@Masturbation Toothbrush The song is literally about telling kids that they shouldn't let anyone touch them in inappropriate places. It's presenting it in a fun song that the kid can actually remember. SpoctorTheory, I believe his username is, has some great points on this. Also, nice username.
The fact that the fiance tried to keep her quiet is really disgusting She's an enabler and she's just as bad as her disgusting fiance I hope that that kid they have is doing alright, that's terrible. And I hope this girl is okay now. And I hope the other guy is okay too, it's terrible that it happened to him too..
@My Thought's that's because society puts pressure on women to be married and in relationships. Not justifying what she did because it's unacceptable, but still
maybe the boy threatens her not to do anything, maybe he manipulates her as she manipulated the little girl. In syrmor videos, we can see lots of bad things. But seeing all those kind persons in the comment section and in the video gives me hope for the world.
The she did this shit to save he's fiance reputation by threatening a child thats fucked up being married to a person that you know that acts likes this you have to be more fucked up than him
I don't care how "dumb" or "easily manipulated" you are. It is never a child's fault that an adult abuses or assaults them. It breaks my heart that she's putting some blame on herself.
MangoDHM The parents should help her get therapy, but its irrational to say it was their fault. They were probably thinking “oh my child is playing some game with cute things” and nothing else, we have to remember that not all people are familiar with stuff online, specially adults, and also this happened some time ago so yea not as many resources to have avoided this.
MangoDHM Saying that they didn’t teach her to stay away puts blame on her again. I don’t care what a child does, it is always 100% the rapists fault. Much like how it doesn’t matter what a person was wearing or if they were drinking, it’s not their fault they were assaulted. Our society doesn’t usually think like that though, we like to put blame on the victim when it comes to sexual assault.
How can an online game be safe for kids? Think about it for a moment. How could an online game in which people from all around the world chat to each other possibly be made safe for kids. If you can think of a way then go ahead because the devs still can't. You're just demonstrating the problem. The parents never thought their kid would end up in a bad situation because they were ignorant and didn't want to think about it, as is the norm with parents and the internet these days.
"they most likely trusted that she would keep herself out of a situation like the one she got into" "The predator convinced her that she was safe with him so she obviously ended up not telling her parents because she thought she was safe" "I never said that the game was safe for children" So you can see the exact same problem I can because that's the issue right there. Kids shouldn't be on the internet period as I said. Also don't try to that "actually the predators at fault thing" as if that doesn't go without saying or I'm doing some weird victim blaming thing. It's just dishonest
you guys just haven’t found the right games yet, and I understand why u guys think it’s toxic lol there a lot of dumbass 11 year olds who think they know it all
Yes but i don't like the way people don't even play the game one time and think it's bad and just for children when actually if you search you find really good games. That's because the rules of Roblox. It's not like that everyone should try to play Roblox one time just the front page that is so bad but yeah i think it's cool
I fortunately havent went through what they went through but something I try to tell everyone I run into online that everyone has their own demons. For me. It was bullying (luckily/unlucky me it was only light psychological bullying) Having to take care of my mother while she was bedridden for a week couldnt even get out to get to the restroom a few steps away. And dealing with my type 1 diabetes. Alone these aren't the worst crimes to humanity but these are some of my repressed memories. And I know many many other repress things or think their traumas arent worth coming forth with
I have been taken advantage of and he was 12 or 13 and I was 11 and the game was see how long you can be touched inappropriately he touched around my- um. You get the point and whenever you felt uncomfortable you said “Firetruck.” God I was stupid. He got in trouble his mom best the absolute shit out of him that’s all I heard but I told my bestfriend at the time then she texted my mom then that went to the boys mom and yeah. Yes I said it was ok at the time and he said it was ok but honestly I was wasn’t ok and I don’t think I gave consent.
@@z3ke18 oh im so sorry that happened to you im 12 but im more smart than that but i think know youre going to much better because youre smarter than that know and i hope know now ome will ever take advantage of anyone to anybody
People can have gone through horrible stuff and be a good, happy person. It was long ago, and it still haunts him, but it doesn't make him incapable of having fun in his life
the way her voice got shaky and struggled to say that he tried to have sex with her just shows that she’s traumatized and that this still haunts her. both that man and the fiancé are sick people
I'm not saying that these kind of things don't happen but this is fake my man. Is not hard to have a shaky voice, you don't need to be an actor to lie on vrchat. Just think about it. How and why would someone go to a streamer and say "Hey i almost had sex with a 28 y old at 13, let's make a video about it".
VenoMeely - because it’s anonymous ? no one knows who she is.. and hes sharing her story for her. victims of these type of things often never come out because people like you disregard their stories completely
VenoMeely - people can’t even tell their therapists because they’re ashamed and embarrassed, and afraid that their abuser will come back to hurt them for telling people.
Get that kid out and send that man and woman to a turkish prison where they will mentally and physically break them. Or send them to North Korea, north Korean soldiers know how to deal with prisoners
The guy consoling her in the video is a great person. It’s hard to talk about sexual abuse, especially as a boy. And to help another victim after that.
My brother one time sexually harassed me Im not sure to this day If he really would have raped me if my aunt hadnt arrived home. We were alone, I with less than 10 probs 7 to 8 yo my brother less than 18 probs 15/17 and my cousin 4/5. He called me to go to a room in the house saying he wanted to talk to me. I was happy cuz we werent close bcs he was raised by my grandmas niece while my eldest sister and my grandma raised me cuz my mom and dad worked till late (I wasnt planned at all) So we hadnt had much contact so I happily followed him. He said for my cousin to stay watching tv. Then in the room he asked me to take off my pants and panties and I did, confused but I did. Then he started liking my puss*. I was feeling strange so I was laughting cuz I was feeling tickled but he asked me to put down my voice. After a while I asked him to go to pee when I came back to the room he had taken out his p*nis and asked me to suck it. And I as a kid was like DISGUSTED and said like "eww nooooo thats where you pee from!!" I dont remember much but my aunty arrived Then and he asked me not to tell anyone and it was "our secret" and I was really confused. Then I was with my big sis(the eldest of the 3 of us) and curiosity of a kid that is well known and asked her something like: why would someone lick the pp smt like that... My sister was shoked. And my sis the asked why would I ask that then, kids dont lie, I told her what he did and ended saying "but you musk keep it a secret cuz I promissed bro bla bla bla" She then hugged me to my room comforted me and then got to the kitchen and I could hear her screaming at my mom (bcs my mom tolered him to some extent cuz of guilt of not taking good care of him i think). Idk what hapened after that just vaguely remember that since then I think my sister makes all she can so that I wont stay alone with him again. She has no toleration to him so they often have arguments. I think my dad gave my bro a beating?!? Idk at all. And thats that. Today I am 15 my sis is living with her bf my bro has a gf with a daughter(she got preg at 15-not my bro but she is a good person and responsable) no one EVER refers that matter like that never happened so I wouldnt refer it too but it somewhat got a mark in my memory. Sorry for the time I took you to read all this shit.
Beruberu-chan Don’t be sorry you didn’t waste any of my time. I’m sorry that happened to you and You’re really brave to talk about it. I hope it didn’t affect you too much and if it really does speak to a professional. It’s a shame that it sounds like nothing really happened to him .
@@impactz7652 strangely it didnt afect me much even if it seems strange. When I think again it just makes me think twice of how my sister raised me so well and how much she cared for me and still cares even if sometimes she seems too much its just how much she loves me. She is my true best friend if someone asks me. A few days ago, already in quarentime my bro had the idea of bringing his gf home for my mom to meet. (this man is a genius seriously someone give him a trophy) My sister was scolding my mom so sooo much . She keeps sending me sms asking if she wanted her to come and take me to her home, she keeps saying to wash my hands and DO NOT SHAKE HANDS AT ALL. My mom was saying she was making the matter worse that it is etc. I looove my mom, dont take her as a bad mom she always gives me everyting I need and she loves me and my bro and sis very much and tries to give us all we need but she smtms closes an eye abt some things. Ive seen her cry countless times bcs of my bro and sis she cries for herself and for us. A hardworking woman and my heroine too. My sister made the amazing feat of making both roles of a caring " mother" and a strict one since my mom worked from earlier(I tried countless times to wake up earlier to see her off but ended up not sucefull countless times ) till very late(she then was exausted too so my sis played a major role in my life) I am extremly gratefull to both❤️ curious fact:. Secret of my birth (possibly) (ps: my mom and dad dont know too... ) My sis say she one time made tiny holes with a needle in the condoms she found at home. Soooo she may be the responsable at part for my existence, I- dk if I should laught or cry, like WTF and when my mom was preggy she keep saying its a sis too. This woman pulled the strings of my life LOL😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Surprisingly a lot of older people still play those games. I play Minecraft at 46 although rarely. I'm not into Roblox but I know a guy in his 30's who love it. Usually we hear about this weird kind of stuff in MMO's as they're more socially based.
She kept saying "I'm dumb, I was dumb," but she wasn't dumb. She was THIRTEEN, a literal child, and an adult person with an adult fiance tricked her and manipulated her into that situation. He used her trust an innocence against her. He and his fiance are pieces of shit and I hope they get what's coming to them...
she wasn't dumb, she was a fool. In life you have to be careful,since humans are mischievous. Don't trust anyone and even yourself, because you are human as well. Since i was six year old till now I am free with people, but i never get too close with them. I've been learning to defend myself till now, preparing for whatever may come. Die or not I will still have little hope to protect myself and see those that wants to hurt me suffer.
I like how this video shows that boys and girls can be sexually assaulted. More females than males but I think a lot of people forget that all genders experience sexual harassment or abuse.
@Oricand oh come on. I was just trying to spread a little religion. For me there is only one God, Allah d.s. I am not saying that you have to say Bismillah-rahman-rahim. But you can if you want to so Allah d.s. will protect you. '_'
I know this is gonna sound weird, but the VR characters they chose for me added so much to it. Emma's character was very tiny and innocent looking, while Mr. Wobbles' character towered over hers, and for me that made the part where he shares his experience with her and tells her what she needs to do all the more heartbreaking and beautiful. Just the visualization of this large man connecting with and giving advice to this small girl, advice that he wish he had gotten, moved me to tears man
@@FinRaidz_ Oh yeah I'm the one that should "grow up" because I don't think people should get killed. It's so fucking irritating seeing people like you in comments of videos where shit like this gets talked about. Make some sense for once in your life.
Its insane how someone can imagine that a 28 year old got tricked by a 13 year old into having sex with them. I cannot fathom that people like this exist. Let alone the fact that this couple did not see anything wrong in what this guy was doing.
The perps wife is cognitively dissonant. The lie she tells herself about her husband is more preferable to the truth about him, especially with the sunk cost fallacy of all the time, effort, and capitol she’s put into sharing her life with him it’s easier for her to deflect the fault that is rightfully his to someone else, specifically this girl who was taken advantage of. Look up Cognitive Dissonance and Sunk Cost Fallacy
predatory grooming is a huge problem today online, especially in fandoms and video games. its never going to be okay when an adult preys on a child, never ever.
@@cosmologification They dont need to constantly make sure their children arent doing anything, so long as they just educate them properly on safety. At 13 I knew damn well not to meet anyone I found online
@@Emerardo You originally said that they could just stop letting their kid use the internet (which would still be difficult to fully keep a child from being exposed at alL), but yeah parents should just educate the kid on "dont be a dumbass and try to meet strangers online, because we might as well just get your delayed abortion if you do that"
"i had a fear of my parents", that got me the most, how can one fear their parents so much that they go off with an older stranger, and almost get molested? What the fuck did her parents do? Its a part of the story no one is talking about, kids not trusting their parents is such a huge component of shit like this.
I was in a similar situation as a teenager and was groomed for 7 years before he flew across the country and I was also terrified of my parents, more than people who were dangerous for me. It kept me in toxic relationships and living in dangerous situations as long as I was away from them. They were incredibly strict and screamed at me about everything.
No, of course she doesn't, but when this kind of shit happens to you, you somehow feel gross. And I really can't explain why, but you just feel ashamed and disgusting and like you wanna leave your body because it feels dirty and just... so gross. I don't know why.
@@chickenskink1 EXACTLY like the amount of blame you feel on yourself is so much. Like well /I/ should've realized or stopped it or known. Every memory, or article of clothing, associated with that person, just turns so sour and disgusting and very gross like you said. I get the worst feelings in the pit of my stomach and I feel like my entire body has hollowed out.
mr. wobbles has to be a therapist, I was nearly sexually assaulted when I was 7 and he really helped, he's so nice, calming, and comforting. every person who had been sexually assaulted should watch this
can't imagine being in a position like that, you're just not in control of the situation but you're just there powerless and it really is sickening to know there are still people who take advantage of curious, unaware children
There was a time, When my dad used to Look normally at my eys and then Look to somewhere Else than my eyes. It didn't Last long and he didn't do anything Else, but it gave me some kind of a trauma. I'm now More scared of unknown adults around me. No one knows about this. And i don't know is it so "big deal" to anyone because he just looked at me.
Mario cat had a friend to tell. His "just tell someone" advice assumes the girl has the same thing. It all depends on the girl having someone she can trust to tell, who won't blow it up so it gets out of control for her. That's why it's so hard for her. It doesn't sound like she trusts her parents.
The real answer is here in vrchat. She *did* tell someone. She told a complete stranger in a visual space and that led to her feeling just that little bit better.
I was raped at the age of 8, I told my parents when i was 10. I’m 14 turning 15 and I still go to therapy for that. Don’t be afraid to tell someone it helps a TON.
@@sholos4478 im so sorry that happened to you, the same thing happened to me, i hope you told the authorities, and I hope you got better and happier, i wish you the best
pee dude i was completely silent just listening to the pain in her voice while she was leading up to her next sentences. it breaks my heart that this happens to do many people
Watch a movie called i know my first name is Steven. It's based on a real story, it's kind if old now but it really shows what it's like being a victim of child predators. Edit: also it has a scene in it like the "and then he"on the second part of the movie that really makes you sympathize for the character. It's a good movie that is under appreciated and really sad.
It's kind of like you know what exactly she is going to say, but you just don't believe she is going to say it, like it's impossible that will be said and that happened. Then she says it and my stomach hurts of rage.
Interestingly enough, smiling can actually be a stress response. My therapist has pointed this out to me because i actually do it: i smile and laugh while i talk about my trauma because it makes it easier to talk about
The worst part is when she says that she was too scared of her parents to come home. Like, THAT’S what causes these things. Children need to have an emotional support system, not fear mongering.
She lied to her parents to go meet some older guy. Children need better role models. This is what happens when kids get cardi b etc. as role models. Her fear may not be her parents it may be that she lied to them and put herself in a dangerous situation. It might be potential consequences which I hope there are none, holding her back. Kids need better examples to look up to. THATS what causes these things in this context.
@@sbneo5605 I got underwear older than you… don’t tell me what was things back when lol. Degeneracy is degeneracy. Whether it was the cardi moron or someone else.
This... this is amazing, the way that dude talked to her and told her to tell someone. It was just incredible. He is a really blessed human being. I wish him the best life imaginable.
Can't sugar coat this at all, there's really nothing we can help change on what happened to them and how they feel.... Only help get rid of the problem that's the only thing we can at least help..
@@slothyyteen-lg7me Showing compassion isn't sugar coating. Of course people can't do much on the internet depending on the case, but showing support and understanding, letting people know they are being heard and believed in, means so much already.
Im 27, and never been on VR chat. But these conversations are amazing! It seems like speaking through an animated avatar makes speaking about these matters a little easier. and they get some sort of supporting presence from the other avatars aswell. Absolute gold mate
My brother was raped when he was 7. He didn’t tell me and my family until he turned 13 and it breaks my heart that I never knew. I’m his older sister and I wish there more I could do for him but he’s now in therapy and healing. He waited too long to tell us so the piece of shit predator will never pay for his crimes. Guys please. If anything (god forbid) happens to you, please tell your loved ones because we will always be on your side and we don’t blame you. You’re not stupid because you are a literal child and nothing that an adult does to you is your fault. Please take care because people love you and will protect you.
@@pugberry2260 He's doing a lot better and is seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist thanks for your concern. Thankfully our insurance covers everything so we don't have to go broke to get him the help he needs. Especially, since we're a low income family. I just wanted to share my brother's story to show that help is always available and that seeking help is important. It's better to do it later than never and to preferably seek it asap. There's many resources available for people with all sorts of circumstances. Whether you're a minor who wants to seek help without your parents knowing or if you don't believe you can afford it. There's help out there and it takes a lot of courage to seek it out. I just want people to know there is hope.
It hurts because I was molested when I was young and I told my older brothera year or two ago and he told me that he didnt believe me and stuff and it hurts. I dont know where else to put this sorry
Having two victims of assault be able to meet like this and share in such organic way is just beautiful. VR adds a dimension to this kind of interaction that’s really transcendent. Amazing vid.
I hope that the guy and his fianceé get to clean battlefields and ruins after war. It will fuck you up when you have to pick up parts of bodies and then put them back together. Thats closest to hell...
I’m almost more angry at the fiancée. That could have been her daughter. This happens, it’s normal for older guys to lead younger girls on online. I’ve experienced it myself. It’s not our fault. It’s not a kids fault. That woman is vicious. I am scared for her child.
I wouldn't say it's fair to call it "normal" by any stretch of the imagination. Even serial killers look down on child rapists. Hell, they pretty much get killed off in prison. So it's obviously a very small minority
JACpotatos didn’t mean child rapists are normal, I’m so sorry. That’s awful and that should never EVER be ok! I meant that older guys getting in touch with young girls online is very normal. It’s not ok, but it happens all the time. Sorry if that came out wrong
@@Zkadiee Oh, I gotcha. Yeah, I guess that probably is a common method that's used. I thought you were saying it was common for men to be in contact with young girls
This video was hard enough to get through in one piece but the comments have me in literal tears, choking up while I write this. None of you deserved what happened to you and all of you deserve to feel safe again.
As someone who literally told my parents about being sexually assaulted, hearing these people’s stories is super inspiring. I really hope Emma ends up finding a professional to talk to. Sexual trauma is a lot to deal with, nobody should have to carry the burden of those memories on their own.
"It was getting dark, and I had a major fear of my own parents, so he told me I could stay at his house." Don't be those parents. Love your children. Let them know their home is a safe place, no matter what.
@@princessmia66 that's just doesn't matter dude, she was only 13 she was really just a kid, and kid do these kind of dumb shit especially when they don't see them self safe or loved in home so they put themselves in danger hoping that in some way a stranger will give them a caring feeling or attention. I bet someone who lied to they parents when they're young it's because they don't feel safe to talk with them, to trust them and they are the adults , they had a responsibility to made her to feel ok to talk about anything to them. And when your child go through some dark shit like that no matter what thing they did wrong, you need to made to them know that wasn't their fault and they can keep living no matter what. Bc when you feel guilty for something that you can't even understand and have no one in your side it feels so desperate and lonely until you broke yourself apart
I know that was a really long answer and probably I mess up a few words bc I'm not a native speaker, but I really hope that you understand because you never no when you should stand up to protect others no matter what, and I hope that anyone had to feel the way I felt when nobody believed me or stood by my side to protect me when I needed
I recognise that pause after "he tried... " For anyone who doesn't understand it, it's kind of like the non-newtonian fluid of anxieties. The closer you get to talking about the thing, the harder it gets to talk about. She was already incredibly strong to talk about this, I hope she is able to get the help she needs. Edit (7 months later): This is still getting responses so I just wanted to add that someone experiencing this usually really does _want_ to say whatever it is that's causing the anxiety, it can just feel like an insurmountable obstacle to get it out of their throat.
ok i don't know if you know but if you do can you tell me why when someone tries to talk about something very scary that happened to them like the girl that you physically can't muster the words of what happened out of your mouth? there's some things i can't tell my parents anyway and i'm saving it for someone in camhs (british youth support thingy) but i don't know if i'll actually be able to say it. i'm just wondering if anyone knows what it is
My body is shaking from absolute... I don't even know what emotion this is but it isn't entirely good but it also isn't terrible. I do feel a lot of warmness at the way everyone was supporting her and assuring her that she's not in the wrong and that she's safe, I'm glad that I watched this and I love this community. I'm really glad I discovered this channel.
Im a victim of sexual assault from when i was 11. I can hear in her voice. the hesitation between each word and each sentence, the stumbling over it, trying to get through it (basically trying to find a way to say it that doesn't crush from the inside) its heart breaking :( she needed to talk, thank you so much for listening to her Syrmor! I am 35 and still in trauma therapy. we keep trying to get into EMDR. i keep balking at it half way through so we have to start over. its a hard path. so so hard. im so sorry you went through this sy, and her. Please please stay in touch with her!!! Dont let her drop okei?
I'm glad she found Syrmor's group to talk to, because as you point out, it's so hard to talk about past all the guilt and shame. I tried contacting this post-secondary talk line that was supposed to be staffed by trained psychologists, after I had a non-consensual sexual encounter with my ex. I wanted to talk to someone about it because I wasn't eating and I knew it was messing me up, but I could barely get the words out - I still don't like labeling it as a "sexual assault" because it was my best friend, someone I'd dated for two years and who really cared about me. The person on the talk line though was not helpful at all, and I guess for liability reasons was really afraid of prompting me to say anything in particular. He ended up telling me "maybe you're not ready to talk about this," which was really upsetting because I was trying my best.
@@pikachu-jr2rb okay, I might be taking this way to serious but let me explain: There is a difference between being "smart" and being "wise" for me. "Smart" referring more to factual knowledge and book smarts, while "wise" refers more to the social and culture knowledge one can obtain through experience. Most teenagers are relatively smart. Very few teenagers are wise. I.E. teenagers aren't mentally retarded, but they tend to make stupid, instinctual decisions that eventually lead to a poor outcome like the girl in the video experienced. She learned from her mistake, learned that it was a stupid decision, and became just that bit wiser because of it. It was the guy's fault for doing what he did and it was the girl's fault for doing what she did. She should blame herself for her part in the story since she is also responsible for her own safety. In short: teenagers aren't stupid because they aren't smart, teenagers are stupid because they aren't wise.
The SECOND SHE OPENED with “I was dumb” MY HEART SANK Really says a lot about how we talk about this stuff Edit: this blew up. Anyways, the bottom line is this: Children cannot consent to sex. Regardless of age, in situations where children become victimized by adults, it is not on the responsibility of the child to have protected themselves from the adult. Abuse is a choice. Being a victim is not, regardless of what situation the victim is in. Being lured into someone’s house or letting someone into your own is not consent to sex. If you have sex with someone who cannot consent to sex (whether it be a child, someone who is drunk or under the influence, or someone with a disability), you are a rapist and therefore you are responsible for any trauma the victim may experience. Someone who is groomed, or taken advantage of, is not at fault or in anyway culpable of something someone else does to them. Furthermore, victim blaming never adds anything to the conversation of how to help survivors heal. I understand some of you aren’t adults yet and can’t yet process that you are not as capable, intelligent and organized yet. I’m not saying you aren’t entitled to an opinion, but what I am saying is when an adult is in a situation where they are responsible for someone else, they’re able to take advantage of it, especially if they are a predator. It’s super easy to think you can’t be victimized when you’re young because whether teenagers want to admit it or not for the most part they believe they are indestructible or can do anything. It’s easy to act holier-than-thou and say what you would have done in that situation, but comparing yourself to a victim to demean them as I’ve seen lots of people do is never okay and never adds anything to the conversation.
Yeah it's not dumb, we don't educate children that there are these creeps in every corner of the internet and that they will do or say anything to get them to trust you!
@alanna beebo Health class has nothing to do with ABUSE. Children are not taught about abuse in school, and you clearly dont understand what abuse and grooming does to a person. It doesnt matter if it is common sense. You have NO right to speak on this subject, since you are speaking from the outside in with no knowledge of the affect abuse has on the brain of an adult, let alone a child.
It really hurt when her voice cracked in the middle of her sentences cause I have been through that too (and according to these comments a lot of people has also been through this... *horrible world we live in* ) But girl, you aren't alone. *Also I laughed so hard when a fat cat dressed as Mario gave some actual good advice.*
I always wished to help every single person in cruel situations but I realise that almost impossible. If I could devote my life to helping other even if it was just listening, I would want nothing else
How can the fiance scream at the kid while his adult partner is there with the kid?... Is there any explanation needed wtf, how on hearth would it be the kids fault... Some ppl are really messed up
She probably still loves him but I know she knows its wrong she just doesn't want to lose her husband to the cops. Either that or really low self-esteem, which I doubt more.
She also, like him, tried to manipulate her into not saying anything. (with threats and money) I think she didn't wanted to believe that her husband cheated on her, but that he got lured into this situation. Sadly there are a lot of woman who don't wanna see the reality and let their husbands cheat on them multiple times even. And she probably feard that it will all come out etc. But both reacted horribly.
@@MinishMilly Could also potentially be a sense of embarassment or shame because if it comes out, it'll reflect on her. Or that it could be her fault for not noticing and letting it happen.
I was raped for a year and a half straight by my babysitter he held a gun to my head often and said unspeakable things to me , i can attest that telling people about that as a male is so hard , its so hard as a man to open up and say another man overpowerd me and took advantage of me and i sat there and let it happen , he did the same exact thing to my cousin and we both wrote statements for the detective and somehow there was not even enough evidence to even start a trial , this video was very nice to listen to , i feel so alone and isolated from this world and i feel a lil less alone after watching that video and hearing yall stories , sincerely thank you for bringing more light to these evil turn of events
@Uncle Eidolf man, why you gotta say "f3males" like that? Just say girl dude. Its not a slur to acknowledge the existence of women. I'm just hella confused by this comment. Also, she said she would try to tell someone and neither of us know her besides this interaction so we can't really say definitively what she will or won't do. I'm sorry but the way you phrased your comment sounds a little condescending towards the victim
turn up for some break up fuck relationships. if you get married or stay in a relationship for a long time then you are dum. come on cheating helps bro dont feel bad you cheat you needed this it would get boring seeing the same person like tht then seeing them as a friend
When she said that his fiance came home early I was like, oh! This has somewhat of a good ending, she’ll be mad at her fiance, apologize to her as break up with him and then boom. Then she continued and my heart shattered.
I can only imagine that the fiancee was so obsessed and desperate with the guy that she would not let herself conceive that he was at fault in the situation.
keyboard hitter yea man situations like this where terrible things happen to you and you’re backed into a corner of “I can’t tell my parents, because (Reason), I can’t tell a therapist because (Reason), and I can’t tell my friends because (Reason). And you feel like you HAVE to keep your mouth shut when you Don’t. Really Scary Stuff
It almost feels like the character she's playing as reflects on herself, the tiny character reflecting on her own personality and her ability to speak out. It's really sad but I hope both of them gets better
When the moustache mario cat guy was talking about how his grandpa died and how he skipped school after his friends dad died in his sleep while he was staying at his house... man
Lol i want to share my story in this comment section so hope u dont mind yeet. I was also playing roblox, well meep city exactly. Two girls start to ask me to follow them. We go to a bedroom in a party and they start to tell me to take of my roblox outift. I stayed quiet. Then they start typing nasty things like "hIs PeNiS iS sO jUiCy". Wow ew i then leave the game and they add me. I ask them about their ages and one girl said they are both 13. Its absolutely creeped me out, the internet had influence teens too many bad things including me. I wish the internet dont exist now.
watching this broke my heart. i’m also a victim of sexual assault. i was about 5 or 6 and he was 17. i never told my mom until last year. as i was and still am growing, i learned about abuse and assault. each time i read about sexual assault or abuse, i just couldn’t help think that i might be a victim. i hated the thought of it but i grew to accept it and it haunted me for 9 years. 9 years of breakdowns, 9 years of terrible anxiety.. 9 years of hell. i peaked last year when my anxiety got so bad that i found myself going to the bathroom to cry before my classes started. when i finally told my mom, that heavy burden was lifted off of my shoulders and i can gladly say i’m doing much better. i’m 15 now and my confidence, happiness and overall well-being has increased significantly. please, if you are a victim of sexual assault or abuse, tell someone. it doesn’t matter how old you are or what gender you are, you are valid and need to be heard. it’s never too late. i’m rooting for you! ❤️
Wesleee yeah :/ if i had told my mom when i was still young she could’ve charged him and he would’ve been trialed as an adult. i’ve moved past it now and i never want to see him again.
Wow... that was... I'm sitting here crying. So, one of the toughest parts about therapy is having to call things for what they are. By avoiding the words, we give them power. That poor girl was trying to avoid saying she was almost raped. But Wobbles, and bless him, came out and said that he was raped. Being forced to have sex in ANY case is rape. That poor girl didn't ask for it, nothing she said gave him permission. And once she is able to come to terms with that, through talking to people, through therapy, their power over her will fade away. Will it ever be gone? No, not at all. But it will be so much better than it is. Also, if you ever see me on VRChat and you need to talk, please please please don't hesitate to reach out. I don't care what kind of stupid stuff I'm doing. If you see kaitokuro (or possibly Kai_Tokuro), then come up and mention Syrmor's channel. You do that, and you have my full attention. Everyone needs someone to talk to, even if its a random stranger on the internet. And for anyone who needs to hear this, you are NEVER alone. There is always going to be people who will help, who will listen because we've been there. And also remember, you are beautiful and you are loved. No if, ands, or buts. You ARE beautiful and you ARE loved.
@@md_macwillai2756 Thank you hun. The worst part about this is I can't hug people IRL, which I would do in a heartbeat. I am serious about my offer to be an ear. Whenever I am able, I'm always happy to talk.
Thank you very much. I try to put positivity out as much as I can. Plus both my wife and I have been through traumatic experiences and I firmly believe that I can use them to help people. I can take away the negative and bring a usefulness to them while showing people that its not the end of the world and that they are not alone. I respect the hell out of what Syrmor does because our culture tries to sweep things like mental health and trauma under the rug and ignore it. I refuse to do that. It has to be talked about, openly and honestly. And Syrmor gives people a chance to do that and lets their voice be heard far and wide.
It's such a difficult thing to go through and its disgustingly common. All of my friends have had something like this happen including myself. For me it was my older brother, and it was for years. I never told my parents, but I did tell my older sister, and she was heart broken. My sister had been molested by my grandfather and my parents and siblings all knew and did nothing about it. So my sis cut off the entire family and I'm so proud of her for it, we are the only ones who still talk.
Her immediately saying she was dumb and easily manipulated was heartbreaking. Like no, sweetie, everyone's dumb as a kid, everyone's scared and confused and looking for who they are.
no not really i think it was just a lack information what to do, for me personally i was told not to talk to strangers or people that are older then me that i didn't know or my parents didn't know, i can get that it's pretty disturbing but falling in such a dumb trap is the fault of either the parents for not teaching their kids properly or the kid being so unlogically stupid that it falls for this kind of stuff.
@@snor_flex2613 You hit the nail on the head. 13 year olds are not this stupid with good parenting, and in this video she basically says that she doesn't have a good relationship with her parents.
@@snor_flex2613 exactly, people don't wanna hear this but it's the truth. At 13 there is no way am meeting a 20 year old, or random kid my age that I met online, much less a 28 year old lol. I'm 21 and I don't think I've met a 13 year old in my family that I think would do that based on how smart they are, or come across from conversation.
We are dumb at 13 but with good parenting we know when something isn’t right. We would know what to do in those situations. Because I wasn’t told anything, I didn’t know what to do at 14 until I hit about 16 when I told my parents.
@@vickyandersen8660 lol I had shit parenting and even I wouldn't be so foolish at that age. It's not a matter of parenting, just common sense and intellect. Hell even my instinct at the age of 12 made me weary around strangers. I sure as hell wouldn't be meeting one I met online, or even going to his or her house.
I also was raped when I was 7, and it kept happening for 7 years Seeing this video honestly really helpped Hopefully after quarantine is over I will seek proffesional help to finally move on
@@@oklol1567 In cases of long-term abuse of children, the offender is often a family member or close friend of the family. Regardless, children from age 7-14 generally do not have the agency to get away from their situation, and are made fearful of telling other people or seeking outside help. @Naomi, you can tell your story here if you feel ready or think it will help you, but you don't have to if you're not comfortable sharing yet. You also don't have to wait for the quarantine to end to seek professional counseling! Many cities have local mental health organizations with hotlines to schedule online or telephone appointments. You can start by searching your city or state's name along with "mental health" or "telepsychology". There may be some wider-reaching sites that offer services, but the APA advises caution in case there are licensing issues or possible scams. Start local if you can, and if you are in the US, try apa(dot)org/helpcenter next. And don't talk yourself out of it either. These people's literal jobs are to help people sort through very messy and complicated emotions, and they very much want to help YOU. You are worth it.
@@Juicestain2 but get your head sorted first and see if you have the grounds too. Ik a lot of people who have only been retraumatised by pressing charges. Depends what country you're in. But yeah do if you can once you're in a safe place
Love, please don't wait. Find someone. I know how hard it is to tell someone. You feel scared and ashamed. But trust me, you're not at fault. There are people out there and out here too that love you and are here for you. Working through your suffering is so SO much better than living in silence. There are hotlines and online therapy out there, and if it comes down to it, there are strangers on the Internet like me and so many others who would gladly take the time to talk to you. You don't deserve to carry this weight any longer.
Thank you everyone for understanding what I have been through. I decided to delete everything I wrote bc I don’t want to remember or get reminded of this :) But thanks to everyone for being so kind and understanding about my situation it did make me feel a bit better, Thanks again EDIT: i recently got a reply under my comment calling me a fake and that im not emma from this video, ofc im not, never said i was, i only shared my experience that i had and decided to erase it, which is why i wrote the comment above ^
Thanks for being strong up until this moment. I've never been through this kind of stuff but I know it would be hell to go through that. So, thanks for being strong.
urgirl jennie wow that’s so fucking hard to talk about omg i can’t BELIVE your mom would not belive you well i hope life only gets better for you and god bless 🙏 🧎♂️
Ann-Marie Henderson unfortunately he was let off shortly after. I just hope I don’t have to face him for the rest of my life . And thank u, I’d like to believe that none of this was my fault at all 🙏
@@pekpek69 multiple times. Because no one ever gave me anything but strife, and endless sadness and depression. But every time I use my anger as a tool against the assholes, I feel like I've done something worthwhile. I don't know if that makes sense.
@@tamarastephens7228 no no trust me I ve seen this happen way too many times it's almost invetible if you do a horrible crime like that sooner or later you're going down.
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We get miserable and then we get better. It always goes that way. Misery always comes first.
Yay :)
:) I love playing VRchat and these videos are my favorite VRchat videos
YES
"I was 13 and he was 28."
*slowly puts popcorn bucket away*
..... I shared this reaction
Literally put my soda back in the fridge
Slowly sits up in concern and scooches to the edge of the seat.
*reloads shotgun with religious intent*
Orda Khan slowly throws up in ur popcorn bucket. Eat up.
Never did I think a cat with a mustache and Mario hat, could speak so many straight facts
me too.
Bruh sammmme
Oh shit I thought that was a grizzly bear
The funny (sad) thing is that something that silly is better at telling the truth than most of the people on this planet.
Welcome to vr chat
"he started taking his clothes off"
Me: mentally punching this dude who I don't know in my head.
Kchill_ 03 Once she said no and he kept going that pissed me off
Kchill_ 03 sAme bro
I started punching air 🤬😤
Electric chair
The guy deserves nothing short of hell’s worst.
That guy who came in and gave advice about the threats is a really good person and I hope she feels and gets better.
Oh hey Cayde. How has the afterlife been for you?
@@WXYKE not great wish I could be out there with you.
@@G.D.R855 well I'm kind of stuck in destiny 1, at least you got to be in the sequel. I get it though. Say hi to pocket infinity for me, okay?
that was mr.wobbles hes musician and does vr and omegal videos very great guy
he is fucking amazing and his advice made me cry
I like how serious he’s talking but at the same time he’s a cat with a blocky ass chest and a Mario hat
Dont forget that a short time after that he drew a penis without context
Never would have thought lol
@@amtic9696 nEvEr jUdGe A bOoK bY iTs cOvEr
Vlxsped xx that’s what I was thinking the entire video
Memers have sad stories
Mr. Wobbles with the real talk on dealing with your traumas, it's so important to talk about this stuff. "You are not the one getting in trouble".
we need to do a better job as a human race protecting our children.
@Masturbation Toothbrush The song is literally about telling kids that they shouldn't let anyone touch them in inappropriate places. It's presenting it in a fun song that the kid can actually remember. SpoctorTheory, I believe his username is, has some great points on this.
Also, nice username.
"I drew a penis"
I thought that was him
Thank you Mr Wobbles
The fact that the fiance tried to keep her quiet is really disgusting
She's an enabler and she's just as bad as her disgusting fiance
I hope that that kid they have is doing alright, that's terrible.
And I hope this girl is okay now.
And I hope the other guy is okay too, it's terrible that it happened to him too..
This shit made me tear up
GingerBee the other guy is Mr Wobbles, he has a RUclips channel as well with a very significant following.
@My Thought's that's because society puts pressure on women to be married and in relationships. Not justifying what she did because it's unacceptable, but still
maybe the boy threatens her not to do anything, maybe he manipulates her as she manipulated the little girl. In syrmor videos, we can see lots of bad things. But seeing all those kind persons in the comment section and in the video gives me hope for the world.
The she did this shit to save he's fiance reputation by threatening a child thats fucked up being married to a person that you know that acts likes this you have to be more fucked up than him
Listening to her struggle so hard to say, "He tried to have sex with me," is so utterly heartbreaking. I hope she got some help.
I don't care how "dumb" or "easily manipulated" you are. It is never a child's fault that an adult abuses or assaults them. It breaks my heart that she's putting some blame on herself.
MangoDHM The parents should help her get therapy, but its irrational to say it was their fault. They were probably thinking “oh my child is playing some game with cute things” and nothing else, we have to remember that not all people are familiar with stuff online, specially adults, and also this happened some time ago so yea not as many resources to have avoided this.
MangoDHM Saying that they didn’t teach her to stay away puts blame on her again. I don’t care what a child does, it is always 100% the rapists fault. Much like how it doesn’t matter what a person was wearing or if they were drinking, it’s not their fault they were assaulted. Our society doesn’t usually think like that though, we like to put blame on the victim when it comes to sexual assault.
@@sakura9959 kids shouldn't be online period. It's their fault that she was even online
How can an online game be safe for kids? Think about it for a moment. How could an online game in which people from all around the world chat to each other possibly be made safe for kids. If you can think of a way then go ahead because the devs still can't. You're just demonstrating the problem. The parents never thought their kid would end up in a bad situation because they were ignorant and didn't want to think about it, as is the norm with parents and the internet these days.
"they most likely trusted that she would keep herself out of a situation like the one she got into"
"The predator convinced her that she was safe with him so she obviously ended up not telling her parents because she thought she was safe"
"I never said that the game was safe for children"
So you can see the exact same problem I can because that's the issue right there. Kids shouldn't be on the internet period as I said. Also don't try to that "actually the predators at fault thing" as if that doesn't go without saying or I'm doing some weird victim blaming thing. It's just dishonest
Holy shit Mr. Wobbles is such an absolute legend. It makes me emotional to see how he was able to see himself within the girl
you probably should have worded that last sentence a little better, but i agree with you
Omg haha this is an amazing comment
Guys i made a penis
LoL!!
You're all most likely going to hell because you're not traditional catholic.
@oskir Toejam why?
Symor: Where did you guys meet??
Her: Roblox...
Symor: That sick bastard...
@Stacy Perisic No, No it isn't.
demure the platform itself is shit, but some games can be really fun if you’re bored.
Stacy Perisic
it’s toxic asf bruh
im Toxxic the games are fun, it’s just some people…
you guys just haven’t found the right games yet, and I understand why u guys think it’s toxic lol there a lot of dumbass 11 year olds who think they know it all
0:55 that "no, playing roblox" was such a good way to put her at ease
Yes but i don't like the way people don't even play the game one time and think it's bad and just for children when actually if you search you find really good games. That's because the rules of Roblox. It's not like that everyone should try to play Roblox one time just the front page that is so bad but yeah i think it's cool
@@Th3-8O8 dude.. ik, but... please..
Alternative title: *Italian cat comforts sexual assault victim and makes every viewer cry*
ImYourBuddy i wanna like the comment but it’s at 111 likes and i really like that number so someone please notify me when someone ends the contrast
@@gunplaybusiness I actually didn't know it had that many so maybe 666?
@@gunplaybusiness its done for
chloesfuneral it changed
chloesfuneral its ok you can like it now
Mr. Wobbles is a hero I think any of us who went through something bad as little ones could have had. What a bro. I hope Emma recovers.
I fortunately havent went through what they went through but something I try to tell everyone I run into online that everyone has their own demons.
For me. It was bullying (luckily/unlucky me it was only light psychological bullying)
Having to take care of my mother while she was bedridden for a week couldnt even get out to get to the restroom a few steps away.
And dealing with my type 1 diabetes. Alone these aren't the worst crimes to humanity but these are some of my repressed memories.
And I know many many other repress things or think their traumas arent worth coming forth with
I have been taken advantage of and he was 12 or 13 and I was 11 and the game was see how long you can be touched inappropriately he touched around my- um. You get the point and whenever you felt uncomfortable you said “Firetruck.” God I was stupid. He got in trouble his mom best the absolute shit out of him that’s all I heard but I told my bestfriend at the time then she texted my mom then that went to the boys mom and yeah. Yes I said it was ok at the time and he said it was ok but honestly I was wasn’t ok and I don’t think I gave consent.
@@z3ke18 oh im so sorry that happened to you im 12 but im more smart than that but i think know youre going to much better because youre smarter than that know and i hope know now ome will ever take advantage of anyone to anybody
Colander Shepard I agree with that
Thick Mario Cat
Girl: Talked about a sad story
Fat Mario Cat: Gives good advice
Also Fat Mario Cat: Guys I made a penis :D
Well that's bc he's moved on from what happend but at the same time he's trying to enlighten everyone that they need to tell someone
People can have gone through horrible stuff and be a good, happy person. It was long ago, and it still haunts him, but it doesn't make him incapable of having fun in his life
@@kaythefrogg exactly
Also fat mario cat : a weirdo too
Love that guy.
"His dad died, which was fucked up but he was fat" that is one of my favorite quotes
yeah i busted out laughing
Yeah that’s fucked up but the way he said it was so passive and matter-of-fact that I couldn’t stop myself from laughing
I feel really bad that I lost my shit when I heard that.
He died because he was fat, i think thats What he meant
the way her voice got shaky and struggled to say that he tried to have sex with her just shows that she’s traumatized and that this still haunts her. both that man and the fiancé are sick people
Ah yes *f i n a n c e*
DankPebble lmfaooo im a retard didn’t even notice my typo
I'm not saying that these kind of things don't happen but this is fake my man. Is not hard to have a shaky voice, you don't need to be an actor to lie on vrchat. Just think about it. How and why would someone go to a streamer and say "Hey i almost had sex with a 28 y old at 13, let's make a video about it".
VenoMeely - because it’s anonymous ? no one knows who she is.. and hes sharing her story for her. victims of these type of things often never come out because people like you disregard their stories completely
VenoMeely - people can’t even tell their therapists because they’re ashamed and embarrassed, and afraid that their abuser will come back to hurt them for telling people.
I teared up when she said "I think they have a kid now" someone needs to find that kid and help them
Get that kid out and send that man and woman to a turkish prison where they will mentally and physically break them. Or send them to North Korea, north Korean soldiers know how to deal with prisoners
@@lovelykirby holy moly😂
꧁m꧂ On behalf of Americans, We do not have any adequate supplies to excecute this man at the moment. Russians?
@@uhhhiiiihruu russians could do the job. They are probably good at it ay comrade?
Anarchist Shark What’s up? Send ‘em to Gulag.
The guy consoling her in the video is a great person. It’s hard to talk about sexual abuse, especially as a boy. And to help another victim after that.
Anneleighsme Ik he needs more appreciation in the comments
My brother one time sexually harassed me Im not sure to this day If he really would have raped me if my aunt hadnt arrived home.
We were alone, I with less than 10 probs 7 to 8 yo my brother less than 18 probs 15/17 and my cousin 4/5.
He called me to go to a room in the house saying he wanted to talk to me. I was happy cuz we werent close bcs he was raised by my grandmas niece while my eldest sister and my grandma raised me cuz my mom and dad worked till late (I wasnt planned at all) So we hadnt had much contact so I happily followed him. He said for my cousin to stay watching tv.
Then in the room he asked me to take off my pants and panties and I did, confused but I did. Then he started liking my puss*. I was feeling strange so I was laughting cuz I was feeling tickled but he asked me to put down my voice.
After a while I asked him to go to pee when I came back to the room he had taken out his p*nis and asked me to suck it. And I as a kid was like DISGUSTED and said like "eww nooooo thats where you pee from!!" I dont remember much but my aunty arrived Then and he asked me not to tell anyone and it was "our secret" and I was really confused.
Then I was with my big sis(the eldest of the 3 of us) and curiosity of a kid that is well known and asked her something like: why would someone lick the pp smt like that... My sister was shoked. And my sis the asked why would I ask that then, kids dont lie, I told her what he did and ended saying "but you musk keep it a secret cuz I promissed bro bla bla bla" She then hugged me to my room comforted me and then got to the kitchen and I could hear her screaming at my mom (bcs my mom tolered him to some extent cuz of guilt of not taking good care of him i think).
Idk what hapened after that just vaguely remember that since then I think my sister makes all she can so that I wont stay alone with him again. She has no toleration to him so they often have arguments.
I think my dad gave my bro a beating?!? Idk at all.
And thats that.
Today I am 15 my sis is living with her bf my bro has a gf with a daughter(she got preg at 15-not my bro but she is a good person and responsable) no one EVER refers that matter like that never happened so I wouldnt refer it too but it somewhat got a mark in my memory.
Sorry for the time I took you to read all this shit.
@@shiroi7885 stay strong!
Beruberu-chan Don’t be sorry you didn’t waste any of my time. I’m sorry that happened to you and You’re really brave to talk about it. I hope it didn’t affect you too much and if it really does speak to a professional. It’s a shame that it sounds like nothing really happened to him .
@@impactz7652 strangely it didnt afect me much even if it seems strange.
When I think again it just makes me think twice of how my sister raised me so well and how much she cared for me and still cares even if sometimes she seems too much its just how much she loves me. She is my true best friend if someone asks me.
A few days ago, already in quarentime my bro had the idea of bringing his gf home for my mom to meet. (this man is a genius seriously someone give him a trophy)
My sister was scolding my mom so sooo much .
She keeps sending me sms asking if she wanted her to come and take me to her home, she keeps saying to wash my hands and DO NOT SHAKE HANDS AT ALL.
My mom was saying she was making the matter worse that it is etc. I looove my mom, dont take her as a bad mom she always gives me everyting I need and she loves me and my bro and sis very much and tries to give us all we need but she smtms closes an eye abt some things. Ive seen her cry countless times bcs of my bro and sis she cries for herself and for us. A hardworking woman and my heroine too.
My sister made the amazing feat of making both roles of a caring " mother" and a strict one since my mom worked from earlier(I tried countless times to wake up earlier to see her off but ended up not sucefull countless times ) till very late(she then was exausted too so my sis played a major role in my life) I am extremly gratefull to both❤️
curious fact:.
Secret of my birth (possibly) (ps: my mom and dad dont know too... )
My sis say she one time made tiny holes with a needle in the condoms she found at home.
Soooo she may be the responsable at part for my existence,
I- dk if I should laught or cry, like WTF
and when my mom was preggy she keep saying its a sis too.
This woman pulled the strings of my life LOL😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
"I met a 28 year old on roblox, i was 13" that's enough internet for today..
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Surprisingly a lot of older people still play those games. I play Minecraft at 46 although rarely. I'm not into Roblox but I know a guy in his 30's who love it. Usually we hear about this weird kind of stuff in MMO's as they're more socially based.
@@randallsanchez3161 loving a game is fine. And playing the game as adult is fine.
Just don't try to get in touch with kids...
ya I never get laid! 😥
@@cherrydragon3120 _In_ touch is weird and okay at best, but _to_ touch is all kinds of problematic.
She kept saying "I'm dumb, I was dumb," but she wasn't dumb. She was THIRTEEN, a literal child, and an adult person with an adult fiance tricked her and manipulated her into that situation. He used her trust an innocence against her. He and his fiance are pieces of shit and I hope they get what's coming to them...
@TURKUN GUCUNU GORECEKSINIZ. Shut the fuck up please you sound like an ignorant little bitch
she wasn't dumb, she was a fool. In life you have to be careful,since humans are mischievous. Don't trust anyone and even yourself, because you are human as well. Since i was six year old till now I am free with people, but i never get too close with them. I've been learning to defend myself till now, preparing for whatever may come. Die or not I will still have little hope to protect myself and see those that wants to hurt me suffer.
psycho bratt you stfu
TURKUN GUCUNU GORECEKSINIZ. She was manipulated.
@@psychobratt you are the one who is making a mess here, in that case you are the one who should actually shut the hell up
I like how this video shows that boys and girls can be sexually assaulted. More females than males but I think a lot of people forget that all genders experience sexual harassment or abuse.
Holy shit your name is gold, but you’re right about your message I agree
@@anthonytran8850 i like ur name
@@mrko3960 I like your name
@@thecitadelofxylonas790 I like ur name too
Really fucking hard to take this serious with your name being named failed abortion
"He started taking his clothes off"
Me: *loads gun with religious intent*
Loads gun with non religious intent
Say Bismillah-rahman-rahim. So God will protect you 😊
@@AlexThePharaoh Some people don't believe in that, but I understand what you mean.
@Oricand oh come on. I was just trying to spread a little religion. For me there is only one God, Allah d.s.
I am not saying that you have to say Bismillah-rahman-rahim. But you can if you want to so Allah d.s. will protect you. '_'
@@syrup8041 I'm glad you do ☺
I know this is gonna sound weird, but the VR characters they chose for me added so much to it. Emma's character was very tiny and innocent looking, while Mr. Wobbles' character towered over hers, and for me that made the part where he shares his experience with her and tells her what she needs to do all the more heartbreaking and beautiful. Just the visualization of this large man connecting with and giving advice to this small girl, advice that he wish he had gotten, moved me to tears man
for me i think it did the oppisite cuz its an anime girl adn thats disgusting
@@Rocasette How is that disgusting?
@@excaligator450 actually HES disgusting cause he has dirty thoughts
@@Rocasette tf
yeah some mario cat thing talking to a anime girl
I genuinely almost puked in my mouth when she said that they might actually have a kid together. That man should be no where near a child.
Hannah Jacobs that man should get shanked nevermind not be near kids
I’m actually scared for that child. God knows what his father would do to them or what they’ll learn.
@@FinRaidz_ literally just shut up dude you're a nobody and if anything you should be the one being put down
@@doggo7514 i’m a nobody but you’re the one searching through comments made 11 months ago? grow up dude
@@FinRaidz_ Oh yeah I'm the one that should "grow up" because I don't think people should get killed. It's so fucking irritating seeing people like you in comments of videos where shit like this gets talked about. Make some sense for once in your life.
him: what a sick bastard
Girl: yeah he's manipulating children
Him: no for playing Roblox
Me: **cries in hashtags**
@Melanie Martinez Stan LMAOOOOO AHH IM DYING
BRUH ME
ÕoÕ u know how hard it is to type with hash tags
@@meghannachtiean3830 huh???
yeah
i ####### hate hashtags
“ he started taking his clothes off”
My stomach turned into an empty pit of a void I lost something when she said that
Your stomacj is ruined now there puke itn it now
we all knew what she was gonna say and that just made it worse
please no one like anymore its like 69 with a extra 9
Yup. Humanity's fucked up.
You werent expecting that?
Its insane how someone can imagine that a 28 year old got tricked by a 13 year old into having sex with them. I cannot fathom that people like this exist. Let alone the fact that this couple did not see anything wrong in what this guy was doing.
The perps wife is cognitively dissonant.
The lie she tells herself about her husband is more preferable to the truth about him, especially with the sunk cost fallacy of all the time, effort, and capitol she’s put into sharing her life with him it’s easier for her to deflect the fault that is rightfully his to someone else, specifically this girl who was taken advantage of.
Look up Cognitive Dissonance and Sunk Cost Fallacy
That’s backwards my friend. Didn’t a 13 year old get tricked by the 28 year old?
@@allahuakbar7717 they mean it like his wife thought that the girl tricked her husband to try to have sex w/ her
predatory grooming is a huge problem today online, especially in fandoms and video games. its never going to be okay when an adult preys on a child, never ever.
Why cant parents just stop letting their children use the internet? Or educate them properly.
@@Emerardo Because it do be kinda hard to stare at your child 24/7 and make sure they dont do anything when theres work, food and shit
@@cosmologification They dont need to constantly make sure their children arent doing anything, so long as they just educate them properly on safety. At 13 I knew damn well not to meet anyone I found online
@@Emerardo You originally said that they could just stop letting their kid use the internet (which would still be difficult to fully keep a child from being exposed at alL), but yeah parents should just educate the kid on "dont be a dumbass and try to meet strangers online, because we might as well just get your delayed abortion if you do that"
No shit
The cat is emotionally inspirational
Ten he made a penis
What?
The Small Fry ._. He is.
No im talking about that person who said 10 he made Penis
It’s me wobbles he’s a yt
This is the only channel on youtube that both warms my heart and makes me sad at the same time
I know. Me too.
Momo _Deadly his channel is more comedic
@Momo _Deadly this is about rape and you care about how drumsy was not also credited for being a happy channel?
@@alfred703 And how would you know? Imagine actually going through that, and then people call it fake.
No, the dodo and probably many other does the same
Dude, you're gonna bring VRChat back single-handedly.
xd
I feel bad for this girl and what she went through, but this guy has a kid now which creeps me out even more than I am 😬
The poor thing is doomed...
Your profile pick doesn't help
@@Qagher its chill patrick is a cartoon
Or no kid?
that means the sons friends are gonna be raped by his dad
"When i was 13 i was very dumb and very easily manipulated" you were A CHILD. This it's not on you
some child are smart
@@hakiohachi6674 IKR
@@Краснаяармиясамаясильная-б9ы but most aren't, especially if they aren't given the right education.
@@sheilablub I was really smart for my age, I mean being asian helps too kek
@@Краснаяармиясамаясильная-б9ы yeah I'm asian too and I knew about sexual assault in elementary but everyone has a different life...
“Video games cause violence” VRChat free therapy:
Tbh though so true, and to people you just meet too. It’s so calming
Oml yah video games DO NOT. cause violence parents and people do
Ikr I love these videos I see and I really want my own VR headset now just for free therapy lol
• Gacha Wolfie • what game is it?
Violext it’s vr chat
"i had a fear of my parents", that got me the most, how can one fear their parents so much that they go off with an older stranger, and almost get molested? What the fuck did her parents do? Its a part of the story no one is talking about, kids not trusting their parents is such a huge component of shit like this.
I was in a similar situation as a teenager and was groomed for 7 years before he flew across the country and I was also terrified of my parents, more than people who were dangerous for me. It kept me in toxic relationships and living in dangerous situations as long as I was away from them. They were incredibly strict and screamed at me about everything.
Currently I feel like my parents only fought over me just to keep custody money
she talks like she still feels guillty for it, she doesnt need to feel guilty for this
No, of course she doesn't, but when this kind of shit happens to you, you somehow feel gross. And I really can't explain why, but you just feel ashamed and disgusting and like you wanna leave your body because it feels dirty and just... so gross. I don't know why.
Bamboo Bhang I know how she and you feel stay strong 💙
@@chickenskink1 EXACTLY like the amount of blame you feel on yourself is so much. Like well /I/ should've realized or stopped it or known. Every memory, or article of clothing, associated with that person, just turns so sour and disgusting and very gross like you said. I get the worst feelings in the pit of my stomach and I feel like my entire body has hollowed out.
Phia I know how you feel, I still feel uncomfortable. And every memory of that night still scares me. Wish I could forget.
@@missmadness4162 Exactly! It's the trauma. Have you done EMDR? It has seriously helped me
mr. wobbles has to be a therapist, I was nearly sexually assaulted when I was 7 and he really helped, he's so nice, calming, and comforting. every person who had been sexually assaulted should watch this
can't imagine being in a position like that, you're just not in control of the situation but you're just there powerless and it really is sickening to know there are still people who take advantage of curious, unaware children
Yeah I guess-no Mr. Wobbles kind of opened up a wound in my case and still he deserve better, and the girl needs to have a taste of justice
There was a time, When my dad used to Look normally at my eys and then Look to somewhere Else than my eyes. It didn't Last long and he didn't do anything Else, but it gave me some kind of a trauma. I'm now More scared of unknown adults around me. No one knows about this. And i don't know is it so "big deal" to anyone because he just looked at me.
@@soni5163 I hope you can recover from that trauma
@@OWO-pk5vp Thank you so much 😓❤️🥺
Bro...the fiance should of slapped him and leave him, he is a predator, this girl got lucky. I am glad that she is okay and safe. God bless. ❤️
Punched*
He was utterly disgusting
Nice profile pic
Called the police on him**
True. Shes an evil devil. Especially since she knew what he was and covered for him.
Mario cat had a friend to tell. His "just tell someone" advice assumes the girl has the same thing. It all depends on the girl having someone she can trust to tell, who won't blow it up so it gets out of control for her. That's why it's so hard for her. It doesn't sound like she trusts her parents.
she literally said she fears her parents
The real answer is here in vrchat. She *did* tell someone. She told a complete stranger in a visual space and that led to her feeling just that little bit better.
I was raped at the age of 8, I told my parents when i was 10.
I’m 14 turning 15 and I still go to therapy for that. Don’t be afraid to tell someone it helps a TON.
I'm very sorry that happened to you
I told my family and they just said it was my fault since he's a family member, I'm happy you got a better reaction though.
@@sholos4478 im so sorry that happened to you, the same thing happened to me, i hope you told the authorities, and I hope you got better and happier, i wish you the best
are you trying to pan for likes like other fakers?
@@guitarlaughing the fuck is wrong with you
“He started taking his clothes off”
Me literally screaming: *NOOOOOOO*
pee SAME
pee
pee
pee dude i was completely silent just listening to the pain in her voice while she was leading up to her next sentences. it breaks my heart that this happens to do many people
pee same
“I was 13 and he was 28”
*Holy music stops*
I don't know if this is dark humor or not but the joke was good man but like this isn't the right place to tell a joke/meme
It never was holy in the first place
that’s not the right place, kid
*THE GREAT CRUSADE HAS BEGUN*
@V R I E S you can tell somebody's age by how they talk
who knew such wise and powerful, righteous words could come out of a guy dressed up as a mario cat man. I really hope both of them are okay.
The fact that she paused when she said “he tried to” hurt my heart
Watch a movie called i know my first name is Steven. It's based on a real story, it's kind if old now but it really shows what it's like being a victim of child predators.
Edit: also it has a scene in it like the "and then he"on the second part of the movie that really makes you sympathize for the character. It's a good movie that is under appreciated and really sad.
It's kind of like you know what exactly she is going to say, but you just don't believe she is going to say it, like it's impossible that will be said and that happened. Then she says it and my stomach hurts of rage.
Doler que, si ella perfectamente sabía lo que estaba por pasar, ella sabía lo que hacía, que no se haga la pendeja, la víctima...
Your sentence makes no sense
I fixed it
the contrast between the story and the funny skin remind me that even if someone is smiling everyday, they can suffer in silence
Truer words have never been spoken.
Interestingly enough, smiling can actually be a stress response. My therapist has pointed this out to me because i actually do it: i smile and laugh while i talk about my trauma because it makes it easier to talk about
@@TheJiamy same dude.. Stay strong my men !
Buzza you as well m8! Our demons may be from hell but they dont have to drag us there ✌️
girl and boy: *talking about a very serious subject*
also boy: “heY GUyS i dREw a pEniS”
He could be a good person maybe he just chilling
How dare you call Mr. Wobbles "some guy"
It was one of them who said that
When?
@@fallingoutboy in the end
The worst part is when she says that she was too scared of her parents to come home. Like, THAT’S what causes these things. Children need to have an emotional support system, not fear mongering.
She lied to her parents to go meet some older guy. Children need better role models. This is what happens when kids get cardi b etc. as role models.
Her fear may not be her parents it may be that she lied to them and put herself in a dangerous situation. It might be potential consequences which I hope there are none, holding her back.
Kids need better examples to look up to. THATS what causes these things in this context.
@@jayquick6520 huh cardi wasn’t a thing back then...
@@sbneo5605 I got underwear older than you… don’t tell me what was things back when lol. Degeneracy is degeneracy. Whether it was the cardi moron or someone else.
This... this is amazing, the way that dude talked to her and told her to tell someone. It was just incredible. He is a really blessed human being. I wish him the best life imaginable.
He has a youtube channel its MrWobbles
There are a lot of sexual assault victims in the coments i can’t read them all, but, if you are and see this i hope you get better.
Can't sugar coat this at all, there's really nothing we can help change on what happened to them and how they feel.... Only help get rid of the problem that's the only thing we can at least help..
@@slothyyteen-lg7me Wdym with "what they've become"..?
@@theironartmanufactur1745 fixed sorry
@@slothyyteen-lg7me Showing compassion isn't sugar coating. Of course people can't do much on the internet depending on the case, but showing support and understanding, letting people know they are being heard and believed in, means so much already.
Thank you
I've never seen this side of Wobbles, i've only seen him as the memester joking around on his streams. He's such a nice and genuine person
Is he the Mario cat?
Christian Leon I think so
Ya this kinda hurt my hear a lil bit
Everything about this video is sad
Mr wobbles the beatboxer?
Im 27, and never been on VR chat. But these conversations are amazing! It seems like speaking through an animated avatar makes speaking about these matters a little easier. and they get some sort of supporting presence from the other avatars aswell. Absolute gold mate
I love the man who jumped in , I am literally crying it’s soooo amazing how kind people are
Yeah
This made me cry, when big fat cat mario was giving his best honest advice absolute tears
I think both of them are dumb
VoizzRB How? He was 7 and she was 13! They were young and couldn’t defend themselves..
@@katharine3277 uh?
@@katharine3277 he wasnt 7
@@katharine3277 its her fault for going to a mans housr
My brother was raped when he was 7. He didn’t tell me and my family until he turned 13 and it breaks my heart that I never knew. I’m his older sister and I wish there more I could do for him but he’s now in therapy and healing. He waited too long to tell us so the piece of shit predator will never pay for his crimes. Guys please. If anything (god forbid) happens to you, please tell your loved ones because we will always be on your side and we don’t blame you. You’re not stupid because you are a literal child and nothing that an adult does to you is your fault. Please take care because people love you and will protect you.
Aracely Torres I’m so sorry that happened! Is he doing better now?
ryle0150 ryle0150 in the ass
@@pugberry2260 He's doing a lot better and is seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist thanks for your concern. Thankfully our insurance covers everything so we don't have to go broke to get him the help he needs. Especially, since we're a low income family. I just wanted to share my brother's story to show that help is always available and that seeking help is important. It's better to do it later than never and to preferably seek it asap. There's many resources available for people with all sorts of circumstances. Whether you're a minor who wants to seek help without your parents knowing or if you don't believe you can afford it. There's help out there and it takes a lot of courage to seek it out. I just want people to know there is hope.
It hurts because I was molested when I was young and I told my older brothera year or two ago and he told me that he didnt believe me and stuff and it hurts. I dont know where else to put this sorry
ryle0150 ryle0150 The same way a girl gets raped.
Having two victims of assault be able to meet like this and share in such organic way is just beautiful. VR adds a dimension to this kind of interaction that’s really transcendent. Amazing vid.
I wish I had VRchat. To be able to express yourself and be whoever you want in there with chill people, down to earth... To talk to and relate with.
Benji Oleander reality is 90% of the time it’s memes and loud inaudible noises
@@Minkfang Honestly, just as cool with that too
i know i’m a tad late, but you don’t need a vr headset for vr chat!!
@@snailpocky yeah i play vr chat without vr lol
It’s free man. You don’t need a VR set and most people play without one anyway.
In other words the fiancé is protecting him and he is most likely going to target his own child. People are sick
and/or that he has done it before or she knows he's capable of this
I'm proud of you.
I wonder how he would feel if someone did the same to his kids?🤔🤔🤔
@@HomelessOldMan9000 he's... probably going to do that himself 😔
I hope that the guy and his fianceé get to clean battlefields and ruins after war. It will fuck you up when you have to pick up parts of bodies and then put them back together. Thats closest to hell...
I’m almost more angry at the fiancée. That could have been her daughter. This happens, it’s normal for older guys to lead younger girls on online. I’ve experienced it myself. It’s not our fault. It’s not a kids fault. That woman is vicious. I am scared for her child.
I wouldn't say it's fair to call it "normal" by any stretch of the imagination. Even serial killers look down on child rapists. Hell, they pretty much get killed off in prison. So it's obviously a very small minority
JACpotatos didn’t mean child rapists are normal, I’m so sorry. That’s awful and that should never EVER be ok! I meant that older guys getting in touch with young girls online is very normal. It’s not ok, but it happens all the time. Sorry if that came out wrong
@@Zkadiee Oh, I gotcha. Yeah, I guess that probably is a common method that's used. I thought you were saying it was common for men to be in contact with young girls
@@Zkadiee You mean Pedophiles are common. not guys, not girls. Pedophiles.
@@Zkadiee Okay for a second I thought you meant creeps seeking out young girls online in a predatory way was normal and was about to freak out
This video was hard enough to get through in one piece but the comments have me in literal tears, choking up while I write this. None of you deserved what happened to you and all of you deserve to feel safe again.
As someone who literally told my parents about being sexually assaulted, hearing these people’s stories is super inspiring. I really hope Emma ends up finding a professional to talk to. Sexual trauma is a lot to deal with, nobody should have to carry the burden of those memories on their own.
Yeah. Sex with someone you can trust is amazing. I hope she can overcome the trauma.
"It was getting dark, and I had a major fear of my own parents, so he told me I could stay at his house."
Don't be those parents. Love your children. Let them know their home is a safe place, no matter what.
Quolley bruh why was she sneaking out then
@@princessmia66 You tell me why someone who is scared of her parents wouldn't tell them she's going out.
Quolley but she did tell them she told them they where going to the park.
@@princessmia66 that's just doesn't matter dude, she was only 13 she was really just a kid, and kid do these kind of dumb shit especially when they don't see them self safe or loved in home so they put themselves in danger hoping that in some way a stranger will give them a caring feeling or attention. I bet someone who lied to they parents when they're young it's because they don't feel safe to talk with them, to trust them and they are the adults , they had a responsibility to made her to feel ok to talk about anything to them. And when your child go through some dark shit like that no matter what thing they did wrong, you need to made to them know that wasn't their fault and they can keep living no matter what. Bc when you feel guilty for something that you can't even understand and have no one in your side it feels so desperate and lonely until you broke yourself apart
I know that was a really long answer and probably I mess up a few words bc I'm not a native speaker, but I really hope that you understand because you never no when you should stand up to protect others no matter what, and I hope that anyone had to feel the way I felt when nobody believed me or stood by my side to protect me when I needed
“He’s so disgusting, playing roblox”
*hears while playing Roblox-*
@@honeyfox2076 I'm glad I wasn't the only one playing roblox reading dis
IKR Roblox is mostly bad now
Roblox tha best
I mean- he is 28
Can we appreciate how much of a good guy Mario tabby cat was
how did she keep a straight face when a mario cat with a moustache was being her therapist
Because she is seriously traumatized
shadysaar eh good point
the setting of VR chat with silly characters makes people a lot more comfortable opening up than a typical therapist setting
ONI Section Zero no
tears can do that to a person
0:48
"What a sick bastard"
"yeah"
"yeah, looking for children"
"No, roblox"
@Xizz cesspool*
@@konfu_ion sesspool*
I thought this was so sweet that he cracked this wee joke to put her at ease and make her feel like she could open up. ❤
@@jmsgridiron5628 no it is cesspool
@@scape_stray601 I am aware. I spelled it wrong intentionally because now you understand how irritating it is when you get corrected.
I recognise that pause after "he tried... "
For anyone who doesn't understand it, it's kind of like the non-newtonian fluid of anxieties. The closer you get to talking about the thing, the harder it gets to talk about.
She was already incredibly strong to talk about this, I hope she is able to get the help she needs.
Edit (7 months later): This is still getting responses so I just wanted to add that someone experiencing this usually really does _want_ to say whatever it is that's causing the anxiety, it can just feel like an insurmountable obstacle to get it out of their throat.
@iTheGeek Don't be like that, dude. That's super disrespectful to this girl's experience, take it to a different video.
@iTheGeek Good lord shut up
You know more than me, but,
Yeah I’ve experienced that too when talking about the bullying I got when I was younger
The non-newtonian fluid of anxieties is probably the best analogy i've ever heard
ok i don't know if you know but if you do can you tell me why when someone tries to talk about something very scary that happened to them like the girl that you physically can't muster the words of what happened out of your mouth? there's some things i can't tell my parents anyway and i'm saving it for someone in camhs (british youth support thingy) but i don't know if i'll actually be able to say it. i'm just wondering if anyone knows what it is
My body is shaking from absolute... I don't even know what emotion this is but it isn't entirely good but it also isn't terrible. I do feel a lot of warmness at the way everyone was supporting her and assuring her that she's not in the wrong and that she's safe, I'm glad that I watched this and I love this community. I'm really glad I discovered this channel.
Im a victim of sexual assault from when i was 11. I can hear in her voice. the hesitation between each word and each sentence, the stumbling over it, trying to get through it (basically trying to find a way to say it that doesn't crush from the inside) its heart breaking :( she needed to talk, thank you so much for listening to her Syrmor! I am 35 and still in trauma therapy. we keep trying to get into EMDR. i keep balking at it half way through so we have to start over. its a hard path. so so hard. im so sorry you went through this sy, and her. Please please stay in touch with her!!! Dont let her drop okei?
That's horrible to hear, I hope you're doing well now😕
@@onno2110 So much better now thanks to therapy, and hard work. its a long road. and i still have a lot of issues. but it is worth the fight.
@@IrishHeart that's great to hear! I hope that those other issues will be gone soon🙌🏼
I'm glad she found Syrmor's group to talk to, because as you point out, it's so hard to talk about past all the guilt and shame. I tried contacting this post-secondary talk line that was supposed to be staffed by trained psychologists, after I had a non-consensual sexual encounter with my ex. I wanted to talk to someone about it because I wasn't eating and I knew it was messing me up, but I could barely get the words out - I still don't like labeling it as a "sexual assault" because it was my best friend, someone I'd dated for two years and who really cared about me. The person on the talk line though was not helpful at all, and I guess for liability reasons was really afraid of prompting me to say anything in particular. He ended up telling me "maybe you're not ready to talk about this," which was really upsetting because I was trying my best.
@@AmbiambiSinistrous Please know you can message me anytime. my twitter is @itsirishhearts ♥
*"When i was 13 I was very naive."*
Seems legit. Teenagers are stupid.
*Then I met this guy, who was like, 28-"*
I don't like where this is going.
Dont say "teenagers are stupid" because thats the reason people blame themselves or thinga like this
@@pikachu-jr2rb okay, I might be taking this way to serious but let me explain:
There is a difference between being "smart" and being "wise" for me. "Smart" referring more to factual knowledge and book smarts, while "wise" refers more to the social and culture knowledge one can obtain through experience.
Most teenagers are relatively smart. Very few teenagers are wise.
I.E. teenagers aren't mentally retarded, but they tend to make stupid, instinctual decisions that eventually lead to a poor outcome like the girl in the video experienced. She learned from her mistake, learned that it was a stupid decision, and became just that bit wiser because of it. It was the guy's fault for doing what he did and it was the girl's fault for doing what she did. She should blame herself for her part in the story since she is also responsible for her own safety.
In short: teenagers aren't stupid because they aren't smart, teenagers are stupid because they aren't wise.
It's never the teenagers fault, you can't say "teenagers are stupid"
@@reecye I can. Watch me.
You're probably a teenager yourself. Please don't say that!
I feel so bad...when her voice started to break i started to cry...i can’t, this is so sad....
This boils my blood that there is people like this manipulating impressionable kids
“but he was really fat” why make me laugh when im cryingg
The SECOND SHE OPENED with “I was dumb” MY HEART SANK
Really says a lot about how we talk about this stuff
Edit: this blew up. Anyways, the bottom line is this: Children cannot consent to sex. Regardless of age, in situations where children become victimized by adults, it is not on the responsibility of the child to have protected themselves from the adult. Abuse is a choice. Being a victim is not, regardless of what situation the victim is in. Being lured into someone’s house or letting someone into your own is not consent to sex. If you have sex with someone who cannot consent to sex (whether it be a child, someone who is drunk or under the influence, or someone with a disability), you are a rapist and therefore you are responsible for any trauma the victim may experience. Someone who is groomed, or taken advantage of, is not at fault or in anyway culpable of something someone else does to them. Furthermore, victim blaming never adds anything to the conversation of how to help survivors heal. I understand some of you aren’t adults yet and can’t yet process that you are not as capable, intelligent and organized yet. I’m not saying you aren’t entitled to an opinion, but what I am saying is when an adult is in a situation where they are responsible for someone else, they’re able to take advantage of it, especially if they are a predator. It’s super easy to think you can’t be victimized when you’re young because whether teenagers want to admit it or not for the most part they believe they are indestructible or can do anything. It’s easy to act holier-than-thou and say what you would have done in that situation, but comparing yourself to a victim to demean them as I’ve seen lots of people do is never okay and never adds anything to the conversation.
alanna beebo ...she was 13 he was 28 he should’ve been responsible SHE WAS A KID!
@alanna beebo Its not "dumb" to be manipulated, especially as a fucking 13 year old child you sicko. You are the problem.
Yeah it's not dumb, we don't educate children that there are these creeps in every corner of the internet and that they will do or say anything to get them to trust you!
@alanna beebo Health class has nothing to do with ABUSE. Children are not taught about abuse in school, and you clearly dont understand what abuse and grooming does to a person. It doesnt matter if it is common sense. You have NO right to speak on this subject, since you are speaking from the outside in with no knowledge of the affect abuse has on the brain of an adult, let alone a child.
Mhm
Him: What a sick bastard
Her: Yeah, looking for children
Him: No for playing roblox.
Me: *Cries in Oof*
* *Laughs in Minecraft* *
@@agentdarkhd *Laughs in being older then minecraft*
@@gamevoid3684 *Laughs at Roblox*
@@agentdarkhd *Laughs at you*
@@gamevoid3684 *" No u"*
9:46
Thank you for that. A light at the end of the tunnel. I really needed that giggle after crying for 10 minutes straight. ❤
Girl: Tells sad story
Guy at the end of video: hey guys look a draw a peepee
UmYeti it's nice tho because it ends with humour
It really hurt when her voice cracked in the middle of her sentences cause I have been through that too (and according to these comments a lot of people has also been through this... *horrible world we live in* ) But girl, you aren't alone.
*Also I laughed so hard when a fat cat dressed as Mario gave some actual good advice.*
Not the FBI makes me wish I could speak that same fat Mario cat.
I always wished to help every single person in cruel situations but I realise that almost impossible. If I could devote my life to helping other even if it was just listening, I would want nothing else
dusk that’s what I feel I need, somebody to listen
@@mysteryboy1462 Fellow person with the same purpose in life here.
How can the fiance scream at the kid while his adult partner is there with the kid?... Is there any explanation needed wtf, how on hearth would it be the kids fault... Some ppl are really messed up
The fact that they stayed together after what happened proves that they are sick as hell
She probably still loves him but I know she knows its wrong she just doesn't want to lose her husband to the cops. Either that or really low self-esteem, which I doubt more.
@@imnotstupid5058 Money 💰
She also, like him, tried to manipulate her into not saying anything. (with threats and money)
I think she didn't wanted to believe that her husband cheated on her, but that he got lured into this situation.
Sadly there are a lot of woman who don't wanna see the reality and let their husbands cheat on them multiple times even.
And she probably feard that it will all come out etc.
But both reacted horribly.
@@MinishMilly Could also potentially be a sense of embarassment or shame because if it comes out, it'll reflect on her. Or that it could be her fault for not noticing and letting it happen.
I was raped for a year and a half straight by my babysitter he held a gun to my head often and said unspeakable things to me , i can attest that telling people about that as a male is so hard , its so hard as a man to open up and say another man overpowerd me and took advantage of me and i sat there and let it happen , he did the same exact thing to my cousin and we both wrote statements for the detective and somehow there was not even enough evidence to even start a trial , this video was very nice to listen to , i feel so alone and isolated from this world and i feel a lil less alone after watching that video and hearing yall stories , sincerely thank you for bringing more light to these evil turn of events
Mario Cat Man, you’re a real one. Seriously, this girl needed to hear this. Hope you guys are getting better, time heals everything.
@Uncle Eidolf man, why you gotta say "f3males" like that? Just say girl dude. Its not a slur to acknowledge the existence of women. I'm just hella confused by this comment. Also, she said she would try to tell someone and neither of us know her besides this interaction so we can't really say definitively what she will or won't do. I'm sorry but the way you phrased your comment sounds a little condescending towards the victim
wtf happened here
turn up for some break up fuck relationships. if you get married or stay in a relationship for a long time then you are dum. come on cheating helps bro dont feel bad you cheat you needed this it would get boring seeing the same person like tht then seeing them as a friend
@@ostrophonic huh
@@sillygoosebaby_ dontmknoe you tell me whats sup
When she said that his fiance came home early I was like, oh! This has somewhat of a good ending, she’ll be mad at her fiance, apologize to her as break up with him and then boom. Then she continued and my heart shattered.
Same
I can only imagine that the fiancee was so obsessed and desperate with the guy that she would not let herself conceive that he was at fault in the situation.
@@stupidrainbo or they're both fucked up people who both do that.
@@gigachad64 well yeah it was clear he was fucked up right from the beginning
Were it so easy...
Thumbnail: *”I was 13 and he was 28”*
Title: “Girl in VRChat talks about the worst night of her life”
Me: Uh oh! I don’t like where this is going!
keyboard hitter yea man situations like this where terrible things happen to you and you’re backed into a corner of “I can’t tell my parents, because (Reason), I can’t tell a therapist because (Reason), and I can’t tell my friends because (Reason). And you feel like you HAVE to keep your mouth shut when you Don’t. Really Scary Stuff
No one does
Also you: but I'll go watch anyway cuz its content
Hazel TheOne You know, I dont like when people make a meme for likes about a serious topic. For me it's disgisting.
J.K Kidding
I mean, it wasn’t specifically for likes I was just putting a joke out. sorry my comment displeased you mate.
°3°
It almost feels like the character she's playing as reflects on herself, the tiny character reflecting on her own personality and her ability to speak out. It's really sad but I hope both of them gets better
When the moustache mario cat guy was talking about how his grandpa died and how he skipped school after his friends dad died in his sleep while he was staying at his house... man
6:47 ok this is wholesome but watching a mario obese-cat comforting a girl so much smaller than him is making me cackle
her: he was taking his clothes off
me: *i don’t like where this is going*
“STOP” “no no nonononono”
Lol i want to share my story in this comment section so hope u dont mind yeet.
I was also playing roblox, well meep city exactly. Two girls start to ask me to follow them. We go to a bedroom in a party and they start to tell me to take of my roblox outift. I stayed quiet. Then they start typing nasty things like "hIs PeNiS iS sO jUiCy". Wow ew i then leave the game and they add me. I ask them about their ages and one girl said they are both 13. Its absolutely creeped me out, the internet had influence teens too many bad things including me. I wish the internet dont exist now.
Lure. bro the same thing happened to me when i was like 10- im 15 now and shit my eyes were cursed
@@ashnobo1659 yep bro my eyes were bleeding the whole day
Lure. lmfao same
I never knew VR chat could be this wholesome
watching this broke my heart. i’m also a victim of sexual assault. i was about 5 or 6 and he was 17. i never told my mom until last year. as i was and still am growing, i learned about abuse and assault. each time i read about sexual assault or abuse, i just couldn’t help think that i might be a victim. i hated the thought of it but i grew to accept it and it haunted me for 9 years. 9 years of breakdowns, 9 years of terrible anxiety.. 9 years of hell. i peaked last year when my anxiety got so bad that i found myself going to the bathroom to cry before my classes started. when i finally told my mom, that heavy burden was lifted off of my shoulders and i can gladly say i’m doing much better. i’m 15 now and my confidence, happiness and overall well-being has increased significantly. please, if you are a victim of sexual assault or abuse, tell someone. it doesn’t matter how old you are or what gender you are, you are valid and need to be heard. it’s never too late. i’m rooting for you! ❤️
Thank you. I wish you all the best as well. :`)
precious ! Ok, EVEN THE PREPRAITOR IS UNDERAGE.
Wesleee yeah :/ if i had told my mom when i was still young she could’ve charged him and he would’ve been trialed as an adult. i’ve moved past it now and i never want to see him again.
precious ! But still the underage shit going on is astounding.
Wow that's crazy but I dont remember asking
Wow... that was... I'm sitting here crying. So, one of the toughest parts about therapy is having to call things for what they are. By avoiding the words, we give them power. That poor girl was trying to avoid saying she was almost raped. But Wobbles, and bless him, came out and said that he was raped. Being forced to have sex in ANY case is rape. That poor girl didn't ask for it, nothing she said gave him permission. And once she is able to come to terms with that, through talking to people, through therapy, their power over her will fade away. Will it ever be gone? No, not at all. But it will be so much better than it is.
Also, if you ever see me on VRChat and you need to talk, please please please don't hesitate to reach out. I don't care what kind of stupid stuff I'm doing. If you see kaitokuro (or possibly Kai_Tokuro), then come up and mention Syrmor's channel. You do that, and you have my full attention. Everyone needs someone to talk to, even if its a random stranger on the internet.
And for anyone who needs to hear this, you are NEVER alone. There is always going to be people who will help, who will listen because we've been there. And also remember, you are beautiful and you are loved. No if, ands, or buts. You ARE beautiful and you ARE loved.
Damn your comment made me cry I was holding it together so we'll until this
@@md_macwillai2756 Thank you hun. The worst part about this is I can't hug people IRL, which I would do in a heartbeat. I am serious about my offer to be an ear. Whenever I am able, I'm always happy to talk.
What a wholesome person, glad I read the whole thing.
Thank you very much. I try to put positivity out as much as I can. Plus both my wife and I have been through traumatic experiences and I firmly believe that I can use them to help people. I can take away the negative and bring a usefulness to them while showing people that its not the end of the world and that they are not alone.
I respect the hell out of what Syrmor does because our culture tries to sweep things like mental health and trauma under the rug and ignore it. I refuse to do that. It has to be talked about, openly and honestly. And Syrmor gives people a chance to do that and lets their voice be heard far and wide.
@@md_macwillai2756 Same I barely made it through the video without crying and then this comment just broke me.
It's such a difficult thing to go through and its disgustingly common. All of my friends have had something like this happen including myself. For me it was my older brother, and it was for years. I never told my parents, but I did tell my older sister, and she was heart broken. My sister had been molested by my grandfather and my parents and siblings all knew and did nothing about it. So my sis cut off the entire family and I'm so proud of her for it, we are the only ones who still talk.
Are you from a rich family? Or middle eastern? Or a family that depends on the men and barely has any regard for the girls?
@Jose Skool II fuck
@@basicpenguin3844 Im pretty sure they are from Alabama. I just have a feeling
@@Emerardo you shouldn't joke this is serious
@@itzpurple_queen9711 yeah true sorry
I'm staring at a Mario Cat talk to an anime girl and sobbing
Her immediately saying she was dumb and easily manipulated was heartbreaking. Like no, sweetie, everyone's dumb as a kid, everyone's scared and confused and looking for who they are.
no not really i think it was just a lack information what to do, for me personally i was told not to talk to strangers or people that are older then me that i didn't know or my parents didn't know, i can get that it's pretty disturbing but falling in such a dumb trap is the fault of either the parents for not teaching their kids properly or the kid being so unlogically stupid that it falls for this kind of stuff.
@@snor_flex2613 You hit the nail on the head. 13 year olds are not this stupid with good parenting, and in this video she basically says that she doesn't have a good relationship with her parents.
@@snor_flex2613 exactly, people don't wanna hear this but it's the truth. At 13 there is no way am meeting a 20 year old, or random kid my age that I met online, much less a 28 year old lol. I'm 21 and I don't think I've met a 13 year old in my family that I think would do that based on how smart they are, or come across from conversation.
We are dumb at 13 but with good parenting we know when something isn’t right. We would know what to do in those situations. Because I wasn’t told anything, I didn’t know what to do at 14 until I hit about 16 when I told my parents.
@@vickyandersen8660 lol I had shit parenting and even I wouldn't be so foolish at that age. It's not a matter of parenting, just common sense and intellect. Hell even my instinct at the age of 12 made me weary around strangers. I sure as hell wouldn't be meeting one I met online, or even going to his or her house.
“We met on Roblox”
*Builderman would like to know your location*
Lel
Lol
*It is amazing to me how much emotion is behind cats with mustaches and Mario hats*
Her laugh is just so beautiful and joyful. I wish her a wonderful life
I also was raped when I was 7, and it kept happening for 7 years
Seeing this video honestly really helpped
Hopefully after quarantine is over I will seek proffesional help to finally move on
What happened, how did it keep happening for 7 years, is there something you couldn't do?
@@@oklol1567 In cases of long-term abuse of children, the offender is often a family member or close friend of the family. Regardless, children from age 7-14 generally do not have the agency to get away from their situation, and are made fearful of telling other people or seeking outside help.
@Naomi, you can tell your story here if you feel ready or think it will help you, but you don't have to if you're not comfortable sharing yet. You also don't have to wait for the quarantine to end to seek professional counseling! Many cities have local mental health organizations with hotlines to schedule online or telephone appointments. You can start by searching your city or state's name along with "mental health" or "telepsychology". There may be some wider-reaching sites that offer services, but the APA advises caution in case there are licensing issues or possible scams. Start local if you can, and if you are in the US, try apa(dot)org/helpcenter next.
And don't talk yourself out of it either. These people's literal jobs are to help people sort through very messy and complicated emotions, and they very much want to help YOU. You are worth it.
caffeinette you said everything I was gonna say and more, except you need to press charges otherwise they are just going to do this again
@@Juicestain2 but get your head sorted first and see if you have the grounds too. Ik a lot of people who have only been retraumatised by pressing charges. Depends what country you're in. But yeah do if you can once you're in a safe place
Love, please don't wait. Find someone. I know how hard it is to tell someone. You feel scared and ashamed. But trust me, you're not at fault. There are people out there and out here too that love you and are here for you. Working through your suffering is so SO much better than living in silence. There are hotlines and online therapy out there, and if it comes down to it, there are strangers on the Internet like me and so many others who would gladly take the time to talk to you. You don't deserve to carry this weight any longer.
Thank you everyone for understanding what I have been through. I decided to delete everything I wrote bc I don’t want to remember or get reminded of this :) But thanks to everyone for being so kind and understanding about my situation it did make me feel a bit better, Thanks again
EDIT: i recently got a reply under my comment calling me a fake and that im not emma from this video, ofc im not, never said i was, i only shared my experience that i had and decided to erase it, which is why i wrote the comment above ^
Thanks for being strong up until this moment. I've never been through this kind of stuff but I know it would be hell to go through that. So, thanks for being strong.
Purple Grape thank u so much u don’t know how much your words really really mean to me, thank you❤️
I really hope your dad gave you the love and care you deserve, and hopefully your discharging stepdad is behind bars. None of that shit is your fault
urgirl jennie wow that’s so fucking hard to talk about omg i can’t BELIVE your mom would not belive you well i hope life only gets better for you and god bless 🙏 🧎♂️
Ann-Marie Henderson unfortunately he was let off shortly after. I just hope I don’t have to face him for the rest of my life . And thank u, I’d like to believe that none of this was my fault at all 🙏
I told my teacher when I was 6. CPS did nothing. My adoptive father is still walking around, free. It's bullshit that people go through this
Antisocial Freak same here but haven’t you thought about taking revenge ?
@@pekpek69 multiple times. Because no one ever gave me anything but strife, and endless sadness and depression. But every time I use my anger as a tool against the assholes, I feel like I've done something worthwhile. I don't know if that makes sense.
He will pay someday.
@@yourpapa6410 hopefully. Yet, somehow the universe is always against me, so I doubt he will.
@@tamarastephens7228 no no trust me I ve seen this happen way too many times it's almost invetible if you do a horrible crime like that sooner or later you're going down.