suddenly hafeez is so mature and attractive from this interview sia, im completely charmed by him even tho mandon is usually more my type lol. bolin ah bolin, too much piak piak this episode alr haha i feel like i only learnt things from hafeez and john
Very impressed with Hafeez' responses, esp the point about communicating with our partners first before approaching others. Would love to hear more from him tbh.
If TSL gets a dollar every time Bolin says piak piak, they’ll prolly get enough to buy the team a meal lol Agree with the majority of the comments though, would love to hear more from Hafeez and Mandon. Generally more air time for the rest of them.
To give Bolin benefit of doubt, he was trying to keep that image of being an ah Beng, so he talks about going to clubs and talks in a brash and crude manner. But I think that’s as much of an excuse I can think of. It’s sad for him that he can only gravitate toward the topic of sex, like that is all relationships can gift a person with. It’s something teenage boys can joke about among their friends, but him joking about it in his late twenties is not in good taste, especially if you’re looking at the population TSL reaches out to, which could be teens or primary school children. Inadvertently, as much as social media influencers try to escape this responsibility, their words & behaviour will impress upon the viewers. Also, is being of legal age a free pass to act immorally and to satisfy carnal passions? Young adults need to all the more temper their passions to live a virtuous life. Being an adult & dignified person is not all about having sex, to have this as your life goal, you’ll never be happy. Perhaps also it is of Bolin’s friendship circle that causes him to act this way. As he has mentioned in the video, his friends give him poor advice to “break up with the girl” if you’re not happy. Again, a falsity that you need to “feel” happy in a relationship perpetually. Law of diminishing returns means, e.g, having the same ice cream every day and you’ll naturally get bored of it. Relationships shouldn’t be viewed like that. It takes commitment and discernment. Don’t rush into a relationship if you’ve nothing to offer but go in with a greedy mindset. Don’t rush into a relationship if all you want is the sexual satisfaction you gain from your partner.
I agree with you in principle as I too share a more conservative moral compass. But consider this. If it were a female, your post would be labelled by modern liberal thinkers as 'slut-shaming' and her promiscuity would simply be regarded as being 'sexually confident'. Being promiscuous and sex-indulgent isn't against the law, but it's certainly not a moral or good behavior for anyone.
This video was actually very insightful especially from John. But Bolin honestly made it very difficult to continue watching. The way he talk is so irritating and he talks way too much.
From this video, I've learnt that not all guys are the same. Just like these 4 personalities, each one of them have their own unique charms and experiences. To the girls who read these comment, Choose your men/ life partner wisely. :)
This is how guys talk. One will dominate, he talks but don’t listen. Some no chance to talk, so become quiet. The rest say a bit here and there. But can’t have serious conversations with a group of guys. One or two for serious stuff will work. Definitely, not in a group.
im perfectly ok with the female to be the breadwinner and im ok being a stay at home father!!!!! but u gotta make some kinda income to add to the table even if its less then the female... it evens out if u are doing both to make the female feel at ease that ur not freeloading or taking advantage... so maybe its a 2 way street on both genders if they feel intimidated or not?
@ssvegeto well im not in singapore so yea... cost of living is much lower in the usa then singapore... my cousins made 35k a year n his wife made 125k n they been married over close to 25 years so ya it works
Actually, between me and my boyfriend, I'd prefer for him to stay home if needed while I work. Just because he loves children more than me so I think he'll be better at taking care of our (future) kids. I don't think he really minds either, but given how singapore is, both of us will need to work to live a decently comfortable life. Anyway, I think mindsets among the younger generation are slowly changing, so there's probably more girls who are willing to have stay-home husbands now. It's also important to consider if men want to stay home instead of working. Some men may feel like they need to fulfill the traditional role of being the breadwinner, because that's how they were brought up to think. I feel the other comment is a little too exaggerated and one-sided.
THIS EPISODE IS FREAKING FUNNY HAHAHAHA i feel like an awkward female friend listening to my male friends talk about relationships n them joking around LMAO
Would love to see more of Hafeez and Mandon in videos like these where they share their insights and thoughts. I do appreciate and like John's advice as well but it gets a bit boring as I'd know what are his answers based on past videos where he has talked about similar topics.
John is such a SNAG...love.. and I love how Mandon and Hafeez tried to be the middle ground between Bolin who’s a guy that all gals shd shun ...and John who’s sensitive...bolin, can don’t keep “piak piak”, gals hate a guy who only has sex in their mind ..cmon , we are not some sex object ..some more we are in an equal status in this society ..and in the earlier part of the conversation, we were talking about a female partner with a higher income and still be look upon like your sex slave , it’s damn pathetic
Oof periods have weird smells because it's like toxins in the blood (something like that) that exits a female body plus it comes out from the private part so of course it doesn't smell nice. girls feel like it's disgusting is because they can insecure about it like they are the first people to have it among their friends and like let's be honest. Who wouldn't be disgusted with blood coming out of your body? Because when wearing a pad especially, it's collecting the blood and it's coming out every second. It just feels very heavy, sweaty and just dirty down there also it feels like you're peeing yourself- so yeah. That's what i can say from experience i guess?? And for the girl not telling Bolin when she was having her period, i think i understand. It's because it's weird and awkward to tell a stranger that you have your period and some more it's a guy y'know?
@@bellel8853 but his responses were not in good taste. It’s sad that all he talks about leads to sex, it’s disrespectful to women to be seen only as objects to relieve his tendencies
This ep I cant finish without cringing la. Keep mentioning piak piak to the point its disturbing. Bolin maybe if he cant control his hormones he should go relieve himself first. I also wanna hear the other guys give their sensible input
Is it just me but John is more attractive now than before? Especially in this video like wth he's such a bf material, all his advice is damn mature and useful
Could barely survive watching the whole video because Bolin was so loud and irrelevant. I kept the video going because I was looking forward to more input from Hafeez but Bolin took majority of the screen time. Wish hafeez was given more opportunities to speak because his point of view is so mature and relatable :(
Yoooo i love this episodeee. 4 diff perspective! There are somethings bois are really clueless about man. 🤣🤣 john seems mature in his advice, bolinnnn is funnny. Walauu. And hafeez just gives mad good boy vibes man
why no one mentioned about the part where Bolin is saying the alpha in the analogy of animal kingdom when lion meets an elephant - 3:48. funny sia! how true is that for those NAT GEO (narrated by Sir David Attenborough) fans out there would be very interested if there are chances with topics touching on "when mentality meets reality" Editor needs a pay raise! good one!
Yea i have to agree on airtime with the rest of the commenters, and things are kept being repeated. I know maybe this is just a casual talk shoot, maybe that's why? Maybe having a moderator would be better on more 'heavier' talks like this?
Hi I am Vietmese girl ( Sorry if my English is not good ). I want to know more about SG people. My boyfriend is Singaporen and he suggested me this channel and this is also my first video , I feel excited with your questions which related to the couple and yes everyone has own opinions. But for my opinion, all your standard will be broken if you really like someone. You will change yourself or find ways to build the relationship with her so even she are taller than u/ shorter than u..no problem. About the frist question if your wife earn more than u, it's up to personality of both of you and this is a hard problem in life. But you cant require 1. She must be beautiful ( Always look good, smell good, neatly ) 2. Cook well 3. Fashionale 4. Rearing baby well 5. Smart 6. Earn many money => You can find this type of girl but as long as you are rich.
derek the editor i praise u for adding the why is he talking again edits in when bolin talks... no offense to bolin but its like he loves to be the center of attention and he loves to hear himself talk... its a tad bit overbearing to be honest idk if he is trying to be funny but the others had more legit things to say then bolin.. he feels the need to chime in it seems! sew or brenda needs to be a median to control bolin 🤣🤣🤣🤣 put a electric dog collar on him ahahahahahaha
Interesting, this topic and the surprising answers that were given.. My conclusion: John, Hafeez and Mandon are more mature with handling girls. *Disclaimer: The above is just my thought. Bolin's answers fit his character.
Wooohhh I like handsome calm charismatic guy like Mandon, mature like John, private like Hafeez, and funny like Bolin.....cute combo that will never exist
The fact that this video was prolly QCed before uploading means whoever QCed this was okay with bolin talking about piak piak majority of the time :””””) (No hate to you bolin, just thought that this wasn’t the best video you featured in so far. Love your humour especially with sew but this vid ain’t it)
The subs have been fixed! Thanks for pointing it out :)
Bolin.. I'm 144cm!! And 24 years old.
suddenly hafeez is so mature and attractive from this interview sia, im completely charmed by him even tho mandon is usually more my type lol. bolin ah bolin, too much piak piak this episode alr haha i feel like i only learnt things from hafeez and john
These 4 combinations gives off chaotic good energy and im here for it.
Bolin: Chaotic
The other 3: Good Energy
WHO EDITED THIS VIDEO?!?!??! MADE IT 100X MORE FUNNY! GIVE A PAY RAISE TO THE EDITOR
Derek Lou
Omg yas i agreee
Ya man this video is lit
Ikr, go watch the girl version of this lmao its even more crackhead!
hafeez be giving bf vibes throughout this video
john's maturity gives me hope for the rest of the male population
Quote of the century: She give you iPad you give her sanitary pad...
1. Chemistry
2. Character
3. Core
Dude I can't agree more. Solid advice, Mandon!
Very impressed with Hafeez' responses, esp the point about communicating with our partners first before approaching others. Would love to hear more from him tbh.
Next episode make it Guys would always want to ask girls.
Are girls hard to understand? 🤔
@@TheSmartLocal are guys hard to understand? 🤔
@@yugiwinninglex are both hard to understand ? 🤔
@@TheSmartLocal the legendary question that has not been answered
Shld hv Renae on d team as her answers r ALWAYS SO HILARIOUS & REAL, unless tsl hs to censor them n make her read fm their script 🤣🤣🤣
Bolin is like that one friend who's an expert in relationships but is still single
Coaches don't play
Lol
If TSL gets a dollar every time Bolin says piak piak, they’ll prolly get enough to buy the team a meal lol
Agree with the majority of the comments though, would love to hear more from Hafeez and Mandon. Generally more air time for the rest of them.
Bring Hafeez and John to Zula for further conversations ~
“alpha is an energy” “alpha is a state of mind” PREACH o m g finally someone called out fake alphas (sorry bolin)
Whoever edited this video deserves to be PRAISED I literally can’t stop laughing-
Boly is one who can have a one hour conversation with himself.
yo hafeez is mad attractive in this video hahaha
without the editing some of the things said can be taken so negatively and wrongly, so props to editor! protects the talents
To give Bolin benefit of doubt, he was trying to keep that image of being an ah Beng, so he talks about going to clubs and talks in a brash and crude manner. But I think that’s as much of an excuse I can think of.
It’s sad for him that he can only gravitate toward the topic of sex, like that is all relationships can gift a person with. It’s something teenage boys can joke about among their friends, but him joking about it in his late twenties is not in good taste, especially if you’re looking at the population TSL reaches out to, which could be teens or primary school children. Inadvertently, as much as social media influencers try to escape this responsibility, their words & behaviour will impress upon the viewers. Also, is being of legal age a free pass to act immorally and to satisfy carnal passions? Young adults need to all the more temper their passions to live a virtuous life. Being an adult & dignified person is not all about having sex, to have this as your life goal, you’ll never be happy.
Perhaps also it is of Bolin’s friendship circle that causes him to act this way. As he has mentioned in the video, his friends give him poor advice to “break up with the girl” if you’re not happy. Again, a falsity that you need to “feel” happy in a relationship perpetually. Law of diminishing returns means, e.g, having the same ice cream every day and you’ll naturally get bored of it. Relationships shouldn’t be viewed like that. It takes commitment and discernment. Don’t rush into a relationship if you’ve nothing to offer but go in with a greedy mindset. Don’t rush into a relationship if all you want is the sexual satisfaction you gain from your partner.
I agree with you in principle as I too share a more conservative moral compass. But consider this. If it were a female, your post would be labelled by modern liberal thinkers as 'slut-shaming' and her promiscuity would simply be regarded as being 'sexually confident'. Being promiscuous and sex-indulgent isn't against the law, but it's certainly not a moral or good behavior for anyone.
This video was actually very insightful especially from John. But Bolin honestly made it very difficult to continue watching. The way he talk is so irritating and he talks way too much.
From this video,
I've learnt that not all guys are the same. Just like these 4 personalities, each one of them have their own unique charms and experiences. To the girls who read these comment,
Choose your men/ life partner wisely. :)
Waiting patiently
This is how guys talk. One will dominate, he talks but don’t listen. Some no chance to talk, so become quiet. The rest say a bit here and there. But can’t have serious conversations with a group of guys. One or two for serious stuff will work. Definitely, not in a group.
im perfectly ok with the female to be the breadwinner and im ok being a stay at home father!!!!! but u gotta make some kinda income to add to the table even if its less then the female... it evens out if u are doing both to make the female feel at ease that ur not freeloading or taking advantage...
so maybe its a 2 way street on both genders if they feel intimidated or not?
@ssvegeto well im not in singapore so yea... cost of living is much lower in the usa then singapore... my cousins made 35k a year n his wife made 125k n they been married over close to 25 years so ya it works
Actually, between me and my boyfriend, I'd prefer for him to stay home if needed while I work. Just because he loves children more than me so I think he'll be better at taking care of our (future) kids. I don't think he really minds either, but given how singapore is, both of us will need to work to live a decently comfortable life. Anyway, I think mindsets among the younger generation are slowly changing, so there's probably more girls who are willing to have stay-home husbands now. It's also important to consider if men want to stay home instead of working. Some men may feel like they need to fulfill the traditional role of being the breadwinner, because that's how they were brought up to think. I feel the other comment is a little too exaggerated and one-sided.
The editor was high when editing this lmao. But the edits are awesome 🤣
Hafeez dresses well man, appreciate it bruh
I want to hear more of Mandon's comments and thoughts!! He should be featured in zula chick chats toooo
Haven't play the video but need a partner like Hafeez. Period.
omg i love the editing on this video it’s so funny HAHAHAH
TSL edits getting better and better, this is the funniest vid I've ever watched 🤣🤣😂😂😂 Mandon sounds like a good friend to talk with 👏
wah cannot halfway i got a headache from bolín talking. Producer shld give others more airtime.
Yes I agree with you
This is really a good episode. I enjoyed it. Thank you.
Bolin can consider starting a relationship podcast... I’d listen
Confirm rated✨ R21 ✨
@@TheSmartLocal “Confirm R21” - perfect podcast title LOL
THIS EPISODE IS FREAKING FUNNY HAHAHAHA i feel like an awkward female friend listening to my male friends talk about relationships n them joking around LMAO
Would love to see more of Hafeez and Mandon in videos like these where they share their insights and thoughts. I do appreciate and like John's advice as well but it gets a bit boring as I'd know what are his answers based on past videos where he has talked about similar topics.
John is such a SNAG...love.. and I love how Mandon and Hafeez tried to be the middle ground between Bolin who’s a guy that all gals shd shun ...and John who’s sensitive...bolin, can don’t keep “piak piak”, gals hate a guy who only has sex in their mind ..cmon , we are not some sex object ..some more we are in an equal status in this society ..and in the earlier part of the conversation, we were talking about a female partner with a higher income and still be look upon like your sex slave , it’s damn pathetic
Oof periods have weird smells because it's like toxins in the blood (something like that) that exits a female body plus it comes out from the private part so of course it doesn't smell nice. girls feel like it's disgusting is because they can insecure about it like they are the first people to have it among their friends and like let's be honest. Who wouldn't be disgusted with blood coming out of your body? Because when wearing a pad especially, it's collecting the blood and it's coming out every second. It just feels very heavy, sweaty and just dirty down there also it feels like you're peeing yourself- so yeah. That's what i can say from experience i guess?? And for the girl not telling Bolin when she was having her period, i think i understand. It's because it's weird and awkward to tell a stranger that you have your period and some more it's a guy y'know?
This was fun to watch but Bolin talk too much la, can say other thing other than piak piak or not haha
Dude, Bolin talk until damn cringe throughout this whole episode. Calm down bro.
bolin was a little too overbearing this episode... wish he would talk alittle less
that’s his personality trait leave him alone HAHAHAHAHA
@@bellel8853 but his responses were not in good taste. It’s sad that all he talks about leads to sex, it’s disrespectful to women to be seen only as objects to relieve his tendencies
@@ARoseJMJ that’s true and sad
whether or not what bolin says makes sense, the passion when he talks is just 🤣🤣
omg love this episodes. Best combi and best editing omg
John is seriously damn mature. That's y i love him the most in tsl!
lol Bolin "i make sure you and my hand have a relationship" HAHAHAH
Is majority of the men out there more like Bolin or more like John? Because if they are mostly Bolins, I -
The editing rlly elevated the humor
WHO EVER EDITED THIS PLEASE PLEASE IDK WAT TO SAY BUT UR THE BEST , THESE 4 BLOKS + THIS EDITOR OOOOOMMMMGGG KEEP IT THIS WAY
This ep I cant finish without cringing la. Keep mentioning piak piak to the point its disturbing. Bolin maybe if he cant control his hormones he should go relieve himself first. I also wanna hear the other guys give their sensible input
Tbh, I fast forwarded some of Bolin's part. Because the other guys gives more concrete advice.
lol think need girls to control bolin, the guys are very gentleman to stop him from piaking
Sew would have punched him 🤜🏻 👦🏻
Is it just me but John is more attractive now than before? Especially in this video like wth he's such a bf material, all his advice is damn mature and useful
John is the kind of guy friend every girl needs~
i Love the editing style for this video!! good job editor
this is one of my faaav episodes in a long while
Could barely survive watching the whole video because Bolin was so loud and irrelevant. I kept the video going because I was looking forward to more input from Hafeez but Bolin took majority of the screen time. Wish hafeez was given more opportunities to speak because his point of view is so mature and relatable :(
I got baby powder ad when they were talking about Piak Piak
👁👄👁
This Bolin is like a unker full of rage LOL. Died at the reactions from the others 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl panel for next vid:
Sew, renae, jes, adria
actually, you got half correct - it's sew, renae, brenda and leah :D
@@TheSmartLocal nubbad, at least i passed
mandon very 帅 🥺
I can totally imagine bolin as a grab or uber driver 😂
Editing is on point and hilarious
Hahaha, our tsl ah beng CANNOT contain himself anymore bcos he's been so QUIET in d past few clips tgt with his NEW carpark lot 😂🤣😂🤣
I agree 😂😂
Should have a serious version and joke version of this video, bolin isnt really giving good advice. Rather, it seems like hes there to get advice lmao
14:02 John's nice save. almost say wrong thing, go back home kneel on durian shells.
👁💧👄💧👁
HECTIC& HILARIOUS. Love their vibe!
&When Bolin mentioned 白马王子 I had to look at Mandon
Glimmeringly-白
😆❤️
14:20 omg we need more guys like this 🙆
Bolin was so confusing xD need Bolin translation
Producer, editor and subtitler all confused 🤷🏻♀️
Yoooo i love this episodeee. 4 diff perspective! There are somethings bois are really clueless about man. 🤣🤣 john seems mature in his advice, bolinnnn is funnny. Walauu. And hafeez just gives mad good boy vibes man
hearts are breaking when Mandon says "165cm, minimum"
U STILL CUTE THO! ♥
Mandon is so attractive pls 🥺 but also CUTE VIDEO i love the energy from all the guys here 💕💕
why no one mentioned about the part where Bolin is saying the alpha in the analogy of animal kingdom when lion meets an elephant - 3:48. funny sia! how true is that for those NAT GEO (narrated by Sir David Attenborough) fans out there
would be very interested if there are chances with topics touching on "when mentality meets reality"
Editor needs a pay raise! good one!
Yea i have to agree on airtime with the rest of the commenters, and things are kept being repeated. I know maybe this is just a casual talk shoot, maybe that's why? Maybe having a moderator would be better on more 'heavier' talks like this?
Agreed, could have taken zula’s format
Kudos to the editors job well done👏
Omg this editing is golden sia HAHA
Hi I am Vietmese girl ( Sorry if my English is not good ). I want to know more about SG people. My boyfriend is Singaporen and he suggested me this channel and this is also my first video , I feel excited with your questions which related to the couple and yes everyone has own opinions. But for my opinion, all your standard will be broken if you really like someone. You will change yourself or find ways to build the relationship with her so even she are taller than u/ shorter than u..no problem. About the frist question if your wife earn more than u, it's up to personality of both of you and this is a hard problem in life. But you cant require
1. She must be beautiful ( Always look good, smell good, neatly )
2. Cook well
3. Fashionale
4. Rearing baby well
5. Smart
6. Earn many money
=> You can find this type of girl but as long as you are rich.
To Derek ( the editor) wah.... you damn what sia 🤣🤣🤣 you edit to this.... I speechless sia😅😅😅
HAHA! :)
@@derekkklou don't mind my horrible English 😅😅😅
I think we need a Mandon x Bolin combo in one video hahaha
4 guys on a 3 seater sofa. 😨
Actually it’s ok but Bolin is XL size
Good editing Derek!
bolin most relatable lmao even tho im a female i appreciate the brutal honesty lmao
Yall got new editor ah??? Damn funny sia the editing HAHAHA
when mandon rolled his eyes HAHAH
Omg my tummy hurts from laughing too much. This is one of the best combinations 👍🏻
Wow, Bolin’s ah beng level 😂😂
THE EDITOR IS SERIOUS THE BEST!! PAYRAISE NOW🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
good episode!
The other 3 guys lowkey uncomfortable with everything Bolin said
Hafeez suddenly so charming bf material here
"Child rearing" is a legit English phrase. Have the cast never heard of it before?
derek the editor i praise u for adding the why is he talking again edits in when bolin talks...
no offense to bolin but its like he loves to be the center of attention and he loves to hear himself talk... its a tad bit overbearing to be honest
idk if he is trying to be funny but the others had more legit things to say then bolin.. he feels the need to chime in it seems!
sew or brenda needs to be a median to control bolin 🤣🤣🤣🤣 put a electric dog collar on him ahahahahahaha
NoooOoOoOooOoooO
I dont think he does it on purpose to overshadow the rest, i know these type of people its just their nature
Lolz loved this video and all the interactions 😂😂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Interesting, this topic and the surprising answers that were given.. My conclusion: John, Hafeez and Mandon are more mature with handling girls.
*Disclaimer: The above is just my thought. Bolin's answers fit his character.
hafeez looks so uncomfortable in this vid 😟
evidently on different wavelength lol. the vibe from this is... only tweens can appreciate. It's like Millennials of Singapore but for kids.
Wooohhh I like handsome calm charismatic guy like Mandon, mature like John, private like Hafeez, and funny like Bolin.....cute combo that will never exist
Part 2 plsss
LMAO HAFEEZ AT 1:41 AND 11:41
yea can don’t ?
Ya sia. I dunno if i said it loudly enough, can don't?
EH HOW DID JOHN ENDED UP SINGING HARUDANG HARUDANG 😭😂😂 I SWEAR THAT'S THE FUNNIEST BIT IN THIS VIDEO WITH THE FIREEEEE 🔥
Bolin is that one friend who keeps leading conversations to sex.
That Bolin is me. 👀
love the chaotic
The fact that this video was prolly QCed before uploading means whoever QCed this was okay with bolin talking about piak piak majority of the time :””””)
(No hate to you bolin, just thought that this wasn’t the best video you featured in so far. Love your humour especially with sew but this vid ain’t it)
Oh man the subtitles not synced halfway into the vid
Thanks for the heads up! We’ll fix that
Love your RUclips channel ! Keep up the awesome work
john thx for ur wise words