Claire Exposes Rob Abusing Sophie | 90 Day Fiancé

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

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  • @jpi8833
    @jpi8833 6 месяцев назад +150

    That doggy knew she was in distress she kept going to her to comfort her hope she takes the pup with her when she leaves his ass

    • @butterflyblue7761
      @butterflyblue7761 6 месяцев назад +15

      It was his dog. Part of the reason he was living in the garage apartment at that time. They allowed him to have the dog. Unfortunately, she probably won't get to take. I feel sorry for the dog because Rob is......😢

    • @jpi8833
      @jpi8833 6 месяцев назад +9

      @@butterflyblue7761 ohh no 😭 i really hope he treats the dog better than he does her

    • @butterflyblue7761
      @butterflyblue7761 6 месяцев назад +9

      @@jpi8833 I know. It looks like a sweet dog. It does look like it's fed. Poor baby dog!

    • @michelleallred8521
      @michelleallred8521 6 месяцев назад +4

      Sadly that was his dog before they met

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@butterflyblue7761 Worry that he might harm the dog. That is sad.

  • @Bee-if5be
    @Bee-if5be 6 месяцев назад +240

    You know he’s in the wrong when the dog is comforting her instead

    • @TheMaltebella
      @TheMaltebella 6 месяцев назад +11

      Yup!

    • @monejohn9973
      @monejohn9973 6 месяцев назад +15

      Unfortunately I guarantee he talks to the dog the same exact way,Even his sister, that time they were on the show at the arcade.Got nervous and you can tell.She was worried about him going father with his anger.

    • @butterflyblue7761
      @butterflyblue7761 6 месяцев назад +15

      Poor baby dog was hiding in the closet with her.

    • @thechannelofself
      @thechannelofself 5 месяцев назад +5

      This is soooooo triggering

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад +2

      Dogs are great. Dogs are very caring, compassionate, perceptive and protective of their humans.

  • @barbaramarkham4736
    @barbaramarkham4736 6 месяцев назад +80

    Madzie, I used to run a Transition house for Women & Children ( DV ). I think Sophie recorded this for proof of his ab--. The reasons women stay is fear and or money ( lack of ) .
    DV is very complicated. Rob behaviour is horrifying. You are right, it is always based on childhood trauma. We had hundreds of clients. Sophie needs help and therapy to leave him. I also personally went through DV twice. It’s frightening. Thank you Madzie.

    • @cindyrodriguez456
      @cindyrodriguez456 6 месяцев назад +13

      I stayed at a women's abuse shelter. Thank you for the work you do. It is appreciated

    • @120letsgo3
      @120letsgo3 6 месяцев назад +14

      She definatley did! Shes scared of him.. when U start recording for proof then u are scared for ur life.. my sister did this before her husband murdered her

    • @barbaramarkham4736
      @barbaramarkham4736 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@cindyrodriguez456 Thank you so much. Bless your heart, you made my day. ♥️

    • @barbaramarkham4736
      @barbaramarkham4736 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@120letsgo3 I am deeply sorry for your heartbreaking loss. I send you love. 💕

    • @movingmad.
      @movingmad.  6 месяцев назад +6

      I'm glad you found the strength to escape being in DV relationships.

  • @MsSweetoothj
    @MsSweetoothj 6 месяцев назад +76

    This makes me think about that scene when Claire came to their first place and Rob started going off and she quickly stood in front of Sophie like a shield, I felt then he was low key abusive but this was horrible and unsettling to watch. I hope she really did get away from him 😕

  • @hannahdyson9963
    @hannahdyson9963 6 месяцев назад +138

    I'm not surprised. It's not out of the question for me after seeing how insecure this man is and how he treats her on camera.

    • @rjay3212
      @rjay3212 6 месяцев назад +5

      Agreed!

    • @shugaslimm1151
      @shugaslimm1151 6 месяцев назад +2

      Not surprised at all, he gave so many red flags and they all pointed to this

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад

      He doesn't seem to have a real job or any money. He seems spoiled, intolerant, lazy, and abusive. Sophie is from a wealthy London family. Sophie can do better.

  • @Shantz-rw1xi
    @Shantz-rw1xi 6 месяцев назад +120

    He counts toilet paper sheets, no surprises that he wants to take Sophies phone...he in all likelihood was abusive prior to marriage and yet she went on to marry him. He is a vile individual Sophir can do soooo much better.

    • @mpannett1
      @mpannett1 6 месяцев назад +8

      My ex started to count toilet paper sheets. He became physically abusive in the end. She needs to get to safety. Rebecca xx

    • @Shantz-rw1xi
      @Shantz-rw1xi 6 месяцев назад +8

      @@mpannett1 Wow, Im sorry you had to go through that I am glad he is your ex now :-)

    • @monejohn9973
      @monejohn9973 6 месяцев назад +6

      Actually Before she came to America they were on a phone relationship.It's hard to tell how abusive somebody is through the phone.It's different when you actually live with the person duh!

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@monejohn9973I believe they also took trips together like the one to/in Mexico. Remember there was the fight on who paid for it when they were living there for a month or so?

    • @ArnoldZiffle-jw2mv
      @ArnoldZiffle-jw2mv 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@isabellancali5388her Mom paid their rent & maybe more he pretended he didn’t know but he knew he didn’t pay.

  • @amadapedro9147
    @amadapedro9147 6 месяцев назад +238

    Well, that answers everyone's question. How was it that Rob is a good-looking guy and he was still single at 36 years old?

    • @Grannysbaby81
      @Grannysbaby81 6 месяцев назад +46

      He's good looking?? 🧐

    • @JD-nw2qj
      @JD-nw2qj 6 месяцев назад +6

      EXACTLY!!!

    • @Hhej927
      @Hhej927 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@Grannysbaby81🤣😭

    • @alessandrajackson3768
      @alessandrajackson3768 6 месяцев назад +1

      I personally don’t think he is good looking. But there is something deeply wrong with a man who is 36 years old, lives in a shed with no bathroom, can’t maintain a job, has a porn addiction, and chases a young woman he met on social media.

    • @carolhenny2790
      @carolhenny2790 6 месяцев назад +3

      Exactly!!

  • @Annettekinder
    @Annettekinder 6 месяцев назад +58

    She recorded it.....I think...because she wants proof of his gaslighting and verbal abuse. To show his character.

    • @Ericasentertainments
      @Ericasentertainments 6 месяцев назад +5

      But One can look at Sophie and wonder why is she recording him ?and is she gaslighting him prior to recording him?

    • @rachelc.2185
      @rachelc.2185 6 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@Ericasentertainments that definitely can happen but we've all watched enough of Rob to know he's very controlling at the very least

    • @catrinacrystallina
      @catrinacrystallina 6 месяцев назад +6

      Could also be self preservation if something happens to her. There's proof of him doing this. He's repeatedly threatening physical violence towards her in this video. He hasn't laid hands on her as of this video. He will lay hands on her eventually. This is what these incidents look like until eventually they lead to physical assault.

    • @catrinacrystallina
      @catrinacrystallina 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@Ericasentertainmentsgirl, she is not. She isn't really saying anything in this video like Mary did to Brandan.

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 5 месяцев назад +1

      NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) typically record things out of contexts, to then afterwards controll the narrative and play the victim.
      They never record the INSTIGATION-phase that they usually do!.
      And they never record their own toxic quarells and abusive behaviours.
      Experienced how manipulative covert NPD can become.
      Its seldom how the public see it (especially when the recording has been taken by the controlling of the recording).
      So we should never be so quick to judge based on edited recordings.

  • @jcsreader
    @jcsreader 6 месяцев назад +51

    Based on this video alone I hope they do not come back. This is abusive.

  • @bthomas1851
    @bthomas1851 6 месяцев назад +39

    A lot of abuse victims record as evidence of the abuse sometimes for themselves and sometimes for other people. Abusers will flip your words or pretend that they aren’t that bad so sometimes an abused person will record to remind themselves of what happen or to validate themselves…it’s really sad

    • @theresahudson6922
      @theresahudson6922 6 месяцев назад +2

      Hell yeah I was abused for 10 years and then he wanted to abuse the kids I got the hell outa there Run Sophie she never looks happy

  • @cindyrodriguez456
    @cindyrodriguez456 6 месяцев назад +85

    Wow this triggered me I was in a abusive relationship and I remember my dog comforting me and me comforting my dog the last time my ex hit my dog then came to hit me .my poor dog ran and hid . I felt so awful and thought my dog didn't deserve this . Then the little voice in my head said " you don't deserve this either.' I waited till my ex fell asleep and me and my dog left.
    I tell my story because NO ONE female or male pets kids deserves to be abused . Get help you deserve better.

    • @simsynergy8460
      @simsynergy8460 6 месяцев назад +12

      My dog helped me too. I remember one time the screaming and yelling was so bad that even the dogs were scared of my ex and ran away from him. Now my dog is my service dog helping me with PTSD from that relationship. Glad you got out!

    • @danasandoval624
      @danasandoval624 6 месяцев назад +8

      I’m glad you left & took the dog. Never let yourself be in a relationship like that again. Good luck.

    • @cindyrodriguez456
      @cindyrodriguez456 6 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@simsynergy8460. That's the same with my dog now !! ☺️ Yes I'm doing so much better. I hope your healing too ! 🙏

    • @cindyrodriguez456
      @cindyrodriguez456 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@danasandoval624No never ever 😊

    • @michelleallred8521
      @michelleallred8521 6 месяцев назад +3

      And the thing is, the dog is comforting Sophie, but it was Robs dog before they met

  • @yamnjam
    @yamnjam 6 месяцев назад +72

    She needs real proof he mistreats and abuses her for the divorce. Otherwise, it'd just be her word against his. Rob obviously thinks he does no wrong and everything is Sophie's fault. He gets off on debasing her and making her cry and grovel. Horrible guy.

    • @trishc90210
      @trishc90210 6 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly!!! And if she doesn't use for divorce she may want to show him his behavior if he claims she's the problem

    • @agangstersparadise1
      @agangstersparadise1 6 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@trishc90210I guarantee that will do absolutely nothing. If you've ever been with an abusive partner you'll know that they do not care whatsoever.

    • @pj2192
      @pj2192 6 месяцев назад

      Texas is a no fault state, and if one wants a divorce, it’s a done deal 👏

    • @MsUchenna12
      @MsUchenna12 5 месяцев назад

      @@agangstersparadise1 only care when u are dead

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад +1

      She has taped him saying terrible things to her. He has also threatened her with lethal violence. That is grounds. In most states, it is easy to get a divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences.

  • @rosamenendez3157
    @rosamenendez3157 6 месяцев назад +70

    He shouldn’t be allowed back on the show. This is not ok.

    • @vblackwell3347
      @vblackwell3347 6 месяцев назад

      Neither of them should be on TLC. They're incompetent bores w/ no acting skills - which is a TLC requirement.

    • @sammyg4159
      @sammyg4159 5 месяцев назад

      I agree. Why TLC allows these abusers to keep getting air time is beyond me. Infuriating

    • @LindaBabby
      @LindaBabby 5 месяцев назад +2

      Is Angela his mom???😂

  • @tiaremorales3187
    @tiaremorales3187 6 месяцев назад +50

    Nobody should ever talk to ANYONE like that. There is no excuse. DISGUSTING!

  • @rachelcrawford8458
    @rachelcrawford8458 6 месяцев назад +124

    I could see it on him from day one. Punk needs to be set straight

    • @Harleyy18
      @Harleyy18 6 месяцев назад +2

      Real af

    • @Gothicccchick
      @Gothicccchick 6 месяцев назад +3

      Havin been around abusers… Same. From the start I was waiting . So sad he confirmed our thoughts. 😔

    • @RRoss5035
      @RRoss5035 6 месяцев назад +5

      Bet he don't got that same energy with a man.

    • @rachelcrawford8458
      @rachelcrawford8458 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@RRoss5035 oh absolutely not, he is a coward through and through

    • @Hobasjoy
      @Hobasjoy 5 месяцев назад

      I could see it from day one too. There is no way I would have even dated this guy. Good looking but that’s it….😡

  • @catsme0w0w
    @catsme0w0w 6 месяцев назад +36

    And the poor dog trying to comfort her, probably frightened as well.... This brings me to tears. Seeing this shocks me but also doesn't. He is a vile, broken human being if you can call him that. I'm glad this has come to light. He better watch himself now that this is out . Someone may come along and rock his shit

  • @marissajoseph5638
    @marissajoseph5638 6 месяцев назад +154

    WTF??!! Sophie may be wishy-washy about their relationship but NO ONE deserves a verbal/physical beatdown like this. Why doesn't she leave? She has choices and doesn't use them.

    • @mommav0107
      @mommav0107 6 месяцев назад +14

      Because it’s more important to get the visa then anything else

    • @bthomas1851
      @bthomas1851 6 месяцев назад +22

      How about mental health issues that abused people suffer from. It’s so disgusting how you internet people dehumanize foreigners

    • @120letsgo3
      @120letsgo3 6 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@mommav0107 I wouldnt think so.. shes left him in the past. And she probably has her 2 year greencard by now, she can file for Vawa and get her permanent by spousal abuse

    • @davicool4284
      @davicool4284 6 месяцев назад

      Sophie is in it for the TLC clout. She can't be that dumb. Is that wig cutting off circulation to her brain?

    • @janehyden1652
      @janehyden1652 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@bthomas1851 wth are you talking about

  • @melt2947
    @melt2947 5 месяцев назад +13

    Destroying someone’s personal property is considered DV. He was definitely threatening her, too. I feel so bad for her

  • @lucybridle2375
    @lucybridle2375 6 месяцев назад +31

    If I saw either of my daughters being treated this way. I would definitely want to step in! Then again, I'm very protective of them.

  • @butterflyblue7761
    @butterflyblue7761 6 месяцев назад +35

    Sophie wasn't trying to trap anybody. Sophie had the camera in case he hurt her. You're more likely to be killed by your spouse or someone you know.
    She wanted her mom and friends to know if she ended up in a ditch somewhere who did it.

    • @Sally-vlado.mitchell
      @Sally-vlado.mitchell 6 месяцев назад

      What you're saying is very true but I have one problem if you are married and you think your your husband wants to kill you and you need proof to show to family the first time you thought that way you should have left that day

    • @butterflyblue7761
      @butterflyblue7761 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@Sally-vlado.mitchell That has nothing to do the price of tea in China. The issue was motive for recording.

  • @trishc90210
    @trishc90210 6 месяцев назад +25

    People don't understand that there are people that flip out without being pushed. They find a reason to be abusive an are total Jekyll and Hyde and the other person doesn't even know what triggered it. One minute everything can be fine and the next the abuser is flipping out

    • @michelleallred8521
      @michelleallred8521 6 месяцев назад

      Could be bipolar or borderline personality disorder. My husband of 29yrs would explode like that all the time. And if he got mad at anything, better not get in his way. This gave me PTSD triggers

    • @Divinemivida
      @Divinemivida Месяц назад

      ​@@michelleallred8521He was very calculating though. His cheating and humiliating is part of the narc package. When she walked off and robbed him off the emotional abuse opportunity the day he came to break up followed by the friend solid as a rock stepping out and handling bznz his body language spoke clear.

  • @Xoxoovenus
    @Xoxoovenus 6 месяцев назад +168

    Rob is officially CANCELLED 😡

    • @mommav0107
      @mommav0107 6 месяцев назад +10

      Seriously! BOY BYE

    • @sarahd.787
      @sarahd.787 6 месяцев назад +8

      Don’t forget it’s been completely set up to be one sided.. by Sophie’s mom ok. You don’t know what she did to him or said to him. She’s a complete user n liar n I need to see the entire video not just her moms cut

    • @Xoxoovenus
      @Xoxoovenus 6 месяцев назад +11

      @@sarahd.787 it’s called managing your emotions. 100% that video is one sided but an adult should be able to keep their emotions in check and not be aggressive towards others.

    • @oltskooler
      @oltskooler 6 месяцев назад

      You probably an abusive person yourself who tells people to get over their emotions ​@@Xoxoovenus

    • @cindyrodriguez456
      @cindyrodriguez456 6 месяцев назад

      God I hope so

  • @melaniewantsabeer243
    @melaniewantsabeer243 6 месяцев назад +54

    She was scared and that's why she recorded it So Sad

  • @michelleroman9829
    @michelleroman9829 6 месяцев назад +122

    I knew from the start he is horrible. He needs therapy.

    • @wmverk
      @wmverk 6 месяцев назад

      Therapy won't fix this broken douchebag. He needs to be alone.

    • @tiaremorales3187
      @tiaremorales3187 6 месяцев назад +3

      They both need therapy. Separately.

    • @cheryicarter7026
      @cheryicarter7026 6 месяцев назад

      He needs to be Fired for saying the N word and threatening to kick her Ass,TLC fire him now!!!!!!,

    • @Humphrees
      @Humphrees 6 месяцев назад +4

      Yesss! I dated a guy just like rob and the moment he was introduced to us in 90 day my skin was crawling. I could feeeeeel what a sicko he was, I have to fast forward most of their scenes, far to much to watch when you lived it

    • @Christine-ef8wl
      @Christine-ef8wl 6 месяцев назад +1

      Me too

  • @BrendaShimer-b9l
    @BrendaShimer-b9l 6 месяцев назад +7

    THAT'S ENOUGH!!!!!!
    THAT IS HORRIBLE TO HEAR!!! PLEASE TLC PROTECT HER FROM THIS ABUSE!+++NO ONE SHOULD EVER HAVE TO LIVE IN THIS ENVIRONMENT EVER!!!!!!!😢😢

  • @ReeseCarda
    @ReeseCarda 5 месяцев назад +5

    It’s not just “disrespect” it’s clearly abusive.

  • @lesliemergenthal75
    @lesliemergenthal75 6 месяцев назад +48

    I can't believe its taken this long for him to show his true colors. There is no excuse for this verbal assault. He has aggression and he is manipulative. He thinks he is entitled to speak to his wife like that? He thinks she will stay with him in the manic world he lives in? Her mom knew his colors the instant she met him. I hope she rescues her daughter before he REALLY hurt her.🤬 Run Sophie run!

    • @slonecznikdoniczkowy
      @slonecznikdoniczkowy 6 месяцев назад +8

      I'm pretty sure that's not his first time. Many times women tend to hide their loved ones from their moms and friends judgement, hoping for changes. Unfortunately, it never gets better, but much worst.

    • @catrinacrystallina
      @catrinacrystallina 6 месяцев назад

      He was showing them on the screen as well. You could see his stank attitude on screen. I'm more surprised it took this long for solid proof of what a POS he is.

    • @eunicestone6532
      @eunicestone6532 6 месяцев назад +1

      All for a green card.

  • @BrittonMorgan-pl9ik
    @BrittonMorgan-pl9ik 6 месяцев назад +21

    Doesn't Suprise me the whole 90 day franchise should be canceled 😮😮😮😮😮

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад

      Toxic narcissist's central.

  • @robertabetts
    @robertabetts 6 месяцев назад +37

    Geez Rob is brutal, horrible......I understand the anger, but he is an unfair fighter....your right Mad WALK AWAY!

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад +1

      She should stay away no matter how much he begs and pleads for her to come back and no matter how much he promises to change. Abusers never change.

  • @CraftyCapsWildPrints
    @CraftyCapsWildPrints 6 месяцев назад +25

    I already knew how Rob was before all these videos. You can just tell in his eyes

    • @widget0028
      @widget0028 6 месяцев назад +1

      His whole pissy little face

  • @hannalengeling3362
    @hannalengeling3362 6 месяцев назад +39

    Rob obviously hates himself. No one with self respect can treat another person like that.

    • @MonicaJones-wh4lj
      @MonicaJones-wh4lj 6 месяцев назад +1

      Facts. I would have to do something and it wouldn't be posting videos/conversations.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад

      He is apparently a punk-ass, lazy, loser, user, and abuser type. He does not seem to have a real job or any money. He has serious anger management problems and narcissistic rage that could escalate into physical violence or worse. He has threatened her with lethal violence. Why is she still with him?

  • @Leratoreigns
    @Leratoreigns 5 месяцев назад +6

    I'm not surprised at all. He was toxic from the beginning of the show

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад

      He is a good looking shit head. Good looks are not worth being abused. Beauty is only skin deep.

  • @lalalove4u778
    @lalalove4u778 6 месяцев назад +17

    He has always had those tendencies....I felt that from the start...Rob is a undercover ABUSER... SOPHIE RUN, Robs next step is to put hands on her. I've been there in my relationship...Rob is a abuser, SOPHIE says she feels UNSAFE, That's HER INSTINCTS , GIRL LEAVE!

    • @jacquiandp-dog7755
      @jacquiandp-dog7755 6 месяцев назад +2

      Same! that first fight they had last season where she was upset about him cheating yet he was the one raging at her - that red abuser flag was waving above his head for all to see. But Sophie being young and naive - just became his punching bag.

    • @rains5
      @rains5 5 месяцев назад

      Can only imagine when the season is over and they don't expect production team to return.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад

      Domestic abusers only get worse. She should leave before it is too late.

  • @michelleallred8521
    @michelleallred8521 6 месяцев назад +9

    If ANY man EVER talked to or treated my daughter like that, he'd need a dentist & maybe an ER. And id have to get to him before her big brother did

  • @diva9889
    @diva9889 6 месяцев назад +38

    Wow!!!! He showed his true self He is a Knob!!!

  • @lucybridle2375
    @lucybridle2375 6 месяцев назад +11

    I was severely mentally emotionally and physically abused growing up. The physical scars healed, The emotional scars well I'll have to let you know when they're completely healed.
    They are all bad, but the mental scars Take much longer to heal.

    • @cindyrodriguez456
      @cindyrodriguez456 6 месяцев назад

      Stay strong. You a survivor. 🙏

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад

      Sometimes old wounds never completely heal and victims must go on anyway. You can recover, survive, be happy, and thrive. You can for your own sake forgive. However, you might not ever completely forget.

  • @diva9889
    @diva9889 6 месяцев назад +18

    Sophie should run!!!

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely. Sometimes love is just not enough. He seems to hate her for loving him. He is toxic. Sophie needs to run.

  • @meenachadha3766
    @meenachadha3766 5 месяцев назад +4

    I dont understand why TLC enables him, sopie can show these to the police and have his butt arrested

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад +1

      She needs to record and document everything.

  • @lucybridle2375
    @lucybridle2375 6 месяцев назад +15

    Rob is being very threatening with his statements! I hope she got away from him!

  • @shahnjaylaconnors1476
    @shahnjaylaconnors1476 6 месяцев назад +8

    I had a feeling Rob is like this one-on-one. I could tell by hiw he acted in front of others.

    • @Divinemivida
      @Divinemivida Месяц назад

      Always telling his side of the stories to his friends to make her look bad, leaving out his narcissistic behaviors like himself seeking prostitutes online among other classics. He literally checked all the boxes, I wish all was aware enough about this personality disorder. Could save alot of lives.

  • @caseycomp
    @caseycomp 5 месяцев назад +2

    Abused ppl are often afraid they won't be believed, that's why she's recording. She stated she doesn't feel safe. Watching Rob from day 1 was hard bc he reminds me of my ex who abused me very badly. His entire demeanor and thought process is just like my abusive ex. She could do everything right and he'd find something to fight about.

  • @mjc42701
    @mjc42701 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for talking about this, I did think there was more to this than TLC was showing.

  • @Carol-u1k
    @Carol-u1k 6 месяцев назад +7

    Abusive guys look at their wives as property. He’s threatening if he was…… he is abusive, means he knows he has put fear in her even the dog knows what’s happening. Obviously even the dog known this normal daily behaviour from his master. Get into some therapy Sofie, leave and treat yourself like a new born baby, never let another grown man put fear in-you. Protect innocence.

    • @ganymeade5151
      @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад

      Leave Rob for good. Report him for animal cruelty. Someone who mistreats animals will mistreat humans.

  • @Grannysbaby81
    @Grannysbaby81 6 месяцев назад +7

    1:09 He thinks he's gangsta , huh??!! Hahahaha he is a clown! He definitely wouldn't be talking to a Sistah like that ... GUARANTEED. POOR Sofi
    Go get you a girlfriend!!!

  • @tonntonns16
    @tonntonns16 5 месяцев назад +1

    I had a dream last night and they randomly popped up. It wasn't the exact words Rob spoke, but the same verbal abuse and hatred and Sophie crying presented itself in the dream. I woke up confused and hurting for Sophie and just the need to pray.

  • @hellekimery9537
    @hellekimery9537 5 месяцев назад +1

    I married a Rob, a huge mistake and it only got worse till I managed to escape with my kids! Anger issues is no joke !

  • @donnarod
    @donnarod 6 месяцев назад +1

    She needs to get away from him. It's hard for a parent to see this happen, and you can't do anything. 😢 Abuse is abuse no matter if it's physical or mental. 😢

  • @NekoArts
    @NekoArts 6 месяцев назад +2

    I'm normally very sceptical of people secretly recording their spouse in an abusive moment because like you said; it could be a setup. My abusive ex used to do the same thing to me. I caught him once (I to this day have no idea how many times he did it) because the camera on his phone made a "ping" when he turned it on. Prior to that, he had spent hours tormenting me until I ended up having a nervous breakdown, at which point he excused himself, went and got his phone (which is when I heard the "ping") and came back into the room completely calm and collected and said "Please, continue". When I asked him why he would try to record me, he just smirked and said that he needed it in case I didn't behave myself down the line. I still get chills just thinking about it. Personally, I would have never dared to secretly record him like that because I knew how absolutely dangerous it would be if he found out that I had.
    Now, all of that said, it's different with Sophie and I do believe that she's the victim in the situation here and it's for a very simple reason; he acts the same way even when he knows that he's being recorded (like on the show). Sure, maybe he tones it down a little for the show (unless they cut the especially bad parts out), but there is no doubt that there's something very wrong with him when you watch the show. It frankly amazes me how there are people out there defending him and blaming Sophie's mom for their problems.
    I also want to add that we don't know if he has physically abused her at this point. Just because it's not on video doesn't mean that it hasn't happened. Judging by the dog's reaction to his screaming, it wouldn't surprise me if he has previously lashed out physically as well, either towards her, the dog or someone/something else. That dog is terrified.

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 5 месяцев назад

      Yes one of the classic personality traits of a Narcissists (NPD) is to instigate drama endlessly.... until you eventually snap. Then offcourse they have preplanned that, so to use your response out of context, against you.
      Such people are EXTREMLY dangerous for your health, economy, career, etc.
      Because you will get emotionally drained, ecobomicly often ruined, and they may be so manipulative and malicious that they try to destroy your jobsituation and put friends and family agaibst you.
      Hate when people are soo easily fooled, and public behave too much like sheep mobsters (just trusting surface illusions and attacking victims).
      Like flying monkeys doing the narcissist on behalf of the narcissist. Eithout the flying monkeys even understanding how much theyve been manipulated.

  • @maryB1142
    @maryB1142 6 месяцев назад +6

    What’s with all the abusers on this show? Come on, screen people.

  • @monejohn9973
    @monejohn9973 6 месяцев назад +3

    Correction The only reason why he's not putting his hands-on her is because they are on TV.That is literally the only reason!

  • @eel4242
    @eel4242 6 месяцев назад +2

    When you’re in an abusive relationship, you don’t see it coming but your self worth gets worse and worse until you feel like nothing

  • @geminidreamz6704
    @geminidreamz6704 6 месяцев назад +3

    He doesn't love her, hell it doesn't even sound like he likes her. Girl GET OUT and go live your life because you are truly 'Sleeping with the enemy '!!

  • @BelindaVanHeerden-h4c
    @BelindaVanHeerden-h4c 6 месяцев назад +9

    Rob does not own Sophie just because they are married. What is she staying with him for?? Surely she is stronger than that...walk away Sophie.. no woman deserves to be treated like this...

    • @vblackwell3347
      @vblackwell3347 6 месяцев назад

      Um, Sophi was gone for 2 mos. Rob didn't drag her back by the hair of her head. Oh, that's right - it's a wig. She visited him briefly, a couple times & safely left when she was ready. This is an act for TLC "entertainment". Sophi's quite safe & doing fine. 😅

  • @ganymeade5151
    @ganymeade5151 5 месяцев назад

    Great video with good advice. Don't stay with someone who makes you feel bad about yourself or who deeply harms your self esteem.

  • @JD-nw2qj
    @JD-nw2qj 6 месяцев назад +15

    I knew he had some underlying control and anger issues!! Total Narcissist!! 😖Now he is really EXPOSED!!! I would not be surprised if he has already put hands on her! 😡 Please Sophie GET AWAY from him! hope her mum convinces her to come back home!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 5 месяцев назад

      Thats not how real narcissists behave.

  • @TroyElvrum-wq7mo
    @TroyElvrum-wq7mo 6 месяцев назад +1

    When people are at there Witt’s end un a horrible argument. They say things they wish they could take back. Everything he said was “if”. She’s known to push serious buttons. Not that I defend him talking to her like that. Sophie’s mom needs to but the f out of there relationship. She’s toxic AF. WHAT BROUGHT HIM TO BE THAT ANGRY.

  • @traetonmcglohon4563
    @traetonmcglohon4563 6 месяцев назад +4

    Unpopular opinion here , but gaslighting and recording someone in the middle of an argument is unfair. We need full context. We have no idea what she did or said prior to this.

    • @melt2947
      @melt2947 5 месяцев назад

      Did you not hear threats? There’s no context for that

  • @barbmoore6587
    @barbmoore6587 6 месяцев назад +6

    Rob😂 the knob...under bite shitzu teeth ...😂😂

  • @aliciamizzlopezlopez6474
    @aliciamizzlopezlopez6474 6 месяцев назад +1

    I always felt Sophie's mom was absolutely correct to voice her concerns while the majority of viewers EVEN YOU MADZIE... called Claire "nosy" and basically blamed her for causing problems between the 2. They already had their own problems and it had nothing to do with the mother and NO SHE NEVER LISTENED TO HER MOTHER DESPITE EVERYONE SAYING SO... because it's that were true sophie would have never married him in the first place, and/or would have left him long ago. Not only that... the majority of viewers also agreed with rob when he said she needed to be home with him to work on their problems together, NO ONE SHOULD have to deal with this type of abuse and disrespect... she was absolutely correct to leave their home for 2 months if she did not feel safe. I also feel she "needed" to record some of his abusive outbursts because if you have watched the show, rob is a liar, gaslighter, refuses to take any accountability for anything he does. He cannot handle even the smallest negative critique and will defend himself by simply denying it... and blaming it all somehow on sophie.

  • @robinembry4259
    @robinembry4259 6 месяцев назад +5

    How was he able to get approved for a visa for her?

  • @lucybridle2375
    @lucybridle2375 6 месяцев назад +4

    I totally understand what you mean.By people recording their arguments. That has always left a bad taste in my mouth. But I think in this case this is genuinely who he is.

  • @dorcaskerr6384
    @dorcaskerr6384 6 месяцев назад +5

    You are always on top of news coming in. It was very disgusting how.hard Rob bullied Sophie. She is a very young woman and I'm sure its emotionally scary when a man you trust turns on you. The putdowns were awful. No o e need to ever hear that. i am do glad she left him & I hope this video scares others off of him. I suspected he was an insecure man who would put her down so she didnt think she was too good for him & that's exactly what he was doing behind the scenes. Very sad that a young person like Sophie ends up saddled with a divorce in her history before even reaching age of 25. People shouldnt marry in 90 days unless they've at least lived in the same place together long enough to really see how they act under stress.

    • @catrinacrystallina
      @catrinacrystallina 6 месяцев назад

      The 90 days is just to get married but theoretically they're already engaged and should be finishing the wedding/honeymoon details once the foreign spouse arrives in the US.

  • @leelee7334
    @leelee7334 6 месяцев назад +1

    I think he’s been setup. I think she isn’t clean. She can call her mom and leave as we saw she went to leave with someone else. She is not trapped at all. There are people who really have this problem.

  • @isaidwhatisaidsis
    @isaidwhatisaidsis 5 месяцев назад +1

    Rob needs to just send her home. She only wanted the green card. She’s going to show this video and say she was abused so she can stay in the states. Rob needs anger management. The mom needs to leave Sophie alone and get her own life.

  • @janiscreatesjohnson6630
    @janiscreatesjohnson6630 6 месяцев назад +5

    Rob needs charges and fines big time !TLC needs to see this and cancel everything to deal with him. She should have never married this Narcissist! EXPOSE HIM

  • @harrietyounger6118
    @harrietyounger6118 6 месяцев назад +7

    Wow. Threats of violence, destruction of property and the n word. Noone sounds good in an argument but as a survivor I can tell you there are some huge red flags with what he is saying. It was cold fury. I'm done with 90days they are toxic relationships. Abusive people using the power they have over a partner to make them submit to their will and then they say oh they used me for a green card.
    I can tell you if he does that when he knows he is being filmed is scary. What does he do behind closed doors.

  • @gemmabennett1130
    @gemmabennett1130 5 месяцев назад +1

    Just watched Sophie and Rob in the lingerie shop, OMG this woman who acts like a spoiled little girl the whole time who takes no responsibility for the way she acts. Beauty comes from the inside that's all I'm going to say.

  • @ladytea697
    @ladytea697 6 месяцев назад +2

    I agree with you Sophie needs to take some accountability because why does she keep going back? She had moved out. This is how people get killed. Continually playing with nut jobs. She had all the signs and information before she married him. I hope she wakes up.

  • @marlenebryant4250
    @marlenebryant4250 6 месяцев назад +11

    I have been a fan of Clair from day one! She spoke the truth about Rob, and many did not like her opinion of him. Now you know. 😱

    • @carolhenny2790
      @carolhenny2790 6 месяцев назад +2

      Agree!

    • @maddiefromthevineyard
      @maddiefromthevineyard 6 месяцев назад +1

      Same! I have always been on Clair's side cause I know she, as a mother, is only concerned for her daughter. I know Clair had her addiction issues, but you can tell from her interactions she truly loves her daughter and wants her to escape the abusive POS knob.

    • @catrinacrystallina
      @catrinacrystallina 6 месяцев назад +1

      Agree. I did not and still do not understand the hate. I don't care about her delivery, nothing she said was wrong.

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 5 месяцев назад

      This aged horrible.
      Just research about Claire.
      Thats where Sophie got all her problems from.
      Claire has obvious mentall illness(es).
      You can google/search about her, and you should find some surface information.
      It rubs much deeper then just surface level.
      Claire even threatened to kill Sophie. What mentally sane mother would threatened to kill her own daughter?.

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 5 месяцев назад

      ​@maddiefromthevineyard peoplw who has experienced NPD abuse, can see that there is something off with her mother.
      She definitly does not pass the vibe check.

  • @prettyhollypolly7553
    @prettyhollypolly7553 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is heartbreaking. The way TLC tried to paint her as the spoilt little rich girl is so bad. 😢 Poor sweetie.

  • @happysky7964
    @happysky7964 6 месяцев назад +1

    I think he’s mad because she kept leaving. And he feels used. So he’s like, ok I’m taking all your stuff away then if you’re not even gonna live with me and be my wife. Which would make sense. I’ve been in love , and when you’re in love, the guy doesn’t react like this. When you’re not in love, it shows, and the guy can tell and the guy feels used and starts taking his stuff back.

  • @cookiewoo9693
    @cookiewoo9693 5 месяцев назад +1

    These 2 here....come on...not going to work..obviously ****... I'm sick of these two...Stevie Wonder could see these two will never work out .....end it already...

  • @baileykokay
    @baileykokay 6 месяцев назад +2

    No one deserves abuse; and this is sad: this is just sad all around. I’m sad for Sophie; I’m especially sad for Sophie’s mom; I mean it will only get worse and that’s just the plain truth. I mean you’re right that there is absolutely no love there as well as no respect. I’m so mad at tlc. Always have been.

  • @EnergyPlusAbundance
    @EnergyPlusAbundance 6 месяцев назад +1

    YOOOOOOO THIS IS GONNA TREND!! YUP- ITS OFFICIAL as a mother i would too, TLC needs to step in

  • @reena808
    @reena808 6 месяцев назад +3

    I already knew unfortunately. I got this vibe from him & I only know because I'm a survivor myself...watching him triggers me big time... I can only watch recaps of 90day because its so triggering 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ TLC sucks...

  • @lucillekonupka5072
    @lucillekonupka5072 6 месяцев назад +1

    That is terrible!!! He scared me just listening to him

  • @dannquan7696
    @dannquan7696 6 месяцев назад +3

    Getto mentality 😂

    • @KamalasNotLikeUs
      @KamalasNotLikeUs 2 месяца назад

      Ghetto? He's from the Midwest, and his mom is not "getto."

  • @Inspo-gr3rb
    @Inspo-gr3rb 6 месяцев назад

    Very well said, and very helpful advice :)

  • @princessleia3346
    @princessleia3346 5 месяцев назад

    The narcissism exuding out of Rob the Knob is nauseating even through this phone screen

  • @isisr2985
    @isisr2985 6 месяцев назад +1

    Claire was booked yesterday.

  • @sharonsugarsmith1267
    @sharonsugarsmith1267 6 месяцев назад +9

    A lot of women don't leave is because they are afraid of them.
    A friend of mine, was so afraid of her husband.
    He took the birth control pill and would not let her get her tubes tired. They had 4 stair step babies.
    He ended up killing her in front of the kids.
    They oldest child a girl 6 asked are they going to have a funeral for my mommy.
    This was in the 80's he served 5 yrs.

    • @Cis.Aa.ishah.isatou
      @Cis.Aa.ishah.isatou 6 месяцев назад +2

      You are so wright and Sorry for your loss 🤲🏽
      I am on the run for 18 years, my kids are finally adults 26 en 19, and i am married sinds 2 years to a man who would never do this 🙏🏽💯
      I hope she Run from him as hard as she can and start over somewhere else 😊
      This story makes me think about Gaby the girl was murderd by her boyfriend 😢

    • @Anonymous4212
      @Anonymous4212 6 месяцев назад +3

      Yes i am so sorry for your loss 🙏😞🕊️🪽 the story you told is so very haunting and so very sad and eeerie that he killed her in front of her children that is the worst thing that could happen and now im sure they suffer the emotional scars and damage of seeing there mothers murder

    • @hellekimery9537
      @hellekimery9537 5 месяцев назад

      Yup, been there! It’s terrifying

    • @KamalasNotLikeUs
      @KamalasNotLikeUs 2 месяца назад

      She could've easily left and went home to the UK. She's "rich," right? 😂

  • @sarahwaters10sw
    @sarahwaters10sw 6 месяцев назад +1

    She is vile and a liar and the one cheating, everyone needs to leave this man alone, just because he is a poor man dont make him bad, and what he did was before she married him and she forgave him for it.... Shes the dam cheater and abuser her, have you not seen her mother abusing this poor guy with her mouth??????

    • @KamalasNotLikeUs
      @KamalasNotLikeUs 2 месяца назад

      They don't care because he doesn't fit their image of a good man.

  • @paulruano1903
    @paulruano1903 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hmmm.... this is conplex toxity.
    It seems like Sophie has been raised by a toxic mother. (Narcissist?) And is not able to properly communicate from those traumas.
    And thereby everything escelates.
    And Sophie therefore (due to childhood trauma) easily gets triggered with trauma overreacting responses (she overexagerate and takes things out of context to exagerate it),
    And she sadly then ends up badmouthing (things out of context) to her toxuc mother.
    And then her toxic mother (whom maybe a narcissist) abuses that information to "blackmail/pressure/hold over" her daughter Sophie.
    Narcissists are master manipulators and is able to spin things so intense. Using all the info theyve gotten to rewrite history into their own narratives.
    Noone understands how toxic a person with NPD really can become, unless seriously experienced deep encounter with a persoon with NPD.
    Nothing can really prepare you of how manipulate and dangerous for your mental health etc etc a NPD person is.
    The quarrell between Sophie and Rob is not that unusual for any couples (a seldom time once in a while). Her crying and strong reactions may be due to her upbringing.
    And she can not work on K1 vusa? So what. Does she have 0 savings? What has she done all her life? Nowdays ppl can even put up a yt or tikyok account and make some money. Or online jobs... which pay atleast some money.
    Byt as a normal person, she should have SOME money saved up for emergencies etc.
    So its not such a big problem as the mother CLAIM it is.
    That she wants to meddle in her life in such a way is more concerning. At least when talkong about internet shaming.
    Edit:
    Interesting. In the newer videos, Sophie finnally reveals about her mother mental illnesses.
    It makes so much more sense now.
    Sophie always seemed broken (far more than Rob could have done). Type of broken baggage that you see in people whom have a long history (childhood traumas).
    And what Sophie has revealed so far is obviously only the surface levels.
    Such toxic mentall reactions that Clair showed in that newer videos.. that is not something that happends only over 1 day. That is something Sophie has lived with her mother behaving in such mental ways for probably since Sophies childhood/teenager years.

  • @theresagarcia4892
    @theresagarcia4892 6 месяцев назад +3

    I hope Sophie has left him. He has always been abusive to her and he clearly has a lot of issues. SMH. Tlc should not be putting couples like this on just for the drama. I would much rather watch a healthy relationship developing than the abusive psychos they keep putting on.

  • @garybowes3081
    @garybowes3081 6 месяцев назад

    Well said Madzie 👍

  • @tstrong7910
    @tstrong7910 6 месяцев назад +5

    Madzie! I was not ready for this. This was brutal to watch. Giving the trigger warning a bit earlier would have probably been helpful to many of your viewers for these kinds of videos depicting graphic behavior of some of these cast members.😢

  • @pokeyninjafun
    @pokeyninjafun 6 месяцев назад +1

    Well if he is arrested it’s clear he will be busy dropping the soap 😆

  • @Jessica-g8n
    @Jessica-g8n 6 месяцев назад +1

    I knew it I started seeing it in his eyes 👀 from the very beginning

  • @davicool4284
    @davicool4284 6 месяцев назад +1

    I dont understand. This is the way BIG ED talks to liz...and she loves it.

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 6 месяцев назад

      Manipulators and abusers play on the other person’s insecurities, emotionally manipulating the person by also gaslighting them and making them feel like they are losing their memory, “owed it” or it’s part of their relationship, will do all the love bombing to reel the person back in and then restart the cycle of abuse again…but each cycle gets worse.

  • @desreecastillo
    @desreecastillo 6 месяцев назад +3

    Poor sophie 😢

  • @Coach-xo1wr
    @Coach-xo1wr 6 месяцев назад +4

    One thing that has to be addressed fairly is what happened before this video started. Saying he could take it or he could break it could be his frustration over lies she has told him. We all know she lied about having a Lesbian experience as well as her ex boyfriend. She does not take accountability and her mom is an awful person period. I will say that when Rob made the comment about whooping her ass, that really crossed the line. Under no circumstances should he even say he could put hands on her or actually do it. Keep in mind that this is from only Sophies and her mothers perspective and they are amazing at not taking any accountability for anything Sophie has done. So there is a lot we have not seen or heard. This was a terrible relationship from the start and all three of them are horrible people. Nobody is a good person here. Again, before anybody gets it twisted, I do not condone violence against woman and what Rob said in that realm is horrible and abusive.

  • @sonicmoremusic1
    @sonicmoremusic1 6 месяцев назад +6

    You should say at the begining
    "If you are triggered by abusive behaviour, please don't watch"

  • @KeithMar-e7g
    @KeithMar-e7g 6 месяцев назад +1

    They hold on because of money, has 10-years to take care of her

  • @majortruth217
    @majortruth217 6 месяцев назад +6

    Rob & Sophie only got together to get her a Visa & a green card. They are just waiting out the time until she can work, then divorce. Neither have the temperment to be together! 🤡🥵😡🤬🤡

    • @braunbaerchen98
      @braunbaerchen98 6 месяцев назад

      No visa or Green card Arena Wort this treatment

  • @danasandoval624
    @danasandoval624 6 месяцев назад +4

    Him saying she didn’t pay for the phone yet the year they were in Mexico her mom paid for their apartment so obviously he has no money most of the time.
    I heard they are not together, I hope they aren’t & she never goes back to him.
    There are lots of American guys that would treat her good and take care of her if she wants to stays in the US.
    No one deserves this kind of treatment!

  • @chickennuggets9993
    @chickennuggets9993 6 месяцев назад +4

    Yeah I feel bad for Sophie 😢😢that’s really scary.

  • @anne-vl7qf
    @anne-vl7qf 6 месяцев назад +1

    Who filmed this?

  • @rains5
    @rains5 5 месяцев назад

    It's no wonder she didnt want to stay physically with him. It's not safe!

  • @ParishArmstead1680
    @ParishArmstead1680 6 месяцев назад +1

    They was just arguing

  • @lauralee9663
    @lauralee9663 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is normal behavior for men in America. That is why I stopped dating over a year ago. This video is triggering and brings flashbacks…

    • @saidwho1
      @saidwho1 6 месяцев назад

      What?? America? There's men like this in every country. Think about the Middle East. Men can kill their wife's and do no jail time.