One Person Can Change Your Life Forever
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- Have you ever noticed how some individual people and events have entirely transformed your life?
Not in a woo woo way, but literally, introduced you to their friend circle, helped you get a job in a new industry, let you sleep on their couch half way across the world?
It only takes one person to give us and endless pool of opportunities and as we connect with people in their circle we ultimately connect with an infinite number of people.
If you've ever been frustrated by finding the people around you aren't your "vibe", just remember, it only takes one powerful connection to change everything. That's why it's always worth looking.
At the moment you give up, you may be 2 or 3 new people away from the person who could have changed your life.
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My Name is Alex (crazy, right?) 10 years ago I moved to a new city with no friends, no family and most importantly, no social skills. I was frustrated by seeing charismatic people seem to make the whole thing so easy, and I was adamant to learn. I read countless books, attended workshops, worked with mentors 1 on 1, and after a lot of trial and error and a lot of frustration, I finally got to a place where I felt confident. This year I gathered all my notes from this period into one place, being the size of a 300 page book. Throughout this exercise I realized only about 20% of the lessons I learned over time are ones I still use to this day. This channel exists for me to share these most essential lessons that gave me the most bang for my buck in terms of effort and results. If you like things to be easier and more to the point, why not subscribe?
That's so true. Having social connections is valuable in so many ways, and like you said making the connections can be easier than many might believe!
Yeah! Like it can be frustrating when 10 new people you meet ends up going nowhere, but it's absolutely possible for the 11th to change your life still
Awesome Video. Keep going 😘🙏🏻
Thanks sir 😘
I agree with this Alex. Ive seen this happen in everyones life but my own.
Im an introvert who never leaves my house (except for work as a nanny). I shut down in social situations.
Any wisdom or advice?
Hey thanks for commenting, I appreciate you checking out my video! When I first started off it literally felt impossible, without knowing too much about your situation, what I did early on was start with baby steps. Literally I would just walk down the street and try to make eye contact with people even for a moment longer than I was comfortable with, and when I got more comfortable I just smiled at people too. I would also try to have little conversations at the grocery store or coffee shop, even making a statement like "oh man I'm still half asleep, this coffee is just what I need" it was statements where I didn't care if I got a reply. I also used meetup and Facebook groups a lot when I first moved to find people who had the same hobbies and interests as me and went to some where the groups weren't too big so it wasn't too intimidating. Some of this advice may seem simple but the reason it's important is because I learned later, when the mind sees social interactions as a threat, it's what makes us anxious and like we have to leave. By taking small steps like the eye contact, smiling, small conversations, it shows our brain "look, see, it's not a threat" and after some time, our anxiety doesn't see social situations as a threat anymore and doesn't show up in the same way. If you ever want to talk about it in more depth, there's a calendly link in the video description, feel free to book a slot, it won't be a sales call, can just talk and I'm happy to provide more personalized advice if I can.
@@AlexDirdara I like this advice, because thinking about it it's such obvious advice that while reading it i thought "yeah that's normally what you'd do", but at the same time before reading it, it didn't click to me that... yeah, that's just what you'd do. I work in customer service, and that's how a lot of people try to interact with me and vice versa, even the dumbest and most random comment can be a conversation starter with the right context or delivery, so it's not unreasonable to make a connection with someone this way (Even if it's just as strangers who acknowledge each other's existence), it's just a matter of figuring out if we both WANT to make a connection, or if we are just being polite to each other.
@@BW20532 yeah exactly, in part I'm trying help break down some of the absolute basics so people who feel particularly anxious or maybe even on the spectrum may find something helpful too. I have a Starbucks near me where the staff seem to be particularly trained at this social aspect, they all remember names and shoot out conversation starters that could lead to a little chat or just a one word response too, so it's like I feel the connection and also not obligated to get into a conversation if I don't feel like it. Definitely working in customer service would be a great training ground for all this!