Hi Everyone! Thanks for watching! Comment which characteristics you relate to the most when under stress? Enneagram 5 Overview: 0:09 Enneagram 5 Stress & Growth Lines: 0:41 What Will Cause Stress For Enneagram 5: 1:17 How To Identify An Enneagram 5 In Stress: 1:37 Moving Toward Health When Under Stress For 5's: 3:14
Thanks for this - sounds true. I'm a card carrying Preservation 5. I get overwhelmed by the HUGE feelings of my inner child when I am in acute stress and it comes out either as an explosive steam valve release or abrupt detachment and then feelings of both compassion for that part of me and also some regret. The stress is almost always caused by someone questioning my independence and capabilities, or controlling me so that I can't be independent or capable. We 5's don't make decisions lightly (as you know! ha) so when we do make a judgement call or a decision on something, we usually have it about right and thought of just about every angle. So it's a big trigger when someone doesn't see that and (sometimes innocently, sometimes not) questions or controls that. 🙏
"No" might be a first response, but three days later, we can talk about it. I will better understand. It all sounds familiar from some point in time, not always, but at times.
You’re right. Sometimes 5s need time to process. Which is ok. I think where it can get us in trouble (im a 5) is when we don’t communicate that we need time to process or that we are processing.
Hi Everyone! Thanks for watching! Comment which characteristics you relate to the most when under stress?
Enneagram 5 Overview: 0:09
Enneagram 5 Stress & Growth Lines: 0:41
What Will Cause Stress For Enneagram 5: 1:17
How To Identify An Enneagram 5 In Stress: 1:37
Moving Toward Health When Under Stress For 5's: 3:14
Under stress I get nihilistic and isolated
As a 5 myself, I understand and get it. Thank you for sharing!
Same. Exactly the same.
Thanks for this - sounds true. I'm a card carrying Preservation 5. I get overwhelmed by the HUGE feelings of my inner child when I am in acute stress and it comes out either as an explosive steam valve release or abrupt detachment and then feelings of both compassion for that part of me and also some regret. The stress is almost always caused by someone questioning my independence and capabilities, or controlling me so that I can't be independent or capable. We 5's don't make decisions lightly (as you know! ha) so when we do make a judgement call or a decision on something, we usually have it about right and thought of just about every angle. So it's a big trigger when someone doesn't see that and (sometimes innocently, sometimes not) questions or controls that. 🙏
Oh shit, is this what I've been doing? Well damn.....
@blaine fiasco , haha. As a five too, I feel your pain.
"No" might be a first response, but three days later, we can talk about it. I will better understand. It all sounds familiar from some point in time, not always, but at times.
You’re right. Sometimes 5s need time to process. Which is ok. I think where it can get us in trouble (im a 5) is when we don’t communicate that we need time to process or that we are processing.
4/5 is infj..
We the true 5ves are intp- intj's..greetings from Switzerland intj-female = 5/6 😁🤣🤩🤭😏
Great !
Stop it... this is too accurate 😂
Ouch
Frustrated, Irritated, Annoyed
I dont understand why there's always an advice at the end. I hate tips and advices