Parenting in a Secular Society | Ustadh Hisham Abu Yusuf

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 4 янв 2025

Комментарии • 31

  • @samrakhan4335
    @samrakhan4335 Год назад +46

    May allah bless this brother and his children and give us taufeeq to become righteous parents for our kids and may our kids become righteous..ameen

  • @salehakhan3131
    @salehakhan3131 Месяц назад +3

    Omg he is very matured and on point parenting guide may Allah put love in his family wife nd children may Allah protect this man ameeenn

  • @Yusuf_Abdul1
    @Yusuf_Abdul1 Год назад +28

    I have watched this lecture more than five times
    Jazakumllahu khayran brother Hisham, may Allah increase you in knowledge and provide guidance to my offsprings and yours as well

  • @Yusuf_Abdul1
    @Yusuf_Abdul1 Год назад +11

    Sometimes I just like to come back and listen again. Jazakumllahu khayran 🎉

  • @nancy4615
    @nancy4615 2 года назад +15

    This interactive workshop style is very refreshing! Allahuma barik

  • @hamzahyusuf1594
    @hamzahyusuf1594 Год назад +7

    Jazak Allahu Khairan Great piece of advice. May Allah bless you abundantly in both worlds. Ameen

  • @fadys3989
    @fadys3989 Год назад +4

    JazakAllahu khairan. I'm not a father yet (1 day in'sha'Allah), but this was very insightful.

  • @ibraheemo.olasupo1145
    @ibraheemo.olasupo1145 2 года назад +6

    This is a very practical and interactive seminar. Jazaakumullaahu kulla khayr

  • @shamina2000
    @shamina2000 Год назад +4

    This is such a useful seminar. Thank you

  • @amanullahwahedally89
    @amanullahwahedally89 Год назад +3

    Assalamoualaikum brother. JazakAllah khair for this interactive workshop. Humbly reminding you the sunna of sitting to drink.❤

  • @muibatabimbola7971
    @muibatabimbola7971 2 года назад +5

    The workshop is interactive and worthy to emulate.. jazakallahu khaira Abu

  • @raheemahbamidele4521
    @raheemahbamidele4521 2 года назад +4

    This is just awesome. Barokallahu fii

  • @shabnumifra6-b912
    @shabnumifra6-b912 2 года назад +6

    Assalamu alaikum... I was eagerly waiting for ur lecture.... Pleasure to see u after a long period of time... May Almighty Allah accept ur efforts

  • @medicomuslimahdr
    @medicomuslimahdr Год назад +1

    This one 🤍Allahuma barik akhi

  • @Ssapho
    @Ssapho Год назад

    Jazakumullah kheir. May Allah keep you steadfast and have mercy on you brother. This is such an amazing lesson

  • @AiAi-td3lw
    @AiAi-td3lw 2 года назад +3

    Jazak Allah kheir ustadh

  • @slaveofallah73645443
    @slaveofallah73645443 2 года назад +8

    Excellent lecture, good practical advice. Jazakallah'Khair

  • @tomprieto9115
    @tomprieto9115 Год назад +1

    this brother is of Allah...his manners are very poetic

  • @kaziamranhossain1136
    @kaziamranhossain1136 21 день назад

    May allah bless you❤❤

  • @berlianab771
    @berlianab771 2 года назад +2

    Masyaa Allah. Jazaakumullaahu khairan wa baarakallaahu fiikum.

  • @aroojfatimah
    @aroojfatimah Месяц назад

    So so so beneficial

  • @sayedshanawaz7019
    @sayedshanawaz7019 2 года назад +6

    Nice and knowledgeable workshop, just advice brother, please drink water while sitting. Please don't mind. Barak Allah feekum

  • @strivingslave5962
    @strivingslave5962 9 месяцев назад +3

    6:09
    11:13 Signs of ٱللَّٰه
    If you don’t revere them, lack of taqwa
    Mecca - practicing faith in the middle of polytheism, fahisha
    13:45 How can we minimize influences inside and outside the house?
    House (has strong foundation) in the middle of the storm. People inside are not afraid of the storm outside.
    18:50 Give kids a good alternative to things that they can’t do
    19:53 Show them WHY alcohol is bad
    21:17 How to minimize influence of media?
    Parental control - damage control
    22:01 You select the cartoon
    22:23 Select the right media for them
    24:00 Connect the kid to the masjid - give the kid a community of like minded friends
    Playtime
    25:07 What you teach them inside house needs to be reinforced outside also
    25:47 Main job of parents: to save kids from hellfire
    26:50 What to do INSIDE the house?
    27:40 Before you give the kids anything, You have to follow Islam yourself
    29:10 Nothing can replace you being righteous
    30:31 Become righteous
    31:03 If we are at mosque, pray at masjid, respect our parents, our kids will follow
    34:04 Show them ٱللَّٰه ‘s creation
    35:22 Mirror the children
    36:31 Make the kid love you. Then they will listen to you about salah.
    37:33
    39:21 Positive Reinforcement
    39:42 Teach them adhan, reward them for salah
    41:15 Marriage relationship with parents
    42:08 Kids show us our weaknesses
    42:24 Be righteous yourself (make lots of duaa)
    and ٱللَّٰه will protect your children. Surah Kahf, ٱللَّٰه sent Khidarnto protect inheritance of kids.
    43:10 You can’t guide your kids
    44:27 How to deal with questions?
    1 - Accepting
    2 - Be approachable
    3 - Speak on their own level
    4 - Reason
    47:35 Story time is so important
    Get animated
    Buy them books
    If on vacation, go to Islamic lectures
    49:31 Teachings kids manners
    51:07 When the kid says something, it’s a Discussion
    55:18
    55:50
    58:14 Yusuf Patel talks about topics like transgender
    59:57 Devices
    1:03:15 World Wide Web is a vortex for kids
    1:03:52 Homeschooling means free styling

  • @hammedtukur
    @hammedtukur 2 года назад +2

    Jazaakumullah khairaa.

  • @ansarmshiyam8259
    @ansarmshiyam8259 11 месяцев назад +1

    Love you for the sake Allah bro. ❤ Masha Allah I watched all of the episodes of Attributes of Allah Subuhaanahuwa tha aala.

  • @samrakhan4335
    @samrakhan4335 Год назад +1

    Homeschooling ya islamic schooling okay

  • @jvv6429
    @jvv6429 Год назад

    Yusef patel?

  • @jafarlafia
    @jafarlafia Год назад

    احسن الله اليكم حبيبنا، وجزاكم الله عنا خير الجزاء 🤲 Sheikh, I am a brother from Nigeria...And my name is Ja'afar Muhammad Usman. Please Sheikh, i will like to have your contact, maybe a WhatsApp line if there is no problem.