The Real Reasons Why She Lost Interest
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- If you are confused why she lost interest in you here are some of the real reasons why it happened.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer whose father is dying of pancreatic cancer. He had been dating a woman for about a month when the family got word from the doctors that there was nothing more they could do for him. He told this woman he was dating what was going on and she seemed to be really supportive at first. Then a few days later she ghosted him and he’s kicking himself for telling her and believes this is why she lost interest. However, his email reveals what really turned her off and it has nothing to do with his father dying, but what he communicated to her about himself and his intentions towards her without realizing it.
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Stay strong when she loses interest and don't chase fellas! Believe in yourself,, know your worth...and here's to tons of dating and relationships success for anyone who reads this
Never chase should be rule numero uno.
@@mroscoe 2000% agreed brother
It's sad that as a guy you can't be honest with your interest up front with a woman, or make a mistake in the dating process, causing a woman to ghost. It boggles my mind (and yes, I've read the book 10-15 times).
You're spot on. Too bad this guy is dealing with a very entitled child and can't quite see it.
No dude, what he did was weird because they don't even know each other. 4 dates and a kiss and he's asking to know where he stands. That is weird. Being "honest about interest up front" is meaningless because that only conveys he thinks she looks good and wants to to have sex. She already knows that.
Loosing parents is no joke just lost both my parents in one week and it broke me apart
I’m sorry for that brother stay strong
Wish you well my man lost my dad recently
@@Modern-Gladiator thanks bro
@@RoYalWChZ83 thanks man , stay strong
it is for some we havent all got loving parents and dont all consider them to be loved ones
Time for many of us to take our dating skills to the next level.
I like how he still lay him out even though this dude's dad is probably died by now.
No kiss till the 4th date and you are already friend zoned. That's depressing AF.
I agree, when you go over the email it’s as plain as the nose on our face why she cut off contact, it sounded like he said if you don’t want to date me don’t waste my time or my dads, sorry to hear about his dad though 🙏
The real reason she lost interest is because she already had another guy on the side.
Lol positive thinking
And once hes gone this guy will get a text out of the blue
Yep lol
I don't think so. It seems like she got uncomfortable from the sudden pandora box.
Probably more attractive and taller than you
Your standards fit me perfectly. Been following you for 4 years. Thanks so much!
Bro this honesty is what i really needed, a good slap of truth to shake the softness out of me, thanks for what you do couch
This guys problem was thinking that she was into him when in reality she’s got loads of other guys on the go so when he told her that sad news she was sympathetic but she ain’t got Time for that when she could be having fun with all the other dudes
"About how men make women FEEL about them" that is exactly what I did on my first date and she is already head over heels excited about the second date. Triple H: Hang out have fun hook up. Be her best option and make her feel like no other guy has made her feel before
Wow this dude reminds me of myself back in the day
Thank goodness the real coach is back on the job.
☕ ready. First part of obligations done. Now time for relax. Best regards from Italy. Cheers.
Cory, this guy has zero game, and then basically telling her to go away..
Just in time. Some girl that was pursuing me just stopped contacting me. I shared too much about myself with her too soon
The real reason why she lost interest,, her ex came back, her emotions were too much for him, no matter what I did right she still left
Haha! That voice acting for the impression you did at 12:03 was epic!
As a woman if I really like a guy too than I will welcome his telling of the feels. But if I don’t know him at all and just met him than sure what u say is true.
That's the key! Timing!
Women don't give a damn about what you go through. I am in my late 30s and have lost all my family members and except for other female members of my family not a single woman, neither an ex or female friends gave too much of a damn about it. No matter whether they like you or not, women only care for themseves first, don't expect any sympathy at all from them lol
I agree! Most women don’t care about a man’s feelings. My ex broke up with me a little over a month ago. She is a nurse and she would care about me like a patient, nothing more. You should be taking care of yourself, eat right, take supplements, exercise, etc. While there is always room for improvement, I’m in actually pretty good shape for my age, 55. She would ask me what I was thinking and what I was feeling, she liked to play amateur therapist. But when I would answer her about my feelings and concerns about our relationship, she would just blow them off. “You really shouldn’t be feeling that way”. Ugh!
I don’t really agree with this. Perhaps you’ve just ran into some unsympathetic women?
@@oahts5906 dude this is such a standard argument pls don't make this moves we hate if pls don't or I will rage!
That's a very messed up mindset and black and white way to look at genders. I have many female friends who have always been there to support me through thick and thin.
@@poopingwhilestanding5801 Well you are such a smartass that you know about every random person so well. I have had my good share of dating experience, and a lot more and better after reading Corey's work. But I am not a sour bitch to say something as conclusive that most women dont care about men, because I have met many women who genuinely care about me. Maybe you need to screen people more properly.
I’m not here to be pissed at you Coach, I’m here to learn, grow, & be a better man. It’s Hard work but My goals….3%
Only today's entitled woman can do something like that and think there's NOTHING wrong with it. Dude's dad is dying and she ghosts him. We can only pray women like that do NOT reproduce.
@@BallsWithAPurpose if they've been dating, that's a classless move.
@@Mancer1980 I admit ghosting is terrible, but they only went out on a few dates. If they've been dating for a long time then it's different
@@melvin-fitnessproductrevie7082 If she had no problem doing it after a few dates she'd find some excuse to make it ok after months or years. This guy prob feels like garbage atm but she actually did him a favor.
@@Mancer1980 my parents and my brother have been dead for years and trust me women don't care at all if it doesn't affect them in a way, whether it's someone you date or a friend. It has always been the guys that reached out to me not the girls lol
@@andikrause399 that's a shame and I'm sorry you had to go through that. But a quality girl would say something, I've known plenty who have. Not the garbage this guy in the video is associating with.
Hahaha, very funny tonight, lot's of facepalm moments, no judgement though, we are all students. as the wise yoda said, 1st you must unlearn what you have learned.
I think Jackie Chan also said that in The Forbidden Kingdom
Thank you for what you do coach, I'll keep following your work until I die!
“My dads dying”
Corey: lol sucks bro
you could not be more on time with this video, thanks a lot coach! I think I've made the same mistake recently and she is kinda colder now and I'm giving her more space...I hope she'll comes around again. Read the book just twice, it has not been enough as you always say
Love that you are back to doing emails coach. Good stuff. These are quite obvious to most of us that have read your book many times. Would be great to hear stories that are a bit more vague to gain a deeper understanding.
What I wonder about every of those videos;
Im not sure if I want a relationship where Im basicly forced to play these little games just to keep it going. Like is that even worth it?
No it’s not. That’s why you just smash and dash. And perfect your formula. Make them play your game. No exceptions.
Similar situation happened to me where the New person was dealing with a loss oh their dad and kept telling me that talking to me makes them happy, I'm the only positive thing going on in their life...I felt overwhelmed, under pressure, it all seemed too serious etc and lost my interest in two weeks and ended things saying honestly that I lost romantic interest. It was hard to do and I felt really bad but they turned me off completely.
P.s. the way you roast ppl is hilarious, I love it and frankly I would rather be roasted by you and understand what I did wrong than to be told by someone else that everything will be fine. .if it meant to be....all that bs😜
This guy should be prioritizing spending time with his dad over dating. Women who really care will make it easy for him and go out of their way to see this guy while he’s dealing with losing his father.
I’m a woman and I love your stuff Corey xx
Stay single stay happy...
Hahahahah “you can tell what he’s thinking. He’s thinking this is my girlfriend” haha so savage yet so true
That sucks no respect no love !
It's a simple equation.
Bruh i dont understand how woman can be so soft but dont show empathy … but they expect us to give a damn
8:15 This hit me to the core
It is the man's fault, because as men we should take ownership of everything we do, don't do, what we allow in our life, and whether or not we learn from our mistakes. Masculinity is rooted in personal responsibility.
The woman should always be the chasing.
One thing is for sure:he didn’t read the book 10-15 Times!
HANG OUT,HAVE FUN AND HOOK UP!
This stuff really hurts to hear..... But im glad i found it.
sucks i cant afford to talk to u..thx for the videos over last 6 years..have read your book 10 times..new one..not yet...i am 50 but helping guys to learn your work..body language one is the best..learn it..i hosted karaoke..watching guys and where are..u were dead on
Most likely you already know what you need to do but you want to hear Corey tell you. You've got the book just follow it. Don't over complicate shit
Always go for the kiss. HHH hang out, have fun, have a great marriage. I’m Christian.
Coach Corey is the best. Read his books!
10 to 15 times:))
I only buy in units of 1 million books
You being petty corey , LOL, "but wait, theres more"!!!!
That part where you did the serious dude crack me up. And I don't crack easy
I’ve been going crazy about a woman who went hot and heavy for 4 dates but then started to fade away and not responding as often. I really like her but I don’t want to chase her.
As a woman I could “sympathize” with his concern for his father. However, intuitively , I would feel that he was using that issue to elicit ‘empathy’ from me - to further his interest.
I’d more likely perceive him as manipulative! That’s why - Sorry, but Bye!
Stop trying to save what can’t be saved
But why tell her? What was he hoping to achieve by telling her that way? 🤔 Just say things that will make you look strong and confident.
He was expressing some vulnerability. Honestly there is nothing wrong with it. He is better off without her.
My mom just passed and my wife been acting real weird afterwards for some reason
You’re supposed to be a rock with no feelings, remember?
@@oahts5906Exactly don’t show any emotions. Emotions are for humans not men. She probably realized you were a human with emotions and lost attraction
I stopped messaging him when his arrogance started to come out.
Just ordered your book and also bought the audiobook version to listen to it every now and then when I can't be reading the physical book. Will be definitely going through it at least 15 times and probably more than that lol. I had the perfect thing with the perfect girl, which I fucked up with my actions and neediness, and I'm at a point where I'm done fucking up. Can't wait for the physical book to arrive and get to apply everything that's in it. Now that I'm thinking about it, I actually might even start a vlog just for fun about how well I'm doing once I start applying the material and i can see my own progression from there haha.
Act interested but don't smother her. Also talk to other women. Abundance mentality prevents a scarce mentality.
Found this video just in time. I almost made a mistake.
My ex was a “natural flirt” but second I flirted w any girl she would absolutely destroy me, thats the dynamic… and she was a pretty good girl too but felt like there was no respect, anyways I was too attached to leave the relationship, now I know better, men are the leaders they set the healthy standards and if the woman cant reciprocate you have to be willing to walk away otherwise you wont be able to sleep at night, make sure you vet your women properly! Women will realize their mistakes too and grow themselves if they see healthy masculine behavior, I dont like to quote “Andrew Tate” but he put it in pretty good wording also, you can tell your girl: if you act a certain way its going to make me care less for you and I dont want to care less for you, thats the attitude we should have which is unfortunate, in this regard women should know better I believe they can keep their bonding needs internal to their families children (which they dont want to have nowadays) female coworkers and female friends, if their bonding needs expand to other men that screams daddy issues and you will be in a world of pain unless you have mastered your emotions and can brush it off which not many men have or will
I am One of the ones who is pissed at you bro!!! Why are you helping women? The betrayal that I am feeling from my Hero!!!😂😂🤣🤣
I like these videos better than the videos with a cohost.
Damn 4 dates to get a kiss? She probably was with you for the free meals ?🤷♂️
Better take some red pill, I recommend Coach Greg Adams, 100% facts.
The real reason why she lost interest is cuz we’re not rich yet . Let’s call it like it is. Let’s get our weight up 💰😈
Most guys: she really likes me! Cause i like her! And i will make a grand gesture and express my undying and eternal love for her like ive seen in the movies!
Coach Wayne: she probably dates two or three guys behind your back and belongs to the streets 😂
You described my past! Lol
I was dating a girl for a few months and she was crazy about me but i told her that i won’t be mad at her if she dates other guys or talk to other guys. She told me that she had no interest in other guys and don’t want to speak with other guys. She was distant after that. Was it wrong to tell her this? Mayby she thought that i don’t care about her or don’t like her so much because i don’t get jealous. I mean i’m a free person, if i have no relationship then the girl can do whatever she likes to do, right, or was it wrong what i told her?
She wanted you to herself. Same thing happened to me. He told me he has lines of girls.
Not my scene. I noped out.
I do not want a man who does not only want me or I just become one of his many girls.
Next!!!
Yes you are right. And she is right also to make distant because means you are not into her.
Nice video coach
😁😁😁 Read the book 10-15 times.
Guys lose interest in women as well that's when the women starts playing games and being flaky
I think this is an underrated comment -- men can lose interest fast, and it usually looks like complacency. Women are pretty sensitive and in-tune with this and then withdrawal.
100%. I lost interest in my ex and wasn’t honest with myself about it. And she fucking knew it.
@@beetender9009 I agree we lose enthusiasm and go through the motions. We’re trying to avoid resenting them or ourselves, usually a mix of both.
@CoreyWayne, could you do a video or answer/enlighten on the questions regarding online dating/matching apps? If you put “relationship” in your bio, does that break the rule of being mysterious? Does the man fail from the start since he shows some of his poker hand from the start?.. appreciate the time!
P.s. I bought the book and audiobook!
Read the book, read the book, read the book...
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Happy to be alive and being able to do what I want. Did some great things this morning. Now possibility to buy the book I wanted to get since more then a year. And with simple three, four step process over mobile. Man do we live in really amazing times.
I am also more then proud of my self that I finally found the purpose on RUclips and managed to separate trash from quality. But I mean some real deal powerful purpose. It was not easy. So much stuff is being put out there. But once you manage to do it it's a mean machine. Can be awesome tool.
Thank you for fun moments and great videos. Always cool actitud. And tell me please. Is there any possibility to send you a gift on your address. I would like to send you some nice bottle of vine. Some Spanish or Italian that I consider good ones. So you can drink it with your girl when chillin. Would be my pleasure and it's a minimum I can do. Little sign of attention from Europe to our Dear friends in States for all free content you unselfishly share. Cheers and keep up the good work. All the best. ✨🌃🌍✈️🏞️👍🏼👌🏼👋🏼
The amount of beta males jumping to defend this guy and not understand why he communicated weakness just because it doesn’t fit with their, “Waaah! All women are bad and I don’t want to take personal responsibility for my own fuckups and use them as learning experiences for a better future! Waaaah!”, is really telling. Great video again, coach. It’s good to know who the real men are.
@12:01 Coach Corey , go easy on the fella 🤣
Love you Corey you’re the man
Especially really beautiful girls are hard. Because they have a lot of guys in their list. All they need is click ‘next’ button. Even you do everything correct unfortunately its not working sometimes. Only thing can change this loop is status. And for avarage guys like we are, not easy to hook up girls above 8/10.
Haven’t watched in a while, I don’t remember you being as funny lol but then again it’s been awhile good video might actually just buy the book
stop watching these and go buy them, come on maan!
He’s hilarious
Read the book 10-15 times 😌
Sun is not going supernova
Yup G class stars turn into red giants, then white dwarfs after they use up their helium. Blue stars go supernova.
im so stupid when she message i should tell her what i feel before she go ... that im still inlove with her wish i can tell her
well still talk but only a little i want to confront her but she might get mad at me.. idk what to do
Thanks
I want to meet you someday coach!
Seems like he tried to use his dad's situation as a tool to manipulate her into a relationship.
corey you are special ❤️❤️❤️
Pretty sure this dude never read a single word from the book
I never clicked so fast 😅
I LOVE THIS GUY LOL.
I personally would wait until the 3rd or 4th date not just cause I’m not confident because I actually like taking things slow. I am very confident but I rather wait for a right time
Dude... that thing with the Mug is just freakin me out
I did all what Corey told me to do and she still broke up with me 😞.
Although painful, breakups can usually be for the best. Just means there’s someone even better out there for you! Stay strong brotha
He can only give you the best way to get it back. It's not math. Every relationship is different.
Look for high attraction females dump those ladies that will waste ur time
Hey at least she was your girlfriend some people don’t even get that far she probably wasn’t the one or you fucked up somehow
Congratulations. On to bigger and better things from here
The sun is a G2v star, it won't go supernova (although some days the fantasy that it might can be comforting). What will really happen is that in several billion years the sun will run out of hydrogen, then it will turn into an orange, then red giant and incinerate the inner planets including the earth. It should be okay for the moons of Jupiter though.
The point is when i found out why she lost interest to me i started to find it out myself and i think i did it . We don't need to always listen to rel coaches bullshits and give them free credit . It's so simple . Being so much romantic and demanding some disney princess life from man is an obvious unrealistic view that we have nothing to do with that . If you want to really fix relationship you better show these to womens . Because when she asks for a wedding with super sport car in it and a huge party while she knows only a tiny percent of population can provide that so it's not my fault that she lose interest to me . I don't have get upset for that . Because i know she will move on to next fella and feel same to him also until she get 40 yo and suddenly realizes that she fucked up pretty bad and need to marry or be with a man with lower standards and value . So i can find my own type
1. There's another guy who is giving me the attention, romance and sex I want/need
2. You don't follow through, your words don't align with your actions
3. You only go after sex
4. We don't share the same values
This is a boys club ladies
So do you have a combo deal? 😝
🖤🙏🏻
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14:18
"Did I do the right thing coach?"
Nope
4:10 well, actually....
Avoidant women
Wow!
Another softy man
Gadyumm
4:10 well, actually....