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  • @thedavidboland
    @thedavidboland  2 месяца назад +10

    thanks for stopping by friends. be sure to check out the music etc in the description if you're curious of what else I'm working on! here is a free meditation for confidence/empowerment in the meantime: winning-writer-8322.ck.page/26454c7a9b

    • @user-ow1sq4by3r
      @user-ow1sq4by3r Месяц назад

      Tu eres naturaleza no humano eres tú real vida tu está conectado al alma libre. Soy gitano del angel medium tarot cartas y las manos es magia Heka de dios y los angeles

    • @user-ow1sq4by3r
      @user-ow1sq4by3r Месяц назад

      My live free free is work free My sexo free is real day free is love free is pain free is My My soul is free good live nada es nada y muerte es nada y vida es nada y lo espiritual es camino luz es sobrevivir.

  • @christianthomsen7046
    @christianthomsen7046 Месяц назад +17

    You are rich when you are content and happy with what you have.

  • @klinkske
    @klinkske Месяц назад +8

    I made a song. I did put all my soul into it. It made me cry. Some people did listen to it. I got a bit feedback. Not much at all. Maybe 30 plays? I got a phonecall. A guy i know was crying on the phone and told me he and his wife did listen to it for 3 times. It really went to,the feels for them. I almost cried when i heard that emotional phonecall. I love to,quote Moby. ‘Make music for your friends’ - works for me. And even if not one song will get 500 plays, i ll keep doing it. For me and my friends.

  • @bhangg_high
    @bhangg_high 2 месяца назад +7

    ALL TRUE! I need to focus on the positive and what I am doing. Not the noise. PS> don't stop creating!!!

  • @dafne_rdz
    @dafne_rdz 2 месяца назад +13

    thanks man, I completely resonate with this. I've been unemployed for half a year now, but either way I'm having a routine, trying to study things that interest me to prepare for interviews and I'm actually learning a lot of things I wasn't able to understand while I was actually working, but when my friends ask me how is my job search going I feel uncomfortable because I haven't landed a job yet and for some reason I feel the need to feel 'bad' about it, but deep down I know I'm investing in myself and doing efforts that usually people don't see valuable, but that shouldn't really have an impact on my state of mind ✨

    • @TrainerLiz1
      @TrainerLiz1 2 месяца назад +2

      Keep up the good work🙏

    • @dafne_rdz
      @dafne_rdz 2 месяца назад

      @@TrainerLiz1 thanks! 🙌♥️😊

    • @mick7922
      @mick7922 2 месяца назад +6

      Dont feel uncomfortable. We live in difficult times. Struggle is real for a lot of people. You will make it sooner or later. No doubt!! You have a great attitude!

    • @dafne_rdz
      @dafne_rdz 2 месяца назад

      @@mick7922 you're right 😊 thanks so much for the kind words! I appreciate it 🥹✨

    • @thedavidboland
      @thedavidboland  2 месяца назад +2

      nice one! thanks for sharing

  • @LindaMcification
    @LindaMcification 2 месяца назад +16

    The authenticity here is incredible. ❤ the critic within can sabotage many things and create setbacks. Its unconscious. Believe me, I know. The main solution to this, for me, is to just know that I'm good and affirm the confidence within. It's bulding boundaries whic is vital.
    You're so gifted

    • @thedavidboland
      @thedavidboland  2 месяца назад +4

      cheers for the lovely comment :)

    • @DeniseFriendo
      @DeniseFriendo Месяц назад

      The less you try and control, the more control you have.

  • @alexanderlarsen3569
    @alexanderlarsen3569 2 месяца назад +4

    The external and internal pressure associated with every decision in modern life is causing people to miss all of it. We seem to be living in a perpetual state of “one day” my life will be XYZ. All the while missing the moment we are in. Thanks for being real. A video like this is so refreshing. Keep it up David.

  • @GodiscomingBhappy
    @GodiscomingBhappy Месяц назад +6

    Youth and wisdom dont usually go hand in hand.... but sometimes they do and is beautiful to see. Just found your channel and loved it. Wish you all the success but most importantly contentment and peace of mind.

  • @GoWithDaFlowMo
    @GoWithDaFlowMo Месяц назад +2

    If only one person and even if that one person is only me and no one else loved something I created, I would still feel it was beautiful, cause it still got loved... I loved and liked this video, thank you for creating it..... ❤

  • @caseycappleman2671
    @caseycappleman2671 Месяц назад

    what a KICK-ASS dude!...the world needs more folks in it like this.

  • @HannahRiva
    @HannahRiva Месяц назад +3

    this was exactly what i needed to hear today, thank you.

  • @healingthroughart8
    @healingthroughart8 Месяц назад +2

    Hi
    I have stumbled across your videos and I can relate to it, thank you for you being you. I recently went through hell and came out alive. I am a lost artist that nobody notices haha

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou Месяц назад +1

      Artists are the future. 🌺

    • @healingthroughart8
      @healingthroughart8 Месяц назад

      @@LilyGazou
      Thank you for your kind comment :)

  • @MindGymMeditations
    @MindGymMeditations Месяц назад +1

    "You're not bad for not being where you want to be in your life" opened the flood gates I didn't know needed to be opened

  • @PieterJanNotebaart
    @PieterJanNotebaart Месяц назад +2

    Peace brother. I can relate.

  • @Biludyrst
    @Biludyrst 2 месяца назад +2

    This video comes to me at the exact time while sick and struggling with mental health thinking about my 'accomplishments' at work, music ...etc and yeah we could be nicer to ourselves.

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou Месяц назад

      Get outside more if you can. It helps me cope.

  • @yvonne5074
    @yvonne5074 Месяц назад +1

    It's so good to hear someone so authentic and real and understands

  • @spiritualoutdoors7759
    @spiritualoutdoors7759 Месяц назад +1

    True artists like yourself, don’t feel the oppression of the societies ego. Blessings to you my friend and keep spreading your expression

  • @charlesmuller120
    @charlesmuller120 2 месяца назад +1

    "The INEVITABLE SUCK". I really liked that! Your self reflections are very wise for a young man. Definitely an old soul...

  • @tofusamurai22
    @tofusamurai22 Месяц назад +2

    Wonderful, THANK YOU 😊

  • @throughmichaelslensphotogr2000
    @throughmichaelslensphotogr2000 Месяц назад

    I found this video and I needed to find it and that’s all that matters . The ones who need to find it .

  • @user-ow1sq4by3r
    @user-ow1sq4by3r Месяц назад +1

    You soul is free is new live natural not pain not cry is one love You live

  • @hbe1630
    @hbe1630 Месяц назад +2

    I love this, thank you 😍 Beautiful scenery btw ❤

  • @Cill441
    @Cill441 Месяц назад +1

    Feels good to be successful. How it looks to each of us is seen uniquely when it is ourselves it is most critical.
    Congratulations on this success. Welcome to bring human lol. 😊💛☕️☀️🌟

  • @easylifemyg
    @easylifemyg Месяц назад

    u showed up in my algo so congrats you are viral and you deserve it !!!

  • @angelcathairs
    @angelcathairs Месяц назад +1

    i just wanted to say awesome thumbnail! i laughed out loud by myself at a restaurant when i saw it

  • @jon4843
    @jon4843 Месяц назад +1

    Mostly just feel fear, doubt, anxiety, and stress. Get to the end of the work week exhausted. Just managed to feed myself usually. Spend all weekend getting my head on straight wading through addictions and breakdowns(practically have eaten my Rosary with spit and tears at this point) so I still go to work and then do it all again. What is long term health? What the heck is saving money? What is getting ahead? That glimmer of a thought between all the anxiety, worry, and breakdowns? Scramble to keep my clothes clean, not a trashed home. Just in a dream... Whatever man, I sometimes feel I may be losing my mind. I just want to feel normal. I doubt I'm the only one in this state. Maybe I'll just look at the clouds.
    F external validation. Make good food, make fun videos, sit on a table around a bunch of flowers. That's enough.probably. Life is all about the hope, the discovery, the following your heart wherever it chooses to go. That's what I think Alan Watts said anyway. Idk. But F the views man. Mainstream Western culture has its head so far up it's own but with productivity over well-being that it's an eyesore at this point.

  • @Waltyworld
    @Waltyworld Месяц назад +1

    Thank you

  • @SaffyKaze
    @SaffyKaze Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for helping my mental clarity, it's been a rough lesson I've been trying to learn for awhile. 🌻🙌🕯️🗝️💥🦋✨❤

  • @user-ow1sq4by3r
    @user-ow1sq4by3r Месяц назад

    You is soul is real love natural roses ❤ soul god is energy You soul one live

  • @HikingHalfdead
    @HikingHalfdead Месяц назад +1

    What is success but a mental construct.

    • @deanodog3667
      @deanodog3667 Месяц назад +1

      Yeah having a roof over your head and food on the table is an illusion!

  • @JackieKay11
    @JackieKay11 Месяц назад

    Just found you a few days ago and love the way you think ☺️A fellow introvert I feel plus I have part Irish blood so connecting with on a few levels 😊 Keep on sharing your wisdom; it’s awesome 👏

  • @NerfandStuff1243
    @NerfandStuff1243 2 месяца назад +1

    Your an angel thank you for existing

  • @zosiae
    @zosiae Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for this x

  • @RetireandGo
    @RetireandGo Месяц назад

    Thumbnails ... you are doing them right haha 🙂 nice video thank you

  • @user-ow1sq4by3r
    @user-ow1sq4by3r Месяц назад

    Master soul real king live is one

  • @paulbolton2322
    @paulbolton2322 2 месяца назад

    Get on 👍, it's that Pete Walker (inner critic thing) another gem within reality ❤️🎯💎🙌

  • @user-ow1sq4by3r
    @user-ow1sq4by3r Месяц назад

    Place is one live

  • @mick7922
    @mick7922 2 месяца назад

    Really good video, David. Its hard to shut down expectations regarding external success.
    Nevertheless, just go in competition with yourself and keep producing (songs). The quality is there for sure.
    Its going to be interesting to see... Good luck💪🏻

  • @user-ow1sq4by3r
    @user-ow1sq4by3r Месяц назад

    Good vídeo 😊

    • @user-ow1sq4by3r
      @user-ow1sq4by3r Месяц назад

      La vida sobrevivir es nada nace vida y muerte y fin nada es como un bebe nace sin nada es alma es universo estrella y sexo es nada fantacia y enfermedad es naturaleza es viento el agua la tierra y fuego es una estrella vida es magia de luz sol es energía es vivir en paz mental en la real nada.

  • @user-ow1sq4by3r
    @user-ow1sq4by3r Месяц назад

    hippie is love is be new work live
    ..

  • @Ryuma222
    @Ryuma222 Месяц назад

    100 people is alot if your all in a room with them

  • @ninatomazin4796
    @ninatomazin4796 Месяц назад

    👌👌👌

  • @ilusiondelyo
    @ilusiondelyo Месяц назад

    ✨🖤✨

  • @unkolawdio
    @unkolawdio Месяц назад

    Ok

  • @LilyGazou
    @LilyGazou Месяц назад

    This must be the other David Boland.

  • @vladimoora
    @vladimoora 2 месяца назад

    🤍

  • @Sketchupdave
    @Sketchupdave Месяц назад

    This bothers me because your hair is messy
    🤣

  • @DavidBoland
    @DavidBoland Месяц назад +1

    you're so cool