Again, cheating is NOT a mistake. It's a CHOICE!!! Quit making excuses for your poor behaviors! A mistake is made by not thinking about it. When you decided to cheat, you thought about all the possible consequences you will face and how you will weasel your way out. I don't blame the author of this story. He did what's right instead of staying with a cheater and torturing himself. She made her choice. Let her go.
Cheaters are only remorseful when caught. I never believe when they said, "i made a mistake." Uh, sorry. A mistake is only a one time thing. If it's more than that then it's a choice.
Tus me tub ceev xwm, koj yog ib tug neeg uas ntse tshaj plaws, peb thov qhuas. Cov ruam ces zam txim ib zaug tas los ib zaug tuaj, thaum zam tsis tau txim lawm ces muab hlais kiag pov tseg, thaum kawg 2 lub neej liam tas nrho tib si - ib tug tuag lawm hos ib tug mus pw nkuaj lawm. Tos koj tau ib lub zoo luag hauj lwm los koj yeej ntse heev❤❤
You are wrong when u say put your own well being first, kids are innocent and are incompetent to make decisions. If you feel like they deserve a better chance than you, then you would stick by them.....
kids needs to be love and support. the two of them can do that afterward. they gets hurt more by staying with parent that don't love each other anymore. I see there also a great step mom and step dad that love or support their step kids too. if you can't love but at least support their kids when you decided to marry someone with kids then don't. else, women can tolerate but men, most will divorce you again.
Anybody can cheat, there are those who chooses not to. We choose to not cross the line. Marriage is sacred to us. There is never a big reason or excuse to have an affair. You want to be with someone else, DIVORCE YOUR SPOUSE FIRST!!! I agree, the second they choose to cheat they don’t love you anymore. How can you say you still love when that love was given to someone else besides your spouse. Don’t fall for sweet talks. People like them will never learn. Keep taking them back. Keep forgiving them, they keep taking advantage of you only. Good for putting your foot down and moving on openly. Rather then hearing news of domestic violence/ suicide killing.
I like how the cheater is always the one saying it is a mistake, forgive them, and they still do it again. CHEATING ON YOUR SPOUSE IS A DELIBERATE ACT not a mistake. It is intentional meant to cause pain. Good for you man.
Betrayal is scary and ultimate. No one can forgive the ultimate betrayal it’s better to let them go than torture yourself. Because at the end you are torturing yourself, the one who betrayed you will never feel the pain. It’s never ok to stay for the sake of your children. I’m glad you’re able to move on. Grass is never greener on the other side.
You did the right thing. Save you a lot of headaches down the road. Qub neeg qub siab, qub dev qub ntxhiab! It's a shame; she will continues to endure a miserably life...
Bc some hmong women are too soft hearted, not siab tawv. I have heard of some women siab tawv where they're able to let go and move on, but the majority are not.
@@maryly09 I completely agreed with you there. I only hope as well. It seem like more women in America are becoming more independent and strong to leave cheaters behind.
Zoo kawg... peb cov txiv neej thiab pojniam ua tau ua siab tawv li koj is. Yuav ntxiv los tsis muaj qhov zoo lawm. Trust is broken and hard to repair. Dub neeg ces qub siab xwb os.
Marriage is so sacred. What she did was the biggest “BETRAYAL” between a husband and wife. She needs to realize, beauty fades honey. Make better choices!
I had soo many “yog” moments during this story. I think it hurts the most when you put in 110% and yet, it’s not good enough for them. He did the right thing by moving forward without her because she clearly doesn’t deserve him.
Great story. When you are old enough to know what is right and what is wrong, but still claimed as it a mistake. Good, you let her go and won't take her back. Thank you for sharing.
It hurts!!! I applaud those who can take his or her back whether it’s good or bad. It’s obvious One cannot tolerate it if a partner cheats on one! It’s better to let her go and move on.
Yoglawm txawm yog poj niam li peb txiv neej li nej los yog muaj ib nplooj siab qias neeg li ntawv lawm ces yeej txias siab tu siab tshaj li os tus nus aw
I hate it when people say it’s a “mistake” when they get caught cheating. Having an affair with someone is not a mistake. It’s an intentional act of deception, disregard and disrespect towards your spouse/significant other. You did right brother.
Brother, thanks for sharing your story. I understand and feel your pain. Forgiveness is a choice. Mistake is only the first time, after that it's pure evil heart. Move forward with your life and be happy.
👏 one story where there is self love and self respect. Show your kids that they should not take crap and tolerate betrayal and to not live according to the pressure of others! Great job! You’re a respectable man!
Dear brother: Thank you sincerely for handling the situation in a proper manner instead of being another statistic within spousal domestic violence/death. I don’t relate to this story but when I was a adolescent, I’ve made a bold statement that relationship/marriage is not for me. It’s not that I’m unsure about myself, I’m unsure how committed is the other party (partner) way before getting involved with my husband. Marriage is a commitment to honor & to love in sickness & good health till death due us part. I prayed about this with all my heart....I knew in my heart as a child that I need God in my life to guide me through this aspect in life if ever God has a marriage/family planned for me. The last thing I want is betrayal or heart broken like this story. Back to the story: You covered everything, you were available and met her needs in every way through juggling with work and family. You gave her 100% of your love, trust and commitment to give your children a better life and not repeat your family childhood experiences. I believe your wife fell out of love with you. I wish she had communicated her feelings with you and let you go instead of disrespecting you by inviting another man into your bedroom. She fell into lust/temptation with the biggest sin in God’s eyes. It takes time to forgive.....the Bible teaches that when it comes to unfaithful spouse & adultery, one may forgive the other individual but is NOT obligated to stay in that relationship because it’s no longer sacred. You made a wise choice on closing that chapter in your life and start a new chapter. I wish you all the best brother. May your new partner shower you with ample love and treat you 10x better....when you find the right woman you’ll know the difference. When you find an honest woman who loves and treat you right, life is smoother and better. Thank you for sharing this.
You could only forgive but you will never forget if a person cheat on you do you level of respect and trust will never be there again. You did the right thing sir A cheater will always be a cheater and their lives will always be in turmoil
Koj ua yog lawm kwv tij cov poj niam zoo li ko cia nws khuv xim yus mus kom tag nws tiam neej lawm xwb ho yus ces rau siab ntso rau yus lub neej tshiab lawm xwb...
Kj tsi yog ib tus neeg siab me os tus kwv ua li kj ua thiaj li yog ib tus txiv neej yawg muaj peev xwm, ua li kj ua ko ces kv ntseeg tau haistias kj yeej paub qab hau txau2 lawm vim kj ua dabtsi kj tsi muaj lo lus haistias but no li remember what is right and wrong tab txawm yog kv los yeej yuav taug tib txoj kev kj taug ntawm ko es kv ruas yog xa cov lus no tuaj txhawb kj zog xwb thaum xau no thov vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau kj lub neej tshiab nawb. Ua tsaug ntau
You are the first man in these stories that is a real man and do the right thing. I agree with everything you say. If a you take a woman back, some may see it as you have a big heart or you are a person that can forgive, but truth is if you forgive someone who stepped all over your head, all that does is show your weakness. She will have no respect for you going forward. And if you take her back and live with the pain, all you’re doing is hurting yourself. Truth of the matter is that it’s easier to take them back and forgive, it’s actually harder to let go and move on, this is fact. The man that can let go and move on is the stronger one. Hope the best for you brother!! Blue lives matter!
Outside looks doesn't matter. You need to see her bad heart from the inside. I am so proud of you brother for letting her go and not let her betray you anymore.
Brother you did the right thing 👏🙌.. grass is always greener on the otherside, never looked back or step it on the ground and move on find some1 who care and love you for who you are... goodluck and best wishes my brother...👍
Kwv Ntxawg koj yog txiv neej hmoob tiag tiag mog thov kom koj coj li ko xwb mog yus yog neeg tsim txiaj txhob cia tej tug niag maum dev zoo li ntawv los muab koj tsuj mog thov qhuas koj nawj mi kwv Ntxawg koj ua yog yog lawm
Bc some women just put up with it for fear of going to bla. They want their spouse to bury them with full rites. Women don't love and respect each other. They only want to tear each other down. Look at men. Do they do what women do? If they see a buddy's wife/gf with another man, they tell their buddy. Women just keep their mouths shut. We don't have each other's backs.
@@bchang227 but have there been scripture written that when a woman died without a husband she have no where to go? I believe there's only 2 place for all to go to, heaven or hell based on their choice of religion ( according to scripture)
Tus nus aw ua cas kuv yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj li os, ua neeg ces xav kom lub neej zoo zoo xwb tabsis sis peb ua neeg ces lam ua niam txiv xwb nyias muaj nyias siab nawb mog, koj tsis muaj hmoo es koj thiaj li tau ib niag maum dev tsis tsim txiaj los ua neej es tsis xav kom lub neej plam los yuav tau plam os mog. Koj ua yog lawm os ib tug neeg ntxeev siab ces txawm koj yuav zam txim rau nws pes tsaug zaus los yog av tsis muab tus neeg liam no lim ib zaug ces nws yeej yuav ua dua es muab laig kiag li koj ua no ces thiaj li yog qhov zoo nawb. Poj niam tus zoo zoo tseem muaj coob heev, mam li nrhiav dua tsis lig.
Peb poj niam hmoob yuav tsum ua kom tau li thaub no ua mas thiaj li pob. Thaum lawv coj lawv rab mus chob tus ub tus no, poj niam hmoob yuav tsum xa loo thaub tau rau txiv yawg. Ua neeb quas neej, thov Vajtswv lawb dab kiag li cov bros no ua mas thiaj tsim nyog hu tus kheej tias niam tsev pob.
ua li cas nej cov txiv zoo pheej tau poj niam pheem cas peb twb ua siab zoo rau peb tus txiv los cas peb tej txiv ua hluas ib sim neej thaum peb tag kis los tu siab ua luaj li os
After hearing so many Hmong couples killing each other, it’s good to hear your story. Not very many Hmong men are capable of this kind of self discipline, but you are in law enforcement! Good luck to you and hope you find an amazing woman that really deserves you!
Lady you choose to cheat without considering the consequences live with your choice. Stop coming back to hurt him. Let him go have a good life. You had your chance. You deserve what you got. Betrayal cuts deep and I don't blame him for letting you go. The saying goes once a cheater always a cheater. Hopefully you change.
Cia tus lom zem mus raws siab nyiam nawb
You are a real man. Not take her back once a cheater will always a cheater.
Cheater is always a cheater is like a pig you cleans the pig give the pig good place to stay but the end the pig will go back to plays with mud 👍👍👍
Dang! Hoping Hmong women can do the same too
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Again, cheating is NOT a mistake. It's a CHOICE!!! Quit making excuses for your poor behaviors! A mistake is made by not thinking about it. When you decided to cheat, you thought about all the possible consequences you will face and how you will weasel your way out. I don't blame the author of this story. He did what's right instead of staying with a cheater and torturing himself. She made her choice. Let her go.
Totally agree...its never a fucken mistake...
Cheaters are only remorseful when caught. I never believe when they said, "i made a mistake." Uh, sorry. A mistake is only a one time thing. If it's more than that then it's a choice.
“I made a mistake “. Means “Damn, I got caught!”
@@maicha4809 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👍👍✌✌
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Tus me tub ceev xwm, koj yog ib tug neeg uas ntse tshaj plaws, peb thov qhuas. Cov ruam ces zam txim ib zaug tas los ib zaug tuaj, thaum zam tsis tau txim lawm ces muab hlais kiag pov tseg, thaum kawg 2 lub neej liam tas nrho tib si - ib tug tuag lawm hos ib tug mus pw nkuaj lawm. Tos koj tau ib lub zoo luag hauj lwm los koj yeej ntse heev❤❤
Zam tsis taus cais kuj kawg nrauj xwb muaj gab ntxiab dab tsi ?
Txawj xwb tsis ntse ne !
Great story. No matter how much you love your kids, please put your own well being first. Kids grow up and they have their own life eventually.
You are wrong when u say put your own well being first, kids are innocent and are incompetent to make decisions. If you feel like they deserve a better chance than you, then you would stick by them.....
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kids needs to be love and support. the two of them can do that afterward. they gets hurt more by staying with parent that don't love each other anymore. I see there also a great step mom and step dad that love or support their step kids too. if you can't love but at least support their kids when you decided to marry someone with kids then don't. else, women can tolerate but men, most will divorce you again.
Brother you did the right thing if it was me I would do the same thing too.
Anybody can cheat, there are those who chooses not to. We choose to not cross the line. Marriage is sacred to us. There is never a big reason or excuse to have an affair. You want to be with someone else, DIVORCE YOUR SPOUSE FIRST!!!
I agree, the second they choose to cheat they don’t love you anymore. How can you say you still love when that love was given to someone else besides your spouse. Don’t fall for sweet talks. People like them will never learn. Keep taking them back. Keep forgiving them, they keep taking advantage of you only. Good for putting your foot down and moving on openly. Rather then hearing news of domestic violence/ suicide killing.
Brother, thanks for sharing such a moving story. You're a good role modle that lot of us could learn from.
Real hmong man bro...👍👍
Tus npawg koj hias yog, 100%
Thiab koj ua yog 100%
Ua tsaug ntau rau koj zaj neej neeg zoo heev ua kev kawm.
Txij no mus yog txiv neej tham hluas nkauj cov poj niam yuav tau txhob yuav ib yam nkaus thiab nawb...!
Yeej yog lawm, yuam kev rau ntawm yus txoj kev niam txiv yog ib qhov zam txim nyuaj tshaj plaws li os.
I like how the cheater is always the one saying it is a mistake, forgive them, and they still do it again. CHEATING ON YOUR SPOUSE IS A DELIBERATE ACT not a mistake. It is intentional meant to cause pain. Good for you man.
I totally agreed! It’s absolutely INTENTIONAL and SELFISH!
@@kaxiong3318 so
Koj niam lub neeg tu tu siab li koj kawg,2zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu siab hev 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Brother, you're a real man...I wish you many years of happiness. It's her Lost...
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Betrayal is scary and ultimate. No one can forgive the ultimate betrayal it’s better to let them go than torture yourself. Because at the end you are torturing yourself, the one who betrayed you will never feel the pain. It’s never ok to stay for the sake of your children. I’m glad you’re able to move on. Grass is never greener on the other side.
HEY! Bro. U did it perfectly the way it should be, that's the way a smart man all about keep up the good work. I respect you.
You did the right thing. Save you a lot of headaches down the road. Qub neeg qub siab, qub dev qub ntxhiab! It's a shame; she will continues to endure a miserably life...
Kuv nyiam2 koj hais neej neeg
Koj ua yog lawm kwv tij, tsis txhob cia nws tsim txom yus thiab yus rov tsim txom yus tus kheej.
Easier said then done...you have a strong mindset. Love hurts, glad you moved on. Bless you and your family, Happiness....
I wish more Hmong women can do what this guy does when their husband cheat on them.
Bc some hmong women are too soft hearted, not siab tawv. I have heard of some women siab tawv where they're able to let go and move on, but the majority are not.
@@maryly09 I completely agreed with you there. I only hope as well. It seem like more women in America are becoming more independent and strong to leave cheaters behind.
You made the right decision. Cheating is never a mistake or an accident. You're a strong person and stand up for yourself.
Me tub koj thiaj yog txiv neej yawg tiag2👍👍👍👍
Sacrifices made for the love ones to only be betrayed. Many won’t understand the struggles to uphold the thin blue line.
Lub ntiaj teb lwj siab lwj taw...
Zoo kawg... peb cov txiv neej thiab pojniam ua tau ua siab tawv li koj is. Yuav ntxiv los tsis muaj qhov zoo lawm. Trust is broken and hard to repair. Dub neeg ces qub siab xwb os.
Separation hurts the kids most. Unfortunately we can't stay in some relationship.
Marriage is so sacred. What she did was the biggest “BETRAYAL” between a husband and wife. She needs to realize, beauty fades honey. Make better choices!
I had soo many “yog” moments during this story. I think it hurts the most when you put in 110% and yet, it’s not good enough for them. He did the right thing by moving forward without her because she clearly doesn’t deserve him.
Niam.Hlua.Koj.Hai.Tau zoo.Heev
Txhob yuav lawm nawb qub dev qub ntxhiab qub neeg qub siab
I love to meet a kind man like you some day.
Great story. When you are old enough to know what is right and what is wrong, but still claimed as it a mistake. Good, you let her go and won't take her back. Thank you for sharing.
So proud of you my brotherhood. You're a great man
It hurts!!! I applaud those who can take his or her back whether it’s good or bad. It’s obvious One cannot tolerate it if a partner cheats on one! It’s better to let her go and move on.
Vim yog txiv neej thiaj zam tsis tau txim,
Tu siab ua luaj os cas ua tsij nkawm nyob es txiv siab zoo ces niam siab plem hos niam siab zoo ces tviv siab plem
Kwv koj ua yog lawm os mog:
Thaj duab no mas niam ntsuab teev zoo nkauj heev os
Kuv qhuas koj lawm kwv tij koj Yog ib tus uas coj tau zoo thiab Yog heev. Es kuv xav Kom peb cov txim neej hmoob coj li tus no nawb
What a good story! You did the right thing brother!
Yoglawm txawm yog poj niam li peb txiv neej li nej los yog muaj ib nplooj siab qias neeg li ntawv lawm ces yeej txias siab tu siab tshaj li os tus nus aw
Txiv neej lub siab ce yeej zoo li no tsis hai leej twg li os
Tus txiv tsev koj yeej made the right choice lawm.
I hate it when people say it’s a “mistake” when they get caught cheating. Having an affair with someone is not a mistake. It’s an intentional act of deception, disregard and disrespect towards your spouse/significant other. You did right brother.
Brother there plenty of fish in the ocean you don't need that cheater..once a cheater always a cheater...
Only if women can learn men’s thinking there wouldn’t be niam hlob niam yau.
Brother, thanks for sharing your story. I understand and feel your pain. Forgiveness is a choice. Mistake is only the first time, after that it's pure evil heart. Move forward with your life and be happy.
👏 one story where there is self love and self respect. Show your kids that they should not take crap and tolerate betrayal and to not live according to the pressure of others! Great job! You’re a respectable man!
Dear brother: Thank you sincerely for handling the situation in a proper manner instead of being another statistic within spousal domestic violence/death. I don’t relate to this story but when I was a adolescent, I’ve made a bold statement that relationship/marriage is not for me. It’s not that I’m unsure about myself, I’m unsure how committed is the other party (partner) way before getting involved with my husband. Marriage is a commitment to honor & to love in sickness & good health till death due us part. I prayed about this with all my heart....I knew in my heart as a child that I need God in my life to guide me through this aspect in life if ever God has a marriage/family planned for me. The last thing I want is betrayal or heart broken like this story. Back to the story: You covered everything, you were available and met her needs in every way through juggling with work and family. You gave her 100% of your love, trust and commitment to give your children a better life and not repeat your family childhood experiences. I believe your wife fell out of love with you. I wish she had communicated her feelings with you and let you go instead of disrespecting you by inviting another man into your bedroom. She fell into lust/temptation with the biggest sin in God’s eyes. It takes time to forgive.....the Bible teaches that when it comes to unfaithful spouse & adultery, one may forgive the other individual but is NOT obligated to stay in that relationship because it’s no longer sacred. You made a wise choice on closing that chapter in your life and start a new chapter. I wish you all the best brother. May your new partner shower you with ample love and treat you 10x better....when you find the right woman you’ll know the difference. When you find an honest woman who loves and treat you right, life is smoother and better. Thank you for sharing this.
Nrog tus txiv tsev zoo siab uas koj yog thawj tug txiv neej hmoob siab me thiab siab tawv heev li nyob li ib txhua ces twb qaug quav dua lawm
Brother u r right beautiful woman are something else
Siv neej poj niam ntxeev siab tsi muaj hnub yuav ua zoo rau yog thaum pom kiag li koj pom
Good to move fwd brother.
U are the man
You could only forgive but you will never forget if a person cheat on you do you level of respect and trust will never be there again. You did the right thing sir A cheater will always be a cheater and their lives will always be in turmoil
Koj ua yog lawm kwv tij cov poj niam zoo li ko cia nws khuv xim yus mus kom tag nws tiam neej lawm xwb ho yus ces rau siab ntso rau yus lub neej tshiab lawm xwb...
Ntse tiag tiag, koj mas thiaj li yog the real man. Totally support your sacrifice!
Cheater will remain a cheater you cannot change them that’s in the DNA you did the right thing bro
Koj ua yog tshaj thiab qhia rau peb cov me tub hluas lub Neej Tom ntej no nawj Thov qhua koj
Cov neeg hmoob nyob me kas mas sib nrauj coob tshaj cov hmoob nyob lwm teb chaws vim cov poj niam hmoob mekas nws ntshaw cov muaj nyiaj heev xav mus thab cov muaj nyiaj xwb tsis xav nrog cov pluag nyob .
Thanks for submitting your story. Hope everyone can learn from stories like this and don’t make the same mistake, myself included.
Qhov kj ua mus yog lawm
Kj tsi yog ib tus neeg siab me os tus kwv ua li kj ua thiaj li yog ib tus txiv neej yawg muaj peev xwm, ua li kj ua ko ces kv ntseeg tau haistias kj yeej paub qab hau txau2 lawm vim kj ua dabtsi kj tsi muaj lo lus haistias but no li remember what is right and wrong tab txawm yog kv los yeej yuav taug tib txoj kev kj taug ntawm ko es kv ruas yog xa cov lus no tuaj txhawb kj zog xwb thaum xau no thov vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau kj lub neej tshiab nawb. Ua tsaug ntau
Yog lawm kuv siab me li koj thiab ntag yog ntshe nkawg twb raug tua lawm
Kuv los kuv yuav zam tsi tau txim ib yam thiab vim yus hlub nws tshaj yus txojsia lawm
Koj yog neeg muaj txiv koj tseem ntshab ceeg rau lwm tus txiv neej ua koj nws tsi yog yuam kev
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Tus txiv neej no nws yog tus ntse tshaj plaws
You right
You are the first man in these stories that is a real man and do the right thing. I agree with everything you say. If a you take a woman back, some may see it as you have a big heart or you are a person that can forgive, but truth is if you forgive someone who stepped all over your head, all that does is show your weakness. She will have no respect for you going forward. And if you take her back and live with the pain, all you’re doing is hurting yourself. Truth of the matter is that it’s easier to take them back and forgive, it’s actually harder to let go and move on, this is fact. The man that can let go and move on is the stronger one. Hope the best for you brother!! Blue lives matter!
Outside looks doesn't matter. You need to see her bad heart from the inside. I am so proud of you brother for letting her go and not let her betray you anymore.
Koj ua tau yog kawg os koj thiaj yog txiv neej cov poj niam liam li ko ces zoo kawg rau nws twb yog qhov nws xav tau ne
Brother you did the right thing 👏🙌.. grass is always greener on the otherside, never looked back or step it on the ground and move on find some1 who care and love you for who you are... goodluck and best wishes my brother...👍
Pab koj tu siab kawg os..tabsis kawg luag tsis yeem nrog yus nyob lawm ces kav liam nam nrhiav dua mog!
Good job my man, you're represent all the man kind 👍👍👍👍👍👍100%
Kwv Ntxawg koj yog txiv neej hmoob tiag tiag mog thov kom koj coj li ko xwb mog yus yog neeg tsim txiaj txhob cia tej tug niag maum dev zoo li ntawv los muab koj tsuj mog thov qhuas koj nawj mi kwv Ntxawg koj ua yog yog lawm
Good thinking. You did good. I wish you the best of life.
Koj ua tau zoo kawg. Thov qhuas koj
Tus brotherkoj hais yog lawm .
Thank you Officer hmong.. I support brother in blue to hold your cool..
Such a strong person 👏👏👏
You are a real man.
Never ever take a cheater back.
You made the right choice. I'm glad you stand up for yourself.
You my friend is a good man!!!
That was a wise decision. Well done....
Let go of the past. Don’t come back to destroy someone else life when they already moved on.
Bravo! Finally a story worth listening!
Kuv yog ib tus neeg zoo li koj thiab os tij yog kuv tus hlub ua lub siab Tsis zoo rau kuv lawm ces kuv yeej hlub Tsis tau nws li lawm thiab os
Why is it that women have so much love for their husband's that most are willing to forgive but men don't?
Good question!
Bc some women just put up with it for fear of going to bla. They want their spouse to bury them with full rites. Women don't love and respect each other. They only want to tear each other down. Look at men. Do they do what women do? If they see a buddy's wife/gf with another man, they tell their buddy. Women just keep their mouths shut. We don't have each other's backs.
@@bchang227 but have there been scripture written that when a woman died without a husband she have no where to go? I believe there's only 2 place for all to go to, heaven or hell based on their choice of religion ( according to scripture)
No excuses for both men or women but whoever can forgive then good on them but i for one will never stay with a cheater, adultery is end of marriage.
@@CloverStarz true. Just saying that it seems women have so much more love and forgiveness then men.
Thanks brother for serving your community. Keep your head up and thanks for sharing your story....BAS.
Tus nus aw ua cas kuv yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj li os, ua neeg ces xav kom lub neej zoo zoo xwb tabsis sis peb ua neeg ces lam ua niam txiv xwb nyias muaj nyias siab nawb mog, koj tsis muaj hmoo es koj thiaj li tau ib niag maum dev tsis tsim txiaj los ua neej es tsis xav kom lub neej plam los yuav tau plam os mog. Koj ua yog lawm os ib tug neeg ntxeev siab ces txawm koj yuav zam txim rau nws pes tsaug zaus los yog av tsis muab tus neeg liam no lim ib zaug ces nws yeej yuav ua dua es muab laig kiag li koj ua no ces thiaj li yog qhov zoo nawb. Poj niam tus zoo zoo tseem muaj coob heev, mam li nrhiav dua tsis lig.
Peb poj niam hmoob yuav tsum ua kom tau li thaub no ua mas thiaj li pob. Thaum lawv coj lawv rab mus chob tus ub tus no, poj niam hmoob yuav tsum xa loo thaub tau rau txiv yawg.
Ua neeb quas neej, thov Vajtswv lawb dab kiag li cov bros no ua mas thiaj tsim nyog hu tus kheej tias niam tsev pob.
Brother, we feel your pain too, totally understand why you cannot forgive her. Most man will make the same decision you make.
Then now, women needs to start doing this too.
ua li cas nej cov txiv zoo pheej tau poj niam pheem cas peb twb ua siab zoo rau peb tus txiv los cas peb tej txiv ua hluas ib sim neej thaum peb tag kis los tu siab ua luaj li os
After hearing so many Hmong couples killing each other, it’s good to hear your story. Not very many Hmong men are capable of this kind of self discipline, but you are in law enforcement! Good luck to you and hope you find an amazing woman that really deserves you!
You do the right thing Brother.
Lady you choose to cheat without considering the consequences live with your choice. Stop coming back to hurt him. Let him go have a good life. You had your chance. You deserve what you got. Betrayal cuts deep and I don't blame him for letting you go. The saying goes once a cheater always a cheater. Hopefully you change.
Agreed with u brother. U did the right things to let her go peacefully. Cheater will always be cheater.