My goodness, this is psychology as literature. Thank you, Alan. The words you use, the images you use ... so emotive, so literary. For my right brian, this resonates. Thank you for your truth telling, for your unstinting support for all of us who are working hard to become securely attached.
I appreciate the kind comment. Thank you for sharing my work really resonates and brings you value. Please take the RUclips link and post it elsewhere such as other social media sites. It really helps me spread the word about these topics. Thanks for your help and I appreciate the feedback.
I appreciate the warm welcome and kind words. Thank you for valuing my effort. I'm glad it brings benefit. Please share this video by posting it on other social sites. It's really helpful to spread the word on topics like this. Thanks for your help.
Thank you for sharing your strength, hope and clarity with us all, Alan. I look forward to seeing, hearing and knowing what you have to offer in upcoming messages. I'm especially curious to learn more about what self differentiation looks like in relationships with a history of attachment injury and present family of origin enmeshment. That said, you are treasured and a treasure of a human being. Thank you helping me to feel part of a healing tribe. Much love to you brother 💜
Wow good stuff. I'm that angry hurt dog hiding in the corner, that wants to be petted and play fetch but I been hit w the stick and left in cold for so long....
I still don’t understand. Should those people stay together or they should break up? If a relationship going through all of that, is it good that they still choose each other? (yet I’m jealous of that dynamic, cause at least they have each other.) I’m more confused after watching this.
Don't limit yourself to black and white, either-or thinking. It's about process and participating in the process. There is no definitive answer where someone can tell you what to do. You arrive at that understanding for yourself. We empower ourselves to be able to make these types of decisions and must stop looking to others to tell us what to do. Good luck as you find your clarity when entering the process.
Thanks for responding. Unfortunately I have not met anyone who wants to experience life with that fundamental curiosity, sitting with pain, challenges, and not so good feelings. I feel like I’m the only one out here. I observed a lot of people and they are ok with not doing the work. I used to try to get the men I was in relationships with to do the work. Like you said in your other videos, I can’t try to point out the things I think they need to work on, so I stopped. Now all I see are guys who just don’t want to. It’s hard finding someone who listens to videos like this and reflect and work on themselves.
Alan, watching your video makes me feel seen, heard and understood. Thank you for the work you do for humanity 🙏
Glad to hear this video connected for you. Thank you for valuing my effort.
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My goodness, this is psychology as literature. Thank you, Alan. The words you use, the images you use ... so emotive, so literary. For my right brian, this resonates. Thank you for your truth telling, for your unstinting support for all of us who are working hard to become securely attached.
I appreciate the kind comment. Thank you for sharing my work really resonates and brings you value.
Please take the RUclips link and post it elsewhere such as other social media sites. It really helps me spread the word about these topics. Thanks for your help and I appreciate the feedback.
Alan great to see you back sharing your knowledge you are the gift that keeps giving 🌀
I appreciate the warm welcome and kind words. Thank you for valuing my effort. I'm glad it brings benefit.
Please share this video by posting it on other social sites. It's really helpful to spread the word on topics like this. Thanks for your help.
Hi Alan, good to see you making videos again, hope you are doing well.
Thank you.
Happy to see you back. Great video!
Thank you for the warm welcome. Glad you like this video.
Nice to see you making videos again ❤️❤️
Thank you.
Thank you so very much for your vulnerability. Not only do I feel that you are in my heart, I feel closer to my partner through you.
I appreciate the comment. Thank you for valuing my effort.
Thank you, I'm so grateful I found your channel 🙏
You’re welcome. Glad the videos are helpful. You may also like to take the relationship quiz. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2?r_done=1
This was so timely and appreciated. Thank you for sharing your expertise
I appreciate the comment. Glad my work brings benefit.
Simply thank you. Your videos changed my life for the better.
Thank you for sharing your strength, hope and clarity with us all, Alan. I look forward to seeing, hearing and knowing what you have to offer in upcoming messages. I'm especially curious to learn more about what self differentiation looks like in relationships with a history of attachment injury and present family of origin enmeshment.
That said, you are treasured and a treasure of a human being. Thank you helping me to feel part of a healing tribe. Much love to you brother 💜
I appreciate the kind words. Glad to hear you connected with this content. Thank you for valuing my effort.
Thank you for this
Great as usual. Engagement post! More detailed love later. 👋
Glad you liked it, thank you for the kind words. I look forward to the more detailed comment.
THANK you so much Alan. Your video is amazing,I always watch them and learn so much
Thank you for the kind words. Glad my work brings you benefit.
Wow good stuff. I'm that angry hurt dog hiding in the corner, that wants to be petted and play fetch but I been hit w the stick and left in cold for so long....
Ur the man
Thanks.
Ozempic?
I still don’t understand. Should those people stay together or they should break up? If a relationship going through all of that, is it good that they still choose each other? (yet I’m jealous of that dynamic, cause at least they have each other.) I’m more confused after watching this.
Don't limit yourself to black and white, either-or thinking. It's about process and participating in the process. There is no definitive answer where someone can tell you what to do. You arrive at that understanding for yourself. We empower ourselves to be able to make these types of decisions and must stop looking to others to tell us what to do. Good luck as you find your clarity when entering the process.
Thanks for responding.
Unfortunately I have not met anyone who wants to experience life with that fundamental curiosity, sitting with pain, challenges, and not so good feelings. I feel like I’m the only one out here. I observed a lot of people and they are ok with not doing the work. I used to try to get the men I was in relationships with to do the work. Like you said in your other videos, I can’t try to point out the things I think they need to work on, so I stopped. Now all I see are guys who just don’t want to. It’s hard finding someone who listens to videos like this and reflect and work on themselves.