How to Deepen Your Voice Safely (For Trans Men)

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  • Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
  • Some further actor training exercises that will help you expand your range:
    • 5 Minute Vocal Warm Up...
    • Vocal Warm-Up | #3 Ope...
    *** These exercises are easier to learn without a binder - if you can try them without, go for it, but don't worry if not!

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  • @F1nn1ck-08
    @F1nn1ck-08 4 года назад +7264

    I have school in 3 hours, my binder arrived in the mail yesterday, my haircut got done last week, and I’ve been doing voice training for 6 hours.
    *Oh yeah, it’s all comin together.*

  • @nightmare-im6xg
    @nightmare-im6xg 4 года назад +4127

    Me i'm not trans pfft.
    Also me: how to deepen your voice, how to walk manly, how to act manly, how to not be girly, how to look like a boy, how to hide your chest etc

    • @lari9887
      @lari9887 4 года назад +316

      Carelle im a gay man and thats my youtube search history on how to act more manly so i dont get attacked 😞

    • @1027Rockwell
      @1027Rockwell 4 года назад +160

      @@lari9887 Yo dude, as long as you are being yourself, being attacked shouldn't be a problem:) Never be afraid to let others see you as you, true friends will come and stay and haters will hate all they want, if acting feminine's your comfort zone, you should not force yourself into acting like someone you're not! remember, you're awesome the way you are;)

    • @1027Rockwell
      @1027Rockwell 4 года назад +6

      @@rybooks I know that lol

    • @alexthebudgie9071
      @alexthebudgie9071 4 года назад +83

      Doesn’t mean you are trans. You can’t be trans without dysphoria. Many cis people just wanna be sene as masc or femme. Unless this is a joke and I’m el stupido.

    • @thebookwormhotel5336
      @thebookwormhotel5336 4 года назад +4

      𝓜𝓸𝓸𝓭

  • @bailey9947
    @bailey9947 4 года назад +7252

    Three types of people who watch these videos:
    -trans guys or non binary afab people
    -voice actors
    -dnd players

    • @maizamiuchida
      @maizamiuchida 4 года назад +461

      Nah, dude. I just want a deep voice to creep my friends out.

    • @jsjshdkshaah
      @jsjshdkshaah 4 года назад +95

      And girls

    • @miraculousaly-bug2411
      @miraculousaly-bug2411 4 года назад +109

      And me, who wants to pre-record parts of duets so I don't have to feel lonely, lol.

    • @jjju3
      @jjju3 4 года назад +17

      3/3

    • @PhantomEX215
      @PhantomEX215 4 года назад +72

      And non-binary people who hate their voice ._.

  • @chelsea.m.k
    @chelsea.m.k 3 года назад +2250

    Trans girl here, just checking in on my trans brothers~
    Take care of yourselves, stay safe, and remember to
    *LOVE YOURSELVES!*

  • @Olliebunny
    @Olliebunny 4 года назад +2364

    Him: try to breathe in your stomach not your chest
    Me: *wearing binder* piece of cake

    • @audenkindacutedoe1253
      @audenkindacutedoe1253 4 года назад +121

      hAh can’t relate-
      Parents wont get me a binder.

    • @Hi-vf9wx
      @Hi-vf9wx 4 года назад +120

      @@audenkindacutedoe1253 Sports bra 👌🏼 not too tight please don't ruin your ribs please

    • @pastelpixelp
      @pastelpixelp 4 года назад +33

      A Pan Mess ahaha yeah i bruised my ribs by wearing a way too tight sports bra

    • @Olliebunny
      @Olliebunny 4 года назад +23

      aCK .3. My parents wouldn’t get me one either I just have great friends

    • @canineteeth5973
      @canineteeth5973 4 года назад +5

      @@Olliebunny yes and your pfp is amazing-

  • @venomfrankie
    @venomfrankie 5 лет назад +918

    When he said go into text I just went “humm- the fitness gram pacer test is” and I had to stop because I was laughing so hard

    • @aobaamrisp-p6026
      @aobaamrisp-p6026 5 лет назад +16

      Omfg I giggled at this XD

    • @nabranestwistypuzzler7019
      @nabranestwistypuzzler7019 4 года назад +2

      XDXDXD

    • @thecrew2773
      @thecrew2773 4 года назад +2

      😂 𝓜𝓸𝓸𝓭 and me too

    • @MinerKitten
      @MinerKitten 4 года назад +2

      HWHSDNDN

    • @austinl4635
      @austinl4635 3 года назад +9

      Dude I was reading comments out loud to practice and when I came to this it made me laugh while reading and I laughed with a deep voice and it made me feel very euphoric 😊😆

  • @fealubryne
    @fealubryne 5 лет назад +2659

    I'm non-binary and have a lot of anxiety, so when I get particularly anxious (usually around strangers) I default to an irritatingly high-pitched and meek voice. Which is a major source of dysphoria, I hate talking on the phone or over voice chat online. Going to for sure work on this and see if I can get better about it. Thanks so much for this video!

    • @jackmarl5534
      @jackmarl5534  5 лет назад +187

      Glad I could help!! Hope it's helpful!

    • @Roxirin
      @Roxirin 4 года назад +150

      So happy I'm not the only one! Speaking to strangers or cashiers I always go into my 'customer service' voice where I go all sweet and higher pitched and smooth, which is great for customers but not so great for me who would rather sound 2 octaves lower hahah

    • @qiimiihdevinelee8652
      @qiimiihdevinelee8652 4 года назад +25

      Omg I resonated with this so much.

    • @kitneyspears
      @kitneyspears 4 года назад +13

      big mood....best of luck for u

    • @saragarofano9727
      @saragarofano9727 4 года назад +7

      Mood

  • @elijaglolz
    @elijaglolz 4 года назад +4389

    I'm only here so I can sing both the female and male parts of "Barbie Girl"

    • @saturnsoderlund287
      @saturnsoderlund287 3 года назад +196

      UNDERRATED COMMENT

    • @keiyan5950
      @keiyan5950 3 года назад +61

      LMAOOOO

    • @missjessicalewis2913
      @missjessicalewis2913 3 года назад +76

      YES SAME. AND TO SOUND LIKE CORPSE

    • @youtubeuser6785
      @youtubeuser6785 3 года назад +50

      I watch these videos to get male voice cuz I'm thinking of becoming a kpop idol

    • @keiyan5950
      @keiyan5950 3 года назад +29

      @@youtubeuser6785 awe that’s cool. Hope you reach your goal

  • @ryanrenn4815
    @ryanrenn4815 4 года назад +991

    Exercises start at 3:35, for those who are as impatient as I am. Fantastic video.

    • @nooneknows2686
      @nooneknows2686 3 года назад +31

      Life saver

    • @_.ASHE._
      @_.ASHE._ 3 года назад +8

      thank you

    • @xsthyr
      @xsthyr 3 года назад +17

      adhd lol

    • @Morphotallia
      @Morphotallia 3 года назад +3

      Thank you, your a legend.

    • @jaydewolf586
      @jaydewolf586 3 года назад +5

      I’ll be using this every time I rewatch the video XD

  • @angelkisses8580
    @angelkisses8580 4 года назад +846

    Watching this as a genderfluid person that is having a long stretch of feeling masculine

    • @AlecStitches
      @AlecStitches 4 года назад +69

      Omg same, I had no idea there was naturally a way of making my voice more masculine, I don't know if I wanna take T or not yet, but if I'm actually able to switch between a masculine and feminine voice rather than just having to permanently settle for just one, would be amazing!!

    • @RaeRaeee2
      @RaeRaeee2 4 года назад +6

      Same

    • @mysteryrex5445
      @mysteryrex5445 3 года назад +9

      finally someone like me

    • @lumon6108
      @lumon6108 3 года назад +9

      Heck yeah, I want to just slightly switch between so I can pass as either binary gender

    • @ConenKS
      @ConenKS 3 года назад +11

      Y’all should look up low dose T it has just slight changes for your voice and other things so all of the gender fluid and non-binary peeps can just sit in the middle!

  • @bamcki991
    @bamcki991 3 года назад +272

    Another tip, coming from a cis male but with trans friends and a majority female friends, men have a different rhythm when they speak compared to females. Feminine speaking usually goes up and down in tones like waves when they are speaking, while masculine speaking tends to be more monotone. Rarely peaking in tone. This video is a good practice to get ones general tone, but if you'd keep the feminine rhythm you'll sound "gay", or just feminine in general.

    • @aster9809
      @aster9809 3 года назад +38

      thanks bro, i already kinda do this but ive been feeling bad abt my voice especially because im starting school in a few weeks

    • @edmin1013
      @edmin1013 2 года назад +10

      Thank you!

    • @Keith_online
      @Keith_online Год назад +8

      sometimes I wonder how these differences in afab and amab voices develops

    • @chicks_before_dicks
      @chicks_before_dicks Год назад +19

      ​@@Keith_online Probably socialization.

    • @v2-ek2vl
      @v2-ek2vl 3 месяца назад

      this should be higher up, really good tip dude. thanks!

  •  4 года назад +439

    Nonbinary here! Trying to make my voice sound more neutral in terms of gender association, nor "feminine" or "masculine". This video helps a lot!!! Thank vou so much!

    • @Wab2007
      @Wab2007 3 года назад +2

      I'm sorry for asking but what does non binary even mean? I'm not lgbtq i just wanted a deeper voice that's why I'm here. Thanks in advance

    • @tafferine388
      @tafferine388 3 года назад +15

      @@Wab2007 Non-binary is people who don’t identify as girl or boy , they are the other option! Some can/prefer to look more masculine or feminine but non-binary people are a huge sort of blanket of people. Also majority go by they/them pronouns but some do prefer others.

    • @Wab2007
      @Wab2007 3 года назад

      @@tafferine388 ok

    • @theboxygenie
      @theboxygenie 7 месяцев назад

      Wait. That's a "v" right? Thank v-o-u? It kind of looks like RUclips cut off the curly portion of the "y".

  • @jonah8231
    @jonah8231 6 лет назад +836

    My customer service voice is very feminine and i dont know how to sound polite and customer friendly without it but im publicly transitioning so i want to learn. Im so confused on how to do this.

    • @ashtonm1787
      @ashtonm1787 6 лет назад +23

      Jonah me too, that's what im dealing with as well

    • @cryptid_syd
      @cryptid_syd 6 лет назад +74

      same, my customer service voice is like, three octaves higher than my usual voice

    • @rjcomputergeek
      @rjcomputergeek 5 лет назад +8

      This is my exact problem!

    • @deliberatelypositive5812
      @deliberatelypositive5812 5 лет назад +43

      Try to speak the way you would to a friend if they asked you to help them out or reccomend something. And use agreeable language. Often time it's more a sense of friendliness and genuine helpfulness that a customer looks for, and not necessarily a bright tone of voice. The voice is only one way to achieve that. :)

    • @user-spagetti
      @user-spagetti 5 лет назад +27

      Same. Sucks when I look passable and then I open my mouth and I'm very feminine. I haven't transitioned yet and Idek what I am but I know I really want to be perceived as male or masculine and it generally upsets me when I'm not. I'm not sure how to get my voice to my stomach Lmao. They said in the video I should feel my stomach vibrate but I don't feel shit

  • @jasperincarceron9474
    @jasperincarceron9474 7 лет назад +650

    This helped so much, I'm a 16 y.o. female actress (with an extremely high voice) and was cast as a male role and I had been watching so many videos and all of the techniques I learned ended with my throat being extremely sore. This is comfortable and it works better than most of the other things I saw, so thank you so much for this

    • @alex.c6307
      @alex.c6307 5 лет назад +5

      OMG same

    • @AlabasterZ
      @AlabasterZ 3 года назад +16

      I can't figure out wtf he's talking about. I just want to sound more masculine for once. Everytime I do my deep voices, i still sound like a woman.

    • @yosachaiko9969
      @yosachaiko9969 10 месяцев назад

      @@AlabasterZ I haven't watched this video. But this other video shows the difference between just lowering your voice and lowering it while also adding like vocal weight or whatever it was called. Heres the video you can search: How To Masculinize Your Voice (Transmasculine Voice) - Lowering The Larynx AmaRoseLessons
      Just realized this comment is old, but maybe its still helpful?

    • @AlabasterZ
      @AlabasterZ 10 месяцев назад

      @@yosachaiko9969 adding vocal weight is so hard. I somehow taught myself a bit, but since idk what I'm doing (and it's a muscle being exercised in a way it's never been), it's hard to control and maintain

    • @yosachaiko9969
      @yosachaiko9969 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@AlabasterZ Well, thats annoying. I've never tried it so I have no idea what it'd be like for me. I'd have to be the only one in the house to feel comfortable trying. I'd just feel stupid. Its crazy how good some people are at this stuff.

  • @conradlarson7308
    @conradlarson7308 6 лет назад +269

    Just commenting to say you have good taste in music, man.

    • @cruse1177
      @cruse1177 5 лет назад +6

      Raven Larson he does.

  • @pyx6987
    @pyx6987 4 года назад +663

    i just want to sound male so i can be more comfortable talking in video games
    not only am i a girl but i sound extremely young

    • @debonyeun
      @debonyeun 4 года назад +32

      Pyx bro- I’m a thirteen year old but people think I’m 7

    • @freedomposter6433
      @freedomposter6433 4 года назад +5

      If you want, i can help you with voice training

    • @hirahiraniiii
      @hirahiraniiii 4 года назад +11

      i'm 13 and people think i'm 20 lol

    • @jimjamchimin3549
      @jimjamchimin3549 4 года назад +1

      @Kacper help me

    • @meowbruhhh4586
      @meowbruhhh4586 3 года назад +3

      @@ETERNALGHXST same but just a middle school girl😔

  • @kristin2104
    @kristin2104 5 лет назад +4733

    I'm a cis female watching this so I'll sound cooler in dungeons and dragons oof

  • @somebodyoncetoldme4428
    @somebodyoncetoldme4428 4 года назад +85

    I already have a deep female voice but I am excited to hear what my voice will be like lower. This really helped me out. One thing I've been really self conscious about as a trans guy is my voice.

    • @fuzzyblurr3555
      @fuzzyblurr3555 9 месяцев назад +1

      I know I’m three years late lol but I’m currently in this exact boat I’ve always have had a deeper voice but for some reason I subconsciously do “baby voices” or really randomly high pitched voices when I’m excited and it is so dysphoric…

  • @deegewilliams2567
    @deegewilliams2567 4 года назад +171

    Thank you!! I'm nonbinary (masculine-leaning) and I struggle with a high voice, despite how tall and thick I am. This was really helpful in getting closer to what I'm trying to present as!

    • @oaterberg
      @oaterberg 4 года назад +4

      I support you!

  • @dontjayjayme
    @dontjayjayme 5 лет назад +1047

    Ok I tried this (and I got dysphoric because body, yay) but no, my dog came to look why I made such strange noises and that's just really cute
    edit: she's still looking at me, trying to figure out what the hell im doing
    edit no 2: i feel watched

    • @jayden9775
      @jayden9775 5 лет назад +45

      Rumor has it.....she's still watching u.....

    • @GLINCE.
      @GLINCE. 4 года назад +20

      I heard she's still watching you, has she blinked yet?

    • @nabranestwistypuzzler7019
      @nabranestwistypuzzler7019 4 года назад +7

      Btw, the person who’s comment is below this one has a dog with wayyyy tooo wide open eyes for a profile picture.

    • @xuromi
      @xuromi 4 года назад +6

      @@nabranestwistypuzzler7019 howd you know..

    • @nabranestwistypuzzler7019
      @nabranestwistypuzzler7019 4 года назад +4

      clown idk

  • @tredecimangeli3196
    @tredecimangeli3196 4 года назад +36

    Watching as a trans woman to do the opposite of what explain and avoid what I do with my naturally deep voice and to be honest I think it's actually helped me gain a new perspective on voice training

  • @adameuroza5961
    @adameuroza5961 6 лет назад +595

    I can’t feel my stomach vibrate

    • @samhague4213
      @samhague4213 4 года назад +61

      Neither can I, but I think it's just cause I'm fluffy

    • @luca-xf7js
      @luca-xf7js 4 года назад +7

      Mintdori Chan LMAO

    • @donnieboi6409
      @donnieboi6409 4 года назад +16

      Samar Grey unus annus o^o

    • @tsukiko2027
      @tsukiko2027 3 года назад +11

      @@donnieboi6409 Memento Mori

    • @murkymeow3083
      @murkymeow3083 3 года назад +12

      Even if you could get vibrations in your stomach that wouldn't mean that this is "the place where your sound resonates". It would mean that you're engaging more of the vocal fold mass so the vocal folds vibrate more strongly so the vibrations propagate to other parts of the body (i've never observed them going any further than the chest). Changing the vocal fold mass can indeed make you sound more masculine.
      I would recommend checking out TransVoiceLessons' video on vocal fold mass.

  • @almondtofuboba
    @almondtofuboba 4 года назад +91

    As someone who is currently trying to transition, this is super helpful! It's so hard to find videos out there that teach you how to naturally use your diaphragm or "belly" voice.. It's helped me a lot since one of the main problems for my dysphoria and anxiety is my feminine voice. I'm glad that there are people like you helping others flow into transitioning safely and effectively without having to be scared

    • @sherrytzasherrytza4793
      @sherrytzasherrytza4793 4 года назад +1

      It doesn't start until 3:40. Skip straight to the second half of the video for the useful bit.

  • @synastargamer1141
    @synastargamer1141 4 года назад +74

    I am trying so hard to focus, but my adhd is like "OMG I LOVE THAT SONG"

    • @eyesofsulfide
      @eyesofsulfide 3 года назад +1

      sorry for commenting so late but its called blue monday by orgy =)!

    • @eyesofsulfide
      @eyesofsulfide 3 года назад +1

      @@PowerCat no worries dude, my bad. I just noticed that they made a cover of that original song.

  • @unfinishedworks
    @unfinishedworks 4 года назад +890

    *Me a cis female watching this so I can go "ay bro that's gay" when a guy flirts*
    edit: i am no longer cis btw lmao i have multiple sets of prns🥴
    Another edit: i changed my name im now sephtis rather than my birth name it acc means death
    another edit: it has been three years i now only go by seph js bcs idk why uh i go by they/he mostly they tho cuz i fkn hate labels tbh but uh yea
    another other edit: i still go by seph but now i only strictly use they/them tbh if it was up to me i js wouldnt be perceived but what can you do🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @sapphicratuwu422
    @sapphicratuwu422 3 года назад +23

    I’m nonbinary and I’ve sort of mastered the high pitched “UwU girl” voice so now I’m trying get my voice to go slightly deeper so that I can confuse people even more

  • @fletcher2355
    @fletcher2355 2 года назад +21

    I'm a trans man who just recently started my transition and this video has made me realize how much I talk in head space, so often that I can't seem to go below chest space. When I speak in chest space I sound much more emotionless, which feels natural, but I've been conditioned to speak in a way that sounds very emotional, even if I'm not feeling the emotions that I'm portraying when I speak.

    • @mdust8409
      @mdust8409 Год назад +4

      I relate a lot this. Leaving aside me being an enby who wants a more masculine voice now, I often felt like sometimes I wanted to talk in a more monotone way but I couldn't help but keep thinking that people expect from me to express a lot of emotion trough my speech, and if I don't I'm being rude or I am mad. Even when I'm indeed mad or sad, I get to see how others don't care and talk to me very coldly but I still don't do the same, I still end up exageratting emotions.

  • @bodylesslevitatinghead5124
    @bodylesslevitatinghead5124 4 года назад +31

    Anyone else just wants to get into a conversation and randomly whip out a manly voice?

  • @johne.chalco4134
    @johne.chalco4134 6 лет назад +1787

    Edited the comment so no one will ever know what the fuck this comment was about

  • @buupuu3521
    @buupuu3521 4 года назад +532

    the 3 types of people watching this
    -trans people
    -voice actors
    -girls who wanna troll as a guy
    .
    i have no shame.

    • @saturnsoderlund287
      @saturnsoderlund287 3 года назад +3

      lmao im like all but the last one...

    • @Wab2007
      @Wab2007 3 года назад +9

      im not trans lmao i just wanna deeper voice. its already deeper than most people i know but not enough

    • @Blossom-wn3kv
      @Blossom-wn3kv 3 года назад +1

      @@Wab2007 Well as long as your happy with yourself whatever you do is fine ^ ^

    • @pastacrusader1900
      @pastacrusader1900 3 года назад +2

      and incels lmao

    • @CocoaCornflower
      @CocoaCornflower 3 года назад +8

      -girls who just don't want to get harrassed everytime they talk on the mic when playing online.

  • @publicunknown
    @publicunknown 5 лет назад +416

    Wait doing it too deep is dangerous? *dOES IT MORE*

  • @shoeling
    @shoeling 2 года назад +14

    everybody in the comments saying ‘i’m cis i’m just here for’ yada yada yada that’s how it starts

  • @mickiepurdin5443
    @mickiepurdin5443 6 лет назад +33

    It didn't click at first because I was trying to push my voice down. It worked when I realized that and tried to relax. I never thought I could do it! Thank you so much!

  • @injailoutsoon7020
    @injailoutsoon7020 3 года назад +81

    "Im a female"
    also me: "how to have masculine hands, how to deepen your hands, how to be more masculine"

    • @random6579
      @random6579 3 года назад +39

      "How to deepen your hands" my guy asking the real questions

    • @thequeertelope7941
      @thequeertelope7941 2 года назад +4

      im not sure what deep hands are fjdsla;hg

    • @thornarts
      @thornarts 2 года назад +9

      “how to deepen your hands” :skull:

    • @redd9108
      @redd9108 Год назад +2

      I mean, I do that too, but coz I'm more of a tomboy. Idk, whatever works for u is ok ^^

  • @novadraws877
    @novadraws877 4 года назад +23

    I just came out a trans! I’m so excited to start transitioning

  • @koiyo303
    @koiyo303 6 лет назад +176

    I'm probably not doing it right as I'm not hearing any change at all :/

  • @stressd
    @stressd 4 года назад +142

    "If you talk like this, you sound all tough.."
    Me wanting to sound like Bakugou: 👁️👄👁️

  • @TaxEvasi0n
    @TaxEvasi0n 4 года назад +13

    I'm just a male that wants a deeper voice, so I'll take tips from any one.

  • @owenpattaylor
    @owenpattaylor 4 года назад +5

    i'm a cis dude with a deep voice and i keep finding myself watching these videos
    i dunno why, there's something fascinating about it
    this video is the best I've seen purely because of the New Order song in the background

  • @laurenelvin19
    @laurenelvin19 5 лет назад +74

    Ok so with experimentation i found out I normally talk IN my stomach voice. When I talk in my chest voice i literally sound like a chipmunk.help.

    • @desirient8166
      @desirient8166 3 года назад +6

      same honestly, kinda infuriating

  • @amandacavalcanti1076
    @amandacavalcanti1076 2 года назад +9

    cis girl here, just take care people :) love yall
    u guys are incredible

  • @spaceman2049
    @spaceman2049 5 лет назад +37

    I keep getting dizzy when I try to breathe through my mouth. Imma just sit here and do this for hours.

  • @evilcockroach54323
    @evilcockroach54323 3 года назад +49

    Me wearing baggy clothes, getting a short haircut, working up the courage to go buy a binder, wearing my dad suit for fancy day, learning how to deepen my voice into a realistic make voice:
    School: not so fast, you only have 3 more days to get your realistic voice for new classes next semester, nice try girly girl.
    Update: Didn't pass but 2/3 of my teachers are supportive of my name and pronouns so I'm calling that a win

  • @emz3211
    @emz3211 6 лет назад +120

    I’m so stupid but I can’t feel any vibration other than my chest or throat even through I’m going as low and high as I can. Does anyone know what I’m doing wrong?

    • @OK-qb8yy
      @OK-qb8yy 4 года назад +8

      em z yep same. no idea what im doing wrong.

    • @genericname8727
      @genericname8727 3 года назад

      Also don’t know how to do it.

    • @dothedo3667
      @dothedo3667 2 года назад +1

      There's nothing wrong. Feeling vibrations wherever isn't any sort of real indicator of what's going on with your voice. Find better videos about transmasculine voice training.

  • @88kiwisinatrenchcoat5
    @88kiwisinatrenchcoat5 3 года назад +35

    Me: "maybe I'm just confused..."
    Also me: Trying to get a deeper voice because why do I have to sound like a chick-

  • @myrkflinn4331
    @myrkflinn4331 5 лет назад +128

    wtf, I already speak through my belly... wtf I still sound high

  • @aart4666
    @aart4666 4 года назад +6

    Pro tip for whoever is gonna see this. If your family is not getting offended by the existance of hard music. Try to use these tips to find a comfortable way to sing Slipknot chill songs such as snuff vermilion pt. 2 or chill verses of harder songs kill pop dead memories etc. It sounds less weird than humming. It helps a lot. And I was using this Slipknot method before I found this video so the combo of these two should be a bomb. My friend who was not able to see me for 3 months(?) or something like that though I was already on testosterone.

  • @mariontheartsy372
    @mariontheartsy372 5 лет назад +36

    I cannot feel my stomach vibrating, anyone know how to help that?

  • @robinjames333
    @robinjames333 6 лет назад +82

    ALL OF HAMLET IN THREE AND A HALF HOURS
    also known as what I did last summer

  • @llmarie4052
    @llmarie4052 4 года назад +4

    As a singer I recognized a lot of these (Nonbinary but needing a slightly deeper voice)

  • @kypoof4020
    @kypoof4020 2 года назад +3

    I'm a genderfluid afab with a lot of dysphoria going on today so this is my comfort place

  • @retcho212
    @retcho212 4 года назад +112

    We really REALLY need to figure out Yagami Yato’s secret 👀

    • @saturnsoderlund287
      @saturnsoderlund287 3 года назад +16

      HOW DID YOU KNOW...

    • @nagitos682
      @nagitos682 3 года назад +9

      Oh lawdy-

    • @Lee-nm9tf
      @Lee-nm9tf 3 года назад +6

      No shame 🐸✌️

    • @mochiattoart514
      @mochiattoart514 3 года назад +9

      RIGHT- Everyone here be trans, voice actors, dnd players & trollers n I'm just tryna do the Yato-

    • @J3llyfishie
      @J3llyfishie 3 года назад +1

      Oop-

  • @coachdoggo2266
    @coachdoggo2266 3 года назад +4

    I'm glad they're ways to do this safely. I'm still a teenager so I can't go on T and of course, my vocal cords are still growing which makes damaging them the last thing I want to do. Although I've apparently been doing a "vocal fry" to lower my voice which is very damaging. So thank you so much for explaining how to do this without ruining my voice

  • @hobbesfield1082
    @hobbesfield1082 5 лет назад +7

    Wow, it made my voice not-nasal! Thanks a lot!!!

  • @qrandoamero9674
    @qrandoamero9674 Год назад +2

    I (as a closeted gender fluid transmasc(don't ask it's hard to explain) who got a really short "pixie" cut and makes binders out of sport bras and wears a lot of flannels) thank you!

  • @sillybirdy1994
    @sillybirdy1994 3 года назад +2

    The best advice Ive ever seen for voice stuff was given by Morgan Freeman. When asked what technique he used to get his silky smooth voice he said he yawns all the time. Yawning stretches our vocal chords and does wonders. Have fun!

  • @zeefeer0543
    @zeefeer0543 4 года назад +3

    JACK THANK YOU!!! you explained it so clearly and IT WORKED!!! IT WORKED SO WELL!! i was so happy i danced around my room laughing for about five mins because it feels so good... turns out my voice is actually very deep!!

  • @2111jade
    @2111jade 4 года назад +13

    My voice is low enough to pass as male but theres the occasional pitch that goes higher that really annoys me that I want to work on the most. And I can't take hormones due to health reasons so I need to learn to speak more levely. If that makes sense.

  • @Jukeboxinc
    @Jukeboxinc 4 года назад +5

    I'm trans ftm. Thank you so much for this video, definetally helps my dysphoria! Thank you!!!!

  • @milesaph
    @milesaph 4 года назад +56

    I really dont get head/chest/stomach voice, to me everything just comes from my throat? Thats where it mostly vibrates, then some on the chest and a little on the stomach sometimes. If i try to emulate that i just change pitch which i dont think its what youre supposed to do. is it because im pre T?

    • @EosDoesStuff
      @EosDoesStuff 4 года назад +21

      I'm pre-T too, it just takes a bit of practice. I come from a musical/singing background and you're usually advised to sing with your belly voice for a more powerful sound. The natural voice most people speak with is their chest voice, your throat will vibrate regardless. Keep your hand on your chest while speaking with your normal voice, then while trying the belly voice, and compare how much it vibrates. I don't feel vibrations on my stomach much but I do hear a noticable difference in my voice and it doesn't strain my throat unlike what I used to do before.

  • @shaden3392
    @shaden3392 4 года назад +3

    my two options when ftm voice dysphoria:
    - learn to deapen your voice
    - learn sign language
    this is kinda a joke but i really learn sign language, it's useful like if you are with someone who can only communicates with it, but not only : if ypu're having panic attacks and cant talk and need to signify you need help/water/calm/someone.... if the persons that are with you knows a bit of the sign as well it can be really useful.

    • @saturnsoderlund287
      @saturnsoderlund287 3 года назад

      thats actually really good advice for panic attacks,, i get really bad panic/anxiety attacks, like i passed out from hyperventilating once kinda bad, and i stutter so much during an attack that you cant even figure out what im saying... thanks for the advice!

  • @xdemonic.loverx
    @xdemonic.loverx 5 лет назад +46

    I haven't started testosterone yet, will it be harder for me to do this since I haven't started testosterone yet

    • @SpicyTealeaf
      @SpicyTealeaf 5 лет назад +19

      I haven’t started T either. I have been practicing this for a few days now and already notice a difference. I think if you work at it, it’ll work. You’ll slowly learn to really access that lower belly range as he points out. I was shocked at how I was able to kinda find that belly breathing range for a minute. Keep up the practice ^_^

    • @xdemonic.loverx
      @xdemonic.loverx 5 лет назад +2

      @@SpicyTealeaf thank you and I will

    • @jackmarl5534
      @jackmarl5534  5 лет назад +22

      Nope, and it's a great idea to start practicing this stuff before you start T - I imagine it'll make things a little easier when your voice starts cracking! Good luck.

    • @xdemonic.loverx
      @xdemonic.loverx 5 лет назад +1

      @@jackmarl5534 thank you 💛💛

  • @sunkissed_apollo8265
    @sunkissed_apollo8265 3 года назад +1

    If you have trouble breathing into your stomach, choir could help! I’ve been taking choir classes every time I get a chance to at school, and in order to sing you have to breathe into your stomach! If you don’t like singing, drama class is a good idea as well

  • @unemployedscholar4320
    @unemployedscholar4320 2 года назад +1

    This video was intensely helpful. I have a bass extension that I use to get to E2, but starting at B2 I have to switch to high bass register in order to reach baritone E2. Because I was singing the baritone notes in a bass way I couldn't project the sound. But because you were showing how to phonate using your belly voice, I wondered, maybe I can project it by just brightening the resonance. Since I can phonate down there, then maybe I can hold the note. So I phonated the F2 in the high bass register and brightened the resonance, and I was able to sustain the note.
    Not being able to reach low tenor with bright resonance was a major cause of my dysphoria.
    So thanks to your video, I can now sing low tenor songs now.

  • @theapostleofpeace
    @theapostleofpeace 6 лет назад +81

    I did some of these exercises (cause I forgot the rest) and my voice was deeper for a full day. Thank you! I was doing a throat exercise before that only lasted minutes.
    Also, my friend is an actor and does a lot of scratchy raspy voices. It's not his actual accent. I wonder what's happening to his vocal chords?

    • @jackmarl5534
      @jackmarl5534  6 лет назад +21

      Haha, no worries, it takes some practice! Glad I could help! I hope your friend's taking care of himself - there are ways to do that kind of thing safely, but it does take some training and practice.

  • @lilycortez8411
    @lilycortez8411 4 года назад +8

    I am 13 and try to transition into a boy. Thanks, this help so much!

  • @serenadams8588
    @serenadams8588 5 лет назад +7

    Thanks for this video man. My throat needed a break.

  • @blakelopez6309
    @blakelopez6309 2 года назад +3

    Oh god this is the first video I've come across that has actually helped me! I'm already so excited to practice this often. My voice gives me away easily and although I might be starting T soon (based on what my gender therapist said), that is unfortunately not instant result wise. I always thought I had a masculine voice until I started actively going as a man and realizing my voice is too feminine still.
    Thank you so much for this vid!

  • @Jia_Mage69
    @Jia_Mage69 3 года назад +3

    My family is homophobic and I'm trans plus I can't get the meds since I'm young. Thank you for the video!

  • @roxc1170
    @roxc1170 3 года назад +10

    me: i’m a cis female!
    also me: how to get masculine hands, how to deepen your voice, how to dress masculine, how to get a masculine face shape, how to dress masculine, how to act manly ✍️

  • @TwoUmbrella2106
    @TwoUmbrella2106 28 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much I can definitely tell that my voice got deeper and this is only the first try so I’m sure that if I keep doing this I will definitely be able to hear more of a change

  • @sillykavat
    @sillykavat 2 года назад +4

    I do not know how I’m struggling so much with this, but good tutorial for those that can follow and need it

  • @angeloeyes9210
    @angeloeyes9210 5 лет назад +7

    I'm in choir at school and I already know how to breathe using my diaphragm. I have noticed my voice is noticably a bit deeper. That and I've been practicing lower ranged songs. I'm naturally an Alto so it does help that my voice isn't too high.

  • @brie6075
    @brie6075 4 года назад +5

    5:42 to skip talking part

  • @charlieatchison7204
    @charlieatchison7204 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for the lesson and also for playing New Order in the background

  • @Helvetica.16
    @Helvetica.16 4 года назад +1

    This is a little old, but it helps. My voice is just very weird, it kind of vibrates and makes me sound like I'm sick or crying? So it gets frustrating because I try these exercises and my voice just does a sickly shake and I go back to sounding like a strained pubic child. But I've been trying out these exercises and I can sort of hear a switch, trying to deepen my voice because I won't be getting T anytime soon.
    Thank you!

  • @emoboilandon6226
    @emoboilandon6226 4 года назад +6

    Me trying to focus:
    My brain: YOUR COLLAR YOUR COLLAR! Aaahhhhh

  • @MP-yh1pv
    @MP-yh1pv 6 лет назад +4

    This is the most helpful video I've found in months, thank you!

  • @masonthejar8890
    @masonthejar8890 4 года назад +1

    thanks bro, i'll definitely use these tips (+ my binder and short haircut lol) to get through junior year

  • @Alex-or1sj
    @Alex-or1sj 3 года назад +2

    Him: you can move your head a couple times.
    My neck: *cRaCk*

  • @mangocookie1247
    @mangocookie1247 3 года назад +4

    My dysphoria mainly comes from my voice is I'm wearing my hoodie and baggy jeans. I end up screaming swears and talking about how I hate how high my voice can go before shutting up.

  • @j.j.l.
    @j.j.l. 5 лет назад +11

    This is very helpful, thank you. Question: Since I transitioned my voice does not project like it used to. I hardly had to make any effort to be heard from afar. Now, people often ask me to repeat myself because my voice just does not carry any more. I feel so constricted. Any suggestions?

    • @jackmarl5534
      @jackmarl5534  5 лет назад +11

      I had the same issue, to be honest I'd just suggest doing more of these sorts of exercises and getting used to where your voice is sitting now - finding your new voice is a process and doesn't happen overnight! Your lower range is louder and the more you practice comfortably speaking down there (I think a lot of transmasc people often pitch up when we first transition because we're subconsciously used to hearing a higher voice), the better you'll be heard. I also like practicing by thinking about filling the space - actively imagining making the sound of your voice 'hit' the far wall of a room rather than just the person in front of you, safely 'throwing' the sound of your voice when you're in an open space like a field/auditorium, etc.

    • @j.j.l.
      @j.j.l. 5 лет назад +1

      @@jackmarl5534 Very helpful! Thanks!

  • @cyclesofstrength
    @cyclesofstrength 3 года назад +2

    I'm nonbinary, very recently have come to terms with myself about this. My voice is very traditionally feminine and young sounding, I've always disliked it (now understanding that it's because I'm not a girl, so of course it feels like it doesn't fit). I'm gonna practice these to sound more masculine or gender neutral. I hope I can do it

  • @sevasti7670
    @sevasti7670 3 года назад +2

    I watched this when i was a cisgender person but now look at me im trans😯

  • @theweirdo8622
    @theweirdo8622 5 лет назад +39

    Blue Monday on the background.
    Thanks, and I also think you are very handsome :)
    Are you gay too? It's good to see more gay/bi transmen.

    • @jackmarl5534
      @jackmarl5534  5 лет назад +5

      Thanks pal! :) I am, check out my side gig transfxggotry on IG if you're looking for more of us!

  • @grubbiechirp5695
    @grubbiechirp5695 3 года назад +3

    I’m a cis female that dresses as a male sometimes, and I would love to actually feel like a man, so thank you :)

  • @godsnintendog
    @godsnintendog 4 года назад +1

    Fantastic background song choice

  • @ainolaiho4236
    @ainolaiho4236 3 года назад

    I've found out that when I'm tired i speak with my stomach voice and i couldn't figure out how to do it normally so this helped a lot. Thank you a lot!

  • @rainkitty8136
    @rainkitty8136 3 года назад +4

    Can't seem to stop straining my vocal cords or to make it so I can do a belly voice sadly it's all super confusing

  • @zeboy1959
    @zeboy1959 5 лет назад +9

    I can't get lower than the back of my throat

  • @VackraKatten
    @VackraKatten Год назад +1

    A tip:
    If you cannot 'reach' the lower register, try to say the letter s. Like ssssssssssssssssssssss. That really helped me. Most of the persons who sing knows that. Btw, thank you SO much!

    • @lu_thejackass
      @lu_thejackass 5 месяцев назад

      Did you have an issue with it still hurting in your throat? It keeps happening no matter what training I do :')

  • @justarandomperson_v2994
    @justarandomperson_v2994 3 года назад +1

    Thank you! My voice is so high pitched like a six year old and I don’t have a gender but my voice is not really helping
    This really helped me

  • @Scarlett-Hofferson
    @Scarlett-Hofferson 4 года назад +16

    I just need to do male harmonies while singing in my room XD

  • @SavageMinnow
    @SavageMinnow 3 года назад +4

    My first thoughts on this video... why is this guy talking about taking T? Oh, shit he’s afab!! 😄💜

  • @Glitched404Brainiac
    @Glitched404Brainiac 2 года назад +2

    Im nonbinary and a voice actor I already can make my voice lower but Im trying to make it better so this is pretty usefull (sorry Im not english so my english is pretty bad lol)

  • @leavemealone3089
    @leavemealone3089 3 года назад +1

    I liked the video because the information was very helpful. I followed because you like New Order and have fantastic music taste. lol

  • @spooky7371
    @spooky7371 4 года назад +5

    i'm a cis woman and i legit just want to sound cool while i play dnd

    • @idk-lg9nm
      @idk-lg9nm 4 года назад +3

      Sorry off topic but you have the best profile pic in the world 👁👄👁

    • @saturnsoderlund287
      @saturnsoderlund287 3 года назад +1

      sorry off topic but you have the best username in the world 👁👄👁

  • @StargirlMonea
    @StargirlMonea 4 года назад +3

    I just watching this so I could sound like the characters I voice when reading

  • @Dan-yx6ur
    @Dan-yx6ur 2 года назад +1

    This is probably the most helpful video I've seen on this topic, thank you so much!

  • @Itri_Vega
    @Itri_Vega 3 года назад +2

    I remember this kind of exercise from my theatre class back in high school. I hadn't realized how badly cramped up I was until I tried them, though. I have a deep chest voice by default and am pre T but out in public my voice tends to jump up to the head voice and it drives me nuts. Tl;dr I really need to relax more. Thank you!