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@@pousalimukherjee6178 that's very unfortunate... Can you tell me what I should do .... Actually I like a guy and I think he likes me too and I also gave him an indication.. But when one of my friends asked him about me he said we were just friends... But his actions doesn't speak so😢
I have a sort of other problem, I'm trying to figure out if a coworker has a crush on me. I just want to be his friend/coworker, no other interest ag my part. But he keeps winking at me and walks longer routes at work just to walk longer with me even if our destination is different. Then he also sometimes just comes and checks how my work is going and we are like on the same level (workvice) the only difference is he has done it for like 40 years and I have done it for a year. I see him as a fatherfigure and a mentor
@@alissonbate842 heart chakra is something about love so if you act very cold to someone,I think you got hurt by someone before that's why your heart chakra is blocked
I’m a guy and I don’t do any of this. What I do along with many shy guys is... 1.don’t look at her 2.don’t talk at all when near 3.try to leave the area 4. Turn body away from her 5.look at her when she’s not looking 6. Make eye contact for a brief second if I’m feeling bold and then look away
I had a guy do that who looked then looked away multiple times today, and it was strange. He’s done some things that have made me wonder, but then I heard he was out on some sunset walk, all touchy, with a girl (a very annoying one). Also, we are in the same band section, and it’s small, and all of us are close, some of them are like my older brothers, so dating within (section incest) is super frowned upon at school. But he also read in one sitting, stayed up very late at night, a screenplay I wrote. He wanted to read it too, full on asked me. No one has done that, that’s effort no one has ever done. No one. And now I think I might be falling in love with him, so I officially hate my life.
Guys are as confusing as they say we women are. 🤦🏻♀️ I have this coworker who I've caught on, constantly gazing at me when I'm either not looking or he thinks I'm not looking. Even from across the room, I'll find him & he'll already be looking. He'll either try & hold my gaze or look away quickly. There's times of he's standing somewhere & I'll come by for whatever reason, he'll suddenly walk the other way, but he'll have a hint of a smile/smirk on his face. Leaving me all puzzled. But if I'm standing somewhere he'll come up close to me, sometimes pretty close. 🤔 Somedays he'll smirk when I've caught him looking at me, other days he just has a straight face with unreadable emotions. Sometimes when we do talk about work stuff, I've noticed he'll come a bit too close towards me, or this one time really held my gaze, where it felt pretty intense 😅 I don't mind cos I think he's cute. But one think he always, always does is the gazing towards me. Will try to keep eye contact, other times will look away quickly. Lol but he's so very confusing, I just wanna know what his deal is. Men are confusing af as well!
@@metalli.queen13 It's all about shy people problems...we always loose the girls we have crush on coz we make an impression that we kinda don't like them .. but it's not true. It's more that we don't know how to express that.
TI:ME STAMPS!!! 1:00 he'll raise his eyebrows 1:37 he'll open his mouth just a bit 2:09 he fixed himself up when you're around 2:57 he'll stroke his face 3:38 he tries to appear larger 3:55 you catch him staring at you 4:29 he shows up early
I smile when I see him, and it shows in my eyes! I lean towards him and he leans forward at the same time. He glances at me several times and smiles, with his eyes!!
I feel like when somebody likes you know it deep down , maybe in the way you look at each other or how you guys talk with one another but you can definitely feel it... Edit: thank you guys for the likes , I didn't expect it!🙏❤
A lot of people are blind to love. How to crush on this girl and she was just absolutely blind to hints. Hence started subtle and got more obvious but she never noticed
You are right the room feels like a whole different vibe the constant flirting, and teasing. You can tell someone is into by how they treat you compared to others. ❤
What I do attentionally: - 1.touching my lips 2.pointing my feet towards them 3. Playing with hands 4.being overly confident 5.STARE STARE STARE 6.smile with my eyes. 4. Raise my eyebrows
1. Eye contact, that person has my full attention. 2. I turn into a whole comedian lol 3. I allow physical affection. 4. I'll sometimes place myself in areas where I know we'll see eachother & talk. it's like im shy but not 😭
When I like someone: 1- I become really shy and avoid the person at ALL costs 2-I get tongue tied and my mind goes blank if he talks to me 3-if he talks to another girls I get really jealous 4-I think about him all day long like I can’t get him off my mind My zodiac sign is cancer btw :)))
When I like someone...I can't seem to look them in the eye, or I will go out of my way to avoid them. When I actually speak to them, my words get all scrambled.
If I like someone I'm a complete mess. I can't talk to them, I look the other way, stay out of the way. I go bright red when they're near me and I get severely nervous when they talk to me. I'll overthink EVERYTHING I say. I hate it when I do it, who likes someone back who does that?! I wish I wasn't such a mong 🙄
Ladies, the most certain giveaway is nr. 6. We just can't help looking at the girl/woman we like. And I mean, a lot. So if you catch a guy looking at you, you're 90% there. We will always try to find you in the room, try to be close to you or speak to you. We'll never be totally relaxed in your presence or when talking to you. If, on top of all that, we're trying to touch you, means we're cooked. If none of this happens, you can safely start looking elsewhere. I'm pretty positive this applies the other way around, too. But, ultimately, the real chemistry between two people is picked up instantly, and everything feels easy. If you have to work for it too hard, you may even end up with your crush eventually, but it's pretty much destined to end in tears (yours).
When I’m attracted to someone, I figure out every way I can look impressive to that person. Stand up straight, keep the conversation going, remember key points from our last conversations. I’ll make sure the other person talks first and especially give a pause before I start talking.
Usually I blush like an idiot when he's around. I play with my hair, uncounciously and pretend I'm not paying him attention when he's all I see!! Lol! I may put some lip gloss on in front of him. 😊😊😊😊😊😊
Mathew Boggs What type of body language signifies when a man places his hand on a woman's stomach/pelvic/waist area during a photo shoot on social media?
When I like someone, I walk the complete opposite way; I wanna avoid catching feelings for anyone romantically because when my specifies catches feelings, it's like I become a nanny, chef, therapist, and spend so much extra time on the other person that I forget about my priorities 😅
As a man, this is the feminine energy that we attracted to.. This gonna work for a genuine guy, you take care of me the hoyse and my children, I protect the yoy, family and provide us needs. There's nothing wrong with the way you act haha
When I like a guy I’ll find any excuse I can to walk past him. As I’m walking past him, I’ll stare at him. I’ll get really nervous when he’s around especially if I’m alone with him. I started wearing this body spray to turn my crush on. So that’s another sign.
There was this girl who has had the biggest crush on me since her freshman year (she’s a senior in highschool now and graduates in two months). What got my attention was that during her sophomore year, she invited me to spend time with her at her house for Halloween (2020) during Covid. Let’s just say that she was very hands-on (Twister and going on a 10-mile walk.) And she told me that pushing on someone’s chest can make them laugh (it works) and she slowly swung one leg over until she was sitting on my stomach so she could try it on me 😅. Later that night, right before I left her house I made the move to kiss her. I had to leave so I didn’t see the look on her face but I know I made the right move because we’re now a year and 5 months together. Moral of the story: ladies don’t be afraid to make it obvious. Trust me when I say this, that guys LOVE it when women show that they’re attracted to them.
I give him an honest compliment. During the pandemic. I saw an attractive man. I told him I like the way his eyebrows, worked well with his eyes and his haircut suit him well. Also, if I see a man who is nicely dressed. I say something. If he takes time to shower, comb his hair, press his clothes and his shoes are clean. I'm going to compliment him. There is nothing more sexier to me. A well dressed man. How well he takes care of himself. It doesn't matter his age, weight or height. He will get a compliment from me.
The guy that I like got me really crazy. I don't even know how to give him a sign that I like him. When we meet suddenly his awkward . And sometimes when I see him my heart beat getting faster. It's crazy huh
I notice I go the extra mile to make certain my hair and my eyes look exceptional. They are my best assets. I don't wear much make-up if any but when I do I do eyeliner and mascara.
If I'm attracted, I get shy, but I wanna smile and even if I wanna hide, my eyes smile. All is on my face. Also, I blush and try to look away, can't look directly in the eyes... but mostly, I wanna smile.
When I like a guy I always want to start the conversation and want to do things to make him laugh and smile. I also wear more makeup and jewelry and dress a bit fancier. Also I might add more scents like perfume or hand cream. Also I try to get a lot of eye contact. I try to compliment him when I can and make myself comfortable to be around without changing who I am. I also find myself thinking time goes to fast when we are together because I focus on them more then the clock. Another thing is I make him feel needed by making mistakes sometimes so he comes to my aid and he can feel like a hero.💕💕💕
Wow, we all sound alike pretty much, BUT the BIG question is, Hey, how are we SUPPOSED to let him know that WE feel that connection as well and ARE interested without being silly or stupid? Plz do a video on THAT!!!
I like watching random videos like these because I'm going back to school for my Master's in psychology. I want to get it in Family Therapy (MFT) which also focuses on relationships. I never heard of these signs as a way to show interest in someone. So it really interests me in getting to learn more of it. Also the comment section is hilarious :D
• I stuttered (rarely) • I can't stop starring at his face while talking to him. • I put my phone away • I find something to talk about and try to get to know him..like goals, family, favorite thing to do, etc.. • I find myself shy, but can't help myself being happy just knowing he is around. • I try fix my hair • I apply chapstick bc my lips tend to dry fast.
When I really like a guy, I’ll find myself: -Smiling a lot at him, and smiling with my eyes as well. Not just a polite smile. -Making a lot of eye contact -Playing with my hair, running my hands through my hair -Lowering my head a tiny bit so that I have to look up at him a small bit (I don’t know why I do this, it’s just what I’ll find myself doing out of reflex) -I’ll react very quickly to his voice -I laugh quite a bit at what he has to say -I’ll compliment him quite a bit and give him little gifts, like candy or gum -I’ll genuinely be interested in what he has to say and I’ll ask him a lot of questions about something he’s really interested in
I'm a guy now when I like a girl 1 I will listened to her Clear 2 . Deep conversation and conversations 3. Eye contact and smiling 4 . I would say cute and sweet things to the girl I'm talking to 5 . Not rushing into anything 6 . I would give her signs for showing that I'm a good person to be around 7 funny and not over confidents But what top out my body language on liking a girl Showing her that she is spiceal lady But what's nail down By committing how beautiful she is and And what shows more then everything I said is being gentleman to the girl who I like
When i talk to him gentle n,sweet, stare at his eyes ,his facial expression ,the way he talks, his teeth , all his actions, his finger nails,his smile n, my smile too to him etc .etc.
I keep eye contact a little bit longer when he finishes a sentence. I tend to talk about my career and what I'm up to seem very independent and busy. I let them take the lead in things and ideas in the first couple of months just to see if they even have the ability to be a leader and to see if they are creative. I dress super feminine to my best ability. I tend to behave detached/unbothered.
I typically will move my hair to the side or flip it, my voice goes up in a higher then normal pitch and I smile a lot.... also deep deep eye contact is something I try to hold when attracted to a man.
When I have a crush on someone, I get really excited and happy just to even hear his name. But when his around I talk less, I smile a lot, and when I get the chance , I run and hide lol. Because my heart can’t stop beating so much until I’m calmed then I return.
I feel like I act like such a dork around guys that I like. I suddenly become so self conscious of everything I say & do. It’s seriously annoying!!! Lol and then I keep telling myself- “just be yourself” but I feel so awkward & transparent it feels hard to...I think it’s just because I want them to like me... oh man!
I catch myself staring at him many times n that's automatic... I also smile more . It's undeniable when I feel attracted to a guy because my body gives clear sign😊
When I like a guy I find every chance I can to be around him and interact, I smile alot and I try to stand as close to him as possible. I also listen when he talks to other people especially girls
I’m usually not that big on touching people but If I’m attracted to someone I’ll do anything to just get a small innocent touch in, because it’s the best way to “feel” the other person for me and establish a connection. So I guess that’s my giveaway.
1. Eyebrows raised when looks at you. 2. Mouth opens a bit when looks at you. 3. Fixes himself up to look more attractive. 4. Stroke his face/chin esp with back of hand. 5. Tries to appear larger. 6. Catch him staring at you. 7. Shows up EARLY and has prepped well!
I'm 5 mins early, but I had 2 mins to get to a meeting & he showed up to tell me let's go, we're waiting on you, but we still had time. He's also very protective of me & shows great manner.
I feel like my body gets a bit tense. I tend to look away / act like I’m not seeing them too much. But I’m very aware of what they’re doing, where they are, if they’re looking at me, who they’re speaking with. It’s easier for me to flirt and be fun and goofy with guys I don’t even like, but when I like them... they probably think I don’t lolol.
Here I'll share my secrets 1 Around my crush, I tend to do things that I don't realize I'm doing for example, giggle cuter..hide my hands in my sleeves, constantly laugh..constantly smile..play with my hair..put my hands on my mouth/cheeks. Like I don't even purposely do it. It just comes to me. 2 Always have a urge to touch his hand, put my head on his shoulder, hold hands, hug him..physical stuff like that but I don't wan't to be strange. 3 Always tries to be around him as much as possible, even the little things like sitting together, walking together..makes me so happy and cheerful. 4 Always jokes around, and laughs at every cute thing he does. I always love it when he tries to be all manly and start joking around with me. Even the awkwardest moment like when wejust stare into eachothers eyes for a while and burst into laughter. He always tends to doodle random things on the chalkboard, knowing I love drawing honestly makes me giggle whenever he does it. 5 I constantly catch him staring at me, and even the smallest glances make me feel like I'm in heaven. I constantly look at him and turn away before her catches me. I swear I can not focus anymore. He's always on my mind. 6 I'm not me around him. I'm usually awkward, introverted and like to be alone and always sad. But his presence just lightens my mood, makes me feel like I belong and even makes me smile for the rest of the day. I really wonder if he likes me. He does most of these things, only around me.
When i like a guy i literally avoid him so much…i act like i dont even know him. Sometimes i feel bad because since i act that way i can never give them any hints but im just too nervous and i have fear of judgement already so with a crush it’s worse.
Crush looked into my class as he walked past, looked away, realised that I was there and then look back and stared as he walked away (today). When I see him with his gf, he kinda steps away from her or puts more space between them. Was also never late for my class last year, but was maybe for others (idk, just what I've seen). He also used to come stand by my table a lot and put his arms on it, then would lean in closer and talk to me directly. He also often only spoke to me in a "nice way" but was more harsh with my friends. Yall think he likes me or am I just making this up
When I like a man (like this one I like now) I don’t want to disrespect him nor make him feel bad a bit. I listen to him w empathy. I do little nice surprising things for him (in a nature way), I make deep eye contact w him; I stare at him when he thinks I’m not looking at him; I always try to look nice, attractive (but discern) and clean around him. I’m more confident and at the same time weakly melted around him. We trade more and joke more w each other -but always w respect and consideration-. And I even pray for him daily -r almost daily. I only want the best for him.
I also get awkward and begin to fix myself: mortally concerned that there is food in my teeth, sleep in my eyes, lick my lips to moisten them, stroke my hair. I may remove my glasses so my eyes are more visible (unfortunately this can make it harder to see if he notices me!). But I will also try to temper my eagerness with self calming things like breathing deeper and regulating my voice. It’s a spin fest!
In college, I'd liked this guy for a couple years. He was ahead and getting his MA in Art. THIS DAY I was going to look at him and let him see me. I was coming toward him -looking at his eyes, as he was talking to a colleague. He jerked up to meet my eyes happily, and I averted my eyes fast. This being done while I was close to being in love with him....This has happened to me throughout my life.
I find ways to get physically closer to them or even touch him. I laugh or smile a lot. I play with a curl of my hair. And i will actually take time on my appearance that i normally wouldn't. I might actually wear makeup, nicer clothes around him... Even do my hair 😂
I feel like a teenage girl, all giggly inside. I'm smiling and joking around. Usually telling silly jokes or making comical references. I look directly in their eye.
It depends on the person or on the relationship I have with him. My biggest crush was a good friend, which is why I was more active than with someone I just know by face. I looked him in the eyes and I smiled as bright as possible.
When he is around I do feel like my eyes has increased its field of vision. I unconsciously start to stare at him longer than I usually do with some other guys. I do not have the guts to talk to him but I always listen to everything he says when he talks to another person. I like to keep a close distance with him even if he isn't talking to me 😂😂😂 but when he does talk to me, it does feel like I need to give extra extra effort just to be able to answer his simple questions 😂😂😂
There is this guy that we talk everyday, not just text but mainly on the phone for hours. He looks at me all the time at work, even when I catch him he won't look away. He always stands or sits near me and makes it a point to do so. He keeps glancing at my lips when we're talking and even when we just stare at each other. He has started to playfully hit me at work and loves annoying me. BUT...says he doesn't see me as more than a friend but everyone at work thinks we are together by how he acts and I'm so confused cause I like him
I definitely stare lol 😂 My ears perk up and my eyes brighten when he enters the room too, and of course the eyebrow thing you mentioned. But I also fidget and get restless, because I'm stupidly nervous till I actually get talking to him 😅
When i'm with the guy I like I smile like an idiot, I get closer and try to have contact with him, maybe touch his arms or something subtle. I also tend to move my lips a lot
I become more smiley, yet flustered and awkward. I ask A LOT of questions about them and their interests because I’m genuinely interested, and I straighten up
Enjoyed your video! Lol What I do is I look away and try not to make any eye contact cause then they'll know that you like them. I know it's totally opposite to what a guy would do when they see a girl 😁🙈 Thanks for the tips!
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I pretend like I'm not paying attention to him, when he is all I can see. And I listen when he is talking to other people.😁
Hahaha exactly ☺️
Tina Macuga, Same ( really only the last part though )
Tina Macuga sooo true😂
Haha so true.. i always do this..
Feel you sis!! I do the same thing 😌
We girls are in denial coz we don't want to get our hopes up only to be faced with rejection
I didn't even propose him, but he guessed and rejected me in text
@@pousalimukherjee6178 that's very unfortunate... Can you tell me what I should do .... Actually I like a guy and I think he likes me too and I also gave him an indication.. But when one of my friends asked him about me he said we were just friends... But his actions doesn't speak so😢
I have a sort of other problem, I'm trying to figure out if a coworker has a crush on me. I just want to be his friend/coworker, no other interest ag my part. But he keeps winking at me and walks longer routes at work just to walk longer with me even if our destination is different.
Then he also sometimes just comes and checks how my work is going and we are like on the same level (workvice) the only difference is he has done it for like 40 years and I have done it for a year. I see him as a fatherfigure and a mentor
@@Erri_17 ewww
Yes
When I like someone I over ignore him ...im super shy
And thatd why everyone avoids wasting their time around you. No one wants to bother with fuckwits like you. Go eat a cactus
Shyness is normal girl, the best thing to do is find a good person and let things happen naturally
Anders Termansen You seem like a nice person
@@anderstermansen130 chill i think You got triggered im shy thats why
@@anderstermansen130 Damn bruh chill, who hurt you?
I look like I’m thee most uninterested girl on planet earth lol. My
anxiety/shyness/nerves make me literally turn to stone
Your heart chakra is blocked or probably you are like that?
Strawberry Milk huh ?
@@alissonbate842 heart chakra is something about love so if you act very cold to someone,I think you got hurt by someone before that's why your heart chakra is blocked
Strawberry Milk lmao
Strawberry Milk ohhh um well I’ve never had a boyfriend or any love connection at that so doubt it
Why am I watching this no one likes me
Brooke Walters I LIKE U!!!😱😱😱❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍
i felt this comment on a spiritual level 😂
😁😁
I know they are interested, but I want nothing with them. So, if we could switch places, I would love to. I hate getting attention I never asked for.
HAHAHAHA
I’m a guy and I don’t do any of this. What I do along with many shy guys is...
1.don’t look at her
2.don’t talk at all when near
3.try to leave the area
4. Turn body away from her
5.look at her when she’s not looking
6. Make eye contact for a brief second if I’m feeling bold and then look away
I had a guy do that who looked then looked away multiple times today, and it was strange. He’s done some things that have made me wonder, but then I heard he was out on some sunset walk, all touchy, with a girl (a very annoying one). Also, we are in the same band section, and it’s small, and all of us are close, some of them are like my older brothers, so dating within (section incest) is super frowned upon at school. But he also read in one sitting, stayed up very late at night, a screenplay I wrote. He wanted to read it too, full on asked me. No one has done that, that’s effort no one has ever done. No one. And now I think I might be falling in love with him, so I officially hate my life.
You sound adorable
awwwww
Guys are as confusing as they say we women are. 🤦🏻♀️ I have this coworker who I've caught on, constantly gazing at me when I'm either not looking or he thinks I'm not looking. Even from across the room, I'll find him & he'll already be looking. He'll either try & hold my gaze or look away quickly. There's times of he's standing somewhere & I'll come by for whatever reason, he'll suddenly walk the other way, but he'll have a hint of a smile/smirk on his face. Leaving me all puzzled. But if I'm standing somewhere he'll come up close to me, sometimes pretty close. 🤔 Somedays he'll smirk when I've caught him looking at me, other days he just has a straight face with unreadable emotions. Sometimes when we do talk about work stuff, I've noticed he'll come a bit too close towards me, or this one time really held my gaze, where it felt pretty intense 😅 I don't mind cos I think he's cute. But one think he always, always does is the gazing towards me. Will try to keep eye contact, other times will look away quickly. Lol but he's so very confusing, I just wanna know what his deal is. Men are confusing af as well!
@@metalli.queen13 It's all about shy people problems...we always loose the girls we have crush on coz we make an impression that we kinda don't like them .. but it's not true. It's more that we don't know how to express that.
TI:ME STAMPS!!!
1:00 he'll raise his eyebrows
1:37 he'll open his mouth just a bit
2:09 he fixed himself up when you're around
2:57 he'll stroke his face
3:38 he tries to appear larger
3:55 you catch him staring at you
4:29 he shows up early
Why am I watching this when I should've been studying for my final exam
Oml same
Mood
Same haha
Dead.
Same
I smile more, laugh more and go out of my way to actually have a conversation with him.
Oh girl same😆
Literally the same thing I do and I’m pretty sure he thinks of me as just a friend tho.😭
Sure. You also mean to tell me your kind also have human feelings?;
Aw that’s awesome.
I smile when I see him, and it shows in my eyes! I lean towards him and he leans forward at the same time. He glances at me several times and smiles, with his eyes!!
I feel like when somebody likes you know it deep down , maybe in the way you look at each other or how you guys talk with one another but you can definitely feel it...
Edit: thank you guys for the likes , I didn't expect it!🙏❤
for sure
I felt it but she didn’t feel it you feel me?
A lot of people are blind to love. How to crush on this girl and she was just absolutely blind to hints. Hence started subtle and got more obvious but she never noticed
I totally agree with you I feel love in his eyes but he says that he has a crush on someone 😢
You are right the room feels like a whole different vibe the constant flirting, and teasing. You can tell someone is into by how they treat you compared to others. ❤
I saw these signs in a guy i liked and then he blocked me 😭😭😭😭
LoL! 😂
He couldn't handle the truth-- that he likes you!
Yeah. The only date that I got is the first date. :(
😂😂😂😂
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What I do attentionally: -
1.touching my lips
2.pointing my feet towards them
3. Playing with hands
4.being overly confident
5.STARE STARE STARE
6.smile with my eyes.
4. Raise my eyebrows
😂😂😂
Guys are sooo different from girls I personally know that I am NOT the one who is going to stare at someone like that , I'm too shy for that 🙈😆
You bout that life for real huh
Same gang
🤣🤣🤣🤣
1. Eye contact, that person has my full attention.
2. I turn into a whole comedian lol
3. I allow physical affection.
4. I'll sometimes place myself in areas where I know we'll see eachother & talk.
it's like im shy but not 😭
girl are you me?
@@damnson1356 I think she’s both of us 😭
Same
I wish I was like that. I lose ALL my humor when I'm with the person I like bc I get so shy :/
"I turn into a whole camedian" 😂 girl, same! The quick wit comes out
I look at him, but I don’t look at him. Like I’m watching him, but it seems like he doesn’t exist.
Oh my god same here😂
I get exactly what you mean
When I like someone:
1- I become really shy and avoid the person at ALL costs
2-I get tongue tied and my mind goes blank if he talks to me
3-if he talks to another girls I get really jealous
4-I think about him all day long like I can’t get him off my mind
My zodiac sign is cancer btw :)))
Same here, but Gemini
CANCER GANG! AND SAME HERE 😩
I LOVE CANCERIANS I'm a virgo♍
Cancerian too😭and same bruh, same.
I'm a Cancerian too!! 🙁😕
When I like someone...I can't seem to look them in the eye, or I will go out of my way to avoid them. When I actually speak to them, my words get all scrambled.
When I like a guy;
1. I won't look at him
2. I won't talk to him
3. I will ignore him as much as I can
This is the reasons why I am still single 😆
😂
😂😂😂
Omgosh! Same! I'm so shy🙈
Same 😆
Same, I get super shy about it. It's frustrating lol
I can''t stop smiling and staring, hoping that he doesn't catch me but also wanting him to stare
@@MCappa so true
Oh my god that's totally me haha
If I like someone I'm a complete mess. I can't talk to them, I look the other way, stay out of the way. I go bright red when they're near me and I get severely nervous when they talk to me. I'll overthink EVERYTHING I say. I hate it when I do it, who likes someone back who does that?! I wish I wasn't such a mong 🙄
Kay Lyon same! 😞
Same here 😢
Am I right..the struggle of this truly sucks..
Me too
Lol as if you women have such human feelings. Y'all be looking for some another innocent guy to wreck beyond repair.
Ladies, the most certain giveaway is nr. 6. We just can't help looking at the girl/woman we like. And I mean, a lot. So if you catch a guy looking at you, you're 90% there. We will always try to find you in the room, try to be close to you or speak to you. We'll never be totally relaxed in your presence or when talking to you. If, on top of all that, we're trying to touch you, means we're cooked. If none of this happens, you can safely start looking elsewhere. I'm pretty positive this applies the other way around, too. But, ultimately, the real chemistry between two people is picked up instantly, and everything feels easy. If you have to work for it too hard, you may even end up with your crush eventually, but it's pretty much destined to end in tears (yours).
When I’m attracted to someone, I figure out every way I can look impressive to that person. Stand up straight, keep the conversation going, remember key points from our last conversations. I’ll make sure the other person talks first and especially give a pause before I start talking.
Usually I blush like an idiot when he's around. I play with my hair, uncounciously and pretend I'm not paying him attention when he's all I see!! Lol! I may put some lip gloss on in front of him. 😊😊😊😊😊😊
Mathew Boggs What type of body language signifies when a man places his hand on a woman's stomach/pelvic/waist area during a photo shoot on social media?
Tracey Lady that’s a good one. I should try that lol
Same minus the lipgloss part
When I like someone I just can’t stop smiling while talking with them
The good thing of it is we wear a mask so I can smile all the hell I want lmaooo
When I like someone, I walk the complete opposite way; I wanna avoid catching feelings for anyone romantically because when my specifies catches feelings, it's like I become a nanny, chef, therapist, and spend so much extra time on the other person that I forget about my priorities 😅
You might have codependency issues.
As a man, this is the feminine energy that we attracted to.. This gonna work for a genuine guy, you take care of me the hoyse and my children, I protect the yoy, family and provide us needs. There's nothing wrong with the way you act haha
,@@abra.hui. I understand human nature...hut I did like reading this...thank you and have a nice day :)
When I like someone....hmm I completely shut down and avoid the situation. Nailed it.
I definitely smile and laugh alot, I also want to make sure I look my best , but I also pretend like I don't care if he is around.
Omgoshhhh meeee aaghhhh it sucks to be so nervous lol
My bf has a 'look' (when hes looking at me) that makes me melt. 😍
I cannot stop smiling!!! And I feel like I'm on happy drugs!!! : )))))
SFoster omg same
Hahaha lol
Omg me toooo
I smile all the way lol, I have to b serious 4 a moment b4 luck lady thinks im on happy drugs :-)
Lol yas
My crush always smiles, stares, and yesterday I caught him flip his hair right before we passed each other coz he saw me coming 🥰
Ouu got get ur mans sis ❤️👏🏽 cos he’s feelin ya
@@rahmaabdi7868 gurl that was 2 years ago loll
When I like a guy I’ll find any excuse I can to walk past him. As I’m walking past him, I’ll stare at him. I’ll get really nervous when he’s around especially if I’m alone with him. I started wearing this body spray to turn my crush on. So that’s another sign.
Why am I watching this? I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year. He better like me 🤨
Linh Giang- White maybe you’re doing it unconsciously for him
Fuck off. No need to wipe it in everyones face that YoU hAVe a bOyFRienD. Fuck off.
Anders Termansen insecure much?
Hahahahahaha literally me rn
I hate having a crush on somebody ... I become sooooo annoying 🤦🏾♀️
Lol
Me too!
It’s great to hear this from a man himself. That way we look out for the signs. I smile through the time I’m with someone I like
There was this girl who has had the biggest crush on me since her freshman year (she’s a senior in highschool now and graduates in two months). What got my attention was that during her sophomore year, she invited me to spend time with her at her house for Halloween (2020) during Covid. Let’s just say that she was very hands-on (Twister and going on a 10-mile walk.) And she told me that pushing on someone’s chest can make them laugh (it works) and she slowly swung one leg over until she was sitting on my stomach so she could try it on me 😅. Later that night, right before I left her house I made the move to kiss her. I had to leave so I didn’t see the look on her face but I know I made the right move because we’re now a year and 5 months together. Moral of the story: ladies don’t be afraid to make it obvious. Trust me when I say this, that guys LOVE it when women show that they’re attracted to them.
I'm jealous:(
Oh lord, I just get so embarrassed that I turn bright red and get the hell out of there...no wonder I'm still single, they think I hate them!
anglmus 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
I give him an honest compliment. During the pandemic. I saw an attractive man. I told him I like the way his eyebrows, worked well with his eyes and his haircut suit him well. Also, if I see a man who is nicely dressed. I say something. If he takes time to shower, comb his hair, press his clothes and his shoes are clean. I'm going to compliment him.
There is nothing more sexier to me. A well dressed man. How well he takes care of himself. It doesn't matter his age, weight or height.
He will get a compliment from me.
Start blushing around him and I try to ignore him for sometime..
@@matboggs O ! Sure Mathew Boggs I will give it a try .. trusting Ur words 😊
When I like a guy I become so shy :( not a good thing, but even talking makes me a bit nervous...Thank you for another nice video Matt!
I instantly smile when I see him.
The guy that I like got me really crazy. I don't even know how to give him a sign that I like him.
When we meet suddenly his awkward .
And sometimes when I see him my heart beat getting faster. It's crazy huh
Pitriani Luhde being awkward around u , is a clear sign he likes u.
Well, I hope so.
we never text to each other's.
Doesn't prove that he likes me right ?. But, when he look me in the eyes I hold his gaze.
I notice I go the extra mile to make certain my hair and my eyes look exceptional. They are my best assets. I don't wear much make-up if any but when I do I do eyeliner and mascara.
Well I recently started liking a guy at work and I've noticed that I laugh easily around him and I tease him a lot.
I’m on the same boat 🛥️
If I'm attracted, I get shy, but I wanna smile and even if I wanna hide, my eyes smile. All is on my face. Also, I blush and try to look away, can't look directly in the eyes... but mostly, I wanna smile.
The old guy touching his face had me weak 🤭🤣🤣🤣
Megan H lmao
What a sex machine! Lol
Megan H 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hes not even old. What are u 12?!😄
@@hotmessmissy 25 lmao the last guy ive dated was 36 so chill tf out pagne
I smile a lot when i’m around the person I like
When I like a guy I always want to start the conversation and want to do things to make him laugh and smile. I also wear more makeup and jewelry and dress a bit fancier. Also I might add more scents like perfume or hand cream. Also I try to get a lot of eye contact. I try to compliment him when I can and make myself comfortable to be around without changing who I am. I also find myself thinking time goes to fast when we are together because I focus on them more then the clock. Another thing is I make him feel needed by making mistakes sometimes so he comes to my aid and he can feel like a hero.💕💕💕
Wow, we all sound alike pretty much, BUT the BIG question is, Hey, how are we SUPPOSED to let him know that WE feel that connection as well and ARE interested without being silly or stupid? Plz do a video on THAT!!!
When I know he's watching me, I often don't look at him because of my nervousness. Also, my head trembles and my heartbeat is wild.
I like watching random videos like these because I'm going back to school for my Master's in psychology. I want to get it in Family Therapy (MFT) which also focuses on relationships. I never heard of these signs as a way to show interest in someone. So it really interests me in getting to learn more of it.
Also the comment section is hilarious :D
When I like someone , and they are around me ,it’s like my breath stop. And I stare as well.
Mat you are top-notch - very informative in a fun and clearly communicated format. Thank you and keep on keeping on.
I wear my “good” bra! 😂👙
Lol!!! Me too!!
That's a sign! 😉
CraftyLori Lori Simonson I also wear my favorite bra and if I’m going to be alone with him I’ll also wear my favorite matching “undies”
• I stuttered (rarely)
• I can't stop starring at his face while talking to him.
• I put my phone away
• I find something to talk about and try to get to know him..like goals, family, favorite thing to do, etc..
• I find myself shy, but can't help myself being happy just knowing he is around.
• I try fix my hair
• I apply chapstick bc my lips tend to dry fast.
When I really like a guy, I’ll find myself:
-Smiling a lot at him, and smiling with my eyes as well. Not just a polite smile.
-Making a lot of eye contact
-Playing with my hair, running my hands through my hair
-Lowering my head a tiny bit so that I have to look up at him a small bit (I don’t know why I do this, it’s just what I’ll find myself doing out of reflex)
-I’ll react very quickly to his voice
-I laugh quite a bit at what he has to say
-I’ll compliment him quite a bit and give him little gifts, like candy or gum
-I’ll genuinely be interested in what he has to say and I’ll ask him a lot of questions about something he’s really interested in
I feel like I know you irl lol
I'm a guy now when I like a girl
1 I will listened to her Clear
2 . Deep conversation and conversations
3. Eye contact and smiling
4 . I would say cute and sweet things to the girl I'm talking to
5 . Not rushing into anything
6 . I would give her signs for showing that I'm a good person to be around
7 funny and not over confidents
But what top out my body language on liking a girl
Showing her that she is spiceal lady
But what's nail down
By committing how beautiful she is and
And what shows more then everything I said is being gentleman to the girl who I like
When i talk to him gentle n,sweet, stare at his eyes ,his facial expression ,the way he talks, his teeth , all his actions, his finger nails,his smile n, my smile too to him etc .etc.
Thank you Mathew for the free gift! I really needed it. You are an angel! Much love from Estonia :)
I keep eye contact a little bit longer when he finishes a sentence. I tend to talk about my career and what I'm up to seem very independent and busy. I let them take the lead in things and ideas in the first couple of months just to see if they even have the ability to be a leader and to see if they are creative. I dress super feminine to my best ability. I tend to behave detached/unbothered.
I typically will move my hair to the side or flip it, my voice goes up in a higher then normal pitch and I smile a lot.... also deep deep eye contact is something I try to hold when attracted to a man.
When I have a crush on someone, I get really excited and happy just to even hear his name. But when his around I talk less, I smile a lot, and when I get the chance , I run and hide lol. Because my heart can’t stop beating so much until I’m calmed then I return.
Hey Mathew I love this video 😍😍 Thank you sooo much dear 😊😊
I feel like I act like such a dork around guys that I like. I suddenly become so self conscious of everything I say & do. It’s seriously annoying!!! Lol and then I keep telling myself- “just be yourself” but I feel so awkward & transparent it feels hard to...I think it’s just because I want them to like me... oh man!
I catch myself staring at him many times n that's automatic... I also smile more . It's undeniable when I feel attracted to a guy because my body gives clear sign😊
When I like a guy I find every chance I can to be around him and interact, I smile alot and I try to stand as close to him as possible. I also listen when he talks to other people especially girls
I like someone but we don’t talk,he just smiles at me whenever he sees me
Then talk to him. Initiate HAHHAHWH
These videos always keep me humble, thank you 😌.
I’m usually not that big on touching people but If I’m attracted to someone I’ll do anything to just get a small innocent touch in, because it’s the best way to “feel” the other person for me and establish a connection. So I guess that’s my giveaway.
When I like or find a guy attractive I study and observe him to see what he does.
What I do when I like a guy is act like I don’t. I get so nervous that I cannot look at or speak to them. I can only ignore them and move away. 😢
I like to tilt my head a little, give him a smile and bat my eyes slowly at him. If he doesn't respond to THAT....he's not interested.
When i was dating with the guy i’m into, I keep myself neat, clean and tidy, wear dress and keep my hair long. Also, smiling when he look at me.
1. Eyebrows raised when looks at you.
2. Mouth opens a bit when looks at you.
3. Fixes himself up to look more attractive.
4. Stroke his face/chin esp with back of hand.
5. Tries to appear larger.
6. Catch him staring at you.
7. Shows up EARLY and has prepped well!
sadly I get nervous and insecure when I am truly attracted to someone
Eye brow raise ✔
Opens mouth ❌
Fixes his clothes or hair ❌
Stroke his face ✔
Tries to appear larger ✔
Catch him staring at me ✔
Shows up early ❔
I'm 5 mins early, but I had 2 mins to get to a meeting & he showed up to tell me let's go, we're waiting on you, but we still had time. He's also very protective of me & shows great manner.
I feel like my body gets a bit tense. I tend to look away / act like I’m not seeing them too much. But I’m very aware of what they’re doing, where they are, if they’re looking at me, who they’re speaking with. It’s easier for me to flirt and be fun and goofy with guys I don’t even like, but when I like them... they probably think I don’t lolol.
Here I'll share my secrets
1 Around my crush, I tend to do things that I don't realize I'm doing
for example, giggle cuter..hide my hands in my sleeves, constantly laugh..constantly smile..play with my hair..put my hands on my mouth/cheeks. Like I don't even purposely do it. It just comes to me.
2 Always have a urge to touch his hand, put my head on his shoulder, hold hands, hug him..physical stuff like that but I don't wan't to be strange.
3 Always tries to be around him as much as possible, even the little things like sitting together, walking together..makes me so happy and cheerful.
4 Always jokes around, and laughs at every cute thing he does. I always love it when he tries to be all manly and start joking around with me. Even the awkwardest moment like when wejust stare into eachothers eyes for a while and burst into laughter. He always tends to doodle random things on the chalkboard, knowing I love drawing honestly makes me giggle whenever he does it.
5 I constantly catch him staring at me, and even the smallest glances make me feel like I'm in heaven. I constantly look at him and turn away before her catches me. I swear I can not focus anymore. He's always on my mind.
6 I'm not me around him. I'm usually awkward, introverted and like to be alone and always sad. But his presence just lightens my mood, makes me feel like I belong and even makes me smile for the rest of the day.
I really wonder if he likes me. He does most of these things, only around me.
When i like a guy i literally avoid him so much…i act like i dont even know him. Sometimes i feel bad because since i act that way i can never give them any hints but im just too nervous and i have fear of judgement already so with a crush it’s worse.
My voice tends to get softer and warmer and I automatically blush while maintaining a constant eye contact! ❤
Crush looked into my class as he walked past, looked away, realised that I was there and then look back and stared as he walked away (today). When I see him with his gf, he kinda steps away from her or puts more space between them. Was also never late for my class last year, but was maybe for others (idk, just what I've seen). He also used to come stand by my table a lot and put his arms on it, then would lean in closer and talk to me directly. He also often only spoke to me in a "nice way" but was more harsh with my friends.
Yall think he likes me or am I just making this up
TBH.. if he has a GF.. move on..
When I like a man (like this one I like now) I don’t want to disrespect him nor make him feel bad a bit. I listen to him w empathy. I do little nice surprising things for him (in a nature way), I make deep eye contact w him; I stare at him when he thinks I’m not looking at him; I always try to look nice, attractive (but discern) and clean around him. I’m more confident and at the same time weakly melted around him. We trade more and joke more w each other -but always w respect and consideration-. And I even pray for him daily -r almost daily. I only want the best for him.
I also get awkward and begin to fix myself: mortally concerned that there is food in my teeth, sleep in my eyes, lick my lips to moisten them, stroke my hair. I may remove my glasses so my eyes are more visible (unfortunately this can make it harder to see if he notices me!). But I will also try to temper my eagerness with self calming things like breathing deeper and regulating my voice. It’s a spin fest!
I'm much more attentive and very willing to help all while smiling a lot.
In college, I'd liked this guy for a couple years. He was ahead and getting his MA in Art. THIS DAY I was going to look at him and let him see me. I was coming toward him -looking at his eyes, as he was talking to a colleague. He jerked up to meet my eyes happily, and I averted my eyes fast. This being done while I was close to being in love with him....This has happened to me throughout my life.
When I saw the “he’s staring at you” part it clicked cause my crush does all of this
Oh my word, 3:13 was actually creepy 🤣
Bruh 😂😂😂
I find ways to get physically closer to them or even touch him. I laugh or smile a lot. I play with a curl of my hair. And i will actually take time on my appearance that i normally wouldn't. I might actually wear makeup, nicer clothes around him... Even do my hair 😂
Great video. Just subscribed 😀
I lost in his eyes and I feel so happy when I'm close to him
When I like a man I avoid looking at his eyes.
Sameeee😂 i ran away..
I feel like a teenage girl, all giggly inside. I'm smiling and joking around. Usually telling silly jokes or making comical references. I look directly in their eye.
It depends on the person or on the relationship I have with him. My biggest crush was a good friend, which is why I was more active than with someone I just know by face. I looked him in the eyes and I smiled as bright as possible.
When he is around I do feel like my eyes has increased its field of vision. I unconsciously start to stare at him longer than I usually do with some other guys. I do not have the guts to talk to him but I always listen to everything he says when he talks to another person. I like to keep a close distance with him even if he isn't talking to me 😂😂😂 but when he does talk to me, it does feel like I need to give extra extra effort just to be able to answer his simple questions 😂😂😂
When I like a guy, I tend to lean in more, share stuff w him, ask more questions, find excuses to spend more time w him
There is this guy that we talk everyday, not just text but mainly on the phone for hours. He looks at me all the time at work, even when I catch him he won't look away. He always stands or sits near me and makes it a point to do so. He keeps glancing at my lips when we're talking and even when we just stare at each other. He has started to playfully hit me at work and loves annoying me. BUT...says he doesn't see me as more than a friend but everyone at work thinks we are together by how he acts and I'm so confused cause I like him
Are you dating yet lol
I definitely stare lol 😂 My ears perk up and my eyes brighten when he enters the room too, and of course the eyebrow thing you mentioned. But I also fidget and get restless, because I'm stupidly nervous till I actually get talking to him 😅
When i'm with the guy I like I smile like an idiot, I get closer and try to have contact with him, maybe touch his arms or something subtle. I also tend to move my lips a lot
I become more smiley, yet flustered and awkward. I ask A LOT of questions about them and their interests because I’m genuinely interested, and I straighten up
Get conversation going, ask him questions. I get nervous. Touch his body, hug.
when i’m talking to some i find attractive, i can’t stop playing with the ends of my hair
Awesome commentary on this Channel
I just subscribed, great!
Enjoyed your video!
Lol
What I do is I look away and try not to make any eye contact cause then they'll know that you like them.
I know it's totally opposite to what a guy would do when they see a girl 😁🙈
Thanks for the tips!