@@mastermagus1114 tell it to the jobbi how or why,gets old after the 2nd or 3rd go round, legit shit rarely ever has some need to start thinking about what story this time TIM?ahah lol
So if you pull them up on it... will they cry like a baby? Next time have a 'baby high chair' ready in the meeting room for them as a joke just to lighten the mood but send a clear message that they will be treated accordingly to their level of punctuality good or bad.
So why is it important to be on time: 1. Basic respect for other people's time 2. Operational readiness 3. Being prepared 4. Showing reliability and professionalism The one who is waiting on the battlefield will be victorious.
@@kiliandervaux6675you think our soldiers during Desert Storm were waiting at home for the war to start? They took the battle to them. That means they were first on the field of battle.
ReInvented562Cali My dad hasn’t served in the armed forces. He’s the sheriff of our county. My grandpa was in the Air Force tho. He retired like a year before I was born.
@@snap-off5383 if nobody is waiting on you, then you are not needed. If you are not needed (by your boss, your friends, your family) then you are a nobody
@@tyronebiggums1047 Late is relative since I work in a field my physical presence is not needed, and with technology I can be anywhere instantly, so I'm instantly available 24/7/365. My presence isn't needed, just my intelligence.
@@RaccoonNation the way he describes it, makes it sound like he never got a single solitary second of sleep through out his 20 years. Especially when he said "Even when we woke up really early, even if I were t boned, I could file the insurance paperwork, and rent a cab and still be an hour early" So he woke up, did some PT, shit, showered, and shaved well before the ass crack of o dark thirty, went on his duty day, and did it again the next day.
The question was haphazard. It should opened to, would you want someone who showed up 15 minutes early and did mediocre or arrive as the buzzer started but outworked everyone around them? Struggled with depression for years and getting out of bed in the morning is the hardest part of my day. No pill has ever fixed that. Arriving to work before 0700 now in the civilian world is a life and death struggle it seems. 0730, no bother at all. Some people’s clock just don’t adjust I guess, even after five years in the airborne infantry it’s been that way as long as I can remember unless I get 10+ hours of sleep.
If you were heavily motivated you wouldn't be 10 mins late, If you were heavily motivated you would get the earlier bus/train, you would set off earlier etc as you would be raring to go and get stuck in.
I had a coworker who was fired from three different jobs because he was always late. He wasn’t able to get on time due to his schizophrenia medication really slowed him down in the morning and we didn’t know this until we asked him what was going on. But we worked with him and now he arrives 5 min early to start the day. Just talking to your employees can make a big difference
Yeah that's rough, can't blame a guy with schizophrenia for being off. Lots of these rules about being decent sort of don't apply to people who have demons in their heads, or at the very least perceive that as their reality
*Time* It is arguably the most valuable asset that _everyone_ has. Don’t waste your time. Don’t let your time be wasted by others. Don’t waste anyone else’s time. There are few more open signs of disrespect and inconsiderateness.
@DarthYuYevon you schedule a meeting at 10am. if you don't start the meeting until 10:15, you have wasted 15 minutes of everyone's time. set the time the meeting starts, start the meeting at that time. people will learn to be early enough to not miss it. don't wait on anyone, even the boss.
I once had a GREAT employee who was late alot. I solved it. Here's how. I moved him to the 12 to 8pm shift, but I added an hour to that and scheduled him from 11 to 8pm. Everyday he came in about 11:35 to 11:45am. He was always so sorry he was late. It was years later that it came up and I told him about it, and that he was actually early everyday. We laughed our ass off. Fucking hilarious! 🤣
If this story was true, then he would be getting paid for a 9 hour shift and not an 8 hour shift... He would have figured it out on the first pay check that his actual times were 12-8 by the amount of hours he was paid for... yeh nice story.
@@KaesOner Yes, we all punched a time clock and regularly got paid the extra 15 to 25 +/- minutes. This was encouraged to have over lapping people available at shift changes.
@@KaesOner just read the end of your comment. (Weird) Yes, some of us don't need to make things up in our lives. The truth is stranger than fiction. This guy is still a good friend of mine, and although he no longer lives in my state we are still in touch.
Cotton Hill gotta tell her the appointment or party time is 30-60 min before it actually occurs. Til the day she gets ready on time and you arrive earlier than expected... then you’re in trouble for rushing her lol damned if you do, damned if you don’t
Advice I've heard that isn't passive aggressive and doesn't involve lying or throwing away your entire relationship for an issue that can be talked about is to just tell her you no longer want to be late to events because of her and that you'll start going on your own so you can be on time. You're being reasonable and she'll know you're being serious and will either get her shit together or show you that she really doesn't care and at that point, yeah, maybe consider ending the relationship
Punctuality is the single most obvious way to show one’s reliability. That and when it’s mentioned that time is the most invaluable commodity in our lives. Great talk here.
I've been out of the military for over 45 years and am still almost never late (unavoidable due to circumstance maybe once every three years or so). To me being on time is a question of integrity (doing what you say you're going to do) and also respecting of someone else's time. I've been known to waste my time, but never anyone else's. I'll get off my soapbox now - another worthwhile video. Gonna be like Jocko when I grow up!
I hate being late, was always late but learning to get better. Lifetime of abuse causes neural pathways of DISREGULATION - it's like suddenly wearing a snorkel mask, being in a bubble, with visual impairment and chaotic thoughts screaming in your head - your hands don't work properly, you can't use logic or think straight and your heart races thinking I'm going to be late BUT I've not done enough, don't look right, have forgotten something I or the children need... this from a lifetime of being treated like we are "less than a nothing" no matter how much we do or cope with its never enough. The dread of the tirade of abuse on arrival eventually infiltrates every appointment we leave for. Lambs to the slaughter is all we've known - physically shaking as I type. No contact from toxic abusers is the only way to begin healing. Nice for you that you were raised with punctuality, but lateness is a sign of abuse, compassion goes a long way🙏
Jocks is 100% right! Being late is disrespectful. There’s usually a deeper reason why people are late. Lack of self-belief, etc. I appreciate Echo Charles’s honesty and vulnerability in disclosing his lateness.
Jocko walking into a 9:00 AM meeting at 9:01 AM: I'm early guy at meeting: this meeting started 1 minute ago and you weren't invited Jocko: I'm 23 hours and 59 minutes early to the 9:00 AM meeting I scheduled for tomorrow in this room guy at meeting: forgive me Jocko
respect. organizational operability. preparedness. reliability and professionalism. even sun tzu writes he who is waiting on the battlefield will be victorious. excellent advice across all aspects of life.
"Everyone likes the comethru guy"- 100% dead on. I messed this up once when I was 19, never again. Learned my lesson and being the dependable rock has done so much for me.
I never sweat it when my crew is late, life happens. Id rather have them late then to get a ticket, accident or divorce and we get the job done safely. Learned a lot in the last 30 years being a manager. Worked in all conditions and environments with all sorts of people. It is all made up in the aggregate. Life isn't perfect, neither are you.
@SomeGuy you're intentionally missing the point. The majority of people at my job are constantly late, and they always have an excuse for it. Everybody props each other up with excuses of why it's okay, and it spills into other areas of performance though they don't realize it.
I was in the Navy four years, never late & a cop for 30 years, never late. Timeliness rules: On time is late, 15 minutes early is on time and if you’re late stay home. Someone who is always late is disrespectful to other people.
Great points regarding selfishness (lack of respect for others), reliability and dependability. Half the battle in business and life is showing up... on time and prepared. Thank you, gentlemen!
Lateness = responsibility/reliability = echo was responsible for the tomatoes and was encountering frustration and was ready to just quit his job and not be reliable... kinda saying whether it's lateness or tomatoes just be reliable.. not exactly related but it was useful and true
My dad always said - be on time (be early leave late) - things don't come to you, you have to go out and get it. - have respect for yourself and your work/job - be presentable - keep your word or stfu
i used to be a chronically late person. now, i'm rarely late. i'm still late sometimes, but those situations are things like train/plane delays, or accidents, or miscommunications. even those, i don't believe are acceptable and if i'm late due to something like that, and i didn't do anything to let people know before they had to commit time to me, then i'm the asshole. so how did i change? here's what i did to fix it: - i prioritized 'not being late' over 'what else could i be doing with my time'. the biggest reason i was late is because i was caught up in something and i didn't stop that thing early enough to make sure i was on time. why? because i didn't care enough about not being late, and i subconsciously, and selfishly, believed that my time doing whatever i was doing was more valuable than the time others would waste waiting for me. - i made it a point to notice when other people were late for meetings with me, and would analyze my own feelings about it. at first i thought i didn't really care, but then i realized that i don't like people wasting my time! surely, if i feel that way, then others do too. sometimes i even count the money i could be making if that person weren't late! - i aimed for 15 minutes early in everything, if i'm going to a place that i don't know, i aim for 30. getting lost is a real possibility and i need to account for that. getting into an accident, bad traffic, train/plane delays, all these things are real considerations that we have no control over but we can account for them. - i stopped relying on my own estimates of how long it would take to arrive some place. instead i google it, using tools like waze to estimate traffic flow. - i changed my work schedule so that it would be next to impossible to be late. i was supposed to work 9 to 5, and i decided it would be prudent for me to arrive at 7:15. - i wake up earlier. when i was commuting to work i would wake up at 0400. now i'm a freelancer so i wake up late (0600). some might ask about cultural considerations. some cultures take 'fashionably late' to an extreme (and you know who you are... i'm one of them too!) as a result, i have an unspoken agreement with some of my 'culturally late' friends and family (who are never late for work, by the way) that we would arrive 30 minutes after the set meeting time, and that if we got there early, we'd be the ones to let them know what to do and where to meet.
Perfect attendance for four years during an apprenticeship. I brought everyone coffee and newspapers in the morning so I had to be earliest. Always had work and money in my pocket up until I got sick probably from over working but hey when your in your twenties your unstoppable.
I'm like Echo. Being less than 10 min late everyday, I thought I was doing alright because I worked well once I got started. Really, it was immaturity.
Thing is, when people do see you as a reliable individual, if and whenever you are late, these same people will show the type of care and appreciation of not having you around, even get worried that something happened to you. Being on time and always showing up definitely builds team trust with its leader.
Jocko didn't get it, but Echo's rambling story reveals (maybe unconsciously) the real reason why people are habitually late. Echo was resentful that he was doing something for someone else that wasn't his job and wouldn't be appreciated. So he reclaimed his independence in a passive aggressive way. Instead of confronting his wife and telling her it wasn't his job to get the tomatoes, or instead of accepting that in fact it was his job to get them, he just got resentful of his role and so he chose to not do his job. This suggested to his wife in a passive aggressive way that she shouldn't put this burden on him, and it let him reclaim his independence and autonomy without being up front about it. Being late is the same: it comes when you want to assert that your needs are important but you don't want to state it directly. So you subtly let people know that you are important and there is a limit to what they can ask of you. You assert yourself by making them wait for you, so that now you are the important one. Instead of being responsible, setting clear boundaries, embracing conflict and being a stand up guy, you instead avoid conflict and say yes to everything & everyone; then you get resentful of that burden and end up asserting yourself by being late and making them wait for you and pay attention to you & your importance. It's messed up, but that's what happens. Being late is a passive aggressive behaviour and its underlying cause is avoidance of conflict and a failure to assert yourself in a normal & healthy way. It's not enough to say that it's unacceptable and it shows a lack of respect for others' time. The question is why do you want to disrespect others' time? Because you resent them. Why? Because you believe you are giving them too much. Why? Because you are not asserting your own needs.
Jocko, I love what you do and what you stand for, sir. This podcast has changed my outlook on life for the better and will continue to do so. Thank you for the inspiration. Additionally..... those SOG episodes are absolutely incredible! Listened to them all about 10 times each. And Roger Hayden is the man! Keep them coming : ) - Sam
Jocko’s answers to questions are like song titles for a post-grunge 90’s metal band. Singular, stand-alone words of the most intense format and meaning possible.
Jocko nails it again. I would always start meetings on time, even if my boss was late. First time he apologised and said, “right, let’s get going”. I replied, “we started 15 mins ago, this is where we are up to”. If you delay a meeting for a person who is late, it teaches those that are late that they can be even later. It also teaches those that are present they can come late. No! Meetings start on time.
Great Convo, I am Echo. I think people who are late really don't understand why being late is such an issue. I never made the connection until hearing Jocko's point. Thanks for this insight.
Me too man! every single week 2 or three times... If I add up every time I have to wait I would end up with at least 4 extra hours every month... never been paid for that. I need Jocko here to teach these !£"%*&(*@ a lesson.
My boss had to take his kids to school after our nightshift, so he had to leave on time everyday. Thing is he couldn't leave the store until another manager got there and they would be late almost everyday. They might show up in 10mins or 2 hours and would never call. Favoritism protected those guys.
I'm glad I watched this. I've watched for a few years and when this one came up I didn't even want to watch. I was late to work today but still out performed my colleagues. I hate it in my subordinates, I need to look at myself.
Disagree sir. I value my time more than you do i guess. Also, why would I give a shit about what my boss wants from me? I don't work to make other people happy lmfao. What a loaded crock of shit. Respect, why? Because they pay me? They pay me because I do a job for them. I show up to do the job an I go home. If they think my work isn't good enough then I'll get a different job, makes no fucking difference to me. This ain't communist China sir. I've actually found life to be more tolerant to people like me than suck-ups like you. No one is gonna thank you for showing up early. No one actually gives a shit. And if you think people give a shit about you being 1 minute late then you're also deluded. They're just trying to set an example, see the sort of shit they can get away with. Be a bit more selfish, JESUS. No one else is gonna be selfish for you.
Rifleman114 being an hour early is great if they respect the fact that just because you arrive early is for you and you are doing this to be ON TIME and NOT SO YOU CAN INCREASE YOUR HOURS and there for themselves
For as long as I remained an employee - trading time for income - then yes, that philosophy worked. As a business owner and investor, I learned the hard way how that type of mindset was often a huge hindrance to profitability and achievement.
Thank you for this. I will never never be late for anything ever again. I have have made a lot of changes in my life to be a better person because how can I be the beast I know I am if I don't live it in every way in my life. Thank you for the inspiration Jocko
What about a person who's always on time but is a lazy worker? Being late is unacceptable to some people because they only focus on that but not on more important stuff.
Seems like an obvious answer, fire lazy workers, fire workers who can't be bothered to show up on time, fire anyone who refuses to accept the bare minimum standards for the job
@@nightfighter7452 what he said... being lazy and not doing your job at all is putting yourself up for firing.. Being late but still useful is just a slight attitude and respect problem.. might still get u fired but yknow.. different game
This isn't a one or other thing. Being a lazy worker is also unacceptable and they should receive the same consequences. The point was lazy is not an excuse, even if they ARE a good employer.
Totally agree. I have grace for someone if there is an occasional mess up because of unforeseen circumstances, but if it is constant it gets on my nerves. I just had to deal with someone today that was close to 25 minutes late. I had some things to do so I told them just to go ahead of me. I have had this conversation with this person several times so today I had to take another step. Absolutely… When people are constant they are reliable. When they are not it is disrespectful to our time.
I was always early to work, but only my boss would be there and it would be awkward until everyone else showed up 5 minutes later. So, I started showing up at the same time as them until recently and now I'm actually later than they are. I decided just because they are behaving badly and not getting punished or corrected doesn't mean I should bring myself to their level or lower. Despite getting no punishment or correction either. Being early or on time is just the right thing to do
I am one of those people that are always late but a good worker. I agree 100% that it is something that nobody should do. I am working very hard to never be late to work again.
This is great material thank you! I really connect with what Echo Charles said. I have a problem with showing up late, when I arrive I do deliver great results though. It’s really good to have men just explain what you fellows have explained. Thank you. I think this is good to help me change. It’s a long term pattern for me of being a late. I want to change it badly
Tony Robbins needs to take this concept to heart. Tony is Always late or he just “phones in” with a video, so to speak. Impressive as usual Joko. Thank you
I find that, be it conscious or subconscious, people who are late simply don't value other people's time as much as they do their own. And it's obvious how this is detrimental to the workplace but think about what this says about your relationships. If your partner or your friend is consistently late, consistently making you wait, what does that say about how much they value your time? What does it say about how much they value you?
Punctuality is about self respect. You're never going to respect others until you can respect yourself. You make not like your life or those in it. You'll like the people you are early for. And they you. Don't let your surroundings stymie your success. Rise above to your destiny (and be early) to it.
This advice applies to everyone. There are people who are late because it feeds their ego of being important enough to work for. I have a 'friend" who I used to exchange reflexology with. We lived 1 1/2 hours away. When I traveled to her I made sure to leave extra time and I was on time by being early. When she traveled to me 9/10 times she was late, sometimes getting their 60 minutes late. She sometimes blamed the traffic, but it was disrespectful of my time for her to do that. I no longer accept this from anyone. Everyone in my life loves, honors and respects me, or they are not in my life. cheers.
I cook sometimes for groups. I do not buy things the morning/night of the cook I buy then the weekend before. I'd rather someone be late with the right item then on time or early with the wrong item. If I ask for 2 jalapenos and an anaheim and you come back with 3 bell peppers.....then that is worse than not going at all cause you spent time and money on something I will have to spend more time and more money to fix the mistake and that's when I can find the time to fix the mistake....do it right for sure
Part of being a “good performer” involves respecting the truth of your responsibility as an employee, which implies being on time. That’s part of the job.
It really depends on what you are doing. Time is an illusion, it's only important if other people also need to work with you, our you need to be there to respond to others. If your work is tasks to complete, as long as you get them done, a minute or two doesn't matter. Making it a hard rule is dumb with no reason.
If you are a good performer who doesn't show up / is reliably late then really you still have responsibility for what happens when you aren't there. If things fall apart in your absence it might seem like that this emphasizes your unique value but in reality it shows an area where you failed to follow through and missed achieving results. Reliability is often more important than performance because people can improve performance over time - if they are showing up - but if they aren't showing up to begin with it's very likely that they aren't very aware of at least some of their own performance problems and are thinking that because they are performing well in one specific way, they can ignore a bunch of other things that matter more than they realize. Awareness, results, and performance itself all are impacted by reliability.
That's all fine and you shouldn't be late. But construction bosses want you 10 mins early and and stay 15 minutes late. Then you never see that time on your check.
Jordan Peterson says: Speak up. But have options just in case the boss won't change. But if you're suffering, you have an obligation to seek your justice. You have to endure poison, however, you get to choose which: robbed time, speaking up or finding a better company. Some bosses suck, but not ALL suck...find a good one. The ones who don't speak up have nothing to do with your standards...
Sky bird yea man but me getting paid weekly is more important to me than getting 15 or 20 mins extra on my check if I’m late and lose my job then what all because I was mad about making 20 more minutes on my hours all excuses are lies I try my best to always be on time
I was raised by this code- to be early is to b on time + to b on time , is to be late, and being late is unacceptable . It's a simple truth; commitment preparedness is showing up it's buy in
Nice, i had a boss who would schedule a meeting for 30 minutes and shows op 45 minutes later. And i am the one who was disreseptfull. Thanks Jocko, sometimes you have to move on, something i should have done sooner.
That is one thing my six years in the Air Force ingrained in me, is respecting other people's time. Being late is unacceptable. If you're on time, you're late.
You know how you stop someone from coming in late? You tell them to stop disrespecting everyone elses time and then give consequences for when they're late. Usually a wage deduction works nicely.
At a previous job, my boss would deduct 1/2 hour for being 1 min late. He also gave an extra 1/2 day pay for every month of not missing a day and being on time. It worked rather well.
Very useful information. I think if more people were properly educated on the importance of being on time, there'd be less people who would be late in their adult lives. I live in El Paso, Texas. A few years ago we were supposed to get a Six Flags here. The reason we never got it was because our city representatives were always late to the meetings with the Six Flags representatives. Sucks, man.
My father taught to be on time is to be late., to be early is to be on time. He was a US Army Korean War veteran, and I put six years in the Navy and Lebanon. This is a winning combination. Use it all of your life it's worth it.
Thank you for the validation that I could not get from company management. LPN frequently late for 12hr shift, especially after I come in 15min early so he can go to meeting then the next morning can't be at work to let me go home on time. First brought to mgmt (2 people were always late) they made excuses for them and poo,poo it away. I person left but the other still came in late and lives 5 min from work (I'm 30 min away). Finally, took matters into my own hands, told him Repeatedly that it was Just Disrespectful !! No more complaints to office, just changed my schedule to not come in early for him anymore, anytime !! I agree, that it's habitual! ! I am never late, always leave early in case any traffic issues. I know after 12hr I want to go home, and I know that my Co worker is also ready to leave. I should forward the video to mgmt after I find a new job.
@@petermoore115 Of course. Which is why you tell her "I'm leaving at X time. Whether or not you are ready at X time, I am indeed leaving at X time. I repeat, with or without you I am leaving at X time."
@@petermoore115 yes, work relationships and personal relationships are different but being on time is still important for both relationships. My wife is notoriously late to everything. I would plead with her to do what ever it took to be on time but as you stated, I am not her boss and she will do what she'll do. So, I just started purposefully being late to everything that was important to her. She was a bridesmaid to her friends wedding and I "lost" my shoes and made sure I made us 30 minutes late to it. We were meeting HER friends for dinner and I made sure I was 45 minutes late meeting them there. After a few times of me showing her what it feels like, she started to get how negatively her lateness was effecting our relationship because it was finally effecting HER. Being late every now and then is normal, constantly being late is a character flaw.
I never wait for more than 10 minutes. I am never late and I make it a point to let others know I do not accept them being late, unless they let me know in advance. If they're late, I leave. We will reschedule, and they will be on time. If it's not important to them to be on time, YOU are not important to them, and nothing good can come of it. Even if I have a lot more to gain from a meeting than the other party, I leave if they make me wait past the agreed upon time.
A wizard is never late, nor is he early, he arrives precisely when he means to.
A wizard that can't cast Fireball is just a crazy mortal.
@@mastermagus1114 tell it to the jobbi how or why,gets old after the 2nd or 3rd go round, legit shit rarely ever has some need to start thinking about what story this time TIM?ahah lol
Be early.
@PacoTaco0404040 nah man, be early. It will come with persecution from some team members but you don't even want to RISK being late.
@@I_Lemaire Nope. Never be late but don't be early, people who are early show that their time isn't worth much.
I was here waiting an hour before this video started
GOOD.
good... you can prepare a meal before you watch the podcast.
Lol!
Pretty late to me.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
wife: im late
me: jocko says this is UNACCEPTABLE
LMFAO
Unless she means 'she's late' in another way.... surely thats not unacceptable! waaahhh ;)
So if you pull them up on it... will they cry like a baby? Next time have a 'baby high chair' ready in the meeting room for them as a joke just to lighten the mood but send a clear message that they will be treated accordingly to their level of punctuality good or bad.
@@Z8_8Z that was the joke. . .
EXTREME OWNERSHIP
Jocko is late all the time, the clock is just too afraid to tell him.
Shut your fuck hole
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@@twm8513 why so serious dude?
@@A--lex i knew I loved you before i met you
This is a god damn paradox.
So why is it important to be on time:
1. Basic respect for other people's time
2. Operational readiness
3. Being prepared
4. Showing reliability and professionalism
The one who is waiting on the battlefield will be victorious.
okay buddy
Check
Well nowadays, the one who's waiting on a battlefield just get smoked by a drone but I see your point
@@kiliandervaux6675you think our soldiers during Desert Storm were waiting at home for the war to start? They took the battle to them. That means they were first on the field of battle.
Lol a dude called Echo being late... when he starts showing up on time he's gonna be called Sound
Alright I'm opening up the burn unit for this comment.
Nice.
the most underrated comment here
This comment is underrated, just like life.
no wonder you are called the lol master 1997
I’m chronically late to work and most things. This is something I want to work on.
You better... Jockos watching
So that’s that why are you late? That’s stupid
Legend!!
Why are you late?
well hurry up and work on it before its too late!
I’m 16 now but my dad has drilled into my head that if I’m not at least 15 minutes early to something- I’m late.
It'll do wonders for you
If he served he wouldve told you 15 minutes prior to 15 minutes early
ReInvented562Cali My dad hasn’t served in the armed forces. He’s the sheriff of our county. My grandpa was in the Air Force tho. He retired like a year before I was born.
Always refuel at a quarter tank of gas. And always be 15 minutes early.
Chloe Hennessey high five on that
My booty-call's period is late... Unacceptable
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Laugh 😂 out loud funny 😁
The Specimen 😭😂😂😂😂bruh funny fr
Have you tried yelling at her abdomen like a drill instructor about her undisciplined uterus? Drop and give me twenty...pffft , late
Hilarious 🤣
Echo: What about being late?
Me: 👀
Jocko: Being late is unacceptable.
Me: Fuuuuuuuck...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Boogey Man What about now?
“Don’t be late”
-Sun Tzu
I zone out for 2 seconds and all the sudden Echo is talking about canned tomatoes 😂 love that man
When you are late you are telling others that your time is more valuable than theirs.
. . . if people are actually waiting on you. If not, it just showed you flexed your schedule.
@@snap-off5383 if nobody is waiting on you, then you are not needed. If you are not needed (by your boss, your friends, your family) then you are a nobody
Tyrone Biggums that’s some shitty mindset learn to have self esteem you don’t need others peoples opinion on you when you know your worth
No
@@tyronebiggums1047 Late is relative since I work in a field my physical presence is not needed, and with technology I can be anywhere instantly, so I'm instantly available 24/7/365. My presence isn't needed, just my intelligence.
You know who hates people being late more than Jocko? Jimmy Hoffa.
Danny Dinglehoff don’t even think about wearing shorts
The Irishman
Jocko doesnt take traffic into account , least 10 minutes
Yes! Great movie!
You're laTE.
Plot twist: Echo wrote this submission himself to justify being the late guy
The grin he gave after asking the question was a dead give away he is the "late guy"
🤣🤭
@@Aitonomouss He wasn't, though. Is this your first video?
@@Aitonomouss I don't think that's right. Jocko was, but not Echo.
Actually, Echo is never late as he has been working with Jocko for many years.
Jocko is like the Dad that none of us wanted to listen to ...
Hey now, he had to walk up hill both ways, 6 miles, in 6 feet of snow, while carrying all of his books, and was never late.
He clearly wasn't in the michigan military cuz he woulda been late 😂
@@RaccoonNation the way he describes it, makes it sound like he never got a single solitary second of sleep through out his 20 years. Especially when he said "Even when we woke up really early, even if I were t boned, I could file the insurance paperwork, and rent a cab and still be an hour early"
So he woke up, did some PT, shit, showered, and shaved well before the ass crack of o dark thirty, went on his duty day, and did it again the next day.
Trt means you need less sleep.
The question was haphazard. It should opened to, would you want someone who showed up 15 minutes early and did mediocre or arrive as the buzzer started but outworked everyone around them?
Struggled with depression for years and getting out of bed in the morning is the hardest part of my day. No pill has ever fixed that. Arriving to work before 0700 now in the civilian world is a life and death struggle it seems. 0730, no bother at all. Some people’s clock just don’t adjust I guess, even after five years in the airborne infantry it’s been that way as long as I can remember unless I get 10+ hours of sleep.
*heavily motivated omw to work 10 minutes late*
If you were heavily motivated you wouldn't be 10 mins late, If you were heavily motivated you would get the earlier bus/train, you would set off earlier etc as you would be raring to go and get stuck in.
@@jonsouth1545 it was a joke
I had a coworker who was fired from three different jobs because he was always late. He wasn’t able to get on time due to his schizophrenia medication really slowed him down in the morning and we didn’t know this until we asked him what was going on. But we worked with him and now he arrives 5 min early to start the day. Just talking to your employees can make a big difference
Yeah that's rough, can't blame a guy with schizophrenia for being off. Lots of these rules about being decent sort of don't apply to people who have demons in their heads, or at the very least perceive that as their reality
Why is that guy not in the mental asylum? that guy might snap and harm people due to his schizophrenia
*Time*
It is arguably the most valuable asset that _everyone_ has.
Don’t waste your time.
Don’t let your time be wasted by others.
Don’t waste anyone else’s time.
There are few more open signs of disrespect and inconsiderateness.
But if you arrive an hour early you have just wasted an hour.
*inconsideration. but good post.
Then dont waste your time writing this comment on RUclips
I agree. BUT shit does occur.
But if you have a habit of being late, you need to rethink yourself.
@DarthYuYevon you schedule a meeting at 10am. if you don't start the meeting until 10:15, you have wasted 15 minutes of everyone's time. set the time the meeting starts, start the meeting at that time. people will learn to be early enough to not miss it. don't wait on anyone, even the boss.
I once had a GREAT employee who was late alot. I solved it. Here's how. I moved him to the 12 to 8pm shift, but I added an hour to that and scheduled him from 11 to 8pm. Everyday he came in about 11:35 to 11:45am. He was always so sorry he was late. It was years later that it came up and I told him about it, and that he was actually early everyday. We laughed our ass off. Fucking hilarious! 🤣
If this story was true, then he would be getting paid for a 9 hour shift and not an 8 hour shift... He would have figured it out on the first pay check that his actual times were 12-8 by the amount of hours he was paid for... yeh nice story.
@@KaesOner Yes, we all punched a time clock and regularly got paid the extra 15 to 25 +/- minutes. This was encouraged to have over lapping people available at shift changes.
@@KaesOner just read the end of your comment. (Weird) Yes, some of us don't need to make things up in our lives. The truth is stranger than fiction. This guy is still a good friend of mine, and although he no longer lives in my state we are still in touch.
@deactivated5445 thank you!
Just forwarded this to my wife. Waiting for her is like being in the Russian sleep experiments.
Cotton Hill gotta tell her the appointment or party time is 30-60 min before it actually occurs. Til the day she gets ready on time and you arrive earlier than expected... then you’re in trouble for rushing her lol damned if you do, damned if you don’t
She's cheating on you
Advice I've heard that isn't passive aggressive and doesn't involve lying or throwing away your entire relationship for an issue that can be talked about is to just tell her you no longer want to be late to events because of her and that you'll start going on your own so you can be on time. You're being reasonable and she'll know you're being serious and will either get her shit together or show you that she really doesn't care and at that point, yeah, maybe consider ending the relationship
Punctuality is the single most obvious way to show one’s reliability. That and when it’s mentioned that time is the most invaluable commodity in our lives. Great talk here.
E- "Why am I shopping?"
J- "Why are you telling this story?"
😂😂
Love Echo, but sometimes his additions tend to sound scattered, and I find myself truly not knowing what he is talking about.
@@crosscountrycrusader I agree but that bit about the shopping was real.. jocko just nudging him back on track tho lol
I've been out of the military for over 45 years and am still almost never late (unavoidable due to circumstance maybe once every three years or so). To me being on time is a question of integrity (doing what you say you're going to do) and also respecting of someone else's time. I've been known to waste my time, but never anyone else's. I'll get off my soapbox now - another worthwhile video. Gonna be like Jocko when I grow up!
Integrity is important
I hate being late, was always late but learning to get better. Lifetime of abuse causes neural pathways of DISREGULATION - it's like suddenly wearing a snorkel mask, being in a bubble, with visual impairment and chaotic thoughts screaming in your head - your hands don't work properly, you can't use logic or think straight and your heart races thinking I'm going to be late BUT I've not done enough, don't look right, have forgotten something I or the children need... this from a lifetime of being treated like we are "less than a nothing" no matter how much we do or cope with its never enough.
The dread of the tirade of abuse on arrival eventually infiltrates every appointment we leave for. Lambs to the slaughter is all we've known - physically shaking as I type. No contact from toxic abusers is the only way to begin healing. Nice for you that you were raised with punctuality, but lateness is a sign of abuse, compassion goes a long way🙏
Listened to this on my way to work. I really liked how jocko opened this up and said “it’s respect for other people’s time.”
Jocks is 100% right! Being late is disrespectful. There’s usually a deeper reason why people are late. Lack of self-belief, etc. I appreciate Echo Charles’s honesty and vulnerability in disclosing his lateness.
Jocko walking into a 9:00 AM meeting at 9:01 AM: I'm early
guy at meeting: this meeting started 1 minute ago and you weren't invited
Jocko: I'm 23 hours and 59 minutes early to the 9:00 AM meeting I scheduled for tomorrow in this room
guy at meeting: forgive me Jocko
😂😂😂
respect.
organizational operability.
preparedness.
reliability and professionalism.
even sun tzu writes he who is waiting on the battlefield will be victorious.
excellent advice across all aspects of life.
"Everyone likes the comethru guy"- 100% dead on. I messed this up once when I was 19, never again. Learned my lesson and being the dependable rock has done so much for me.
I never sweat it when my crew is late, life happens. Id rather have them late then to get a ticket, accident or divorce and we get the job done safely. Learned a lot in the last 30 years being a manager. Worked in all conditions and environments with all sorts of people. It is all made up in the aggregate. Life isn't perfect, neither are you.
@SomeGuy you're intentionally missing the point. The majority of people at my job are constantly late, and they always have an excuse for it. Everybody props each other up with excuses of why it's okay, and it spills into other areas of performance though they don't realize it.
@SomeGuy All I did was give you my opinion. You've got thin skin.
Being late is being late pussy
@SomeGuy You're too fragile. Toughen up. Merry Christmas.
Exactly
I’ve listened to so many Jocko podcasts that he is becoming my life coach !
He has so much good stuff to share from his experiences.
I was in the Navy four years, never late & a cop for 30 years, never late. Timeliness rules: On time is late, 15 minutes early is on time and if you’re late stay home. Someone who is always late is disrespectful to other people.
Man. I've always been the guy running in at the last minute to my job. I needed to hear this, thank you.
My ex once taught me: if you’re early, you’re on time. If you’re on time, you’re late.
That’s with the wife. With girlfriend is why you learn to be early lol.
Great points regarding selfishness (lack of respect for others), reliability and dependability. Half the battle in business and life is showing up... on time and prepared. Thank you, gentlemen!
Jocko: being late is unacceptable
Echo: I couldn’t find the tomatos
Lateness = responsibility/reliability = echo was responsible for the tomatoes and was encountering frustration and was ready to just quit his job and not be reliable... kinda saying whether it's lateness or tomatoes just be reliable.. not exactly related but it was useful and true
thelolmaster1997 it’s a joke
The wise words of a couple sages
Time has so much respect for Jocko so it does not dare to be late for him.
Interviewer : "What would you say to a emploee that is being late?"
Jocko: "Being late is unacceptable.
*video ends*
Kamil Bogdański thank you for saving my time xD
My dad always said
- be on time (be early leave late)
- things don't come to you, you have to go out and get it.
- have respect for yourself and your work/job
- be presentable
- keep your word or stfu
i used to be a chronically late person.
now, i'm rarely late. i'm still late sometimes, but those situations are things like train/plane delays, or accidents, or miscommunications. even those, i don't believe are acceptable and if i'm late due to something like that, and i didn't do anything to let people know before they had to commit time to me, then i'm the asshole. so how did i change?
here's what i did to fix it:
- i prioritized 'not being late' over 'what else could i be doing with my time'. the biggest reason i was late is because i was caught up in something and i didn't stop that thing early enough to make sure i was on time. why? because i didn't care enough about not being late, and i subconsciously, and selfishly, believed that my time doing whatever i was doing was more valuable than the time others would waste waiting for me.
- i made it a point to notice when other people were late for meetings with me, and would analyze my own feelings about it. at first i thought i didn't really care, but then i realized that i don't like people wasting my time! surely, if i feel that way, then others do too. sometimes i even count the money i could be making if that person weren't late!
- i aimed for 15 minutes early in everything, if i'm going to a place that i don't know, i aim for 30. getting lost is a real possibility and i need to account for that. getting into an accident, bad traffic, train/plane delays, all these things are real considerations that we have no control over but we can account for them.
- i stopped relying on my own estimates of how long it would take to arrive some place. instead i google it, using tools like waze to estimate traffic flow.
- i changed my work schedule so that it would be next to impossible to be late. i was supposed to work 9 to 5, and i decided it would be prudent for me to arrive at 7:15.
- i wake up earlier. when i was commuting to work i would wake up at 0400. now i'm a freelancer so i wake up late (0600).
some might ask about cultural considerations. some cultures take 'fashionably late' to an extreme (and you know who you are... i'm one of them too!) as a result, i have an unspoken agreement with some of my 'culturally late' friends and family (who are never late for work, by the way) that we would arrive 30 minutes after the set meeting time, and that if we got there early, we'd be the ones to let them know what to do and where to meet.
Perfect attendance for four years during an apprenticeship. I brought everyone coffee and newspapers in the morning so I had to be earliest. Always had work and money in my pocket up until I got sick probably from over working but hey when your in your twenties your unstoppable.
I'm like Echo. Being less than 10 min late everyday, I thought I was doing alright because I worked well once I got started. Really, it was immaturity.
Thing is, when people do see you as a reliable individual, if and whenever you are late, these same people will show the type of care and appreciation of not having you around, even get worried that something happened to you. Being on time and always showing up definitely builds team trust with its leader.
Jocko didn't get it, but Echo's rambling story reveals (maybe unconsciously) the real reason why people are habitually late. Echo was resentful that he was doing something for someone else that wasn't his job and wouldn't be appreciated. So he reclaimed his independence in a passive aggressive way. Instead of confronting his wife and telling her it wasn't his job to get the tomatoes, or instead of accepting that in fact it was his job to get them, he just got resentful of his role and so he chose to not do his job. This suggested to his wife in a passive aggressive way that she shouldn't put this burden on him, and it let him reclaim his independence and autonomy without being up front about it. Being late is the same: it comes when you want to assert that your needs are important but you don't want to state it directly. So you subtly let people know that you are important and there is a limit to what they can ask of you. You assert yourself by making them wait for you, so that now you are the important one. Instead of being responsible, setting clear boundaries, embracing conflict and being a stand up guy, you instead avoid conflict and say yes to everything & everyone; then you get resentful of that burden and end up asserting yourself by being late and making them wait for you and pay attention to you & your importance. It's messed up, but that's what happens. Being late is a passive aggressive behaviour and its underlying cause is avoidance of conflict and a failure to assert yourself in a normal & healthy way. It's not enough to say that it's unacceptable and it shows a lack of respect for others' time. The question is why do you want to disrespect others' time? Because you resent them. Why? Because you believe you are giving them too much. Why? Because you are not asserting your own needs.
Even with a snowstorm, I make it to work earlier than normal. You have to plan for the unexpected so you can be respectful of other people’s time.
Jocko,
I love what you do and what you stand for, sir. This podcast has changed my outlook on life for the better and will continue to do so. Thank you for the inspiration.
Additionally..... those SOG episodes are absolutely incredible! Listened to them all about 10 times each. And Roger Hayden is the man! Keep them coming : )
- Sam
His honesty is impeccable.
21 years 9 months and 5 days...Never Late! It’s important to be on time!
Jocko’s answers to questions are like song titles for a post-grunge 90’s metal band. Singular, stand-alone words of the most intense format and meaning possible.
Jocko nails it again. I would always start meetings on time, even if my boss was late. First time he apologised and said, “right, let’s get going”. I replied, “we started 15 mins ago, this is where we are up to”.
If you delay a meeting for a person who is late, it teaches those that are late that they can be even later. It also teaches those that are present they can come late.
No! Meetings start on time.
Great Convo, I am Echo. I think people who are late really don't understand why being late is such an issue. I never made the connection until hearing Jocko's point. Thanks for this insight.
I work nights and I leave 30 mins late most mornings because of disrespectful fools that never show up on time.
Free overtime?
Me too man! every single week 2 or three times... If I add up every time I have to wait I would end up with at least 4 extra hours every month... never been paid for that. I need Jocko here to teach these !£"%*&(*@ a lesson.
Congrats you brought yourself to their level
My boss had to take his kids to school after our nightshift, so he had to leave on time everyday. Thing is he couldn't leave the store until another manager got there and they would be late almost everyday. They might show up in 10mins or 2 hours and would never call. Favoritism protected those guys.
I'm glad I watched this. I've watched for a few years and when this one came up I didn't even want to watch. I was late to work today but still out performed my colleagues. I hate it in my subordinates, I need to look at myself.
Better to be an hour early, than a minute late.
Disagree sir. I value my time more than you do i guess.
Also, why would I give a shit about what my boss wants from me? I don't work to make other people happy lmfao. What a loaded crock of shit. Respect, why? Because they pay me? They pay me because I do a job for them. I show up to do the job an I go home. If they think my work isn't good enough then I'll get a different job, makes no fucking difference to me. This ain't communist China sir.
I've actually found life to be more tolerant to people like me than suck-ups like you.
No one is gonna thank you for showing up early. No one actually gives a shit. And if you think people give a shit about you being 1 minute late then you're also deluded. They're just trying to set an example, see the sort of shit they can get away with. Be a bit more selfish, JESUS. No one else is gonna be selfish for you.
@@jordanious7711 Take that bullshit somewhere else.
I just woke up 34 minutes late
Rifleman114 being an hour early is great if they respect the fact that just because you arrive early is for you and you are doing this to be ON TIME and NOT SO YOU CAN INCREASE YOUR HOURS and there for themselves
For as long as I remained an employee - trading time for income - then yes, that philosophy worked. As a business owner and investor, I learned the hard way how that type of mindset was often a huge hindrance to profitability and achievement.
Thank you for this. I will never never be late for anything ever again. I have have made a lot of changes in my life to be a better person because how can I be the beast I know I am if I don't live it in every way in my life. Thank you for the inspiration Jocko
What about a person who's always on time but is a lazy worker? Being late is unacceptable to some people because they only focus on that but not on more important stuff.
Seems like an obvious answer, fire lazy workers, fire workers who can't be bothered to show up on time, fire anyone who refuses to accept the bare minimum standards for the job
A lazy workers are worse than people who are late (if no more than 15 mins late)
@@nightfighter7452 what he said... being lazy and not doing your job at all is putting yourself up for firing..
Being late but still useful is just a slight attitude and respect problem.. might still get u fired but yknow.. different game
This isn't a one or other thing. Being a lazy worker is also unacceptable and they should receive the same consequences. The point was lazy is not an excuse, even if they ARE a good employer.
Totally agree. I have grace for someone if there is an occasional mess up because of unforeseen circumstances, but if it is constant it gets on my nerves. I just had to deal with someone today that was close to 25 minutes late. I had some things to do so I told them just to go ahead of me. I have had this conversation with this person several times so today I had to take another step. Absolutely… When people are constant they are reliable. When they are not it is disrespectful to our time.
Being early is on time. Being on time is late, & being late is unacceptable
Just being consistent and never late will eliminate people thinking your a bad employee.
I was always early to work, but only my boss would be there and it would be awkward until everyone else showed up 5 minutes later.
So, I started showing up at the same time as them until recently and now I'm actually later than they are. I decided just because they are behaving badly and not getting punished or corrected doesn't mean I should bring myself to their level or lower. Despite getting no punishment or correction either. Being early or on time is just the right thing to do
Definetly living this now.
I am one of those people that are always late but a good worker. I agree 100% that it is something that nobody should do. I am working very hard to never be late to work again.
Unless it’s for a party. You’ll never see me early for a party.
In some cultures it's actually considered rude to show up early for one
8figures8 lol honestly most people have the same mindset, thats why everybody shows up at the same time
This is great material thank you! I really connect with what Echo Charles said. I have a problem with showing up late, when I arrive I do deliver great results though. It’s really good to have men just explain what you fellows have explained. Thank you. I think this is good to help me change. It’s a long term pattern for me of being a late. I want to change it badly
I’m late to the comments section...
Bla... bla... bla... heard it all before ;)
(Cute comment... love silly humour.... so its on the record its never TOO late for a giggle in private).
NJP. Shitposting.
@@ki-td5yb all posts move jocko up the algorithm totem pole.
Unacceptable
@@michaelayzenberg4907 You're unacceptable.
Tony Robbins needs to take this concept to heart. Tony is Always late or he just “phones in” with a video, so to speak. Impressive as usual Joko. Thank you
Being early shows respect for the time of others. Disrespectful behaviour won't get you far in life.
It was nice hearing from both types of people. And it was nice to hear how he changed his perception.
I find that, be it conscious or subconscious, people who are late simply don't value other people's time as much as they do their own. And it's obvious how this is detrimental to the workplace but think about what this says about your relationships. If your partner or your friend is consistently late, consistently making you wait, what does that say about how much they value your time? What does it say about how much they value you?
Godbless these dudes forever...theyre such an inspiration
I show up 15 minutes early. Thats as far as ill go with that on purpose.
Nvr Dwn yeah that’s perfectly fine
Punctuality is about self respect. You're never going to respect others until you can respect yourself. You make not like your life or those in it. You'll like the people you are early for. And they you. Don't let your surroundings stymie your success. Rise above to your destiny (and be early) to it.
The only thing better than Echo's stories are Jockos reactions to them
This advice applies to everyone. There are people who are late because it feeds their ego of being
important enough to work for. I have a 'friend" who I used to exchange reflexology with. We lived
1 1/2 hours away. When I traveled to her I made sure to leave extra time and I was on time by being
early. When she traveled to me 9/10 times she was late, sometimes getting their 60 minutes late.
She sometimes blamed the traffic, but it was disrespectful of my time for her to do that. I no
longer accept this from anyone. Everyone in my life loves, honors and respects me, or they are not
in my life. cheers.
New question would you rather someone get the wrong tomatos or be late getting you the right tomatos?
I'd rather them get no tomatoes and say the store was sold out.
Parker Jeans be on time with the wrong tomatoes so that I know you put in effort to follow through with what was asked of you
I cook sometimes for groups. I do not buy things the morning/night of the cook I buy then the weekend before. I'd rather someone be late with the right item then on time or early with the wrong item. If I ask for 2 jalapenos and an anaheim and you come back with 3 bell peppers.....then that is worse than not going at all cause you spent time and money on something I will have to spend more time and more money to fix the mistake and that's when I can find the time to fix the mistake....do it right for sure
Part of being a “good performer” involves respecting the truth of your responsibility as an employee, which implies being on time. That’s part of the job.
It really depends on what you are doing. Time is an illusion, it's only important if other people also need to work with you, our you need to be there to respond to others.
If your work is tasks to complete, as long as you get them done, a minute or two doesn't matter.
Making it a hard rule is dumb with no reason.
If you are a good performer who doesn't show up / is reliably late then really you still have responsibility for what happens when you aren't there. If things fall apart in your absence it might seem like that this emphasizes your unique value but in reality it shows an area where you failed to follow through and missed achieving results.
Reliability is often more important than performance because people can improve performance over time - if they are showing up - but if they aren't showing up to begin with it's very likely that they aren't very aware of at least some of their own performance problems and are thinking that because they are performing well in one specific way, they can ignore a bunch of other things that matter more than they realize.
Awareness, results, and performance itself all are impacted by reliability.
That's all fine and you shouldn't be late.
But construction bosses want you 10 mins early and and stay 15 minutes late. Then you never see that time on your check.
So? You do your job. When job is done you go.
@@Ilethsamael if it was that easy. Who wants to be the guy who leaves the team hi and dry.
It's a control thing, the boss just want to control you.
@@skybird5845 no matter. Put boundaries before you work so your boss knows what to expect. Still is needed tou stay even 2h more.
Jordan Peterson says: Speak up.
But have options just in case the boss won't change. But if you're suffering, you have an obligation to seek your justice. You have to endure poison, however, you get to choose which: robbed time, speaking up or finding a better company. Some bosses suck, but not ALL suck...find a good one. The ones who don't speak up have nothing to do with your standards...
Sky bird yea man but me getting paid weekly is more important to me than getting 15 or 20 mins extra on my check if I’m late and lose my job then what all because I was mad about making 20 more minutes on my hours all excuses are lies I try my best to always be on time
I was raised by this code- to be early is to b on time + to b on time , is to be late, and being late is unacceptable . It's a simple truth; commitment preparedness is showing up it's buy in
The real WWJD - What would Jocko do? Ask yourself that everyday and you will win life.
On point.
Agreed. Mind blown.
WWGD for me - What would Goggins do?
Jocko is never late, time is early
When you start having good reasons for being late - you'll start having bad reasons for being late as well.
I've always held this standard. I find that to many people don't, including those people that call themselves your boss.
Nice, i had a boss who would schedule a meeting for 30 minutes and shows op 45 minutes later. And i am the one who was disreseptfull. Thanks Jocko, sometimes you have to move on, something i should have done sooner.
That is one thing my six years in the Air Force ingrained in me, is respecting other people's time. Being late is unacceptable. If you're on time, you're late.
You know how you stop someone from coming in late? You tell them to stop disrespecting everyone elses time and then give consequences for when they're late. Usually a wage deduction works nicely.
At a previous job, my boss would deduct 1/2 hour for being 1 min late. He also gave an extra 1/2 day pay for every month of not missing a day and being on time. It worked rather well.
Very useful information. I think if more people were properly educated on the importance of being on time, there'd be less people who would be late in their adult lives.
I live in El Paso, Texas. A few years ago we were supposed to get a Six Flags here. The reason we never got it was because our city representatives were always late to the meetings with the Six Flags representatives. Sucks, man.
If you were never late for 20 years, that deserves a medal. Like damn haha
I can't handle the brightness of this video!!
6:14 "Why are you telling this story?"
I love the way there's a pocket knife casually resting on that book on Jocko's desk. Always ready for 'The Enemy' whoever they may be...
To be early is to be on time.
To be on time is to be late.
To be late is to be left behind.
My father taught to be on time is to be late., to be early is to be on time. He was a US Army Korean War veteran, and I put six years in the Navy and Lebanon. This is a winning combination. Use it all of your life it's worth it.
Be great at the basics!
Thank you for the validation that I could not get from company management. LPN frequently late for 12hr shift, especially after I come in 15min early so he can go to meeting then the next morning can't be at work to let me go home on time. First brought to mgmt (2 people were always late) they made excuses for them and poo,poo it away. I person left but the other still came in late and lives 5 min from work (I'm 30 min away).
Finally, took matters into my own hands, told him Repeatedly that it was Just Disrespectful !! No more complaints to office, just changed my schedule to not come in early for him anymore, anytime !!
I agree, that it's habitual! ! I am never late, always leave early in case any traffic issues. I know after 12hr I want to go home, and I know that my Co worker is also ready to leave.
I should forward the video to mgmt after I find a new job.
God my gf needs to hear this
Gabriel Saucedo dump her.
@@notafuckinpplperson8233 harsh... But maybe true.
train her better.
@@petermoore115 Of course. Which is why you tell her "I'm leaving at X time. Whether or not you are ready at X time, I am indeed leaving at X time. I repeat, with or without you I am leaving at X time."
@@petermoore115 yes, work relationships and personal relationships are different but being on time is still important for both relationships. My wife is notoriously late to everything. I would plead with her to do what ever it took to be on time but as you stated, I am not her boss and she will do what she'll do. So, I just started purposefully being late to everything that was important to her. She was a bridesmaid to her friends wedding and I "lost" my shoes and made sure I made us 30 minutes late to it. We were meeting HER friends for dinner and I made sure I was 45 minutes late meeting them there. After a few times of me showing her what it feels like, she started to get how negatively her lateness was effecting our relationship because it was finally effecting HER.
Being late every now and then is normal, constantly being late is a character flaw.
I never wait for more than 10 minutes. I am never late and I make it a point to let others know I do not accept them being late, unless they let me know in advance. If they're late, I leave. We will reschedule, and they will be on time. If it's not important to them to be on time, YOU are not important to them, and nothing good can come of it. Even if I have a lot more to gain from a meeting than the other party, I leave if they make me wait past the agreed upon time.
They taught us, "Early is on-time...on-time is late." Great topic, gents!
It's not about having time, it's about making time. If it matters to you, you will make time.