Wengi wanasema hangemuachia nyumba but I understand this lady coz hiyo nyumba Haina furaha na Ako alone mzee alioa na kumove on na maisha yake,kukaa Kwa hiyo nyumba n kujifunga coz utafikilia uko na mzee in mind na hakuna pia hasaidii watoi but kutoka na kumove on na life,pia angendelea kukaa one day atakuja kutolewa kimatharau so I support this lady
My sister,you are a beautiful soul. I went through such an odeal. Different country but same negative family members. Toxic sis and brothers in laws . God loves you. This man will never have peace You will watch him fall and pay for all
Mama mashaa unanijua vizuri naitwa kuvuki nimekubeba sana na bodaa ,wewe nimama wa nguvu ukweri dikujua unapita hayo but nisawa mungu aliyajua yote jipe moyo ,,,Mimi Badu Niko stage 26 usijari niliacha mungu ameku bless Hawa wenye walikua hawakutambui ,SEMA kuparara
tell my sister atujoin tuko na chama inaitwa vision 20 : 30 tuko hapa Nairobi utawala , nyayo estate ,kobil old air port road en kamuru , mukuru kwa njenga ,uka tujengane na maisha iendelee kwa uwezo wake MUNGU.
Quite a touching story and a big lesson to learn, specially for young people. People should note that serious relationships between people who meet in Nairobi (or other economically cosmopolitan environments including majuu) should be taken with a pinch of salt. The likelihood of them surviving are very slim although there are exceptions. The motivation of these relationships is economic survival, hence the failure of the parties to ascertain backgrounds. Once the objective is met, there is little to hold the relationship any more. Only be thorough and cautious.
God will always bless the work of your hands with your children, Renee your strength and you will never suffer in Jesus name thx for your story very helpful 🙏
A very intelligent young woman. I'm glad she abandoned where the husband left her and started her own new Life. At times we need to let go of the shady past. I also noted men don't like intelligent women. They want airheads that can be treated like shit and still stay put and controlled like a robot.
Hii ndunia haina huruma her story is painful Akhi navile mimi nmrpitishiwa Moto najaribu kupea MTU life poa at the end Yuko huku online amenicheat mm natokea gulf napata MTU analal na wanaume wegni Respect to all single mums and all those who went through torture in their marriage..Gof is for us all🙏🙏
Very true. No single and happy as she says. Singleness is lonely and burdensome especially when bringing up some kids. It doesn't happen by choice. It's circumstances that lead people to live single. A marriage with happiness is the will of God for us.
Keep up gal...you are more than a woman,you are the father to your children and a mother at the same tym...I went through the same 4 fifteen years en now I'm ok working in gulf...may God see you through
GOOD ADVICE MAMA, MIMI NILITOKA AFTER 12 YRS,,,ITS NOW ALSO 12 YRS NOW TANGU NIKANYANGE KUBWA KUBWA NO.regrets at all.ileft jamaa na plot but guess what,,saa hii hata kujilisha ni ngori,he married again akapata 2 kids but 😂😂walidivorce....lijibaba limechanganyikiwa ta hiti hutu😁😆
Me too dear,one slap only and I packed and left with my 2 very young children, nikawasomesha and I have never turned back. And my children are well educated and are working . God is faithful.... Never stay in any abusive situation.
I don't advocate someone to remain in a toxic relationship but one mistake this lady made is leaving her home that she had contributed to and opting to go and rent. Her husband took advantage of her and benefited himself and another woman. Anyway God knows you and your children and He'll come through for you but your husband will never find peace as long as his children are suffering out there. A sad story but God has the answer,take heart Symo thank you for your kind words God bless you 😭😭🙏🏿🙏🏿🔥🔥✝️✝️💜💜
@@jenifferkimondo710 True As far as he is not coming home and no beating she could hv stayed there and raise her children alone. Her husband could later be used to the other lady, and started missing his family to evn leaving that luyah lady. Infact am sure this man will one day look for this lady otherwise she's so good and humble. She was not after his money bt after husband. That's why she left with nothing except clothes and children's bikes. Maybe the man do regret is only that maybe he is planning to look for them
She should have stayed in that house and than man would not have sold the house. On top of educating,feeding, clothing and paying medical expenses for this mama children she added another expense.
Symo please don't push or pressurise people to reveal information that they don't want to reveal. That lady doesn't want people to know where she works, but you were pushing her to reveal. Privacy and safety come first.
Pole for what happened to you.but hapo kwa kusema ati nobody is single and happy hio niyako.kunao very single and happy.hakuna kitu poa kama a single woman knowing that nobody is cheating on her weuh.
Ulikuwa umewekwa, hukuoleawa, mwezi mumoja ulijioza, hakukuolewa, hata hukutambulishwa, kwa familia, wala hakujijulisha kwenu,lakini kakupa watoto Shakur MUNGU laparotomy, wako hana haki kugawa ndoa YA nje ya sheria, na utamaduni, haina haki.
Uliacha nyumba yako ukaenda kukomboa kwa sababu haukutambuliwa kwa mazishi dada yangu? Hiyo nyumba ungeachia watoto. Zoea kutopendwa na binadamu and develop a thick skin. Only God will love and support you fully.
Mimi wangu aliusa shamba ma million akatoroka. Mimi sijawahi mutafute miaka sasa 16 years na sijawahi mutafute. Family walimu, support nikawaweka block list. I don't care whether the exist I even forgot the way to there home. Move on girl trusting God. Life is too short to depress yourself. Iam happy without them. My children are happy too.
Uweeh kwenye niliolewa,eti everything ni sister in law,nilimwambia my ex amuoe huyo dadake,she came and confronted me,nikamwambia Hilo Hilo akoelewe na nduguye awe akijipangia yeye sio kunipangia na nkaondoka.i was pregnant and my son is 7yrs now without them.red flags r real
Sorry gal for wat you went through God will make evrythng well,my story is similar to yours n till today 8yrs n I hated men n marriage I take care of my children but ogopa inlaws they are like monitoring spirits n they want to take control over you n wat you HV may God hv mercy aki
aki for real we've gone thru hell......Mimi Hadi I'd nilichukua na yeye bt sikupenda is just you made decision to be married bt what about your partner bcoz people change.
Mi ni meolewa na mluhya Ssa issue iko mum yake alisema atki mkikuyu but am happy alisema mama yake hawezi mpangia maisha and to avoid that huwa anani keep far from mum
My gal Kuna tym ufika unasema enough is enough uwezi kufa juu juu ya material things,peace ni muhimu sana dia.watu wanaacha vitu vina worthy millions of money na life inachonga
Wehirie nigutiga mucii waku tondu in-laws niguo mahana na matiihika kuu lakini in-laws mtapata tu in-laws kama nyinyi vile mnasengenya mtu na kusumbua wathi uruhagiruo oo thii niguo nii nderire in-laws aakwa na ndingiuma ndamerire uguo memenyerie kunyonaga na kuiguo ngiaria tondu ndingithamio nio
But how do you leave a property you have developed together and you have kids. The man even though he was not coming you could have held on to the property.
Wengi wanasema hangemuachia nyumba but I understand this lady coz hiyo nyumba Haina furaha na Ako alone mzee alioa na kumove on na maisha yake,kukaa Kwa hiyo nyumba n kujifunga coz utafikilia uko na mzee in mind na hakuna pia hasaidii watoi but kutoka na kumove on na life,pia angendelea kukaa one day atakuja kutolewa kimatharau so I support this lady
True 😢😢
Ninge I sell haki na ni tembee makumbwa makumbwa niki endanga
@@janemwangi6932 huyu ni wa muranga sio wa kiambu,can't do such
very true
@@trizahmacharia2939 😃😀🤣
I would have sold that Rwai home and educated the children. May God take you through life with zero regret. All the very best.
This lady is beautiful and humble God bless Her simo asante
Amen
Wah uhav abig hrt
My sister,you are a beautiful soul.
I went through such an odeal.
Different country but same negative family members.
Toxic sis and brothers in laws .
God loves you.
This man will never have peace
You will watch him fall and pay for all
🙏
Mama mashaa unanijua vizuri naitwa kuvuki nimekubeba sana na bodaa ,wewe nimama wa nguvu ukweri dikujua unapita hayo but nisawa mungu aliyajua yote jipe moyo ,,,Mimi Badu Niko stage 26 usijari niliacha mungu ameku bless Hawa wenye walikua hawakutambui ,SEMA kuparara
Woiye thankyou I remember you
Heri hungeacha nyumba juu hukuzukuzwa ungeendelea kukaa tu na watoi,aki sometimes you can’t understand men 😢you are a strong lady ❤
Thanx Symo for bringing this woman to teach us with her story
tell my sister atujoin tuko na chama inaitwa vision 20 : 30 tuko hapa Nairobi utawala , nyayo estate ,kobil old air port road en kamuru , mukuru kwa njenga ,uka tujengane na maisha iendelee kwa uwezo wake MUNGU.
@alice kirigo how can I get you na ni about nini
@@alicekirigo7641 mimi niko around nyayo gate A
She is a strong woman,God will pay her back what she lost💯🙏
Wambui you are a very strong woman huyu madam ni wa kwetu amepitia mengi
Thanks kagal
She's a strong and beautiful woman.. take heart mama and move on. Ulifanya poa kuachilia coz that's the beginning of healing
Thankyou
Quite a touching story and a big lesson to learn, specially for young people. People should note that serious relationships between people who meet in Nairobi (or other economically cosmopolitan environments including majuu) should be taken with a pinch of salt. The likelihood of them surviving are very slim although there are exceptions. The motivation of these relationships is economic survival, hence the failure of the parties to ascertain backgrounds. Once the objective is met, there is little to hold the relationship any more. Only be thorough and cautious.
If you notice a red flag just quit
I went through the same & my heart still bleeds up to date but God above everything, am still breathing and kicking.
God will always bless the work of your hands with your children, Renee your strength and you will never suffer in Jesus name thx for your story very helpful 🙏
🙏
U have encouraged many souls... Mungu akupee nguvu na uwezo wa kulea watoto wako.
Amen
A very intelligent young woman. I'm glad she abandoned where the husband left her and started her own new Life. At times we need to let go of the shady past. I also noted men don't like intelligent women. They want airheads that can be treated like shit and still stay put and controlled like a robot.
Thankyou gal
Exactly!!
Why are you talking the plain truth! Very very true
Hii ndunia haina huruma her story is painful
Akhi navile mimi nmrpitishiwa Moto najaribu kupea MTU life poa at the end Yuko huku online amenicheat mm natokea gulf napata MTU analal na wanaume wegni
Respect to all single mums and all those who went through torture in their marriage..Gof is for us all🙏🙏
Amen and amen
Strong gal may God provides you with everything you need
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Don't worry my dear pia mm nilitoka niko rental bt I hv peace now with my kids God will remember us
My sister mungu ni mungu natakua mungu barikiwa 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen
Very true. No single and happy as she says. Singleness is lonely and burdensome especially when bringing up some kids. It doesn't happen by choice. It's circumstances that lead people to live single. A marriage with happiness is the will of God for us.
MUNGU ako na wewe dada jipe nguvu nice job symok
Keep up gal...you are more than a woman,you are the father to your children and a mother at the same tym...I went through the same 4 fifteen years en now I'm ok working in gulf...may God see you through
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GOOD ADVICE MAMA, MIMI NILITOKA AFTER 12 YRS,,,ITS NOW ALSO 12 YRS NOW TANGU NIKANYANGE KUBWA KUBWA NO.regrets at all.ileft jamaa na plot but guess what,,saa hii hata kujilisha ni ngori,he married again akapata 2 kids but 😂😂walidivorce....lijibaba limechanganyikiwa ta hiti hutu😁😆
😂😂
😀😀😀😀Ati hiti hutu
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bona Huwa wanakua desperate after kututupa au ketutesa. Mungu mtetezi wetu kweli🙏🙏
Hungry hyena yawa😂😂😂😂😂😂
I know the lady well she was my neighbor to n the story is true and pure. May God remember her.
Thankyou
Mimi nilisema roho yangu ni ya ku pump damu sina time ya kupenda mtu
😆😆😆Thats my Girl !@immaculate nduta
Nîtwahanana!
Me too dear,one slap only and I packed and left with my 2 very young children, nikawasomesha and I have never turned back. And my children are well educated and are working . God is faithful.... Never stay in any abusive situation.
Thank you gal,that me na kujipenda nayo
My twin 🤣
We are many struggling with kids,nake Ngai no atuheaga hinya,team ya symo 🙏
Gal kip up
Amen
Children are gift from God ❤️.God is there
I don't advocate someone to remain in a toxic relationship but one mistake this lady made is leaving her home that she had contributed to and opting to go and rent. Her husband took advantage of her and benefited himself and another woman. Anyway God knows you and your children and He'll come through for you but your husband will never find peace as long as his children are suffering out there. A sad story but God has the answer,take heart Symo thank you for your kind words God bless you 😭😭🙏🏿🙏🏿🔥🔥✝️✝️💜💜
its true. she could have stayed
@@jenifferkimondo710 True
As far as he is not coming home and no beating she could hv stayed there and raise her children alone. Her husband could later be used to the other lady, and started missing his family to evn leaving that luyah lady.
Infact am sure this man will one day look for this lady otherwise she's so good and humble. She was not after his money bt after husband. That's why she left with nothing except clothes and children's bikes.
Maybe the man do regret is only that maybe he is planning to look for them
Peace was paramount for her!
She couldn’t sleep! In that house!
vitu hutafutwa but if you lack peace huwezi songa..... that was good step she made.... sahi labda angekua amechizi......
She should have stayed in that house and than man would not have sold the house. On top of educating,feeding, clothing and paying medical expenses for this mama children she added another expense.
my primary school classmates you had a clean heart from when we were young keep on being strong esp for you kids..
Thankyou classmate
You can tell by her way of talking she has a great heart
Ukufanya poa kuacha nyumba,Tena Ulundi hapa ATI umefungiwa nyumba huna food
Alikua anafikiri maisha ni rahisi ama atapata mwingine @ Tabitha Kabucwa
Worst story ever,,aaarrrgghhh
God can Never allow that the far now it's by God's grace
Symo please don't push or pressurise people to reveal information that they don't want to reveal. That lady doesn't want people to know where she works, but you were pushing her to reveal. Privacy and safety come first.
Sure I didn't want to gal
Kwelii
Kweli
Pole for what happened to you.but hapo kwa kusema ati nobody is single and happy hio niyako.kunao very single and happy.hakuna kitu poa kama a single woman knowing that nobody is cheating on her weuh.
Thts self comfort😂
May God continues to give you peace and u will go far watarudi kukuomba msamaha blev me
She is such a humble and beautiful soul. Bring up your sons and you will be proud of what you av achieved
Thankyou
Anaongea pole pole sana
Waiting,, leo nimefika mapema
When people leave you. Move on and forget about them all..
You come from a family go back to your people forget about them.
They say kieru nikiiraga so take heart my dear
Ulikosa wisdom mama kutoka kwa hio nyumba
Hangeacha nyumba aende kukomboa, angeishi huko na hakuna mtu angemtoa.
Ulikuwa umewekwa, hukuoleawa, mwezi mumoja ulijioza, hakukuolewa, hata hukutambulishwa, kwa familia, wala hakujijulisha kwenu,lakini kakupa watoto Shakur MUNGU laparotomy, wako hana haki kugawa ndoa YA nje ya sheria, na utamaduni, haina haki.
Mungu atakupeleka mbere Agatha❤
Amen
My dear siz im proud of dear
Thankyou
As for me am single and happy. Have never been married before I have a son and I totally don't like marriage
Me too
Girl is so beautiful, ata huwezi sema. Hugs mamaz
Thankyou gal
Story is so similar to mine. I was surprised too during mother in-laws burial. The worst thing is that everyone else knows apart from you.
I wish i heard this story many years ago.😢😢😢😢
Uliacha nyumba yako ukaenda kukomboa kwa sababu haukutambuliwa kwa mazishi dada yangu? Hiyo nyumba ungeachia watoto. Zoea kutopendwa na binadamu and develop a thick skin. Only God will love and support you fully.
Woi peace is very important
Ujinga anaacha nyumba ahangaike.
Kama una kufia huko
Sihangaiki hata kidogo am well @@perpetuawamaitha8194
God ameni help sana working hard is the key I stood again
Mimi wangu aliusa shamba ma million akatoroka. Mimi sijawahi mutafute miaka sasa 16 years na sijawahi mutafute. Family walimu, support nikawaweka block list.
I don't care whether the exist I even forgot the way to there home.
Move on girl trusting God.
Life is too short to depress yourself.
Iam happy without them. My children are happy too.
Hi bdo ziko,nataka moja
May God give you another house of your own.
Amen
Hajakosea i feel her pain she deserves to be happy if that make her happy peace of mind very important
Thankyou gal
Bravo may Gods grace carry you through watoto watakua and one he will flashback and he will always be ashamed we r together in singlehood
Uweeh kwenye niliolewa,eti everything ni sister in law,nilimwambia my ex amuoe huyo dadake,she came and confronted me,nikamwambia Hilo Hilo akoelewe na nduguye awe akijipangia yeye sio kunipangia na nkaondoka.i was pregnant and my son is 7yrs now without them.red flags r real
Wenye wanasema hangeacha nyumba ingeuzwa tu akiwa huko alifanya poa kutoka cz she started healing from that time
Sorry gal for wat you went through God will make evrythng well,my story is similar to yours n till today 8yrs n I hated men n marriage I take care of my children but ogopa inlaws they are like monitoring spirits n they want to take control over you n wat you HV may God hv mercy aki
Don't make statements about others eg no one is single but happy . How do you know that?
Mume kama hajakutoa kwa nyumba hungetoka.When the pain is too much,one doesn't think straight that's why you need sober pple to advice you,
I agree with you
Hi Symo show us that Hotel we want to see please. Stella Germany
God will bless you
Amen
Atumia nitwihokei Ngai,makiria nigetha tuhote kurera ciana.
Mundu agatee minjii teno maa
Oii pole mama those sister in law karma inawangonja.
There is no karma waiting for nobody. Tabia zake ndio karma. That’s why she is running around telling family business
Ungejuwa hungehama mama pole sana
Tondu wimurathime dukianje kunyiterera iheyo symo k na Jehova aguitirerie irathimo ta mbura
What he is reaping he will sow one day one time, your children will grow up and become responsible men.
And God has been soo faithful to you. One day they will all be ashamed.
Amen
Wueeh me I thought I had a cowife the time my husband died. The things I passed through then I can't wish another person going through them.
Motor bike ni ya andu Eric the third ni WA mwiringiririo sister inlaws kaeni kado much game but maripo ni hapa hapa
That house was for your children,why shift and go to rent???? That's the mistake you did.i wish angeachia watoto wako hiyo nyumba.
Thts the biggest mistake she did walai
Am also here smh...hau ha kuma muciì wakíte ni kùrigwo mùno
Haina haja since hakuna hata furaha Kwa hiyo nyumba
She made a decision in anger....very dangerous
Move on my dear
Man should tell us the side of story
Wah hungetoka kwako aki its painful but ungecheza kama wewe juu hubby hakua anakuja kukusumbua huko anyway God help yu
Not nenia they are called piles caused by hemorrhoids, it’s swollen vein due to using force
Fake doctor
Many women are like her, 3 years still holding dead marriage, utapona mama
Haukufukuzwa?? Why did you leave your home? Move on God will bless you.
Am in the same precadiment n my view is ningetaka tusikie Man side of the story...enyway so sad kwanza mwanaume kuhama ukikuyuni na kujenga kakamega🙆
aki for real we've gone thru hell......Mimi Hadi I'd nilichukua na yeye bt sikupenda is just you made decision to be married bt what about your partner bcoz people change.
Murimu wa mwana witagwo Haemrhoids mentioned on the 24:00
Be strong and believe in God
Very brilliant and strong woman you are. May God open your doors
Thankyou
Assume arikufa move on lakini ukipata mutu mwingine uolewe haraka iwezekanavyo take heart
Thankyou
Mi ni meolewa na mluhya
Ssa issue iko mum yake alisema atki mkikuyu but am happy alisema mama yake hawezi mpangia maisha and to avoid that huwa anani keep far from mum
Sema
@@ahmedhassan2349 nini
Uuiii maa kai twagereire maundu mamwe no.nikuri Ghai wa ihinda ringi ati turi omuoyo
Usijali mm myhusbad alipass nikiwa 24 . years... but after mazishi nilinganywa plot and wakasema hawanijui...take it easy
Ndûngîarutire ciana mûciî wao.
Av gone through alot to but I pray that God will make a way 4me
May God make a way for you
Hi story nikama yangu kabisa
Nie hakwa ndigugutigira thithino yakwa.
Aky hunge Hama coz uko na watoto wake na hakukusaidia kulea....the house has pained me 😭 sana
mimj ningeuza nikanunue kwingine
Mimi singewacha nyumba tumejenga nayeye the guy was only giving you Cold War he never told you to move out 😢
My gal Kuna tym ufika unasema enough is enough uwezi kufa juu juu ya material things,peace ni muhimu sana dia.watu wanaacha vitu vina worthy millions of money na life inachonga
Hugs dear. I can relate. kesho yeti ya ng'aaa
May the lord bless that lady 🙏
Amen
The mistake she did ni kutoka kwa hiyo nyumba despite everything juu hakuwa amefukuzwa
Hiyo tabia ni ya watu wa nyeri tumewazoea
Wehirie nigutiga mucii waku tondu in-laws niguo mahana na matiihika kuu lakini in-laws mtapata tu in-laws kama nyinyi vile mnasengenya mtu na kusumbua wathi uruhagiruo oo thii niguo nii nderire in-laws aakwa na ndingiuma ndamerire uguo memenyerie kunyonaga na kuiguo ngiaria tondu ndingithamio nio
Hahaha ukweli ,Ni ngui ciandu ndinao tao,
🤣🤣🤣 Symo ati waku ndangitumwo.
Title yenyewe imenichekesha tu.ati agikora mahaanainie nguo na mutumia wake🤣🤣🤣
Aki woiye usinichekelee
@@maggiewambui9744 wooiye sikujua iko ivo, pole sana
🤣🤣🤣 walai haki
Mm nko hapa waiting sana
Well done girl
Mimi siwezi wachia mwanaume jasho langu
Hamna jasho lake hapo. Aje atwambie ukweli.
Kama n mm singetoka kwangu ..si niko na watoi wake ..singeiacha in laws wagangare nayo ..hii n Mali ya watoi wangu
God bless you
At least you has a right to access or claim that home you was apart of it
Waiting sana
Sometimes married 😢😢😢
But how do you leave a property you have developed together and you have kids. The man even though he was not coming you could have held on to the property.