@@juhhsblazeit5878 oh wow, I think I seen it on the citizen app. Was he shot in the head ? What a shame 😞. Well since he was killed on the street he’s considered a victim of crime, since it happened suddenly, family is almost never prepared for something like this.let the family know that the victims of crime can help with funeral and burial expenses . A family member of mine was also killed and victims of crime helped with about 8k . They are located in the rampart police department .
Listening to these interviews really makes me appreciate my parents. They are far from perfect but they always stuck by me and loved me. Even when i didnt believe they did. Im 32 now and im a productive hard working citizen. And i have more blessings than i can count. Thanks mom and pops for not letting the streets take me. That could have easily been me.
My folks were and are fucked up, but aren't genuinely bad people. It definitely fucks your path up though. I'm 27 and just getting my shit together and I know my life was remotely as bad as folks like this.
Man I was thinking the same thing ima hustler ima barber . I’m tatted up I shoot guns but I never wanna go to prison . My parents didn’t let’s the streets take me either 💯
Were def lucky to have that. I suffer from terrible depression but I hold down a job and have loving parents. Life is tough. But it's nothing compared to what these st ppl deal w
Yes, im trying to picture growing up with no supervision, no parents really, no one to gell you anything about how to be in the world. He needs a mentor, a true father figure of some sort.
It doesn’t, he doesn’t want to do good he just says he wants to but he doesn’t actually try. Thank God I never went to prison but I was out there in my youth as well and have plenty of homies some came out and did good and others that didn’t want to better themselves went back or are 6 feet deep
Profound statement “I started doing drugs because they feel good, now I do them to not feel” so simply honest and the utter truth… any addict will tell you
I left a nasty comment earlier.... and I deleted it because I felt wrong... I am a recovering addict myself and should never judge anyone for anything. He seems like a solid guy and my heart hurts for him as it does most people on here. Everyone is a person and everyone has a story. Be mindful to not prejudge. And don’t ever give up. Ever. ALWAYS FORWARD
I'm a recovering addict I was on heroin for 4 years I've been clean for 3 out feels great I food have to get on methadone but it has helped me so much not to relapse I had no choice I had a job I didn't want to loose it's possible to get clean I wish I could help those struggling I just pray everyone will snap out of it and want a better life God bless guys please be safe out there!!
Hi Sergio, I'm currently a commissioned city cop... I've met many gang members in my 15 years of law enforcement and had both positive and negative experiences. Most of my interactions are positive as there's mutual respect given from both sides. That being said I want to encourage you by saying tomorrow is a new day brother. Your testimony was very inspiring and real. Much respect for putting yourself out there. Also, identity is a real thing... You mentioned your gang is all you got. While this may be true at the moment, new relationships await you if you're willing to get out of your comfort zone and work towards them. The biggest life lesson I've learned in my law enforcement career is to not identify as a cop. Go to church and build relationships outside of my gang. Many cops fall into the trap of "family" or "us versus them". We've all seen terrible examples of how that kind of mentality affects officers through bad conduct. I've proactively decided to serve my community without this mindset. All this being said, I am no more or less valuable than you no matter what mistakes we've both made in the past. The only thing that matters is what we do with tomorrow. Do we serve others... Or do we serve ourselves... I'm praying for you and your sobriety. Take care and God bless.
Hats off to you Sir. Keep being just the way you are. I have a lot of respect for cops like yourself. We definitely need more of you out there advocating instead of harassing, protecting instead of neglecting.
The best advice you could possibly give. Go to church and become family with people who are nothing like you but everything like each other because of Jesus. True family.
You can hear from his tone of voice that he's still a grown lost child. Thats why parenting is such a huge responsibility. These people are just lonely with no family.
A guy I grew up with ended up doing 16 years on drug charges (yeah he was a big dealer but it's still fucking drugs) and the last time I talked to him, he was saying how fucked up it was to watch killers and child molesters come and go while he's still there for fucking drugs. It's a fucked up system.
Corruption and the massive wealth gap we have here needs to be what every person is focused on everyday if we want to avoid millions of kids like him from suffering and not even having a chance
@@Quandussy Those people haven't watched a loved one in addiction. Those same people fail to recognize our pharmaceutical companies, The FDA & trusted doctors created this epidemic. All the while knowing opioids were extremely addictive. Those of us not suffering trauma or a neurological imbalance should consider ourselves lucky. I've taken pain meds, I didn't become addicted. Addiction didn't run in my family nor had I experienced trauma. Unbeknownst to me alcoholism and addiction runs in my husband's family. His father committed suicide at an early age. My husband died in a car accident when our children were small. All three of our children struggled. At 28 I was a widow & single mother. I raised my children with love and stability. Unfortunately it wasn't enough. With a family history of addiction as well as experiencing trauma, the cards were stacked against them. as is the case with many who suffer with addiction.
Them drugs n alcohol will have u like that feeling depressed as fuck. I was a heavy alcoholic and yea life gets depressing you feel you don't want to live anymore. There's alot of shame n different shit when ur using or drinking alot. The drugs n alcohol change ur mind up like that straight up. If he cleans up n stops using his brain will feel better and he'll get better with time. I've been clean now for about 4 months and I'm feeling more happy and life is just getting better now I hope he does the same.
He has a kid., doesnt sound like it gets a lot of hugs.... Have no sympathey for this guy. You create a new life, then be a man and take your responsibility.
Everyone that been through the pinta or YA Or anyone in the streets knows about homeboy Industries, And 5 other places that can help,He is not ready,You got good intentions trust me,I known that in 99 ,the internet just enlightened all the normies
As a young latino from a broken home, I was one charge away from living this man's life and this interview absolutely broke me down. The sins of a troubled youth are exponential once you are forced to cross certain lines. Thank you for this interview.
facts carnal , same here. lost 2 homies the 2nd one was gon put me n my other 2 homies on the next day before he passed at a house party , we tried keepin coo n lowkey now my boy’s in the army n im outta state , shi got too wild but hearin bro story def hits home
Well hearing his life story its nothing but pain and this is probably the first time hes ever really got to tell anyone. That and the drugs have fucked his ability to articulate thoughts properly
He's still as vulnerable as a 13 year old boy now in an intelligent man's body and this made my eyes tear up. What he ran away from is what what his life became. You can see he has a beautiful soul in there and that he is smart and disciplined by the way he thinks before speaking and by the work he puts into his physique. My wish for you Sergio is peace and healing and that you have the help to do the work you need to be there for your baby throughout his life. Bless you
His whole demeanor changed when his son was mentioned💔 As tough as one might portray themselves to be, there’s usually one thing that can bring a grown man to his knees.... his child/children 💯
@@bobbyschaffer1872 Dude, you have micro pennies taken out that's routed to caring for children. Calm down. If you're going to live here, you pay taxes like everywhere else in the world.
This guy has a lot of good in him, he's a thinker and he shows compassion. Imagine getting hold of him at 5 and giving him the opportunity to succeed in whatever he became. I dont condone what he does but Ill never judge him.
I just got out of jail myself and in skid row. My son passed away this April and life ain't the same for me. Stay up Sergio hope to see you around homie.
@@Theroadneverending it just comes with that high, yawns but not full yawns and itchy nose. I am an ex addict and I saw it within the first 10 seconds. He seems so lost, so sad. Hope he turns it around
this is prob my favorite interview on the Chanel. this dude is so open and gentle, he really challenges the expectation of what someone who did over 15 years would be like. thanks for sharing his story
I used to be a CO back in the day and can honestly say guys locked up in the prison system that have done a lot of time or served time in the SHU do suffer from PTSD. Watching this guy talk I can see he has it by his mannerisms.When I first started the best advice I had was given to me by an older CO. He said "your not a judge and your not a prosecutor, your job is to enforce the rules and be fair and don't let your feelings cloud your judgment, if you can do that you won't have a problem". Best advice ever given and because of that other than a few knuckleheads I was pretty solid by inmate standards and actually got along with most of them. As for the name, I don't want any asshole CO's giving me static. Just speaking facts and walk the streets not having too look over my shoulder for being a prick like most CO's, Wardens, Lt's and even Asstant Wardens who dont even walk the yard. Most just sit their fat asses in their offices all day and collect a paycheck.
I know they've had a warden on here, but it'd be dope to get some CO stories/perspectives. My little brother is one and I can tell there is a lot of stuff on his mind and pent up aggression and frustration.
Thankfully the only time I've been to jail was for a house arrest violation. Thirty days was plenty. Almost all you do in jail is watch everyone else, especially when you're in a pod with sixty guys like I was. We had a CO in our pod at all times, each doing 12 hours shifts. We had our favorites and the ones we hated. It's a thankless job, being a CO. And more than half the COs I observed seemed like there was something always smoldering under their guarded demeanor. Don't know how anybody could do that job. But I notice you stated you "used to be one." You've probably got some stories to tell.
@@apeshitclothing Right, I worked in a prison for 9 years and what they don't tell you is, its almost like serving time, you're constantly checking your surroundings and feeling the temp of the room. It was so bad for a while, if I was in Walmart and someone what get loud on the intercom, I'd be ready to fight
I wish people with an alcohol addiction would refrain from having kids. I lived with one parent like that at home, and this unrealiable parent managed to simultaneously screw up us children and the whole family. I am left with trust issues, people often scare me and my only goal is to live a decent life, supporting myself as best as I can, staying the hell off drugs and above all to never be what my parent was to anyone. I don’t want anybody to have to heal from me.
If you ever want to stare at regret in the face see this interview. Sad that so many people don't even have a chance for a better life. I wish this guy will find his way to a better tomorrow and see his son grow up.
I hope he and his baby mom gets clean and get some stability and get their baby back. Break the cycle Sergio. Life is hard. Growing up in Chicago I was only a few choices away from drugs, gangs, and prostitution. Looking back I realize how fortunate I am. His story makes me sad. Don't give up Sergio.
Yes, if a miracle was to happen and they both got clean, got jobs and got their shit together I'd love them to raise their child. But life is tough and if they don't really get their shit together and they still get to raise their child, the child has a good chance to follow right in his footsteps. I hope the very best for all of them and there are always 2nd, 3rd and 4th chances. He's done his time and he isn't stupid, so he has a chance to get his life straightened out. But that ain't easy, those drugs don't let go easily.
I am 42 eyars old living in Russia. My Father left my mother when I was 1 year old She was 20 years old. I was growing up almost alone on the street (my mam past away because of cancer) I was in the jail some time, then I meet my wife and she change my life. I have two beautiful children and every day I said to the Gad THANK you for that. My family it is my life. I just want to tell to this man, try to find any possibilities to get good connections to your san it is very important. ( Sorry for my poor English)
For a person who dropped out of school, he is very well-spoken. He seems like a smart guy. He would have made a good business owner (if he would have taken a different path in life) and his employees would have become his family. I think he would have gotten a lot of satisfaction being able to take care of, and help them.
In my experience, people that go through the system learn how to speak well and their vocabulary grows due to the legal jargon in court cases. Gotta adapt to understand what the system is saying about your future.
You're only 35...you can still do a lot...you have a wealth of experience of the gang life and prison and can educate yourself to help other young people...you are important to our society ....I see a warm empathetic beautiful human being in you....don't give up on yourself...I'll be praying for you and cheering you on...💕✌🇨🇦 please keep us posted
I got out of prison at 35. And through hard work I turned my life around and now spend my life raising my children and spreading the word of God. Gangster style. Most churches are so clean cut that they scare away the ones who need it most. Support my new channel to help the movement of life after being locked up.
Of all the interviews i've watched on this channel, watching this guy is hard. I see him reflect on what he's said, after almost every sentence, and you can see his regret. He made me the saddest, for the choices he made, and for how life turned out for him. Just alot of regret
@@luismangiaterra1031 Yes and no. Depends on what neighborhood you are raised in and if your parents watch over you. Saw one sad news article where 2 friends refused to join the local gang so they were murdered. They were around 15.
@@luismangiaterra1031 not trying to rationalize a thing. The dead boy's father said his son went into a 7/11 and the gang went in and killed them there. The boys were strong, refused gang affiliation to the end. Many join because they don't want to die. Now I know most neighborhoods are not that hard core but apparently some are.
When you have a history you have to be careful what you say.....am sure he didn't sign an imunity deal like they do on TV......SHIT can come back to you if you aren't careful bro....
This man was involved in multiple stabbings over the course of his stay in prisons. He is not a thinker, someone who is a thinker does not repeatedly stab someone. Once? ok, but he says that he's done it several times.
@@Anhjje what I don't understand is he went in prison for 12 years, he got caught doing multiple stabbings and still only did 12 years, don't these attempted murders add any time on?
Finesse Most people are absolute morons. The people in these videos are violent drug addicts that lie about wanting to change for the camera. I enjoy watching the videos because it’s quite entertaining to watch sociopaths try and explain themselves.
Videos of people in his situation and similar have taught me to REALLY consider whether I want to be a parent or not, so that my shortcomings don't ruin another person's entire life.
If you choose yourself first over your kid, than ya, it’s hard putting what you child needs first, over and over and over again but the love and pride you feel for your kids is so big it’s a bit frightening. If something can make you do better it’s your love for your child. In fact, I don’t think people really feel real love until they have a child. Being a parent helps us care about the future of everything important on the planet too, so they can have a better life as well. If you only have shortcomings you’ll do great cause we all have some of those.
@@bobbyschaffer1872 Actually in prison you're more likely to get stabbed and killed by your own race than any other, that goes for everybody. There's a lot of politics, stabbing a member from another race means a race war where there are several casualties and its just bad for business on everyone's side. Your own do you in, no reprocutions.
I read this comment right before he said his whole little stabbing here and there thing, making it that much more hilarious. Many heartfelt thank yous. LOL
I have been addicted to heroin for 18 years, I am 35 and have the exact same/ but own story as everyone else on these SWU episodes. Having parents that are alcoholic/drug addicts, being abused as children, not having the emotional support/love that is supposed to be given really sets the tone for the rest of the adult life. Feeling abandoned, isolated, and unwanted as a child and early teen causes an internal battle that can only medicated with 2 things and that is drugs and violence. In my personal experience every single person I have met on the street, in rehabs, psych wards, hospitals, jails and detoxes, it all traces back to that very simple question of "how was your childhood?"
You can see him reflecting as he’s telling his story. It’s gut wrenching to know his newborn baby is in the system. All the stories we hear on this channel about kids in the system, it’s disheartening to think that sweet little baby boy statistically, won’t have a chance at a healthy and happy life. That’s tough to think about. ✌🏼
Somewhat the same. Trust me. I can see it in him. He is a violent lion hearted protective person within. Although if he grew up differently he may have used it in a different way
@@yoiceman8034 That's what I'm saying. Unless he is a born psychopath, which doesn't seem to be the case, he most likely would have led a very different life. 💔 I noticed your user name. The man known as "The Ice Man" is one of the stories I find most fascinating. He was also a product of his environment and ended up killing for a living, although he is incredibly likeable.
@CALICOTV301 You all had loving homes? Maybe we have different ideas of what that means. This guy mentioned growing up in a "normal home", yet both of his parents were alcoholics. There is much data to support the fact that children are greatly affected by not having their needs met, both physically and emotionally. And no, that doesn't simply mean being told that are loved. That's a simplistic view. Most children who have their needs met will not seek out another family figure like a gang. Also, big money doesn't look attractive to everyone. Often times, it's the culture of the environment which guides that sort of thinking. Maybe that's the type of area you grew up in, but it's not the norm.
@Gäs Yes he did. I'm just pointing out the fact that many people are products of their environment. I'm not saying he couldn't have chosen differently. He could have. I'm just saying it is more common for someone to choose that lifestyle after having been raised around it.
So sad when he said.. “I realised that I’m a good worker. I love to work but who’s gonna hire me”. How can this man turn his life around with no prospects or future? We need to open up as a society and give people a second chance. Good luck, Sergio.
There should be some work for people who want to work. The government should have a highway corp or street crews like clean and improve places/blight and people can work there and get some money each week based on the hours they work.
you are retarded, this man has had about 20 chances by the age of 22 and still continued to try and murder people and stab people for no reason? he didnt even know them? you a fucking deluded.
He's not use to literally anybody asking questions concerning him. He's getting asked simple questions abt his past and how he feels, and it looks like he's hitting the wall each time
True… he’s also making sure he don’t say nothing that will get him hit later. When you experience sht like that, you tuck it way back and make sure ya don’t think about it anymore.. so it takes time to recall it correctly.
Is., it's just impossible for these folks to....not go back to the pen by themselves. They need help from another person. Look at how Scandinavia and Germany do it. They have tons to success getting people to be cool.
Man its crazy to see what has happened to Sergio. I met Sergio when we were going to Belmont HS. As a matter in fact we would walk home after school with other of our friends including Rudy ( he should know who I'm talking about). I had no idea that he was going through tough times back then emotionally let alone physically. Anyways if he reads this post stay strong my brother and don't give up on yourself. I know your a smart individual you just have to apply yourself in a positive way.
I hope Sergio finds his peace & happiness. I’m Mexican raised in Denver’s 5 Points and Jamaica Queens and lived in L.A. for a short while. I got to meet individuals just like him in my pursuit of self knowledge of my culture. I never judged young Brown, Black and Asian brothers I met living that life and I loved the conversations I would have with them when they heard me speak and realized I wasn’t from L.A. Had some good conversations and learned a lot from them as well. Most of them were kind to me. Thank You Boyle Heights for the education.
I think one of the more important parts of this interview is around 19:50 when he says "I wouldn't trade this for anything", then mentions that it's either Skid Row or prison. These are literally the only two things he knows, the only two places that have ever been a home to him. In reality, i'm sure he'd trade all of it for an hour in any one of our lives. Deeply, profoundly sad. God bless you Sergio. He will forgive you if you ask him
It's so sad that he can't even conceive of anything beyond skid row or prison. Unfortunately I don't think he'll escape that life with still being on drugs, he's definitely intelligent but he wasn't given a good hand in life. Two alcoholic parents? God doesn't give a shit about us. If god exists then he is malevolent.
@@drelephanttube Your view of any God is western (King figure ruling), in eastern views, all are God, the person here is part of God, and we (self) are on a journey to reunion with our supreme self. Karma reigns and you get pulled back here for what good or wrong you do by being born, again and again, until you're done, and have no karma.....pull , good neutral or bad. You become spiritual... Heatdeath, you have no more desire for action, kind of, that's what Nirvana means: dousing the flames. Heatdeath. Chemical action in the universe itself aims to reach this state, so does the spirit. In such a case would you still say that thing is malevolent? Nah man. The spiritual mechanism for Karma can also be found in people, You know how traumatised people either shut it off completely or recreate the situation of their trauma in an effort to conquer it, person getting abusive boyfriends after they had abusive fathers and so on, That's like Karma, you get reborn, and you are recreating your situation to conquer it. Discourse is a high virtue, for without discourse there's war so feel free to talk, or disregard this even.
The moment you realize trying to murder someone, might just get you murdered while watching your buddy get murdered trying to murder someone. That's what they call an Epiphany kids.
It's also his conscious telling him what he is doing has consequences but no physical actions from others to even care of his epiphany. Hope it makes sense
I feel like he'd have a lot easier time talking about it without the camera on him. It seems he holds a lot back because he doesn't want to offend anyone who sees this
I am very moved by this interview. Sergio , despite all he has seen and done and experienced still has a glow and you can see he is a good man beneath all this. I pray for you. I wish you happiness. I really do. You deserve it.
Your being romantic, you cannot tell anything about these guys. As he said he's tried to kill people. Theres no "good man" here. Talk is easy, actions are what are real. Look at his actions.
he's a child trapped in an adult body, fucked from the beginning, i don't think it's appropriate to say 'he's not a good person' that's not the conversation to be had here. i'm with you @annamarsch6091
he's a child trapped in an adult body, fucked from the beginning, i don't think it's appropriate to say 'he's not a good person' that's not the conversation to be had here. i'm with you
He's stuck...I work in a prison northern cali...psychiatric program... being in a cell alone will fuq you up! Going in as a child and trying to live as a 35yr old when you get out is very hard! I wish they had more programs to help these people get on their feet. STAY STRONG SERGIO.. YOU MADE IT OUT THE JUNGLE.. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING!
"It's cold out there" when you know he's not just talking about the temperature, that really got me. I hope this guy manages to find his way, for both him and his son.
I really appreciate what you do and sharing this with the world. In a strange way this helps people. It would be interesting if you could do a 6 month follow-up to see how Sergio is doing.
We can't give up on Sergio, or other people like him. If we give up hope, what hope do they have? We are all connected and our society is collectively responsible for failing so many families 💔
@@rgCA_01123 You seem intelligent. What u said is something alot of people would rather dismiss and sweep under the rug so they dont get the illusion of a perfect world shattered.
This has to be one of my favorite interviews... Not only can you hear the sincerity in his voice but you can see it. I like when he would sit there and stare blankly reflecting on everything he's been through. He's done some bad but you have put yourself in his shoes if you were in that same position what you do? It's not really a choice. Sergio has lived more life than people twice even three times age and to hear how humble and appreciative he is to live on skid row has literally restored my faith in humanity. In my eyes... He's not criminal, a monster, or a 'bad person' he's real and that's just not something you come across or see too often in people anymore. Respect 💯
Dude has some of the best prison ink I've ever seen. It's clear, cohesive, and flows well with his body. His tattooist must be the richest guy in every block he's been in...
Haha I felt like a dickhead about to write the same comment, but I'm glad other people noticed that. Besides the stuff on his scalp which is just not for me, the rest of his tattoos look pretty fucking good.
Latinos tend to have some of the nicest prison ink. A lot of the time it's Inca and/or Aztec themed and is so intricate and looks so good you'd never think it was done in prison.
Anytime I watch one of these interviews, not only do I have heart for the men and women interviewed but the support and love from the comments reminds me that there are more good people in the world, people who care and who have big hearts for all people. Gives me more hope than you can imagine, bless 🙏
@@Terracecasualx5 don't let others define you. There are good people out there willing to give other good people who have made mistakes a second chance, you just have to keep at it (easier said than done I know)
¿SeriouSly PeoPle? I know and you are right but after being knocked back and down so many times,you think what’s the point of trying to go straight and join society. Because no one gives a fuck and know one wants to know. So you go back to earning money the way you know how and all ex cons will tell you this. But I’ll keep trying coz it’s too easy to slip into old routines!!
@@Terracecasualx5 I get that brother, I truly do. Do what you need to eat and provide for yours, but just know there are still some good ones left it's just a matter of putting yourself out there to come across them. Doesn't later how anyone else views you other than your loved ones. I wish you luck man
When he said he was waiting for the bell to ring. “I’m tired I’m just going looking back like …..it’s never taken this long “ Lmaooo it was then I knew Sergio did not want this life. Damn man. Watching these make me really reflect An just be grateful for everything around me.
Hey Sergio, just so you know, it's not too late to be in your son's life (in some form) if you really want to be better for you and him, you can do it bro. Do it for you first. The gift of taking care of yourself will be a gift for him too. Tomorrow holds many keys to many different futures.
I like this guy. He has a lot to offer. Just needs a hand, helping him get connections to the people that will give him work. I wish I could help get him on his feet. Good luck, Sergio.
@@aegisreflector1239 You never know how someone will turn out if they are put in the wrong environment. He want's to change but doesn't know how.. his gang was his only family and violence was all he knew.
@@samack3 Nowhere in my comment did I suggest that he's ready to be trusted. I'm saying that a bad environment can change someone for the worse and there is no way for me to know if that damage can be repaired to the point that he's a non-violent member of society.
I'll give him a job right the fuck now. Sergio if you can make it to Olympia Washington I'll give you a job. Doing drugs doesn't mean you have to be a piece of shit. Everything we do is for a reason. I can't judge anybody for their actions.
My childhood was normal. My parents were alcoholics. I could stay out and they didn't care. Or, they were to drunk to care. I got arrested for having a gun at 15, and attempted murder three weeks later. That's not normal. It shouldn't be ok that it was normal for him. It's so sad.
It’s probably normal to him not only because of his situation but because he looks at his friends and they’re in the same situation. His perspective is that’s life everyone he knows probably had broken homes. How could someone change if they don’t know what to change into? Or how? It’s sad to see this is all too common and people say it’s the neighborhood or social class but statistically it’s the Parents. If only parents can learn to stay in a happy relationship with their significant other and fight their own demons as to not pass it down to the kids it would dramatically increase the chances their kid would grow up happy and healthy regardless of situation.
Ask anyone from a poor minority neighborhood and most will give you this response, for us unfortunately it is the norm. Thankfully some of us manage not to fall into the same trap and manage to do good for ourselves
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@@kenziek5489 true. A person don’t have to go that way but at the time and circumstances, it’s usually the seemingly easier choice, and fit that seems right. But the outcome don’t have to be in the pen for life or dead in the hood. You just got to want and know that there is better. That shit will mold you or fold you?!
Alcoholic parents, no proper attention, spending late teens and whole of the 20s in prison, having no decent option to survive, far from his child - he's actually been through a lot. I feel really bad for him. May he be able to live a peaceful life someday soon.
Some how some way this man could get it together. This is his chance to turn his life around for this child. Be strong and get it together! This baby needs you!
He seems very thoughtful, he's aware of the things he's done wrong. Finding a different path to live a life that doesn't involve drugs or criminality is going to be hard. Some sort of mentor programme with men who have been interviewed on here who have left gang life could be helpful.
He knows that he is incapable of raising a child. He regrets leaving his baby but understands that he has nothing to offer that child. He can’t function in society and he’s a dangerous man, just a matter of time before he’s back in jail.
I watch him and honestly he doesn’t seem like what his life is now. He just seems...better than that, capable of more, intelligent. I honestly think he could have a great future whenever he decides to believe in himself and decide he wants more. Wishing him all the very best.
I just hate that his Son is in the system, I will be praying for that sweet boy to be OK and survive the system unharmed. I wish he knew how to live differently
You can see he wants to change, and he maybe doesn’t want to admit the gang was a bad idea (his gang might see the interview) but when he said “I’m 35 years old with tattoos” I took it as “I’m getting old, what am I doing this for?” But he’s stuck. I really wish him the best for him and his son
You can tell he's lost in thought remembering. I think he has many regrets and wishes he'd taken a different road in life. I hope he's able to get back on his feet and be the Daddy and person he has the potential to be. Best of luck to him.
Man this breaks my heart you can tell he's gone through alot and wants to find a better way. But he doesn't have much options... Sergio I hope you find sobriety and someone offers him a job or a trade he can learn.... God bless you man
Man I wish someone could get this guy a job in construction or something. Maybe that would help get his life on track. I hope one day he’s able to get his baby before it’s too late.
He sounds so defeated. It's sad when parents are so selfish. They have made it extremely difficult for him to succeed. Which basically makes the child's life is over before it even begins since there's no guidance.
I wonder If I were magically transformed into this guy's body. Looked like him, had all his tattoos, history but knew what I knew, how hard would it be for me to leave this lifestyle? Honestly, I don't know if I could.
He actually speaks really well. You can tell he has a deeper mind than most gangbangers that get interviewed. With a different start in life who knows what he could of done with it
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Oh no , I was really hoping he’d get to a better place In his life…. But not this kind of a better place .😢 may he RIP
What happened to him? 😮
@@juhhsblazeit5878 oh wow, I think I seen it on the citizen app. Was he shot in the head ? What a shame 😞. Well since he was killed on the street he’s considered a victim of crime, since it happened suddenly, family is almost never prepared for something like this.let the family know that the victims of crime can help with funeral and burial expenses . A family member of mine was also killed and victims of crime helped with about 8k . They are located in the rampart police department .
@@skinnypete5158 respectfully do I happen to know you
@@skinnypete5158wow that’s heartbreaking 😢
Listening to these interviews really makes me appreciate my parents. They are far from perfect but they always stuck by me and loved me. Even when i didnt believe they did. Im 32 now and im a productive hard working citizen. And i have more blessings than i can count. Thanks mom and pops for not letting the streets take me. That could have easily been me.
Listening to these videos make me realize everyone has a trials.
My folks were and are fucked up, but aren't genuinely bad people. It definitely fucks your path up though. I'm 27 and just getting my shit together and I know my life was remotely as bad as folks like this.
Man I was thinking the same thing ima hustler ima barber . I’m tatted up I shoot guns but I never wanna go to prison . My parents didn’t let’s the streets take me either 💯
Were def lucky to have that. I suffer from terrible depression but I hold down a job and have loving parents. Life is tough. But it's nothing compared to what these st ppl deal w
@@nicksterp2805 stay strong buddy even the richest have problems.
I really liked this guys demeanor ; not glamorizing or making himself sound super tough. Just being real with it. I also have sympathy for him as well
EMPATHY IDIOT NUMBER 6
@@richardthayer9146 ???
@@richardthayer9146 why are you so sensitive Fucking grammar Nazi You understood what he meant
@@richardthayer9146 are you jew? Just curious. 🤔
The most dangerous type. The clowns that brag are the Wankstas.
His eyes say he wants to straighten up but doesn't know where to begin
Yes, im trying to picture growing up with no supervision, no parents really, no one to gell you anything about how to be in the world. He needs a mentor, a true father figure of some sort.
dreams of turtles hence why so many young men join gangs - they have a role model and a parental figure
It doesn’t, he doesn’t want to do good he just says he wants to but he doesn’t actually try. Thank God I never went to prison but I was out there in my youth as well and have plenty of homies some came out and did good and others that didn’t want to better themselves went back or are 6 feet deep
@Merciless Thoughts if you're looking at his hands, then you really don't care who you're speaking to
I pray for his recovery..
Profound statement “I started doing drugs because they feel good, now I do them to not feel” so simply honest and the utter truth… any addict will tell you
numb the pain until my final days
Addiction in a nutshell..
Yes, that statement was pure reality spoken perfectly.
Where does he get the money?
@@tuforu4 likely pulls it out from his wallet 🥳
"Childhood was... normal I guess. Both my parents were alcoholics."
Thats normal, welcome to a first world country
They do not know what normal is so they would think what they have is normal
@@kar4710 I suppose you know what normal is do you?
@@ThatGuyMata no one does.
I feel you. But I think he was true because normal is common (not good) and in his neighbourhood could be normal...
He's not stupid, he thinks before he speaks. Interesting interview.
Exactly
Sounds like he’s been in a lot of situations where not thinking before you speak could get you killed.
If hes speaking on prison stuff, you cant mention mexican mafia, it's a rule so he has to be careful not to get killed
@@swiizzchezzez1801 Everyone makes mistakes and bad choices in their lives. He's admitting to them and hopefully learning from them.
Cuz he learned from the joint. Some things he can’t say
I left a nasty comment earlier.... and I deleted it because I felt wrong... I am a recovering addict myself and should never judge anyone for anything. He seems like a solid guy and my heart hurts for him as it does most people on here. Everyone is a person and everyone has a story. Be mindful to not prejudge. And don’t ever give up. Ever. ALWAYS FORWARD
Aman , it's eye opening to how many of these people we can relate to in some way . I am recovering from opiates .
@@Aprilfool4121 congrats bro hang in there. When it gets tough, no retreat, no matter what. Always forward
Props for bravely changing your mind.
. . . . In college, when my only vice was weed, we would say, "Always forward - never straight"
I'm a recovering addict I was on heroin for 4 years I've been clean for 3 out feels great I food have to get on methadone but it has helped me so much not to relapse I had no choice I had a job I didn't want to loose it's possible to get clean I wish I could help those struggling I just pray everyone will snap out of it and want a better life God bless guys please be safe out there!!
@@Den57701 congrats on your sobriety. Keep on keeping on man
Hi Sergio, I'm currently a commissioned city cop... I've met many gang members in my 15 years of law enforcement and had both positive and negative experiences. Most of my interactions are positive as there's mutual respect given from both sides. That being said I want to encourage you by saying tomorrow is a new day brother. Your testimony was very inspiring and real. Much respect for putting yourself out there. Also, identity is a real thing... You mentioned your gang is all you got. While this may be true at the moment, new relationships await you if you're willing to get out of your comfort zone and work towards them. The biggest life lesson I've learned in my law enforcement career is to not identify as a cop. Go to church and build relationships outside of my gang. Many cops fall into the trap of "family" or "us versus them". We've all seen terrible examples of how that kind of mentality affects officers through bad conduct. I've proactively decided to serve my community without this mindset. All this being said, I am no more or less valuable than you no matter what mistakes we've both made in the past. The only thing that matters is what we do with tomorrow. Do we serve others... Or do we serve ourselves... I'm praying for you and your sobriety. Take care and God bless.
Damn, you guys need more officers like you in your country, hell our country needs you too. ✌ from India.
Hats off to you Sir. Keep being just the way you are. I have a lot of respect for cops like yourself. We definitely need more of you out there advocating instead of harassing, protecting instead of neglecting.
Wow thanks for sharing. Helpful to hear. And makes me feel better about the workd
Wow!!!!! U SEEM LIKE AN AMAZING COP!!!!! I WISH ALL COPS THOUGHT THE SAME WAY U DO!!!!! GOD BLESS U BRO!!!!
The best advice you could possibly give. Go to church and become family with people who are nothing like you but everything like each other because of Jesus. True family.
You can hear from his tone of voice that he's still a grown lost child. Thats why parenting is such a huge responsibility. These people are just lonely with no family.
Yup
You're cute.. stay safe.
Yeah..he never had a chance. Nobody to guide him but other neglected,lost,hurt kids, his gang buddies...
LOST CHILD?.
WE ALL LOST CHILD,IF YOU HAVE A PHONE 📱 5G.👍🎈
i have no compassion for this fool who would rob you and kill you
How is it possible that robbers can get 12 years in prison and child molesters and rapists can serve less time than that?!
A guy I grew up with ended up doing 16 years on drug charges (yeah he was a big dealer but it's still fucking drugs) and the last time I talked to him, he was saying how fucked up it was to watch killers and child molesters come and go while he's still there for fucking drugs. It's a fucked up system.
Because the lawyers and the prosecutors that make the laws and even the Deep state they're all pedophiles and rapists
straight up. I watched a true crime - dude held a child captive 7 years and serves 5 then arrested again for attempting to purchase a child. wtf
@@jamesmartin7323 plus the dems want to make money off the drugs not the citizens so they teach them a lesson by giving them more years
One can be done out of desperation...the other is just putrid perversion
I truly think therapy would help this guy tremendously. He has regrets, he sees his faults but he feels hopeless. He needs help to begin the change.
Hardly anyone in the US thinks people like him deserve affordable/free basic healthcare, which is tragic
Corruption and the massive wealth gap we have here needs to be what every person is focused on everyday if we want to avoid millions of kids like him from suffering and not even having a chance
You can't just come up with money out of thin air to pay for a therapist and psychiatric nurse/meds for this guy.
He should've had better support from his community/school as a kid too, and that requires money as well. Our government is so inefficient
@@Quandussy Those people haven't watched a loved one in addiction. Those same people fail to recognize our pharmaceutical companies, The FDA & trusted doctors created this epidemic. All the while knowing opioids were extremely addictive. Those of us not suffering trauma or a neurological imbalance should consider ourselves lucky. I've taken pain meds, I didn't become addicted. Addiction didn't run in my family nor had I experienced trauma. Unbeknownst to me alcoholism and addiction runs in my husband's family. His father committed suicide at an early age. My husband died in a car accident when our children were small. All three of our children struggled. At 28 I was a widow & single mother. I raised my children with love and stability. Unfortunately it wasn't enough. With a family history of addiction as well as experiencing trauma, the cards were stacked against them. as is the case with many who suffer with addiction.
This interview made me so sad. At the end you can totally feel how broken and defeated he is. My heart goes out to him and his son ❤
Them drugs n alcohol will have u like that feeling depressed as fuck. I was a heavy alcoholic and yea life gets depressing you feel you don't want to live anymore. There's alot of shame n different shit when ur using or drinking alot. The drugs n alcohol change ur mind up like that straight up. If he cleans up n stops using his brain will feel better and he'll get better with time. I've been clean now for about 4 months and I'm feeling more happy and life is just getting better now I hope he does the same.
he sounds like he wants to cry the whole time....its sad the life that kids are forced into due to shit parents....if you have kids go hug them
Shit, watching this made me want to cry.. Guy has never had a real chance.
I was thinking the same thing. You can hear the pain in every sentence.
This why equal opportunity bull shit
@@itskarl79 dont have kids. We should end human race
He has a kid., doesnt sound like it gets a lot of hugs....
Have no sympathey for this guy. You create a new life, then be a man and take your responsibility.
Hey mark you should send him to homeboy industries in Los Angeles they help out gang members get jobs and change their life around
@Ktube This guy stabbed multiple people. This is not a good man
ELI A shut up bitch
Know Ledge That’s politics in CDC. You do the work or you’ll be handled by someone else.
Everyone that been through the pinta or YA Or anyone in the streets knows about homeboy Industries, And 5 other places that can help,He is not ready,You got good intentions trust me,I known that in 99 ,the internet just enlightened all the normies
@@theadicts3793 yeah thats jacked up
You can genuinely tell that he's not proud of the things he's done
As a young latino from a broken home, I was one charge away from living this man's life and this interview absolutely broke me down. The sins of a troubled youth are exponential once you are forced to cross certain lines. Thank you for this interview.
facts carnal , same here. lost 2 homies the 2nd one was gon put me n my other 2 homies on the next day before he passed at a house party , we tried keepin coo n lowkey now my boy’s in the army n im outta state , shi got too wild but hearin bro story def hits home
he talks like he's on the verge of tears the whole time.
Doesn't he?
Well hearing his life story its nothing but pain and this is probably the first time hes ever really got to tell anyone. That and the drugs have fucked his ability to articulate thoughts properly
There a lot of pain there
EMPATHY IDIOT NUMBER 8
@@richardthayer9146 what do you mean?
if this is meant to attack me, i'll tell you this: a teacher without empathy cannot ever be a good one.
Please have him back for a second interview!
@baby•yoda 🤣🤣
Yes please
Bris! ' 😂😂
EMPATHY IDIOT NUMBER 5
Richard Thayer youre the idiot
“Little stabbing here, little stabbing there,” little stabbing everywhere.
Here a stab, there a stab, everywhere a stab stab
Little stabbing meaning non fatal ones, thats why he put the little in front because they were less severe. Lol
Lol ThAt stood out to me too.. Like it wasn’t nothing wrong with it!
@@scott1684 old mcstabby had a shank.
@@TheMuddyMilesTrain 😂😂
He's still as vulnerable as a 13 year old boy now in an intelligent man's body and this made my eyes tear up. What he ran away from is what what his life became. You can see he has a beautiful soul in there and that he is smart and disciplined by the way he thinks before speaking and by the work he puts into his physique. My wish for you Sergio is peace and healing and that you have the help to do the work you need to be there for your baby throughout his life. Bless you
i think every pause is him thinking of the moment and regretting his actions
I think it's because of his 16 years in prison. He must have spent so much time thinking. His mind automatically goes into thinking/day dreaming mode.
He is reliving those experiences by speaking about them, its ptsd. That is why he is pausing. It causes flashbacks you can feel.
@@arielmichellee1624 you're right, sadly you learn that the hard way...
I think you're right....that's deep
You can tell he has not told his story very often.
His whole demeanor changed when his son was mentioned💔 As tough as one might portray themselves to be, there’s usually one thing that can bring a grown man to his knees.... his child/children 💯
Mine did too, the tax payer. These folks cost a million bucks a piece .
@@bobbyschaffer1872
and what does the Military, Corporate Handouts, Bank Bailouts etc. etc. cost??🖕
@@bobbyschaffer1872 Dude, you have micro pennies taken out that's routed to caring for children. Calm down. If you're going to live here, you pay taxes like everywhere else in the world.
@@bobbyschaffer1872 go fuck yourself bitch
Ask him if his son should meet the same fate his victims did.
This was pretty dark. Just listening to that guy makes you realise how good I’ve got it. That was hurting him to speak. Was deep
Yeah
This guy has a lot of good in him, he's a thinker and he shows compassion. Imagine getting hold of him at 5 and giving him the opportunity to succeed in whatever he became. I dont condone what he does but Ill never judge him.
"Lil stabbings here lil stabbings there" so casual about his stabbings 😂
😂👍🏻
mexicans be like that
What... you guys never stabbed up someone a lil bit?... Me neither. lulz.
He said his "childhood was normal I guess". Fuck.
Normal can be just about anything if do it repetitively or see it....amazing what humans can adjust too
I just got out of jail myself and in skid row. My son passed away this April and life ain't the same for me. Stay up Sergio hope to see you around homie.
Hope things are looking up for you my dude 💙
Prayers in Jesus Name
Prayers Sergio you can overcome this and get right.
🙏
Stay up g 🙏🏽
Damn, you can tell he's exhausted
He's on heroin. Not that I'm looking down on him. Do what you do bro. Anyone that itches thier face and nose repeatedly is most likely doing opiates
@@brianvasquez4484 why
@@Theroadneverending it just comes with that high, yawns but not full yawns and itchy nose. I am an ex addict and I saw it within the first 10 seconds. He seems so lost, so sad. Hope he turns it around
@@doesntmatterwhatyousay1928 Yes, same. Could pick it up within seconds.
this is prob my favorite interview on the Chanel. this dude is so open and gentle, he really challenges the expectation of what someone who did over 15 years would be like. thanks for sharing his story
"Gentle"? Really? Stabbing people he doesn't even know?
@@dat2ra he talkin about the way he tells his stories not the actual story you bot
@@dat2raI like the fact that he instinctively knew to hide the knife in his b hole, easy in, and apparently easy out.
" I had a normal upbringing, my parents were alcoholics... I didn't want to be in the house to see my dad beating my mum" a victim of circumstance.
Yes, this was so sad, that this upbringing is considered normal 💔
It starts in childhood. I can imagine him an entirely different person if he had been raised in an entirely different home.
You wouldn’t say it to his face pussy!
@@dannyone8111 u better say it. These lame tuff guys on RUclips. God bless this homie and hopefully he can get right.
@@howiseeit5129 maybe stick to your makeup videos..I think this might be a little complex for you
He needs to seek help with his brother in San Diego and work in construction and just get away from L.A.
I used to be a CO back in the day and can honestly say guys locked up in the prison system that have done a lot of time or served time in the SHU do suffer from PTSD. Watching this guy talk I can see he has it by his mannerisms.When I first started the best advice I had was given to me by an older CO. He said "your not a judge and your not a prosecutor, your job is to enforce the rules and be fair and don't let your feelings cloud your judgment, if you can do that you won't have a problem". Best advice ever given and because of that other than a few knuckleheads I was pretty solid by inmate standards and actually got along with most of them. As for the name, I don't want any asshole CO's giving me static. Just speaking facts and walk the streets not having too look over my shoulder for being a prick like most CO's, Wardens, Lt's and even Asstant Wardens who dont even walk the yard. Most just sit their fat asses in their offices all day and collect a paycheck.
I know they've had a warden on here, but it'd be dope to get some CO stories/perspectives. My little brother is one and I can tell there is a lot of stuff on his mind and pent up aggression and frustration.
Yes sir...
Thankfully the only time I've been to jail was for a house arrest violation. Thirty days was plenty. Almost all you do in jail is watch everyone else, especially when you're in a pod with sixty guys like I was. We had a CO in our pod at all times, each doing 12 hours shifts. We had our favorites and the ones we hated. It's a thankless job, being a CO. And more than half the COs I observed seemed like there was something always smoldering under their guarded demeanor. Don't know how anybody could do that job. But I notice you stated you "used to be one." You've probably got some stories to tell.
Fuck them. They deserve everything they get.
@@apeshitclothing Right, I worked in a prison for 9 years and what they don't tell you is, its almost like serving time, you're constantly checking your surroundings and feeling the temp of the room. It was so bad for a while, if I was in Walmart and someone what get loud on the intercom, I'd be ready to fight
I wish people with an alcohol addiction would refrain from having kids. I lived with one parent like that at home, and this unrealiable parent managed to simultaneously screw up us children and the whole family.
I am left with trust issues, people often scare me and my only goal is to live a decent life, supporting myself as best as I can, staying the hell off drugs and above all to never be what my parent was to anyone. I don’t want anybody to have to heal from
me.
Good for you. Staying away from drugs is the only way to have a chance at a reasonably stable life
I feel more or less the same way. I was messed up thoroughly at the exact age that makes it count. And I'm not equipped to bring anyone else up.
God bless you
Sound pretty lucky to me.
People that are fucked up all the time don't have self control
If you ever want to stare at regret in the face see this interview. Sad that so many people don't even have a chance for a better life. I wish this guy will find his way to a better tomorrow and see his son grow up.
The PTSD is real in this one... God please Bless this man.
@@luismangiaterra1031 The One who created all the other gods.
@@CamiDiscerns only one God in my religion.
And above him is no other.
@@luismangiaterra1031 YHWH is Lord of lords.
Yes bless him, and forget about his victims
@@luismangiaterra1031 According to South Park, God is a big ugly-looking rat.
I hope he and his baby mom gets clean and get some stability and get their baby back. Break the cycle Sergio. Life is hard. Growing up in Chicago I was only a few choices away from drugs, gangs, and prostitution. Looking back I realize how fortunate I am. His story makes me sad. Don't give up Sergio.
Great way of putting it. When I think about it, everyone is a few bad choices away from a life like that.
Yes, if a miracle was to happen and they both got clean, got jobs and got their shit together I'd love them to raise their child. But life is tough and if they don't really get their shit together and they still get to raise their child, the child has a good chance to follow right in his footsteps. I hope the very best for all of them and there are always 2nd, 3rd and 4th chances. He's done his time and he isn't stupid, so he has a chance to get his life straightened out. But that ain't easy, those drugs don't let go easily.
💪🏻
His child is doing perfectly fine
I am 42 eyars old living in Russia. My Father left my mother when I was 1 year old She was 20 years old. I was growing up almost alone on the street (my mam past away because of cancer) I was in the jail some time, then I meet my wife and she change my life. I have two beautiful children and every day I said to the Gad THANK you for that. My family it is my life. I just want to tell to this man, try to find any possibilities to get good connections to your san it is very important. ( Sorry for my poor English)
For a person who dropped out of school, he is very well-spoken. He seems like a smart guy. He would have made a good business owner (if he would have taken a different path in life) and his employees would have become his family. I think he would have gotten a lot of satisfaction being able to take care of, and help them.
In my experience, people that go through the system learn how to speak well and their vocabulary grows due to the legal jargon in court cases. Gotta adapt to understand what the system is saying about your future.
In prison.. politics include that you educate yourself, read, get your GED or HS diploma.
I felt like he struggles to get the words out but he doesn't seem like a dumb person maybe he was nervous.
@@veronicamartinez2575 exactly, a lot of prisoners are well read contrary to popular belief.
@@heynow7778 you can become extremely nervous and shit your pans lol..
Mark didn’t even have to interview him, he just told his story at a good pace.
You're only 35...you can still do a lot...you have a wealth of experience of the gang life and prison and can educate yourself to help other young people...you are important to our society ....I see a warm empathetic beautiful human being in you....don't give up on yourself...I'll be praying for you and cheering you on...💕✌🇨🇦 please keep us posted
I got out of prison at 35. And through hard work I turned my life around and now spend my life raising my children and spreading the word of God. Gangster style. Most churches are so clean cut that they scare away the ones who need it most. Support my new channel to help the movement of life after being locked up.
He got killed
his honesty is so pure. wish him the best.
Sergio was honest, and articulate....his story blows me away.
He is a cold blooded killer. He would kill you to get to that U$10 bill in your wallet. LOL
@@francmittelo6731 Yup, especially on the inside of prison. I didn’t say I trusted him. I said he “seemed honest and articulate”.
Articulate? No....
@@startechstudios6114 "no" great comment.
@Natalie e when we have choices, we make decisions and then we have to live with the consequences.
Of all the interviews i've watched on this channel, watching this guy is hard. I see him reflect on what he's said, after almost every sentence, and you can see his regret. He made me the saddest, for the choices he made, and for how life turned out for him. Just alot of regret
@Luis Mangiaterra Same for the prostitutes
@@luismangiaterra1031 Yes and no. Depends on what neighborhood you are raised in and if your parents watch over you. Saw one sad news article where 2 friends refused to join the local gang so they were murdered. They were around 15.
@@luismangiaterra1031 I think you missunderstood me. These were 2 good kids who did not want to join the gang. So the gang took them out.
@@luismangiaterra1031 not trying to rationalize a thing. The dead boy's father said his son went into a 7/11 and the gang went in and killed them there. The boys were strong, refused gang affiliation to the end. Many join because they don't want to die. Now I know most neighborhoods are not that hard core but apparently some are.
Have you seems Spooky’s?! His was SOOOO deep.
“3 steps this way and 9 steps that way.. man Idk whatever” He knew exactly, exactly...
When?
When you have a history you have to be careful what you say.....am sure he didn't sign an imunity deal like they do on TV......SHIT can come back to you if you aren't careful bro....
That’s exactly what I was thinking, he would have been counting those steps every single day
yea i noticed that too.
This man is a thinker and knows how to communicate. If he got his life together he would be a great counselor for youth going down a similar path.
This man was involved in multiple stabbings over the course of his stay in prisons. He is not a thinker, someone who is a thinker does not repeatedly stab someone. Once? ok, but he says that he's done it several times.
@@Anhjje what I don't understand is he went in prison for 12 years, he got caught doing multiple stabbings and still only did 12 years, don't these attempted murders add any time on?
I'd love to see him off of drugs and getting a job and getting his son
It’s the tattoos that messes it up for him :/
KETOmania Not the multiple stabbings?
@@thetruth2509 lmaooo right. She's used to guys like this ,but obviously with less tattoos because it messes everything up.
Finesse Most people are absolute morons. The people in these videos are violent drug addicts that lie about wanting to change for the camera. I enjoy watching the videos because it’s quite entertaining to watch sociopaths try and explain themselves.
The Truth my fault yes absolutely that one!
Videos of people in his situation and similar have taught me to REALLY consider whether I want to be a parent or not, so that my shortcomings don't ruin another person's entire life.
If you choose yourself first over your kid, than ya, it’s hard putting what you child needs first, over and over and over again but the love and pride you feel for your kids is so big it’s a bit frightening. If something can make you do better it’s your love for your child. In fact, I don’t think people really feel real love until they have a child. Being a parent helps us care about the future of everything important on the planet too, so they can have a better life as well. If you only have shortcomings you’ll do great cause we all have some of those.
The fact that such a risk weighs so heavy on you is a good sign of your moral compass around kids. A lot of people just don’t give a shit
Ok Karen
Ok Karen
never have kids, this is an evil world
“Little stabbing here. Little stabbing there.” interesting character
@@bobbyschaffer1872 Actually in prison you're more likely to get stabbed and killed by your own race than any other, that goes for everybody. There's a lot of politics, stabbing a member from another race means a race war where there are several casualties and its just bad for business on everyone's side. Your own do you in, no reprocutions.
That’s what i was thinking
I read this comment right before he said his whole little stabbing here and there thing, making it that much more hilarious. Many heartfelt thank yous. LOL
@@drake73 Reminds me of the Lucifer series, the episode he talks about going to 'Stabby town, ' the oc worded it perfectly though😁
“Little stabbing here. Little stabbing there.”
would that make a good Music Band name? 😀🎵
I have been addicted to heroin for 18 years, I am 35 and have the exact same/ but own story as everyone else on these SWU episodes. Having parents that are alcoholic/drug addicts, being abused as children, not having the emotional support/love that is supposed to be given really sets the tone for the rest of the adult life. Feeling abandoned, isolated, and unwanted as a child and early teen causes an internal battle that can only medicated with 2 things and that is drugs and violence. In my personal experience every single person I have met on the street, in rehabs, psych wards, hospitals, jails and detoxes, it all traces back to that very simple question of "how was your childhood?"
U good bro???
I hope you're doing good and that life is kinder to you ❤
Jesus loves you bro
You can see him reflecting as he’s telling his story. It’s gut wrenching to know his newborn baby is in the system. All the stories we hear on this channel about kids in the system, it’s disheartening to think that sweet little baby boy statistically, won’t have a chance at a healthy and happy life. That’s tough to think about. ✌🏼
It would be gut wrenching to think about the poor kid's future if this guy had custody...
I havent teared up so quickly in a video since this one.
i want to hug this vato
Try it. He’ll cut you so bad you’ll wish he didn’t cut you so bad.
@@ER-me1ii no, vato respects la raza, "Estaban Rodriguez"
Yea, that'll help
I can't help but imagine what he would have been like if he had grown up in a loving home.
Somewhat the same. Trust me. I can see it in him. He is a violent lion hearted protective person within. Although if he grew up differently he may have used it in a different way
@@yoiceman8034 That's what I'm saying. Unless he is a born psychopath, which doesn't seem to be the case, he most likely would have led a very different life. 💔
I noticed your user name. The man known as "The Ice Man" is one of the stories I find most fascinating. He was also a product of his environment and ended up killing for a living, although he is incredibly likeable.
@@VioletJoy have a lovely day. Wish you the best of healing
@CALICOTV301 You all had loving homes? Maybe we have different ideas of what that means. This guy mentioned growing up in a "normal home", yet both of his parents were alcoholics.
There is much data to support the fact that children are greatly affected by not having their needs met, both physically and emotionally. And no, that doesn't simply mean being told that are loved. That's a simplistic view.
Most children who have their needs met will not seek out another family figure like a gang.
Also, big money doesn't look attractive to everyone. Often times, it's the culture of the environment which guides that sort of thinking. Maybe that's the type of area you grew up in, but it's not the norm.
@Gäs Yes he did. I'm just pointing out the fact that many people are products of their environment. I'm not saying he couldn't have chosen differently. He could have. I'm just saying it is more common for someone to choose that lifestyle after having been raised around it.
So sad when he said.. “I realised that I’m a good worker. I love to work but who’s gonna hire me”. How can this man turn his life around with no prospects or future? We need to open up as a society and give people a second chance. Good luck, Sergio.
I agree but he's also on his third try.... when do we stop and give those resources to children? It's a very tricky thing
@@gsfriendlytreesmmj1165 you acting like there’s not enough to go around
There should be some work for people who want to work. The government should have a highway corp or street crews like clean and improve places/blight and people can work there and get some money each week based on the hours they work.
you are retarded, this man has had about 20 chances by the age of 22 and still continued to try and murder people and stab people for no reason? he didnt even know them? you a fucking deluded.
@@VideoGamer132-i4z show me
He's not use to literally anybody asking questions concerning him. He's getting asked simple questions abt his past and how he feels, and it looks like he's hitting the wall each time
Astute observation
True… he’s also making sure he don’t say nothing that will get him hit later. When you experience sht like that, you tuck it way back and make sure ya don’t think about it anymore.. so it takes time to recall it correctly.
Not much of a life, the older he gets he knows it. He wants son back, and clean living. How can he manage this? Needs support.
@michael timmer well that just solved the whole issue
You can't run away from addiction, you need to run toward something better.
Is., it's just impossible for these folks to....not go back to the pen by themselves. They need help from another person. Look at how Scandinavia and Germany do it. They have tons to success getting people to be cool.
@michael timmer
did you just call 10 year old pussies tough guy? 🤭
Finola O murchu - Why is America obliged to support these People ?
Man its crazy to see what has happened to Sergio. I met Sergio when we were going to Belmont HS. As a matter in fact we would walk home after school with other of our friends including Rudy ( he should know who I'm talking about). I had no idea that he was going through tough times back then emotionally let alone physically. Anyways if he reads this post stay strong my brother and don't give up on yourself. I know your a smart individual you just have to apply yourself in a positive way.
@todd sousa easier said than done..
todd sousa hes not his fucking dad dude probably has a whole family lol things dont work like that bro
@todd sousa Neither are you
He is honeat.if he can have someone who can help he can change
I'll let him know, he got locked up 3 months ago for a firearm unfortunately
I hope Sergio finds his peace & happiness. I’m Mexican raised in Denver’s 5 Points and Jamaica Queens and lived in L.A. for a short while. I got to meet individuals just like him in my pursuit of self knowledge of my culture. I never judged young Brown, Black and Asian brothers I met living that life and I loved the conversations I would have with them when they heard me speak and realized I wasn’t from L.A. Had some good conversations and learned a lot from them as well. Most of them were kind to me. Thank You Boyle Heights for the education.
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I think one of the more important parts of this interview is around 19:50 when he says "I wouldn't trade this for anything", then mentions that it's either Skid Row or prison. These are literally the only two things he knows, the only two places that have ever been a home to him. In reality, i'm sure he'd trade all of it for an hour in any one of our lives. Deeply, profoundly sad. God bless you Sergio. He will forgive you if you ask him
It's so sad that he can't even conceive of anything beyond skid row or prison.
Unfortunately I don't think he'll escape that life with still being on drugs, he's definitely intelligent but he wasn't given a good hand in life.
Two alcoholic parents? God doesn't give a shit about us. If god exists then he is malevolent.
@@drelephanttube you don't get it do you
@@LeJobastre1215 Please enlighten me?
@@drelephanttube God loves us and isn't the evil in the world, the flesh is tempted and there are dark forces.
@@drelephanttube
Your view of any God is western (King figure ruling), in eastern views, all are God, the person here is part of God, and we (self) are on a journey to reunion with our supreme self. Karma reigns and you get pulled back here for what good or wrong you do by being born, again and again, until you're done, and have no karma.....pull , good neutral or bad.
You become spiritual... Heatdeath, you have no more desire for action, kind of, that's what Nirvana means: dousing the flames. Heatdeath. Chemical action in the universe itself aims to reach this state, so does the spirit.
In such a case would you still say that thing is malevolent? Nah man.
The spiritual mechanism for Karma can also be found in people, You know how traumatised people either shut it off completely or recreate the situation of their trauma in an effort to conquer it, person getting abusive boyfriends after they had abusive fathers and so on,
That's like Karma, you get reborn, and you are recreating your situation to conquer it.
Discourse is a high virtue, for without discourse there's war so feel free to talk, or disregard this even.
The moment you realize trying to murder someone, might just get you murdered while watching your buddy get murdered trying to murder someone. That's what they call an Epiphany kids.
Except in continued on that long dark road to hell. Hell on earth.
It's also his conscious telling him what he is doing has consequences but no physical actions from others to even care of his epiphany. Hope it makes sense
That's politics in prison, you don't have much choice in there
I had to read that about 50 times 💀
That doesn't need to be capitalized, kid yourself.
If we were all this honest, we'd all live in a better world.
I feel like he'd have a lot easier time talking about it without the camera on him. It seems he holds a lot back because he doesn't want to offend anyone who sees this
@@jimbeanbragger9209 lmao offend 😂😂😂😭 are u dumb he don’t wanna get booked
@@solodystriq7017 you're a mess. Go take your meds
@@jimbeanbragger9209 fuck off
@@solodystriq7017 can't blame him whatsoever lmao, he's just being smart
I am very moved by this interview. Sergio , despite all he has seen and done and experienced still has a glow and you can see he is a good man beneath all this. I pray for you. I wish you happiness. I really do. You deserve it.
You can't be a good man after doing bad things.
Your being romantic, you cannot tell anything about these guys. As he said he's tried to kill people. Theres no "good man" here. Talk is easy, actions are what are real. Look at his actions.
he's a child trapped in an adult body, fucked from the beginning, i don't think it's appropriate to say 'he's not a good person' that's not the conversation to be had here. i'm with you @annamarsch6091
@@nosouponhead not true! watch mohawk matt, watch ex con billy, watch john alite, mike dowd
he's a child trapped in an adult body, fucked from the beginning, i don't think it's appropriate to say 'he's not a good person' that's not the conversation to be had here. i'm with you
You can tell that there are so many thoughts and feelings going through his head at the same time that it's hard for him to express himself
It's hard to articulate feelings with the Incredible limitations of words
He's stuck...I work in a prison northern cali...psychiatric program... being in a cell alone will fuq you up! Going in as a child and trying to live as a 35yr old when you get out is very hard! I wish they had more programs to help these people get on their feet. STAY STRONG SERGIO.. YOU MADE IT OUT THE JUNGLE.. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING!
"It's cold out there"
when you know he's not just talking about the temperature, that really got me. I hope this guy manages to find his way, for both him and his son.
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I really appreciate what you do and sharing this with the world. In a strange way this helps people. It would be interesting if you could do a 6 month follow-up to see how Sergio is doing.
You can tell he is deep thought and have regrets but he is like in his head what do I do now. He can't see himself out the hole.
Sad thing is most ppl like him never find a way out
More facts
We can't give up on Sergio, or other people like him. If we give up hope, what hope do they have? We are all connected and our society is collectively responsible for failing so many families 💔
@@rgCA_01123 You seem intelligent. What u said is something alot of people would rather dismiss and sweep under the rug so they dont get the illusion of a perfect world shattered.
Wow. The saddest part of this mans life is how detached he is from his own story.
Ugh this breaks my heart. He seems like a really warm person
This has to be one of my favorite interviews... Not only can you hear the sincerity in his voice but you can see it. I like when he would sit there and stare blankly reflecting on everything he's been through. He's done some bad but you have put yourself in his shoes if you were in that same position what you do? It's not really a choice. Sergio has lived more life than people twice even three times age and to hear how humble and appreciative he is to live on skid row has literally restored my faith in humanity. In my eyes... He's not criminal, a monster, or a 'bad person' he's real and that's just not something you come across or see too often in people anymore. Respect 💯
When he paused to remember his memories. You could see how much he still sees it. And Dann
Dude has some of the best prison ink I've ever seen. It's clear, cohesive, and flows well with his body. His tattooist must be the richest guy in every block he's been in...
i noticed that shit as well he has better ink then people who never been locked up before shout out his artist LOL
I noticed that
Clean AF
Haha I felt like a dickhead about to write the same comment, but I'm glad other people noticed that. Besides the stuff on his scalp which is just not for me, the rest of his tattoos look pretty fucking good.
Latinos tend to have some of the nicest prison ink. A lot of the time it's Inca and/or Aztec themed and is so intricate and looks so good you'd never think it was done in prison.
Anytime I watch one of these interviews, not only do I have heart for the men and women interviewed but the support and love from the comments reminds me that there are more good people in the world, people who care and who have big hearts for all people.
Gives me more hope than you can imagine, bless 🙏
this interview means a lot to me. thank you.
I can see the sadness in his eyes.
It’s really sad how society treats people with felonies. If half of these people had job opportunities they wouldn’t be out on the streets.
Lee Bartlett That mi amor is no lie!!!
@@Terracecasualx5 don't let others define you. There are good people out there willing to give other good people who have made mistakes a second chance, you just have to keep at it (easier said than done I know)
¿SeriouSly PeoPle? I know and you are right but after being knocked back and down so many times,you think what’s the point of trying to go straight and join society. Because no one gives a fuck and know one wants to know. So you go back to earning money the way you know how and all ex cons will tell you this. But I’ll keep trying coz it’s too easy to slip into old routines!!
@@Terracecasualx5 I get that brother, I truly do. Do what you need to eat and provide for yours, but just know there are still some good ones left it's just a matter of putting yourself out there to come across them. Doesn't later how anyone else views you other than your loved ones. I wish you luck man
¿SeriouSly PeoPle? Thank you brother and peace to you and yours.
When he said he was waiting for the bell to ring. “I’m tired I’m just going looking back like …..it’s never taken this long “ Lmaooo it was then I knew Sergio did not want this life. Damn man. Watching these make me really reflect An just be grateful for everything around me.
Hey Sergio, just so you know, it's not too late to be in your son's life (in some form) if you really want to be better for you and him, you can do it bro.
Do it for you first. The gift of taking care of yourself will be a gift for him too. Tomorrow holds many keys to many different futures.
I like this guy. He has a lot to offer. Just needs a hand, helping him get connections to the people that will give him work. I wish I could help get him on his feet. Good luck, Sergio.
I agree he needs help but idk about liking this guy hes a scum bag
@@aegisreflector1239 You never know how someone will turn out if they are put in the wrong environment. He want's to change but doesn't know how.. his gang was his only family and violence was all he knew.
@@tex959 id like to see you welcome this man into your home or establishment forget that
@@samack3 Nowhere in my comment did I suggest that he's ready to be trusted. I'm saying that a bad environment can change someone for the worse and there is no way for me to know if that damage can be repaired to the point that he's a non-violent member of society.
I'll give him a job right the fuck now. Sergio if you can make it to Olympia Washington I'll give you a job. Doing drugs doesn't mean you have to be a piece of shit. Everything we do is for a reason. I can't judge anybody for their actions.
He seems very reflective on his life. Wish him the best.
My childhood was normal. My parents were alcoholics. I could stay out and they didn't care. Or, they were to drunk to care. I got arrested for having a gun at 15, and attempted murder three weeks later.
That's not normal.
It shouldn't be ok that it was normal for him.
It's so sad.
It’s probably normal to him not only because of his situation but because he looks at his friends and they’re in the same situation. His perspective is that’s life everyone he knows probably had broken homes. How could someone change if they don’t know what to change into? Or how?
It’s sad to see this is all too common and people say it’s the neighborhood or social class but statistically it’s the Parents. If only parents can learn to stay in a happy relationship with their significant other and fight their own demons as to not pass it down to the kids it would dramatically increase the chances their kid would grow up happy and healthy regardless of situation.
Ask anyone from a poor minority neighborhood and most will give you this response, for us unfortunately it is the norm. Thankfully some of us manage not to fall into the same trap and manage to do good for ourselves
What I notice about these guys is that they all have very sharp memories. Such heart breaking stories... I wish I could help them all.
This young man and his story will be with me for a long time. Sending him love.
Dolores Parra Hey good morning, By any chance you live in Los Angeles to help this guy out?
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Love the name Brah! 🤗
Alberto Medina hello! currently I am living in Montana. However, yes I am interested in helping.
He doesn’t want this life but it’s the life he was forced into, I hope he’s doing better and I hope god grabbed him and helped him.
Most don’t
Don’t believe in god but if it means people use the concept to better themselves then I’m cool with it.
@@swervv2957 yeah but they get forced into it
@@kenziek5489 true. A person don’t have to go that way but at the time and circumstances, it’s usually the seemingly easier choice, and fit that seems right. But the outcome don’t have to be in the pen for life or dead in the hood. You just got to want and know that there is better. That shit will mold you or fold you?!
GOD
Alcoholic parents, no proper attention, spending late teens and whole of the 20s in prison, having no decent option to survive, far from his child - he's actually been through a lot. I feel really bad for him.
May he be able to live a peaceful life someday soon.
@Johnny Pitbull have mercy
Incredibly heart breaking. If I were teaching undergrad' social work I would share this video with my students.
Some how some way this man could get it together. This is his chance to turn his life around for this child. Be strong and get it together! This baby needs you!
When he finally "gets it", his kids will be grown up, and probably be in jail themselves, and he'll be an old man full of regret.
I think you're correct there Dana.
He seems very thoughtful, he's aware of the things he's done wrong. Finding a different path to live a life that doesn't involve drugs or criminality is going to be hard. Some sort of mentor programme with men who have been interviewed on here who have left gang life could be helpful.
He knows that he is incapable of raising a child. He regrets leaving his baby but understands that he has nothing to offer that child. He can’t function in society and he’s a dangerous man, just a matter of time before he’s back in jail.
Of course he has a chance! Everyone has a chance.......but he has made his
I watch him and honestly he doesn’t seem like what his life is now. He just seems...better than that, capable of more, intelligent. I honestly think he could have a great future whenever he decides to believe in himself and decide he wants more. Wishing him all the very best.
He's got to do a 180 full change of life or it isn't happening. Quit all drugs, get away from bad influence etc.
"Decide he wants more." Yes.
I just hate that his Son is in the system, I will be praying for that sweet boy to be OK and survive the system unharmed. I wish he knew how to live differently
Bro, I’m from a broken home but I was always a very strong believer of “somebody always has it harder”, remember that folks, god bless this man.
You can see he wants to change, and he maybe doesn’t want to admit the gang was a bad idea (his gang might see the interview) but when he said “I’m 35 years old with tattoos” I took it as “I’m getting old, what am I doing this for?” But he’s stuck. I really wish him the best for him and his son
You can tell he's lost in thought remembering. I think he has many regrets and wishes he'd taken a different road in life. I hope he's able to get back on his feet and be the Daddy and person he has the potential to be. Best of luck to him.
He has no regrets
This guy needs some help! He just doesn’t know where to start.
Man this breaks my heart you can tell he's gone through alot and wants to find a better way. But he doesn't have much options... Sergio I hope you find sobriety and someone offers him a job or a trade he can learn.... God bless you man
Unfortunately he is no longer with us, was recently killed
Man I wish someone could get this guy a job in construction or something. Maybe that would help get his life on track. I hope one day he’s able to get his baby before it’s too late.
and the cycle continues
Already too late I believe
@@thecowgirlwithin It's never to late. We can't give up on people ❤✝️🙏🏼
Yes I pray God sends him some help & resources. So he can do better for himself & baby 🙏
He needs to get sober first I believe that would be his first step to bettering himself
He sounds so defeated. It's sad when parents are so selfish. They have made it extremely difficult for him to succeed. Which basically makes the child's life is over before it even begins since there's no guidance.
Sometimes these parents have issues themselves could be generational. They probably grew up with parents who was dysfunctional as well.
Really really good interview.
He looks so sincere and genuine about what he talks. He does not seem proud of his past and see lots of regrets. Wish him good luck.
23:29 his smile gave me chills of him thinking about the warmth crystal gave him when he was cold
I wonder If I were magically transformed into this guy's body. Looked like him, had all his tattoos, history but knew what I knew, how hard would it be for me to leave this lifestyle? Honestly, I don't know if I could.
He actually speaks really well. You can tell he has a deeper mind than most gangbangers that get interviewed. With a different start in life who knows what he could of done with it