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    📌Nouman Ali khan and Mufti Menk point out very important tips on why love disappears after marriage.
    #MuftiMenk addresses spouse is one of the signs from the signs of Allah (swt). Both spouses should be genuine to get Allah’s mercy to keep marriage alive in conjugal life. #NoumanAlikhan brings forward that #smiling, #greetings, silence and courtesy help to develop harmony between #husband and #wife following the #Sunnah of the prophet Muhammad (saw) in this video clip with #englishsubtitle. These are simple solutions but they're powerful solution for a healthy and strong #relationship in #marriage which prevents corruptions in the earth.
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Комментарии • 992

  • @adamb6674
    @adamb6674 6 лет назад +915

    May Allah swt protect our marriages from Shaytan and evil. Make dua that Allah makes it easier on people. To keep good intentions and maintain worship. It's not easy to maintain happiness in a marriage. Make Allah swt your number one and Inn'Shaa'Allah your love will increase

  • @flowerrainbow487
    @flowerrainbow487 4 года назад +1216

    Masha'Allah I'm proud of my husband he showed me Love and Mercy and when I'm angry he just keep his silence and if he's hurt too much he wud leave the house and comes back with Food and smile .. he is a man of Sabr and Gratittude, he respect his Mother his wife and his family and I love him even more bcuz of that. he is very generous and kind hearted Alhamdulillah for giving me A man like HIM!!!! A beautiful gift from ALLAH S.W.T 💖💖💖

    • @hadiyabhatti4138
      @hadiyabhatti4138 4 года назад +38

      Ma sha Allah hide your matters plz

    • @coinCharmx
      @coinCharmx 4 года назад +15

      I wish I will have women like u make doa for me to find good wifev

    • @imranaboo433
      @imranaboo433 4 года назад +18

      @@hadiyabhatti4138 she has by not using a real name!

    • @balkhan16
      @balkhan16 4 года назад +5

      Lucky you

    • @maymay5812
      @maymay5812 4 года назад +29

      @@redlilly2584 Aothiibillah any bad dua or jealousy you say on someone who doesn't deserve so Allah puts back on you.

  • @thequranicwisdom744
    @thequranicwisdom744 4 года назад +580

    I'm not married yet but I see such lectures to become a good partner and want Allah SWT to be pleased with me.

  • @emmb8334
    @emmb8334 6 лет назад +788

    It hurts the husband? It also hurts the wife when she gets no love, attention, romance or affection from her husband. Always the woman who gets blamed. Some women don't want to be nice to their husband because he doesn't deserve it and he doesn't earn their respect or love. And that's the truth. It's a 2 way Street. Mens primary needs are physical and woman's primary needs are emotional. Both are to be fulfilled equally

    • @aichamahavikri4766
      @aichamahavikri4766 6 лет назад +83

      emm b that's why both husband and wife have to give each other unconditional love and unconditional respect.
      Imagine if she does not respect him because he does not love her. And the reason why he feels disrespect is because the wife thinks she is unloved. You see the circle here?
      So to break the circle is one of them have to give unconditional love and/or respect to one another.
      At least that's what I learned

    • @Ashnesss
      @Ashnesss 6 лет назад +43

      I think arranged marriage is best especially if the guy is well brought up and from a good family. All my proposals have been from guys who are mature, intelligent and well settled. I think guys my own age act like clowns. And after my marriage proposals, I feel like anything outside of arranged marriage is a downgrade. I've chosen arranged marriage from amongst my proposals. It's definitely a two way street. I think it's important that the guy is older and mature. I think young guys are very immature and don't know the responsibility required of a husband

    • @Ashnesss
      @Ashnesss 6 лет назад +6

      emm b I think women need to be more open about their concerns. And not pay attention to guys who can't give them what they want unless its to tell them to buzz off

    • @Ashnesss
      @Ashnesss 6 лет назад +3

      CMA Ishaque Ahmed it is in so many ways. If the proposals are from good families then it's worth it otherwise I guess it isn't.

    • @humzamuhammad2426
      @humzamuhammad2426 6 лет назад +2

      emm thank you ill keep this in mind

  • @abdulalimomar6116
    @abdulalimomar6116 6 лет назад +556

    Before marriage shaytan makes you attracted to do zina. Then after marriage shaytan puts hatred between you two to break your marriage.

  • @arsalanyousuf3692
    @arsalanyousuf3692 3 года назад +75

    What a powerful statement ''The more we involve in Haram the less sweet the Halal will be" 1:35

    • @kiddiesthreshold6143
      @kiddiesthreshold6143 2 года назад

      Can a woman be satisfy with a spouse and who does not provide basic needs for her and her children and makes her feel it's her responsibility because she has a more stable income.

    • @Bvnnyboo
      @Bvnnyboo Год назад

      @@kiddiesthreshold6143 no this would not be a stable marriage. In Islam the husband is required to provide the basic needs to the wife and children not the other way around. Wife can work too of course but as long as the husband is providing the basic essentials like house, food, clothes, etc.

  • @utkarshpatel3850
    @utkarshpatel3850 3 года назад +116

    I m a Hindu but would love to put these words into actions in my future so that when I get married.. I could become a better husband

  • @suziozkan356
    @suziozkan356 4 года назад +56

    Even if the women smile at here husband when he comes home .The husband don"t see that .... that"s the proplem at this time

  • @timbitsontopofthefridge318
    @timbitsontopofthefridge318 3 года назад +25

    May Allah give us good spouses and good children who go to Jannah with us. Ameen

  • @asal691
    @asal691 3 года назад +18

    When you enter in your house you must say "assalamu alaikum " than durud and surah ikhlas you will see the effect of salam within days inshallah

  • @majidmaji1137
    @majidmaji1137 3 года назад +9

    Insh Allah! I will marry next year please pray for my beautiful new life and may Allah SWT bless me with the best partner which leads me to Jannah and may Allah b pleased with me...

  • @kf-lr1gt
    @kf-lr1gt 5 лет назад +72

    Guys respect the people whom u are married to,,breaking each others hearts,, that's not very nice,, follow the step of Muhammad saw) he had many wives ,,he never hurted his wives ,, he was kind ,,gentle and loving husband to his wives,,great Human in this earth,, when things go wrong in marriage ,,call out to Allah ,,open the Qur'an ,,read it,, ur problem will be solved,, insha'Allah,,never lose hope,,trust Allah ( almighty )

    • @sabrinahamid7906
      @sabrinahamid7906 5 лет назад

      Dont morgen with people me always I'm not to much saying

    • @sabrinahamid7906
      @sabrinahamid7906 5 лет назад

      Don't worry for me I'm allahmdullah happy with my self

    • @sabrinahamid7906
      @sabrinahamid7906 5 лет назад

      My family allahmdullah

    • @sabrinahamid7906
      @sabrinahamid7906 5 лет назад +1

      Mustafa jan I hope you more gona for you morgeing people s with contact always so what aziz I dont know you what's problems so much

    • @sabrinahamid7906
      @sabrinahamid7906 5 лет назад

      But oh care for me hahahaha

  • @insolentuser4561
    @insolentuser4561 3 года назад +84

    My parents never hid that they first weren't in love when they married. As a child I would find this sad. But now I realized that real love isn't necessarly that thing that pushes us to marry, it can be the bonding formed with time and a healthy relationship. MashaAllah my two parents make a great couple and now they are indeed in love so much so that they can't spend 3 hours without their other half.

  • @katylon
    @katylon 4 года назад +33

    I love my husband and I’m so lucky to have him

    • @aprilsweetly2651
      @aprilsweetly2651 4 года назад +2

      ALHAMDULILLAH 😊

    • @salemal-kandari481
      @salemal-kandari481 4 года назад +2

      Dua Banu
      Hamdullah
      May Allah protect your marriage from evil eye , satan , and any kind of evil Amen 🙏
      Amen 🙏
      Cherish this gift from Allah
      Thank Allah for this gift so Allah do not take it from you
      Give charity as thanking Allah for this gift
      May Allah help us

  • @sarahakhan4304
    @sarahakhan4304 6 лет назад +152

    What a wife can do when the wife expects to spend quality time with her husband but he is too sleepy(as that is the only time when they r face to face alone) or he is late in coming from his friends....plz give some duah that u can make ur husband understand that the wife do need his time attention care.plz share a duah for it

    • @riyazlenova2545
      @riyazlenova2545 5 лет назад +28

      “Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyatina qurrata a`yunin wa’j`alna li’l muttaqina imama)” [Qur’an, 25:74]
      Recite this Dua... In Shaa Allah... Allah will change his Heart and Mind towards you...

    • @farahali9302
      @farahali9302 4 года назад +4

      i know i can relate with u 😔

    • @bead_on_demand
      @bead_on_demand 4 года назад +12

      Greet him with the smile and don't nag too much instead share your feelings with him. Sometimes wives feel trapped in a marriage but husbands don't realizes and they need to be told how you feel and why you feel this way in a respectable way. Have a hobby and pray. Things will change Insha Allah

    • @tinkerbellsdream1869
      @tinkerbellsdream1869 4 года назад

      .

    • @dragonqueen95
      @dragonqueen95 4 года назад

      @@riyazlenova2545 oh I know how that feels 😔

  • @sharmink
    @sharmink 6 лет назад +192

    my two favorite scholar :)

    • @HiBaDrumsOfficial
      @HiBaDrumsOfficial 6 лет назад

      Sharm's Kitchen : Mine too!!!!

    • @tobacotears532
      @tobacotears532 6 лет назад

      AshAllahumulekum Sharm's Kitchen mine too

    • @AlieNiOS
      @AlieNiOS 5 лет назад

      Asalamualaikum sister. I just wanted to correct you. (Scholar(s)**)

    • @gulreezmba3136
      @gulreezmba3136 4 года назад

      Mine as well., I have subscribed to both 🙂 love to listen to them always and act accordingly

    • @umrithasan4418
      @umrithasan4418 4 года назад +1

      They r not scholars. They r dai's.

  • @nomoreheroesmd6577
    @nomoreheroesmd6577 6 лет назад +56

    Alhamdullilah may Allah S.W.T protect us and forgive us all and teach us how to protect and love are spouse Ameen.🙏🏿

  • @kukumcamara4972
    @kukumcamara4972 5 лет назад +95

    My marriage is in risk. I am planning to go back to my father house. Ya Allah help me and forgive me I never want to do something that displease you. I need prayers

    • @Lina333pa
      @Lina333pa 5 лет назад

      Enshallah keir sister

    • @ibrahimqueen9657
      @ibrahimqueen9657 5 лет назад +8

      Pls sis,don't do it,pray to Almighty Allah, be patients n try to always fast.may Almighty Allah give u patients. Aameen

    • @usmannafisat9203
      @usmannafisat9203 5 лет назад +10

      Aladji Diallo same with me here the pains just unbearable my kids are begging me not to go. There is no day that I don’t cry and all for what. Please I really need your prayers 🙏

    • @flower2226
      @flower2226 5 лет назад +1

      Try ur best to work things out, then if it still fails then seek advice from elders an the learned maulanas then decide
      At least then u have tried an done ur bit
      My duas r with u x

    • @dekadayib9191
      @dekadayib9191 5 лет назад +1

      May Allah always show you the right way

  • @isabellacalistacross
    @isabellacalistacross 4 года назад +33

    If men (husbands) can be distressed with their works, so does women (wifes).
    Ask your mother, if you think that I tell you lies. Wifes also wants their husbands' love and attention. Wifes are also human being. They can be tired too.
    When you see your women showing the signs of tiredness, stressful, you also have the obligation to less their burden.
    And talking about desires of the opposite sex, believe me women also have that. But most women are too shy that they choose to hide it.

    • @ummabdullah7601
      @ummabdullah7601 2 года назад

      I agree with you but the thing about women desires is it decreases a lot after childbirth and continues to to decrease with age then menopause. But for men it’s almost same as when they’re teenagers

    • @isabellacalistacross
      @isabellacalistacross 2 года назад

      @@ummabdullah7601 not everyone is the same. Maybe lot of cases are just like what you described in the past, but in the kind of era, nah. It's just the same

    • @ummabdullah7601
      @ummabdullah7601 2 года назад

      @@isabellacalistacross sometimes yes. But majority of men have more physical desires than majority of women especially as they age.

    • @isabellacalistacross
      @isabellacalistacross 2 года назад

      @@ummabdullah7601 ah yes I forgot. Women must excuse this "desire" of their husbands and let their husbands marry 4 wife's 😂
      Islam and their fair logic ✨😂✨✨😂✨

    • @ummabdullah7601
      @ummabdullah7601 2 года назад

      @@isabellacalistacross yes you’re right, if she doesn’t want to engage in the deed as often as he does then the option of another wife is there

  • @salmabello1826
    @salmabello1826 5 лет назад +14

    This is just amazing. May Allah bless you both. Am a bride of 3 Nov. 2018 inshaallah. And was so so handy😍

  • @ayaami8334
    @ayaami8334 6 лет назад +70

    Sheik you solve my problem i have to fight sheytan I shout on my husband whay I don't know but I love him oh yaa Alhaa Alhamdililaa my husband have Saber after this I want to give love for him please make dua for me

  • @sq21s97
    @sq21s97 5 лет назад +96

    Woman go through so much man it’s crazy

    • @etzain1917
      @etzain1917 3 года назад +3

      Yeah , how sad to be a woman right? When you're still in married you have to listen to your parents. You can't befriend boys, you can't go out alone, If you want to go out must be for a reason and must have company. When you get married, you have to behave yourself for your husband, you have to obey to your husbands need as long as it isn't Haram,will be asked for your responsibility towards your children's, have to pray five times a day when you can, fasting when ramadhan, can't go gossiping around... And you will enter Heaven In Sya Allah. But no no no.. you don't believe it.. look at men, how easy it is to be them. They just have to care for their parents and yours too, just have to make sure their wives are healthy emotionally and physically, they just have to make sure their families have foods, clothing's and shelter. They just have to work for family and for Islam, you know, just the responsibilities of men to make sure they right their Deen and also their Mothers, sister's, and Daughters less they got thrown to hell coz of em you know? It's sooo nice to be men.

    • @hearttouchingquotes2809
      @hearttouchingquotes2809 3 года назад

      I want to know about talaq, plz contact me as my husband tortured me saying he divorced me, 8921912396

    • @alishaalexa4099
      @alishaalexa4099 3 года назад

      @@etzain1917 so true😩😩😩

    • @umar9174
      @umar9174 3 года назад

      @@etzain1917 All the things that u mentioned guys is hard stop over looking it

    • @shadowstorm5261
      @shadowstorm5261 2 года назад +1

      @@etzain1917 "look at men, how easy it is to be them"
      sorry but nearly all the things you listed are what men also have to do.
      "You can't befriend boys" - This goes for men too vice versa
      "When you get married, you have to behave yourself for your husband" - This goes for men too vice versa. also if you're not going to behave just do everyone a favor and don't get married
      "will be asked for your responsibility towards your children's" - This goes for men too
      "have to pray five times a day" - This is the basics of being a Muslim in general
      "fasting when ramadhan" - This is the basics of being a Muslim in general. These shouldn't be complaints, are you even Muslim?
      "can't go gossiping around" - This goes for men too. i really don't understand why backbiting is necessary in this list, its a major sin.
      "they just have to make sure their families have foods, clothing's and shelter. They just have to work for family and for Islam, you know, just the responsibilities of men to make sure they right their Deen and also their Mothers, sister's, and Daughters less they got thrown to hell coz of em you know? It's sooo nice to be men."
      this is the most stupid point I ever heard. It's way harder providing foods, clothing's and shelter for everyone in the family. be grateful for what you have.
      Thats like me saying women have it easy. They just stay home with kids, take care of home and cook food. It's sooo nice to be a woman.
      so think before you speak

  • @jumasalim8358
    @jumasalim8358 2 года назад +5

    Asalam waleikum my beloved muslim brother's and sister's. I'm 23yrs started doing istiqara and i usually pray tahajjud Alhamdulilah may ALLAH bless me with religious wife with iman and taqwa in shaa Allah

  • @felisadosh756
    @felisadosh756 6 лет назад +8

    MashAllah thank you so much for sharing this with us may Allah protect our married and keep the evil eyes from us Ameen ya Allah 🙏🙌☺️

  • @OneWhoReads
    @OneWhoReads 4 года назад +7

    I'm not married but as a woman this is very educational I have recently started to learn more about my religion (unfortunately) but I'm happy and content with everything I am learning AlHumduillah.

  • @khushikhan2126
    @khushikhan2126 3 года назад +12

    AlhumduliAllah....my husband is a true gift from Allah....wat a man mashAllah love him forever❤❤❤

  • @fatimazahramarah2634
    @fatimazahramarah2634 4 года назад +37

    Ya Allah give grant me husband that will luv me for the sake of u

    • @smohammed2821
      @smohammed2821 4 года назад +1

      Ameen

    • @amarsahbi3007
      @amarsahbi3007 4 года назад +1

      I am here love
      I am a good husband islf you are sincere

    • @shagaffaridi1530
      @shagaffaridi1530 4 года назад +1

      Aameen ya rabb 🤲

    • @farhathsuraiya6841
      @farhathsuraiya6841 3 года назад

      Ameen ... Me too

    • @etzain1917
      @etzain1917 3 года назад

      Yeah nothing's impossible for Allah, but Allah is just, Allah is fair, you ask for this and that but are you Worth It?

  • @ahmadawan784
    @ahmadawan784 4 года назад +7

    May Allah grant all of us righteous, loving and kind hearted spouse and help to love each for the sake of Allah.

  • @habibsaeed8081
    @habibsaeed8081 Год назад +4

    May Allah lead us in every decision we take 🤲🤲🤲

  • @habsaabdullahi9529
    @habsaabdullahi9529 6 лет назад +8

    MashaAllah its soo inspiring May Allah reward you this beautiful lecture

  • @gemser3600
    @gemser3600 4 года назад +5

    I am a non-muslim and I love listening to your channel. I agree with all you are saying. I will keep practicing them in my day to day life. Thank you so much for your precious advice.

  • @halimaramli2524
    @halimaramli2524 6 лет назад +5

    Alhamdulillah, thank you Allah that I found this clip. Thank you for putting this up

  • @shamsomohamed4081
    @shamsomohamed4081 6 лет назад +21

    Masha Allah so beautiful may Allah bless you and your family Ameen yarab jizakallahu khair brother .

  • @animegmahnaz
    @animegmahnaz 3 года назад +3

    Allah has provided my soulmate and we are looking forward to the day of our Marriage, soon Insha’Allah

  • @hennasheikh4116
    @hennasheikh4116 6 лет назад +48

    Am just watching again again n again...brother you solved my problem thankyou

    • @umaa1433
      @umaa1433 6 лет назад

      Tariq Dau good luck 😃😃

  • @aishaziauddin56
    @aishaziauddin56 2 года назад +4

    May Allah bless us with truthful and pure marriages

    • @Bvnnyboo
      @Bvnnyboo Год назад

      Insha’Allah Ameen sister

  • @noorjemilah8672
    @noorjemilah8672 6 лет назад +3

    Alhamdulilah. Thank you so much for sharing. May Allah continue to bless you and your family. Please make Dua for my marriage. May Allah bless May marriage. My husband and my children. In Sha Allah.

  • @kanizfatemaafnan832
    @kanizfatemaafnan832 6 лет назад +21

    mashallah May Allah bless us all

  • @momosworld2700
    @momosworld2700 5 лет назад +227

    How about husband smile everyday when entering the house??

    • @celestialvenus6711
      @celestialvenus6711 5 лет назад +33

      MEN ARE HUMANS. THEY ARE NOT PERFECT. THEY COME HOME EXHAUSTED AFTER SPENDING THE ENTIRE DAY EARNING FOR YOU.
      Which part of this do you not understand?

    • @mustang9724
      @mustang9724 4 года назад +65

      Celestial Venus oh i didnt know women werent humans too....lol

    • @celestialvenus6711
      @celestialvenus6711 4 года назад +35

      @@mustang9724 Do you not get the point? We think it's okay for women to be angry and emotional, think it's okay for them to scream and fight, but when men do the same, they are labeled as abusive and undeserving.
      Women ARE humans and are treated as one, but men are treated like emotionless beings who should never feel prickly or angry, which, I feel, is incorrect.

    • @rahamahabdul630
      @rahamahabdul630 4 года назад +1

      @@mustang9724 women we complsin too much give the man some credit

    • @aishaismailibrahim654
      @aishaismailibrahim654 4 года назад

      Am blessed with this, alhamdu lillah

  • @proudcitizen4883
    @proudcitizen4883 4 года назад +4

    May Allah protect us from all bad Amiin

  • @rashdrashdyusfi1387
    @rashdrashdyusfi1387 5 лет назад +4

    Am very happy for that .may Allha protect you all 🙌🏻☝️👍

  • @kajalkhan9157
    @kajalkhan9157 4 года назад +2

    Ahhh what a speech just wow may Allah show us the right path🙂

  • @fatumamohamed4858
    @fatumamohamed4858 3 года назад +1

    May Allah gave me and the rest who r single a good spouse 💞

  • @zaypeaceIslamstories
    @zaypeaceIslamstories 6 лет назад +7

    may Allah guide us all, and not let the shaataan get hold of us and weaken us, may Allah protect us from back biting and making any types of bad habits every little sin will become mountains of sins, may Allah help us, save us, protect us and unite us. Ameen

  • @botchoymanalundong3942
    @botchoymanalundong3942 5 лет назад +18

    Even me. always praying to ALLAH to keep me strong.
    Lacking respect for my spouse and he is. . But i always keep my children safe and do my job well of being a mother.
    But my husband. I dont know. I feel like hes not around. Even the morning comes and me as a mother doing the cooking for their food and so on. Rushing and running everywhere to catch the time. But my husband hes like deaf he cant hear us he just cuddling to his pillows and blanket. And when we are shouting hes mad. And says why we need to shout hes sleeping. And wow. I dont know. Allah give me more strenght to keep my family safe. Alhamdulillah.

    • @smrvlogs5642
      @smrvlogs5642 4 года назад +3

      Botchoy Manalundong sis i really feel sorry for you i swear. Allah make your life easier Ameen. (Ruby)

    • @etzain1917
      @etzain1917 3 года назад +4

      Never fear, Allah's here. As long as you believe in Allah, He will reward you for every trials and hardships. Don't complain just everywhere, complain to Allah, in your Du'a, ask him for Forgiveness, He knows. May Allah Grants you Heaven.

  • @reedahhareeth2271
    @reedahhareeth2271 6 лет назад +3

    Maashaallah may Allah(s.w) protect us

  • @audreylevesque05
    @audreylevesque05 4 года назад +1

    Amine ♥ thank you for this precious reminder all of us married muslim need !

  • @jenebakoita6175
    @jenebakoita6175 5 лет назад +6

    Thanks mufti menk for your beautiful lectures of forgiveness, may Allah bless you and give you more knowledge and understanding

  • @habonqurux7490
    @habonqurux7490 6 лет назад +23

    That’s so true wlhi when we arguing he always loses even if he is right he just end up saying okay sorry it’s my fault and I make that face 😄

    • @DetroitLions1984
      @DetroitLions1984 4 года назад

      Habon Qurux 🤨

    • @yobro6053
      @yobro6053 4 года назад +4

      'He always loses even if he is right'
      unbelievable

    • @anonymous-yo4qs
      @anonymous-yo4qs 3 года назад +3

      Don't take that 4 granted fear 4 the time he gets tired by that be understanding calm n gentle towards him he is rare

  • @simonfosu5109
    @simonfosu5109 6 лет назад +6

    Great message. Thank you for enlightening us concerning our marriages.

  • @cridheluna
    @cridheluna 4 года назад +3

    Beautifully explained. جزاک اللہ

  • @Hevensdream
    @Hevensdream 3 года назад +7

    If a woman doesn't tell you why she's crying, it means that either she doesn't trust you or you aren't mature enough to share the reason 😀 but don't think that women are complicated in a bad way, rather they're complicated because you've never tried to understand them 😖😖 and silence isn't always the right solution to the problem. The solution is to be understanding, compassionate & loving when you're with your family which most of the man don't practice!!

    • @Ryan_Entertaiment
      @Ryan_Entertaiment 6 месяцев назад

      Listen.. majority not man is bad.., and what about women, when she is coming from home after marriar she plays very bad role...making quarrel between her husband and her mother-in-law, betray her husband, dating with other men, sneezing every properties from him, why u r not saying this things...why...R u mad...93% is divorce rate goggle it because of tht wife bad behaviour....Try understand the situation and say well....go have proper treatment

  • @myeishagul6358
    @myeishagul6358 6 лет назад +2

    May Allah shOwer His blessings upon us and keep everyone relatiOns safe
    And make our marriage life safe and happy ameeen sumameen!!

  • @janedias1501
    @janedias1501 5 лет назад +7

    Husband's are adulterous, woman has to face every time. Good speech...i loved it.

  • @suwaibousanyang3672
    @suwaibousanyang3672 10 месяцев назад +1

    May Almighty Allah guard us all in our marriage

  • @iqraimran9969
    @iqraimran9969 5 лет назад +10

    If you follow the Qur'an and sunnah You'll definitely get jannah😻♥🤗

    • @salemal-kandari481
      @salemal-kandari481 4 года назад +1

      Iqra Imran
      True may Allah make us from those who inherit jannah al-Ferdous

  • @niyasahamed3438
    @niyasahamed3438 5 лет назад +5

    Please include me in your precious duas for my happy life

  • @mukhlesurrahman7384
    @mukhlesurrahman7384 6 лет назад +2

    May Allah help us to keep marriage live

  • @zuhairzafar1649
    @zuhairzafar1649 4 года назад

    May Allah bless all of us with spouses with whom we will be happy with InshAllah

  • @maccidomustapha7260
    @maccidomustapha7260 3 года назад +1

    Allahu Akbar....... may Allah increase patient to all married couples (amin)

  • @rightbassfofana3962
    @rightbassfofana3962 6 лет назад +3

    Masha Allah may Allah bless every Muslims guide us through doing good thanks protect us with blessing

  • @DanishKhan-cu8iq
    @DanishKhan-cu8iq 4 года назад +3

    Great video...Thanks for sharing
    May we guard each other spouses
    Ameen sum Ameen

  • @wahajch3484
    @wahajch3484 6 лет назад +4

    MA Shaa Allah ..may Allah guide our marriage and away from evil eyes.. Jazakallahu khairan

  • @vahidaR502
    @vahidaR502 4 года назад +2

    Thankyou so much for sharing brother may ALLAH bless you and grant you heaven 👍💐

  • @User-ox5mo
    @User-ox5mo 5 лет назад +22

    Sometimes husband's too does weird things.
    Wrong activities cannot be justified.

  • @marylone10
    @marylone10 6 лет назад +153

    Sir nouman ali khan shudn't the husband smile at his wife???? Dey smile outside but vn dey come home dey r all tired and uninterested in family.... only interested in internet and deir work..... and news...... women can also keep demselves busy vd dese things but dey prefer family(child and husband ) over internet and office work and over news......

    • @afreenshaikh1187
      @afreenshaikh1187 5 лет назад +2

      True

    • @nikkikiki1624
      @nikkikiki1624 5 лет назад +2

      He meant the desire for women is fitna, as he said before that

    • @funlovers5
      @funlovers5 5 лет назад +1

      Wow! truly defined

    • @anassohail3041
      @anassohail3041 5 лет назад +10

      Plz people... These scholars are the only ones i know that talk about BOTH MEN AND WOMEN IN THESE ISSUES. In some cases they even criticize men more!! This is not the full lecture. If u search u will find out that he has talked about the rights of wives so many times!! And in such great detail!!

    • @bead_on_demand
      @bead_on_demand 4 года назад

      We can only start a change with ourselves, Greet him with the smile and don't nag too much instead share your feelings with him. Sometimes wives feel trapped in a marriage but husbands don't realizes and they need to be told how you feel and why you feel this way in a respectable way, men are more interested in listening to a woman's feelings than nagging. Have a hobby and pray alot. Say Ya latifo ya wadoodo .Things will change Insha Allah

  • @emaansayedzada6498
    @emaansayedzada6498 4 года назад +1

    Subhsn Allah what a Strong,Meaningful and Worthy Speech
    May Allah SWT Bless You .AmeeN

  • @fatemabintesharif5166
    @fatemabintesharif5166 3 года назад +2

    Amazing speech by Mufti Menk and brother Nouman Ali khan❤️

  • @samiyashaikh2281
    @samiyashaikh2281 6 лет назад +5

    😶😶😶😶😶only 2 year n I'm getting married n I take care all of this inshallah I love him so much 😍😘😘😙😙

  • @mairamuhamadou8921
    @mairamuhamadou8921 4 года назад +3

    May Allah safe us I have a serious problem just can't find solution pray for me please

  • @salmeenc
    @salmeenc 4 года назад +27

    Assalamualaikum, my parents are now in a very troubled stage of their married life and almost in the process of getting separated. Please please everyone make dua :( I want them to be happy :(

    • @tajudeennurudeen1895
      @tajudeennurudeen1895 4 года назад +3

      May Allah keep them together for good

    • @redgurl4138
      @redgurl4138 3 года назад

      How are your parents?

    • @salmeenc
      @salmeenc 3 года назад

      @@redgurl4138 they got divorced 😞

    • @redgurl4138
      @redgurl4138 3 года назад

      @@salmeenc sorry to hear that. What caused their separation?

    • @salmeenc
      @salmeenc 3 года назад +1

      @@redgurl4138 that’s a personal question and I am not comfortable to share 😀

  • @princeofpeace4876
    @princeofpeace4876 6 лет назад +83

    Very sad our myanmar Muslim brothers, sisters childrens are brutally tortured and killed by Burmese cruel soldiers we general public can't do any thing but pray to Allah for this helpless peoples.
    Every one us pray to Allah continuously in our daily five prayers and night prayers for the helpless victims in Myanmar. Let's try our best to let every one know in every corners of the world the atrocities committed by the wicked lady priminister of Burma who has been awarded noble prize by the blind organizational comitee. Let's pray for justice and the mercy of Allah on this innocent people .
    Hasbunallah wa nyamal wakeel! Allah is sufficient for us and he is best judge. Ameen ya rabbul alameen.
    If every member of our family friends and relatives pray Allah will listen to this huge mass prayers .
    More over it is our duty to at least pray them or else we will be questioned in Akhira for our contribution. It is a test and trial for us too. We should not enjoy the comfort of life instead we should cry for them as tomorrow we or our family could be the victims like them. May Allah guide us to pray for his supreme justice

    • @thinkgood7412
      @thinkgood7412 6 лет назад +3

      Prince of Peace your message touched my heart. Yes we should be making duas and do as much as possible for them. And it's not just them it's happening everywhere to all Muslims. May Allah give us out golden times back Ameen

    • @andyniazjacob1450
      @andyniazjacob1450 6 лет назад +2

      You are 10000000000000000000%right we can only pray for them Allah help them Allah plizzzzzz help them.

    • @denisemughrabi1499
      @denisemughrabi1499 6 лет назад +3

      ross private They are not vermin! They are human beings just like you & I. Created the same as you & I, by the same Creator. What differentiates us from animals & all other creation is our brains & that we have free will to think & make choices. In turn for those choices we are tested & judged by God. Sometimes we make good choices, sometimes we don’t. We have to deal with the consequences of our choices & others must live with the consequences of their choices. All of our choices correlate & are intertwined with each other as we all make up “mankind” & the world we live in, together! It all has a rippled effect! You throw the stone across the water & first you see the inner ring, then the next & the next, until the outer ring. We are all connected. Look at the cause of what they do & it might give you insight as to the why? I’m not saying that any of us are perfect! We all make mistakes. Our goal should be to try to avoid making mistakes & help our fellow man. Make the world a better place! Don’t kick someone when they’re down! Treat others the way you want to be treated!
      Your actions directly & indirectly affect your own life & those of whom you love. “First they came for “So & So” & we did nothing!, etc. Then they came for “Us”, & there was no one left to help!”.
      “Divide & conquer!” That’s how they win! First they get everyone to hate each other, then before you know it, no one has any rights left!
      Think carefully before you throw “someone else” under the bus! Stand up for ALL human rights, because you or someone you know or love could be next!! “May God protect us from such a fate, Insh’Allah!! (God Willing!!🙏
      “I pray for you to be rightly guided, God Willing, & Allah guides whom he wills!! Ameen!!”🙏

    • @abdulbasirahmed3984
      @abdulbasirahmed3984 5 лет назад

      If they are martyrs in Islam then they are the real winners

  • @revelacionsagrada8433
    @revelacionsagrada8433 6 лет назад +54

    Well disappear for those who theirs intentions aren’t pure,because my wife and me we gonna turn 5 years married and alhamdolillah we still loving each others like if we were met yesterday. She is Moroccan and I’m Cuban alhamdolillah she is priceless for me.

    • @FatSheba100
      @FatSheba100 5 лет назад +3

      Mashallah, may God protect and bless your union

    • @BeNothingg
      @BeNothingg 5 лет назад +3

      Mashallah i wish i had a marriage like this

    • @colew9538
      @colew9538 5 лет назад +3

      In sha Allah I will have a marriage like this 🙏🏼

    • @aminaiddrisu1516
      @aminaiddrisu1516 4 года назад +1

      May Allah bless mine as He did to urs

    • @amrish1316
      @amrish1316 4 года назад +1

      Mashaalah

  • @Billionaires_Muslimmotivation
    @Billionaires_Muslimmotivation 2 года назад +5

    When you don´t cross any haram limits. Your life and marriage will be saved. Ya Allah

  • @Kowtharita2
    @Kowtharita2 6 лет назад

    Masha Allah.May Allah (SW) bless you and all of us.

  • @sheikhsamihasghar4514
    @sheikhsamihasghar4514 2 года назад +1

    Maa Shaa Allah,Maa Shaa Allah,Alhumdulillah........JazakAllah khair..............May Allah Azzawajal guide us n give success to walk on the right path(seerat ul mustakeem)Aameen

  • @relaxtion.56
    @relaxtion.56 5 лет назад +11

    Marriage you never know true happiness until you get married now it’s too late ....true happiness were when u single

    • @JahannamHellfire
      @JahannamHellfire 3 года назад

      My ex was on online dating apps that I found on his phone, I made a profile to see what happens?. Omg the amount of married men, men in relationships on these apps, cheating, lying on their partners! They would ask me to be their secret affair, I was so shocked as I was a loyal lady. Please don't trust no one and don't put yourself in a situation that you can't get yourself out of. Never trust, never go to their home, never be alone, never allow some to buy to a drinks and food, never tell people where you live. This could happen to anyone!

    • @relaxtion.56
      @relaxtion.56 3 года назад

      @@JahannamHellfire interesting do your ex was cheating on you

  • @hajiamadina8944
    @hajiamadina8944 6 лет назад +6

    Masha Allah thanks alot dad

  • @parabolicstreetutuber597
    @parabolicstreetutuber597 Год назад +2

    Love do not disappear after marriage .us men have to love our wife and please them everyday so the marriage and love still continue and fire in the marriage still continue forever ..

  • @TaMiMS1
    @TaMiMS1 4 года назад

    Wow. Beautiful. MashAllah. Great message. May Allah reward you

  • @yusufali2514
    @yusufali2514 4 года назад +3

    Ya Allah all its in your hand Ya Allah guide us all to the straight path eh denasseratal mustakeem ameen Ya Allah,, inspiring brother menk and brother Nouman,, wa antum fa jajakallah khairran,,

  • @thegaz15
    @thegaz15 6 лет назад +5

    it needs to work both ways

  • @natashasabreena4574
    @natashasabreena4574 4 года назад +1

    SubhanAllah, very inspiring....😊👌👌

  • @ZMalik-ol3in
    @ZMalik-ol3in 3 года назад +2

    I love this lecture! It is very powerful Solutions in relationship.

  • @Cyberkatz487
    @Cyberkatz487 4 года назад +4

    Silence is the key ❤️

  • @rabiakhan4502
    @rabiakhan4502 6 лет назад +4

    Mashallah your word's inspire me alot in my darkeness*)

  • @maimunausmanali5794
    @maimunausmanali5794 6 лет назад

    Ma Sha Allah may you be rewarded with jannatul firdau

  • @ceesah32
    @ceesah32 6 лет назад

    Abaraka Sheikhs Mufti Menk, Nouman Ali. Powerful Messeage!

  • @doctj3690
    @doctj3690 6 лет назад +7

    Great video! May ALLAH swt grant us the direction of righteousness. Ameen
    Well, from my prospective men are to be blamed. A woman, who espouses you actually makes you her everything. Guys because they usually have plenty in their pocket, they take this for granted. Men ought to respect women in general, her relation to you shouldn't matter. Once they start doing that, it would do wonders for their own good.
    It's a matter of upbringing as well. Jerks are going to raise jerks not saints.
    Top tip: For Married brothers: Never compare your woman to others'.
    Do not ever take things and relationships for granted.
    Remember, someone is wishing for something that you have right now. Be thankful
    Peace

  • @antoniorudolfm530
    @antoniorudolfm530 6 лет назад +12

    Thank you very much Insak Allah always take care our family much better Amin .

  • @sidrah7807
    @sidrah7807 4 года назад +1

    Everything in this lecture is sooo true!

  • @zaynahgail458
    @zaynahgail458 4 года назад

    Mashaa Allah great reminder

  • @amanimascara
    @amanimascara 5 лет назад +5

    This is like me every day we are arguing with my husband even nonsense but we still 20yrs of married I dont know why??
    Ya Allah forgive us

  • @mehtabrani8899
    @mehtabrani8899 4 года назад +2

    May Allah save our marriage

  • @sadiamohamed15
    @sadiamohamed15 4 года назад +1

    أمين يارب Maasha alaah jazaaka laah 👏👏👏 its great 👍 topic for both men and women

  • @reginaervin4989
    @reginaervin4989 3 года назад

    Being together would be a great step to a loving marriage

  • @fatimaahmad6497
    @fatimaahmad6497 6 лет назад +5

    Allah is great

  • @mahakhalidbi4295
    @mahakhalidbi4295 6 лет назад +29

    What if a wife is taking care of husband in every possible way and he still smiles and flirts with every othet girl?

    • @tf2506
      @tf2506 5 лет назад +22

      These vids will tell you it's your fault in some way. It's not. Never believe it's your fault and never believe a man can't be mature and that he is born to flirt. It's nonsense. If it wasn't nonsense how come western men can remain loyal to their wives? With small percent of women in hijab how could he remain loyal? Right? This guy believes anyone not in hijab is wearing fewer clothes to get men's attention. He is so wrong it's made me angry. Western women dress to please themselves. Women are not objects and are not born to only keep house and have sex. We may want to do that and it's fine but if we don't then that's fine too. We are intelligent humans and deserving of being spoken about better than this. He needs to open his eyes to a woman's right to have their own life. Doing what they want to do. Not just to be at the beck and call of a man. Aspire! You only get one chance at this short life. Be happy. It can't be harem for a woman to be happy.

    • @amenataa
      @amenataa 5 лет назад +10

      I just got out of that situation. Im trying to heal. I realized a men cannot respect you when he cant even respect himself. He cannot give you what he himself doesn't have. I pray for all women. ❤

    • @aprilsweetly2651
      @aprilsweetly2651 4 года назад +3

      Slap his guts🤭

    • @chuwariyahali5272
      @chuwariyahali5272 4 года назад

      @@tf2506 what guy?

    • @hanzalaomar3234
      @hanzalaomar3234 4 года назад

      T F Shut up dumbass

  • @sabaahsabuha2606
    @sabaahsabuha2606 4 года назад

    Shukran mm ctaki htaa nikuone hapa online wallah bas tuu cc Muslim thanks you

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo 4 года назад

    Im not Muslim but I absolutely appreciate your marriage advice you really understand women and men perrectly. Thanks!