I have been married 3 times, 1st time my husband didnt want to share his time, money or even provide shelter, between his two wives. 2nd time, if i ask for anything of a sunnah life, i was told to stop living in a story book life. The 3rd time which was 3 months ago. I've never been with my husband because of his culture. He went back to his country to come back to fulfill his culture and Allah decided differently, he got extremely sick and unable to return. Allah knows best, maybe marriage is just not good for me. My goal is jannah and in sha Allah I have faith Allah will grant me a husband there.
I'm 37 now, yet to find a husband. Been in a few serious relationships but failed. I know Allah separated us because it's not good for our future. Been crying for weeks after that break up. But i'm thankful that break up had brought me closer to Allah. Alhamdulillah. I hope i will the one soon, or if not, I'd be strong enough to accept whatever Allah sets for me.
Always on dua about marriage but always I gets non Muslim although am a revert,,please all stand with me,am not ready to go back to christianity because I know I am in the right road,Insha Allah
Duas that we should make for marriage related topic 1) oh Allah (ﷻ) grant me a pious person who’s willing to learn Islam in a correct way 2) whoever is looking for a spouse, make it easy for them and give them a compatible person 3) whoever is going through a divorce, give them sabr and better in return 4) whoever is married, keep them happy and far away from evil eye 5) grant pious and healthy kids for a good married couples
The mistake most of us make is, we go out in search of someone to complete us. I have come to understand that the best way to get a the one for you is to Focus on Allah, work on fixing your flaws, develop your character, trust me while you are busy trying to get all that together and right, Allah will send the right person unto your path. Pray for guidance and to be able to identify the person when the person comes. Most people ignored the person Allah sent their way after they prayed simply because the person isn’t as cute as they’ve fantasised. May Allah make ease for us our ways. Ameeeen
Ya Allah grant me a righteous husband ,, im 33 now and looking for the right one, my mother just passed away and i have nothing right now,, no one beside me and i felt alone..
Allahu akbar I love my creator so much I make sure I treat his creation with respect and love when I am around I am leaning to be patience ya Allah guide us to the right path Amin
Brother Mufti Menk spitting straight facts! Full respect to this brother with complete logic in his speech. May Allah bless him and grant him the highest level of Jannah and may Allah give us patience and make us able to be appropriate spouses. Ameeeen
Am 36 years now still on searching for the right one..I always get broken heart when I tell my partner that let's get married..am still not giving up and I know soon Allah will provide the right one for me
Salam @Mufti Menk you inspire me in many ways and my life did change for better May Allah the Almighty reward you abundantly. Am from Cameroon 🇨🇲 and I started following you since 2016 by making my daily salat on time and now am trying am to memorize the holy coran. Am actually in South Africa 🇿🇦 since February for a mission but due to COVID19 am still stuck in here all by myself. Alhamdulilahi am safe and healthy I listen every update. May Allah facilitates Ameen.May whole family is following you and sending their Salam Ameen
Assalamoalikum my parents are in searching for a spouse to me.. please remember me in your prayer Mufti Sir because getting married is one of the toughest discussions... please remember me in your prayers😢
I've been learning a lot from Mufti Menk to the extent that I'll need to slow down to revise and observe. But at the time, I don't want to miss out either, as your talks on various subjects are relating to everything I've been searching for and applicable to my daily routines/future planning (includes Akhira). Thank you, Mufti Menk, may Allah protect your health.
Mufti i want to get married bcuz im out of calendar na but i am afraid of men even muslim bcuz i maybe think that they only want to flirt and im not doing ths. I want to meet muslim man with deen and had strong faith to Almighty Allah I avoid get married in my young age bcuz i want to live single until i find my special person who teach me near to Allah
Assalamu alaikum varh make dwa for me as my marriage is getting delayed because of financial state am 25 due to this society my halal way is getting late remember me in all Ur dwa to give barakath to my dad and my marriage should happen without getting any loans and it should not be burden to my family. Remember me in all Ur dwa Allah can help us through his angels hope is only ALLAh
I didn’t understood the communication part ..actually I m kinda introvert and only open to my family members...but I don’t know how to communicate beautifully...what does it mean ? I m just trying to become a real good wife when I get married...I m learning all things that will make me a good person ...how can I be good at communication...??
Some people in my country said that in order to be a wife, you must be able to cook, clean the house, do household chores, etc etc. If you dont have that qualities, no man will marry you and you will end up being an old spinster.
Asc wrhma Thnks t o Almighty that bring mufti menk to this world so that he will guide us to right path alx again I'm I wnt to tell my bro nd sisters alwz prays Allah he will never live uh alone he will gives uh wht u ask for Alx to de Almighty
So according to this talk everyone should get graduate in psychology philosophy mass communication and economics .let me be Frank first of all maturity only people who are matured enough to understand can only marry and at the same time there should be equal love and affection and likeness before both guy and girl to get married.no one sees these nowadays he has money and she has looks that's all nikaah done then it gets broken ..our society is full of people where the father and mother are not yet matured while their kids are matured at the same time vice versa.. perfect the word responsible which is difficult to see in today's scenario bcoz our own family people are not bothered about it yet only about their selfish needs and wants
According to my family, during an arranged marriage, i can’t talk to the boy and get to know him, if I like him, we’ll get married that’s it which I hate, it’s ridiculous like I’m spending my entire life with this person
Is it correct to marry someone who is Muslim but due to his English upbringing he did not follow Islamic Rules does not know how to perform Salah nor read the Quran but is willing to learn and adapt to Islamic rules. Please advise???
Assalamalekm. I have a question In many of the hadith its said by Allah there should not be late in marriage funeral and namaz. But here ur saying we should 1st prepare for all this qualities n then go for the marriage . Which one we have to follow .?
A great speech BUT the disturbing noises in the background takes over Menk's true message... Really not a good place to be at and recording the speech khutbah while annoying men are working and not bothering themselves and stop working while the speech is recorded... Really bad! Truly disrespectful of those men! Unfortunately! ASTEGHFIRALLAH! May Allah swt guide us all and make things easy for us to reach the heavens above, ya Rab amin thumma amin! Jazaak Allah khair!
Yes mufti mu dream is married but im already 54 and one guy love me so much, he is only 25 urs old so much young than me, he is phatan he dont want to live me ncoz i explain everything, what can i do, and i know tje family maybe they dont like Filipina i meet her mother, sis, and bro, except father what can i do.
I am being pushed 2 marriage and am not ready. I hav dreams 2 accomplish too and i want 2 build myself in my deen. But my parents keep telling me am growing old. And am 21. I take marriage 2 be such a big thing and i feel am not ready. Pliz anyone give me some advice.
1. Communication skills
2. Patience
3. Responsible
4. Selflessness
5. Accomodate others
6. Kindness
7. Mercifull
I have been married 3 times, 1st time my husband didnt want to share his time, money or even provide shelter, between his two wives. 2nd time, if i ask for anything of a sunnah life, i was told to stop living in a story book life. The 3rd time which was 3 months ago. I've never been with my husband because of his culture. He went back to his country to come back to fulfill his culture and Allah decided differently, he got extremely sick and unable to return. Allah knows best, maybe marriage is just not good for me. My goal is jannah and in sha Allah I have faith Allah will grant me a husband there.
IN SHAA ALLAH I will pray for you ❤️
In sha Allah
Masha Allah such strong words, Allahs has a huge reward for you my dear sister ❤️
No Allah is preparing you, don’t give up hope in Him! If your dua is there along with sincerity, Keep asking!
InshaAllah
I'm 37 now, yet to find a husband. Been in a few serious relationships but failed. I know Allah separated us because it's not good for our future. Been crying for weeks after that break up. But i'm thankful that break up had brought me closer to Allah. Alhamdulillah. I hope i will the one soon, or if not, I'd be strong enough to accept whatever Allah sets for me.
Always on dua about marriage but always I gets non Muslim although am a revert,,please all stand with me,am not ready to go back to christianity because I know I am in the right road,Insha Allah
Duas that we should make for marriage related topic
1) oh Allah (ﷻ) grant me a pious person who’s willing to learn Islam in a correct way
2) whoever is looking for a spouse, make it easy for them and give them a compatible person
3) whoever is going through a divorce, give them sabr and better in return
4) whoever is married, keep them happy and far away from evil eye
5) grant pious and healthy kids for a good married couples
Wa alaikumussalam.dear mufti, my parents are searching for a spouse to me.pray for me sir getting a good spouse ....
May Allah bless me n all people who want to get merried with pious spouse
The mistake most of us make is, we go out in search of someone to complete us.
I have come to understand that the best way to get a the one for you is to Focus on Allah, work on fixing your flaws, develop your character, trust me while you are busy trying to get all that together and right, Allah will send the right person unto your path.
Pray for guidance and to be able to identify the person when the person comes. Most people ignored the person Allah sent their way after they prayed simply because the person isn’t as cute as they’ve fantasised.
May Allah make ease for us our ways. Ameeeen
Patience 2:50
Responsibility 3:25
Slightly selfless 4:05
Accomodate others 5:18
Kindness/generous 6:25
Utter beautiful words to your spouse 8:20
Lower your voice 8:45
Repeating everything 9:20
Ya Allah grant me a righteous husband ,, im 33 now and looking for the right one, my mother just passed away and i have nothing right now,, no one beside me and i felt alone..
The more wholesome of a person you are, the better of a spouse you’ll be. May Allah Bless us all with love that brings us closer to Him, Ameen.
Even from a non religious stand point this is very important and extremely wise information for all young people.
Allahu akbar I love my creator so much I make sure I treat his creation with respect and love when I am around I am leaning to be patience ya Allah guide us to the right path Amin
Brother Mufti Menk spitting straight facts! Full respect to this brother with complete logic in his speech. May Allah bless him and grant him the highest level of Jannah and may Allah give us patience and make us able to be appropriate spouses. Ameeeen
In Shaa Allah may I be a good wife to my future spouse. 🙏
Am 36 years now still on searching for the right one..I always get broken heart when I tell my partner that let's get married..am still not giving up and I know soon Allah will provide the right one for me
Salam @Mufti Menk you inspire me in many ways and my life did change for better May Allah the Almighty reward you abundantly. Am from Cameroon 🇨🇲 and I started following you since 2016 by making my daily salat on time and now am trying am to memorize the holy coran. Am actually in South Africa 🇿🇦 since February for a mission but due to COVID19 am still stuck in here all by myself. Alhamdulilahi am safe and healthy I listen every update. May Allah facilitates Ameen.May whole family is following you and sending their Salam
Ameen
Please Dua for my parents to accept the man I love
Saturday 🌷Guide me my Allah...
Guide my family....
Guide my hands for make what is good
Guide me until your paradise 🌷
Ameen 🌷
Aasalamu alaikum sheikh...please pray for Kashmir. we are passing through a tough phase...
The msg was of far greater value than the noise. No issues at all It was perfect as always.
May Allah bless you and guide you through the right path 🙏
I pray Allah to give me all the qualities to become a good spouse to my husband... 🙏
Rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhuriyyaatinna qurrata aayun wajalna lil mutaqeema imaama
Are you so Somali?? Becouse you are writting like Somali language
Jzakallah Khair Mufti menk....hey guys plz make duaa for me for a loyal hubby..
Evrytym ur speech is encouraging...thnk u sooo mch for giving us sch nyc speeches eveytym ...
Thanks a lot sheikh mufti menk for understanding may Allah continue his blessing and mercy upon you. Amen
Assalamoalikum my parents are in searching for a spouse to me.. please remember me in your prayer Mufti Sir because getting married is one of the toughest discussions... please remember me in your prayers😢
I've been learning a lot from Mufti Menk to the extent that I'll need to slow down to revise and observe. But at the time, I don't want to miss out either, as your talks on various subjects are relating to everything I've been searching for and applicable to my daily routines/future planning (includes Akhira). Thank you, Mufti Menk, may Allah protect your health.
MashAllah dear brother you are revealing the most important things about marriage in Life! May Allah make easy for us and our kids, ameen
Mufti Menk is a blessing. Thank you Allah. Alhamdulillah, mashaAllah.
ASALAMU ALAYKUM , LOVE FROM GAMBIA..
May Allah Grant us a good spouse InshaAllah
This is was absolutely beautiful and informative. Self introspection🇯🇲
Masha Allah, good teachings may Allah give us these qualities
May Allah grant me a spouse ya rabbi
Masha Allah....May Allah give us Jannath ul firdous partner to all us...
Ameen....
INSHA ALLAH
Mufti i want to get married bcuz im out of calendar na but i am afraid of men even muslim bcuz i maybe think that they only want to flirt and im not doing ths.
I want to meet muslim man with deen and had strong faith to Almighty Allah
I avoid get married in my young age bcuz i want to live single until i find my special person who teach me near to Allah
Wonderful saturday to you my dear Dr Menk...
May Allah protect you and all your family...
Allahmdulilah...🌷
Assalamu alaikum varh make dwa for me as my marriage is getting delayed because of financial state am 25 due to this society my halal way is getting late remember me in all Ur dwa to give barakath to my dad and my marriage should happen without getting any loans and it should not be burden to my family. Remember me in all Ur dwa Allah can help us through his angels hope is only ALLAh
I didn’t understood the communication part ..actually I m kinda introvert and only open to my family members...but I don’t know how to communicate beautifully...what does it mean ?
I m just trying to become a real good wife when I get married...I m learning all things that will make me a good person ...how can I be good at communication...??
SubhanAllah .jazakallah khair Mufti for the lesson you gave us...
Masha Allah my brother may Allah bless you.
Assalamu Alaikum Dear mufti sir, my parents are searching for a good human being as my life partner... pls do pray for me 🤲
ESHEDU EN LA IL LAHE IL ALLAHU VE ESHEDU ENE MUHAMMEDIN ABDUHU VERESULLUHU.....
Mash Allah Amazing topic ,thnks so much
*Just in time MUft Menk how u know I need these make me change how to talk to my husband*
Some people in my country said that in order to be a wife, you must be able to cook, clean the house, do household chores, etc etc. If you dont have that qualities, no man will marry you and you will end up being an old spinster.
Mashallah this is very encouraging
Wow... That was such a helpful video...!!alhamdulillah...!!
Wat if a person turns 30 ,n still lack all the qualities aforementioned!!! Shall he stay unmarried rather than destroying her life???!!
Asc wrhma Thnks t o Almighty that bring mufti menk to this world so that he will guide us to right path alx again I'm I wnt to tell my bro nd sisters alwz prays Allah he will never live uh alone he will gives uh wht u ask for Alx to de Almighty
That where most of us fail we do things while w not ready 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Mashallah baraki
I wish you would give a course to be a better spouse
Jazarkhallah khair sheikh much needed
That's why I don't Wanna Marry, I have lots of patience but I have a short temper problem 🤬, but I Pray 3 or 4 times a day.
So according to this talk everyone should get graduate in psychology philosophy mass communication and economics .let me be Frank first of all maturity only people who are matured enough to understand can only marry and at the same time there should be equal love and affection and likeness before both guy and girl to get married.no one sees these nowadays he has money and she has looks that's all nikaah done then it gets broken ..our society is full of people where the father and mother are not yet matured while their kids are matured at the same time vice versa.. perfect the word responsible which is difficult to see in today's scenario bcoz our own family people are not bothered about it yet only about their selfish needs and wants
I hope i wl get a good groom my parents r searching though
I don't think I'll ener get married or have kids. I wish i was like all of you'll
JazakAllah khairan
😭😭
May almight Allah assist us all
I love this alhamdulillah
According to my family, during an arranged marriage, i can’t talk to the boy and get to know him, if I like him, we’ll get married that’s it which I hate, it’s ridiculous like I’m spending my entire life with this person
zaza kha Allahu kahiron
Teenager- I wanna get married mufti- are you serious😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂
Nice message
Thank you ,
Ya Rab I get a good spouse
Is it correct to marry someone who is Muslim but due to his English upbringing he did not follow Islamic Rules does not know how to perform Salah nor read the Quran but is willing to learn and adapt to Islamic rules.
Please advise???
I have all these qualities but I'm still not married. I guess it's not meant for me.
Totally agree 😓
Jajakallah thanks
Assalamalekm. I have a question
In many of the hadith its said by Allah there should not be late in marriage funeral and namaz. But here ur saying we should 1st prepare for all this qualities n then go for the marriage . Which one we have to follow .?
Wa alaikum salam walah Matulah wabarakatuh
There is no right time to get married, is it the truth, and if there was then I have not married yet?There really is no perfect time.
A great speech BUT the disturbing noises in the background takes over Menk's true message... Really not a good place to be at and recording the speech khutbah while annoying men are working and not bothering themselves and stop working while the speech is recorded... Really bad! Truly disrespectful of those men! Unfortunately! ASTEGHFIRALLAH! May Allah swt guide us all and make things easy for us to reach the heavens above, ya Rab amin thumma amin! Jazaak Allah khair!
Allah bless you
I hope you have spotify...
Very nice
If I don't get perfect match ..i mean if I don't get someone I feel like spending life with and remain unmarried whole life , will this be a sin ??
Subhan Allah
100 % brother
Slm . I would like to marry but my circumstances are difficult...
i have a communication problem with my husbands family members
Salam to all
Masha Allah
Assalam alaikum mufti I want to discuss something where can I?
Salaam aleikhum warahmaturahi wabarakatuh Mufti. Please my question.... Is it Harram to find husband or wife from a Muslim dating website?
Nice
Mashallah
Asalamualaikum
How to make agree my parents that marriage is too much need for me
Allahuma Aamiin
Is good
Yes mufti mu dream is married but im already 54 and one guy love me so much, he is only 25 urs old so much young than me, he is phatan he dont want to live me ncoz i explain everything, what can i do, and i know tje family maybe they dont like Filipina i meet her mother, sis, and bro, except father what can i do.
I am being pushed 2 marriage and am not ready. I hav dreams 2 accomplish too and i want 2 build myself in my deen. But my parents keep telling me am growing old. And am 21. I take marriage 2 be such a big thing and i feel am not ready. Pliz anyone give me some advice.
Alhamdulillah
Sr Salam walekum waramatulahi wabarakatuhu pls make du'aa for me for the man I love i want merry in halal in this time pls
Everyone plzz pray for me with whom I love... I'll get married him in halal way...... ALLAH ACCEPT MY DUA ...... Aameen sum Aameen