I learned this from my relationship with a narcissist. But it didn’t make sense until I heard Shera say it. If a person can trigger you, they can control you. Never let them.
Controlling your emotions is important period because you manifest things into your life based on your feelings and thoughts so you definitely wanna keep a lid on that!
Yes I used to be subscribed to shera7 and I can agree to that. The other lesson that I think is important to take away from her videos is self-sufficiency and I think it's one of the lessons that I could relate to the most because it's always been what my father has taught me over the years which was, no matter how good I have it with my husband a woman should always have her own means financially. Despite having a husband who is paying all the bills in the household, a woman should use that advantage and/or the opportunity to enhance herself financially and not just rely entirely on her husband's income. So no matter what it is, being building your own business which at least you'll have the privilege to put all of your time and efforts on if you don't work on 9-5, or whatever it is, it's important to use the time wisely in order to have your own financial means outside of the husband and you can save or invest as much as possible considering you're living solely off your husband's income.
So use all his money for you, then use all your money for you too? Level up ok, but give HIM the credit, please. You would be paying your own bills had it not been for him so it's a favor on his part.
@junieboom602 ...and what gives you the idea that I don't care for, respect, appreciate, or frankly even contribute my earnings towards the household merely because I noted the advantages of "leveling up" if you have a supportive and providing spouse? The comment is solely based on the lessons/message of the realm of this video as it relates to Shera7, and by the way, I didn't subscribe to everything she had to say... just the fact that women SHOULD be self-sufficient regardless of being under the covering of a providing husband. My own father gave me that advice since I was a young adult... looong before there was even a RUclips because you just can never tell what life throws at you... that's the angle I'm coming from. It's best not to draw conclusions... I've been married to my husband for 22 years now, so there's more to my story than a comment post could ever cover.
Yes..tru that. I chose a man who fought with his family to marry me. I come from a culture where groom gets gold as a gift from bride. His Mom wanted more ‘gold’ than my Dad was thinking to ‘gift’ me. I said ‘NO’ to that marriage. My man went crazy and told his family he wouldn't marry anyone other than me. Still I told his face ‘I don't want to be a daughter in law of your family that couldn't see my worth’🤣 He beggedme to marry him. 1 year into our marriage and still my husband looked at me like he net me at the first time. He wanted to give me everything and work hard for it. And ALSO, this is the most important thing, his friends and family comments “you got a very beautiful wife”, “How did you pull that girl”, “you're lucky that you got her”. So its important to maintain your health and beauty.
What’s the goal here? I love some of her advice but not everything only because yeah, she has the material things in money but she doesn’t even have the love or the spirituality. She doesn’t have all the keys. And I feel like you can’t control anybody no matter how you’re feeling. .. but I do respect her for putting out some advice. I only take what’s necessary regarding the basics.
Sounds like a real woman that’s how mom used to take care of the household. And in all actuality, men, love to come home to a calm and peaceful household environment
I agree that women should learn to control their emotions. But I disagree with wanting to control your husband/man. That will most likely backfire. Men aren’t meant to be controlled.
I ended up marrying an older Narcissistic Sagittarius ♐️ with hidden addictions listening to Shereaseven he pays for everything but being single and never dating ever again would make my life more peaceful.
@dcg31free ...and that's the other part of the lesson Shera has spoken on too... LIVE OFF HIS MONEY...DON'T RELY AND DEPEND ENTIRELY ON IT. It's only leverage to be able to freely explore money making opportunities for yourself considering you don't have to worry about bills being paid or be just working to live.
I don't want to control my husband. Control is not love. I can earn what I want. I walked into the marriage/ relationship as a complete independent person whom submitted.
Amen sister. Managing emotions and not letting them run our lives might be s better way to put ut but without emotions,we are sociopatgs. Emotions connect the mind and body and are important God given messengers and a delicious part of being human and feminine.
Youre right about older women getting scammed. Not just romance scammers but bank scams and other kinds of scams. I feel like the older you get the worse you judgement gets in some ways.
If you can “control” a man he was never a man to begin with. Just a fool with money. A fool and his money are always soon to part ways. (Divorce settlements)
I’m a grown ass man. My wife won’t be controlling me. She should control her emotions because it’ll get you further in life and can make you more compatible with a partner. Interesting how some women pay attention when it comes to controlling a man or getting bills paid for but if it’s self improvement or self care… it’s ignored
Say that again for the ones who were on the waitlist to ride the short bus. My dude went from my dude to my dude to my friend. I told him I wanted a Tiffany bracelet. He said okay that was four months ago. He's got no nookie in 3 months. He still calls. We go to lunch. After lunch he gets a really big hug.... I'm about to cut that out. I cut out talkin to him after 6:30 p.m. Monday through Friday. I don't pick up the phone at all on the weekends
The one thing you learned is not covering your whole bottom lip with lipstick 😂😂 she does that too😂😂😂 no shade youre beautiful and youre right emotional control is everything ❤❤❤
Except that’s not happening anymore. 😂🤡 Women know all about that and aren’t putting up with that. Eventually you won’t have any woman to do that with and then you’ll be the one crying 😭 DESERVEDLY.
Men, cannot be control however they can be influenced in a positive manner - no need for manipulation. I think she worded it incorrectly hence why so many misunderstanding her point.
Then be prepared to be abandoned by your man eventually. Men are incapable of true love. Don’t let your heart be broken over a man because love is in fact, an illusion. If it were true love, we’d all end up having those fairytale Disney endings to our lives. You can see this is rarely ever the case in the real world with human males. All they do is love bomb in the beginning and then around the 3-month mark or so they show their real selves and that mask falls off.
Isaiah 30:1 Woe to the rebellious children, saith the LORD, THAT TAKE COUNCIL but not of me; and that cover with a covering, but not of my spirit, that they may add sin to sin:
Drizzle drizzle us men are the dominant species remember that you need our money 😂😂😂😂😂 shout out to the real women who work hard for their own things you are the real queens
To be honest, she doesn’t mean loving emotions, more the triggered emotions, that makes women look crazy and psychopathic. In life, in relationships, in business, in friendships, in family - ITS ALWAYS BEST TO HAVE CONTROL OVER YOUR EMOTIONS (I learned and I am still learning the hard way). I too thought I could control men, nope, however you can influence them without it being in a conniving sneaky way - men like to think ideas are their own, and they their own boss.
Well... i will say emotional control is important for both parties. However, you'll never be able to control your man. Your self control shows a sense of "cooperation". When the woman in our lives exhibit temperance, we are more willing to serve you better and cater to your wants and needs. Now, trying to manipulate i.e. control us, that's how you lose us. Why bring that into a healthy relationship? We both should have self control, that i agree with.
I learned this from my relationship with a narcissist. But it didn’t make sense until I heard Shera say it. If a person can trigger you, they can control you. Never let them.
And they hate it when you ignore them...
😂😂😂😂 all of y'all date narcissists????😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 who diagnosed him????😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Attracting y'all reflections, of course 😂😂😂
Exactly..we cracked the code ladies...turn the temperature down on that heart when it comes to men
Wow!! Thank you for stating this
She's literally telling you to be a narcissist lol
You look like a relative of Shera 7. Beauty runs in the family😊
I’m telling u
Definitely a thinner version of the good sis
I was just about to say the same thing. She’s stunning just like shera
Yes! Very pretty! Both of them 😍
None of you got a husband, just being scammed thru RUclips dumb as asf
Emotional control is key in life period. It’s more important for life success than relationship success.
😂😂😂😂😂😂yall are too stupid 😂😂😂😂they can sell yall ANYTHING 😂😂😂😂😂DRIZZLE DRIZZLE!
You have adopted her facial expressions. ...Sprinkle sprinkie!!
Controlling your emotions is important period because you manifest things into your life based on your feelings and thoughts so you definitely wanna keep a lid on that!
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Lmao yes controlling ur emotions is so important. Lost on the that’s how u control your man poor thing
She is so pretty
Without the make-up and Without the fake hair, how attractive is she really???
@@barneyjoseph3375Good point but it looks like most men don’t really care about it 😂
@@barneyjoseph3375like most women ;))) how u like them apples now
Love how you give her the credit she deserves . Seems like you're a rising star , keep up x
Thank you My Love ❤️
Amen 🙏 sprinkle sprinkle 😊
Yes I used to be subscribed to shera7 and I can agree to that. The other lesson that I think is important to take away from her videos is self-sufficiency and I think it's one of the lessons that I could relate to the most because it's always been what my father has taught me over the years which was, no matter how good I have it with my husband a woman should always have her own means financially. Despite having a husband who is paying all the bills in the household, a woman should use that advantage and/or the opportunity to enhance herself financially and not just rely entirely on her husband's income. So no matter what it is, being building your own business which at least you'll have the privilege to put all of your time and efforts on if you don't work on 9-5, or whatever it is, it's important to use the time wisely in order to have your own financial means outside of the husband and you can save or invest as much as possible considering you're living solely off your husband's income.
Yessss, a woman should always be investing in herself and growing her own wealth! ❤️😘
@thenewtrophywife does shreva know that you successfully leveled up? Graduated! I'm so happy for u
So use all his money for you, then use all your money for you too? Level up ok, but give HIM the credit, please. You would be paying your own bills had it not been for him so it's a favor on his part.
@junieboom602 ...and what gives you the idea that I don't care for, respect, appreciate, or frankly even contribute my earnings towards the household merely because I noted the advantages of "leveling up" if you have a supportive and providing spouse? The comment is solely based on the lessons/message of the realm of this video as it relates to Shera7, and by the way, I didn't subscribe to everything she had to say... just the fact that women SHOULD be self-sufficient regardless of being under the covering of a providing husband. My own father gave me that advice since I was a young adult... looong before there was even a RUclips because you just can never tell what life throws at you... that's the angle I'm coming from. It's best not to draw conclusions... I've been married to my husband for 22 years now, so there's more to my story than a comment post could ever cover.
@@junieboom602 he is paying household bills he is not giving her the whole check....
That principle is from the book 48 Laws of Power …
Another tip ladies go for the man who loves you with this mostly youl get what you want
Great advice!!! 🏆✨😘
Yes..tru that. I chose a man who fought with his family to marry me. I come from a culture where groom gets gold as a gift from bride. His Mom wanted more ‘gold’ than my Dad was thinking to ‘gift’ me. I said ‘NO’ to that marriage. My man went crazy and told his family he wouldn't marry anyone other than me. Still I told his face ‘I don't want to be a daughter in law of your family that couldn't see my worth’🤣 He beggedme to marry him. 1 year into our marriage and still my husband looked at me like he net me at the first time. He wanted to give me everything and work hard for it. And ALSO, this is the most important thing, his friends and family comments “you got a very beautiful wife”, “How did you pull that girl”, “you're lucky that you got her”. So its important to maintain your health and beauty.
That is very important ladies.🦄🛍️🌹🌈🎉
hopefully he leaves u@@Cat-es9rq
@@Nonabacha43LMFAOOO
What’s the goal here? I love some of her advice but not everything only because yeah, she has the material things in money but she doesn’t even have the love or the spirituality. She doesn’t have all the keys. And I feel like you can’t control anybody no matter how you’re feeling. .. but I do respect her for putting out some advice. I only take what’s necessary regarding the basics.
It took me some time but now I have mastered my emotions thanks to sheraseven. Getting married next month to a multi millionaire ❤
Stop the cap.
My sympathies.
😂
So happy for you SIs.
Hi Shayla I can be your in house videographer and help you grow your audience to drive more traffic to your wig company!!!
Sounds like a real woman that’s how mom used to take care of the household. And in all actuality, men, love to come home to a calm and peaceful household environment
Yeah but the wife were often not happy
@lisa3341 why?
I agree that women should learn to control their emotions.
But I disagree with wanting to control your husband/man. That will most likely backfire. Men aren’t meant to be controlled.
facts....control emotions.....clear communication......move in silence.......Shera is right!
Look and mannerism just like Shera. Been rocking with Queen throughout the transitions/ascensions. Much ❤
Your hair is gorgeous ❤
I ended up marrying an older Narcissistic Sagittarius ♐️ with hidden addictions listening to Shereaseven he pays for everything but being single and never dating ever again would make my life more peaceful.
I’m so sorry to hear this babe, never be afraid to walk away if it’s not for you ❤️ Your worth all the love and happiness that you desire 🏆✨😘
Yes indeed. Thank you beautiful ❤
When it comes to narcissistic men who pay for EVERYTHING. Use his money to level up past him. Sprinkle Sprinkle 😊
@dcg31free ...and that's the other part of the lesson Shera has spoken on too... LIVE OFF HIS MONEY...DON'T RELY AND DEPEND ENTIRELY ON IT. It's only leverage to be able to freely explore money making opportunities for yourself considering you don't have to worry about bills being paid or be just working to live.
found ur match huh?
i mean u're seeking control too right?
I thought it was shera for a moment and clicked. You look so gorgeous and have captured her calm logical Essence beautifully
Yall literally exposing yourselves 😂😂😂😂😂
I’m an emotional wreck 😂
It is absolutely the baseline. Thanks for the share.
You’re so gorgeous 😭
Thank you Babe! 🥰😘
You look amazing! Love your hair girl.
Thanks babe 😘
you’re so pretty! get it sis! 💃🏽
Thank you babe 🥰😘
Yes girl you are absolutely right. I absolutely love your new look by the❤
Thank you Beautiful 😘
@@thenewtrophywife😊
I ❤❤❤❤❤ ur commentary 😅😅😅😅😅😅...ur on point
You are GORGEOUS!!
Aww thank you my love 🥰
Aw you look so beautiful 🥹 I too have been watching her for six years and the impact she’s had on my life is so incredible. Sprinkle sprinkle queen
I don't want to control my husband. Control is not love. I can earn what I want. I walked into the marriage/ relationship as a complete independent person whom submitted.
Amen sister. Managing emotions and not letting them run our lives might be s better way to put ut but without emotions,we are sociopatgs. Emotions connect the mind and body and are important God given messengers and a delicious part of being human and feminine.
"Control is not love" of course... these women don't talk about love they are hollow empty vessels... relationships parasites.
Girl, seeing how many women agreeing with them in the comments is scary! I'd never do this to my husband. Controlling to get what you want?
@@destiny9705 God doesn't even control us...He gives us free will. 💯
@@mrs.saint-fleur exactly! Amen!
I'm so glad I'm not tryna be a man's mom. Therefore, I don't want to control him. Too much work for a REAL woman. 💅🏾
Glad you’re here 😇😘
That’s Facts! That Advice She Give For Her Situation! 🍀💚🍯
Thats so true, when he does something that im not impressed with i simple respond with "has this been paid"
What does that mean?
It means im not concerned with your behavior as long as my bills are paid you can act a fool
This randomly popped up in my feed and I’m glad it did. Very true statement ❤ and your hair is so pretty 😍
You look great and I thought you was Shera at first😊
That’s most important in every aspect of life!
Emotional control is an amazing skill set
I thought you were Shera for a sec!❤
You are so pretty ❤ yasss show us. I want a quick mini boot camp ❤ specifically on the look darling
You’re really pretty!!
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Facts‼️
Going to need more detailed videos about this!
Controlling your emotions is a must in everday life
Daymmmm you're stunning!! 😮❤❤
Period. And you are gorgeous hunty. Don't let these dusties play with or waste your time.
Yes, that’s what I learned too! And I’m able to control my emotions
Control yourself to run everything
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I agree, emotional control was the best lesson i learned from her also.
This isn't emotional control, this is manipulation
@@princesspoppy6983 potato potatoe girl
Say no more lol 😆
Youre right about older women getting scammed. Not just romance scammers but bank scams and other kinds of scams. I feel like the older you get the worse you judgement gets in some ways.
Facts and your all leveled up and gorgeous
You are related to Shera? So pretty as her!
That so true if u can control your emotions he can’t control his and u got everything i your and
Such a beautiful young woman
Emotional control is paramount in life ❤❤
You definitely look leveled up!
Thank you My Love ❤️
@@thenewtrophywife You are so welcome sis!
Your hair looks really good hun
If you can “control” a man he was never a man to begin with. Just a fool with money. A fool and his money are always soon to part ways. (Divorce settlements)
You look like shera 7 daughter tbh!!!
I’m a grown ass man. My wife won’t be controlling me. She should control her emotions because it’ll get you further in life and can make you more compatible with a partner. Interesting how some women pay attention when it comes to controlling a man or getting bills paid for but if it’s self improvement or self care… it’s ignored
Your so pretty & big FACTS❤
Say that again for the ones who were on the waitlist to ride the short bus. My dude went from my dude to my dude to my friend. I told him I wanted a Tiffany bracelet. He said okay that was four months ago. He's got no nookie in 3 months. He still calls. We go to lunch. After lunch he gets a really big hug.... I'm about to cut that out. I cut out talkin to him after 6:30 p.m. Monday through Friday. I don't pick up the phone at all on the weekends
Your relationship is about to end if it hasn't already.
He's gonna leave 😂
Sprinkle Sprinkle 😉
You and SheraSeven can pass for sisters, both beautiful.
This is so very true! Whewww I’ve learned this too
You are stunning love you and shera❤
The one thing you learned is not covering your whole bottom lip with lipstick 😂😂 she does that too😂😂😂 no shade youre beautiful and youre right emotional control is everything ❤❤❤
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You're not supposed to put lipstick on the slippery inside of your lips
@@thenewtrophywife😂 u look pretty
@DiamondsRexpensive yes.. it'll be all over your teeth.. I use some lip liner there b4 💄💋
i thought u were her at first 😭💕
Best is to be emotionally unavailable at all times then they have no control over you whatsoever
Did my whole manicure 💅🏾 with a white French tips watchinhg this video . Sprinkle sprinkle ✨
Decenter men. "If you stop it, they will come".
This is most definitely the most important tip she has taught us 😎💃🏻🔝💸😚🤫 sprinkle sprinkle
You look beautiful ams your ring is ringing....it's working❤
Aww thanks babe!! ❤️😘
Gorgeous
Thank you Beautiful 🥰😘😘
You’re very beautiful!
Stay focused KINGs
FukNdip, these sh!t be too funny😂😂😂
Except that’s not happening anymore. 😂🤡 Women know all about that and aren’t putting up with that. Eventually you won’t have any woman to do that with and then you’ll be the one crying 😭 DESERVEDLY.
Also dating someone who doesn’t take you out of character. Controlling your emotions is hard if you’re with the wrong person.
Beautiful, you look related to Shera7. 🌹
I love Shera
I’m sorry but emotional manipulation is not how I’d like to love my man.
Men, cannot be control however they can be influenced in a positive manner - no need for manipulation. I think she worded it incorrectly hence why so many misunderstanding her point.
Then be prepared to be abandoned by your man eventually. Men are incapable of true love. Don’t let your heart be broken over a man because love is in fact, an illusion. If it were true love, we’d all end up having those fairytale Disney endings to our lives. You can see this is rarely ever the case in the real world with human males. All they do is love bomb in the beginning and then around the 3-month mark or so they show their real selves and that mask falls off.
@richrich2862 lol ur influencing is really subtle manipulation. Ur just wording it different. Overt/covert either way ur not a good person
She also controls her emotions. Dealing with trolls as well. I love that so much from her. Taught so much.
She be roasting the trolls so elegantly ❤
You cannot control anyone unless you learn to first CONTROL YOURSELF.
This lady will be single very soon!
You are gorgeous 😍
@thenewtrophywife You look absolutely stunning! You look like a cross between Shera Seven and Ziva!✨♥️
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Isaiah 30:1 Woe to the rebellious children, saith the LORD, THAT TAKE COUNCIL but not of me; and that cover with a covering, but not of my spirit, that they may add sin to sin:
We’re turning into manipulative narcissists with this one! 🔥🔥
Drizzle drizzle us men are the dominant species remember that you need our money 😂😂😂😂😂 shout out to the real women who work hard for their own things you are the real queens
We DO NOT need your money. But we will use it! 😂😂😂😂😂 Wow, you’re way behind the times.
Can you do a video on how to implement this in a relationship
Gems😘💯
Can't control my emotions and I don't care. Not trying to control anything. I like my emotions. Not changing them for a man ever.
To be honest, she doesn’t mean loving emotions, more the triggered emotions, that makes women look crazy and psychopathic. In life, in relationships, in business, in friendships, in family - ITS ALWAYS BEST TO HAVE CONTROL OVER YOUR EMOTIONS (I learned and I am still learning the hard way). I too thought I could control men, nope, however you can influence them without it being in a conniving sneaky way - men like to think ideas are their own, and they their own boss.
I love love love your hair!
Thank you Babe! 🥰😘
Well... i will say emotional control is important for both parties. However, you'll never be able to control your man. Your self control shows a sense of "cooperation". When the woman in our lives exhibit temperance, we are more willing to serve you better and cater to your wants and needs. Now, trying to manipulate i.e. control us, that's how you lose us. Why bring that into a healthy relationship? We both should have self control, that i agree with.
You even talk like her lol ❤
Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨
Wow! You are very beautiful!
I seen Shera name. And I’m here to support. Sprinkle sprinkle. ❤
Louder ‼️
You're so gorgeous. Thought you were Shera
You are soooo beautiful OMG❤❤❤❤