REALITY of IMMIGRANTS in CANADA | Real STRUGGLES of a NIGERIAN Immigrant in Canada (Ugly truth)
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- In this video I shared the reality of immigrants in canada | real Struggles of a Nigerian Immigrant in Canada (Ugly truth). I shared from my personal experiences, all the struggles we have been through as a family, letting you know that immigrants in canada go through so much before finally finding a balance. These are hard facts people need to know. The reality of immigrants in Canada is one topic that is played down. I shared personally the real struggles of a Nigerian Immigrant in Canada from my own personal experience. The nuggets i shared in this video can be considered ugly truths.
I hope after watching this video, you are better prepared, you are able to manage your expectations and eventually find a balance.
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Respectfully, when I encounter new immigrants expressing their struggles in their new homeland, I can't help but ponder what their expectations were prior to their international journey. Did they hold the belief that money simply sprouts from trees here, and the streets are lined with glistening gold waiting to be gathered effortlessly? Were they under the impression that one could merely sit beneath a tree, collect falling cash, and stash it into their bags? Or perhaps they thought they could casually scrape gold off the road while leisurely sipping wine in their cozy living rooms with legs crossed?
No, it's not that simple. If it were, we wouldn't witness millions of people in these countries living homeless on the streets. Correct me if I'm mistaken, but there are more homeless individuals in Europe and the Americas than back in our homeland in Africa.
In earlier times, immigrants embarking on journeys to this part of the world were acutely aware of the formidable challenges that lay ahead. They understood that it would never be a walk in the park. They comprehended the necessity of diligent labor, akin to the pursuit of the American Dream. Yet, it seems that many individuals overlook a crucial aspect of the American Dream, which emphasizes achievement through hard work.
The disparity between the concept of hard work here and in our countries of origin lies in the fact that here, hard work yields results in the end. In many parts of the world, opportunities are scarce, and industrious efforts do not necessarily translate into success for a significant portion of the population.
My dear friend, please continue to persevere and work diligently. With the grace of God by your side, you will undoubtedly reap the rewards of your efforts sooner than you can imagine. I implore you to also inspire and support as many individuals as possible who aspire to embark on a migration journey. Teach them how to endure the initial hardships with a sense of joy, for they must understand that, in the grand scheme of things, their perseverance will ultimately lead to rich rewards. I wish you all the best in your endeavors.
No country is paradise although I beleive there are countries that offer better opportunities than others. You brought up greats points in your comments. Thank you very much and be blessed.
The truth is that they make money in those countries that they emigrate to, but spend almost everything on expenses that give the good life that th0se developed countries provide.
So here’s my contribution and not to undermine your experiences since relocating;
Canada is not heaven and not a bed of roses (not at all). It has its challenges as a country (which can be very annoying sometimes) but when you compare it to where we are coming from (I’m Nigerian as well, it has a lot of its pluses).
On the issue of healthcare, yes it can be difficult getting a family doctor, believe me, I’m 4 years here, I live in Ontario, a new Mum and I still don’t have a family Dr but there are walk-in clinics and there are hospitals. So if there is an emergency, then please head to the ER otherwise you can visit the walk-in clinics (anyone around you) and see a GP and if there’s need for you or your kids to see a specialist, that GP will refer you. It can be tough because it’s not what you’re used to especially as a new person but it’s also always good to do a THOROUGH research (not relying on here-say) about the new place we are coming to so we have most of the information we need to make informed decisions.
With regards to your hydro bills, true that there has been some increase to cost but here is what you can do, (the lights are not even the issue); you will be shocked at how much your laundry dryer( then at the hottest) consumes. How many times do you run your washer and dryer(dryer especially); utilize the capacities, make sure you have full loads so you don’t have so many runs at once. (It helps and I’m telling you from experience); Reduce and manage the frequency if you can. In this country, you have to be intentional when it comes to cost. Also look into your heating and cooling system if it is not already built into your rent.
You can track your daily energy use by logging into your hydro account (some things we didn’t “used to send” back home, you’ll realize you just have to start sending here until you “hammer” and start getting the 6-figure pay.
For the daycare, research your city website, if possible call them and see the different daycare services and what benefits/grants you are entitled to (based on your status and income level); to help with the costs.
Like you said, it’s a phase and it will certainly pass, the low moments will come (you have not even seen Calgary correct winter which if you’re not strong, it will add to your low moments) but when those low moments come bring out your comparison spreadsheet of Adv/Disadvs of Canada and Nigeria and then take a chill-pill. Wishing you the best!
😄😄I truly do appreciate every of your advice. Will make use of them. Thanks a lot for these nuggets.
Well said. Well said it gets better with time.
Aàaa
She said she has businesses she was running back home which means she was not hungry. She has standards and expectations, she should never settle for second best nor be a beggar in abroad country. My advice is to give yourself a time period there, maybe 10-20yrs while investing back home. You then get out but the challenge will be leaving or taking the children although they would have been old enough to choose. It's very important you teach your kids their mother tongue to give them options in the future. Some people just go abroad and set a lower standard for everybody, they are happy to be cleaning toilets.
@@leeayi243 the problem most Nigerians (that were doing well back home before relocating) bring that naija mentality to abroad. They fail to understand its two different life style. in abroad, its all about management. you chose your need and not wants. Most Nigerians that complain about abroad are the ones that were comfortable before traveling
Thanks, someone says "Telling the truth and making someone cry is better than telling a lie and making someone smile."
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Exactly, !
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In Abuja, Nigeria, you can get a family doctor in 1 hour!
She is so wrong about this. There are literally walk in clinics everywhere. You don't need to be registered with a family practitioner to see a doctor. If you have an emergency, you don't go to a family physician, you go to the emergency.
I moved to Canada as a single lady in the early 2000s. So i can not imagine what it feels like living in Canada with children. I see a lot of parents stuggling, their plans even change because everything revolves around the children. The parents have absolutely no help like they used to get in their African countries.
True!
🔥 Fiya
I left Canada for California in 1980, i'm surprised that people are still going there
For the doctor issue, a good way to go is to ask someone - a friend, a colleague, a neighbour, or a fellow immigrant to connect you with their doctor. Don't call the clinic directly as they may tell you they aren't accepting patients at that time. Alternatively, you may want to explore clinics in new neighbourhoods as they are usually looking for new patients.
Exactly, everywhere Healthcare is a problem (especially when you are new, also in Europe)! And you have to pay insurance every month per person above 18 years.
This is great content Lilian! My sister moved to Canada last year for school. She is about to graduate with a master's degree in Tax law and by GOD'S grace she successfully interviewed for a job with a reputable law firm and will be starting work in a couple of weeks. She struggled hard to get to Canada and my family is very grateful to GOD for blessing her with a job before graduating. Wishing you, your husband and kids the very best going forward.
Awww! Congratulations to your sister. Nice one. Wish her more success.
Thanks a lot.
Living in Ontario for the past 40 years I always find it hilarious when new immigrants are complaining. I will tell them trying being here 40 years ago. Most things what people enjoy now we had to fight for it and now the new generation of immigrants complain but don’t comprehend how it came about. Take time to learn our history.
Thanks for the insight.🙏 We are learning.
Hello. Thanks for your comment . I am planning study and it’s in ontario. A lot of people have been discouraging me that the standard of living is high and I wont be able to cope with the standard of living and high taxes as I’ll also be working while studying. They are advising that I forfeit the admission and look for a school in Calgary instead. Please what do u have to say on this as I see you are based in Ontario. Looking forward to your reply pls
Let them complain. It serves as a warning to the rest of us. Sure you did the work but they also have a role to play for future immigrants.
Let them point out what they don't like so that they know they have their work cut out.
New Immigrant, New! Be Patient! If not, then go back home. I have been here for 40 years, bitter sweet. However, I will not trade it!
Do you have free health care in your country?
Thanks for the info, settling down in a new country can be very challenging and not all is rosy, hopefully we can build our country together to make it work rather than running away from it, because in the end there's no place like home.
please list out one effort you have made to help the country...and by the country its 9ja right. Guy wetin u don do for 9ja wey go at least push the rest to join u build your county. shey u blind abi deaf...abi u no dey buy fuel? who see opportunity to japa...biko japa...even to pack shit fo abroad na big money for 9ja. Na who no get histling spirit and strategy na e no fit live abroad...I rest my case. No offense here please. But truth need to be said.
The point is that many of the European countries you run to today had their fair share of economic problems including Canada, if the people didn't stay to fix this, you would not be hoping to go to Canada. Ireland and Italy had the same problems, but now you find Irish and Italians living in their countries, do you get the point.
@@Princetoksyforget this thing you are saying. Nigeria and Africa countries have refused to grow and develop. Our leaders have not helped matters at all. Same oil we have in Nigeria is what saudi Arabia has and they're utilizing theirs to the benefit of everyone. Just visit saudi Arabia you will see for yourself. Moreso saudi practices absolute monarchy as a system of government where no one speaks against the king and crown. Here Nigeria is practicing democracy that should be better but her leaders are very selfish and self-centred and keep on looting the country to absolute penury. Even the last election didn't you see what happened when the youth want a change in status quo?
In these western countries there is law and serious ones at that and everyone is subject to the laws. Not even the prime ministers sre immuned to it. In Nigeria once you've become president you can do anything and no one arraigns to court.
Forget about African countries. The selfishness will not stop now
@@rosejaneaghaigbo4383 I get your point, but mind you Saudi Arabia is not perfect, I had an uncle who lived there for many years before relocating to America. But back to the matter, the 20th century European saw a lot of migration especially by the Italians and the Irish to America when things were not working in their home countries to go to America to find new opportunities. Fast forward to the 21st century and now more Italians and Irish are living and working in Italy and Ireland. If the patriotic citizens of those countries didn't stay to make things work, Italy and Ireland wouldn't be the country it is today. The Old hags keep recycling themselves because there isn't enough youth to contest with them, but all we can do is complain. Ghandi once said you have to be the change you desire. Barrack Obama says change will not come if you are waiting for others to do it. Let's take action and stop the complaints.
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Please you guys should come back home …it worries me when people say it’s not good but they re still there
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They're not blocking your way. Thank God for social media, no more fake pictures of paradise abroad. She's advising someone out there.
@nkiruanu did you listen to her ?
This is the reality of thing in canada. U open ur mouth dey talk nonsense ,Even you go see wen before u get work.The truth is that many can not return home cos of what people will say. It is damn tough in canada especially leaving as she said with kids. You access doctors easily in Nigeria than here. When you go to the hospital in the morning, u return midnight! Na reality. Una go see when God help una reach here
You guys can say whatever or curse I don’t give a F
As an African there is no country you will ever be comfortable in.We have to make do and keep going.Racism is worse ,you will be denied every opportunity but keep going .Keep striving
Thanks sis
Then why do you move to a White country if you face racism? White people are also facing racism in Africa and even get killed. Perhaps you'd be happier in Africa.
I understand exactly what you're talking about my sister I am also living abroad with three children it's not easy Ooooooo in my case I have nothing back home before in Africa before I travel I feel sorry for people who have everything back home and still leave all an travel 😢😢😢😢😢😢 the businesses. U left back home would never be successfully like when you are there yourself no matter what you do 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢....
Even if we have something back home, no regrets sis. Those are investments that are also yielding. No regrets.
You will be fine.
I gave up on Canada because of honest people like you. Best decision I’ve made.
It makes no sense that even the nationals are leaving the country in masses and immigrants don’t last 5 years.
Interesting content and hope our people will pay attention and be prepared. With all the info you shared, there will be one or two that will be saying “ you don’t want them to travel” or make U return to 9ja. Any pikin that wants to travel 1. Get good info 2.Get proper Visa 3, Know exactly what you wanna do 4. Have an exit plan to return to home country after working abroad for decades to enjoy retirement while collecting pension. Na my plan be that woo!!!
You nailed it! Thanks for this contribution
I am happy you are speaking the truth. Welcome to Canada.
Thanks
As a born Canadian citizen I feel stuck in this country, most of us know nothing outside of Canada because we’ve been spoon fed everything here. Heavily considering obtaining dual citizenship from my parents and living life back home where I know I can better the country if opportunity and resources can be found.
Have a visit here in Kenya or you invite me there
I recently received dual citizenship. One of the best things I did. If I hadn't, I would still be moving. If you can do it, get it.
Being spoonfed is a problem now
I am always curious when immigrant parents say 'their children will have a better future in Canada'. What the expectations are? what advantages would be apparent vis a vis a similar upper middle class education in their home country. Especially in view of tightening Canadian job market, discipline structure, cost of living and gender fluid indoctrination. The last few years has been something even generational Canadians are concerned about.
well said
Honestly Canada in a Nutshell
You may be upper class in Nigeria and that may affect your views. I would rather be broke in Canada than in Lagos. I know what my eyes have seen under the sun.
@@innateseed 🤣 your experience is legitimate. However, do you believe your children are better served in a society where schools can no longer teach 'this is a boy and this is a girl'?
@WazirinJosnEnvirons )( I learnt a long time ago to stop worrying about LGBTQ folks/issues/concerns. I teach my kids and they're free to do as they please. Even in Kaduna/Maidugari/Adamawa(conservative areas), there are gay ppl doing things secretly. Whom am I to judge other's decisions?
Again, I would rather be super broke in North America than in Sub-Saharan Africa.
Where do you think grown men have to practice gay sex to get a decent job? Where do ppl have to sacrifice loved ones for basic necessities? Trust me, it's not North America!
(I know what my eyes have seen and ears have heard) I am far from being a stupid person.
Bills in Naija monthly - internet 35k, electricity 50k, phone bills 20k, rent 500k, private tutor for kids 150k, cook 70k, driver 50k, DStv 20k = 825k when you add food, gas and kids school fees then max bill monthly is 1.5m. If you and your spouse can bring in 3 to 4m monthly then you are fine. You should be able to save 1m monthly. Buy that land build your house, build a business together. Once you get to the summit of your career, you should be bringing home about 10m cumulatively. What’s obtainable abroad please 🙏? How many people are even making $200k abroad
I forgot to mention healthcare - we have Hmo and it’s excellent. I don’t think it’s better abroad as long it’s not one of those rare illness. Dental 💯, orthopedic 💯, fever & flu 💯, optician, gastroenterologist, ENT , 💯
Wow! In Nigeria you are paying N500K per month for rent? That must be a top high brow neighborhood!!
@@gardensteps yes now, that amounts to 6m per annum (rent + s.c). That’s the price for a decent neighborhood in FCT
I can tell you in spite of ALL the challenges they'll never return to Nigeria.
You were doing so well back home. What's chasing you people up and down? No where on earth is paradise.
How many people are as frank? They rather paint a picture of paradise 😏. Thanks for not sugar coating. Many migrants are SUFFERING.
Not really suffering, it’s more like trying to adjust to a system you are not used to. It difficult at the beginning but it gets better with time:
I seriously why people think they can just move to a whole new place thousands of miles ahead,.. and everything will just be rosy? what exactly make people think like that? the first time I was leaving Nigeria I was very very very scared,. so when the challenges came I was never suprise. because I know damn well that moving to a new place is going to be hard. but for some reason people do this and talking about they were shocked or wasnt expecting the rough times.
You are less than three years in the country. It will take you up to 5 years before you get used to the system and for things to start get better. You still have a long way to go. Take this from a 29-year veteran in the system. The worst of Canada is better than the best of Nigeria - for people whose backs have been pushed to the wall. If you are well established in Nigeria, stay away from overseas travel - looking for greener pastures. If you are planning to run your Nigeria business while in Canada, it would be a challenge. If you are not physically present, you might as well considered that business lost.
Funny enough, my business back home is doing really great. I make enough not to work here if I choose not to. I have people plus the business automated. Thanks for the advice on Canada. I am gradually getting a hang of it. 🙏
Where u not equally hustling to survive in Nigeria. What is the difference. Is it that u were expecting bed of Rose's. We are tired of this stories
Ok
If you are someone who is not complacent then Canada living doesn’t get better.
Why do Nigerian talk about other countries, make your own paradise
When I heard it from the mouth of a Canadian, that was when I truly believed how bad Canada is. The man has even left his own country
I have heard Canadians also complaining most (allot want to move).
Canada is set to get much much worse
Hahaha this your comment made me laugh so hard lol he left his own country part. I think say na only Nigerians Dy Japa o
Where did he migrate to, dey play
See them advicers, unnecessary story
Thanks for this info I didn’t know Canada 🇨🇦 is one of the worst country in the world. I will never visit there.
Thank you so much for being very real. I was considering applying for study visa n my kids joining me but I don't think I want to embark on such stressful journey
If it’s really something you want to do, pls let this video not deter you. It’s just the struggle of the initial phase. Pple are thriving here.
@@liliansdiary3585 Thanks for your prompt response Momma. Once I map out how to handle my kids and go for a post graduate diploma, I'll be very happy. Thank you once more
Stay in Nigeria for peace of mind all the stress of staying abroad is not worth it...i've turned down many offers to travel to the uk due to all this stories.. When God cursed the earth it was for all humanity so anybody telling u that life is easier anywhere the person is lying to u... The systemic racism alone abroad is depressing ...
Pls don't. It's not worth it. Canada isn't what it used to be.
@@liliansdiary3585It not true. People are just managing and struggling there especially immigrants. Your chances of owning a home in Canada as a new immigrant now is almost zero. You'll just work and enslave yourself for many years. Yes, you'll live in a clean, safe and organized society. That's the plus besides that, the hope of financial freedom that you dreamt about is all a hoax. It doesn't exist in Canada anymore.
Canada the land filled with milk and honey. This reminds me of a letter shared by George Zwaagstra when he was immigrating to Canada in 1951, this letter was written by his brother that was already in Canada and goes like this: "George, he said, you're coming to Canada, and Canada is a land overflowing of milk and honey, BUT you have to find your own cows and bees."
Yes, Canada is flowing with milk and honey but you will have to find your own cows and bees. What I like to tell people is when you immigrate to anywhere in the world never compare that place to back home, you would only get frustrated. Treat the western world as a big stock market, you will always have the bear and bull market runs, question is do you know when those cycles occur if you do you would always ride the market and come out successful.
Have fun and enjoy the beauty of Canada whilst you navigate the challenges and remember challenges are filled with opportunities if you have the right mindset and attitude.
Thanks. Your advice is noted
I’m Canadian Citizens this is the true realities of Canada this videos it’s 💯 accurate there no meaning or purpose living in that country . Consequences of long term living in Canada it’s equal mentally sick or stuck taking meds for life because of the hardship stress from social life living in that country . My friendly advice please choose others countries as New Zealand , Australia, USA, Singapore’s or part of Asia life as purpose and meaningful affordable lifestyle with beautiful warm weathers. I’m
a nurse even still struggle to get a transportation to go to work foods highly expensive etc….etc…. Etc!!!!!! I’m out of that Canada and will never ever looking back ……
Africans, look, no place like home. A word is enough. Better be home when you’re still young o, it gets worse as you grow older in obod’oyibo.
Ok
I spent barely 2hrs at the hospital here in the US here and the bill that came in a couple of weeks later was almost $7000 that I may have to struggle to pay it off, no where cool my sister!
You can say that again. Thanks
You spent 2 hours in the hospital and the bill was $7,000 ! Really? I was in an accident, someone hit my car slightly. No damages to either car, whatsoever, but I asked for an ambulance to take me to the hospital, just in case I have pain. It was about 10 minutes ride. When the bill came, it was $21,750.20 That was just the ambulance bill. The Doctor bill is not included. I just smiled. Even if the ambulance took me to a hospital located in heaven, the bill shouldn't be that much.
Nigeria is better now, everything is free and cheaper
@@femiogunjobi4900this is not funny 21k dollars,may God keep providing
Go back home if it so bad, you are discouraging people who want a better opportunity.
Ok o
I am so sorry for your experience. If you are alone it is really hard to get grounded. You need your mom to help with childcare. The struggle is real. Also it depends on the province. I am in Ontario it is way better here. It is called culture shock, the victory will come . Keep strong
Thanks a lot.
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Madam go and sit down, you are only there for a couple of months and you are complaining. Everything you have said is no news cos it's the same all over. Healthcare burden, childcare is high, mobile data and the internet are paid elsewhere, the job market is not easy anywhere. Please stop all this nonsense.
Ok Sir.
Don’t be Rude
Sis, you did not talk about indoctranating kids about their genda. I'm just curious 🤔
Thanks for this, it’s good to share both the good and bad aspects of relocation
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My rent in Nigeria is about 200k per month. Electricity bill 65k, Estate maintenance 5k per month. My yearly internet subscription about 180k, children school fees 160k per child ( per term)and I have 2. Fuel about 150k per month. My office and my wife’s office rent 1m, staff payments etc. groceries, medical etc. And the economy is terrible. Please stay in Canada it’s 1m times better than Nigeria.
😃 I was never planning to go back now. I was sharing the initial challenges Immigrants go through. We are better now.
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You didn't mention your income
This is why other countries' broad works compared to Nigeria. Everything is strategic and in order. We pay for everything to put people in employment and good for the economy. When people japa from nigeria am so shocked they make video of how hard it is in the country they thought had gold plated roads and filled with milk and honey. On top of this, you will experience racism as well. At the end of day the country Canada is better than Nigeria in every way. Enjoy your stay. You have amenities that works compared to your home country.
So true!
@liliansdiary3585 You will be ok. You are just adjusting. My advice to you is take one day at a time. Do some qualification courses there so that you get good employment. It's not that hard living abroad, you will get the hang of things. Also I hope you have prepared for winter because its so harsh there and your energy bill will increase during winter. You will be ok sis. 😊😊xx
That why you are asked to prove fund when you applying for the visa..!
I tell you say I broke? 😃 go ask.
The reason why all these countries have too high cost of living is that they do everything based on contracts, not based on 'pay as you use'
No worry sis you go soon dey okay ❤ sending you hugs.
I and my family are still believing God for this Canada immigration dreams
Thanks a lot sis. God will perfect every of your plans.
If you know you know. This man is saying the bitter truth but only the wise ones would understand period. No matter how rich you are abroad, you you can't save money or enjoy the money you worked for. I am not discouraging no one but no place like home. Great video. Good job brother 👏.
Thank you
@@liliansdiary3585 You are welcome
@@liliansdiary3585brother? Can't you see she's a lady? People can be provocative.
😆 Speak for yourself. People do save money abroad. It don't just happen like magic. It takes time and planning 🤦♂️
@@josefelfinito6925exactly he should speak for himself. You can save money and enjoy yourself abroad. When I came to the UK I was surprised in how I can save money and live a good life here while still helping my family back home. I was surprised because UK is the most condemned western country. Peole would always be quick yo tell u there is nothing in the UK.
You are really stressed…you are a strong woman ❤
Thanks sis
Is good to talk about the difficult side of it but not to compare to our country Nigeria, remember we pay all those things also here in Nigeria, and withouts considering the hard economy, more also we pay illegal money for just cost like .
I understand. Just wanted people to know there are 2 sides to a coin
Thanks for this video. I had been thinking of relocating to canada with my 2 year old daughter cox my narcissist ex husband won’t let me be.. but ve been scared of the unknown. This video have thrown more light… I guess I will just look for any other city here in nigeria to relocate to and start a small business instead of processing the papers.
Hmmmm, pls o. Watch my video to understand. This video is to help you plan to settle in Canada better not to discourage you.
I pray it all works out well for you and your daughter. You can do it, trust your intuition. Blessings
@@olufunkeidowu9931 Thank you. I will make more research on it and try my luck. Thanks again
Hmmm.... Different stroke for different folk...Naija Economy will soon tear gas you..
@@anukaenyifelix3744make dem dey yan dust
You are welcome dear, not just Canada but the entire western world. You have to unlearn what you have learned from Nigeria and re-learn western culture. 😂. Welcome to Abroad my dear. If you like go to USA it's all the same even in Europe. Trust me Nigeria would have been better for u😂
My elder sister and her hubby passed through the exact same phase years ago (2006....i think...). Now theyre doing very very VERY well. Ma'am, your family too shall overcome this phase and emerge very successful.
Thanks sis. Appreciate you
The Canada of 2006 that your sister and her hubby struggled through and made it doesn't exists anymore. The Canada of 2023 is a very hard country with an economy that is at the brink of collapsing.
@@AbelCharles-m8tyeah 2006 is different from 2023 2006 you just come to Canada work 40 hours on minimum wage pay $950 dollar 1 bedroom save 500-600 enjoy now if you come to Canada in 2023 you probably sleep in the streets or sleeping in your car finding a job another story you probably sleeping in McDonald’s or Tim Horton that’s all fining a room another story $1700 one bedroom even if you finding a job you won’t get 40 hours weekly all you gonna do 20 hours and use your credit card being in debt walk to work after 4-5 month you’ll be losing your job or layoff it’s very difficult 😢😢😢
If you dont like it, you can leave!
Why talk bad about a place and still stay there. Nawaaooo
No wahala
As a Canadian citizen… she’s 100% right but let them come and face the challenges since they’re not getting the points.
How can you blame them we don't know I'm one of those people when I was back home even I have nothing that time life is not easy abroad
Exactly
In Nigeria you can walk into a clinic or hospital and see a doctor.
Come back home and enjoy now, excuses upon excuses
If Canada isn't good, come back to Nigeria please, that it's not good for you doesn't mean it would be bad for someone else
U take the child to the hospital emergency unit. If u don’t like it go back to Nigeria. Pls everyone has to book appointment in a country where there is order. U have a choice not to have children. Why can’t u be grateful for where God has placed you.
Noted!!!!!
You are so genuine 💕! You talk expressively about the good, the bad and the ugly! Thanks for the heads-up
You are welcome!
My dear, in that case you go to walk in clinic
Noise noise noise from you all. Is there anywhere in the world that is easy ? Out of pocket works everywhere whether Nigeria or Canada or USA.
Kudos
Even in South africa.
SO !!
AFTER PAYING ALL THAT BILLS., WHAT WAS YOUR SALARY BALANCE OR SAVING IN CA.DOLLAR
We still bought a house after. 😃
$150-$200 dollars 😂😂😂 broo it’s just a labour all year lifeee😂😂😂😂
So in a nut shell, Canada 🇨🇦 is depressing 😕
I didn’t say so 😃
Yes my bro but if you’re okay to face the challenges then you can relocate here
Exactly
Awesome insight dearest! It’s great you came live to paint the picture, so others can sit and count the costs and plan ahead. For those saying she’s complaining, I think you got it wrong. It’s simply sharing information, all the negative comments and go back home comments are really not necessary.
Nothing will be handed to you on a platter.
Its not easy yet nobody is coming back home. Sacrifices must be made
Return home if Canada isn't favouring you and stop discouraging people. Realities are everywhere.
Stop taking her words out of context…she never said don’t come she is highlighting reality…!!!!
Guy! Am already boarded. Are u okay now?
Australia is tough but thousand times better than Canada, including the weather. I just go to Canada to visit and nothing else
Ok
If you are OKAY in your home country then traveling to work abroad is not for you 😊
That's why they are trying their best to bring in more health care professionals
Yes they are, but they still need to get licenses here to practice I think. So it makes it a bit difficult
Hello please i got a canadian work permit from Germany is it advceable to relocate to canada from Germany base on your analysis?
Maybe Not, you can stay for a little while and see if it fits, before moving everything.
Key points- do your children really have a better future there? How? I and my wife studied in Nigeria and I wouldn’t even think we are doing badly in comparison to others who studied abroad in the same field . My children go to good private schools in Naij (though expensive in the Nigeria context but nothing compared to what you pay over there). We are able to travel for vacation every year. I like the abroad dream but the reality differs from actual dream. Also.. where do you live in Naij? Lekki lagos? I really want to know the future of the children everyone keeps talking about because my kids speak 3 foreign languages fluently, can code, excellent swimmers, another plays basketball plus they’re very respectful and well cultured. They mix well with our friends children when we go on vacation abroad. In fact, they’re 2 times better academically than those children. I’m a Muslim and my kids are almost done with the Quran. It’s just hard for me to see that abroad dream. I have lived months in US, UK, Dubai plus other non English speaking countries for weeks. My kids are US citizens & I think that’s enough. I plan for them to leave Naij for University. Lastly there’s no way I can function during winter abroad- I get so sick & redundant. Anyways all the best in your Canada dream
All these you just mentioned is sweet to hear because you are rich, Nigeria is for the rich and neither for the average man nor poor man. Even as a rich man I pray Nigeria never happens to you. The first question I want to ask you is , if Nigeria is all well and good why do you think our leaders send their kids abroad? As a rich man you can’t understand what the poor are facing, all what madam Lillian mentioned here is nothing compared to what a common man is facing in Nigeria recently.
@@faladetosin3810 omg! The same narrative popular with a lot of Nigerians. When people figure out their sh*t, plan with a lot of hard work, you say because they’re rich. How does that make you feel? Do you know how much it cost for all these folks relocating? A lot of them spend 20m or more. Folks spend 50m & more on masters abroad, they pay 12m for c.o.s & you think they’re not rich?. The blogger here is comfortable, she & family just thinks the grass is greener on the other side (not usually so). Also a lot of Nigerians are doing it because others are doing it. If you work, earn money, can save with the right mindset then you can weather the storm here. Every country has its challenges. What do you mean Nigeria happen to you? I’m sure you’re not living around kidnappers den or a place susceptible to Boko haram attack. Abroad can also happen to you. Brothers have gone to jail for years for the slightest of things in America. People have been discriminated against, drugies on the street, GMO food, crazy neighbors, bullies at kids school. Where can’t something happen to one? FYI, I also have that abroad dream (still do) but the realist in me, see no big advantages. Also, I don’t live in Lagos (that’s the view of Nigeria most people have). Life in Lagos is tough. Advise here- get your sh*t together - chose a good life partner, save & always learn something new. I’m not rich but a good planner & manager of resources. If you can earn 1m salary in Naija then you can earn 3m with more hard work. It’s easier to grow in your career in Nigeria. There are Nigerians working with Oil companies, accounting firms, financial institutions, own startups, tech industries & even owning businesses. My friend is a carpenter here in Nigeria & all his families are in the US (wife’s desire). Choose what’s best for you.
It used to be in Canada that your could make it that your children will have a better life than you. I was born in Canada and it is terrible now. Canadians that are born here worry that their children will never be able to afford a home of their own. People that are 35 years old still living with their parents because the cost of everything. Even middle class families have to go to food banks to feed their children.The prime minister does not care, he only wants more immigrants to vote for him. At one time the immigrants loved him, now they hate him because of the way he treats them. They trick the immigrants to come here and they get off the plane and have to live in the streets.
First time seeing your video, stop talking about your business back home nobody needs to know. That’s your own personal business. Do not put everything on social media if you have all of the businesses. You can’t expect to get a government assistant to pay for daycare. Stop talking Please. Use common sense I am a immigrant.🇯🇲🇺🇸 I came to America almost 30 years with my daughter when she was six years old. And after 3years I get my four children. never once get government assistant. And listen to me stop talking about your business in Africa a word from the wise. We can learn from each other.❤
Thank you for sharing your experience, Lilian. However, even with all the challenges and expenses you mentioned, I believe you guys in Canada still make enough money to pay those bills and still have some savings. So, to me, it's a win.
Yes it is a win but we need to enlighten pple about the reality. There are 2 sides to a coin.
Thanks
2023 and you're already complaining!
Come on! Nigeria doesn't offer what the system in Canada is offering.
You brought medicine from Nigeria! You must be lucky to have been able to get through with them, except they are prescription.
Hospitals don’t have time for time wasters , head nurse will stop you at check in and tell you to get lost unless you are actually sick which is refreshing.
If you are actually sick , limb hanging on by a thread they will take care of you with some of the best science and professionals on the planet earth .
If you go in as a worry wort with a sniffle be prepared to wait for 20 hours plus , preferably more .
If your kid has slight fever the contagious brat needs to be sent home asap .
I say this respectfully even though it’s harsh.
Do we pick up litter around hospitals or cut the grass , probably no . But we should consider this type of thinking.
Health pros are incredible , when stuff gets serious they know there stuff .
As an immigrant be prepared to work hard , if you commit crimes or your kids decide to hang with wrong crowd they should get a severe dealing with . Show them what the slums are like around the world with dictators .
COME BACK HOME!!!! Always complaining 😂😂😂😂 yet you all will remain there
You have a successful business back home, and you certainly seem to have left a good life behind to come to Canada. I'm sure many people who aspire to relocate will learn from your experience. I'm sure you had your reasons for moving with your family, and I wish you the best of luck.
She was scammed by a travel agent
And stop giving your money to churches, God doesn't work here.
Well, not missing much. Those issues I shared were my initial struggles. I have gone past most of them now
Were you the travel agent? U talk like an experienced scammer
Funny enough people will still japa. Even bank managers are escaping Naija😂
Im here im uk just because of the need for betterment of life, apart from that, home is gold..if my country has the basic amenities and good jobs and remuneration,what am I doing here..i have never been so conscious of the risk of mental breakdown until i came here..
It is well
Bitter truth guys...am in Canada and she is 100% right. However, Canada is safer than my country so I am happy to be here. Struggles pay off in the long run too
Thanks for this. “Canada is better than my Country” Word!
@@liliansdiary3585" Safer dear"
Welcome to the West...things will get better, but its the same jumping off place for all immigrants. "At home" most people have maids, you can still get one in the West if you can afford it...at minimum wage that is.
Thanks for being so honest. Wishing you success on RUclips to add to your income!
🙏
I admire your courage for sharing things. We hear only the rosy things not the otherside.
Thank you!
Exactly so. It's only the nice rosy story tales people like to tell. Admire that you are telling the truth.
Each country on this globe has its own challenges, there is no heavenly country where everything is easy especially with inflation.
Sure! It’s important I also enlighten pple about some of the things we face here. It will help them be better prepared
True but not every country sells itself as paradise when it is not. That is the difference.
B.S I ask My country for help and they say no, you get free money I have to work even sick and injured , enjoy your free life here while Canadians are taxed to death
Does Nigeria help immigrants with free handouts that come to Nigeria? Can immigrants live in Nigeria without the threat of violence?
This better future we keep saying for the kids. Who knows the future?
Ok o.
....you should have said"The initial phase of settling down in a new country as a family.....If you like be a CEO of your empire back home,no body send you for Abroad....
Na true
As a Canadian Citizen my country used to be beautiful back in 2011 now things change so much that I dont feel like going back anytime soon but I hope things will change soon we need a new government!!!
We trust God
The politicians aren't willing to change anything for now. The Canadian economy has been projected to remain like this for a very long time.
@@AbelCharles-m8t pls read his comment again to understand, he is referring to his home country, and does not feel like going back there for now because of how bad things are there.
If your husband has been there for 2 years how come he did not give you all this information, were you guys not talking while you were in nigeria and he was here , I think this video is just a show off , everything you said In the video is known to us living here already , you want to tell us you have arrived here okay o welcome o una do well
Thanks for watching
If you did not have children , would u have gone to Canada? I'm South African and can never leave Africa for the reason that I would worry to be a problem to the indigenous of that continent. I hope things get better for u so u find your way to Africa again
Things are fine with me sis. Am doing well.
i have been here for 5 years, Alberta specifically; had to transition to IT 3years ago. I Thank God everyday for that decision. it will get better, its just a phase everyone else goes through. Have goals, educate yourself on in the demand skills, try to learn new skills; IT, nursing etc because you are paid according to the problems you solve. 110-120k base in salary is not far fetched. People are earning 300-400k but all of us started the same (doing menial jobs). Be strong
Thank you so much for these encouraging words,I really wish to travel to Canada but I'm so confused how to go about it.Agents seem to be taxing people with crazy bills but after watching chochor millionaire,I wish to do it myself
Do it yourself, prepare for the worst, but to prevent the worst, go to on demand jobs in Canada. I left a job in my home country that pays me #1,300,000, a very powerful profession to come to Canada because of my kids, my dear, I am not regretting at all because that currency called Naira is nothing to be compared with Canada dollars. My former job of 1.3 million Naira is nothing close to what I make in entry position on healthcare.
Everyone's experience is not the same.
Before you enter, quickly learn a skilled job like driving a truck, forklifts or any live in healthcare job.
My people, Canada is great, wonderful and a good place to be, come in and struggle it out. You will eventually be happy you took that decision. For healthcare, if you are sick when you came before getting a family doctor, always use any walk- in clinic. The pay is not too much
Sis, find a church , you will likely get information and help
Thanks. 🙏
Why don't you come back to Nigeria then? I find it curious that you are attempting to convert bills in Naira to CAD dollar. If you earn in dollar of course you spend in dollar. The reason your one year rent in Nigeria is equal to the one month bill in Canada is the exchange rate. So your argument isnt valid. Why should you earn in dollar and still calculating in Naira. Stop complaining and return to Naija
No problem!!!!!
she is not forcing you to watch. if you cant relate, plz bounce.
3 months and you're complaining, in you wasn't on an immigrant program you would have been wanting for over a year or more.
Kindly and humbly return to Nigeria.
Am on my way
So what should we do. We should stay in Africa right ✅️. Incredible. U dont want to struggle aaaaahhhh hahaha
Guys pls try to watch videos to understand. I did not say Canada is bad. I was only sharing the initial challenges pple face when settling into a new Country. Am done explaining.
Oh my goodness you don’t have even 2 years here why are you rushing to get what people who have been here before you haven’t gotten you don’t have proper documents yet be patient
Mumbo jumbo
$40 for phone per month
That’s cheap o
My phone is £70 per month
It also depends on how much you earn
If you are not on a middle or high salary in the West, then it’s hard to make ends meet
That applies anywhere
Thank you for sharing what majority won't share 💡
Looks like you guys were set already in your home country so you probably didn’t have to travel. Traveling to another man’s country to make it is for hustlers who see little to no opportunity at home. You have your house, businesses, family and all so why travel?
Abeg go home!
No problem
Hey your feelings are valid. You don't have to apologize to Nyone. Everyone has their own path.Why is Canada asking for immigrantz when the healthcare system cant cope with those already in the country? Now you cN forget the udea of your freedom. Staying home with the kids is very very challenging.
I tell you. Staying home with kids.
You've done well,this too shall pass. Thanks for sharing
My pleasure sis
Pls what of farming in Canada. Is it easy to apply
@@okainepatrick3668 I do not understand
The mistake we make most of the times is converting money abroad to Africa. Any country you are you dive with their currency. Most of the way they do their things is why they are making progress.
You are right
Thank you for these advice, very enlightening. May God help you and grant you the strength to cope, it's certainly just a phase. And I pray God answers our prayers for a better life also too. Remain exceedingly blessed sis.
Amen! Thanks a lot. Your prayers and expectations, God will make come through for you.