our first trip in our vintage truck camper (we had to leave)
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- This week I took my first trip up north in my new (to me) vintage truck camper. But, what seemed like a successful first trip turned scary and we had to leave before night fell.
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Would you have stayed?
No
Next time that happen take a pic of the truck and lp and send to a friend if possible
No - you did the right thing. I was hoping you would leave while I was watching him talk to you. Trust your intuition.
I would have left or put my gun right by my chair. Which I normally do anyways. It’s a pretty good deterrent,
No, good call!
I personally think you were smart to leave. Even though he may have meant no harm there is always that "what if". I am a 63 year old man who also has a truck camper and even though I wouldn't hurt a fly I always wait for others to approach me. I never invade others space. And I I never show all my cards. You did the right thing.
Exactly
I am a 67 year old woman and I would NEVER, EVER drive into another person's site ... maybe if I was hurt and needed help ... but still more likely to stop outside the site and yell for help. I think your instincts/intuition were appropriate. I do get that the aftermath would be disconcerting: combination of adrenalin, disappointment, anxiety and ??? Bob Wells (CheapRVLiving) recently posted a video on Intuition. He cites that there is scientific backup for how all of our senses and brain and entire body receive input and give us messages as well as what I call that "little voice" that gives direction as well as the "fight or flight" response.
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Definitely the right choice. His intention may well have been good but as a male I would definitely know that approaching a woman who is travelling alone is a weird thing to do and would definitely make her feel uncomfortable. I would definitely steer clear unless I was asked for help.
I absolutely agree. Leave with haste. Every time I see one of our vanlife family (especially women) out minding their business, and a man comes along and starts looking for his dog. Time to leave. Reminds me of, "The Hills Have Eyes" movie. Hillbilly territory.
Put out a second chair and periodically add a hat, jacket, travel cup, or blanket to it as if your travel partner is just inside sleeping off a migraine.
Agree. "My 'husband' is out hunting with our 2nd dog. He's doing a 2 day hunt so I expect him back soon. We have GPS & Walkie talkies...& he has a rifle. "
Stay safe. Be glad he showed himself and didn't just show up in the middle of the night.
Exactly. The dog would have alerted her.
If you for some reason decide to get another dog friend for Tara, get a German Shepherd. They are super sweet dogs (always some exceptions), playful, smart, and protective. They intimidate a lot of people just by their presence.
You were smart to follow your instincts. If the dude was deer hunting, dusk should have been the time he was on his feet, not in his truck.
Always trust your gut feeling, NO MATTER how insignificant it is. Better safe than sorry! Beautiful scenery! Better days ahead!
This looks so identical to Jonathan's vide from earlier today! Cold out there!
Felt like stalkers, right?!? So smart that you moved on.
Sending you Light and Love
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Got to stay safe. He’s probably been watching your site for as long as you’ve been there. That’s good that you left your site, that guy seemed like a creep. The fact that he said he was looking for deer which means he had a loaded weapon in his truck.
You never go wrong by reducing risk. I'm an older guy too, like some others have commented I'd never just roll into someones camp like that. I mean its just rude at best. Not that there cannot be good reasons, but he didn't give any good reason. Even in my years in Wilderness SAR when I needed to approach a camp to ask if the campers had seen a missing person, I'd announce myself at a little distance first. It's just a simple matter of politeness and respecting people's need for a bit of space around them.
Hi..u made the right choice by leaving that spot. The interaction was weird and I immediately thought yeah I’d leave too. That was a beautiful spot no worries ,U will have more of those now that u can get into the back country with that truck. Safety first the fact that he came by 3x he noticed u. He blocked you in your camp spot. I’m so glad u moved. Your video was great. People that comment about being positive all the time ,that isn’t real,we all have ups and downs. It’s life and you are sharing part of your world with us so ty appreciate you and Terra 🌻✌️
You're doing great girly! Always go with your gut instinct, your intuition! Always think smart! I'm so happy you left.
Happy Safe Travels,
Holly🙏💕
My freakout meter would have been on high.You did the right thing.If your gut tells you to leave then leave.I love your truck and camper.
I definitely would have left. My grandma always said "don't be afraid, be aware". Good job trusting your gut! Stay safe!
So good to see you and Tara enjoying your new home. Sorry that you had to move, but it was obviously a good decision. Keeping and feeling safe is so important! 💕
I totally agree with what you said about any grown man that is well-intentioned would not be likely to pull up to a solo female's camp right before dark. He may have just been friendly and "checking in" of course, but it would have set off my spidey sense too, and I'd be out!
Good call, Alex. Always trust your instincts.
You did the right thing Alex. From the second he drove up I was uneasy and personally I would have been scared in that situation. This is the main reason I'm so afraid to go out alone without my husband or a friend. I think whenever a situation like that happens, which I hope it never happens again to you, I'd get their faces on video if you can. You just never know. The world we live in now is just crazy and so unpredictable and quite honestly so are a lot of the people. I wish it wasn't that way because there are so many things that I want to do and I'm scared to do because I would need to do them by myself. I can work remotely but unfortunately my husband can't and only gets so much time for vacation per year. I love your videos and your attitude with life and everything you experience. I do have to say that when I am out I do carry a weapon. I have a concealed carry in the state that I live and it is recognized in certain States. For those states that it's not I know there is a federal law that somewhat protects you. In my eyes I'd rather be safe and feel safe and if the event ever arises I would need to use that to protect myself I would rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Just my opinion but I think it's awful we just can't respect each other's privacy and space. You 100% did the right thing. I hope you're feeling better and those feelings have gone away and you are enjoying yourself again! Stay safe girl!
There is an organization, USConcealed Carry Association that offers training on how to safely and legally handle possible armed situations. They might offer you some peace of mind, and better odds if you are "judged by twelve". Might also improve the odds of the big scary guy with the beard (me) not being "carried by six".
Always believe in your instincts.... they will save you. Good girl. Keep on truck'n!!!
VERY proud of you for trusting your gut! That was freaking weird and I'd be freaked out, too! Thanks for sharing this. It was just so not okay and creepy. Agreed about privacy. Glad you had the ability to get out safely!
You did the right thing. Pay attention to your intuition. Glad you are safe now. Love your videos. thanks
Extremely wise of you to move to a different area. You are not the only woman who has had this happen. It’s creepy and scary. Always listen to your gut instinct. Huge hugs!!
Sorry that happened, I think it was a smart decision on your end. Also appreciate that you talked more on the subject on trusting your gut!
Smart to listen to your intuition! Also the scenery was beautiful! Thanks for taking us along.
I was so glad to see you moved sights once that guy came in your sight. That was creepy and he should never have done that to you. Trusting your gut is the best way to go. Good for you.
I am a 71 year old female who wishes she could go and do what you do. You will never regret it. You are awesome.
Love Tara she is a great dog. Good luck with you rebuild and stay safe.
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Better safe than sorry. Glad you moved.
You totally did the right thing by trusting your gut feelings. I was getting really worried about you and thinking you should leave and you did. Good head on your shoulders. Thanks for sharing and best wishes on your journeys to come. 😀
Good for you, Alex, to trust your instincts 🙌🏼. I agree it was both unfortunate and a smart move. As another solo woman camper, I have and would have done the same thing. Thank you for sharing and good luck with the start of your new build!
I completely agree with you. I prefer not to have anyone approach me let alone multiple times. You're right to follow your gut intuition and get the heck outta there.
Take care as usual…it’s always good to follow you’re instinct!Stay safe!
I work alone in the woods. It can be unnerving when people come into my camp. I am more worried about theft than personal safety . Been robbed multiple times
It really sucks you have to worry about things like that.
If I did see someone camped near me I might stop in just to let them know I am nearby, so hopefully he was just trying to be neighbourly.
All the best .
One thing another solo female RUclipsr does for safety is put out two camp chairs. Glad you’re safe.
Very wise move Alex. Always go with your instincts.
Wow, Alex. What a way to start your first trip in the new rig. I'm so glad you decided to move on and was glad your instinct/intuition told you something was off. I would have been very disappointed if you took a gamble and stayed. I mentioned in a previous comment how I'm concerned about your safety while you're travelling. I'm not going to be that worried anymore because your creep alarm is working just fine. Happy Halloween to you and Tara! 😊 🦮 🎃
When you get that vibe.....trust it. And go.
Continued safe travels.
I'm so glad you left. I was worried. You had him on camera is what I was thinking. Safety first. Be careful. Always trust your gut. Love your videos. Stay safe.
Good call to leave Alex....my heart sank as he was talking to you on video. You are smart, resilient, flexible, and already self sufficient with your buildouts....so I think survival skills will come naturally for you...and may lead you in a different direction. I keep cozy in my Jeep with a power station and electric blanket. You can get 12v or plugin. You and Tara rock! Stay warm and safe....you've got this!
Sadly these guys know exactly what they are doing. They like to play. Glad you left. Can't wait to see how you put the rig together.
I’m glad you ended video stating you felt the need to move….. it’s a learning experience we all should take heed of.
Thank God you're ok!!! Personally, I would never get so close to the truck ..and I would immediately take the dog off chain and hold next to me as we talked. Gotta give the impression that you're ready!!! If he's up to no good, he'll think twice, if he's a good guy, he'll totally understand!!! Stay safe 🙏 :)
Pretty ingenious .. your kettle on the pan to prevent the kettle from turning black because of wood fire ..
Way to listen to your intuition! ❤❤ always go with your gut.
I even felt that he was shady.
Much love ❤️
It is always better to be safe than sorry. You did the right thing.
He looks like he spotted the camera when he pulled up. He gave me creeper vibes . You made the right decision. You handled yourself well too calm and collected. Also he should know the plural for a deer is deer not deers if he likes them so much. That alone is suspicious. Stay safe Alex!
Although I think most have good intentions when checking in, there’s always that “one” out there somewhere. I’m an older single guy that probably would of packed up and moved as well.
ALWAYS trust your gut!! Even if you had stayed you would've not gotten much sleep..We unfortunately live in a world where you have to second guess peoples intensions and worry about all possibilities.. better to be safe than sorry..Safe Travels!!
I think you did the right thing thought it was a huge bummer. I wish people could just leave others be!
I think you did the right thing by leaving (better to be safe than sorry) take care don't let nothing happen to that beautiful smile
Thank you for setting that example of being smart and moving when your mind was telling you to do that. I hope not only women but men follow that example.
You made the right call. I keep hearing in other RUclips videos about trusting your instincts. Of course, since you moved you are left with wondering if something might have happened if you stayed. You'll never know the answer. But you do know that you stayed safe by moving. That's all that matters. Cheers.
thanks for the maiden voyage and beautiful scenery. sorry you had to cut your stay short but applaud you for the very good choice
Aloha Miss Alex! Trust your gut feeling. You did the right thing by leaving .... there's a lot of crazies out there so yes you always trust you instincts. Weird that he would invade your space. Be safe and God bless you and your fury baby 🤗🙋♀️❤️
Fortunately, I feel you made the right decision for you & Tara. Good thoughts!
My spidey senses were prickling so I think you did the right thing to leave, and also put a bit of distance between you and him now that your vehicle is more distinctive.
I've heard about your channel, we are RV'ers as well. Glad to come across your videos! Subscribed! (and yes.. as a Dad you did the right thing moving on).
The good thing about cold weather, is that you can bring more foods that need refrigeration.
you did exact the right thing to leave this place. I can tell you that i. my past I had just this (negative) experience. I was crossing the Sahara and I fortunately legt my spot for overnight when such a guy came to ask me some stupid questions. I changed for a few miles my spot. In the middle of the night I saw headlights lightning my first spot. This saved my life. They wanted to steal my truck.....
Good luck for all your future trips in your nice TC. Cheers from Germany, Felix
I think you did the right thing, be smart, be safe. Thanks for sharing your experience, it can help others! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for safe travels.
Smart girl and great decision. Always safety first!
I can definitely understand your frustration. Someone imposing themselves in your life when you are just doing what you love. I think you did the wise thing. Move on and enjoy tomorrow.
Wow that breakfast looks so good I could almost smell it 😁 beautiful scenery be safe happy trails
No it was time to leave, better safe than sorry. Really enjoy your videos, stay safe
Embracing solitude requires a special bond with loneliness, not being alone. Becoming a hermit on the other hand is pretty much a dream, a small cabin in the woods, maybe four Mastiffs and a gun... Yeah! Anytime. And to get to know the outside world once in a while. Where do I sign in? In Spanish we have a saying: " Don't search for the cat's fifth leg". Good call for leaving. Stay safe and well. ¡¡Pura Vida!!.... And those frozen patterns on the truck..... Uffff!!!
What a beautiful spot and I’m so glad you are safe!❤
Very smart in leaving. Better safe than sorry.
Campfire cooking with cast iron is good skill to learn an very useful.
Oh yeah I follow Jonathan and I noticed you guys both got Bigfoot camper's can't wait to see what you do with it
Him and I used to go right into the mountains sometimes and not on a cut line we always went right into the mountains with the truck and trailer always love doing that
SOUNDS LIKE LISTENING TO YOURSELF MAKES SENSE TO THIS OLD MAN. (CHIC'S RULE) ALWAYS STAY ON THE SAFE SIDE. LOT OF US LUV UR VIDS.
Just those nice sound effects from 2:40 to 4:30 make me want to do this!
You should always get the license plates of vehicles without being conspicuous. I'm glad you did the safe thing and left.
He gave me the creeps, too, so I'm very glad you left. It's ALWAYS best to follow your intuition.
Great Camp site 🐕❤️ Great instinct
You were right to leave. I was solo camping in a state campground with others around but farther away from me when someone stopped to ask why I had a name tag on my site but he didn't and he was staying for like a week. I asked where he was staying in the campground, he told me but when I drove down to get water from the natural spring, he was indeed not there camping. I left a day early because I felt sick and uncomfortable. You did the right thing. You just never know.
When that guy was talking to you I heard banjos. So I am glad you left - I would have too. Stay safe!!!! Great video!
You need to install a Chy Knees diesel heater. I thought part of being Nomadic was South for the winter, North for the Summer? For sure, learning outdoor extreme condition survival skills and self sufficientcy with the bare basics is always great skills to have.
In my country (Venezuela) we had funche, which is our version of Polenta. You made my memory fly. That was something my grandmother and her kids used to eat long before me. I found out about funche by mistake when as a young boy, running a short, I bought the wrong corn flour. No Arepas that night, we ate funche with white venezuelan cheese. I'm enjoying you journey. Thanks.
I have two daughters. I would be disappointed if they didn't make the decision you made. And this is just one of many, many decisions you'll make. No need to feel disappointed. In fact you should feel good about being smart about it. Thnx for the experiences.
Really enjoy watching your videos Alex. New Zealand is a world away from Idaho (obviously) and maybe a little safer most of the time. But you super did the right thing I think.
Best wishes for your build, your December postings n all. 🙂😁😊
May the lord protect you and keep you safe. ✝️
You made the right decision. Stay safe and thanks for sharing.
I feel like if he did mean harm … thankfully he did invade your space.
Because if he just “watched” you without dropping in in you and then came to you in the middle of the night then there would have been no warning.
I feel like for your safety his invading your space maybe is saving your life or saving you from future trauma.
This is just my opinion and I’m glad you moved and followed your instinct.
You did the right thing. Better be safe than sorry.
I am glad you have good instincts and followed your gut. Best to be safe. You probably would not have been able to sleep if you had stayed there.
Better safe than sorry. Good call you made the right decision.
You know I think you're very lucky to be able to do that when I was a kid I used to love going camping with Mom and Dad we started out in the tent then we started into a camp trailer and then we went into a holiday trailer and then when Dad and Mom got sick we never went camping again
You did right by leaving. Same thing happened to another solo female. Always trust your instincts!
Wow. You really are a smart young woman who is always right in trusting your instincts. Bummer it had to go that way, but good on you. He could have wanted a closer look at you to size you up so to speak. You have a beautiful, innocent and vulnerable look about you, but you would be a big surprise if anyone tried to mess with you. I said a prayer for your safety. I hope you find something delightful in your next place of rest. God bless. ❤️
I’m glad you trusted your instincts on moving. When in doubt, go with the safest option. 🇦🇺
7 years full time here preferring way off grid traveling and living. Respect the vibe. You did good. Don't let it spoil your journey. ❤ Even men, per a solo fellow that I know, have had issues with fear of being robbed, etc. in the same situation. Yes, not being able to be your trusting self is so sad but so true.
G'day mate mornings Andrew I'm from Tasmania sorry to hear what happened to you they will be very scary on that way that happened and don't be ashamed of that is a dangerous thing and he needs help he needs to get help and you just need to just take just forget about it and just have a real good time in your little camper your built-in you've done a really really good I'm happy to watch all your videos so you have a good Andrew Tasmania Australia
I am so glad that you left that campsite. I was getting anxious listening to his conversation with you. My first instinct was to get out of there as soon as possible. He may have been sizing up your situation to see how easy or difficult a prey you might be and also checking out how your dog might react to him. It really just gave me the creeps. Always, always trust your instincts. Another thing to be careful of is how close you were to his truck while you were talking to him. You want to keep as far back as you can. Getting too close gives him the opportunity to grab you and pull you into his vehicle.
Absolutely, you were right to move. You need to follow your gut, particularly where your personal safety is concerned. The cynic in me says this stranger rolled up to you to ascertain if you were alone or had someone else with you. I live in this part of Idaho and we are friendly and neighborly. Unfortunately, these days, you just never know anymore. My best advice to you, young lady, is to arm yourself. Concealed Weapons Permits (CWP's) are really easy to obtain here in Idaho, and you shouldn't have any problem getting one here. The best part is, MOST states that surround us have reciprocity in recognizing an Idaho CWP. You'll sleep a lot better at night, as you well should. Good luck, and be safe out there! Oh, and you have a great channel!
FYI, i know they do have a bigger mr. buddy heater, with more btu's!
Don't blame you for leaving. Some people are creepy. I've been all over the world, 99% are good, but the 1% make you have to watch your back.
I just came upon your site. I think you made the right move. Follow your instincts. It will never let you down. Stay safe and yes; I have subscribed. :)
Smart Girl I would have done the same way, never trust anyone, I hope you’re alright Alex take care and GodBless ❤️
It’s better to be safe than sorry. Be safe ❤
All we really have is our gut feeling and you was right to follow it. I would of left too
He had to have been watching you for awhile, he mentioned that he saw you a few times, so he knew you were alone. Go with your gut feeling and never get to close to their vehicle or let them get to close to you. If you can take a pic of the vehicle and license plate as they’re driving up. Also you kept recording, wish you were able to get a better pic of him. This is the second video I’ve watched in a couple of weeks where these men drive up alone and say they’ve been watching you and try to make small talk. I think you made the right choice and listened to your gut instinct.
Smart move by moving locations. No telling what that guy would have done. One thing you always do is trust your gut feelings.