He woke me to pray for him after leaving me for another woman| Tuko TV
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- Опубликовано: 20 янв 2024
- Purity Amani is a strong woman. After enduring such a strained childhood, the first man who showed her some affection she mistook it for love. Today she speaks for the first time about her toxic marriage and why she opted out...
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No to struggle love, work on your own finances and stop raising an adult child. If a man cannot love, protect and provide for you, don't marry him ⚠️
Never Tell a man your secrets , he'll use the same to insults and frustrate you
Thanks Purity for enlightening the young generation. The key to understanding a man is what a man should do for you as a man. A man will always try to provide for his family whether working or not. A man who feeds on you without feeling remorse is not your man
When i listen the story of Tuko TV i really heal my pain, coz most of stories touched me😢😢
Living with another human being is just an extreme sport.
For real.
💯
Kenyan ladies should learn to love themselves first before giving their love to others 😊
The same words I told my ex even if he become a millionaire I won't go back..I was also a bread winner for many years.but my story is 😢😢😢😢😢I thank God because I got the peace.
This is my current situation.May God restore that which we have lost.
My dear me too. Even if he becomes an arch bishop I will NEVER go back to him. Our God will restore everything we lost.
Telltale signs are always there in The beginning but more often than not we ignore ❤.
Life is short ⛔ ladies stop auditioning for problems in the name of love.
Am glad you got healed ❤.......May that man live to lick the ground you walk on........
Huyu msichana ni mkora sana, I know her very well anapenda sympathy all the time, I won't be surprised that most of the things amesema about her guy ni ukora
Never let ur problem to stop you. Thanks 4 ur story it has taught us alot
Lets give hope to one another...Speak it out....do not be ashamed!!
I know purity!!! I saw her face and wondered where i saw the name. Went to primary school together great personality she was a dancer and active member of drama club. So sad she went through this.
This lady is strong..Meru ladies are amazing...u look beautiful girl....I have gone through almost a similar story ...I will talk about it some day....let's learn to rest in God
The one thing I have learned is that women should teach their daughters to listen and follow the advice of their parents. The reason this lady experienced so much problems is because of rebellion. Can you imagine what her life would have been like if she were obedient to her mom??? I have had my share of rebellion and always paid very bitterly. Women should especially try their best to have a good relationship with their fathers, so that they can know the ways of men and be able to discern their choices of spouse.
Wat about those raised with single mothers,they are thirsty of men to feel that love they didn't get from there father
True, my cuzo was warned about her ex, I also tried to help her start a fresh,, lakini rebellion,Weh, love mpaka mtu anaona is like you are jealous of her relationship, SAA hii she is struggling as a single mother,but I will never help her again Wacha struggle kivyake
You know nothing you talking about.
@@nicholasmalova4385 you need to explain yourself before you say that I know nothing. You don't even know me
Hii kurusha mane no kama mwenda wazimu ni mbaya Sana!
What if those fathers are not willing to have any relationship. Please never judge, your case is not other person case. Families are very different, some easy some difficult. If you are in a good family just have a minute to thank God.
Mamaa you have a big 💜 hugs mummy may God bless you
Uzuri internet never forgets...and tuko doesnt delete videos. God doesnt sleep
She must be very strong woman and she will always stay strong and daughters will be taught to be beautiful in love❤️ for the humanity
Kawira your hair is nicely done
Thanks for the story, I wish her success and healing from her past, but listening to the last story, and this one, things not adding up.
Thats called forcing issues in the name of masculinity
I have been looking out for new content in your channel purity, and by the way you are glowing purity💃💃💃💃 your skin is skinning, share the skin care routine
Funny enough the husband mwenye anapigwa vita hapa is the brains behind the channel
Ooh my God I know purity.she used to be our group leader the time we were acting.
uko 2019.we could tell
sth was wrong since tulikuwa tunaenda
kwake.i rem tukishoot one day he was supposed to be there and he refused to come.you went home frustrated.pole sana aki
This story touches me 😭 oh lord have mercy on as, is like my story kabisa
Pole sana
Did you mention luhya..?
Woi!I can relate to this 💯.
May God heal you and let him restore you immensely.
Waah! I was in the same from the same tribe. I can never advice my children to face there to find a lover.
Hiyo ni tribe ya kuheshimu na ladies
Waa, I can't believe my ear. Kumbe you mean it
Same experience as my younger sister, the only difference is that her husband is physically abusive too
Hmm 💔. I hope she found the strength to leave him. Sending love to your sister it’s not easy being with an abuser.
A lesson:
You can't and will never satisfy a narcissist.
Hizo weird things anasema is just to hurt you and put you down.
Narcissist a very devilish!
That's their fuel
Am raising an adult it's hectic he's darining my strength i want out but am far away I don't know how 😢
This story relates with mine after struggling with my marriage for 13years I got tired and let it go....we pass through alot
13 years😢😢😢you must have gone to hell and back.
Kenyan women are very resilient. Oh God.
Very true, that resilience almost send me to the grave.
This is not resilience wacha kuharibia resilience jina.
Doormats
@@swts4k💯
Kawira smile Yako pia hiko 😂😊killing
Kawira you look so pretty na hiyo hair do. Like a 16 year old❤😊
I am Luhya. Concerning 'Chira', I was having a conversation with my grandma recently, and she did tell me something very similar to what the guest said. The difference comes in hapo kwa the cleansing part.
According to my grandma, an elderly woman has to come, wash, and pray before the philanderer can interact with the child. There is no goat or money given in exchange, and to be completely honest, I don't necessarily agree with this whole ritual, especially the giving of anything in exchange for prayers. Don't get me wrong, I believe that there's something to be said about our culture and traditions, but at the end of the day, Jesus paid the ultimate prize and anyone who tells you otherwise should be treated with the contempt they deserve.
For context, allegedly, as far as my grandma is concerned, my step-uncle who was always sickly and mentally challenged, died in his teens after living a very hard life coz of this.
Presenter hairstyle Iko mwwwwh ❤❤❤
Pury you look amazing
Tell this girl to look for Nuga best,her heart will be strong again when exposed to far infra red heat
When you're giving a story or in an interview don't ask questions and still give answers.
The other side of the story??(men)
The lady is proud shows proud!!
If she can't change she get another man and still!!!!!!!!
OMG! I am shocked
Hugs 🤗
Ata kucheck her WhatsApp Status kila siku ni kulia tu anatakanga watu wamwone huruma all the time. Remember kuna two sides of a coin, we also want to here the said guy speak
Sending much love to Purity, I have been following her for a while.
Yvonne drop skin care routine 😊
Awww of course! ❤ lots of moisturizing, sunscreen and bi weekly Shea butter scrub.
Thankyou 🙏🏾
I really enjoy my personal space...I guess this guy was just fed up
Mrembo Mimi I love
I wish the interviewer would let the story teller tell the story; her questions interfere with the flow... hata hatujui vile alikatiwa Na kuingia box.
My twin... Simu lazima niangalie.. it tells me alot
Love doesn't make a marriage
Very true.
I learnt it the hard way.
You so polite gal,,umeru iko ndani yangu naweza kata mwanaume kama nyama ya butchery
Noo...just drop any relationship that's not working. It hurts but don't go that low dear.
But bona nyinyi wanawake mkiona red flag ,,mbona hamuedi,,,
Hapa kuna someone in love na ujinga wa mapenzi she is sincere
Do we really have these kind of people?
I think my story same like you but me I was never raped but married while I was 19 and went in hell in that marriage for 18yrs .one thing I will never forget her sidechicl said to me natoshana na maiti iko kwa jeneza .I left with 4 kids 2 joys2 girl and now I am working in gulf my first boy is in Nairobi university and last daughters in secondary school. I used to sell second hand clothes paying rent and providing good and fee while him he was truck conductor and he used to say I can't pay house he doesn't sleep because mostly he was on road I could come twize a month to change clothes and go .I had no peace but when realized myself now 5 yrs with alots of peace happily with me kids and doing better than before
Hugs mum
That’s why you should NEVER EVER tell your spouse about your past even if you used to be a slave NEVER tell him/her for the aim of Mercy or more love because that gives him/her power to manipulate you…..Anything about family struggles shouldn’t be discussed well you’ve come together and life stats there DO YOU and leave everything happened along the way behind…..The only thing you can discuss is IF you are coming from background with a certain genetic disorder for the sake of your kids …..OTHER THINGS like nilifanyiwa hivi Mara this side of my mum/dad are like this sinus ooh before we meet my family walikua wanakukataa my friends wacheni walk in THAT relationship in peace and ready to build with your spouse for the sake of peace of your mind and respect
Iam not unhappy that my husband left me,im afraid he may want me back
Purity, sorry for the challenges you went through and happily surmounted them by His grace.
For a start, the reason why you are forever smiling is because, one it is your personality and secondly, it is God's purpose in your life.
It is the skill that helps you manage your daily routines. The smile helps you connect to the society.
5 months in your family home with a man you call your guy and your parents or siblings couldn't raise any issue? How were they calling him or treat him? In your parents home, you were the bread winner and still your family could tolerate all that? I am mot judging you but alerting the listeners on how to create safety nets in their life. You were young abd naive. It was not your cause purity. It is well with you. The blame is squarely on your family especially your parents.
"Simu ya mwanamme ichungulie......" Wise or unwise action? Hold there ladies.
Ladies, as much as purity is narrating her heart wrenching story with humour, please purpose to discover yourself(self-awareness) thereafter discover your values and start practicing self-care. Outside that, you will find yourself in the same predicament and even worse. Like I said, no one should judge Purity, at all but the truth and caution is important to practice safety.
Let me be candid albeit politely:
1. There is a stereotype that Luhya men are "ROMANTIC". It just that, stereotype. Did Purity lost her values totally because of one single thing-Bed gymnastics?? Fill up the gaps fans as you confirm it from her "5 months" dry spell!!
2. "...niliisha amu na wewe" Purity's guy was affected by the past experience she had on rape but because he noted she is ready to host him, pay him for his game and acted desperate, he opted to stay with her for relevance as he looked for someone that ignites him-chemistry
3. Could these rapists have damaged this innocent lady's genitalia to an extent that her grip got damaged? After the first encounter twins happened and only that made him stick in but on bed, just like the most real promiscuous Luhya guys sue was not satisfying him? But none the less the guy was an opportunistic manipulator of doom. On Purity, we can't tell what real happened. Ladies we men love three things, respect, appreciation and good "bed game". Anything else doesn't matter to a man. To a man, looks alone doesn't matter. To a man, the moment you act desperate, you are done.
4. Men hardly care less about the things they speak or do to a woman who lost her values by acting desperate. A woman that feeds a man is 90% desperate or buying his bed game or a certain fettish. By her acts, Purity unknowingly sacrificed her values totally to please a man. The only positive outcome is she is still very beautiful, honest and down to earth. She is a wife material by all intents and purposes. Purity I affirm you fully. Take heart and take your time to discover who you are. Self-awareness is very important especially to someone like you that has passed through stuff. God still loves you Purity.
5. Purity, sex is not enough. A "REAL" man must have an all-round values at different percentages. No one is perfect out here. After Self-awareness Purity, sit back, review and start practicing self-care. Forgive the Luhya man. He is still the sperm donor. Mistake is called a mistake when you repeat it. Close your legs for sometime until you go through atleast 10 counseling sessions. By the way if those twins were boys, he wouldn't have left them with you. That's their custom. Children are left with the father.
Yvonne Kawira, by the way you have from a rookie to a real professional journalist. Keep on doing the good work for God has something special to your destiny.
Ladies, when you are told the truth, take it politely and work on any tip that helps you. What found Purity can happen to any innocewoman put there. God loves all of you.
Six years paying rent and feeding a man who wunt even appreciate? Help me God hiyo nayo apanaaaa!!!
Unalipia aje mwanaume rent surely, that the last thing i can do
Smilling machine 😂😂the same name i call my daughter ❤(smilling jewel)
Wicked man
Mine is worst,imagine while in hosi..he slept with my housegirl..
Aki hii story ninzuri lkn shida haiko wazi yaani imefichwa sana alafu akuanza mwanzo
You are so strong Purity ❤ he asked you to pray for him so that his conscience will be free after everything he did to you. Wicked man... The same thing happened to me but God led me to call off the engagement after 15 months. We would’ve been married this year.
This beautiful lady, because of her problems in past, like rape, she unfortunately believed, that was the only man who could marry her, she feared out of marriage knowing she may never be married. Ladies, being raped at young age, is never your problem. Just look forward, understanding, loving, supportive( co-operative), common goal oriented. Doing those with open heart, not for fear of being left, as a cover to show that "you are also married" but for prosperity of family, and the next generation. May God bless you!
The most intelligent women are also being abused ❤
Jipende kabla upendwe
Exactly
True aki
Mm sir God anisaidie tuu but story za men nyoo😅
Dont share your past with your fiancees. They will use it against you someday.
Kabisa. I was told this by my gender and communication lecturer at the university..I didn't know what she meant. Now I know
Red frag niliasum tu God help us Hadi nikapata twins
How old? Mine niliachiwa & in high school now. Very proud of them.
And the way u a beautifuly u deceive good Mama 😊 lakini Kenya marriage naye ni scam mtu ukupenda ukiwa far na yy but if u decided to move in love fade
So am not alone ???soon I'll give my story ...but am encouraged my girl has bn sick for the last whole year,11yrs sge cant swallow any solid food.
We've taken her to hospital done all test and yet she has no problem but till now she cant swallow n si she's on and out of school ...
I think this mugiro has to do with this...woooi need help whatsoever
Waah! Pole dear 🫂 ❤ Tumia Tuko email story yako...iko hapo juu kabisa kwa 📌
A woman will give you a million chances. But siku ataamka aende. Bro she's gone for life
I ope for this day oneday
Where is the story nimeangalia sijaona
Don't see the story
She ask herself questions and answers herself again
Shes proud
Ata mimi sijaona😢😢
It's on the pinned comment. Please check
ruclips.net/video/vk_WsSH3Rs4/видео.html
Here is the first story.
@Tu
When you leave your wife she becomes more beautiful.
Tuko, to be fair, host the man too so that we can hear his side
Well said
Doormat more like, not resilience 😮
Purity why a you protecting that praise and worship 😅
😂😂.
I don't want to expose her.
Am not a bad person sha
@@CounsellingPsychologistAmani but we know her already 😹🤗
@@edwinamboyi9138 but not her identity 🙂
Ivon leo mbona haupendexi hio makeup yaleo hapana baki vile unakaaga
Hayo maisha nimeyapitia hadi nikaamua kutoka kwaito ndoa last year😢😢chenye kinaniuma alikatalia mtoto😢😢😢
Hata huyo mtoto atakurudishia ambia mungu
Mpeleke kwa children department, atakupa mtoto na ataambiwa a support mtoto
@@user-kp9ll1qu5n aki nimeomba hadi naona mungu kama ameniacha,hata hivo nitapewa huyo mtoto nimpeleke wapi?sina wazazi naeza wapelekea
@@sherineinganga9752 nikimwambia naenda kumshitaki ananiambia haogopi nadani mi ninani,so niliamua kumuachia
Pole sana❤❤
Other men will always be men
kafupi na umecheza tu chini haki.
This chick missed the point, she needs to do research on narcissistic abuse else she will get into another one. Saying men don’t tell your wives uneisha hamu na yeye….that’s textbook narcissist move to destroy your self esteem…saying he had not moved on from the ex, chances are very high the ex dumped him initially he was love bombing her and and when she dumped him, he was hovering her….she still takes responsibility for things that had nothing to do with her but manipulative tactics..
Again, women don't baby sit men!
Do not financially provide for a man, unless it is an emergency, job loss.
If a man cannot pay rent for a year plus, sasa what is he good for? Noooo
Sorry you had to go through all that at your cost, and at the hands of a broken man.
Purity you mean you are talking about Edward Cole? Whue. So sorry mamaa
Huyu mdem ni mkora, most of the things anasema ni uongo, I know her plus the habby. I can tell you for free huyu dem anapenda kuonewa huruma, na kulialia kila mara. She is an attention sicker. Am sure amekuja huku ndio watu wamwone huruma ety anateswa
It's her story, you can give yours
Yvonne that style inakuzeesha, you are looking like a rika ya kina musila na you are just 30
I agree
Respect other people. Stop mentioning people who don't even think of you.