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I can't box myself into either wing. I have qualities of both. Makes sense because I am a Libra sign (indecision, swing one way or the other). Anger is also an issue for me (very typical 8 quality) due to my emotional Moon being in the sign of anger, Aries.

I’m an 8x7. Thanks for this video!

The fact that type 6’s have so many diverse career choices is a big problem itself. Too much indecision. That’s why I am still unemployed and paralyzed as far as career options go.

7w8 xD

I want everything the 3 wants but my temperament is more the 5. Basically? i want to be Picasso, hahaha.

Your videos are good and explanatory. Can you make a video on 9w8 forgetfulness and give examples of people?

Stress is fun for no one. What I like as a TWO is pay attention to self care, thank you.

You are cute 😊

Wow, you're really, really good at this. Some people on youtube, it seems like they've only got a general grasp of what a type four is, embellish inaccurately, and I disagree with about half of what they say, you on the other hand not a single sentence did not resonate with me, so fascinating. Do you have any top enneagram books I should be checking out to not just learn more about us type fours but other enneagrams in general? I'm actually finding this as a potential way to relate more with other people which has always been kind of a difficulty for me, and whatever/wherever you have studied appears to have the info spot on.

🤙 Determinism is Freedom 🤙

Learned about ennegram recently, and 9 seems to be what I get the most, however, if they show any wings, no matter the test 1 and 8 are nearly split evenly with one sometimes being only 2% stronger than the other. Interestingly though, neither wing is the type that is second highest, which is 5 when taking the tests.

I am a type 1 and my husband and type 8. It seems clear to me we are both in areas of stress, and it's forming this harmful feedback loop. Watching these videos is helping give me ideas for how to break the cycle and jump into something more positive. Thank you!

Stop it... this is too accurate 😂

I dont understand why there's always an advice at the end. I hate tips and advices

Tritype: any subtype, growth, stress point of all 3 intelligence centers are the same So sx 2, but so 6 and sp 9 dont exist as tritype for example

Omg im unhealthy for like 10 years

I’d consider myself a healthy 8-7 overall. But there’s always room to grow!

I think I'm a 9w1sx, but this sure does sound like me right now. And I'm a creative type, so that resonates too. 🤔

Create a list of why I want to become more vulnerable? 0 understanding here.

New to this but have had a coach assess me as a 7W8 (strong) which i def relate to. I feel I am thoughtful AND intuitive but incredibly annoyed with how slow things travel at work which causes me to speak up strongly. I would like to mitigate this, I'm not sure it's always helpful even tho my colleagues say it is. Thoughts?

Hmm, what if you behaved like the types in the aggressive stance as a child or teenager but got punished a lot because of impulsive actions that had bad consequences, so you learned to withdraw and thoroughly think things through to avoid further pain? I am now in the withdrawn stance. I rarely act on my thoughts and feelings but overthink a lot. But as a child/teenager, I didn’t care about consequences and just acted in the moment.

You explained 5w6 very well Although in 5w4 only focused on their bad side . You didn't covered it as well as other some. Videos For example 5w4 are more likely to understand the feelings and emotions of others

I am both. I balance it well. I love knowledge a lot. And ı socıalize. Sometimes I sisolate myself as well. Depending o the groups of people.

I find I lean more heavily on my 6 wing at work and when I’m recharged before attending a planned social gathering for work. However, outside of work and in regular day to day activities and life, my 4 wing shines through

I now understand why I've rejected perfectly decent men because I was just a place holder and knew I was one of many that could hold that place. I wanted all or nothing. Still not married, but no regrets!

1:53 : True, though I think the causality flows this way: context creates lots of demands from others ⇒ 9 concedes to the demands as they always do instead of exploring their own interests ⇒ general underlying sense of anxiety ⇒ 9 becomes unhealthy (ie. exhausted) ⇒ 9 starts avoiding interactions to recover

Yeah I notice both wings in my life.. sometimes I think it depends on how I’m doing and what I’m doing…

I think, I relate to both. But if I have to choose it will be 5w4. But it's a tough call. I am more withdrawn, less social. But it's a tough call. I could be slap bang in the middle.

Thanks for your effort

Great ! The most clearly and concisely explained about enneagram types ever I have read and watched. Thank u.

no type 2 and 1?

Great and Truth !

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Thank u. Informative.

Great and informative !

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Truth and informative ! Thank u.

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Great & informative ! Thank u.

8 wing 7 here. im a man. not a coward. < 3 those 8 wing 9's are trouble.

Wow I'm type 2 and this brought up a lot of childhood trauma that I try never to think about and had me crying because I always feel I have to do for others to be loved 😞 I'm almost 60 and still can't say no to anyone that I feel needs me

I think I relate more with 3w4.

I feel like a total failure

listening to the type 4 description as someone diagnosed with autism 🙃

Very me. Entj 8w7 here.

ISFP 8w9 here, and you is 100% correct

The thing is...I would be willing to fight for what i beleive, if only i knew what i believed in 😅😭😭

Well said. Good vid!