Betrayed: A Story of Three Women (1995)

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  • Опубликовано: 31 дек 2021
  • Amanda Nelson (Meredith Baxter) and her best friend, Joan Bixler (Swoosie Kurtz), are happy suburbanites until a lurid affair involving both their families upsets their domestic ease. Dana (Clare Carey), Joan's daughter, begins sleeping with Rob (John Terry), Amanda's husband, and the revelation of this romance dredges up long-buried jealousies and grudges. Joan and Amanda have always turned to each other for emotional support, but this particular problem threatens to destroy their bond.
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  • @7thMack
    @7thMack Год назад +2409

    When I was 15 I developed a little crush on a coworker who was married. I did not tell him or anything, but I told my mom about it. Her reaction was not what I expected at all. I thought she’d just roll her eyes and laugh at me. Instead, she got deadly serious and stated very clearly that there’s not much lower a person can sink in life than to become a home-wrecker. I never needed to be told twice and have always lived by that rule, to never ever - no matter what the situation may be - interfere with someone else’s marriage.

    • @oliveoyl1802
      @oliveoyl1802 Год назад +324

      Your mom got her parenting right. I say this not because of her lecturing you against wrecking an innocent person's home and marriage.
      I say it for the fact that she had built the kind of relationship with you such that you could actually approach her and open up about having a crush on a coworker.
      I wouldn't take that kind of openness between parents and children for granted.

    • @7thMack
      @7thMack Год назад +164

      @@oliveoyl1802 my mama is a genuinely good soul. I’m very lucky. Thank you for your comment.

    • @oliveoyl1802
      @oliveoyl1802 Год назад +78

      @@7thMack
      I have no doubt at all about that. You ARE lucky. Please never take her for granted. Treasure her and every moment with her.
      P.S. Momma should consider conducting parenting classes 😉

    • @paintitblack9712
      @paintitblack9712 Год назад +152

      Wise advise from mom but you also deserve credit for heeding it🙌

    • @7thMack
      @7thMack Год назад +43

      @@paintitblack9712 That’s a nice thing to say. TY. ☺️

  • @catherinegrace2366
    @catherinegrace2366 2 года назад +2456

    I have a very strict “no return” policy. If you can get my husband? You’re gonna have to keep him.

  • @angelsgranny
    @angelsgranny 6 месяцев назад +104

    Anyone who will cheat on somebody else to be with you, will cheat on you to be with somebody else.

    • @GA-fz2wt
      @GA-fz2wt 5 месяцев назад +4

      100% correct.

    • @TheKrispyfort
      @TheKrispyfort 4 месяца назад +12

      Just as with gossiping - if they'll do it with you they'll do it to you

    • @angelsgranny
      @angelsgranny 4 месяца назад +7

      @@TheKrispyfort
      Whenever I hear people gossiping about other's behind their back I'm quick to say "My God if that's how you talk about them what are you saying about me"?
      It's a great way to shut that crap down. Works every time. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @angelsgranny
      @angelsgranny 4 месяца назад

      @@thelight1385
      Nobody steals
      common sense.....
      When we share it for free.
      ❤️🥰❤️

    • @pennyinprescott1487
      @pennyinprescott1487 25 дней назад +2

      It's the old saying: "If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you."

  • @christina678
    @christina678 2 года назад +741

    Her mom giving her the picture of her as a little girl next to Rob’s grown behind was priceless.

    • @AmazingAmoy
      @AmazingAmoy Год назад +35

      No seriously, I played that part over like 3 times I couldn’t believe the age difference

    • @areza15143
      @areza15143 Год назад +8

      @@AmazingAmoy Where was this part? What minute marker?

    • @almabooplove7173
      @almabooplove7173 Год назад

      That was incest. She was his nice. 👑

    • @dannieisKING
      @dannieisKING Год назад +7

      😭🤣

    • @litgal783
      @litgal783 Год назад +13

      That was so telling.

  • @rosemaryspafalmouth2609
    @rosemaryspafalmouth2609 2 года назад +1776

    I miss TV movies like this that actually hold people accountable for their behavior instead of justifying it!

    • @christines9227
      @christines9227 2 года назад +31

      So true 👍🏽

    • @terencebarrett2897
      @terencebarrett2897 2 года назад +19

      So true ,but through my life experience, trials,tribulations,the pain" my pain" I myself being tricked mocked,cheated betrayed" as the Bible says "you don't get good fruit from a bad tree" and also bad fruit from a good tree, and as I say there's people,! Would blame and tear that human being apart physically, and " mentally justifying there lies actions ,want,selfishness and sin" breaking the ten commandments,adultery ,etc " sin' it can be ingrained through families, grandmother daughter granddaughter like a pencil,and you can fight tooth and nail ,but that person is determined to see it through to the day they die," blaming previous, husbands boyfriends etc justifying there actions, tricks,,oh oh disappointments of there sad life ,wanting pity of whoever's in there company,to quite literally destroying another person,or previous partners, and ,oh so sad the children of any previous partner, there's an old saying look at your in-laws,relatives before you commit your self, its like a disease" because ,a friend? Or partner ? Can literally pull the wool over your eyes,gaining your pity, trust,and your solidarity you will always be there'like a devoted puppy," then its,capture"= next victim! Its like that fly catcher tropical plant

    • @rosemaryspafalmouth2609
      @rosemaryspafalmouth2609 2 года назад +18

      @@terencebarrett2897 so true and very well put!

    • @nawal10
      @nawal10 2 года назад +9

      Netflix loooves producing more and more lying cheating couple shows and films and romatacising it as if that's real love and passion without much consequence smh. Just excuses and selfishness

    • @rosemaryspafalmouth2609
      @rosemaryspafalmouth2609 2 года назад +19

      @@nawal10 so, so, true! And people wonder why society is going to pot.

  • @Wholesomereads
    @Wholesomereads 2 года назад +2226

    These 90’s lifetime films were gold. Great acting, complex storylines and just the right amount of melodrama 👌🏿

    • @angelawestley203
      @angelawestley203 2 года назад +24

      Yes 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @victoriamayo5774
      @victoriamayo5774 2 года назад +21

      I agree

    • @beautifulllb9493
      @beautifulllb9493 2 года назад +25

      YES!! What a timeeee

    • @lynnmorris8659
      @lynnmorris8659 2 года назад +54

      One of my absolute favorites was “A Woman Scorned!!”

    • @GuadalupeGuacamole
      @GuadalupeGuacamole 2 года назад +48

      They’re the “after school specials” for adult women lolol

  • @maxxpopp2373
    @maxxpopp2373 Год назад +315

    Meredith Baxter is a great actress. I loved her career since I was a teen watching Family Ties and of course she made The Betty Broderick story a CLASSIC.

  • @clarissa2102
    @clarissa2102 11 месяцев назад +396

    The love the sons have for their mom and their gestures to support her were so sweet.

    • @millennialodyssey5956
      @millennialodyssey5956 10 месяцев назад +12

      That was my favorite part hands down!

    • @323azteca
      @323azteca 10 месяцев назад +11

      Them alone were worth the movie

    • @forgottenpalace4472
      @forgottenpalace4472 8 месяцев назад +9

      Great sons!

    • @iamdee2615
      @iamdee2615 8 месяцев назад +3

      They were hurt too especially the eldest, it makes else How couple can divorce and just say he’s my ex husband Or she’s my ex wife, but kids cannot say he was our father right....

    • @pallavisreetambraparni6995
      @pallavisreetambraparni6995 8 месяцев назад +5

      Yes. She's got some great kids and a crappy husband. That shows that u that in life you really can't have it all. A nice successful career, a nice fancy house, a nice fancy car, wonderful husband/wife, wonderful kids, etc. You will always have some things but not others. There will always be some shortcomings. And you need to be content with that.

  • @miladydewinter7770
    @miladydewinter7770 2 года назад +973

    My motto in life: Never give anyone a second chance to do the same thing twice (cos they sure as hell will).

    • @juanitasanchez8075
      @juanitasanchez8075 2 года назад +33

      so true

    • @JulieR73
      @JulieR73 2 года назад +25

      100% true

    • @ileanamuntean7338
      @ileanamuntean7338 2 года назад +42

      Once is one time too many, there can't be any more trust.

    • @sleeplessdreamer1814
      @sleeplessdreamer1814 2 года назад +38

      Agreed. I know of two wives who took the husbands back. Secretly, at some point, the men began the affair again and eventually left for good.

    • @kindredspirit3875
      @kindredspirit3875 2 года назад +20

      thank you for passing on such important wisdom.
      ya'll listen this women , I KNOW SHE RIGHT-

  • @susanh.352
    @susanh.352 2 года назад +390

    If a person can have just 1-friend throughout their entire life, that is a true Blessing.

    • @rajs7876
      @rajs7876 2 года назад +6

      That's what my grandmother always said.

    • @underestimatedsmilin2429
      @underestimatedsmilin2429 2 года назад +3

      This is true.

    • @susiearviso3032
      @susiearviso3032 2 года назад +30

      I have had Jesus with me in my life since 1977, and its been the best relationship I've ever known.

    • @carolinaBlessed
      @carolinaBlessed 2 года назад +7

      @@susiearviso3032 best comment I have come across here

    • @thequeenofhope4006
      @thequeenofhope4006 2 года назад +2

      Agree

  • @katrinaglanville3612
    @katrinaglanville3612 8 месяцев назад +109

    Their sons..wow..such beautiful people. The way Paul confronted his father at work, took a lot of courage. I loved the way they both defended their mother it was awesome and showed how much they loved her..(brilliant acting too). An affair inevitably hurts so many people. Great film.

  • @annrodriguez2891
    @annrodriguez2891 6 месяцев назад +42

    One of life's biggest lessons...never .I mean never get involved with a married man or woman unless they are totally divorced

    • @TheKrispyfort
      @TheKrispyfort 4 месяца назад +5

      Yes

    • @yvonnecooper5004
      @yvonnecooper5004 11 дней назад

      It's seemed to work out for a friend of mine... my soulmate... I agree with you but life is complicated. My friend and I agree to disagree. They have been together many years now. A puzzle I cannot solve.

  • @stephanie4770
    @stephanie4770 2 года назад +1282

    One of the things I find most infuriating is with the daughter, even after being caught, she lashes out at her mother and still wants to continue the affair with Rob. She cared about no one but herself. She didn't even try to apologize to her mom or Rob's wife who spent so many years being good to her. She (in my eyes) was a selfish brat who needed a swift kick in the ass.

    • @pagethreemodel
      @pagethreemodel 2 года назад +55

      I agree!!!

    • @jihanamir3199
      @jihanamir3199 2 года назад +47

      💯% agree !!!

    • @bmaak
      @bmaak 2 года назад +63

      She is just acting her age. Besides, she is the youngest of the three and the least experienced. She must also be missing her dad...

    • @canadamonroe6229
      @canadamonroe6229 2 года назад +109

      @@bmaak That’s no excuse to become a jumpoff.

    • @kalitheamare
      @kalitheamare 2 года назад +28

      She had no father figure

  • @lilyboosavo30
    @lilyboosavo30 2 года назад +136

    Seeing that picture of him with her as a child was proper weird

    • @BlackGeoYoutube
      @BlackGeoYoutube 2 года назад +25

      Yes. It was disgusting and beyond weird. I would never go back to him.

    • @fwdthinker
      @fwdthinker 2 года назад +12

      That was NASTY!

    • @youcantfightme8282
      @youcantfightme8282 2 года назад +20

      That’s why when his wife said it’s practically incest I stood up and clapped..

    • @brandiphillips5775
      @brandiphillips5775 2 года назад +10

      Yeah, he is a proper pervert. She would have to be insane to take him back.

    • @FreyaEinde
      @FreyaEinde Год назад +1

      That's because it's all kinds of nasty.

  • @J3nnycat
    @J3nnycat 2 года назад +380

    “A man’s reputation is all he’ll ever have.”
    I’d love to tell my dad this. His affair ended my relationship with him, and he was the one to push me out. Suddenly I was the bad guy just for connecting the dots and holding him accountable. It’s incredibly selfish, and I’m glad this movie showed what other’s go through too.

    • @Ace-ke7fq
      @Ace-ke7fq 2 года назад

      My father in law married a materialistic woman who had her half nudely pics she sent him, in search of a well off man..amongst the Jehovah Wit's hall of all places, yes like a whore does,.he's not allowed to even call his Son my hubby, unless its behind her back or his daughter,.they married 6 months after my hubby's mama died..Wicked huh..she had her digs into so well..got him to sell off his home and get her a condo..reason why we can't talk to him is so he doesn't spend any of his money on anyone but her..Needless to say she controls everything more less and got her needs met.

    • @selfesteem3447
      @selfesteem3447 Год назад +17

      Jenny, I'm sorry. If you haven't done so already, take the word narcissist and study it, maybe it might give you some answers, but I hope not because it's never anything anyone wants, to have a narcissist as a parent but you mentioned some traits that made me want to warn you.

    • @muymuy777
      @muymuy777 Год назад +15

      I find it very strange that movies normalise and glamorise infidelity, cheating and so many negative things out there. It's so hard for oneself to process these things in real life.

    • @SadRahne
      @SadRahne Год назад +34

      I was 6 years old when I walked home to find my mom sobbing and loading up the car with stuff. When I asked her what was wrong, she said, "your father decided to see another woman and he doesn't want to be married anymore".
      When he divorced my mother, he divorced us 3 kids. And I went from being daddy's little princess - the apple of his eye - to seeing him for 15 minutes once a year. Gone. Not even birthday phone calls. My siblings and I then fell prey to traumatic situations that children of single mothers often do. _Horrific abuse._
      The decisions that adults make can have profound consequences that affect everyone around them, especially children.

    • @mariahclaar7915
      @mariahclaar7915 Год назад +8

      ​@@selfesteem3447 Not everyone who cheats is a narcissist. That word gets thrown around and the definition simplified way too often.

  • @MikeBoa555
    @MikeBoa555 8 месяцев назад +176

    The fact she took her husband back is tragic. I can understand forgiving your husband for cheating, however cheating your best friend's daughter, whom he knew since she was a child, it's unforgivable. I would have finished it.

  • @sig9girl
    @sig9girl 2 года назад +992

    Great movie. An affair really tears up more than just two people…

    • @katiel1979
      @katiel1979 2 года назад +34

      Yep my mom cheated and it destroyed our whole family

    • @susanmartinez6079
      @susanmartinez6079 2 года назад +2

      Sryio61io

    • @Speakupok
      @Speakupok 2 года назад +44

      Thats why God says not to commit adultry.

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 2 года назад +15

      Everyone, who loves those involved are effected. It's a very deep hurt

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 2 года назад +8

      @@katiel1979 , my heart goes out to all involved 😪🙏🏾

  • @gailbird100
    @gailbird100 2 года назад +82

    The best revenge one can do to a cheating spouse is to let them have each other.

    • @toniclanton7368
      @toniclanton7368 6 месяцев назад +2

      That's what I was thinking !

    • @yvonnecooper5004
      @yvonnecooper5004 11 дней назад

      Yes. The old saying you made your bed lie in it.

  • @Chrysyyyy
    @Chrysyyyy Год назад +148

    The fact she blamed her friend for her daughters actions, but didn’t view her husband as a weirdo is beyond me. The daughter was extremely naïve & selfish though. That man loved no one but himself.

    • @Chrysyyyy
      @Chrysyyyy 11 месяцев назад +26

      @@skyegroome223 yeah, he definitely took advantage of that. There’s no way you can feel right about dating someone you saw grow up from a little girl to an adult.

    • @birdlynn417
      @birdlynn417 9 месяцев назад +10

      And sex. He was bad and knew he was doing wrong. Can't get away with sin.

    • @phyllysanantonio
      @phyllysanantonio 9 месяцев назад +2

      I’m glad she smacked the shit out of Joan!!!!😂😂😂😂😂

    • @elizabethr4107
      @elizabethr4107 6 месяцев назад

      But the mother helped shape the way the daughter sees herself and others. The mother helped program and led by example. A woman cannot do that to a grown man with a fully formed brain and personality like a mother can with a newborn child.

    • @Chrysyyyy
      @Chrysyyyy 6 месяцев назад +11

      @@elizabethr4107 I agree with SOME of what you said. But, she didn’t deserve to be hit. The husband was a weirdo who slept with a woman he’s known since a child. He’s the one that needed all the aggression. Not the friend. We have to start blaming these men for stuff instead of always wanting to blame women. & not to mention her daughter was grown.

  • @catherinefletcher3258
    @catherinefletcher3258 8 месяцев назад +59

    I am 67 and have been married for 43 years, I don't think my husband has cheated, but life is messy and hard and we have hurt each other in many other ways. We have been very kind to each other the last 15 years. Sometimes just sticking out works out.

    • @mayethpastillo6861
      @mayethpastillo6861 4 месяца назад

      Okko9ok

    • @annrodriguez2891
      @annrodriguez2891 4 месяца назад +1

      Congratulations on your long marriage.... Family is everything

    • @Annemarie...Annemarie....
      @Annemarie...Annemarie.... 4 месяца назад +5

      Catherine, 43 years is wonderful, you say you hurt each other in other ways. Even if you lived with your best friend,or your siblings. Living with anyone for that many years, you would hurt each other.43 years, many people do not live that long, so you have both enjoyed a good life.
      How I see your lives,you have had your best friend thru the good and bad times....bless you both.🙏❤️💞

    • @akrenwinkle
      @akrenwinkle 2 месяца назад

      Depends what you're sticking out.

    • @carolcasey5441
      @carolcasey5441 Месяц назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @marjorieondine9322
    @marjorieondine9322 2 года назад +460

    The cheating character of this film was not truly sorry for cheating on his wife, he was however, terrified at the possibility of loosing his upcoming partnership with the office. From that point on he realized the cost to his professional life, not the personal loss of his family. Cheaters are hardly ever sorry, the great majority are narcissist. Her friend took it too lightly and needed to walk away from her for good. Betrayal hurts and changes everything.

    • @JSmedic1
      @JSmedic1 2 года назад +52

      It's, "losing."🙂
      I agree that he only cared about losing his partnership with that extra money. He didn't care about his family.

    • @charmagneq
      @charmagneq 2 года назад +22

      Agreed! And there’s no way in hell I’m going to Europe, or even a corner store with my “friend”. We’d have to go to counseling, too.

    • @CynthiaSchoenbauer
      @CynthiaSchoenbauer 2 года назад +30

      Thank goodness you offer some sanity here in the comments. There is an awful trend running through the relationship with her husband that she started to stand up about but got talked out of by her friend. They make anger the enemy. Anger is our friend and nudges us to make boundaries in ourselves and with others concerning who we are in the roles we play. Betrayal changes everything. That is sooooo true. It breaks down things, especially denial.

    • @tundrawomansays5067
      @tundrawomansays5067 2 года назад +4

      @@CynthiaSchoenbauer Preach, Ms. Kat. You’ve a good head on your shoulders.

    • @roseoreillysievers6057
      @roseoreillysievers6057 2 года назад +16

      He's a jerk because he wants the promotion, and his wife is naive. She shouldn't have gone on the trip with her friend.

  • @ruthienelson3682
    @ruthienelson3682 2 года назад +703

    This movie is a reminder that fidelity has nothing to do with how we feel. Feelings are fickle. Feelings change with time and as we evolve into different seasons of life. Fidelity is a conscious, mature choice we make regardless of what we are feeling. It is an unselfish act of kindness we give freely.

    • @flowerchild777
      @flowerchild777 2 года назад +41

      What a lovely statement, and so true🙃

    • @kimbellabella348
      @kimbellabella348 2 года назад +18

      Well women don’t think Rational when their husband is the one cheating 💯

    • @cindynokha8440
      @cindynokha8440 2 года назад +5

      Beautiful comment

    • @dillon1263
      @dillon1263 2 года назад +1

      @@flowerchild777 sad

    • @dillon1263
      @dillon1263 2 года назад +1

      @@flowerchild777 sad

  • @Purplenpinkk
    @Purplenpinkk 11 месяцев назад +38

    I don’t know if I could take my husband back after an affair like this. The woman he had the affair with was like a daughter to him while growing up. So gross.

  • @LadyAlf57
    @LadyAlf57 Год назад +79

    When her son asks if she has a gun and she says what are you talking about? I laughed and wanted to say he’s talking about Betty Broderick. 😂

    • @sheilawilliams7271
      @sheilawilliams7271 Год назад +7

      Me too! I caught that and was wondering if this was made first 🤔...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @karensing8663
      @karensing8663 Год назад +4

      I saw that and I thought wrong movie!

    • @Jessica-dy9un
      @Jessica-dy9un Год назад +3

      Lmfao facts

  • @shelleynobleart
    @shelleynobleart 2 года назад +659

    The writing was top notch. But the sons' performances were genius, especially the eldest. They made the entire script real.

    • @Mitzi73
      @Mitzi73 2 года назад +17

      Yes! Agree.

    • @jamiepan7650
      @jamiepan7650 2 года назад +14

      I agree too. It was good, but sad.

    • @forgottenpalace4472
      @forgottenpalace4472 2 года назад +24

      Yes, the eldest son was brilliant.

    • @mariacristinabruschi7700
      @mariacristinabruschi7700 2 года назад +22

      Great screenplay and great acting! Meredith Baxter was a great actress! I also saw her in another movie called A Woman Scorned... excellent!

    • @BeautyQueen79
      @BeautyQueen79 2 года назад +7

      @@mariacristinabruschi7700 yep saw her in that one too

  • @ladyfightsoctopus8166
    @ladyfightsoctopus8166 2 года назад +142

    The nerve of the daughter to give her mother attitude. Like sis, you helped to ruin two families and only felt remorse when you came out as a co-villain. The father has a very punchable face.

    • @guerralg63
      @guerralg63 2 года назад +18

      Right on! Shameless both of them!

    • @rubygirl214
      @rubygirl214 2 года назад +3

      She’s really insufferable.

    • @tanyagould1996
      @tanyagould1996 2 года назад +3

      Lol

    • @katiesimpson4514
      @katiesimpson4514 Год назад +1

      Punchable? True that.
      Now to add a new word to my vocabulary...

    • @mariahclaar7915
      @mariahclaar7915 Год назад

      The daughter and husband only ruined one family, not 2. His.

  • @retrochickt7947
    @retrochickt7947 2 года назад +17

    You can forgive your cheating husband but not your long-term friend who had nothing to do with the affair. What!

  • @nea415
    @nea415 Год назад +29

    I’ve seen this movie on my timeline so many times but always ignored it. I’m glad I finally gave it a chance today. Amazing!!! 👍🏾

  • @dianaesparza1878
    @dianaesparza1878 2 года назад +328

    Meredith is an absolute Awesome Actress. She’s made for these types of TV movies 😉👍🥂great acting❤️

    • @nadineviljoen5189
      @nadineviljoen5189 2 года назад +15

      Couldn't agree more

    • @ql688
      @ql688 2 года назад +15

      she also did women scorned. you guys should watch it. A M A Z I N G acting to the whole cast.

    • @traceylennon1204
      @traceylennon1204 2 года назад +8

      She most certainly IS!!!

    • @sirunikunushik7735
      @sirunikunushik7735 2 года назад +7

      I'm agree. "Meredith made for these types of TV movies". I heard she is lesbian, is that true? Not that i change my mind about her talent, just asking.

    • @magkatcar
      @magkatcar 2 года назад +6

      I was thinking the same thing! She is such a good actress, extremely versatile. She can play a wide variety of roles very convincingly.

  • @eleanorjaya4706
    @eleanorjaya4706 2 года назад +90

    Once you’ve been betrayed you can never go back. The trust has gone & every min you think is he with someone else. Just love isn’t enough. Better alone than with the fear of him betraying you again.

    • @TheKrispyfort
      @TheKrispyfort 4 месяца назад

      Fear borne of experience is worse than the unknown

  • @CatholicCarnivoreHousewife
    @CatholicCarnivoreHousewife Год назад +46

    Twisted. He groomed that little girl. His own wife's best friend's daughter. What could possibly be more scandalous & prison worthy?

  • @Span91423
    @Span91423 8 месяцев назад +24

    Love the fact that their sons are standing by their Mom

  • @unabellavita6541
    @unabellavita6541 2 года назад +107

    My husband was married before, she was a stay at home mom who didn’t want for anything. He found out she was cheating on him with his best friend. All those days he was off at work supporting his family she was running off and sleeping with his friend. She ended up leaving him and taking their son to shack up with this guy. It’s horrible. It happens too often, people take their spouse for granted. Everyone suffers, especially the kids.

    • @josephgrunfeld9927
      @josephgrunfeld9927 Год назад +1

      tghatsmwgy soe religions forbid opposit sexs being together alone ...baptistd , religious jews ets

    • @jada531
      @jada531 Год назад +2

      omg did he get his kid back?

    • @naturalise2039
      @naturalise2039 Месяц назад

      When did she have the time 😢 smh

  • @hazelsmith5628
    @hazelsmith5628 2 года назад +78

    Any so called man who takes advantage of a young girl when he’s married deserves the greatest consequences !

    • @vogelfrau2425
      @vogelfrau2425 2 года назад +3

      Send them into desert. Like it that the movie ends with the flight of the adult women. A friendship is something important.

    • @claudianeymour2010
      @claudianeymour2010 2 года назад

      Thank you

    • @ileanamuntean7338
      @ileanamuntean7338 2 года назад +14

      Indeed, they are all criticising the girl but he is just a manipulative creep who had an affair with a girl he saw growing up.

    • @jackiegreenidge3741
      @jackiegreenidge3741 2 года назад +2

      True

    • @marilynpowell5230
      @marilynpowell5230 2 года назад +1

      I remember watching this movie it brings back sad memories. They play their roles very well. I love watching movies I have already seen. Thanks y'all for uploading.

  • @manestage5403
    @manestage5403 Год назад +43

    I love how her mother dealt with her when she first found out.

  • @Inam10
    @Inam10 Год назад +17

    If a woman meet a man through cheating his wife then he will soon leave her the same way he left his wife. KARMA!

  • @vinakablue3794
    @vinakablue3794 2 года назад +424

    Her sons are so good and kind and protective. Brought up well - a good reflection of her and them as a couple.

    • @arnoldamaral7406
      @arnoldamaral7406 2 года назад +33

      I thought the same as well. My brother & I were raised in a very similar fashion. I thank God that my Parents were faithfully married for 64 yrs. I miss you so much Mom & Dad. 🇫🇷 Arnuad Bourbon Amaral

    • @707tich
      @707tich 2 года назад +5

      Absolutely I thought the same and was cheering them on

    • @roseoreillysievers6057
      @roseoreillysievers6057 2 года назад +11

      I Iove her sons, so caring for their Mom

    • @alp7928
      @alp7928 2 года назад +4

      @@arnoldamaral7406 are you single?

    • @ellietboadi66
      @ellietboadi66 Год назад

      😆

  • @BeautyQueen79
    @BeautyQueen79 2 года назад +77

    Ugh..an affair is bad enough. But he's doing it with someone he knew as a little girl. Sick, Rob - real sick! By the way, top notch acting. Lifetime doesn't make them like this anymore...

    • @Nothingsofar123
      @Nothingsofar123 Год назад +9

      That’s all I have been saying, like an affair is bad enough but to have it with your wife’s best friend daughter, your have known since she was a child. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @windyphuong
    @windyphuong Год назад +18

    The thing we have learned from this movie is be more calmer in every situations. You can be mad but don’t hurt your friends, you kids or anyone when they just try to help.

  • @mindykaur8139
    @mindykaur8139 Год назад +56

    I loved the ending. Good friends are hard to find and when we do find one we ought to cherish the relationship and treasure the friendship and learn to be kind, patient , honest, forgiving and loyal. Great movie!

    • @melaniecotterell8263
      @melaniecotterell8263 Год назад

      The daughter and the husband started banging again the second that the plane left the ground.

  • @sharonholt3118
    @sharonholt3118 2 года назад +233

    This movie reminds me of my ex…I was married over 12+yrs. I helped my next door neighbor get a job at the same company where I worked. Little did I know she would start sleeping w my husband. Later, she became my boss! She would set my schedule to where she could sleep w him, while her husband was working, and I was away working. Later Her husband called to say he had caught the two of them together! I moved out quickly, it was traumatizing. My divorce attorney said usually when this happens, you can assume the affair has been going on for a few years…The wife is always the last to know. I deserved much better. I learned once they cheat (ex) they’ll always be a cheater. Sadly.

    • @tamorap1614
      @tamorap1614 2 года назад +19

      Betrayal surprises and hurts deeply because many times it is coming from people you love and appreciate, family, friends, wives, husbands etc.

    • @darlinee2911
      @darlinee2911 2 года назад +8

      @@tamorap1614 The most interesting story
      I have seen in years.
      Real life issues,
      Thank you

    • @darlinee2911
      @darlinee2911 2 года назад +6

      Tamora you are
      Right. Love is a very
      deep and sincere
      Feeling. We trust the
      People we love. Hurts
      As if you hv been run
      over with a street cleaner. LOL
      When u hv done your
      Best let it go. Change
      Things, start with your
      self. And pray to God

    • @canadamonroe6229
      @canadamonroe6229 2 года назад

      I hope you got that tramp fired.

    • @stepcollazo8134
      @stepcollazo8134 2 года назад +2

      Omgggg did u slap her...??

  • @mariceldb2990
    @mariceldb2990 2 года назад +58

    How can you live with a husband who is a cheater. The pain stays no matter what.

  • @323azteca
    @323azteca 10 месяцев назад +29

    That scene with her son's anger towards his dad was heartbreaking

  • @marleew6455
    @marleew6455 Год назад +64

    I went through a divorce over a year ago and realize I never really “dealt” with any of the emotions because I was so worried about my kids and keeping things “as normal” as possible, I dove into work to financially be okay and not lose my home.
    I lost my dad a year prior and that pain doesn’t come close to this one.
    Watching this a year later brings up so many feelings. Do you ever feel whole again after someone does this to you?

    • @rosainabennett9085
      @rosainabennett9085 Год назад +16

      Yes, after a few years you will find the self value you didn’t think you had
      Lots of luck DONT give up on yourself‼️

    • @Dedee009
      @Dedee009 Год назад +4

      No, not me.

    • @Lisa-je5bb
      @Lisa-je5bb 11 месяцев назад +3

      The only people without value in the relationship are the cheaters..try and think of it as..you no longer have toxic people in your life..the space they left is yours to fill however you want to make you happy..a gift....

    • @roseoreillysievers6057
      @roseoreillysievers6057 10 месяцев назад +4

      Good for you. It takes a long time to get through your emotions so you are a strong person

    • @Lisa-je5bb
      @Lisa-je5bb 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yes,because you are free,strong and came out better than he did. Good job

  • @winny3455
    @winny3455 2 года назад +122

    Very nice to see 1995 again. What a different world it was.

    • @thankthelord4536
      @thankthelord4536 2 года назад +4

      Not much. The only difference was no cell phones.

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 2 года назад +24

      @@thankthelord4536 🤣🤣🤣 not much???? Wow, you are living under a rock. It's night and day. Social media and the expansion of the internet changed everything.

    • @cherrywilson6267
      @cherrywilson6267 2 года назад +2

      @@thankthelord4536 just say NO to crack….not much differences 😂

    • @thankthelord4536
      @thankthelord4536 2 года назад +1

      @@Merbella that's true. I've should've mentioned that when I said cell phones. I remember the 90s like it was yesterday. Lol.

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 2 года назад +7

      @ThankTheLord me too. I think it was the last decent decade.

  • @maureenmeagher6415
    @maureenmeagher6415 2 года назад +55

    Amanda shouldn't have been angry at Joan in the first place! She forgave her husband before her friend and that's such BS

    • @youcantfightme8282
      @youcantfightme8282 2 года назад +11

      Her friend knew and didn’t tell her, that’s really bad. Her husband shouldn’t have been forgiven before her friend though, but I guess when you share kids and life it’s different.

    • @canadamonroe6229
      @canadamonroe6229 2 года назад +4

      @@youcantfightme8282 Atleast she made her daughter move out

  • @hardsam68
    @hardsam68 Год назад +58

    Swoozie Kurtz is the reel star of this movie, she steals every scene and she is hilarious one minute and dead serious the next , an incredible actress in every movie I’ve seen her in

    • @janvdb9258
      @janvdb9258 Год назад +4

      Two of the greatest actresses of my lifetime

    • @granny58
      @granny58 Год назад +2

      Agree

    • @lianedeangelo6344
      @lianedeangelo6344 11 месяцев назад +1

      I’m watching her now on reruns of Mike and Molly

  • @victoriaferrarini1781
    @victoriaferrarini1781 2 года назад +25

    Thank you so very much for uploading this movie! I truly miss these old 80s and 90s treasures. Meredith Baxter along with Judith Licht are two of my favorite made for TV movie actresses. They are all just wonderful!

  • @WS-zs1ss
    @WS-zs1ss 2 года назад +230

    I swear my story but ended in divorce and him marrying 17 years younger mistress. My kid didn't talk to him for 5 years and now only occasionally. My ex said " everyone does that " . 23 years of marriage... it's very hard to deal with betrayal. The pain goes away with time but surely changed me tremendously.

    • @jannawalters232
      @jannawalters232 2 года назад +39

      So often the adulterers next marriage doesn't last.

    • @ql688
      @ql688 2 года назад +23

      i have never cheated on any of my relationships

    • @dr2040
      @dr2040 2 года назад +16

      I’m so sorry you went through that

    • @kamila927
      @kamila927 2 года назад +14

      Sending hugs❤️

    • @koneal8190
      @koneal8190 2 года назад +3

      Waiting on the update lol 😆

  • @poorthing
    @poorthing 2 года назад +124

    The cheating husband is the villain.
    The duplicitous daughter is infuriating.
    I don't know how families come back from these messes

    • @b.m.t.h.3961
      @b.m.t.h.3961 2 года назад +15

      They don't. They just muddle through and make a different life.

    • @guerralg63
      @guerralg63 2 года назад +11

      Maybe they realize that human beings are flawed, and understand we all have a sinful nature we struggle with. That not forgiving leads to loneliness and bitterness. In the scene where she was at the divorce lawyers office i think she realized this, because even though her friend got everything in her divorce she sounded bitter. Personally, I don't know what I would do in this kind of circumstance, but I'd hope I would have the strengh and humility to try to forgive and work through it.

    • @guerralg63
      @guerralg63 2 года назад +4

      @@yukijames1321 , thats true. Sometimes betrayal is something to painful to live with, because the hurt from broken trust is too much. As i said I dont know what I would in that position.

    • @michellemckillop8935
      @michellemckillop8935 2 года назад +2

      @@guerralg63 I think you make some excellent points. Don’t know if I could forgive but I’ll agree with you on something else. Thus is a majority Christian country and our whole religion is based on mistakes and forgiveness.

    • @Marie-pr1ss
      @Marie-pr1ss 2 года назад

      What a great comment section! Really! You all have a genuine understanding about forgiveness and family. Like others here... I too don't know if I could forgive in a situation like this.

  • @katrinaglanville3612
    @katrinaglanville3612 8 месяцев назад +30

    Amanda and Joan were so real in this film. You can see both their points of view. Their fight in the car park was full of rage, blame and finger pointing. It was so sad to see them throwing insults at each other and when Amanda hit Joan, I expected Joan to hit back but she accepted the attack with grace, telling Amanda's son, basically, that she deserved it. Fine acting from two amazing actresses.

  • @mstephens7013
    @mstephens7013 Год назад +12

    So this is a lot better then I expected. I have always loved Swoozie! All the pent up anger and emotions really cut through the surface here. Its really pretty good.

  • @sashawalker2602
    @sashawalker2602 2 года назад +29

    This generation will never know what real Lifetime movies are...I miss these so bad

  • @she.dej9818
    @she.dej9818 2 года назад +68

    It amazes me how much men expect for women to just forgive them after they've f'd up everything for their whole entire family!

    • @tundrawomansays5067
      @tundrawomansays5067 2 года назад +4

      Women are just as capable of *demanding* their partner give them instant forgiveness and just pretend the affairS didn’t happen.

  • @rosajohnson5212
    @rosajohnson5212 7 месяцев назад +18

    Excellent movie! Great acting! I've always loved Meredith Baxter and I've enjoyed Swoosie, the times I've seen her. They really knocked the ball out of the park in this one!

  • @Lovingitjuju
    @Lovingitjuju Год назад +21

    This was a really good movie. Watching this and what’s going on now in 2022 makes me realize during the time of this movie how serious cheating, divorce, marriages we’re taken, now in 2022 it’s just glorified a whole lot more.

  • @finkelisb5754
    @finkelisb5754 2 года назад +141

    "I'm not available and I didn't know that"... Cheating men are pathetic. Yes, yes you did know that you weren't available before you even started the affair.

    • @clever4442
      @clever4442 2 года назад +7

      IKR. Pathetic

    • @joyr3014
      @joyr3014 2 года назад +7

      Yeah easy to say that after he’s gotten what he wanted from her

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 2 года назад +2

      I didn't take him literally . I interpreted it as him meaning, he made a mistake by getting involved with her & regrets it

    • @luvbeinghiswife1148
      @luvbeinghiswife1148 2 года назад

      Cheating women are equally as pathetic.

  • @kathiewalli8746
    @kathiewalli8746 2 года назад +84

    How fragile married life can be….one bad decision and all the lives it touches

  • @83YETTABABY
    @83YETTABABY 7 месяцев назад +6

    I remember watching all these lifetime movies with my granny back in the 90s. That's all we used to do on the weekends.❤️ I miss them days😔

  • @steel072
    @steel072 Год назад +28

    I loved the ending. They look so refreshed and happy to be together again despite the hurtful ordeal they’ve come out of.

  • @ravenmagpiie
    @ravenmagpiie 2 года назад +133

    if that had been my daughter …. yikes. let’s just say I wouldn’t be as sweet as this mother 👀

    • @maryh-w8647
      @maryh-w8647 2 года назад +6

      Believe me from your picture you do not look as if you are old enough to comprehend all the things I would have said and did to her. By the way I’m 70 and I can think of a LOT of them.

    • @sharoncox4776
      @sharoncox4776 2 года назад +6

      A Mothers love forgives all!! It was abhorrent what the daughter did - but a true Mother sticks by her child regardless of what the child does!!! Even Murder!!!

    • @msmichelle2196
      @msmichelle2196 2 года назад +4

      Exactly....forgiving is one thing but society gets it wrong as we are not to condone behavior

    • @nhotwings
      @nhotwings 2 года назад +8

      @@sharoncox4776 Wtf?

    • @sharoncox4776
      @sharoncox4776 2 года назад +1

      @@nhotwings Pardon??? You are obviously not a Mother !! PO!!!

  • @margaretm.7079
    @margaretm.7079 2 года назад +42

    Life is full of bumps, tears, roller coaster rides but the lessons learned are phenomenal and I need to pay attention to them with grace.

  • @morgans3256
    @morgans3256 Год назад +16

    Any lazy Sunday afternoon with a Meredith Baxter movie is awesome.

  • @saintsinner7565
    @saintsinner7565 Год назад +8

    As a European I’ve never seen those old movies and I’m living for them !

  • @mistymitchell2790
    @mistymitchell2790 2 года назад +82

    It's sad it takes a damn affair to realize what you've got.

    • @niwreyentihw1496
      @niwreyentihw1496 2 года назад +9

      @@Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bits sad but true. Don't be a hypocrite though, young men are just as loose. So you can stop all this nonsense of blaming the women. It's ridiculous, each person is accountable for their own actions.

  • @ladylydia762
    @ladylydia762 2 года назад +47

    Beautiful sons. Loving and caring mom we need more of this. This is the time for it. Thx for the upload.

  • @mollymelena6104
    @mollymelena6104 7 месяцев назад +11

    I am one of those people who are guilty for setting up "impossible standards."
    This movie made me reflect on whether I should let go of them.
    But why is decency, honesty, integrity too much to ask?
    Great movie.
    Highly recommend.

  • @kleinhocico9915
    @kleinhocico9915 Год назад +21

    A very cute wife with a golden heart, two wonderful sons .....and he betrays her. Unbelievable!

    • @sharonbenjamin9156
      @sharonbenjamin9156 4 месяца назад

      I kept thinking all her outfits were awful and her hair style was not attractive on her at all.

  • @shaz2868
    @shaz2868 2 года назад +227

    I thought this was going to be cheesy. I really enjoyed how real they made the situation. I loved the older son, although you could tell he missed his dad his love for his mum was beautiful.

    • @hims12
      @hims12 Год назад +7

      In real life they wouldn't be friends anymore
      And a divorce would have been

    • @TheVegan15
      @TheVegan15 11 месяцев назад +3

      yeah her sons were great. It was so sweet how they treated their mom ♥️🧡

    • @juanadrianrobaina5763
      @juanadrianrobaina5763 10 месяцев назад +5

      This is the 3 rd movie where a guy uses office night work 🤣🤣🤣as an excuse to go and see his mistress😮😢,why do women/ wives never wonder about this,there are very few people working in an office at night,lolol,unless they are cleaners ...😅lies and betrayal are the worst.

  • @cecilejoubert7933
    @cecilejoubert7933 2 года назад +104

    Meredith Baxter is always playing the perfect role as a mother!

  • @brendastarkey3350
    @brendastarkey3350 8 месяцев назад +8

    I miss the days when Lifetime movies were worth watching.

  • @jadedangel8609
    @jadedangel8609 5 месяцев назад +10

    “You can’t control where your life is headed”.. 😂. You CAN control your actions! Free will and adults can control there actions.

  • @dimitrageorgiadi5087
    @dimitrageorgiadi5087 2 года назад +234

    What a realistic movie.! Sometimes when horrible things happen, all we can do is pick ourselves up and keep on moving. No one ever promised us a rose garden. Excellent flick and acting. The 90's was the decade and ai miss it.Everybofy Have a Happy New Year!

    • @clarewelter2207
      @clarewelter2207 2 года назад +10

      I agree although it is very hard to do. Happy New Year to you too!!!

    • @dianesullivan7717
      @dianesullivan7717 2 года назад +18

      It is true that life has multiple disappointments, but to just "pick ourselves up and keep moving.," is sometimes not a healthy response. We have to grieve our losses, and acknowledge our pain. We can heal when we have grieved properly. Then, we can come through stronger, but we are not the same. All of the experiences of life contribute to who we become. I thank God for the gift if "grieving" and the

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 2 года назад +7

      @@dianesullivan7717 you are right Diane. It is important to grieve. It is only then that we can move on.

    • @dimitrageorgiadi5087
      @dimitrageorgiadi5087 2 года назад +10

      @@dianesullivan7717 Sometimes you don't have time to grieve. Sometimes if you allow yourself to grieve too much, you may just as well open your own grave ,because I have seen folks fall into depression. So the pick yourself up is quite sound advice. Whatever one does, he / she needs to use wisdom and have balance in their life. For everyone that does not equate ,into one recipe. For sure pick yourself is wiser than sulking in your pain for a decade or so . So.

    • @flowerchild777
      @flowerchild777 2 года назад +1

      @@dimitrageorgiadi5087 That's true👍

  • @EMM1908
    @EMM1908 2 года назад +311

    It was so crazy to me how she was quick to forgive her husband, (the one who made a commitment to her) before she forgave her best friend. He betrayed her. Her best friend did not.

    • @ElDrom_Belle
      @ElDrom_Belle 2 года назад +52

      She knew that her best friend was the one person she could take out all her anger and frustration on, because she knew her friend is the one thing that was steadfast in her suddenly upside down world. Her friend was her friend trow all of it and she knew that she could count on her consistency.
      She even defended her friend when the son tried to dis her

    • @EMM1908
      @EMM1908 2 года назад +14

      @@ElDrom_Belle You’re right! That’s very true.

    • @vt-yp7yq
      @vt-yp7yq 2 года назад +7

      But his name was on the deed. Marriage and property go hand in hand.

    • @millsykooksy4863
      @millsykooksy4863 2 года назад +16

      Didn’t they both betray her

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад +9

      @@madelainemadelaine2934 SMH. THANK GOD YOU ARE NOT JESUS, AND THANK GOD YOU ALWAYS DO AND SAY EVERYTHING RIGHT. I HATE TO TELL YOU NONE OF US IS PERFECT, AND THAT INCLUDE YOU. YOU MIGHT WANT TO TAKE IT DOWN A NOTCH.

  • @mcsmama
    @mcsmama 2 года назад +11

    It was satisfying to see betrayers held accountable for their actions & I appreciated the fact that this film acknowledged all the fallout that cheating inflicts on so many to innocent folks who had a right to expect a promised commitment to them to be honored. We don't live in a vacuum & our actions commonly DO affect others who have no say in our often selfish decisions.
    "Betrayed: A Story of Three Women" (1995)
    [mcsmama 6.20.2022]

  • @midwestfdwatch
    @midwestfdwatch 2 года назад +16

    If he REALLY loved his wife, he wouldn't have humiliated her like this.

    • @heather6994
      @heather6994 Месяц назад

      Nor would he have continued seeing the other woman

  • @bethaniel841
    @bethaniel841 2 года назад +28

    Meredith Baxter, played her character wonderfully! What an entertaining film- became thoroughly invested and had to watch till the end! What a fabulously honest portrayal- how peoples actions have consequences for all affected 🧐🧐I wanna see their trip! 🤗🤓

  • @mingleechi396
    @mingleechi396 2 года назад +24

    So you will talk to your husband but you can’t talk to your friend, he is the cheater

  • @elizabethjohnson53
    @elizabethjohnson53 Год назад

    I remember watching these lifetime movies on lazy Sundays. Me and my sisters would park our butts on the couches and binge watch all day. GREAT AMAZING TIMES!! I MISS THOSE DAYS!!

  • @sheiladesoysa7112
    @sheiladesoysa7112 Год назад +50

    A good movie. Good story and good acting. The genuine friendship between the two women was touching. At least the man had the guts to realise his mistake. A good lesson for young women to differentiate between love and lust. Good entertainment!

    • @intensepassion3382
      @intensepassion3382 10 месяцев назад +2

      That's the lesson could have taught the friends daughter, by not having an affair with her.

    • @AFAskygoddess
      @AFAskygoddess 5 месяцев назад

      Once a cheater, always a cheater. Next time, he'll just find another young intern that doesn't know his wife.

  • @kimberlychristmas-lee3868
    @kimberlychristmas-lee3868 2 года назад +29

    It low key pisses me off she showed forgiveness for the husband first in all this

    • @samxsara
      @samxsara 2 года назад +3

      Yes and so soon. But ultimated we have to forget if we want to free ourselves

  • @lilwinged5291
    @lilwinged5291 2 года назад +71

    The way the son responds was kind of refreshing and appropriate, considering...

  • @rubydavis5384
    @rubydavis5384 9 месяцев назад +5

    This was a touching story that the world goes through every day. When someone breaks up a family it dont only affects the man or woman it hurt the children too.

  • @dawnfox9955
    @dawnfox9955 Год назад +12

    I hate that the husband and friend are telling the wife that lying and cheating are "normal" and acting as though she is being a hateful, unkind person for not going along with it. That's bull!

  • @audreymcdonald300
    @audreymcdonald300 2 года назад +87

    The elder son has his mom's personality, the younger, his dad....excellent actors though, made the entire script more than drama...it was actually believable! Joan character is a good friend... truly genuine 💖

  • @creatornat
    @creatornat 2 года назад +155

    One thing I really appreciated about the writing here, was how Baxter's character ended the last scene with the husband as a sort of 'I don't know' kind of decision. I think that was a lot more preferable to many, rather that her totally take her husband back again. It was a far more realistic outcome, based on the time frame, and the newness of the betrayal. She admitted she still loved him, but was honest enough with herself, to also say, 'I don't know if love is enough'. I just thought that was a really good way of ending that scene, with the two characters.

    • @melaniecotterell8263
      @melaniecotterell8263 Год назад +3

      they were banging again the moment that plane pulled away from the gate.

    • @birdlynn417
      @birdlynn417 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, I agree and understand.

    • @godssara6758
      @godssara6758 8 месяцев назад +4

      She should have dumped him

    • @molliemae5555
      @molliemae5555 6 месяцев назад

      Agreed, it was more realistic that way.

  • @helenwood1
    @helenwood1 Год назад +29

    I loved every one of these actors. What a wholesome and heartwarming story. I never knew about Swoosie's name or how she got it. I think her genuine personality was shining through in this role.

    • @franklinstephen3268
      @franklinstephen3268 Год назад

      Hi how are you doing?

    • @lisamarie4197
      @lisamarie4197 Год назад +5

      Heartwarming? I’m just got over my trauma from my ex husband’s affair wholesome was not a word I thought of

    • @juliepower6657
      @juliepower6657 10 месяцев назад +2

      What movie was the person who called this wholesome watching

    • @tngirl341
      @tngirl341 9 месяцев назад +2

      Whats Swoosies name have to do with anything

  • @Michelle-wk4ek
    @Michelle-wk4ek 6 месяцев назад +11

    This issue here happened to me, i was groomed by a family friend and suffered every day since, I was 14 now I’m 65 and never forget 😢

    • @TheKrispyfort
      @TheKrispyfort 4 месяца назад +1

      My mother was 13yo when one of her father's friends "seduced" her.
      I have suspicions about the identity of my "aunt" who was born sometime after.
      Might explain why 17yo her, and 18yo her, thought having me and my sibling was a good idea.

    • @susieharman2539
      @susieharman2539 4 месяца назад

      ​@@TheKrispyfortreading the most popular comments, then the last, remotely popular... your family dynamic is cryptic, like a made for TV movie. Good thoughts to you...

  • @pjpj3416
    @pjpj3416 2 года назад +77

    They really had two wonderful, loving sons, especially the older one, very mature and supportive under those circumstances.👍

  • @joshipp761
    @joshipp761 2 года назад +553

    So proud of the youngest son telling his Father, if you really want to know how she's doing, call her yourself. So glad Joan continued to pursue the friendship , even in the midst of difficulty, Now, that's a true friend. One thing I've learned in life, Disappointment is based on expectation. The more we expect out of people ( which are usually close friends & relatives), the deeper the hurt, when they disappoint you

    • @darlinee2911
      @darlinee2911 2 года назад +16

      Good movie, all actors are brilliant
      In their rolls life like issues.
      Lessons to be learned. People
      Hurt you the most are the ones
      U believed, to be worthy of your
      Love for them.

    • @MrStar700
      @MrStar700 2 года назад +23

      Well said.
      I can love and support but I also always keep a part of me to me.
      Do not depend on loyalty, having allies (friends, family), because these people are all bad? No, just human beings.
      If a strong bond with people you can depend on are in your life that’s wonderful!
      Just don’t expect it, be independent in more ways than one, love and take care of yourself.
      Never put yourself or your future in someone else’s hands.

    • @sweetvictory5643
      @sweetvictory5643 2 года назад +8

      @@MrStar700 So wise.

    • @MrStar700
      @MrStar700 2 года назад +6

      @@sweetvictory5643 Thanks for your comment. 😌

    • @passion777able
      @passion777able 2 года назад

      Joan was WRONG! She was a cheating friend by keeping her friend in the dark just because it was HER DAUGHTER he was having an affair with.

  • @Tierce07
    @Tierce07 7 месяцев назад +8

    What a great movie. The ending was so touching, and I loved how her sons supported her.

  • @nadianadi378
    @nadianadi378 Год назад +7

    The fight between the two women at the parking lot is something else. Wonderful acting.

    • @phyllysanantonio
      @phyllysanantonio 9 месяцев назад

      I was so glad when she smacked the living daylights out of that Joan!! B!

  • @katladynj760
    @katladynj760 2 года назад +85

    I’ve been searching for this movie and wanting to watch it again for years!! Thank you so much for the upload. I love this story and the cast. True friendship endures the most trying of times. ❤️💫

    • @treasurehunteruk9718
      @treasurehunteruk9718 2 года назад +8

      Me too, I saw it on telly in the UK in 1998, and have wanted to see again ever since. I kept looking on YT, and only found it today.

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 2 года назад +3

      Difficult times Always test our commitment to one another. We can't avoid it

  • @MoonChild-yg3nw
    @MoonChild-yg3nw 2 года назад +90

    As a woman I don't understand why you as an other woman could open your legs up to a man who you know is married. Never have , never will. It is disgusting to me. What goes around comes around, ladies

    • @Solebellachic
      @Solebellachic 2 года назад +20

      Why do men even get married if they are going to cheat? What's the purpose of marriage then, if men will break the commitment that they made? They could just stay perpetually single and be with as many women as they want. 🤷‍♀

    • @barbarapeehl1528
      @barbarapeehl1528 2 года назад +4

      I like what you said because it's very true

    • @nigellbutlerrr2638
      @nigellbutlerrr2638 2 года назад +6

      Some wives refuse to have sex with the husband for years, decades.
      So the husband is married to a piece of paper, and when he has a second woman then it is his right and duty to himself.

    • @barbarapeehl1528
      @barbarapeehl1528 2 года назад +1

      Men do the same thing

    • @Reese493
      @Reese493 2 года назад +14

      @@nigellbutlerrr2638 then get a divorce!!! Don't cheat just get the freedom you so wish to have and spare her the pain and humiliation of your adultery

  • @celestelegare-haynes8625
    @celestelegare-haynes8625 7 месяцев назад +9

    I remember being 13, 14, 15 laying in bed w/ my mom watching an entire day of Lifetime movies lol

  • @kitmason2718
    @kitmason2718 Год назад +23

    My husband and I built our dream homestead and lived there happily 19 years, or so I thought. I learned he was cheating, I was going to leave him, but gave him several chances, but he still had his affair. I left our beautiful home ( big mistake on my part ) but heart break can cause bad decisions. its been 11 years and I STILL have not been able to fully get over it, he married her 11 months after our divorce, and now she lives in my beautiful home I helped build and paid it off. ... It tears a family apart. 💔

    • @MSGC55
      @MSGC55 6 месяцев назад +4

      I am so sorry to read your story - it must have been very hard for you to watch this movie - if you had gotten the house it might have caused too many sad memories for you - sometimes starting fresh is better - I hope you have some kind and wonderful girlfriends to talk too - you're strong, you can get past this and come out even better than when you started - I hope God blesses your life - Cheers from Canada 🇨🇦

  • @sociologyaddict8689
    @sociologyaddict8689 2 года назад +213

    Great Lifetime classic. Infidelity causes great damage. 💔 Older men who date women half their age are sick and selfish.

    • @elyse443
      @elyse443 2 года назад +47

      Yep. And so are the younger women.

    • @sociologyaddict8689
      @sociologyaddict8689 2 года назад +21

      @@elyse443 Exactly. All parties involved.

    • @debbietweedy1672
      @debbietweedy1672 2 года назад +11

      Agree

    • @ql688
      @ql688 2 года назад +14

      in this case so is the young lady. And It is he moms best friend.

    • @constanceinberkeleyca8685
      @constanceinberkeleyca8685 2 года назад +4

      Although I agree... How accepted it generally is in our Society!!! So many male Celebrities marry gals half their age. And it's been done almost since the beginning of time, families marrying off a daughter to some older well off fellow, regardless of whether or not the daughter liked the guy!!! Not so long ago, most women were considered property, to be bought & sold. We may personally object, but just think about how prevalent it is: Harrison Ford, Chris Harrison, Clint Eastwood, Alex Trebek, Cary Grant, Michael Douglas, Donald Trump, Alec Baldwin, Charlie Chaplin, George Clooney, Eddie Murphy, Warren Beatty, Sylvester Stallone, Bruce Willis, Bob Saget, David Hasselhoff, Jeff Goldblum, Sean Penn, Dennis Quaid, Richard Gere, Mel Gibson, Mic Jagger, Dick Van Dyke... The list goes "ON & ON!!!" It almost seems a former Star needs to marry someone significantly younger, or at least have a young babe on his arm!!! So, while we may not like it, it's generally accepted by society as a "Status Symbol." With a number of Glamorous Female Actresses following the trend, as they age... Liz Taylor, Cher, & Joan Collins, to name a few. Thank God for the Few Great Celebrities Couples with Similar Aged Partners that manage to stay together till "The End!!!"

  • @leighannferguson8343
    @leighannferguson8343 2 года назад +238

    What a beautiful ending. Made me cry. I wish I had a friendship like theirs.

    • @bobbiadams7322
      @bobbiadams7322 2 года назад +5

      So do I... It would be amazing...

    • @today1more2
      @today1more2 2 года назад +5

      Me too.

    • @bluemoon1012
      @bluemoon1012 Год назад +3

      Me too

    • @tomaradoss3420
      @tomaradoss3420 Год назад +6

      This is the comment I was looking for!
      I feel the exact same. I cried too! I have friends, but no best friend!

    • @missvegan2607
      @missvegan2607 Год назад +5

      Me too,l don't have any

  • @jszoradi8650
    @jszoradi8650 Год назад +2

    I miss these old Lifetime movies from 80's and 90's were much better than now.
    Wish we can bring back! 😞

  • @ladyvalarie
    @ladyvalarie 6 месяцев назад +14

    My 1 st ex husband got a 18 yr old girl pregnant n everyone knew about including my ex best friend. I felt so betrayed in lost for many yrs n it took a toll on my mental health not being able to trust anyone man or woman again. That was 30 yrs ago but it still brings up all of those feelings I can handle it now. Anyone that cheats is a liar n would sell their own mother to the devil.