Ladies when he flips the script......Then U FLIP THE SCRIPT. KEEP IT CLASSY AND MOVING, gracefully.🌹no fussing. Not arguments. Be graceful. When he goes to the other woman, it wont last....ever. I repeat it wont last. You are missing out on NOTHING.
Don't be jealous of who gets to sleep with the hyena. Don't be jealous of who gets the savage 🤣🤣🤣🤣 This is seriously funny. Mr. G you are absolutely correct! God bless you and keep up the good work.
"Don't be jealous of the next woman," I agree with this statement but also don't hate on her. If she gets a better version of him because he changed after you left him then that's ok too. Move on with your life, and think about what you're going to do next. ✨
@@aloverh1529 I get what you mean. I wasted 5 yrs on a guy with unhealed baggage and before that even more yrs with a manipulative guy. All we can do is become wiser bc of our past. Find a guy who has his life built up and has his life purpose figured out like Tony says. Other than that do the things for yourself that you would do for your loved ones, in other words, self love. You should never have to raise a grown boy or be taken advantage of by a gown boy ever again. A lot of men want the easy path to climb, so don't be those stair steps he walks on to get to that success just to dump you afterwards. Don't be jealous of the next girl either bc she probably isn't happy.
If it’s someone like a grown boy, the next women is still going to have to go through a lot of b.s. grown boys don’t just change like that , they may put on a mask for a while but for him to change his mentality , he has to MATURE and that means admitting his faults and the way he treated you was WRONG. If he can’t do that and still takes pride in what he did to you, he’s still a grown boy.
There’s nothing soft about a man who has the self control to maintain fidelity to his wife. There’s nothing soft about a man who gives his children his all. In today’s world with all of its distractions there is nothing soft about serving God and then using your platform to encourage others to do the same. We see you and appreciate you Tony. You have helped me immensely in my journey by 1. Being an example 2. Putting a name to the experiences I’ve had 3. Letting me know I’m not alone or crazy. Thank you!
Me too!! When I used to be told this line growing up and going through heartbreaks, I did not believe it but then when I grew up and noticed that the men I left or that were grown boys, did not change and their relationships after never worked out.
It’s not a loss! It’s a gain! Yes preach!! I recently had to snap out of the mindset of wondering what women my ex is seeing. But like you said, don’t worry about who the hyena is sleeping with 🤣🙏🏼
Tony is so right. Red flags were flooding the field within 3 months. I ignored them. Fast forward 10 years later but for the grace of God, I almost lost my righteous mind. I’m on team healthy now. That’s my testimony!!
It does hurt to hear you say that when you leave, he will treat the next woman better, after all you've done to maintain the relationship, but it's ok, you're right - I will be excited for the future : )
I divorced my husband because he was abusive, then before the ink on the divorce papers could dry he was already in another relationship. I find myself praying for his new woman, she’s going to need it.
Always ask the new man 1. How was your last relationship? 2.What have you done to heal yourself? These questions will give you what you need to know ahead of time. If he plays the victim 🛑 if he says he doesn't believe in therapy or he just worked through it himself 🛑 Your better than this sista.💯🙏🏽 Let's do better and hold ourselves accountable for the mistreatment we put on ourselves💌👏🏾🙌🏽😊
The sad truth is this, so many men would be happier, healthy and blessed if they quit lying to themselves. You give women and men alike the roadmap but the TRUTH isn’t popular. Thank you for standing alone, moving on your purpose and being unapologetically authentic. Thank you to your family for supporting you in it. Those who cross your path are blessed for it. Amen Blessing🙏🏾
Whewww baby if only I knew about you 10 years ago! Coming from a woman who didn’t have her dad or any other father figure, Your videos are a blessing ❤️
Preach Tony Preach, I'm tired of hearing how they're being instructed to keep their knees on women neck. I refuse to deal with any of them. I'll rather go back to God celibate than to be treated poorly by these so called alpha male (grown boys).
This is why I’m working on myself man because I don’t wanna be that way. I’ve went through the exact same hurt but I promised myself I wasn’t going to be bitter but get better. Great stuff bro 🔥
Leave!! God does not want that for you. And stop praying to God about a soul tie he didn't give you. If he doesn't answer, that's your answer. Compare him to the love that Christ gives you.
When Tony said don't be concerned about who he dates next and how he treats them, ma'am if I say that served as a confirmation I'm serious thought I lost even though I knew I didn't.
I have listen to both of the videos , the 5 signs of his a grown boy and grown boy mindset .These videos has blessed my soul ! Getting wiser each video and the tactics of these grown boys ! Thank you Tony 🙌🏾🙏🏽
Sounds like the kind of men that be on bumble that app that he calls dumble. He is right stay off the apps unless you want to waste your life away on these grownboys.
Tony! The Spirit is moving through you with this series....was about to ask a question - this video hit the nail on the head. I was typing and you started answering! Come on nowwww 🙌🏽 🙏🏽
Tony is right! This video is a whole word that resonates with me. A grown boy projects his insecurities and issues upon you. These individuals are broken, so they in turn break others down. They have no idea what real love and respect is. I left a grown boy like that last year, because he was everything that Tony described. He was jealous, insecure and manipulative. He even went so far as to humiliate me on social media. I’m glad that I decided to leave him, because it was one of the best decisions that I could have ever made.
This really helps me through this breakup. I left two times before this, because of all of these "symptoms" of the grown boy. He is 26 and still needs time to grow. He was pulling me down and I had to be out. This relationship only lasted 10 months. I'm better off without him. He never wanted to listen to what I was saying to support his journey and build him up. Healing, for him is never an option. He had vices and doesn't want to give them up. I'm winning without him! Thanks Tony!
TONY YOU ARE A REAL ONE❤️❤️💯. Thank you so much I learned more game from you than any man in my family. I appreciate the realistic truthful knowledge no lying or sugarcoating
I’m so ready for my marathon !! I will be dumping the men that’s on some “Grown Boy” status in order to catch my “Grown Man”. God..,please start the marathon and have me to win.😎
Thank you so much for this Tony. I really needed to hear this and you were right on point. You mention age groups, well as a woman of a particular age, I am over 50 and I have met many grown boys and I saw the red flags and could identify with what you were saying. Even went as fair to demean me and had me double thinking my self. Rude and inconsiderate. Did not want to hear anything I said. Now mind you I am a retired Intensive Care RN and had been for decades. I was far from stupid. That was the last grown boy I dealt with and he was over 60.
I’m glad you did a video on a grown mindset. Everything you said is everything I went thru smh I stay prayerful and that’s what got me out of my situationship w/ my daughter’s father. He tried me, but I wasn’t the 1. The Lord God lead me right on up out of that mess. I’m going to share my testimony soon. I’m have to get my nerves under control. I’m an introvert and an empath 😬🤦🏽♀️ I hope and pray some won’t get deceived because gifts. I was loved bombed more than once. I’m a whole living testimony. You hit every point. I appreciate you having the courage to stand up for us and teach us. God bless you, church ain’t teaching this big bro
What is REALLY love to know is why all my exes so fast wanted a baby and marriage? I mean super fast like the first few months 🤦🏾♀️ofc I never fell for it
RealRealTalk, Teach Us Coach Tony, Teach Us!{if I had a trillion dollars I would put it all in the collection plate}my brother didn't teach me these Important strategies pertaining to grow boys SUCH A TREMENDOUS BLESSING THANK U SO MUCH
All I could think about was Trump for the first 4mins. But this message also allows you to reflect on who you are allowing yourself to be as a woman...and take inventory of what areas you need to grow in. So good!!!
THANK YOU SO EXTREMELY VERY MUCH FOR THIS SINCERE HELP!!!!! IM having trouble walking away from the gaslit/lovebombing of fringe benefits... & the struggle of how to go about continuing dating life...
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“When you leave a grown-boy you are not losing anything” 💯
Very true!
Ok.
THAT PART
Surely not 👏🏾
A KING, will never attempt to break down the consciousness of a QUEEN 👑
💯🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Say THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
🗣 SAY SO‼️‼️‼️🙌🏽
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
Don’t ignore the signs🛑‼️
Don’t ignore the signs🛑‼️
Don’t ignore the signs 🛑‼️
Thanks Tony 🙏🏾
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
I think you need to say it again lol
Man where is the collection plate. Mr.Tony be preaching.
Facts
Yassss
I’m saying!!
Lol yes his cashapp is his name 👍🏽
@@alyshalewis4379 thank you 🙏🏽
Ladies when he flips the script......Then U FLIP THE SCRIPT. KEEP IT CLASSY AND MOVING, gracefully.🌹no fussing. Not arguments. Be graceful. When he goes to the other woman, it wont last....ever. I repeat it wont last. You are missing out on NOTHING.
Don't be jealous of who gets to sleep with the hyena. Don't be jealous of who gets the savage 🤣🤣🤣🤣 This is seriously funny. Mr. G you are absolutely correct! God bless you and keep up the good work.
"Don't be jealous of the next woman," I agree with this statement but also don't hate on her. If she gets a better version of him because he changed after you left him then that's ok too. Move on with your life, and think about what you're going to do next. ✨
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
That just makes me so mad tho!! I put in the work and someone else benefits
@@aloverh1529 I get what you mean. I wasted 5 yrs on a guy with unhealed baggage and before that even more yrs with a manipulative guy. All we can do is become wiser bc of our past. Find a guy who has his life built up and has his life purpose figured out like Tony says. Other than that do the things for yourself that you would do for your loved ones, in other words, self love. You should never have to raise a grown boy or be taken advantage of by a gown boy ever again. A lot of men want the easy path to climb, so don't be those stair steps he walks on to get to that success just to dump you afterwards. Don't be jealous of the next girl either bc she probably isn't happy.
If it’s someone like a grown boy, the next women is still going to have to go through a lot of b.s. grown boys don’t just change like that , they may put on a mask for a while but for him to change his mentality , he has to MATURE and that means admitting his faults and the way he treated you was WRONG. If he can’t do that and still takes pride in what he did to you, he’s still a grown boy.
@@aloverh1529 don't worry he won't change. And always remember he already see as less than. That won't change.
There’s nothing soft about a man who has the self control to maintain fidelity to his wife. There’s nothing soft about a man who gives his children his all. In today’s world with all of its distractions there is nothing soft about serving God and then using your platform to encourage others to do the same. We see you and appreciate you Tony. You have helped me immensely in my journey by 1. Being an example 2. Putting a name to the experiences I’ve had 3. Letting me know I’m not alone or crazy.
Thank you!
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
Don't ignore them 🚩🚩ladies.
The one person that hit thumbs down on this video was a grown boy😛😂😂😂
Smh.. knowing Tony is 1000% accurate!
“Your not losing anything and she’s not gaining anything” I just needed to hear that
Me too!! When I used to be told this line growing up and going through heartbreaks, I did not believe it but then when I grew up and noticed that the men I left or that were grown boys, did not change and their relationships after never worked out.
Me too
Facts 💯
It’s not a loss! It’s a gain! Yes preach!! I recently had to snap out of the mindset of wondering what women my ex is seeing. But like you said, don’t worry about who the hyena is sleeping with 🤣🙏🏼
Exactly sis!! He made me view the situation sooo differently!! Lol
Insecure men: "I want a strong ambition woman "
Tony : "No you not " 😂
They really dont. They too scared to be held accountable.
His response got me too! 😂
I hate this channel
@@ashleyrolle2214 poor tink tink
NO NOTIFICATIONS???? RUclips you had 1 job your fired.
So sad how some men are so weak ... Ladies self love is the best never seek validation from a man cause it’s all on the inside of us🤞🏾✨
Donate your toys "growm boys" to the less fortunate.....do not be jealous of the next woman!!
Ha ha!😂😂love this 👌👌
Truth
She can have him. Can't wait to rid myself of my husband this year. Just planning and saving.
🤣🤣👌🏽❤
Tony is so right. Red flags were flooding the field within 3 months. I ignored them. Fast forward 10 years later but for the grace of God, I almost lost my righteous mind. I’m on team healthy now. That’s my testimony!!
It does hurt to hear you say that when you leave, he will treat the next woman better, after all you've done to maintain the relationship, but it's ok, you're right - I will be excited for the future : )
no, he said he will NOT treat the next woman better. and he won't!
If he treated you this way best believe he’ll treat the next one the same way. He’s a grown boy and he refuses to learn
I divorced my husband because he was abusive, then before the ink on the divorce papers could dry he was already in another relationship. I find myself praying for his new woman, she’s going to need it.
Be ready for the marathon, you may need to dump 50 men before you get the "One" that part!! 👏👏👏
This is it
He already learned the language with you! That is not your man!!! Thanks Tony 🙏🏾
🔥🔥🔥
Always ask the new man 1. How was your last relationship? 2.What have you done to heal yourself? These questions will give you what you need to know ahead of time. If he plays the victim 🛑 if he says he doesn't believe in therapy or he just worked through it himself 🛑 Your better than this sista.💯🙏🏽 Let's do better and hold ourselves accountable for the mistreatment we put on ourselves💌👏🏾🙌🏽😊
"You ain't 21, unless you is...." 😩🤪🤣
I know I laugh out loud sometimes
@@mitz1919 right!!!
I cracked up lmbo!!!!!
🤣🤣
All facts 💯😂
The sad truth is this, so many men would be happier, healthy and blessed if they quit lying to themselves. You give women and men alike the roadmap but the TRUTH isn’t popular.
Thank you for standing alone, moving on your purpose and being unapologetically authentic. Thank you to your family for supporting you in it. Those who cross your path are blessed for it. Amen Blessing🙏🏾
Only a male coach or counselor can help a grown boy sadly most grown boys dont want to do the work.
Because it’s a cop out
He knows to put on a representative to get u hooked emotionally. Always always walk away 💙
I'm sorry Tony I know this is serious but when you said "don't be jealous about who gets to sleep with the hyena" i busted out laughing 😂😂😂
Took me out SUDDENLY (wasn't expecting it)-- especially how serious he was saying it!!😂... If that don't heal you from thinking about an ex,lol.
Im picturing my ex as a hyena 😝
Whewww baby if only I knew about you 10 years ago! Coming from a woman who didn’t have her dad or any other father figure, Your videos are a blessing ❤️
I feel the same way, what a blessing.
Yes! I grew up with my dad but he is an alcoholic and left me wounded nonetheless. I wish I had found this earlier!
Ever since I’ve attended GBU, I’m healing a lot quicker. Thank you for sharing the knowledge professor TG.
i love hearing his “ how i met my wife story” over and over again
“Do not be jealous of who gets this savage” kaboom!!!! Mic 🎤 drop! Pass the collection plate
Preach Tony Preach, I'm tired of hearing how they're being instructed to keep their knees on women neck. I refuse to deal with any of them. I'll rather go back to God celibate than to be treated poorly by these so called alpha male (grown boys).
Thats isn’t no Alpha , its a counterfeit. ALPHAS DONT MOVE THAT WAY!!!!
Smh, grown boys always want the easy route 🏁🚴🏿.... This was great information 🙌🏾
He's telling the truth
💥💥💥💥💥💥
This is why I’m working on myself man because I don’t wanna be that way. I’ve went through the exact same hurt but I promised myself I wasn’t going to be bitter but get better. Great stuff bro 🔥
🏃♀️ 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️ Gotta Go!!!
Leave!! God does not want that for you. And stop praying to God about a soul tie he didn't give you. If he doesn't answer, that's your answer. Compare him to the love that Christ gives you.
Yes💯💯💯
Amen 👏🏽
Amen
“ Do NOT be jealous of who gets this Savage ! “ 👏🏾😩 Hallelujah ! Thank You Tony for giving us the strength to move on.
I am loving these short and sweet videos.
When Tony said don't be concerned about who he dates next and how he treats them, ma'am if I say that served as a confirmation I'm serious thought I lost even though I knew I didn't.
I have listen to both of the videos , the 5 signs of his a grown boy and grown boy mindset .These videos has blessed my soul ! Getting wiser each video and the tactics of these grown boys ! Thank you Tony 🙌🏾🙏🏽
Grown boys needa get the steppin👢👢👢
AAMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
You've blessed us tremendously today Tony. Thank you 💯
Satan is very busy, yes sir! Not a sprint, it's a marathon to get to the one.....husband
Sounds like the kind of men that be on bumble that app that he calls dumble. He is right stay off the apps unless you want to waste your life away on these grownboys.
Tony! The Spirit is moving through you with this series....was about to ask a question - this video hit the nail on the head. I was typing and you started answering! Come on nowwww 🙌🏽 🙏🏽
🔥🔥🔥 Whew!🔥🔥🔥🛐 I felt this in my spirit.
Tony is right! This video is a whole word that resonates with me. A grown boy projects his insecurities and issues upon you. These individuals are broken, so they in turn break others down. They have no idea what real love and respect is.
I left a grown boy like that last year, because he was everything that Tony described. He was jealous, insecure and manipulative. He even went so far as to humiliate me on social media. I’m glad that I decided to leave him, because it was one of the best decisions that I could have ever made.
Wow, just confirmed that I need to extend my restraining order. Sounds funny but im dead a**. Tony really out here helping people.
“Stop comparing yo grown boy to me because I said I changed for my wife.” TG
“Grown boy” is the funniest phrase ever
This really helps me through this breakup. I left two times before this, because of all of these "symptoms" of the grown boy. He is 26 and still needs time to grow. He was pulling me down and I had to be out. This relationship only lasted 10 months. I'm better off without him. He never wanted to listen to what I was saying to support his journey and build him up. Healing, for him is never an option. He had vices and doesn't want to give them up. I'm winning without him! Thanks Tony!
TONY YOU ARE A REAL ONE❤️❤️💯. Thank you so much I learned more game from you than any man in my family. I appreciate the realistic truthful knowledge no lying or sugarcoating
“You ain’t 21, unless you is...” 🤣🤣🤣
😂
Yo I died laughing 😂
@@lovettatobeyea190 me too 🤣🤣🤣, TG been my source of comedy sprinkled with truth as of lately. 😭💯🙏🏽
I’m so ready for my marathon !! I will be dumping the men that’s on some “Grown Boy” status in order to catch my “Grown Man”. God..,please start the marathon and have me to win.😎
I can't stop laughing at " sleep with Hyena". 😂You're too funny. Hey, but it's so true.
This explains it all. I literally asked myself why would he want to break me down sooo bad. It all makes sense now !!
Periodt
I was rewatching the other video and low and behold part 2!! Thank u!
Thank you so much for this Tony. I really needed to hear this and you were right on point. You mention age groups, well as a woman of a particular age, I am over 50 and I have met many grown boys and I saw the red flags and could identify with what you were saying. Even went as fair to demean me and had me double thinking my self. Rude and inconsiderate. Did not want to hear anything I said. Now mind you I am a retired Intensive Care RN and had been for decades. I was far from stupid. That was the last grown boy I dealt with and he was over 60.
Thanks Tony!! “Compete with who is going to sleep the hyena”. 😂. Note to all: Some grown boys are 60 years +
wow! this is truth it’s like grown boys deliberately working to seek and destroy women..
Okaaay Tony. I see you slimming down and building up in 2021. I see you!!
I’m glad you did a video on a grown mindset. Everything you said is everything I went thru smh I stay prayerful and that’s what got me out of my situationship w/ my daughter’s father. He tried me, but I wasn’t the 1. The Lord God lead me right on up out of that mess. I’m going to share my testimony soon. I’m have to get my nerves under control. I’m an introvert and an empath 😬🤦🏽♀️ I hope and pray some won’t get deceived because gifts. I was loved bombed more than once. I’m a whole living testimony. You hit every point. I appreciate you having the courage to stand up for us and teach us. God bless you, church ain’t teaching this big bro
He is a grown boy for sure💔 praying for God to help me heal. Please pray for me
Don't be blind to the signs ladies let's keep moving forward in life 🛑🛑
Damn.. Sometimes you should see a therapist instead dating people (it applies of course for everyone with issues/not only guys)
Ha, "you aint 21 unless you is"!!!!!
What is REALLY love to know is why all my exes so fast wanted a baby and marriage? I mean super fast like the first few months 🤦🏾♀️ofc I never fell for it
RealRealTalk, Teach Us Coach Tony, Teach Us!{if I had a trillion dollars I would put it all in the collection plate}my brother didn't teach me these Important strategies pertaining to grow boys SUCH A TREMENDOUS BLESSING THANK U SO MUCH
Thank you for this confirmation 🙏🏾‼️. I’ve been cutting off people after a few conversations. 🤷🏾♀️
All I could think about was Trump for the first 4mins. But this message also allows you to reflect on who you are allowing yourself to be as a woman...and take inventory of what areas you need to grow in. So good!!!
Thankful for the message its never to late to learn and do better in the future
Tony is exactly spot on with this💯🎯🥅🎳
Wish I heard this 3 years ago!!! Saving it for my children
Preach Tony! I've lived this. I know exactly what you are talking about! It never gets old!
Thats sad. His place in his unfulfillment. And you might see it in him. Nothing anyone else can do.. for him.
YOU A REAL ONE. THANKFUL FOR ALL I HAVE EXPERIENCED I KNOW IT WILL BE TO HELP SOMEONE ELSE.
Your a true King Tony, God bless you 💯
I’m in the marathon💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Nothing but facts.
I am MORE THE WISER Thanks to Tony speaking the REAL!! 💯💪🏾🎯
Blessed Tribe! Peach Tony! Preach! God bless you.!Giants do fall, the bigger they are, the harder they fall.
I was that woman you just explained!! Thank god I found tour video’s!!
Very timely! Thank you Tony💯💯💯
We listening Tony! Blessings to you and the Queen🙏🏾
This was a word.
I am so thankful for this video. Like seriously every word you spoke is what I needed right now. Im walking away from him forever
This is spot on! Describes my children’s father to the “T”
Uncomfortable messages lord he telling the truth love u brother
EXACTLY!!! SAY IT!!! SPEAK IT!!!! THANK YOU MR. GASKINS!!!! 💜👏👏🙏🤜🤛🙏👏👏🙏👍👍🙏🙌🙌🙏
THANK YOU SO EXTREMELY VERY MUCH FOR THIS SINCERE HELP!!!!! IM having trouble walking away from the gaslit/lovebombing of fringe benefits... & the struggle of how to go about continuing dating life...
Thank you for your videos, this video describes way too well what I have been through, how I felt when I was with a grown boy
Yes!!!! Please help us with the Methodology. 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Thank you Tony!!! You are speaking facts!!! 100%%%%%
I needed to hear this!!! Thank you
Tony is speaking facts! I saw signs in the first 3 months!
can you make this a series or a part 2 please. this is a subject that needs deeper work and healing for us 🙏🏾
TY, TG -you have taught us well. 🙏🏽😁
The 7 people that disliked this video are Grown-Boys 🤦🏾♀️🤣
This one was definitely for me to hear, Tony, thank you so much for your wisdom
I love your lingo. I’m LOL (ing) while I’m working out at gym. 🤣 Tho, you sure speak truth. Hat’s off to you! ✊
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom!❤️
Too funny Mr. Gaskins, don’t be afraid of who gets to sleep with the hyena, LOL