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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
  • Nadine Aburas met millionaire businessman Sammy Almahri on a dating site. When the relationship turns sour, Almahri murders her in a hotel room.
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Комментарии • 3,8 тыс.

  • @smarsh6340
    @smarsh6340 9 месяцев назад +1799

    Ladies if someone claims to be rich over online dating it’s the first red flag! No rich man flaunt their wealth to a stranger over the internet plz be cautious no to fall in these traps

    • @user-FUCKYOU18
      @user-FUCKYOU18 9 месяцев назад +18

      NEVER TAKE ADVICE FROM A WOMAN

    • @moahammad1mohammad
      @moahammad1mohammad 9 месяцев назад

      Never take advice from a woman

    • @ahmetyildirim9477
      @ahmetyildirim9477 9 месяцев назад +61

      Even better!
      Stay single ! Try meet someone natural ways like in a cafe, public places, at work, etc
      I tried online one time for 3 months. As a man, I met so dangerous and wounded women.
      Believe, meeting someone special online is almost winning lottery.
      Don’t do it
      I will never do it again

    • @aladynamedSusan
      @aladynamedSusan 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ahmetyildirim9477 Me and my boyfriend broke up 5 months ago and it's almost incredibly difficult to meet ppl casually these days. It's just so hard. I'm trying online and am scared to you know what. People are weird now and don't know how to communicate anymore

    • @ArnoldConway-g9b
      @ArnoldConway-g9b 9 месяцев назад +4

      You are so wrong, I'm rich. Now how about a date. I

  • @CaliShah
    @CaliShah 9 месяцев назад +3226

    I am a Muslim and this so called “honor” thing that is pushed down the throats of young Muslim girls literally destroys any chances of them being saved from situations like these. Daughters and sisters must be able to talk in detail with their brothers and fathers if they are subjected to harassment and stalking. I can’t imagine the torture she must be going through. How lonely she must’ve felt in her situation when she was being blackmailed. May her soul rest in peace and may the all other Muslim parents get guidance to let their daughters be open with them. Instead of the fear of bringing shame to the families

    • @sidraali9967
      @sidraali9967 9 месяцев назад +65

      Ameen

    • @emke9326
      @emke9326 9 месяцев назад +69

      Absolutely!

    • @SinaAla
      @SinaAla 9 месяцев назад +245

      To be fair, this sort of blackmail has led to the suicides of even people from more secular backgrounds, so whether she was Muslim or not, the shame would likely have been great

    • @hollyfarr7209
      @hollyfarr7209 9 месяцев назад +54

      Beautifully put. ❤️🇺🇲Iowa

    • @Dhruv_Dogra
      @Dhruv_Dogra 9 месяцев назад +95

      This cannot stop because in Koran a woman is commanded to take responsibility for attracting undue interest of men. There is a reason Iran punishes the mother if the Ulema/virtue police feel the daughter does not behave/dress modestly. It is not just in the culture but in scripture that is considered the word of God!

  • @EmpressAisha
    @EmpressAisha 7 месяцев назад +175

    I see red flags when a person starts to talk about their wealth before I get to know them more.

  • @leanderrowe2800
    @leanderrowe2800 9 месяцев назад +1771

    Once you are desperate for love, you become a vulnerable victim.

  • @Adm9464
    @Adm9464 9 месяцев назад +625

    FBI and a millionaire. The first red flag. Big mistake for letting her alone go to him in New York.

    • @deescott8312
      @deescott8312 9 месяцев назад +12

      Yup

    • @Valtrixs
      @Valtrixs 9 месяцев назад +25

      Nah itu! Masa anak perempuan dibiarkan pergi sendiri nemuin lelaki di negara yg berbeda. I wont let my daughter go to other country to meet online man!

    • @ebaldwinATL
      @ebaldwinATL 9 месяцев назад +29

      Don’t forget owning a luxury car dealership in NY.

    • @Midgy21747
      @Midgy21747 9 месяцев назад +68

      I was astonished to hear that she went to meet this man on her own without her family.

    • @Fairy71128
      @Fairy71128 9 месяцев назад +34

      There’s no common sense in decisions she made unfortunately…

  • @Ana-rb7ws
    @Ana-rb7ws 9 месяцев назад +270

    Psychopaths and narcissists usually come off as very charming.
    Desperation leads to making mistakes.

    • @celeste3100
      @celeste3100 7 месяцев назад +17

      Dr. Ramani had preached, "If they come off as too perfect and charasmatic, RUN!!!" I've stuck to that.

    • @melissamcculloch8627
      @melissamcculloch8627 6 месяцев назад +7

      Psychopaths are always Narcissists. However, not all narcissists are not psychopaths.

    • @user-vb8kq4xt8t
      @user-vb8kq4xt8t 3 месяца назад

      Exactly, narcissists are charming... charismatic talk and lot they're 😈 Demons in human form..

    • @lisapop5219
      @lisapop5219 Месяц назад

      Evil people can smell desperation

  • @sm3296
    @sm3296 9 месяцев назад +1123

    So many red flags, for her and her family. So many times nothing was done. There is no way a daughter of mine would even talk with a man again who had locked her up.

    • @AliAli-hm4xp
      @AliAli-hm4xp 9 месяцев назад +2

      Hi

    • @csc8697
      @csc8697 9 месяцев назад +13

      He was 56! She's 16!!!

    • @Fairy71128
      @Fairy71128 9 месяцев назад +109

      @@csc8697he was 42, she was 26 but still a big gap

    • @GT-mc9eg
      @GT-mc9eg 9 месяцев назад +100

      ​@@csc8697He was 42 and she was 26 did you watch the video? Or do you have a hearing problem? Also, she has parents and family who failed her. She also, has bad judgment

    • @אילייןלוי
      @אילייןלוי 9 месяцев назад

      😢😢...a dumbarse family...

  • @joyjoy7469
    @joyjoy7469 9 месяцев назад +439

    I was only 20 years old and 3 months pregnant when I walked away from a jealous and controlling man. I never used a Jamaican "bad word" before but I told him a few after I had the child and wanted me back.
    Ladies be strong, love and value yourselves. God will keep you, he never forsakes us.❤❤❤

    • @elcazo
      @elcazo 8 месяцев назад

      No muslim should be on these sites. Its haram and idiotic

    • @MzSavvykool
      @MzSavvykool 8 месяцев назад +7

      What is a ‘Jamaican’ bad word let’s hear it gwaan girl share it to de wurl! I want cuss one right now 😂 the biggest one we know 🤪

    • @VivianVee56
      @VivianVee56 7 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@MzSavvykool Probably bombaclat 🤫

    • @GD-xc4wg
      @GD-xc4wg 7 месяцев назад +4

      ❤️
      Good you found out with your baby

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 7 месяцев назад +3

      There is no such thing as a god.

  • @kimocea1
    @kimocea1 8 месяцев назад +78

    My mom told me once that"when you make a decision or want to leave for good, don't give ANYONE a chance to explain or have a say in your decision, because it can and will cost you in some way!!"

    • @lisapop5219
      @lisapop5219 Месяц назад +1

      My mom always told me to never trust a man who says trust me

  • @Fergpal
    @Fergpal 9 месяцев назад +1254

    Crazy how many comments here talking about what this young girl did wrong… She was a sweet girl who may have made mistakes (as we all have) but none of what she did or didn’t do should have resulted in such a horrendous situation. I hope that psychotic despicable excuse for a man rots

    • @valhipkiss4011
      @valhipkiss4011 9 месяцев назад +84

      Agree with you , but it doesn’t hurt to say what needs to be said , a warning for others , as her own family said

    • @Fairy71128
      @Fairy71128 9 месяцев назад +83

      No one deserves such a horrific death. I hope parents teach their daughters early self worth and how to spot red flags and abuse in men’s behavior, so less of this would be happening.

    • @blacksea1726
      @blacksea1726 9 месяцев назад

      @@Fairy71128so true! Girls are indoctrinated to connect their self worth with being with a man! And many times they put up with a lot of abuse, just to uphold that stupidity! No man or relationship is worth your peace and safety!

    • @WouldntULikeToKnow.
      @WouldntULikeToKnow. 9 месяцев назад +30

      ​@@valhipkiss4011 I think penty of people have already repeated the sentiments though. In this comment section it's overkill to the point of disrespectful to the victim.

    • @martuciabeauty1713
      @martuciabeauty1713 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Fairy71128agreed,,,,unfortunately some families teach their daughters that they're incomplete without a man and make their daughters desperate for man's attention....knowingly ignoring red flags.

  • @preciousOne79
    @preciousOne79 9 месяцев назад +648

    If your phone is bugged you report it to the police and get a new one with a new number. You also don't go to see an ex who abused you nor do you welcome him to your apartment or give him your address. So many mistakes were made.

    • @sofiakhan4580
      @sofiakhan4580 9 месяцев назад +66

      She appears naive , too trusting

    • @do5432
      @do5432 9 месяцев назад +27

      She was dumb for that

    • @lydiayork9451
      @lydiayork9451 9 месяцев назад +53

      Blaming the victim is never ok. You’re wrong.

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly 9 месяцев назад +29

      Common sense is a rare these days

    • @_gonna_renew_my_sinew
      @_gonna_renew_my_sinew 9 месяцев назад

      @@lydiayork9451 personal accountability bad! Victimhood good!

  • @ChatGPT486
    @ChatGPT486 9 месяцев назад +58

    Teach your daughters about the dangers of social media traps .

    • @Yurana-th8sl
      @Yurana-th8sl 4 месяца назад

      They think if its a religious dating site its safe. Muslim men are known to be possessive, dont expose your daughter to those men

  • @gurisrnes9919
    @gurisrnes9919 9 месяцев назад +517

    A big thank you to Nadines family for being so open and candid about what happened. I hope they can take comfort in the fact that this program will provide ample warnings to others that may find themselves in similar circumstances. I learnt a lot, and I am sure this kind of information can save lives.

    • @jeannettegordon8064
      @jeannettegordon8064 9 месяцев назад +22

      Where was her father in this situation! How sad! This poor, beautiful sweet innocent girl was truly a victim, total naive, and extremely gullible! They were many red flags 🚩 that Nadine and the family should have pick up on like her 1st horrific and heinous encounter in New York! 2ndly, to bug all her activities in UK, this was extremely stalkish, and scary. I am so sorry for your lost. May Nadine soul rest in peace! And Assailant rot in H&ll!

    • @ambecappmanikam3351
      @ambecappmanikam3351 8 месяцев назад +1

      I don't see how this can bring any comfort to late Nadine's family or those of other same such victims. Mentalities should first be revamped.

    • @gurisrnes9919
      @gurisrnes9919 8 месяцев назад +1

      Ambecappmanikam: You are absolutely right when you say that mentalities should be changes. These kind of stories contribute to that.

    • @zariballard
      @zariballard 4 месяца назад

      ​@@ambecappmanikam3351Mentalities like this can not be revamped. We've seen it time and time again.

  • @LuvDelux
    @LuvDelux 9 месяцев назад +372

    Like I always say to my girls- when someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE them!! Dont think you can change them. Dont give them excuses. Accept the truth and move on!!

    • @Userxyz-z2d
      @Userxyz-z2d 9 месяцев назад +11

      💯 i say the same thing

    • @marlbboro8091
      @marlbboro8091 9 месяцев назад +9

      When people show you who they are believe them the first time - Maya Angelou. So true, especially with the insightful ‘first time’ aspect of it.

    • @nicholdsouza6482
      @nicholdsouza6482 9 месяцев назад +10

      My girls are 7 and 9 years old. I think I’ll be telling them the same. Thank you so much. ❤❤

    • @CroatiaWien
      @CroatiaWien 9 месяцев назад +3

      Trust me, they will always remember these words.

    • @kamakshikaul
      @kamakshikaul 8 месяцев назад +10

      don't even trust anyone you meet online

  • @freakyworld7373
    @freakyworld7373 7 месяцев назад +152

    How on earth did she traveled alone to meet an stranger for the first time ?!! What was her family thinking ??!!

    • @tailsnclaws
      @tailsnclaws 6 месяцев назад +32

      After having escaped and landed in the UK, she endangered her own life by going to meet him in his hotel. She should have asked her brother to accompany her or to deliver the passport.

    • @MegaLorenaO
      @MegaLorenaO 6 месяцев назад +9

      @@tailsnclaws Or the police!

    • @toshikojackson1181
      @toshikojackson1181 6 месяцев назад +6

      Crazy.

    • @nataliemeenakshithegreat7780
      @nataliemeenakshithegreat7780 5 месяцев назад +2

      Hi it happened to me I went to india to someone who had been Kaye’s with me on the internet to punch him I never met him but I made book and making a movie about it

    • @loveberry-ox9bd
      @loveberry-ox9bd 5 месяцев назад +5

      Anything for money

  • @l.c.3150
    @l.c.3150 9 месяцев назад +556

    This girl was extremely naive. Many girls brought up not taught about the evil out in the world. Everybody needs to be educated about grooming, narcissists, electronic tactics, stalking techniques, etc. Also, people need to know they have to reach out to help from love ones, organizations and police if beyond what you can handle. Thank goodness the judge gave him life.

    • @icequeen9417
      @icequeen9417 9 месяцев назад +6

      Agree.

    • @seanou2837
      @seanou2837 9 месяцев назад +3

      100%

    • @Userxyz-z2d
      @Userxyz-z2d 9 месяцев назад +2

      His parole is 2033

    • @l.c.3150
      @l.c.3150 9 месяцев назад +15

      @@Userxyz-z2d Eligibility for parole is 2033. Let's hope judge denies parole and keeps him locked up. In my country, it would have been much less.

    • @DeborahLevy-z6p
      @DeborahLevy-z6p 9 месяцев назад +8

      By protecting people from the evil on this world, those people are made open to the abuse of that evil.

  • @JimmiAlli
    @JimmiAlli 9 месяцев назад +546

    I can tell you one thing, one look at his face and it’s not a dream come true, it’s nightmare on elm street.

    • @fastingcoach9711
      @fastingcoach9711 9 месяцев назад +43

      I agree with you; face says it all !!!!

    • @tantalize811
      @tantalize811 9 месяцев назад +26

      Agree. However there are good-looking people out there where one would never think anything unusual or scary until one notices their behaviour and the things they say.

    • @BJC-pk8cm
      @BJC-pk8cm 9 месяцев назад +11

      It's certainly the thing that nightmares are made of.

    • @marialunka8788
      @marialunka8788 9 месяцев назад +13

      I’m sorry but 1 look on this man face and what I see it’s a scary thing going on my brain on ., like if I will see him somewhere alone I definitely will be scared from him , he looks like a murderer . Fanatic , and dangerous face , eyes , evil face ! I feel sorry for Nadine because I think she was not having nobody to prevent her from danger ! Like she should not have been seeing him alone., and definitely someone from internet!

    • @JimmiAlli
      @JimmiAlli 9 месяцев назад

      @@marialunka8788 exactly. He looks horrendous. Such a hideous creature. I feel bad that she met this awful monster.

  • @lj6079
    @lj6079 7 месяцев назад +146

    Family knew she was dating someone on line, flew out to see him in USA and was abused. Brother found out about the blackmail and went to see the guy so they were aware of what was going on. She finally knowing the truth about this guy still goes to see alone? Something doesn't sound right

    • @MissusChanandlerBong
      @MissusChanandlerBong 5 месяцев назад +11

      I know right... soooo many problems and loose holes in the story

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 4 месяца назад +8

      The family may have pushed her back to him.

    • @karlaiscimen9420
      @karlaiscimen9420 3 месяца назад +20

      And also.. she could change phone and phone mumber, close her social media so he can’t reach her no? I mean i think this tragedy could be avoided

    • @ritushukla9284
      @ritushukla9284 3 месяца назад +3

      Exactly 💯

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 3 месяца назад +4

      @user-vi7jj4de8r The photos don't necessarily indicate consent.

  • @gailtrotman5256
    @gailtrotman5256 9 месяцев назад +524

    STAY OFF DATING SITES EVERYONE! You risk everything. It's tragic. These beasts know exactly what they're doing.

    • @Luxiouriousprettyme
      @Luxiouriousprettyme 9 месяцев назад

      and also men approach women in public because men get killed too. its better online guys

    • @mariasalonga4780
      @mariasalonga4780 9 месяцев назад +33

      Not fair for people who have a good intention I know people who is happy with their relation and they met their partner in dating online

    • @UmmuFarras
      @UmmuFarras 9 месяцев назад +59

      I met my husband on dating site. We've been happily married for 16 yrs and have a daughter. I know a number of couples with the same experience. It's not the dating site itself that are dangerous. It's the ability to spot red flags from potential dangerous people that one should have that keep people safe. It goes the same for offline datings.

    • @NavyBahati
      @NavyBahati 9 месяцев назад +4

      Correct

    • @NeVs-cb1oc
      @NeVs-cb1oc 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@UmmuFarras… no it’s never the dating sites, just the “wolves “ dressed as lambs hidden behind the keyboards..
      Also mothers need to teach their daughters that millionaires do not usually choose dating sites to find partners !!
      Only low life demented psychopaths do …
      How didn’t she throw her phone in the river, it’s beside me …
      This girl clearly had absolutely NO guidance or support, especially from her mother …
      Dishonouring reasons ?? Who cares ?? They come second, to loosing a child in the hands of a psychotic predator..
      RIP Nadine …

  • @YourHomeGirlKat
    @YourHomeGirlKat 9 месяцев назад +375

    She was lucky she even made it home after that trip to New York! This is so tragic!

    • @daughterofenoch677
      @daughterofenoch677 6 месяцев назад

      She was lying

    • @kmariammm9504
      @kmariammm9504 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@daughterofenoch677how was she lying she got home thts confusing

    • @heavenlyxtacy
      @heavenlyxtacy 3 месяца назад +2

      her family letting her meet him again the second time, her family had the plans to eliminate her. This case is not what is told here.

    • @YourHomeGirlKat
      @YourHomeGirlKat 3 месяца назад +3

      @@heavenlyxtacy oh my gosh!! That just makes so much sense because no family in their right mind lets their loved one back into danger like that!

    • @heavenlyxtacy
      @heavenlyxtacy 3 месяца назад

      @@YourHomeGirlKat I am actually glad I could convince you, I have been using internet for last 27 years and what I have learned is "dont trust anything on the net". If they tell you something put yourself in that place and think. If they saying I will give you a million dollar, why?, I personally will not give you even 1 dollar even if you beg infront of me. Dont fall for anything, use your mind.

  • @ameliashostak4764
    @ameliashostak4764 8 месяцев назад +55

    If a person is too good to be true...they're probably not. That goes for both men and women.

    • @muhbah1762
      @muhbah1762 7 месяцев назад +2

      I agree with you, ones actions should prove such not their words.. A good example is Almari.

    • @raven_0525
      @raven_0525 4 месяца назад

      If they are SO good they don’t have to go on dating sites to find love

    • @laylaharb8797
      @laylaharb8797 28 дней назад +1

      Exactly

  • @victoriafain7396
    @victoriafain7396 9 месяцев назад +387

    My concern in all of this was that when he came to visit, there were so many red flags to the family. If we were being honest, there were red flags to Nadine as well. Yet she sadly overlooked these and traveled to America alone to see him. The age gap alone should have warranted at least a friend travel with her. I am not in any way victim shamming. I just hope that in the future, young women will accept what they are seeing and take steps to keep themselves safe.

    • @kintsukuroi6300
      @kintsukuroi6300 9 месяцев назад +17

      You present very good points and is very unfortunate that now a days asking/analyzing human behavior can be seen as 'victim shamming' when a story like this can provide further knowledge about human behavior, perspective and due to the need for care and affection/love the lengths some people will go in order to attain them. Other examples are women in their last stage of life seeking relationships on line and exposing themselves to scamming and losing all their life savings. At the end of the day is personal choice/decision making and to many the world can come down in front of them but they have set their sight on a specific person and nothing and no one will make them turn away no matter how many red flags, red lights, or warning signs might be blinking/turning on such is the reality for many people.

    • @truthseekeralways7050
      @truthseekeralways7050 9 месяцев назад

      ​@Volklingen4937
      This was Abusive Relationship
      Nothing to do with Religion 🙄
      STOP LYING 💯🚫
      STOP islamophobia 💯🚫

    • @RK-su4hs
      @RK-su4hs 9 месяцев назад +4

      it’s not that simple ma’am. None of us can see clearly in present time. Only hindsight is 20:20
      Additionally there are no absolutes or rules one can follow in life that will protect against all dangers .

    • @kseke25
      @kseke25 9 месяцев назад +11

      This man was a very crafty predator. He won her confidence and disarmed her intuition. As for the parents, they should have probably reasoned with her but she probably wouldn’t have listened anyway. This is just so unfortunate for her.

    • @marchellomonroe7813
      @marchellomonroe7813 8 месяцев назад +10

      Money is the root of all evil and she looked at the money. And that's what got her trapped money. That's your answer. All about the money and looking over red flags and truth!!! We all have warnings before destruction. Be blessed

  • @theflowerangel5724
    @theflowerangel5724 9 месяцев назад +360

    As a woman, I can’t understand why she did not go buy a new phone and throw the other one in the river?? It sounds like she knew he was spying on her phone but she was still using it? I’m having such a hard time with that one.

    • @magaritacorral6810
      @magaritacorral6810 9 месяцев назад +33

      True , take all the evidence to the police , the text messages etc… and continue with the re straining order maybe she would’ve been alive now RIP 🙏🏽💐

    • @naeemapatel5259
      @naeemapatel5259 9 месяцев назад +29

      Is it possible they were unaware of the spyware?

    • @Martianmouse11
      @Martianmouse11 9 месяцев назад +18

      Right! Or she simply could have turned it off and changed her number.

    • @bayareaman27
      @bayareaman27 9 месяцев назад +5

      I don't think it would have mattered as she most probably would still have the same Facebook and insta...

    • @naeemapatel5259
      @naeemapatel5259 9 месяцев назад +32

      @@bayareaman27 possibly the only solution is once a woman sees a man is violent or has a temper she should end the relationship immediately but the ladies wait, hoping the situation will improve & the longer they wait to sever the relationship the more emotionally involved they are, it's just so sad.

  • @gailkennedy9179
    @gailkennedy9179 7 месяцев назад +60

    I can not believe the amount of victim blaming on here. Someone was murdered. A monster did that. End of.

    • @Trini2dbone868
      @Trini2dbone868 5 месяцев назад +8

      Actions lead to consequences. Like, for example, if she had not … then she’d be alive today.
      Not victim blaming. Just the truth 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @sharmiladevika
      @sharmiladevika 5 месяцев назад +1

      True…

    • @palmzombie3553
      @palmzombie3553 4 месяца назад

      I knew as soon as I seen she was muslim people would be blaming her

    • @elainevarian8341
      @elainevarian8341 4 месяца назад +4

      I don’t see a lot of victim blaming some family blaming which I do agree with. If she’s so young and naive, family has the responsibility to guide and protect her.

    • @kentwoodpd843
      @kentwoodpd843 4 месяца назад +1

      Hey in the animal kingdom, all Prey KNOW they are responsible for their own safety. Watch and pray! Be careful of predators--they are everywhere!! Freaks come out at night; that's why it's good to be HOME at night!!!

  • @ellenbulay5918
    @ellenbulay5918 9 месяцев назад +111

    When your love interest always talks about his good character and talks about his wealth..that's red flag for sure.

    • @StormyMonday0896
      @StormyMonday0896 4 месяца назад

      Yeah I dated a self declared pastor and the guy sure wasn't living God's covenants.

  • @angiep7652
    @angiep7652 9 месяцев назад +140

    His face alone is the type that cannot be trusted. Creepy

    • @rose-kp4lf
      @rose-kp4lf 7 месяцев назад

      appearance behavior voice

    • @mazzid9973
      @mazzid9973 5 месяцев назад +3

      I call it creep vibes, that's what I got on seeing his photos‼️😬😳🐨🇦🇺🦘

  • @Smaira-j7l
    @Smaira-j7l 7 месяцев назад +42

    This is why in Islam, the family starts investigating the man quite early if there is interest. A friend of mine was heartbroken after the family investigation of her "fiancé" came back negative. She was told to cut off all links with him. Now, that friend's followed islamic reservations and shaperoned their girl. She had a rough time after the infatuation but she was saved from a bad relationship.
    Nadine's family is English and probably did not know some of steps to take. May God soothe their hearts and give them sabr. Nadine is in paradise.

    • @Yurana-th8sl
      @Yurana-th8sl 4 месяца назад +7

      They live in the UK why should they live with bs traditions. Raise your daughter independent and your sons right. Let women make their own choices to learn to avoid creepy like this. No background checks will prevent an abusive partner. He was raised muslim so why was he like that? Should raise your sons better so they dont become obsessive, abusive narcissists. I can see here in europe every das how much muslim parents let slip when raising their sons. They are allowed to do anything without consequences becoming future abuser. Put your women first not the other way around. Dont treat women like cattle that would be the 1st step in the right direction so you dont raise naive girls who fall for abuser

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 4 месяца назад +5

      ​@@Yurana-th8sl Nadine made her own choices. And was killed for them. I'm not Muslim, but it strikes me as absolutely sensible that a woman should never travel alone to meet a strange man and be hosted by him. That there should be a friend or a family member present -- precisely because Muslims, Christians, Hindus, animists or atheists, we all know there are a lot of predatory men out there and a man can physically overpower a woman quite easily.

    • @whoknows7593
      @whoknows7593 3 месяца назад

      yeah, that's why honour k!llings never happen in Islamic families...

    • @faikawilliams8694
      @faikawilliams8694 3 месяца назад

      Ameen 🤲

    • @MeTube0190
      @MeTube0190 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@Yurana-th8slspot on that's the problem its Islam raising monsters in this world

  • @Fairy71128
    @Fairy71128 9 месяцев назад +316

    After what happened to her in NY, and especially after they learnt about her phone being tracked, the first thing to do would be to change the phone. Why wasn’t that done???? I just don’t understand it. And why do women try to prove anything to the abusers? You leave them. NO CONTACT. That was her biggest mistake unfortunately deadly…

    • @AliAli-hm4xp
      @AliAli-hm4xp 9 месяцев назад +1

      Hi

    • @TubularBelles
      @TubularBelles 9 месяцев назад +6

      I agree. But I do think that he would have just shown up sooner.

    • @Fairy71128
      @Fairy71128 9 месяцев назад +42

      @@TubularBellesthey lived on different continents. If she changed apartments, phone he would have no way of finding her. After a while he would give up and find someone else. Her problem was keeping contact with him and going to his hotel.

    • @TubularBelles
      @TubularBelles 9 месяцев назад +8

      @@Fairy71128 all he would have to do to is watch her Mothers house until she visited and then follow her.

    • @TubularBelles
      @TubularBelles 9 месяцев назад +9

      You’re right the damage was done by keeping contact with him. He was too far involved to just let her walk away.

  • @Annsunshine30
    @Annsunshine30 9 месяцев назад +260

    He even looked dangerous!!

    • @Fairy71128
      @Fairy71128 9 месяцев назад +28

      💯 I’d run as soon as id see him. Where was her intuition?

    • @louisecampbell2628
      @louisecampbell2628 9 месяцев назад +22

      YES he gave me the creeps

    • @miasmic100
      @miasmic100 9 месяцев назад

      Absolutely not marriage material, criminal looking

    • @shaimakakar1650
      @shaimakakar1650 7 месяцев назад +7

      Yes, thank you 👏💫 completely, a monster ! 😱👻👿

    • @mswakibe8260
      @mswakibe8260 6 месяцев назад

      She was moved by the millionea tittle

  • @40s_fit_and_fab30
    @40s_fit_and_fab30 7 месяцев назад +41

    She was like the Mum bit clueless

  • @marlbboro8091
    @marlbboro8091 9 месяцев назад +199

    Millionaire …..and an FBI agent. Sounds about right 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @miasmic100
      @miasmic100 9 месяцев назад +24

      I feel sorry for her loss, but it seems like the dumbest victim in history. The guy did not match up from the start.

    • @Talkwithtina808
      @Talkwithtina808 9 месяцев назад +6

      Exactly

    • @DesipetsoIndia
      @DesipetsoIndia 9 месяцев назад +37

      She was very naive. Where on earth does the FBI have time to chat online. He was a jobless fellow .

    • @Spiceluvj
      @Spiceluvj 9 месяцев назад +1

      😂

    • @denyss3476
      @denyss3476 8 месяцев назад

      No millionaire would be working for the FBI. You got away the first time, go to the police when he show up in your country, when he is harassing you, forget your pride. Let them deal with it. You have all the evidence.

  • @scowil456
    @scowil456 9 месяцев назад +171

    If a horrid, despicable individual sexually assaults and imprisons you, you DO NOT allow him in your presence again. And if he EVER tries to contact you, you should contact the authorities immediately. You also DO NOT let him back into your home, or go to dinner with him. There are certain situations that only the person at risk can be responsible for when it comes to taking actions to avoid putting themselves in harms way. These types of criminal acts are some of my most hated. But we should ALL learn from them and not let Nadine’s life be taken in vain. RIP

    • @lous.1548
      @lous.1548 9 месяцев назад +7

      he had pictures of her .... and this is what forced her to stay in touch

    • @erinhansen614
      @erinhansen614 9 месяцев назад +2

      Couldn't have been better spoken!

    • @wittie28
      @wittie28 4 месяца назад +2

      @@lous.1548 She is too naive. Are photos more valuable than your life?

  • @denyss3476
    @denyss3476 8 месяцев назад +65

    Why would a Muslim family let their daughter go to another country to meet a man, that she's not yet married to?

    • @tarikfromlondon686
      @tarikfromlondon686 7 месяцев назад +7

      Good question!

    • @patchan1467
      @patchan1467 3 месяца назад +3

      It beggars belief.

    • @heavenlyxtacy
      @heavenlyxtacy 3 месяца назад +1

      because they wanted her not living, story is something else here, we are told something else, her family has a greater hand in her murd** here.

    • @hasnaa11136
      @hasnaa11136 3 месяца назад +8

      And him being an ALCOHOLIC !!! 🤯

    • @jumanamaher3720
      @jumanamaher3720 Месяц назад

      So .. correct .. in the Middle East culture can't be accepted even for non Muslims

  • @rabiamehdi5570
    @rabiamehdi5570 9 месяцев назад +124

    If a man or women brags about money, that’s a sign to turn around and run

    • @abdoolidiots
      @abdoolidiots 8 месяцев назад +10

      yes. its always them who brings financial troubles on you later on as well...

    • @neriaimboy3061
      @neriaimboy3061 5 месяцев назад

      True that's one sign to end that kind of relationship. Block him/her right away.

  • @tmc1373
    @tmc1373 9 месяцев назад +82

    This is so sad and horrible. Where was her father? Why was she allowed to go all the way to New York alone. The guy doesn't look safe or trustworthy AT ALL!!! SMH

  • @tinainaz3830
    @tinainaz3830 9 месяцев назад +24

    So many missteps that could have been avoided. Let this be a lesson to us all, and to our families

  • @wengd.6738
    @wengd.6738 9 месяцев назад +104

    From the very start, there were already red flags like telling her he's a rich guy and an alcoholic! You're digging your own grave...

    • @t.j.7789
      @t.j.7789 Месяц назад

      Exactly!!!!!

  • @dynamicpisces
    @dynamicpisces 9 месяцев назад +142

    This happened almost 10 years ago so we didn’t have the kind of awareness that we do now about when our phones have been hacked. That being said, after surviving that NYC trip, she continued to make bad decision after bad decision. There’s a lesson here tho! Ladies trust yourselves and your instincts/intuition. We’ve been equipped with them for a reason!!!

    • @Brighteyes95866
      @Brighteyes95866 6 месяцев назад

      Ameen

    • @amo29812
      @amo29812 6 месяцев назад

      Yes, women gaslight themselves a lot

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@amo29812 Those are the internalised voices of one's family and, more broadly, the culture at large.

  • @sema6775
    @sema6775 8 месяцев назад +65

    Horrible, Murderous & Unnecesary
    Lessons learnt:-
    1) Never do initimate stuff with anyone who is not your spouse.
    2) Never take/share pics of yourself in compromising situations no matter what. Too many reports of this happening & things going horribly wrong.
    3) Stay away from abusers & control freaks in whatever shape, size or form they present themselves no matter how charming &/ or poor me syndrome they portray & convey.
    4) Better for young women to stay clear away from men who are 5+ years older than them & stick to those closer to their own age.
    5) Linking up with just anybody out of desperate lonliness is a terrible mistake. It destroys.

    • @Brighteyes95866
      @Brighteyes95866 6 месяцев назад +3

      I agree with 90% of your statements, I’m an older Muslim man whose nothing like this lunatic fool that murdered that poor sister no where close to it, I’m speaking for myself first we all should stick with the Holy Quran and the authentic sunnah of our Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) we can’t go wrong there for sure.

  • @Jezze-rc6yv
    @Jezze-rc6yv 9 месяцев назад +110

    If loving someone makes you feel like your going crazy, quit it

  • @samp4050
    @samp4050 9 месяцев назад +122

    Most rich people, millionaires, don't brag about their wealth, simply because they don't want to attract gold diggers who only want their money. I also agree with poor Nadine's brother about the murderers sunglasses - I also don't trust anyone who wears sunglasses, especially when meeting for the first time, cos it's shows they're hiding their true personality, but don't want you to see their true colours. The eyes are indeed the windows to the soul. What a sad end to such a beautiful young woman's life who was clearly a beautiful, naiive, kind, guillable soul. May her dear soul rest in peace. My condolences to her loving family. 😢

    • @bambinaforever1402
      @bambinaforever1402 9 месяцев назад +13

      Most rich people do not brag about their wealth period.

    • @fc7307
      @fc7307 9 месяцев назад +7

      @@bambinaforever1402 All rich people (especially those from old money) do not brag about their wealth. You don't want gold diggers and especially the IRS to come knocking.

    • @m.m.7183
      @m.m.7183 7 месяцев назад

      @@bambinaforever1402some do

  • @dl5661
    @dl5661 7 месяцев назад +51

    No mehram while visiting a strange man? May Allah make this a means of guidance for all of us and have mercy on a sister who has gone through the horrors of this world.

    • @muneebahmad7729
      @muneebahmad7729 6 месяцев назад +16

      exactly that is what i was thinking, all this could have been avoided only if they had a little bit knowledge of islam anyways may Allah forgive her

    • @palmzombie3553
      @palmzombie3553 4 месяца назад +3

      You know how many muslim wives this happens to? A lot.

    • @Amatullaah.1
      @Amatullaah.1 4 месяца назад +5

      Exactly what I was thinking. So many of the laws of Allaah, azza wa jal, were ignored in this case. All of the boundaries put in place by our Creator are for our protection and for our benefit; transgressing those boundaries can only result in harm to ourselves and/or others.
      There is a safe way to go about getting married-what happened in this case was wrong in so many ways, and it ended absolutely tragically.
      May Allaah, azza wa jal, grant us all guidance and protect us from harm. Ameen.

    • @appu1sundaram
      @appu1sundaram 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Amatullaah.1Finally,someone said this. Alhamdulillah. When you don't abide by the law of Allah you are sure to get caught in a mess. May Allah guide us. Muslim dating site is an oxymoron.

    • @patchan1467
      @patchan1467 3 месяца назад

      The victim asked for it.

  • @priscamolotsi
    @priscamolotsi 9 месяцев назад +62

    After her trip to the USA, she should have cut all contact with him! Why on earth she continued being in contact with him is sad and regrettable.

  • @bettyml7598
    @bettyml7598 9 месяцев назад +513

    It's beyond me that she met him alone in a hotel room !

    • @amayelba4783
      @amayelba4783 9 месяцев назад +43

      Very dangerous ..

    • @naeemapatel5259
      @naeemapatel5259 9 месяцев назад +62

      True, I don't want to judge anyone but it was clearly dangerous to meet him alone since he had beaten her previously, however we must remember she was embarrassed about the pics he had of her & she probably thought she could beg him to destroy it/hand it over. That said, it's a pity she didn't ask the police to accompany her because they would have informed him that it's a crime to blackmail people.

    • @mohamedpasha2776
      @mohamedpasha2776 9 месяцев назад +20

      too many women feel some how they should extricate themselves from a mess they have landed in all by themselves.which is thewrong thing to do. the very idea of dating apps or in-person is dangerous.

    • @CroatiaWien
      @CroatiaWien 9 месяцев назад +26

      It was so naive and dangerous.

    • @samlsd9711
      @samlsd9711 9 месяцев назад +36

      Some muslim women just wear hijab but do everything else like other non muslim women.
      imo, it's wrong from her side knowing muslim men are all about the woman making mistakes and all about the men being saints.
      What about him being in the hotel and pushing her to meet him in a hotel instead of marrying her first, tell her parents and then take her honey moon or something instead of letting her fly out all by herself.
      He's evil.Not a true gentle man, a muslim man who cares about his wife.

  • @almasasrecipes7964
    @almasasrecipes7964 7 месяцев назад +15

    His eyes says everyting .RIP nadine

  • @dukengare5354
    @dukengare5354 9 месяцев назад +122

    With all those red flags, it is appalling that she eventually walked her way into death!!! I hope this video has taught someone a lesson!

    • @SyedaMahi-mq3yb
      @SyedaMahi-mq3yb 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah... Because a old man asked me for my Instagram too and I blocked him

    • @Pheneria-dv6zw
      @Pheneria-dv6zw 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@SyedaMahi-mq3ybyes so glad you did the old men be creepy

    • @isabellalapobo
      @isabellalapobo 7 месяцев назад

      Lesson learned 4 me while been dating online😢

  • @mikesheth5370
    @mikesheth5370 9 месяцев назад +84

    If your online or offline obsessive lover asks for meeting after you have rejected him don't see him! This is advice given by all psychologists and counsellors!

    • @fatimaxo4885
      @fatimaxo4885 3 месяца назад +2

      True... I was seeing a college student when I was only in high school 16 years old. He demanded we met, he would fly into town without notifying me and expected me to leave my final exams to meet him. I knew he wasn't right but he was so manipulative he got me to feel sorry and continue staying in the relationship. Thankfully a friend gave me the courage to tell him to scurry off. He tried blackmailing me but thank goodness I stood my ground. I absolutely despise men like that...

  • @kittygirl_thetortie498
    @kittygirl_thetortie498 8 месяцев назад +22

    Millionaire FBI agent? Red flag right there.

    • @Bloem-ho4rv
      @Bloem-ho4rv Месяц назад

      Also a millionaire on a dating site? Strange

  • @henrysantos121
    @henrysantos121 9 месяцев назад +113

    *This is absolutely heartbreaking*
    *My deepest condolences to the family and friends involved*

  • @donnastephenson4747
    @donnastephenson4747 9 месяцев назад +53

    I think he purposely left his passport at her home knowing she will come to him to give him back his passport. He already had plans in doing what he did.

    • @patchan1467
      @patchan1467 3 месяца назад +1

      She walked right into his trap. She could have left his passport at hotel reception and one last bout of ...

  • @yoditc7097
    @yoditc7097 6 месяцев назад +11

    Never meet an abuser alone! So sad poor girl RIP 😢

  • @samlsd9711
    @samlsd9711 9 месяцев назад +152

    If a man leaves the whole country to look for you and finds you, know that there is something wrong with him.

    • @louisecampbell2628
      @louisecampbell2628 9 месяцев назад +5

      YEP!!!

    • @samuelrebecca9915
      @samuelrebecca9915 9 месяцев назад +6

      But what if is the other way round....if you're evil you're evil irrespective of whatever situationship they both share

    • @Userxyz-z2d
      @Userxyz-z2d 9 месяцев назад +15

      When a man has to start looking in another country its bc the women in HIS country are on to him. My ex had to look in Australia, somewhere where no one knew of his past.

    • @tsholofelohuma7496
      @tsholofelohuma7496 9 месяцев назад

      True

    • @uhuraenterprise6372
      @uhuraenterprise6372 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Userxyz-z2d Do you live in a very small country? Like Monaco.

  • @margb99
    @margb99 9 месяцев назад +72

    That poor family. The mother and brother seem so nice. No-one deserves what theirdaughter and sister and they went through. That man is pure evil.

  • @BogdanPetre
    @BogdanPetre 8 месяцев назад +4

    Just wanted to praise the actors playing Nadine and Sammy, very good work, really adding to the story !

  • @NaturalNotts
    @NaturalNotts 9 месяцев назад +114

    Thank you Nadine, for reminding us how dangerous online dating can be. 🙏

    • @enharakarisik7498
      @enharakarisik7498 9 месяцев назад +6

      That’s a horrible comment

    • @bambinaforever1402
      @bambinaforever1402 9 месяцев назад +1

      No. It shows that there is nothing free in this world. So if one is a freeloader who decided to become rich just by spreading one’s legs that might be lethal. There is nothing wrong with online dating

    • @naeemapatel5259
      @naeemapatel5259 9 месяцев назад

      So sad for her family 😭

    • @mashaallhsss3479
      @mashaallhsss3479 9 месяцев назад

      Not all my sis

    • @laceyannhall2102
      @laceyannhall2102 9 месяцев назад +1

      She should have gotten a new phone.

  • @mellel5594
    @mellel5594 9 месяцев назад +45

    In the very end, it was her decision to be alone with him in his hotel room. Up until that point, her family tried to help her. Honestly, I think that they would have had to lock her up to prevent her from meeting with him. She was a 28 year old woman who had the right to decide what she wanted to do. No matter how wrong a decision it was in the end.

  • @spidyman8853
    @spidyman8853 7 месяцев назад +19

    I'd love to know where is her dad in all of this. No mention of her dad.

    • @muneebahmad7729
      @muneebahmad7729 6 месяцев назад +4

      her dad went to buy milk one day and never came back

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 4 месяца назад +5

      Probably abandoned the family. If he was a first generation immigrant, he might even have flown back to Pakistan to start a whole new family there.

    • @neetylovescake
      @neetylovescake 4 месяца назад +2

      Maybe she had daddy issues hence why she couldn’t let of talking to her abuser.

  • @Satu-kq6ds
    @Satu-kq6ds 9 месяцев назад +117

    Sad how people judge the girl and family in the comments. Apparently everyone seems to know better. Sometimes though, compassion is all it takes. Wishing Nadine’s family a lot of strength in these hard times ❤️

    • @MrGengad
      @MrGengad 9 месяцев назад +6

      Excellent message, and God bless you for been wise.

    • @Galaxnite
      @Galaxnite 9 месяцев назад +4

      And to those who think they know better than Nadine: "Where were YOU when millions of girls like Nadine are being abused and killed? Nothing but cowardly keyboard warriors with "better-than-thou" attitude!"

    • @rn6447
      @rn6447 7 месяцев назад +2

      "APPARENTLY" maybe the reason why all the judgy people still have a pulse!!. Common sense and word of advice is not judgment it's what keeps you ALIVE!.

    • @maliktoumi8152
      @maliktoumi8152 6 месяцев назад

      In islam WE have rules to bé respecter otherwise problèmes inévitably​@@Galaxnite

    • @Brighteyes95866
      @Brighteyes95866 6 месяцев назад +2

      Ameen, it’s not her fault in any way shape or form, she was naive that’s for sure, in this world we live in, you have to be aware of your surroundings at all times.

  • @Saadfunfoodsandvlogsforyou
    @Saadfunfoodsandvlogsforyou 9 месяцев назад +61

    Whole family is so very soft spoken n well mannered and polite n empathetic...i wish they didnot had to see that kind of grief...its heart broken to know that decent, trusting and polite and understanding individuals are ultimate victims of social media😔

    • @Ana-rb7ws
      @Ana-rb7ws 7 месяцев назад +3

      Those are the characteristics that psychopaths and narcissists seek out in their victims. Someone I met online asked me if I trust people easily, I told him no. The same person later told me that he was in the MIT (Turkish FBI). My mind immediately darted to this video and I stopped talking to him. I believe he was trying to get a feel for who I am and if I would fall for his antics by asking me questions like if I trust people immediately and trying to get me to reveal my deepest emotional wounds to him. He seemed almost disappointed when I told him no, I don't trust people immediately; and seemed a little at loss when I didn't reveal any emotional wounds to him. Predators look for soft targets. When they meet someone who has their defenses up, they leave.

  • @ajayjackson7727
    @ajayjackson7727 7 месяцев назад +14

    The way Nadine handled this was completely wrong, you lot stop sugar coating it saying she was a vulnerable young girl, she was a grown woman who knew right from wrong and the fact that she chose to meet her abuser?? ridiculous!

    • @Texas_Made_
      @Texas_Made_ 6 месяцев назад +3

      Finally another person who is keeping it REAL....guess they dont want to offend the family..they also failed..

    • @dinariddle1696
      @dinariddle1696 2 месяца назад +2

      fr a 28 year old is a grown woman not a "young girl" she should've had some common sense, it's tragic

  • @julietthompson4025
    @julietthompson4025 9 месяцев назад +75

    The girl acted very foolishly! Falling in his trap of going to his hotel room alone!

    • @mofallah2400
      @mofallah2400 7 месяцев назад +7

      Where was her father I wonder

    • @sarahharris2729
      @sarahharris2729 7 месяцев назад +11

      ​@@mofallah2400100% sure he asked about presence of a dad. Picked her because of lack of father involvement. They know. I mean it's why Rochdale grooming gangs pick kids in state care, lack of male threat.

    • @robertlewis2404
      @robertlewis2404 5 месяцев назад +1

      Also not telling her family members she was going to his hotel,, her brothers could have dropped off his phone at the front desk.

    • @robertcrawford7806
      @robertcrawford7806 3 месяца назад

      ⁠She could have left the passport at the front desk or met him at the lobby, gave him the passport then left making sure he did not follow her.

  • @leebiggs1685
    @leebiggs1685 9 месяцев назад +120

    I heard a story about a famous athlete who had a policy on deciding who could date his daughter. A prospective date had to meet with him and his sons and answer a lot of questions before he was going to be allowed out with the daughter. The daughter was in agreement with this policy.

    • @juicyjules7409
      @juicyjules7409 9 месяцев назад +4

      Yes great idea 🙏🎵😎🥵😜

    • @YourNoseyNeighbor202
      @YourNoseyNeighbor202 9 месяцев назад +17

      The Duggars do that, but turns out one of their sons is a total monster himself. Households that are that extremely patriarchal raise girls to be women who are more likely to be subservient to all men, including who push their boundaries and even physically harm.

    • @uhuraenterprise6372
      @uhuraenterprise6372 9 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@YourNoseyNeighbor202I agree. Protecting girls/women like that makes them subs, which makes it easier to control them - both in a good and a bad way.

    • @egoiisticprince7977
      @egoiisticprince7977 8 месяцев назад +2

      This is exactly what marriage is

    • @ianmcintosh6457
      @ianmcintosh6457 8 месяцев назад +2

      That's an Islamic principle. However dating is not permissible. The meeting are before marriage is agreed and permission must be given by the father.

  • @Uniqueen1114
    @Uniqueen1114 9 месяцев назад +9

    I don’t understand how Nadine’s family let her visit that psychopath alone so many times. Why weren’t concerned when she hadn’t come back after visiting him?

  • @khluvly
    @khluvly 9 месяцев назад +76

    So much judgement 😢
    Let the poor girl rest in peace

    • @macherie300
      @macherie300 6 месяцев назад +1

      She shouldve followed her religion instead of just wearing the hijab. Contradictions

    • @khamzicrz
      @khamzicrz 6 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@macherie300Doesnt mean she should be killed!! None of us are God and none of us should pretend to be. Might be that she is closer to Allah than you will ever be, so think before you write sth like this.

    • @noorkulinso5799
      @noorkulinso5799 6 месяцев назад

      @@macherie300every woman Muslim or nonmuslim are dreaming for a good husband and have a house with him children so don’t blame her she’s a Human Being like you have a to be inlove and blind.

    • @violetbarrios-gl9zd
      @violetbarrios-gl9zd 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​. Coulda, shoulda , woulda let her rest in peace.

    • @g.i.520
      @g.i.520 5 месяцев назад

      @@macherie300you should just shut up ;)

  • @sameemrasheed1392
    @sameemrasheed1392 9 месяцев назад +75

    Amazing how her brothers could not protect her because she continued to talk and meet him in secret..😢

    • @hudakristall3139
      @hudakristall3139 9 месяцев назад +6

      There we all can see how important is a good and near connection in the family. But this is dying today very fastly....sad an d dangerous

    • @Reena121.1
      @Reena121.1 7 месяцев назад +2

      She wws muslim but led a westernised life

    • @TheMissbaker
      @TheMissbaker 7 месяцев назад

      But killed by a Muslim not a westerner

    • @zabirhussain
      @zabirhussain 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Reena121.1westernised lifestyle? Why is that something alien to muslims? Many muslims in muslim countries live the same lifestyle as people in the west. It's nothing to do with west or muslim. Some muslims are conservative and majority aren't same as most Christians or Jews aren't. Her mom was white British. You get people who are religious and conservative and those who aren't. So please stop using the word westernised as if its something alien to muslims. The values you are speaking about has nothing to do with being westernised most in the east follow those values

    • @bushraa6527
      @bushraa6527 6 месяцев назад

      @@zabirhussain what a joke you are, i am born and raised here and don't do anything like this wear full abaya and arranged marriage may ALLAH protect us all

  • @dawncampbell1284
    @dawncampbell1284 7 месяцев назад +13

    I just feel that her family could have done a lot more to protect her!

  • @ruejules9544
    @ruejules9544 9 месяцев назад +132

    Ya Allah what a devastatingly heartbreaking story the fact that the mother said “ we are blaming each other” is unfathomably sad.
    May Allah grant you peace and serenity and replace her absence with patience and may you meet her in Jannah

  • @stevemartin6144
    @stevemartin6144 9 месяцев назад +229

    Sadly, Nadine and her mother do not appear to be too bright. I'm not blaming them for the horrific outcome but it could have avoided had they responded differently. Why Nadine would meet Almahri at his hotel without her brothers is impossible to understand. The psych "experts" are a joke. Silly conjecture at best. No facts. This production states that Almahri was given a life sentence. Yes, on paper but he will be eligible for parole in 2033.

    • @lil-al
      @lil-al 9 месяцев назад

      This is always the problem when you no longer have the D.... P.....

    • @alzychoze6591
      @alzychoze6591 9 месяцев назад +11

      WAY WAY waaaaay to nice- agreeing to meet him?!? WHY did they not change out the phone immediately?!?
      I’m a nice I’m reasonable and I’ve never been stalked (praise the Fates) probably because I’m not petite.

    • @Cheska-c5e
      @Cheska-c5e 9 месяцев назад +27

      Actualy Muslim family dont allow such thing .. I am not Muslim but i know and works with Muslim Women and went to School with Muslims no one will allow them to meet some1 alone specialy when its a Man in Such Place..

    • @seanou2837
      @seanou2837 9 месяцев назад +18

      it's not they weren't bright, but they were too naive and trusting.

    • @seanou2837
      @seanou2837 9 месяцев назад +27

      @@Cheska-c5e that's true, Muslim family don't allow men and women to meet like that. the family should have adhered to those principles, but not sadly they didn't.

  • @onuspromis7166
    @onuspromis7166 7 месяцев назад +30

    Is it me or the family look shockingly emotionless??

    • @hiramalik7866
      @hiramalik7866 6 месяцев назад +6

      That's what I was thinking , even the mother

    • @manalcali153
      @manalcali153 5 месяцев назад +3

      Thought the same. They let her meet the guy alone

    • @moq9476
      @moq9476 5 месяцев назад +2

      Maybe she was adopted

    • @LeaDiehuber
      @LeaDiehuber 5 месяцев назад +2

      I do Not agree at all

    • @monaliza3334
      @monaliza3334 4 месяца назад +1

      No one even throw a tear... Mother? Was Nadine adopted?!

  • @tkdb317
    @tkdb317 9 месяцев назад +200

    The reality is that psychopaths and narcissists don’t need the internet to find victims. There's nothing inherently more dangerous about online dating than meeting someone irl. It's about whether people choose to be vigilant about the people they are considering getting into a relationship with. Any creep can manipulate and lie to you for years and years... until their mask slips. This has nothing to do with the internet.

    • @Fairy71128
      @Fairy71128 9 месяцев назад

      I agree with you. Online or in person- psychopaths and narcissists are abusers, very dangerous people. Girls should be taught early on by families about the signs, red flags and dangers of such people.

    • @Buzzbuzz444
      @Buzzbuzz444 9 месяцев назад +9

      Well said and very accurate.

    • @melissadunton3534
      @melissadunton3534 9 месяцев назад +23

      Except she wouldn’t have even had access to this predator if it weren’t for the internet.
      Yes there is a problem. It opens up the entire world to vulnerable and gullible people. When typically someone would be accessible to this type of predator like 10% of the time, the internet ups that to like 50% of the time.
      You cannot say that there is nothing different about meeting someone online rather than irl.
      It also makes it easier for someone like that to lie about who they really are, what they really have going on and who else is in their lives. You’re just as naive as Nadine if you think that meeting someone online is no different than meeting someone irl.

    • @NathalieLindberg-qp6qh
      @NathalieLindberg-qp6qh 9 месяцев назад

      Totally agree! @@melissadunton3534

    • @sunbeam9222
      @sunbeam9222 9 месяцев назад +31

      The internet makes it way way easier for creeps to groom their victim tho.

  • @delectable288
    @delectable288 9 месяцев назад +147

    As tragic as this case is, it was very preventable. There was NO reason in the world for her to ever have continued to keep in contact with her abuser. She could have changed her phone and just not answered his messages or emails. And why would you meet your abuser by himself and not take a friend or family member with you. So many red flags in this so called relationship and yet this girl continues to make bad choices. Your phone is bugged, throw it away, your email is hacked, change it and your abuser is can very easily be blocked on line.

    • @geegeestarks
      @geegeestarks 9 месяцев назад +10

      I agree

    • @Haniyeyhussein
      @Haniyeyhussein 9 месяцев назад

      You wouldn’t be saying that if she were white! Because we see it everyday and we still like we should call them victims

    • @faylambert6475
      @faylambert6475 9 месяцев назад +5

      My thought exactly i for one would stop owning a phone because these monsters know what to do and since he knows where she live i would left the place n country point blank

    • @tsholofelohuma7496
      @tsholofelohuma7496 9 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly 💯, I'm still shocked 😮

    • @ZindagiKiRang-h2w
      @ZindagiKiRang-h2w 9 месяцев назад +7

      Agreed but I assume she showed him where she lived also. Very naive & gullible

  • @waleedbaig2701
    @waleedbaig2701 7 месяцев назад +11

    In this case why didn't she block the number of this culprit ?

  • @Authorised-q5s
    @Authorised-q5s 9 месяцев назад +69

    Educate yourselves on cyber security and teach your kids to value themselves.

  • @silkwebspider7506
    @silkwebspider7506 9 месяцев назад +41

    Oh good lord!, she had all the protection with her brothers, but then made a fatal trust on her own....makes me so mad

  • @sandrarawn2147
    @sandrarawn2147 20 дней назад

    Hello from Ontario Canada
    Id like to personally thank this family for raising awareness on internet dating and the danger that could go with it. Im so sorry to this family. R.I.P.

  • @fredajordan5704
    @fredajordan5704 9 месяцев назад +103

    I seldom have learned about a case where there was more red flags than here. All this could have been avoided by some common sense. Nadine was 28yrs. and free to do what she wanted. No one could change her mind, very sad case, online dating is not the way to do it, go out and date and be very careful.

    • @kringle-jelly
      @kringle-jelly 9 месяцев назад +5

      The mother pushed her to online dating and even set up her account.

    • @martuciabeauty1713
      @martuciabeauty1713 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@kringle-jellyboth lack self esteem,,,nadine was brainwashed by her family that she is incomplete without a man and made her desperate for man's attention....and controlling monsterous psychopathic narcissists know very well how to pick their targets...those with self esteem and self love issues who are knowingly ignore red flags cause they have hard time setting boundaries

    • @samuelrebecca9915
      @samuelrebecca9915 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@kringle-jellyare you for real????

    • @idontdohumans5950
      @idontdohumans5950 9 месяцев назад +7

      You are wrong online dating works and sometimes it doesn't if a person is bad it doesn't matter where you meet them 😢

  • @jyotsnakarki4726
    @jyotsnakarki4726 9 месяцев назад +58

    Rest in peace beautiful girl 🙏🏽
    I hope your family finds all the strength ❤️

  • @susanna9831
    @susanna9831 7 месяцев назад +106

    First off all, what was she doing seeing a man for marriage alone? A Muslim woman must always have her mahram present when seeing a potential partner! Her mahrams would then do background checks on him. This is where her father, brother, uncle or aunt would step in and stop things escalating.

    • @NitinKataria-yj8gz
      @NitinKataria-yj8gz 6 месяцев назад

      Look at your westernized id bytch

    • @Brighteyes95866
      @Brighteyes95866 6 месяцев назад +13

      Exactly!

    • @MegaLorenaO
      @MegaLorenaO 6 месяцев назад +26

      That's new for me. I had no idea this could have been avoided if things were done according to their beliefs. Her family failed her.

    • @aljalloh1
      @aljalloh1 6 месяцев назад +22

      Their relationship is unislamic, this would not have happened if they had followed the rules

    • @fazilatkhan7986
      @fazilatkhan7986 6 месяцев назад +8

      Exactly!!!

  • @sweetanila26
    @sweetanila26 9 месяцев назад +72

    My heart breaks for Nadine and her family 😢

  • @AH-uk2fo
    @AH-uk2fo 9 месяцев назад +53

    I'm sorry, this is lesson for all girls. Never look back at a disrespectful, abusive man. If he forces, involve family, and police. I wish if girl had called police, and her brother scretly, before going to the hotel.

    • @Fairy71128
      @Fairy71128 9 месяцев назад +12

      Better yet lose all contact after the first sign of abuse.

    • @deescott8312
      @deescott8312 9 месяцев назад

      @@Fairy71128yes

  • @natashabay561
    @natashabay561 8 месяцев назад +3

    Such a beautiful family
    I am so very sorry for Nadine. May she rest in eternal peace
    🤍🕊🙏🏻😭

  • @birdyelke775
    @birdyelke775 9 месяцев назад +27

    Half her age, did she and the family, accept him, and went through all, just because of him, being a millionaire? Absolutely disgusting.

    • @mariaimperatricedamore1639
      @mariaimperatricedamore1639 9 месяцев назад +2

      That's what looks like. But was he really? He brought her to a disheveled house while in the NY area . ... But yes, she was embezzled because he was a millionaire so you're so very welcome

    • @birdyelke775
      @birdyelke775 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@mariaimperatricedamore1639 sadly that fool, was none of the above... He was an middle age, male, going through the menopausal, trying to to find a naïve sensible female, which he luckily had, and tragically, he took his life, while losing her. Money had become the credo of idiocy. Too bad!!

    • @mariaimperatricedamore1639
      @mariaimperatricedamore1639 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@birdyelke775 I agree wholeheartedly 💓💓💓💓

  • @tapsars7911
    @tapsars7911 9 месяцев назад +23

    Nadine seems to have been from a conservative Islamic family going by the hijaab or head scarf worn by her , her mother and sister . Such women do not go and meet men whom they have randomly met over the internet . How then , did Nadine's family allow her to travel to and go and meet Almari in hotel rooms ?

    • @spidyman8853
      @spidyman8853 7 месяцев назад +5

      Where is her dad in all this ?
      Why not a male figure present if her dad is away?

  • @sooshmitafaruk5318
    @sooshmitafaruk5318 7 месяцев назад +10

    Why did she go back to the hotel room with him? Im so confused 😢

    • @milliemillen1131
      @milliemillen1131 4 месяца назад +2

      Me too, wasn't he supposed to go take the passport at her house?
      Rather she went to the hotel room with which passport?

  • @luzonvisayasmindanao1354
    @luzonvisayasmindanao1354 9 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you for publishing this case and story. Justice never ends in this lifetime. That guy almary and his soul will continue to feel the consequences of his actions.
    Rest in peace, Nadine. Many prays for you.
    The other party do not have the compassion of people.

  • @sallysalvo3142
    @sallysalvo3142 9 месяцев назад +27

    She can just leave the passports and everything in reception but she still chosed to go to his room...if you think the person as dangerous, you have to know and not even trusting it

  • @angelamelville67
    @angelamelville67 7 месяцев назад +6

    Even though i know people who have met their long-term partners online, I have only had very bad experiences. RIP Nadine.

  • @sandibaker5298
    @sandibaker5298 9 месяцев назад +64

    I will never understand how some people can be so naive.
    This tragedy was totally preventable.

    • @alihamud322
      @alihamud322 9 месяцев назад +1

      What time is up, is up.

  • @samsamcupcakes6476
    @samsamcupcakes6476 9 месяцев назад +52

    I feel sad that better steps were not taken to avoid the escalation.
    Changing phones.
    Reporting him.
    Not meeting him alone.
    Her brothers keeping watch on her while he was around.
    RIP...

    • @thirstonhowellthebird
      @thirstonhowellthebird 9 месяцев назад +7

      She made the choice not to. You can’t make someone protect themselves if they still are gambling with the abuser. Trauma bonds are real. She probably had hope he’d give closure or they could resolve things. She projected her goodness on to
      him.

    • @paulinekamau955
      @paulinekamau955 9 месяцев назад +2

      I thought the same 2!!

  • @Simplydanielle89
    @Simplydanielle89 8 месяцев назад +6

    He Rd her, abused her, stalked her, threatened physical violence etc and she thought yea let me still allow him to have some kind of access to me? Even worse, got to his hotel? This is beyond insane.

  • @maureenbennett809
    @maureenbennett809 9 месяцев назад +58

    Why did she go back to the hotel by herself??

    • @Fairy71128
      @Fairy71128 9 месяцев назад +5

      He probably told her that he’ll delete the photos in front of her in the hotel.

    • @robertlewis2404
      @robertlewis2404 5 месяцев назад

      He could have done that in the lobby not his room,,,why go up there alone.

  • @Tiange678
    @Tiange678 9 месяцев назад +32

    She should not have gone alone by herself. I will never attempt online dating. It is very dangerous, and not monitored.

    • @VoiceOfTruth8617
      @VoiceOfTruth8617 9 месяцев назад

      It's only dangerous when you too dumb not to see the red flags

  • @mylittleprincesssayed7289
    @mylittleprincesssayed7289 8 месяцев назад +10

    The mother agreeing to sign her daughter up for dating site ...haraam where's the Dad to protect his daughter ? Because obviously the mother is not bright at all 😡 ...RIP Nadine

  • @Johanna_2005_
    @Johanna_2005_ 9 месяцев назад +42

    What a beautiful soul she had . Rest in peace my sweet sister 😭 . May God place you in Heaven. U deserved beautiful life 😭

    • @WinsomeHoffman-px1se
      @WinsomeHoffman-px1se 5 месяцев назад

      She should not go there by herself long distant relation don't work

  • @Nashia_zzz
    @Nashia_zzz 9 месяцев назад +18

    People who try to see the good in everyone always ends up getting stabbed in the back.

  • @ellad9513
    @ellad9513 8 месяцев назад +3

    My deepest condolences to her family 😔 Rest In Peace Nadine 🙏🏻

  • @Red-ct6wx
    @Red-ct6wx 9 месяцев назад +21

    My condolences to Nadine Family . Hoping that this monster finds prison justice may he receive what he gave!!

  • @Adm9464
    @Adm9464 9 месяцев назад +53

    Big mistake going to him to take his documents. She could have seek the company of her brothers.

    • @azwasaaidns3936
      @azwasaaidns3936 9 месяцев назад +3

      Or asks her brother to pass the documents without her presence

    • @dhanyarajan5496
      @dhanyarajan5496 9 месяцев назад +6

      Or just left the documents with the hotel staff

    • @mariaimperatricedamore1639
      @mariaimperatricedamore1639 9 месяцев назад

      It doesn't add up

    • @albaijat1
      @albaijat1 9 месяцев назад +1

      She should have asked her brothers to go w her or at least she should never went to the room

    • @Adm9464
      @Adm9464 9 месяцев назад

      @@albaijat1 very true.

  • @nicoleserenalauer3027
    @nicoleserenalauer3027 8 месяцев назад +5

    How can anybody NOT see the brutality in his face? The coldness in his eyes... he was a complete loser nothing else!

  • @helie4279
    @helie4279 9 месяцев назад +19

    Your intuition is never wrong.