After trying trying so much to get a child and save my marriage, am no longer interested in a child!
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2023
- Susan had spent so much money, time and emotions in trying to get a child. She sought all the possible interventions be it medical, spiritual, name it....just to conceive but it didn't work. Her days were always filled with sorrow until one day she made a decision!
She walked out of her marriage and decided to never lament again over her inability to bear children. Today, Susan says that she is no longer interested in having a child because it's not being a mother that defines a woman. Here is her story
Who is here after Susan finds love again i feel like God will bless her with a child
But if she doesn’t get a child she is still enough.
🖐️
Ooooh my God...this is amazing ❤❤ who is here after her latest interview and happily married..Susan your blessed
I and myself
Meee
Sure, I have been bypassing this story but today I had to search for it after listening to the recent one last night. God works in miraculous ways and can fulfil your joy anytime through whichever means. Congratulations Sue and Muchiri. ❤❤May love reign
Me here.
Me,Aki Wacha niiskize
Coming here after watching her story with the husband
Oh my gosh!! Susan, listening to u is soo inspiring and your journey echos some parts of mine. Am also from Gatanga, married 16yrs no kids, still happily married and hubby is very supportive..we tried everything including IVF but no kids to date..Had some very bitter and depressed years full of self pity. God hs been good to me coz like u, i have made peace with it and decided to live life to the fullest. My advice to wombs in waiting and closed wombs, try not to make childlessness the focus of your lives coz u might miss all the other great blessings that u already have.
Wow☺️ that's a brilliant advice Beatrice
Can you make me your surrogate mother? (Am sorry if this hurts)
Trust in God
It's time people embrace child free marriages
Try dr thagana upper hill
Watching This story After watching her loved Again story. Gods of miracle. ❤❤
Wow this amazing who is here after her latest interview?juu ya hii interview alipata bwana hapa.susan you are blessed happy marriage
Was in 5yrs marriage, had no kids but the MIL was the best plus sister in law. They really ensured I had all the comfort and peace that I needed. Unfortunately, my ex hubby went ahead to have kids with other women. It was very demoralizing. I left that marriage, am very happily single and I am no longer disturbed by the issue of kids.
You were very luckily to be loved by mother in-law and siz in law. Wengine ndio huwa Wana pressure bwana aoe ama akutupe
This lady is very sober. She is so balanced in her reasoning.
Am back to comment on this one after watching how God remembered this beautiful lady suasan. It's good to be in God's timing. Different seasons for the same lady😊.
I have loved this interview. She's an inspiration and content with who she is. Great lessons. Accepting the most difficult realities of life and still finding happiness. Well done for sharing your story.
Susan you are bb, beauty and brains. Thank you for opening up on this; not easy to but you've consoled many. You are such a treasure 🙂
Thank you
Thank you for sharing this story. The church, society and family must become extra sensitive handling this matter. Sending prayers to all couples trusting the Lord for a child. It is not an easy journey. It breaks oneself spiritually, emotionally and physically. It shall be well.🙏🏾
Very Inspirational there is more to life than what we don't have.
God has provided many more beautiful experiences in life, live life be happy n grateful
Girl you are powerful,love yourself first and Gods time is the best.hugs
Amen. Hugs,
She's so bright and Godly
A person is enough with or without kids
100% true.
I’m watching again for the second time, now after your wedding. Congratulations Susan, you're amazing & sooo beautiful 🌹. You're a super-model 💃🏾🌟 ❤️
wow,this interview just gave me a new strength. i love my nephew and nieces so much but i dont want kids neither marriage but the society always judges me alot.Monicah keep doing what you do best,you are saving souls out here
Girl, you are so godly and sober.
Woow, i love this woman, she is positive, she is beautiful in and outside, her design also is on another level, i love her way of thinking
Susan you are such an inspiration.....this is hope against hope,,,,, Sarah waited for 24 years,,,God will surprise you not matter the seasons......self love all the way,,,thank you for giving hope.... blessings 💖💖💖
@kagoni,thank you for bring this lady may God bless you and I want to encourage all women going through infertility journey to hold on and love themselves first coz at the right time God will do it. He is faithful.
Amen
what a beautiful soul! Thanks Kagoni you are wnderful too. God bless you abundantly
You are very bold dear, thanks for sharing your story
Waguthirwo ke? That’s a very uncalled for question !!!!! Nothing warrants that . Never ask that uncouth question again Monica
Monica is a refined interviewer FYI and she knows her work. Let’s learn to encourage her and others..
Very encouraging testimony. Keep on moving on my sister . Father i will continue to wait on you
Thank you
Tutengeneze group , yetu todu maa most of us we are introverts ,we tend to hide from society just thinking out loud..😊
Me too
Tumeni number ni muadd
We will call it waiting mummy's.....
Add me
Waiting
Very inspirational. Thank you Susan for choosing to be you and prioritizing your happiness.
Thank you,
This girl should thank God, she was married to a narcissist ..watu wengine mungu anawapenda he protect you from evil ones ..you will be blessed with a right person wait and see .iyo marriage uge jiforce ugelia karibu ulie Damu , ugezaa na bado akose kukupendea mtoto .thank God gal .
Your prophecy came true,she got married last month
@@puritynyaguthiikarani6781 I saw it I was so happy for her Kwanza ndio ujue Mimi ni kaa prophet elisha imagine she got a kirinyaga guy yet Mimi pia ni mukirinyaga hii Kama sio prophecy unaeza sema ni nini ..uyu niwe NGAI uria turenda Amen Amen 🙏
God bless you for the prophecy to our sister, she's happily married.
Haiya❤, prophecy, came to pass. God bless you and more blessings for Susan and Alex.
@@dorcasmuthoni6380 imagine I even told her I should call myself prophet elisha 😊😊
It took me 8yrs to be pregnant i can still remember the pain i went through i had even give up but I can say when you think it’s the end then it’s the beginning of blessings i
Waaaoh,,I will keep on trusting in the lord,,ata mm Niko na 8yrs
God's timing is best
Gods timing
True
Very intelligent, eloquent lady . Thank you for your words. The future is so bright for you . 🌹🌹
Thank you
Great interview monica
I have a lot of empathy for her and other couples waiting for a child. I pray Kenya also gets funding and professionals trained in infertility. Some issues can be resolved but Kenya lacks well trained specialists.
Blocked tubes does not also mean you can’t conceive. IVF is also an option. Prayers to her. God is truly the one that gives us children.
And also if blocked tubes it's the only problem it can be unblocked
@@bethmaina4144 sometimes yes. Sometimes women have to opt for IVF. I’ve seen a lot of women who have unblocked their tubes with a specific supplement and documented their journey on RUclips.
Sure. Thank you
Finances on Ivf procedures is an issue with some financial unstable families and also the probability of fear of the outcome
There are enough professionals in Kenya. Some partners refuse the procedure or don't have enough money.
And that's it. Thank you Susan very inspiring...
Thank you
Thanks my name sake for changing my personal perspective on life approach. God bless you dear.
This is the best episode of Metha Ya Kagoni I have ever watched. Thank you.
Thank you
Thanks kagoni for hosting Susan she is realistic and outspoken
I am here. From Mozambique.
I watched the whole enterview with her husband. Congrats to both of you. May God bless you with a child just like he did with Sara.
take it easy,God knows, thanks for encouraging pple , people will always talk.
Awesome inspiring interview
I love what u stand for and respect your decision keep up Susan.
Thank you
This girl is very young and beautiful.
Much wisdom.
Haki you are full of humor amidst the pain
Susan you are blessed. God have given you a complete family because he is faithful.
Beautiful girl. Composed focused and with wisdom
Hannah kept praying for a child and got non until she understood that God didn't just want a child from her but a priest..
The moment she made her issue a kingdom matter and promised to give her child in the house of God her womb opened.
Every woman is fearfully and wonderfully made and is great with or without a child,it's not worth beating yourself up. However it is good to seek God's face about what he needs from you... when God makes you wait it ceases from being a baby just like all the rest .
Kagoni I have been there for 18 year.Made peace with it.
Busy counting other blessings one by one
Thats the attitude
A great lesson I have learnt today
Learn to pray for God's will in all circumstances. As painful as it is our wants are not God's indeed
Susan thank you for being amazing ❤❤❤
She is beautiful from deep in heart and out, intelligent and classic
Accepting the situation is very good, God will still bless you even if is adoption or helping another child u are amother. . U are beautiful woman ad u are valuable
Wangapi tumepata tips za kumeet first time.. i have learned a lot through this story...
thankyou kagoni hapa uliongelesha susan ukiwa ndani ya roho kwa yale yalimfuata suz baadaye....Harusi ...muiritu ucio ni mugi muno
Much wisdom suzzy accepting yourself is much important not a must to get married too
Suzie....you so beautiful, GOD IS FAITHFUL....KEEP TRUSTING IN HIM.
my high-school mono,..love you so much.
Thank you so much my big sister & my school mum
14 years down the line in a marriage na bando nangoja mungu tu
Never lose hope, God's time is always the best.very soon God is going to fulfill your heart's desire.🙏
Please join NSPPD prayers every morning with Pastor jerry Eze
Never give up. Soon your day is coming to give a testimony of how The Lord will have answered your prayers.
im not marrit na since najua i hate waiting sitting down, i would adopt as i wait if i were you
Utapata...Just stand on the word of God bila kuchoka
Susan ...it is well.i never knew about your story until av listened.everything happens with a reason you are such an inspiration.God bless you
I accepted myself....ten years of marriage no child...am now single and happy i even lost interest in having a baby
Sorry for what happened, we smile again and face tomorrow as if we never cried yesterday
We're so many out here. Love yourself for who you're a child does not define who you are.
Never give up, God is of another chance
Great. Loving yourself and letting go the anxiety and stress, creates a conducive environment in your body that you positively respond to treatment and easily conceive . Don't give up, ask God to give the right partner. My years of waiting were more than yours. I let it go and stayed single for 4yrs.
Be happy cause a lot of stress is not good healthy
My strong friend you such inspirational
Quite educative but please consider adopting one my sister
Ohh i love her.Her story is inspiring
Thank you
Very good show, thank you Susan. We must continue to have these difficult conversations. I see so many wazungus who chose not to have kids because of reasons tofauti. And the society accepts. Hakuna kuulizwa inappropriate questions....
Sure
Very very true about wazungus. Live and let live. African societies should embrace every woman with or without kids. This was an issue that bothered me from majiranis alot when I
was in kenya. Abroad helped me b who I choose to be till I change to whosoever I want to be.
For me I'm 31 I chose not to have kids and it's fine
God answers the right time,n he knows what we need at what time,There is hope dr Susan,I stayed without a kid 6years with all checkups n God surprised me after soulful moment n he gave me a baby boy to God be the glory
A very mature conversation.
Am married 9yrs no medical issues and ihave never conceived still waiting God. I know the pain...
God will bless u
Muthoni Alice ..Gods time is the best.
Do a research mostly back home
Esther, thanks for your comment, I have gone for several deliverance to enable me to disconnect from family alters..
I need comments maybe I can find an answer or help from you friends..
@@muthonialice7115 I can refer you to a certain apostle if interested .....
( remember to check family alter both sides)
Susan you are enough with or without children, continue to pursue your purpose.
Waaaoh I have learnt alot from you susan thanks for opening up
Thank you
Very informative
A strong woman ♥️
This is how faith in God empowers you to overcome.
It's not easy unless God intervene. Opting for ivf when I discovered my hubby has a kid outside marriage.
Sorry for what you are going through. IVF requires finances, emotional stability and you need a support system. I pray you get all this as you prepare for this.
I wish the society would normalize adoption.
My kind of vybe👌👌if only we were this sober
Beautiful ladies.
Thank you
I love her thinking.
Thank you
Susie I love ❤ your confidence really inspiring girl,
Wao! Wonderful talk from a strong woman.
I thank God
Educative💫Inspirational 👌👌
Take Home- 'Accept & go through your pain far from where death is evident' Be blessed @Susan
Thanks @MonicaKagoni for always keeping it professional...Keep up the good work💫
Waa this has touched 🥲 me deep..lakini yangu ni different, me am 36yrs old na sijawahi oleka juu nimeishi kuogopa wanaume coz ya trauma yenye nilipitishiwa na step dad na mom hakuwahi kunipigania instead ni mimi alikua ananichapa akiona kama namharibia ndoa, so nimeishi kuogopa wanaume hata wakiniuliza wanioe ili trauma inakuja with full force..but this year nimesikia tu namiss mtoi wakuniita mom..napenda watoto sana but naogopa wanaume
Father heal your dota enough to release to her a life partner who will wipe away her tears with LOVE.
I went through something also,which made me hate marriage soo much,now am in my 40s healed thinking of getting married now.
All the best my sister its not the same.
@@pietfavoured3374 may God send you a loving God fearing spouse.
@Rose Ndunge please seek Therapy you need to heal first before getting married and kids.If you don't the trauma will always come back to hunt you.Wish you healing ❤️
I love your positive attitude n accepting bitter truth n God is faithful coz you will b blessed 🙏🙏🙏
Amen. Thank you
The kind of words some women can vomit against fellow women? God have mercy.
Our God is faithful.
Keep trusting keep believing.
Your future is on Gods hands..be at peace
Very outspoken, very positive,a good advice indeed,may God see her through, beautiful repeat beautiful In n out
Moni🙏🙏
Kagoni siku hizi unaglow mamaa💕💕💕and you beautiful lady
She is so beautiful inside and outside
Thank you
Leaving each day at a time and trusting in Gods timing .If my singlehood is for the glory of God i embrace it
Our God is not limited may He heal you fully strong woman 💪
Amen
@@Suzie-Yule-Diadem And God has blessed you above and beyond. Happy for you.
So inspiring
Wow 👌 I like this woman,,navenye mm nilipata mtoi na shida mingi,adi tulikua tunalala njaa na mtoi wangu,I wish nilikua namjua ningemuachia katoi kangu
Here after interview happy married
Wow, this is very encouraging. I love this gal, she is full of wisdom.
A strong lady
People should be sensitive when it comes to commenting and asking when one you should get a child, don't ask because it is none of your business
So beautiful ❤️
Thank you
Monicah of all the interviews, I love this one. I stayed for five years childless and what I faced Ngai tiga tu. I love Susan
Thank you
Ningesema she keeps trying without putting her mind in it but then again we xtians should not fornicate. Im older than her by two yrs na sijapata and i have never tried coz i dont date ever. I plan to when i get a husband though. Unfortunately her husband cudnt go on with the journey otherwise i think couples should adopt a baby even as they keep trying so as to be busy because waiting inaweza fanya uchizi. I bought my sis baby clothes last yr but one by faith she would get and right now her baby is several months. I tried mine like this lady and husband must come first coz i dont bilieve in fornication but wapi. Christianity can be rough. But God may be having something in store for us. Something big
Actually its likely that man wasnt the one destined for you. you may get the one and get kids in future. just dont put your mind there or you will be permanently depressed. Go about doing Gods work perhaps he will surprise you.
Congratulations kagoni
Ist of all your so beautiful. You look so young with such a beautiful skin and style. I got my 1st born close to ten yrs in marriage, I admire your faith and stand, love yourself 1st.
Congratulations & thank you for kind words
Strong woman with inspired story.
Oh my I remember watching this story and I am very happy that she found a good man.
Monicah,ebu check with Susan whether she’s your Siz from another mum😏😏🙏🏼🙏🏼😍😍anyway on a lighter note...but mna fanana sana ❤
It's called hsg and I agree with u it's very painful ...it is well usi loose hope
Wueeeeh,I have undergone through it twice,I can't again,oh God help me.
It's very painful.