yes they can but if we use eft techniques daily and correctly, really easy and free to learn, we can actually use all those things to propel ourselves forward. I have ten years plus direct expeirence using them and they are amazing. Good video, thank you!
I loved dancing and never had a problem with people or noise but I always rested the next day. My biggest thing is disagreements - i want it settled and i move on immediately - people always have a problem with this. My family think its because I'm callous i move on but its because i need peace l. I've always avoided negative and aggressive people.
I agree with all of these. As for unresolved issues, the first point mentioned, as an idealist who longs for justice for all, I would add that the state of the present world is my major concern these days and, as I can't switch off from all the downright evil and depravity,. I am permanently exhausted. How do the rest of us feel? As we always see the big picture, I find it impossible to devote much of myself to anything else.
I too worry about the near future. I retired at 70, am 74 now, and am dependent upon Social Security. I will have to find a job if Social Security and Medicare get scrapped. I have no education other than High School and no marketable skills. I lay awake at night trying to figure out how to survive while being homeless.
These are all absolutely relatable. I want to add my 2 cents to the point about being the center of attention; It's so hard having everyone watch you because you're observing all of their reactions to you and adjusting your behaviour in response. This isn't something that can be turned off or ignored, it's always running in the background of our minds, and while being the center of attention, it moves to the front of our minds and makes it the main focal point. This makes it very difficult to focus on the reason we're in the spotlight to begin with and can cause us to seem robotic, superficial, performative, and/or other similar ways. It's much easier to stay away from the spotlight. So much easier.
On point across the board!!! The decision fatigue is the worst??? I tend to defer to others in social situations, which relieves my anxiety about the outcome as I'm not really responsible for it, but the real life decisions slay me. When the stakes are the highest is when I freeze.
In large gatherings I have to sing in my head to block out the emotions that drown me. It is a handicap that I tell the normies they don't suffer from. They laugh at me but it's a real kick in the ass that I can't undo. I can not be numb I have an open nerve that feels the pain behind the laughter. Thank you for your show giving validation to our burden of feeling in a unfeeling world.
And the aisle in the grocery store where they have laundry detergent and other cleaning products. Ugh. Tough place for me. I have to hold my breath and walk quickly through there.
Oh, my goodness. All 7 of these things describe me. Over many years, I've mostly learned to deal. This year, I am flatly refusing to travel for a several day Thanksgiving visit with multiple groupings of relatives, etc., in a large city. I'll be hermit-ing at home.
Absolutely I can relate to all of these, especially the whole crowd thing. I can have fun while at a concert or other type of gathering but wow, do I ever feel the exhaustion the next day. It’s always been like this for me. I hate it but learn to cope with it.
I can handle interesting and emotionally balanced people for ages, with no ill side effects. Those are rare. Otherwise, I shelf the empathy and stick with thinking functions. Crowds are too much information. I'll do them if I have to, but prefer not to. There are exceptions to every rule, but only if the gains outweigh the cost. What I consider the true value of any interaction I keep to myself unless I both implicitly and explicitly trust the person I'm interacting with. I could list the names on one hand of anyone I held in such esteem; even then, they've all passed away. People are like pretty, poisonous, things for the most part. Best admired from a safe distance.
True on all counts it's been my experience and I could add a few more, eg: disharmony between others that goes on for a long period. Explosive outbursts, screaming shouting etc .chaotic environments. Walking on eggshells around persons.Angry critical persons, boisterous children. Relentless attention seeking. Just to name a few.
In large gatherings I have to sing in my head to block out the emotions that drown me. It is a handicap that I tell the normies they don't suffer from. They laugh at me but it's a real kick in the ass that I can't undo. I can not be numb I have an open nerve that feels the pain behind the laughter. Thank you for your show giving validation to our burden of feeling in a unfeeling world. Only INFJ’s will understand my Heyoka observation that it is difficult living here on the planet of the apes and not being an ape.
"How does the INFJ even go about their daily business with all of these exhausting triggers?" Me: By trying to disassociate and lose myself in my innermost thoughts? "Well, luckily, not every INFJ is affected by the same overstimulating environments." Me: Oh.... Yeah, I mean, that's... what I was gonna say next...
I’m INFJ by 7 different tests, so most likely I’m INFJ. But hey people, what is wrong with you all? You all on YT are getting so self absorbed about your uniqueness and getting a bit full of yourself! Please get that out of your head before you will become utterly unpleasant individuals! Be very careful of that, because this can happen.
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*So, do these 7 things exhaust you as an INFJ?*
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yes they can but if we use eft techniques daily and correctly, really easy and free to learn, we can actually use all those things to propel ourselves forward. I have ten years plus direct expeirence using them and they are amazing. Good video, thank you!
AI commentary is exhausting pace is a drag , awful .
I loved dancing and never had a problem with people or noise but I always rested the next day. My biggest thing is disagreements - i want it settled and i move on immediately - people always have a problem with this. My family think its because I'm callous i move on but its because i need peace l. I've always avoided negative and aggressive people.
I agree with all of these. As for unresolved issues, the first point mentioned, as an idealist who longs for justice for all, I would add that the state of the present world is my major concern these days and, as I can't switch off from all the downright evil and depravity,. I am permanently exhausted. How do the rest of us feel? As we always see the big picture, I find it impossible to devote much of myself to anything else.
Yes, great point. That looming doom alone is enough to drain us day in and day out.
I too worry about the near future. I retired at 70, am 74 now, and am dependent upon Social Security. I will have to find a job if Social Security and Medicare get scrapped. I have no education other than High School and no marketable skills. I lay awake at night trying to figure out how to survive while being homeless.
Agreed, but as I also have a business, I may have become ADD or ADHD... I’ve been looking into this...
I can people, as long as it's one people at a time.
Haha, for me, people-ing is exhausting no matter the quantity 😂
And for no more then an hour at a time
I hate how we get exhausted no matter what we do.
INFJs unite - separately, each from our own homes, at a time of day that suits us, with a nap afterwards! :>)
These are all absolutely relatable. I want to add my 2 cents to the point about being the center of attention; It's so hard having everyone watch you because you're observing all of their reactions to you and adjusting your behaviour in response. This isn't something that can be turned off or ignored, it's always running in the background of our minds, and while being the center of attention, it moves to the front of our minds and makes it the main focal point. This makes it very difficult to focus on the reason we're in the spotlight to begin with and can cause us to seem robotic, superficial, performative, and/or other similar ways. It's much easier to stay away from the spotlight. So much easier.
This was so spot on that I could finish some of the sentences before he did. Lol! Did anybody else do that, too?
I have a shirt that says “It’s WAY too people-y out here!”
😂
Yes, I relate to all of these!
On point across the board!!! The decision fatigue is the worst??? I tend to defer to others in social situations, which relieves my anxiety about the outcome as I'm not really responsible for it, but the real life decisions slay me. When the stakes are the highest is when I freeze.
In large gatherings I have to sing in my head to block out the emotions that drown me. It is a handicap that I tell the normies they don't suffer from. They laugh at me but it's a real kick in the ass that I can't undo. I can not be numb I have an open nerve that feels the pain behind the laughter. Thank you for your show giving validation to our burden of feeling in a unfeeling world.
So THATS why im always tired!!
I like people (I just can’t stand being around them too much). And don’t even get me started on smells-AVOID THE SHOPPING MALL AT ALL COST.
And the aisle in the grocery store where they have laundry detergent and other cleaning products. Ugh. Tough place for me. I have to hold my breath and walk quickly through there.
Oh, my goodness. All 7 of these things describe me. Over many years, I've mostly learned to deal. This year, I am flatly refusing to travel for a several day Thanksgiving visit with multiple groupings of relatives, etc., in a large city. I'll be hermit-ing at home.
Absolutely I can relate to all of these, especially the whole crowd thing. I can have fun while at a concert or other type of gathering but wow, do I ever feel the exhaustion the next day. It’s always been like this for me. I hate it but learn to cope with it.
Yes, music concerts are different, a whole different energy. Exciting and positive vibes.
I have learned too be aware off putting one foot in front of the other, and being very careful on were my next foot lands ❤INFj
I can handle interesting and emotionally balanced people for ages, with no ill side effects. Those are rare. Otherwise, I shelf the empathy and stick with thinking functions. Crowds are too much information. I'll do them if I have to, but prefer not to. There are exceptions to every rule, but only if the gains outweigh the cost. What I consider the true value of any interaction I keep to myself unless I both implicitly and explicitly trust the person I'm interacting with. I could list the names on one hand of anyone I held in such esteem; even then, they've all passed away. People are like pretty, poisonous, things for the most part. Best admired from a safe distance.
I’m starting to feel the same about people. It makes me sad though, I want to have hope
True on all counts it's been my experience and I could add a few more, eg: disharmony between others that goes on for a long period. Explosive outbursts, screaming shouting etc .chaotic environments. Walking on eggshells around persons.Angry critical persons, boisterous children. Relentless attention seeking. Just to name a few.
In large gatherings I have to sing in my head to block out the emotions that drown me. It is a handicap that I tell the normies they don't suffer from. They laugh at me but it's a real kick in the ass that I can't undo. I can not be numb I have an open nerve that feels the pain behind the laughter. Thank you for your show giving validation to our burden of feeling in a unfeeling world. Only INFJ’s will understand my Heyoka observation that it is difficult living here on the planet of the apes and not being an ape.
Spot on 😂😢
The fact that people lined up in parking lots to take an experimental shot from strangers exhausts me still to this day😩
Yes! I can relate to all of these!
I get energized when I'm doing a model photoshoot or video.
Exactly
Such intimate knowledge of our inner selves.👏
#7 is very personal to me. I ignored it twice and had 2 seizuree. I overworker myself 😮
Guilty in all charges :D
"How does the INFJ even go about their daily business with all of these exhausting triggers?"
Me: By trying to disassociate and lose myself in my innermost thoughts?
"Well, luckily, not every INFJ is affected by the same overstimulating environments."
Me: Oh.... Yeah, I mean, that's... what I was gonna say next...
❤ exactly brother
Not instantly but yes over a certain amount of time I can tolerate all of these things.
I just found my enfp, wish me luck
I’m INFJ by 7 different tests, so most likely I’m INFJ.
But hey people, what is wrong with you all? You all on YT are getting so self absorbed about your uniqueness and getting a bit full of yourself! Please get that out of your head before you will become utterly unpleasant individuals! Be very careful of that, because this can happen.
This is extremely helpful and extremely me. This explains me to a T.
❤Brilliant
Sounds like there's a ton of overlap with my adhd 😮
I'm not worried about the world. God is in control.
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Waking up😂😂
All correct for me, except decision fatigue🩷