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Something to add to the final discussion is that you can't actually convince yourself to trust anything or anyone, because trust and logic happen if different parts of the brain. So, people struggle with that answer because it is the wrong question.
Ah yes, Jummy’s titles are iconic. The stream is definitely a must watch, every moment was precious between those two. Edit: Here’s the vod link ruclips.net/video/PVYus-Z5WbQ/видео.html
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Jesus! This was like watching another person compared to her last interview. The last interview she was barely holding back tear and in this interview she’s constantly smiling and covering her face cause she’s blushing xD. Happy to see her life has taken such a huge 180 FeelsGoodMan
Yup. This is why I keep watching Lily's content. She has powered through SO much, and keeps doing it. Over and over. Her resilience is incredibly inspiring.
If you also look at the lighting, it's a perfect contrast because the first stream had really low lighting, but this one has much better lighting and a brighter atmosphere.
Mr Michael Reeves at the young age of 22, carries the spirit of a gentlemen, a god damn troll, but a gentleman still. Him and lily are golden together.
@Hesus "Lily is still not in a good place", "as long as she relies on ''partners'' to make her happy" Your whole last sentence is based on nothing but assumptions cuz like you said, we don't know them. These are exactly the kinds of dms she gets that she dislikes. I don't get the need to be so mad at people for merely complementing Michael, from what they have seen on stream/insta/yt, being a gentleman.
@Hesus well if u watched enough of albert with lily, u cud easily tell albert didnt feel the same way, and if he wer to be a gentlemen there, he would have told her the truth and moved on long ago. Just watching the way michael acts towards her, he has gentleman mannerisms. So even if he were to feel differently later on or something else happened, he would do the right thing, show her respect and tell her the 1hundred. I think we have different views but fuk it.
I like the detail on how during Lily's last interview with the Doc, when she was still going through the grieving process of things, it was a bit dark in her room. Now here, when things have started looking up, when she won Twitch rivals, when she got together with Michael... her room is now bright. I know it's most likely not intentional, but if that isn't a symbolic sign for healing and progress, I don't know what is.
@@lmao4982 c'mon thoooo, Dr. K is going around making a real difference by giving advice and emotional support. he should be the one worthy of the title
34:09 "I see in your face and your demeanor, what I felt like when I met my wife" brb crying happy tears. But seriously this solidifies the hope I have for their promising relationship now and continue to be in the future
I know it's a bit weird to be so invested in people you are never gonna meet half the world away. But seeing Michael and Lily be so happy together has really helped me get through a lot recently
same, idk why seeing them so happy brings me so much peace. i was sick for two weeks straight and felt absolutely miserable, luckily it was around the time when they announced their relationship. it sounds stupid, but they really helped me get through those terrible days by just being them.
I’m never able to catch the streams, but when I get a notification saying “we’re live on twitch” I know there’s gonna be a great hour long video waiting for me tomorrow. Feelsgoodman
I about died when you said Michael might be 'the one' for Lily because honestly, I try not to get my hopes up for things that could obviously end someday but jeeez, aren't we all thinking it? They feed off each other's energy and they seem to spend every spare moment together, even before developing feelings for each other. I just hope they both continue this way
Love always starts off this way. Not saying they won't last, but like all things in life, relationships change as they age and mature more into partnerships than giggly lovey dovey intense romances.
the first thing I noticed when I clicked the video is how different Lily's aura was compared to the last "session" or w/e. very lovely to see. she's like sunshine despite it all. ;_;
I love seeing how comfortable Dr.K is with Lily. Idk if its just me, but i can feel him being more carefree and geniune with her than with anyone else ive seen him with. Not sure why but its amazing to watch (:
She doesn't challenge everything he says and asks and she just happily engages, which makes her position to him kind of different to the therapist - patient relationship that usually emerges, where he's more like a questioning detective trying to find the truth
She doesn't challenge his statements or act defensive, so he doesn't need to self-edit his wording of his thoughts to think about how to make her not outright reject them. Instead he can keep his thoughts more direct and free flowing for her, which probably puts you in a good mood. Anyone who loves their craft will radiate happiness when they're allowed to do it in the way that works best for them without scrutiny. Plus she is clearly appreciative and empathic which makes her even easier to empathize with and enjoy her success as she gets help.
I think it’s because she’s not so analytical and logical about every damn thing like so many of the men. She’s much more natural and just in tune with her emotions.
Dude she's so freaking adorable rn, I can't. She's so much more comfortable with who she is and did a full 180. Dr K just sittin' there like "I have nothing more to teach you." I'm not even done watching yet, literally commenting as I go, but this shit lifting my mood in all types of ways man.
I'm just glad Lily is finally happy with not only her relationship, but also herself. She can finally just make herself feel positive and genuinely happy.
I’m going to cry. Lily is much more better since her last session with Dr. K. You can see that her room has changed and it’s more brighter and open and her voice seems more happy. And she seems more open to what Dr. K is saying. Very happy she’s taken his advice to heart and has improved herself. ❤️
Scarra mentioned that you helped lily and other members of offline TV out through some really tough times recently. Love you Dr. K. Keep doing what you do!
Lily is a therapist's dream bc she's so open to talking about her feelings. I watched the previous interviews with LS and the difference is like night and day xD
i find it extremely comforting to discover from your conversation with Lily, that I am too an emotional sponge (despite being a dude). i feel really happy seeing other people happy, and extremely sad to the point of crying my eyes out seeing others cry. but for some reason i don't really feel much when bad things happen to me personally.
This was so wholesome, really happy for Lily and how things changed for the better. Also its nice to see this more romantic side of Dr. K, my admiration for both of this people just grows and grows.
idk how avidly you follow Dr. K, but i've just found him and binged a bunch of his videos. ruclips.net/video/UUC8qF5iDag/видео.html is the session with Michael if you haven't seen it already. (sorry, I know I'm like half a year late)
I love how he discusses how it’s good Lily accepts that her relationship may or may not end, but then gets interrupted and goes, “you know what, I think this will work”.
Dr K. I have been following lily for years and my god. Dude ur work is amazing. The industry should be proud to have you bc when i saw ur smile when she was talkin to you... man it made me smile. Good work man. Glad to see lily happy again!
@@RadialSeeker113 people like lily who take myers briggs into consideration usually dont really care that its not accurate. it helps them understand their life and i dont think thats bullshit.
I love Lily in this chat, she obviously improved so much and I'm watching this almost 18 months later and she's still this bubbly and happy it's great. Also she takes interest in learning what Dr.K is talking about at the end and you know she got that video and studied and learnt how to improve her own well being even more. Watching her entire career in the last like week, my gosh this girl is amazing.
You will never stay happy forever. Thats not the point. The point is to be content with your life as is and to appreciate all you have. You can still be sad, angry or whatever but after that emotion goes away contentness is what should be present
There is such a noticeable difference in her personality and happiness from the last time they did an interview to this one. I’m so happy for her and micheal
A thought. Accepting how you are is to stop fighting reality. Denying that you have tendencies (being emotional, angry, whatever) and emotions leads to an internal struggle. When you accept where you are - not only do you stop fighting "reality" (which you will always lose) - you can see yourself with eyes unclouded. You get to relate to yourself and your experiences from a perspective free of judgement and beliefs. This doesn't mean you can't or won't change. It means you start from where you are.. rather than from a position of internal struggle.
@@adamscaife6931 being aware of your problems is a huge step towards change, ignoring and denying them would only make it worse So accepting and being aware of ones problematic tendencies is a step in the right way
I am content with myself, but I don't deny that I have negative tendencies, I've just accepted them and learned to live with them, because there are just some parts of my ID which are not bound to change. Not every person who is content with who and where they are and their condition is an apathetic no life who'll go nowhere or deny change where it is necessary.
@@DestinyAwaitsChannel that's alright, it's just that in my experience; working on my flaws and doing self improvement really improved my life on a day to day basis. Like for example I'm still an introvert but i have less anxiety when talking to people now. Learning how to communicate properly is a huge deal for me and I became less reliant on using passive agression and became more open on telling what I feel towards certain situations. It's not perfect, but the improvement has huge benefits for my life.
@@adamscaife6931 then shutting it down only makes things worse (it will blow up in your face sooner or later). Opening yourself up to it, feeling it is the first step towards change.
The talks with LilyPichu have resonated so much with me. Thanks for two wonderful, helpful conversations. It was so nice to see Lily's growth as well. I went to twitch to follow her and am looking forward to watching her stream, because it is very true that she has a genuine personality that I find so wholesome and good. The part about Dosha was super interesting. The description of Lily's Dosha is exactly what I feel like, and how I learn/remember/deal with stress. The fire element truly explains my boyfriend's personality. He has a lot of road rage, and any time he has a bad day at work, he's angry and irritable and cursing everyone. As someone who's very withdrawn and quiet when upset, it's sometimes scary to see, but I know he's just upset and venting in his own way. Hearing about Dosha has helped me understand that better.
Not sure if you're still with the boyfriend mentioned in your comment but I can resonate with you since I'm also a Kapha (according to this video). I dated someone with the fire element once that expressed his stress the exact way you described your boyfriend. I can understand how difficult and draining it is, especially when they're that way. Mine felt like a mismatch in energies most of the time and I blamed myself a lot in that relationship for not being able to be more vocal and help them relieve their stress. Know that it isn't your fault. That relationship didn't work out for me but hopefully yours has a better outcome (if that's what you want out of the relationship with the mentioned boyfriend)
"My Mission in Life is to try to help people understand that they should live their life with all your advantages and disadvantages" -- Dr. K Wow. I love this.
The fact that Dr. K, thinks that Mykull Reeves may be the one for Lily instills a hope in me that, the Queen of Comfy Lilypichu will live the life she deserves to live.
“I choose to be open, so in a sense I expect it. Cause it’s the internet, you know. You put yourself out there, people are going to form their own opinions about you and I understand that. I guess *I just deeply don’t like being misunderstood. That’s why I’m open and honest* , cause if you need to know to know something, I will tell you. Don’t make wrong assumptions on your own.” - LilyPichu (17:58) i resonate with this *incredibly* so
Ima be honest, lily and really all of otv have just given me the since of connection, not towards them but in the way that I see them interact and speak their minds while being genuine, it helps me find that sense of like, it’s okay to feel happy.
I could not be more proud of her personal growth, especially in such a short period of time since last talking with Dr. K. This is goddamn beautiful human-ing rn
"The only way to be really happy is to understand that it's not gonna last forever." this simple sentence changed my perspective and I'm fucking happy right now
Within the first 10 mins I was so close to crying and was just laughing to myself, I have the same exact feeling as Lily, i'm a sponge and I'm pretty sensitive and emotional and get very easily upset, when she said that she used to see it as a weakness, I see it as a weakness and I try to change myself to stop being so sensitive because I'm a guy. But hearing that I can just accept that has literally brought me to tears. Lily is amazing and thank you Dr. K for creating a platform for people to share these things, I can't be thankful enough.
Watching lily happy always make me happy even when im crying because all of my problem. Her video always make me feel comfy because her personality and because she always kind to people even when she in worst condition. I wanna say thanks a lot to lily because her content always make me smile even in my worst condition. Thanks lilypichu
I relate to Lily a lot especially the part about being an emotional sponge and I think I've only recently started to accept that about myself. I also find myself trying to hold on to happiness too much and accepting that happiness and adversity are both temporary has really helped my mental health! This talk was super helpful for me and I think maybe eventually I'll give love a try as well haha
the longer I watch these interviews the more I understand that I did not accept who I am and that i need to stop daydreaming about what if I was,and I did that since i was very young.I am also a very emotional person and I will try my hardest to accept who I am and ask myself some questions.These videos help alot thank you Dr.K
This VOD is actually so important. Outside of Lily and a really good comfy happy VOD, Dr. K speaks really well about happiness and how to be happy. I learned a lot. Thanks
Holy hell that description of moving on from friends. I've had so many close friendships that just "finish" without any real obvious event or "denouement".
That little part about playing the hand your dealt, rather than wishing you had someone else's hand, definitely resonates with me. I've spent a long time wishing and trying to be somebody else. Recently I've been trying to embrace who I am a little more.
He mentions have being very happy in “temporariness”. I’ve noticed that I don’t really have extremely happy moments or very depressive ones. It’s more like I know it’s temporary and that it’s fine. I enjoy it and it’s fine. Even depression. I realize that it is the current emotion that I feel and that it will go away. I look to see the cause and I’m usually okay with what I find. When I’m happy, I don’t really get giddy, I just appreciate it. When it goes away I don’t get look for it again. I sort of treat every emotion the same, if I were to guess, this probably reason why I don’t feel like there have been many notable happy or sad times in my life. I usually only remember a certain event in terms of this if it was particularly stressful or anxious. Not if I was happy or sad. Anyone else like this?
Zlatan Armandovic I find that stuff more comforting. Doing those things, watching those movies, etc. comfort me if I I’m feeling down. It makes it easier to work through. To me, this is what happiness usually is. A release from tension, a comforting action, an escape from reality, a satisfaction in a skill, and a love found through helping others. When someone says they are happy, it usually means one of the first three instances occurred/is occurring. If you ask someone if they are happy, when one of three is not occurring, chances are they will say no or say they feel a different emotion. I personally won’t say yes in either circumstance. The question itself is confusing to me. I get excited but that doesn’t seem like happiness to me. When I talk about something I care deeply about, I get invested into it. Not emotionally though. To
Zlatan Armandovic Zlatan Armandovic others, I often find that they think I’m standoffish. I just don’t really want to interact. I often get confused in social settings and when someone tells me something I’m not really used to responding to I usually just get confused and avoid prolonging the conversation. Now that you know this about me, you might see how I might behave towards someone asking me if I’m happy. I would like to think that I’m not unhappy. I’m usually not sad and when I am I can deal with that just fine. When I’m excited I go right back to my neutral state just as quick. Does this mean I’m happy? I don’t know. When emotions happen, I let them come and go. I don’t really hold on to them long. Even anger, sadness, and yes happiness. Does that make me happy? I go through this process when ever I think about if I am happy. Now that I’ve gone through that with you. Maybe you’ll understand what I may think about this comforting feeling about nostalgia and whether or not I want to pursue it over and over again. I realize that pursuing these things gets you desensitized to that certain object of affection. It usually isn’t good if you keep trying to focus on things that comfort you so much. Eventually, it won’t really work as much as it did when you first rediscovered it. That is why you observe it, immerse yourself in that feeling, and let it go when the time is right. Nostalgia is more than just a memory. It is a feeling. It is just the same as trying to pursue happiness through senses and experiences. Many people go through their lives with this kind of outlook. I don’t. Why should I pursue happiness. It is a feeling that I experience. It isn’t a worldly thing that floats away when I am feeling down. It comes and goes in my consciousness. Sure outside influences can affect it in many ways, but I don’t think having to go through a rollercoaster of what is life is necessarily the best way to achieve happiness. I don’t think success is equivalent to happiness. Therefore, no outside influences will make me happy forever. It just makes you more subject to these external factors. Instead I just let an emotion come, experience it, and let it go. I can do this most of the time. The comforting feeling of nostalgia is no different for me. Enjoying it is fine, but I don’t think about whether or not I’m enjoying it.
Thomas Serrano Well that is very good of you to do. The more I think about it the more I’m convinced that the lives of others who pursue happiness in their lives is just attachment to something that is forever evasive. They may chase and hold onto it for a little bit, but it continues to slip from their grasp. And they would do anything to hold it for a little while longer. While they do that, I like knowing that I can sit and relax while it wanders around and comes to rest in my hands ever so often.
The way they look at each other honestly, those quiet moments when they make eye contact, smile slightly and just just keep going without even really acknowledging it, those are what melt my heart
1:20:40 when Dr. K was talking about making the relationship about “us and we” yes, yes, yes! Anytime someone comes to me about their relationship problems, I always try to keep an ear out for that “me” and “I” language, vs the “us and we,” because that will show how much of a one way or two way street the relationship is. And it can sometimes be a tightrope walk, but it’s important because the entire idea of a relationship is that two people become one unit, and the entire process of the relationship is constantly building that oneness and almost trying to reprogram your brain to think of yourself living within another individual whose eyes you cant see through
Her overall manner of speaking at least in the beginning, compared to last stream looks so much motivated and certain. Of course it could be since she is more familiar with Dr. K, however it's still amazing to observe how the sound of her voice at a minimum has changed from broken to more outgoing.
Dr. K is amazingly intelligent when it comes to human beings and feelings. It's honestly pretty astounding. He seems to have a very firm and balanced grasp on the way people think, what they need, how to elicit certain emotions, etc.
When Dr.K was describing all the "forms" or "elements" of emotions, if you will, I couldn't help but attribute all of those forms to the ways emotions manifest themselves in me (I respond in all the ways he mentioned, to different degrees, in different situations). I must be like the last airbender of emotional responses and form
@@HP-tw6tl I think it deserve to be though. They bring great values to society. In my country this career earn so low that many people graduates with a psychology degree have to switch jobs
28:48 that's my problem right there. I live for things that last. I get anxious about things that don't last, and especially angry when things get changed for the worse and for no reason. The only things that last is my local music collection, and losing that would be the end.
You said you happy when she change, she freaking transform madoka magica style from "the Lily" that frustrate over any missing Lux bind to magical girl that easily winning 5 times in a row and winning Twitch Rival like it's nothing at all. You change her to be the better person and basically change her from the clumsy lily to Magical Girl Lily. ❤️🦄✨
@@aalldldakekjs8981 People like you who throws the word "simp" around as an attempt to insult someone is typically a virgin and probably an incel. If possible, go outside and make some friends, interact with people, etc - since you're a pathetic gremlin, sitting around spreading hate - who has a name that can summon an Egyptian Sun God. Thanks.
Idk how I see no comment about this after so long, but it is something beautiful that it went from 2.5h video as lily "needed" that much space to about 1.5h video when halfway through there are like "what we gonna talk about" cause she is in much better place mentally. It was really nice to watch them both back to back while i needed to watch something emotional, it filled me with hope afterall.
I love that Dr. K is doing this for gamers and streamers alike. I have gone through similar types of therapy and it has significantly helped me. To see the people I look up to getting the same kind of help warms my heart.
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Something to add to the final discussion is that you can't actually convince yourself to trust anything or anyone, because trust and logic happen if different parts of the brain. So, people struggle with that answer because it is the wrong question.
Thinking of it maybe
LOL, Dr. K is shipping Lily and Michael so hard. and he didn't even see the mcdrunk stream.
bill nguyen explain yourself young man
If he would've I think the entire stream would've been abt the ship
Ah yes, Jummy’s titles are iconic. The stream is definitely a must watch, every moment was precious between those two.
Edit: Here’s the vod link ruclips.net/video/PVYus-Z5WbQ/видео.html
I thought you were projecting when I first read this comment, but he really do be shipping them hard :D
Dr. K: I hope the guy is a decent dude
Lily: yeah he's very nice
*distant tazer sounds and maniacal laughing*
Too good of a coment dude
Oh MyKull. We love him for his lies, deception, tasers, crack, and plastic straws :D
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NIGHTMARE!NIGHTMARE!NIGHTMARE!
fck , i laughed at 2 am man fck you!
Jesus! This was like watching another person compared to her last interview. The last interview she was barely holding back tear and in this interview she’s constantly smiling and covering her face cause she’s blushing xD. Happy to see her life has taken such a huge 180 FeelsGoodMan
Yup. This is why I keep watching Lily's content. She has powered through SO much, and keeps doing it. Over and over. Her resilience is incredibly inspiring.
I can only assume Michael tasered her into happiness lol
If you also look at the lighting, it's a perfect contrast because the first stream had really low lighting, but this one has much better lighting and a brighter atmosphere.
Michael makes her so happy it’s so nice to see it :)
Trueee
Mr Michael Reeves at the young age of 22, carries the spirit of a gentlemen, a god damn troll, but a gentleman still. Him and lily are golden together.
@Hesus that's a sad thought, thinking that people will betray you by default.
@@izs6946 he's named hesus for a reason 😉
@Hesus "Lily is still not in a good place", "as long as she relies on ''partners'' to make her happy" Your whole last sentence is based on nothing but assumptions cuz like you said, we don't know them. These are exactly the kinds of dms she gets that she dislikes. I don't get the need to be so mad at people for merely complementing Michael, from what they have seen on stream/insta/yt, being a gentleman.
@Hesus well if u watched enough of albert with lily, u cud easily tell albert didnt feel the same way, and if he wer to be a gentlemen there, he would have told her the truth and moved on long ago. Just watching the way michael acts towards her, he has gentleman mannerisms. So even if he were to feel differently later on or something else happened, he would do the right thing, show her respect and tell her the 1hundred. I think we have different views but fuk it.
@Hesus For some reason, I trust Dr K's instincts more than yours...
Dr. K: “You know Lily, I hope that this guy is a good dude!” Mykull: “Doctor, what are your feelings to turtles, tasers, and crack?”
Dr K: confused therapy
tomatoes
Tomato Loser Girl Bad!
Dr K might end up in the insane asylum
STRANGER- SENPAI underrated comment
32:00 IS THE SWEETEST LIKE HE'S SAYING "BROOOO I FEEL LIKE U GUYS R REALLY MEANT TO BE AND IDEK THE GUY BUT BROOOO I SHIPP YALL"
Hes saying what the fans want to know there 👌🏻
Ya but he’s saying it in a way that makes him sound like an adult and not a 14 year old Stan
:D
Made me smile like an idiot hahahahaha 💕
I like the detail on how during Lily's last interview with the Doc, when she was still going through the grieving process of things, it was a bit dark in her room. Now here, when things have started looking up, when she won Twitch rivals, when she got together with Michael... her room is now bright.
I know it's most likely not intentional, but if that isn't a symbolic sign for healing and progress, I don't know what is.
My brain immediately went to Dr Disrespect when you said the doc lol
@@lmao4982 c'mon thoooo, Dr. K is going around making a real difference by giving advice and emotional support. he should be the one worthy of the title
@@JackOfSomeTrades29 yeah of course it's just funny because dr disrespect cheated on his wife so i made the association
Jack now now, lets not try to take away the title of doc from the 2 time world champion
Well, Michael helped redesign her room.
34:09 "I see in your face and your demeanor, what I felt like when I met my wife" brb crying happy tears. But seriously this solidifies the hope I have for their promising relationship now and continue to be in the future
I know it's a bit weird to be so invested in people you are never gonna meet half the world away. But seeing Michael and Lily be so happy together has really helped me get through a lot recently
Honestly it has for me too. It's like exponential AoE healing
same, idk why seeing them so happy brings me so much peace. i was sick for two weeks straight and felt absolutely miserable, luckily it was around the time when they announced their relationship. it sounds stupid, but they really helped me get through those terrible days by just being them.
Same for me. Watching Lily and Michael being happy, i dunno man it just brings so much joy to my heart and it helped me out so much recently
I live like 8 hours away from them.
@@NeroDracolith nail on the spot!
I’m never able to catch the streams, but when I get a notification saying “we’re live on twitch” I know there’s gonna be a great hour long video waiting for me tomorrow. Feelsgoodman
Yes!! And having the Vods as a radio is so good too lol
I read that feelsgoodman in Dr. K's voice 😂
변우석 :DDD
23:40 dr K got so happy when she said she's in relationship LOL I love this
LMAO it was SO cuteeeeee
Dr k talking about his wife and how he believes in true love was so wholesomee, I awwed so hard at that bit, made me so happy 💜💜
Timestamp please
@@ashutosh.sharma 34:00
same
:’D it was so cute ahhhhshhhhbhbrdcdrtdetcrdfdhrfbttf
Michael, a person who has no care for Harry Potter, is now being referred to as “He who shall not be named.” The irony is crazy.
You!!! You made my day with this comment so i shall give this a like 🤣👍
AHDA I shall gladly take it
@@ezaf5989 don't be a dick dude
@@ezaf5989 Lmao who hurt you
Ez Af we all think it but your not supposed to say it
I about died when you said Michael might be 'the one' for Lily because honestly, I try not to get my hopes up for things that could obviously end someday but jeeez, aren't we all thinking it? They feed off each other's energy and they seem to spend every spare moment together, even before developing feelings for each other. I just hope they both continue this way
takineko ignoring their romantic chemistry, their comedic chemistry is just unmatched.
Tsuideru yeah but ignoring that chemistry there COMEDIC chemistry is good
Oliver Seddon you don’t need that to make it work, and it will change over time anyway
would you enjoy the 100% of a thing or relationship or would you enjoy it 5% and think it's gonna end someday?
Love always starts off this way. Not saying they won't last, but like all things in life, relationships change as they age and mature more into partnerships than giggly lovey dovey intense romances.
Face hurts from smiling so much. Lily was so happy in this video it makes me happy.
Its awesome
Same xD
Yes 😆😆☺️
Lily: hes is nice
Micheal is the background: Bad loser girl bad.
In *
Tomato loser girl bad
*NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE*
the first thing I noticed when I clicked the video is how different Lily's aura was compared to the last "session" or w/e. very lovely to see. she's like sunshine despite it all. ;_;
Sunshine's and butterflies
I love seeing how comfortable Dr.K is with Lily. Idk if its just me, but i can feel him being more carefree and geniune with her than with anyone else ive seen him with. Not sure why but its amazing to watch (:
i think it depends on how open the patient (i know the disclosure andy, just using to articulate) is to dr.k, u have to really pry if its LS
She doesn't challenge everything he says and asks and she just happily engages, which makes her position to him kind of different to the therapist - patient relationship that usually emerges, where he's more like a questioning detective trying to find the truth
It's a conversation with an INFP.
She doesn't challenge his statements or act defensive, so he doesn't need to self-edit his wording of his thoughts to think about how to make her not outright reject them. Instead he can keep his thoughts more direct and free flowing for her, which probably puts you in a good mood. Anyone who loves their craft will radiate happiness when they're allowed to do it in the way that works best for them without scrutiny. Plus she is clearly appreciative and empathic which makes her even easier to empathize with and enjoy her success as she gets help.
I think it’s because she’s not so analytical and logical about every damn thing like so many of the men. She’s much more natural and just in tune with her emotions.
Dude she's so freaking adorable rn, I can't. She's so much more comfortable with who she is and did a full 180. Dr K just sittin' there like "I have nothing more to teach you." I'm not even done watching yet, literally commenting as I go, but this shit lifting my mood in all types of ways man.
I'm just glad Lily is finally happy with not only her relationship, but also herself. She can finally just make herself feel positive and genuinely happy.
I’m going to cry. Lily is much more better since her last session with Dr. K. You can see that her room has changed and it’s more brighter and open and her voice seems more happy. And she seems more open to what Dr. K is saying. Very happy she’s taken his advice to heart and has improved herself. ❤️
Scarra mentioned that you helped lily and other members of offline TV out through some really tough times recently. Love you Dr. K. Keep doing what you do!
"I think this relationship is gonna work out" YES.
Yep, still true
@@TechoNeko Very
@@marsbel7838 definitely
Still true lol
imagine this man having a chill talk with sykkuno
A chill talk with sykkuno? That exists?
I need itt
a talk with sykkuno? he can converse without apologizing every minute?
@@universal_stupidity chill? As in high as a kite chill?
Or toast I think both of those conversations would be amazingly enlightening
when she swears at 22:31 I got a flashback of Michael's video on the Roomba XD
EXACTLY!!!! I though I was the only one lool
In my head it goes "god fucking damn it"
Lily is a therapist's dream bc she's so open to talking about her feelings. I watched the previous interviews with LS and the difference is like night and day xD
I like how the room is really dark in the first conversation and now her room is really bright
Man, these conversations between Lilly and Doc K. warm my heart. So cute.. Dr. K. radiates BIG DAD energy in this one, whew!
Not big dad energy my friend, its BIG DICK ENERGY
i find it extremely comforting to discover from your conversation with Lily, that I am too an emotional sponge (despite being a dude). i feel really happy seeing other people happy, and extremely sad to the point of crying my eyes out seeing others cry. but for some reason i don't really feel much when bad things happen to me personally.
Nah nah friend, not despite you being a dude. You dudes are all allowed to be emotional and it's great to see that you're accepting yourself
@@hazapilgrim that really sweet of you, thanks.
This is actually interestingly accurate for me too. Except I guess the fact I cry more often from happiness than I do from sadness.
Hell no man, I sponge the things I like and I laugh at the sadness and anger around me. I'm invincible!!!!!!!
emotional sponges unite!
Lily is absolutely glowing in this video. When you're happy, I guess it really shows.
This was so wholesome, really happy for Lily and how things changed for the better. Also its nice to see this more romantic side of Dr. K, my admiration for both of this people just grows and grows.
42:20 "I think a lot of life is hard, because we try to live it alone" so wise
can we get michael on here cause that would be cool seeing how michael thinks
He's coming on within the next week or 2 he said early july
He's coming in on Friday
@@psycling2130 Rescheduled XD
idk how avidly you follow Dr. K, but i've just found him and binged a bunch of his videos. ruclips.net/video/UUC8qF5iDag/видео.html is the session with Michael if you haven't seen it already. (sorry, I know I'm like half a year late)
I love how he discusses how it’s good Lily accepts that her relationship may or may not end, but then gets interrupted and goes, “you know what, I think this will work”.
Dr K. I have been following lily for years and my god. Dude ur work is amazing. The industry should be proud to have you bc when i saw ur smile when she was talkin to you... man it made me smile. Good work man. Glad to see lily happy again!
Both of these sessions made me cry but this time the crying is happy
It makes sense that Lily is an INFP... their biggest need in life tends to be understood and accepted.
It's a pretty BS thing btw. It's like the astrology of personality tests. The big 5 is significantly more accurate and peer reviewed.
@@RadialSeeker113 people like lily who take myers briggs into consideration usually dont really care that its not accurate. it helps them understand their life and i dont think thats bullshit.
Ray S except it’s actually scienced-based
@@hazardmix psychology is not science lmao
Sebastian Marquez it’s a social science, which is 100x more than astrology will ever be
Dr.K's reaction to Lily being all shy, talking about her relationship is literally her entire fanbase when looking at her relationship with Michael.
Can't wait for Dr. K reacts to Michael x Lily drunk stream video.
ye, that's not happenning, the man has a life.
so do we
tilenHD no we don’t.
@@tilenHD We most definitely don’t.
@@All54321 you dont know me im not american so that gives me life
Dr.K ships Lily n Mykull in this AOE session!
37:03 Lily welcome to the reason that Lily x Michael Reeves videos are viral xD. And yep same here.
Tru
Dr. K secretly watches Reechu clips in his own time 😂
To fill his joy of talking and watching couples just like us because they are too damn adorable together 😭😍
After listening to Lily talk about her relationship with Michael he probably does 😆
We need a Dr.K and Mykkul session;)
Ok now that would be interesting to watch
Michael: do you do crack
Dr k: *visible confusion*
i dont think he needs one though?
@@heavymetal1ization He needs one for his drug addicton
@@heavymetal1ization he needs for his turtle killin addiction ahaha
I love Lily in this chat, she obviously improved so much and I'm watching this almost 18 months later and she's still this bubbly and happy it's great. Also she takes interest in learning what Dr.K is talking about at the end and you know she got that video and studied and learnt how to improve her own well being even more. Watching her entire career in the last like week, my gosh this girl is amazing.
Someone said the same thing as you. You didn't really say anything say anything interesting or of value. Not sure what the big deal is.
You will never stay happy forever. Thats not the point. The point is to be content with your life as is and to appreciate all you have.
You can still be sad, angry or whatever but after that emotion goes away contentness is what should be present
You sound like Dr. K lmao
Accurate
Yes, happiness is conditional, but peace is unconditional.
I love hearing about the interviewees perspective but I'm so happy to hear what doctor k thinks about things. Like true love
I really enjoy every single one of these. Can't get enough of them
I watched this whole thing and forgot my mobile data was on.......Best $12 I've ever spent.
Shiiiiii, I've been there lmao
Unlimited data GANG
F
12 fucking dollars ? America land of the fleeced.
Worth it man :D
There is such a noticeable difference in her personality and happiness from the last time they did an interview to this one. I’m so happy for her and micheal
dr K smiling so hard and being so happy for lily is the cutest thing :3
A thought. Accepting how you are is to stop fighting reality. Denying that you have tendencies (being emotional, angry, whatever) and emotions leads to an internal struggle. When you accept where you are - not only do you stop fighting "reality" (which you will always lose) - you can see yourself with eyes unclouded. You get to relate to yourself and your experiences from a perspective free of judgement and beliefs. This doesn't mean you can't or won't change. It means you start from where you are.. rather than from a position of internal struggle.
What if you're emotional state is problematic and leads to you doing stupid things, like taking it out on people who don't deserve it?
@@adamscaife6931 being aware of your problems is a huge step towards change, ignoring and denying them would only make it worse
So accepting and being aware of ones problematic tendencies is a step in the right way
I am content with myself, but I don't deny that I have negative tendencies, I've just accepted them and learned to live with them, because there are just some parts of my ID which are not bound to change. Not every person who is content with who and where they are and their condition is an apathetic no life who'll go nowhere or deny change where it is necessary.
@@DestinyAwaitsChannel that's alright, it's just that in my experience; working on my flaws and doing self improvement really improved my life on a day to day basis.
Like for example I'm still an introvert but i have less anxiety when talking to people now. Learning how to communicate properly is a huge deal for me and I became less reliant on using passive agression and became more open on telling what I feel towards certain situations.
It's not perfect, but the improvement has huge benefits for my life.
@@adamscaife6931 then shutting it down only makes things worse (it will blow up in your face sooner or later). Opening yourself up to it, feeling it is the first step towards change.
It's so funny when Lily was getting really happy over Dr. K appreciating his wife, I was squeeling over seeing both of them being happy.
Haha same
The talks with LilyPichu have resonated so much with me. Thanks for two wonderful, helpful conversations. It was so nice to see Lily's growth as well. I went to twitch to follow her and am looking forward to watching her stream, because it is very true that she has a genuine personality that I find so wholesome and good.
The part about Dosha was super interesting. The description of Lily's Dosha is exactly what I feel like, and how I learn/remember/deal with stress. The fire element truly explains my boyfriend's personality. He has a lot of road rage, and any time he has a bad day at work, he's angry and irritable and cursing everyone. As someone who's very withdrawn and quiet when upset, it's sometimes scary to see, but I know he's just upset and venting in his own way. Hearing about Dosha has helped me understand that better.
Not sure if you're still with the boyfriend mentioned in your comment but I can resonate with you since I'm also a Kapha (according to this video). I dated someone with the fire element once that expressed his stress the exact way you described your boyfriend. I can understand how difficult and draining it is, especially when they're that way. Mine felt like a mismatch in energies most of the time and I blamed myself a lot in that relationship for not being able to be more vocal and help them relieve their stress. Know that it isn't your fault. That relationship didn't work out for me but hopefully yours has a better outcome (if that's what you want out of the relationship with the mentioned boyfriend)
"My Mission in Life is to try to help people understand that they should live their life with all your advantages and disadvantages" -- Dr. K
Wow. I love this.
The fact that Dr. K, thinks that Mykull Reeves may be the one for Lily instills a hope in me that, the Queen of Comfy Lilypichu will live the life she deserves to live.
And its still true and long may it continue
A year later and it's still as beautiful as ever🥰
Lily deserves the world and Michael is more than willing to give it to her... I love them
I really wish Michael just came in and said "Hey crackhead" in the middle of this.
Lowkey same
Lmao I wish
“I choose to be open, so in a sense I expect it. Cause it’s the internet, you know. You put yourself out there, people are going to form their own opinions about you and I understand that. I guess *I just deeply don’t like being misunderstood. That’s why I’m open and honest* , cause if you need to know to know something, I will tell you. Don’t make wrong assumptions on your own.” - LilyPichu (17:58)
i resonate with this *incredibly* so
Ima be honest, lily and really all of otv have just given me the since of connection, not towards them but in the way that I see them interact and speak their minds while being genuine, it helps me find that sense of like, it’s okay to feel happy.
Idk about lily but when he said "that's how I felt when I met my wife so I am very optimistic" about Lily and Michael made me cry with joy.
This guy is a god send. His motivation to help people is amazing and we need more people like him
I could not be more proud of her personal growth, especially in such a short period of time since last talking with Dr. K. This is goddamn beautiful human-ing rn
"The only way to be really happy is to understand that it's not gonna last forever." this simple sentence changed my perspective and I'm fucking happy right now
this is my analysis about her
jk, I'm glad she's happy
Within the first 10 mins I was so close to crying and was just laughing to myself, I have the same exact feeling as Lily, i'm a sponge and I'm pretty sensitive and emotional and get very easily upset, when she said that she used to see it as a weakness, I see it as a weakness and I try to change myself to stop being so sensitive because I'm a guy. But hearing that I can just accept that has literally brought me to tears. Lily is amazing and thank you Dr. K for creating a platform for people to share these things, I can't be thankful enough.
How to be happy... find yourself a Michael REEEEEves
If I could find a guy like Michael Reeves I'd be so fuckin set man
If i had a like button that helps me find perfect girl and the only trade back is getting tazed for content. Ill smash that like button.
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Someone that understands, communicates, respects and listens
@@Thepewdiepiebro5 r/woooosh
Watching lily happy always make me happy even when im crying because all of my problem. Her video always make me feel comfy because her personality and because she always kind to people even when she in worst condition. I wanna say thanks a lot to lily because her content always make me smile even in my worst condition.
Thanks lilypichu
got to get a T3 sub.
I relate to Lily a lot especially the part about being an emotional sponge and I think I've only recently started to accept that about myself. I also find myself trying to hold on to happiness too much and accepting that happiness and adversity are both temporary has really helped my mental health! This talk was super helpful for me and I think maybe eventually I'll give love a try as well haha
the longer I watch these interviews the more I understand that I did not accept who I am and that i need to stop daydreaming about what if I was,and I did that since i was very young.I am also a very emotional person and I will try my hardest to accept who I am and ask myself some questions.These videos help alot thank you Dr.K
This VOD is actually so important. Outside of Lily and a really good comfy happy VOD, Dr. K speaks really well about happiness and how to be happy. I learned a lot. Thanks
Holy hell that description of moving on from friends. I've had so many close friendships that just "finish" without any real obvious event or "denouement".
This was an awesome follow-up.
That little part about playing the hand your dealt, rather than wishing you had someone else's hand, definitely resonates with me. I've spent a long time wishing and trying to be somebody else. Recently I've been trying to embrace who I am a little more.
seeing lily so happy brings me an immeasurable amount of joy
He mentions have being very happy in “temporariness”. I’ve noticed that I don’t really have extremely happy moments or very depressive ones. It’s more like I know it’s temporary and that it’s fine. I enjoy it and it’s fine. Even depression. I realize that it is the current emotion that I feel and that it will go away. I look to see the cause and I’m usually okay with what I find. When I’m happy, I don’t really get giddy, I just appreciate it. When it goes away I don’t get look for it again. I sort of treat every emotion the same, if I were to guess, this probably reason why I don’t feel like there have been many notable happy or sad times in my life. I usually only remember a certain event in terms of this if it was particularly stressful or anxious. Not if I was happy or sad. Anyone else like this?
Zlatan Armandovic I find that stuff more comforting. Doing those things, watching those movies, etc. comfort me if I I’m feeling down. It makes it easier to work through. To me, this is what happiness usually is. A release from tension, a comforting action, an escape from reality, a satisfaction in a skill, and a love found through helping others. When someone says they are happy, it usually means one of the first three instances occurred/is occurring. If you ask someone if they are happy, when one of three is not occurring, chances are they will say no or say they feel a different emotion. I personally won’t say yes in either circumstance. The question itself is confusing to me. I get excited but that doesn’t seem like happiness to me. When I talk about something I care deeply about, I get invested into it. Not emotionally though. To
Zlatan Armandovic Zlatan Armandovic others, I often find that they think I’m standoffish. I just don’t really want to interact. I often get confused in social settings and when someone tells me something I’m not really used to responding to I usually just get confused and avoid prolonging the conversation. Now that you know this about me, you might see how I might behave towards someone asking me if I’m happy. I would like to think that I’m not unhappy. I’m usually not sad and when I am I can deal with that just fine. When I’m excited I go right back to my neutral state just as quick. Does this mean I’m happy? I don’t know. When emotions happen, I let them come and go. I don’t really hold on to them long. Even anger, sadness, and yes happiness. Does that make me happy? I go through this process when ever I think about if I am happy. Now that I’ve gone through that with you. Maybe you’ll understand what I may think about this comforting feeling about nostalgia and whether or not I want to pursue it over and over again. I realize that pursuing these things gets you desensitized to that certain object of affection. It usually isn’t good if you keep trying to focus on things that comfort you so much. Eventually, it won’t really work as much as it did when you first rediscovered it. That is why you observe it, immerse yourself in that feeling, and let it go when the time is right. Nostalgia is more than just a memory. It is a feeling. It is just the same as trying to pursue happiness through senses and experiences. Many people go through their lives with this kind of outlook. I don’t. Why should I pursue happiness. It is a feeling that I experience. It isn’t a worldly thing that floats away when I am feeling down. It comes and goes in my consciousness. Sure outside influences can affect it in many ways, but I don’t think having to go through a rollercoaster of what is life is necessarily the best way to achieve happiness. I don’t think success is equivalent to happiness. Therefore, no outside influences will make me happy forever. It just makes you more subject to these external factors. Instead I just let an emotion come, experience it, and let it go. I can do this most of the time. The comforting feeling of nostalgia is no different for me. Enjoying it is fine, but I don’t think about whether or not I’m enjoying it.
Thomas Serrano Well that is very good of you to do. The more I think about it the more I’m convinced that the lives of others who pursue happiness in their lives is just attachment to something that is forever evasive. They may chase and hold onto it for a little bit, but it continues to slip from their grasp. And they would do anything to hold it for a little while longer. While they do that, I like knowing that I can sit and relax while it wanders around and comes to rest in my hands ever so often.
Even Dr.K approve of Lily's relationship with Michael. This is awesome 30:50
This has got to be one of my favorite youtube channels now, every video teaches me an important lesson that will last a lifetime
I feel very strongly about what Lily said "I'm just happy to see you happy"
And my lord this just made me so happy
48:58
I just wanted Lily to ask Dr K: 'and how do you feel about that?'' as a joke.
How to be happy.
Find someone than look at you the same way Michael look at Lily ;9
@@DiamondMinerMLPBrony the best kind
a tomato girl ?
The way they look at each other honestly, those quiet moments when they make eye contact, smile slightly and just just keep going without even really acknowledging it, those are what melt my heart
1:20:40 when Dr. K was talking about making the relationship about “us and we” yes, yes, yes! Anytime someone comes to me about their relationship problems, I always try to keep an ear out for that “me” and “I” language, vs the “us and we,” because that will show how much of a one way or two way street the relationship is. And it can sometimes be a tightrope walk, but it’s important because the entire idea of a relationship is that two people become one unit, and the entire process of the relationship is constantly building that oneness and almost trying to reprogram your brain to think of yourself living within another individual whose eyes you cant see through
Four years later : well done Dr Psychic K, well done.
Her overall manner of speaking at least in the beginning, compared to last stream looks so much motivated and certain. Of course it could be since she is more familiar with Dr. K, however it's still amazing to observe how the sound of her voice at a minimum has changed from broken to more outgoing.
I really love the chats with lily! Heartwarming to see her evolve 🌱 it helped me understanding and accepting myself more aswell 👁
Dr. K is amazingly intelligent when it comes to human beings and feelings. It's honestly pretty astounding. He seems to have a very firm and balanced grasp on the way people think, what they need, how to elicit certain emotions, etc.
I actually did cry when Dr. K spoke about his wife. Tears of joy of course
When Dr.K was describing all the "forms" or "elements" of emotions, if you will, I couldn't help but attribute all of those forms to the ways emotions manifest themselves in me (I respond in all the ways he mentioned, to different degrees, in different situations). I must be like the last airbender of emotional responses and form
this makes me wanna see a therapist lmao, it just seems so productive
Do it. Please do it. It helps.
if only it wasn't so GODDAMN EXPENSIVE!
@@HP-tw6tl I think it deserve to be though. They bring great values to society. In my country this career earn so low that many people graduates with a psychology degree have to switch jobs
I loved the way he talked about love, it was the sweetest and yet still a realistic look on love
It's amazing to see the huge change in Lily's mood from her first session 2 months ago!
28:48 that's my problem right there. I live for things that last. I get anxious about things that don't last, and especially angry when things get changed for the worse and for no reason. The only things that last is my local music collection, and losing that would be the end.
You said you happy when she change, she freaking transform madoka magica style from "the Lily" that frustrate over any missing Lux bind to magical girl that easily winning 5 times in a row and winning Twitch Rival like it's nothing at all. You change her to be the better person and basically change her from the clumsy lily to Magical Girl Lily. ❤️🦄✨
Simp nation spotted 😂
@@antlerman7644 9th grader spotted 😂🤣
@@Photik another Simp spotted🤣🤣
@@aalldldakekjs8981 People like you who throws the word "simp" around as an attempt to insult someone is typically a virgin and probably an incel. If possible, go outside and make some friends, interact with people, etc - since you're a pathetic gremlin, sitting around spreading hate - who has a name that can summon an Egyptian Sun God. Thanks.
@@michaelaquino2704 simp
Idk how I see no comment about this after so long, but it is something beautiful that it went from 2.5h video as lily "needed" that much space to about 1.5h video when halfway through there are like "what we gonna talk about" cause she is in much better place mentally. It was really nice to watch them both back to back while i needed to watch something emotional, it filled me with hope afterall.
Every minute of this is happiness
I love that Dr. K is doing this for gamers and streamers alike. I have gone through similar types of therapy and it has significantly helped me. To see the people I look up to getting the same kind of help warms my heart.
lily: oh sorry my microphone is covering my face
also lily: *covers her face when shying*
jk i love that you're happy now lily
Is "shying" a verb?
@@wowandrss yes but i didn't use it properly, just couldn't really be bothered to rephrase it
in youtube comments we do not verb
Verb? What’s a verb?
I loooove seeing lilly shine like that. I saw her light from the last session with Dr. K and I'm happy that she sees it more
i come back to this once in a blue moon just to make me happy.
that's why I'm here too! from 33:24-35:12 is an instant serotonin boost. my heart absolutely melts every time.
@@veravye yeaaa that part is soo cute! this video is honestly a blessing.
"How to be happy?"
"Find your soulmate"
ggez
Yeah so easy lol...
Ez like just get a soulmate lmao
😂
Find a soulmate
Yeah, im inting for sure
Get a job first idiot