice.
Well done Neze, you have dropped another bomb. Anyways, the truth is that when these men are maltreating and hurting their wives, they don’t know they are breaking that woman bit by bit, and when that woman unknowingly stopped loving them, they’ll start suspecting or calling her names, thereby adding more injury to the broken heart, instead of them to go back their wife and ask forgiveness. Some men are senseless to believe that it is the woman’s responsibility to take care of all the house chores, child care etc both in Nigeria or abroad. And they forget you are their wife, friend, partner, not a ‘maid’. You are human being that needs rest.
You have spoken the whole truth Ma'am. I keep learning from you episode to episode. I bless the day i came across your channel.
God continue to keep you.
I'm just joyously amused just watching you talk😂, then I realize why it's so, because I can relate to the way you are mentally packaged!😅
Hello Neze, I really enjoyed this one, can't wait for my Husband to see this one, and it is all True. Thanks for sharing.
Kudos to the great work .Thanks for the insight our men need to hear all this and put their ego aside keep the good work God bless
You really hit it. You just said my mind. Especially on the team fresh food stuff. When a lady is trying to loose weight and can't cos of having to cook everyday. I'd so crazy
Excellent preparation for our Kings desiring to relocate to another land. We thank you for preparing them. 🌹
Ma Neze 13:30 you are saying the truth,am in Nigeria,my wife gave birth to twins, two boys,it's only me and my wife is takng care of the children ,no house help, the reason we where able to cope is because I as a man learn'nt it from childhood from my parents, when growing up my mum thought us very well, there's no girl child or boy,we well all trained the same.just like the way you trained your children.
Love to u , ur wife, momma & the twins! 😍🤩
She really did a good Job
Thanks for sharing this insights, I love your frank and direct take on this real life issues, I'm very domesticated here in Nigeria, but I can well relate with the need to mentally prepare for the culture change or just stay where you are....!
I love d way you narrate everything God bless u immensely ❤❤you are God gift for this generation. Keep it up
preach it louder my sister. you are not only talking about Nigerian/African men, Caribbean/ South American men too. some help in their marriage and some don't. i am so happy you you touch on this topic.
You are so intelligent. I love your vibes of narrating stories.
God brought you abroad to open the eyes of our families back home to know that power has change the hand of time , thank you .
You have said it all. Thank you so much. Awesome video. God bless 🙏 you
I love you ❤❤ Neze peperempe, your intro alone makes me smile. Today 😂😂😂 am waiting for ours ooo. Love from Uganda🇺🇬🇺🇬
Halooooooo Ug oyeeeee
Without a doubt Nezze you are spot on. Well said, well done 👍🏾
Nice one Neze, so on point.
Ness you're really doing a fantastic job. Thanks so much my dear.
Wow! what an interesting video..I've learnt alot from this video, thanks for sharing.
Neze, you are awesome. You just got here and you are speaking like you have been in Canada for years. I am in the USA for 30 years and all the things you voiced out in this video are absolutely true. Keep it up darling. You are an amazing and intelligent woman. God bless you and your family in Canada.
Auntie Philo you survived Naija toxicity .
My sweet Neze, you sid it all!!!!! Thanks as always
I love you Neze, I admire your intelligence. Praying you're called to the bar in Canada 🇨🇦 stay blessed 🙏
Of course, you always communicate o 😊
You have said everything just the way it goes here in the diaspora.
Keep on with your great vibes ✨️ 👍🏾
Barr. Neze at it as always🙌👏👏👏 any one arguing with her points is just getting it all wrong, all her points are 100% valid. A lot is happening abroad with Africans who relocated. See the truth just like she mentioned, if you do not have a health marriage in Nigeria then you will have issues abroad especially when the woman is unforgiving. As humans we think and act differently and up bringing plays a huge role in marriage, What works for A might not work for B. I think in stead of arguing is better to add your own point from your view or experience. Chai i said my work is to read comments oooo but see me commenting😂😂😂😂 much love from Finland❤️🥰🥰 i dey wait for the woman version cos e go hot🔥🔥🔥🔥
Neze, watching you from Australia. I couldn't agree more. Is a team work.
You're 100% and more correct! men have to help with shopping, cooking, school runs, cleaning, DIY, gardening and of course work! I find that it makes them closer to their kids and family and they appreciate their wives more. If your wife works or schools then who else will do it???? Talk about when your wife has a new baby and stays in hospital for a few days.... husband will take care of the older children, do school runs, cook for and visit wife and baby in hospital, bring them home, do omugwo, cook omugwo food and do house chores. It's not easy. I am writing all these from personal experience and I'm grateful for the understanding hubby I'm blessed with.
Nice video Neze; I can't wait for the video where we women will collect our own wotowoto and broken pieces of the tables.
Love your Channel .
Great topic and information, 💯 percent right, you nailed it 👍
Love love this,when you leave Nigeria, automatically have a mind shift, and I love it, the days of absentee parenting cannot work abroad. I’ve boys and me and my husband always preach this to our home we all have to contribute, cooking, cleaning, etc are life skills and not left for women. My husband is retired and I work, he takes the younger one to school, helps me when I cook, prepares my meals for my night shift, so it’s possible to retrain your mind.
I'm feeling you o. I increased the volume very well for my African husband to hear o. Thankfully he is the type that hears to do
Wow I’m blessed! 🙏🙏🙏 wise words Neze! You are so full of JOY! i like JOY and HAPPINESS! 👌👌👌👌
Nexe u Just hit the nail on the head.Instead of circumventing. The spade is a spade. I trust u baby. God blessings 🙏
Am in LA and you are saying the perfect truth, God bless you dear
Beautiful, neze you nailed the nail on the head.
Neze you have a serious point.. I have analyzed these points and discussed it with my husband before now..
Barista Neze.....spilling facts😂..much love your Ugandan fun here❤
Woooow, I really like your vibes every day!! Your intro really makes me feel happy!!! Can't wait for the next video!!! Thank you, Maaaa, for all u did for us l!!💯👍🇲🇿
Thank you very much for this update Neze. This makes it easier to understand the recent series of videos of African couples fighting dirty over there. May God grant our emmigrants wisdom to run their homes. Amen
Thank you Neze for speaking my mind on this subject matter. The channel of Truths.
I can't believe i have watched this video 3 times akready. Neze ijim n'oru!
Hi Neze, that is my case with my husband, now we are on the point of divorce, because I can't take it anymore, I have three daughters and he doesn't help me with d domestic work at home nothing, I've been suffering for years, I'm already tired. He doesn't know anything about his daughters because it's me who does everything, I have been living in Spain for 17 years.
My advice is not to divorce him. God hates divorce because of the way it ruins family. Just ask God for assistance and focus on your beautiful girls. Please don’t divorce it is very nasty
@@kemiakerele885
Thanks, but I have to do it because I'm dying slowly, I already have depression and I have been taking pills for a long time know but 🤷 The only solution is to leave him 😓. so I can live in peace and happy, I am a person who loves peace but I don't have it with him 😌
God hates divorce and He also hates hard hearted men. He told the people of those times that Moses permitted divorce because of the hardness of their hearts.
Toxic environment destroys children. If your own Dad is good and you happen to marry a considerate husband, you will NEVER understand.
But truth me told, I don't believe Jesus Christ our Father will approve m n who maltreates their wife emotionally OR physically not would He condemn women who leaves such union where one sobs every night and the other sits and rules the home with iron fist.
Key word "cannot control your temper AT HOME" 😂. I always say this. These men don't react to their bosses no matter the insult received. They will even be hanging their head saying yes ma, yes sir, sorry sir. Same coward will get home and turn their wife to punching bag and quickly blame the devil. Lose your temper at work now let's see.
Fresh food kor😂 fresh water ni. It is always the men who cannot cook that demand fresh food. Anyone who knows the stress involved in cooking Nigerian food will not make such silly demands.
The parenting point! Loud it for those at the back pleaaaaaaaase! A lot of men in Nigeria are just sperm donors and sponsors not parents . The ones that say they are babysitting their own kids or helping their wife watch the kids 😂😂😂.
They're neighbours
She said sponsors😂😂😂😂 Well said o