Ua tsaug uas koj tuaj ua hmoob mekas es koj txawj hlub hmoob mekas lawm ua koj tsaug ntau nawj tus sister nco ntsoov tias peb Yog ib tus ntxhais qhua xwb lawv tsi hlub yus li nawj mog cov hlub ntxhais tsawg leej xwb xav kom cov niam nkauj mos aj txawj xav li koj ces zoo lawm os ❤❤❤
For realz. Over here, when we need a housing renovation and don’t have the funds, we get a lone or just don’t renovate. But i have aunts who live well in laos, but when they want to renovate their house, they called and ask for donation.
I have an aunt in Laos who calls me every fn day through messenger. Finally blocked her. She doesn’t ask for money directly but she will mention how broke she is and she want this and that… I am broke too, plus I’d rather give my kids the money instead…
It happens here in America too. We are expected to give more as daughters but receive less and no complaining or else you'll never have a happy life. Let's love our daughters more. ❤
Then you must have demanding parents, for you to feel like this. Grew up in America and I’m very fortunate to have parents that understands and doesn’t demand money like this greedy Hmong nplog parents like this story.
Txhob hlub nws lib os nws cuavnws plukojb hmoob meskas muaj sad nojbxwbbosnawb hmoob meskas masmusjbib coyeej khavvtheeb thiab nawb thiaj rau lawv kaugkaus li no nawb peb tsis yog tsis muaj muam yawm yij yeej muaj thiab tab mas peb tdis coj linooscov niag yawm yij ruam los txog mas khavvtheeb kawg yeej hais xav tau dab tsi losckom haiscno tab mas peblaub tias nyob tim no los ua zog xwb 25:23 26:42
Why do I feel so angry listening to this story? The daughter is too nice, I can’t believe her parents and brothers take so much advantage of her kindness.
Dag dhau lawm pua muaj ib tug niam txiv es nim siab phem npaum ko o koj siab phem dhau lawm xwb mloog li hai ko yog koj siab phem heev lawm xwb koj niam hai yog koj yeej siab phem xwb koj muab koj niam koj txiv hai npaum ce koj yeej g tau koob hmoov li o tseem yuav npam koj ntxiv xwb o mog
Candyher1670, tus niam tsev no hais kuj yog lawm. Kuv muaj ib tug tij laug kwv tij yuav tau ib tug nkauj Hmoob Nplog, niam thiab txiv tseem phem tshaj nov lawm thiab. Niam tais yawm txiv ua zaj ua ntxeev yuav tuaj. Tus vauv tos tau tuaj txog mas phem tshaj qhov phem lawm hos, ua txog kawg cia li txw tus ntxhais ua nkauj fa, tus ntxhais tsis kam niam tais yawm txiv cia nyiag muab phom rau tus vauv lub tsheb ces hu tub ceev xwm tuaj ntes tus vauv ces cia li muab tus ntxhais coj khiav lawm xwb. Hos kuv kuj muaj ib tug kwv tij cia nws ib tus ntxhais tuaj yuav txiv Hmoob Meskas, nkawv los kuj ua zaj ua ntxeev kom tus vauv tos. Tos tau tuaj txog cia li txw kom tus ntxhais ua nkauj fa es nkawv mam nrhiav txiv rau tus ntxhais. Ua txog kawg hu rau kuv, kuv thiaj li hais rau tias neb tseg ces tseg kiag. Neb tus ntxhais tuaj tau 6 lub xyoo tsis muaj teeb meem, neb tuaj txog tsis tau 5 hlis tus ntxhais tus vauv cia muaj teeb meem. Neb ua zoo ces cia li los ua neeg zoo. Hnub twg tus ntxhais tus vauv rov muaj teeb meem ces kuv yog tus yuav xa neb rov qab yuav tas neb tiam neb tuaj tsis tau Meskas ntxiv lawm thiab tsis tas li neb tsev neeg yuav tsis muaj tus tuaj tau lawm thiab. Npaum li no cov niam tais yawm txiv Hmoob Nplog thiaj li nyob tau2 xwb hos.
It’s good to hear from someone who is from Laos and feels this frustrations of having to provide for her families in Laos. This is why I don’t send money to Laos to families, I sound greedy, but I’d rather spend that money on my kids and family vs sending it to Laos. People in Laos, they wait for you to send money over while they live in luxury and while you have to bust your butt off, work day and night. Stop sending money if you don’t have money. I feel that when you need their help, they’re not there to help you, except you help them only. You’re bettering their life but your life is behind. This is your family and you’re this frustrated, listening to your story is already so frustrating, I could not imagine being in your shoe. Hmong people in Laos (this applies to people who are like these people in the story only, not all are like these people), are like vultures, money hunger and selfish people, all they think is themselves and to better themselves only.
It’s about time you tell the ugly truth about Hmong Laos…remember what Kooloos said “ they come to US, we support them, we go to Laos, we support them…” Hmong Laos WIN…!!!
Me viv ncaus aw, kuv lub neej los yog ib yam nkaus li koj lub thiab os, tab sis ho yog cov muam thiab tij laug lawv yog cov es kaus kuv tus txiv wb lub neej yog kiag li koj thiab tiag, chim siab ib yam nkaus li koj thiab tiag.
I came to the USA in 1989 as a second generation to grow up in America even to this day at times my mom treats me and my sisters like this as well if we don’t give her money we don’t love her is what her words are there have been times where I politely put my mom in her place I love my mom but sometimes my sisters and I are just an ATM to my mom it makes me depressed sometimes 😢
Wow I never thought someone would speak up about this situation. Growing up in America I watched my parents who has just arrived in the early 90's send money back to both their families back in laos/Thailand, I see them struggling to pickup phone calls because their families think they are rich in America. They have just arrived, knows no English, have 5 kids under age 10 to raise and yet both sides begged for money nonstop. Just watching them struggle is enough I can't imagine having to be in their shoes.
My dad is the only one in his immediate family that made it to America, his brother and his kids call and ask money constantly. They ask for thousands knowing my parents are old and retired. Hmoob overseas don’t know the struggle.
Most Hmong nplog have very thick faces. They will use every excuse to take money from you. You have to have guts to say no without worrying about their feelings because they don't care about your feelings. Before helping others, better look at your life first. So blame yourself for not standing on your ground.
Hmong Laos and Thailand people dont understand that us here in the US work very hard for our paycheck. Glad this sister is exposing the greed of these type of people. 🎉
Hmong meka tshuav hmong nplog nqi ntaus heev es hnov kiag hmong nplog quaj ob suab xwb ces hmoob meka xa kiag nyiaj mus so lawv ob lub kua muag. Lawv khaws kiag ib tug me nyuam ntsuag los tu xwb los hmong meka xa kiag nyiaj mus yug tu me nyuam ntsuag rau lawv. Lawv lub tsheb piam xwb los hmong meka xa kiag nyiaj mus kho rau lawv caij. Lawv tsis xav rau khau xwb los hmong meka yeej xa nyiaj mus yuav khau rau lawv rau.
Girllll, I feel you on this one. You are not alone! It is very sad. 😢 my parents worshiped the boys and they lives in big ass house and good ass paid jobs. my parents still pick on me and did me the same way as this story is told. I was so far behind my bills it was ridiculous! Thats why if it’s nothing involved with me , I’m not dipping my hand in anything at all. Periodddd.
Ua tsaug koj ho qhia koj zag dab neeg tuaj rau sawv daws hnov thiab os me viv ncaus aw. Thaum lawv ua tsaus2 yus lawm es ua li koj ua no los yeej yog lawm thiab os. Yog lawm hlub yus ces yus mam hlub thiab es txhob cia lawm Kaus Noj Kaus hau ntawm koj ntxiv lawm os mog. Enough is enough hmong Laos doesn’t know when is enough. They’re hunger for money will never end😢
Tus me niam hluas koj Mas hais tseeb tshaj plaws li os. Nej hmoob nplog yeej tsis muaj lub siab hlub leej twg li os. Yus noj taus yus tsev neeg lawm ces tsuas lim hiam npaum no lawm xwb mas. Ua tsaug qhov koj hais qhov tseeb nawb mog.
Soo true hmong nplog siab phem tshaj plaws yeej tsis hlub yus li. My cousin spent 10k in one month bc of relatives saying they have no money. Same issues 😪 😕
Our welfare system is with our US government, but the Laos people welfare system is the goodwill of people from the US and other wealthier countries. I blame their government for not taking care of their own people. End of Story!
Can't compare apple and oranges. Not the same. The welfare system here in the States is created to give only enough for those on it to get by. The welfare system Hmong Meeka created oversea is to make Hmong nplog rich beyond their dream. Now why would the country of Laos want to promote more laziness?
@@monkeybanana9269 I try not to past judgement on anyone, but the system they are placed in created by their government. You say Apple and Oranges, and yet are labeling all Hmoob Nplog as lazy. SMH!
@@pengvang5831 : Pffff. Go read my comment again. I said why promote laziness. What?!!! So it isn't promoting laziness when giving someone money nonstop that all they do afterward is eat, sleep and never have to EARN anything anymore? Cause that seems to be the growing case with a lot of these overseas now. May not be all of them but a lot of them are sure adopting a new attitude different than from what they used to have.
@@pengvang5831 : There's no need to get upset at the Laos government. Laos already has it's own system set up. It may be different than ours but it still work for its people. Laos doesn't tax its citizens like here. Laos allow their people to hunt, fish and eat off the land for free. They can use whatever natural resources available and to even build their homes. If they want more than what the government offers them, they will just have to earn it themselves. There is nothing wrong with this.
Zoo kawg qhov ua nej cov ntxhais uas rov los qhia qhov tseeb rau sawv daws paub os vim muaj ib co nkauj hmoob los tsuas hais tias tsis kam xa nyiaj rau lawv niam lawv txiv ces yog ntxub ntxub lawv li no es ces nej rov los hais li no es thiaj tsis tub qaug neeg nawb mog. Yeej paub zoo kawg tsis muaj peb lawv yeej tuag tsis taus li os ua ntej yuav xa rau lawv los yuav tsum yog yus muaj ib pob tseg rau yus tso mam li xa nawb mog.
Thanks for sharing your story re your family in Laos/Thailand. I wish them over there will realize we in America are not an ATM. We have our struggles too and our own family to provide for. I'm sorry you are going through that, sister.
The lady tells her story, but yet she funded her whole family's life style in Laos, and brought her parents over, and is still funding them? LOL!! This one should be titled, "Yuav Hmoob Nplog ces Pluag Tag Nrho Yus Lub Neej Ibtxhis!"
I really appreciate your honest story about your difficult life. Life in America is hard to earn a living night n day while those in Laos continue to ask $$$$ left to right and live life easily.
Thanks for sharing your story. Hope listeners out there take it into consideration. Kuv yeej ib txwm hais yog yus hlub yus tus poj niam los yog yus tus txiv npaum li yus niaj hli muab nyiaj mus rau lawv noj los yog div rau nplog teb ces peb yeej tsis muaj kev sib cav sib ceg li.
Life isn't easy no matter what country you live in. Learn how to help yourself first before helping others. It's good to be generous but never at the cost of your own well-being. Tus viv ncaus aws, koj hais yog tshaj li os.
Huag Me sister aw ca koj yuav hai yog tshaj plaw koj zaj neej neeg no ce ntob kiag kuv ntag os ca muab xav lo kuv chim siab thiab tu siab ua luaj kuv zaj ce yog kiag zaj no ntag Lau kuv mloog ce chim siab tshaj rau cov niam tai yawm txiv hmong nplog no li os
Feem coob yeej muaj tseeb li zaj Neej neeg no ua tsaug rau tus niam tsev ua share koj lub neej . Kuv lub neej los zoo ze2 li neb lub thiab , niaj hnub no niam Tais & yawm txiv tuaj g tau muaj 6 hli kev nyuab siab twb los txog lawm
Kuv mloog zaj neej neeg nos tas kuv ntsav siab tiag2 tsov tom hmoob nplog dab toj txas dab lim hiam dab tuag ntshaib. Xas rov qab mus nplog los pob pheej cias nyob.
Well I have and she is from Laos. She has confirmed to me that she needs money. So it confirms that she came here to the US for money. Now with the luck we will be or hopefully another Laos relative who has the same interests. So I am turning a blind eye when there are issues.
Leej twg yuav hmoob nplog ces tshuav lawv nqi. Yog Muab tus ntxhais pub dawn rau kuv mas tej zaum kuv yuav pab zaum puav thiab, yog sau nqi tib si ces tas li ntawd lawm.
Me ntxhais nrog koj tu siab tias koj muaj niam muaj txiv los zoo li tsis muaj ..Koj yuav tau hlub koj tsev neeg ua ntej txij hnub no mus.Koj yuav tau nug koj tus kheej kho koj txoj kev xav(1) koj tus txiv yog koj txoj sia. (2) Koj cov me nyuam yog koj lub neej.(3) Koj pob nyiaj yog koj lub zog.. Koj yuav tau pauv koj txoj kev xav txhob coj li qub lawm .?.Kuv ua tsaug rau koj txoj kev ua zoo.Thov qhuas koj
You should have left your parents behind for your brothers to take care. Then after you came back home, you should have shut the door behind them for good
Ua tsaug uas koj tuaj ua hmoob mekas es koj txawj hlub hmoob mekas lawm ua koj tsaug ntau nawj tus sister nco ntsoov tias peb Yog ib tus ntxhais qhua xwb lawv tsi hlub yus li nawj mog cov hlub ntxhais tsawg leej xwb xav kom cov niam nkauj mos aj txawj xav li koj ces zoo lawm os ❤❤❤
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Finally a story, niam nkauj mo ab understands the frustration and goals of her own life in America.
Hard to believe she’s exposing their eggs
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Finally a good story to listen to. Getting tired of the cheating ones.
Omg! This is so true! I am so tired of families in Laos. It's a never-ending support.
For realz. Over here, when we need a housing renovation and don’t have the funds, we get a lone or just don’t renovate. But i have aunts who live well in laos, but when they want to renovate their house, they called and ask for donation.
I have an aunt in Laos who calls me every fn day through messenger. Finally blocked her. She doesn’t ask for money directly but she will mention how broke she is and she want this and that… I am broke too, plus I’d rather give my kids the money instead…
Same here. Best to not befriend any relatives in Laos. Asking for donations are never ending.
Koj niam nkawv siab phem kawg
Yeej tsis txawj xav King huaj noj hua hausse xwb kuv tsi zoo li nej moob nplog tsi txawj xav
Those who asks are not family.. those who don't ask are the real ones
I’m so… happy you shared your story.
It happens here in America too. We are expected to give more as daughters but receive less and no complaining or else you'll never have a happy life. Let's love our daughters more. ❤
Nah... in this story, her hmoob nplog parents are just greedy and stingy!
Then you must have demanding parents, for you to feel like this. Grew up in America and I’m very fortunate to have parents that understands and doesn’t demand money like this greedy Hmong nplog parents like this story.
Everyone have a choice! You don’t need to give anything if you don’t want too.
Right!
Yog lawm os tus viv ncaus aw peb ces taug ib txoj kev ntawm ko xwb tiag . Koj hais yog kawg nkaus li 👍👍👍
Wow this is an educational story. We should love our people who deserved to love and support but we should look at what we earn and will pay.
Mentxhai yog li koj hais kawg ua tsaug koj qhia thov tseeb rau cov niam tais yawm txiv hmoob nplog koj yog tus mentxhai hais yog tshaj plaws lios mentxhai hmoob mekas hais ce kwvtij neej tsa nyob nplog teb chim chim thiab tu tu siab tias tsis hlub lawv no cia mentxhai no hais ma thiaj muaj tseeb nawb kuv ma txaus siab rau koj cov lus qhia kawg lios mentxhai
Best Story of 2023. These younger generation needs to listen and learn the struggles of love from overseas.
Hlub hlub tus sister no os. May she receive a never-ending flow of wealth.
Txhob hlub nws lib os nws cuavnws plukojb hmoob meskas muaj sad nojbxwbbosnawb hmoob meskas masmusjbib coyeej khavvtheeb thiab nawb thiaj rau lawv kaugkaus li no nawb peb tsis yog tsis muaj muam yawm yij yeej muaj thiab tab mas peb tdis coj linooscov niag yawm yij ruam los txog mas khavvtheeb kawg yeej hais xav tau dab tsi losckom haiscno tab mas peblaub tias nyob tim no los ua zog xwb 25:23 26:42
Why do I feel so angry listening to this story? The daughter is too nice, I can’t believe her parents and brothers take so much advantage of her kindness.
She’s not too nice. She’s too stupid and want to be a victim.
Dag dhau lawm pua muaj ib tug niam txiv es nim siab phem npaum ko o koj siab phem dhau lawm xwb mloog li hai ko yog koj siab phem heev lawm xwb koj niam hai yog koj yeej siab phem xwb koj muab koj niam koj txiv hai npaum ce koj yeej g tau koob hmoov li o tseem yuav npam koj ntxiv xwb o mog
Niam thiab txiv siab phem22 thiaj yug tau koj siab thiaj phem22 thiab o yom
Candy her: sister yog koj yog neeg muaj hmoo tsis tau ib tug niam tug txiv zoo li no ces kav tsij zoo siab. Parents like this do exist. Tus neeg twg muaj parents li no thiaj understand xwb. Muaj ib txhia niam thiab txiv lawv tsis xav support cov ntxhais, lawv xum support cov tub vim lawv pheej hais tias tus ntxhais yog ntxhais qhua pab pab txhawb txhawb mus zoo saum luag. Lawv thiaj xum pab thiab txhawb cov tub xwb. Tu siab tshaj. Yog koj tsis ntsib koj tsis paub
Candyher1670, tus niam tsev no hais kuj yog lawm. Kuv muaj ib tug tij laug kwv tij yuav tau ib tug nkauj Hmoob Nplog, niam thiab txiv tseem phem tshaj nov lawm thiab. Niam tais yawm txiv ua zaj ua ntxeev yuav tuaj. Tus vauv tos tau tuaj txog mas phem tshaj qhov phem lawm hos, ua txog kawg cia li txw tus ntxhais ua nkauj fa, tus ntxhais tsis kam niam tais yawm txiv cia nyiag muab phom rau tus vauv lub tsheb ces hu tub ceev xwm tuaj ntes tus vauv ces cia li muab tus ntxhais coj khiav lawm xwb.
Hos kuv kuj muaj ib tug kwv tij cia nws ib tus ntxhais tuaj yuav txiv Hmoob Meskas, nkawv los kuj ua zaj ua ntxeev kom tus vauv tos. Tos tau tuaj txog cia li txw kom tus ntxhais ua nkauj fa es nkawv mam nrhiav txiv rau tus ntxhais. Ua txog kawg hu rau kuv, kuv thiaj li hais rau tias neb tseg ces tseg kiag. Neb tus ntxhais tuaj tau 6 lub xyoo tsis muaj teeb meem, neb tuaj txog tsis tau 5 hlis tus ntxhais tus vauv cia muaj teeb meem. Neb ua zoo ces cia li los ua neeg zoo. Hnub twg tus ntxhais tus vauv rov muaj teeb meem ces kuv yog tus yuav xa neb rov qab yuav tas neb tiam neb tuaj tsis tau Meskas ntxiv lawm thiab tsis tas li neb tsev neeg yuav tsis muaj tus tuaj tau lawm thiab. Npaum li no cov niam tais yawm txiv Hmoob Nplog thiaj li nyob tau2 xwb hos.
It’s good to hear from someone who is from Laos and feels this frustrations of having to provide for her families in Laos. This is why I don’t send money to Laos to families, I sound greedy, but I’d rather spend that money on my kids and family vs sending it to Laos. People in Laos, they wait for you to send money over while they live in luxury and while you have to bust your butt off, work day and night. Stop sending money if you don’t have money. I feel that when you need their help, they’re not there to help you, except you help them only. You’re bettering their life but your life is behind. This is your family and you’re this frustrated, listening to your story is already so frustrating, I could not imagine being in your shoe. Hmong people in Laos (this applies to people who are like these people in the story only, not all are like these people), are like vultures, money hunger and selfish people, all they think is themselves and to better themselves only.
ຄພຕຕຸຕໍ່ຫຕຄຕຕຈຕຈຕຕຕຕຄົນຈະຈຕຕຈຄຳຕຈະຈີນຍີ່ປຸ່ນ
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It’s about time you tell the ugly truth about Hmong Laos…remember what Kooloos said “ they come to US, we support them, we go to Laos, we support them…” Hmong Laos WIN…!!!
If you follow kooloos, you should be careful of him too, he's known to scam hmoob meka, he's not a friend.
Cov niam txiv muaj ntxhsis mus mes kas yuav tsum mloog nawb peb tsis muaj hmoob mes kas peb twb nyob li teb li chaw thiab txhob tub nkeeg ma
Koj niam koj txiv yeej tsis hlub koj. Hlub koj ces yeej tsis kaus koj. Tim koj es lawv thiaj kaus koj. Koj tus txiv tshuav koj tsev neeg nqi
This is true and it happens to me too, and I believe it happens to most of us. Thank you for sharing your story.
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Me viv ncaus aw, kuv lub neej los yog ib yam nkaus li koj lub thiab os, tab sis ho yog cov muam thiab tij laug lawv yog cov es kaus kuv tus txiv wb lub neej yog kiag li koj thiab tiag, chim siab ib yam nkaus li koj thiab tiag.
I came to the USA in 1989 as a second generation to grow up in America even to this day at times my mom treats me and my sisters like this as well if we don’t give her money we don’t love her is what her words are there have been times where I politely put my mom in her place I love my mom but sometimes my sisters and I are just an ATM to my mom it makes me depressed sometimes 😢
This story is absolutely true... Glad you told your story...
Tus me niam tsev kj ua li kj ua yog lawm. Txog thaum kj hlub tsis tau kj niam kj txiv, kj nyab kj nus los lawv muab ua tshaj dhau lawm thiab twb ho tsis hlub kj thiab. Zoo kawg uas kj pom qhov lawv siv kj tsis li ces kj tseem yuav txom nyem tshaj ko. Zoo siab ua kj rov los hlub kj tus kheej thiab kj tsev neeg ua ntej lwm tus..
Wow I never thought someone would speak up about this situation. Growing up in America I watched my parents who has just arrived in the early 90's send money back to both their families back in laos/Thailand, I see them struggling to pickup phone calls because their families think they are rich in America. They have just arrived, knows no English, have 5 kids under age 10 to raise and yet both sides begged for money nonstop. Just watching them struggle is enough I can't imagine having to be in their shoes.
My dad is the only one in his immediate family that made it to America, his brother and his kids call and ask money constantly. They ask for thousands knowing my parents are old and retired. Hmoob overseas don’t know the struggle.
Most Hmong nplog have very thick faces. They will use every excuse to take money from you. You have to have guts to say no without worrying about their feelings because they don't care about your feelings.
Before helping others, better look at your life first.
So blame yourself for not standing on your ground.
Well stated.
Nej cov ua ntxub2 peb cov hmoob mekas os. Qhov tseeb tawm tuaj lawm yom.❤❤❤
Tus muam koj hais yog kawg li tus yawm txiv ko ces neej TSA li os muab lawb li lawb dab xwb
Tus me sister koj mas hais yog tshaj plaws li os. Kuv ces yog kiag l koj zaj no thiab mas kuv tu siab tshaj plaws li thiab os.
Nyias yeem nyias. Tsis tu siab. Tsis khuv xim😢😢😢
Ruam thiaj yuav hmoob nplog.
Hmong Laos and Thailand people dont understand that us here in the US work very hard for our paycheck. Glad this sister is exposing the greed of these type of people. 🎉
Ua tsaug koj tseem muab hmoob nplog lub qe tsw lwj los qhia os
When you marry someone from Laos, you marry the whole family
Yog kawg!
Like my brother in law said.. he's the ATM for his inlaws. 😂
The whole extended family too.
Yuav hmoob nplog ces yus Yuav tsum yog ib lub cav luam nyiaj rau lawv xwb hov
Hmong meka tshuav hmong nplog nqi ntaus heev es hnov kiag hmong nplog quaj ob suab xwb ces hmoob meka xa kiag nyiaj mus so lawv ob lub kua muag. Lawv khaws kiag ib tug me nyuam ntsuag los tu xwb los hmong meka xa kiag nyiaj mus yug tu me nyuam ntsuag rau lawv. Lawv lub tsheb piam xwb los hmong meka xa kiag nyiaj mus kho rau lawv caij. Lawv tsis xav rau khau xwb los hmong meka yeej xa nyiaj mus yuav khau rau lawv rau.
Zoo heev ua koj kawm tawv lawm o niam Mos ab
you did a good job niam mob ab
Hmong Lao have a very low conciousness, therefore, they want a never ending support. The more you help them, the more they ask for.
Very interesting life story. Let this be a lesson for both side.
Girllll, I feel you on this one. You are not alone! It is very sad. 😢 my parents worshiped the boys and they lives in big ass house and good ass paid jobs. my parents still pick on me and did me the same way as this story is told. I was so far behind my bills it was ridiculous! Thats why if it’s nothing involved with me , I’m not dipping my hand in anything at all. Periodddd.
Ua tsaug koj ho qhia koj zag dab neeg tuaj rau sawv daws hnov thiab os me viv ncaus aw. Thaum lawv ua tsaus2 yus lawm es ua li koj ua no los yeej yog lawm thiab os. Yog lawm hlub yus ces yus mam hlub thiab es txhob cia lawm Kaus Noj Kaus hau ntawm koj ntxiv lawm os mog. Enough is enough hmong Laos doesn’t know when is enough. They’re hunger for money will never end😢
Kv nyiam koj zaj no kawg ❤
Tus ntxhais aws koj zaj no mas zoo kawg li os,zoo rau sawv daws ua kev kawm kev paub kawg li nawj.
Thank you very much for your story is very true one things after one thing never end
Npau tawg tshaaj os , cov Niag neejtsaa thovkhawv na.
Zoo heev zaj dab neeg no...tos kuv g yuav ntxhais hmoob..kuv xum yuav Nplog.
Thank you for sharing your story. I feel your frustration.
Kuv nyiam koj zaj neejneeg no kawg tus vivncaus..kuv ntseeg tias koj yog tus ntxhaisnrab, peb cov ntxhais nrab ces yeej mag peb cov txiv thiab niam siv os..kuv thov qhuas koj…hais tau, ua taus.
Hmong nplog dag noj dag haus ces zoo li no lo ma.
Cov txivneej Hmoob uas nej ntshaw lub xa2 nyiaj ces mus yuav Hmoob nplog nawb
Txawj hais kawg tabsis tseem hlub thiab pab tuab ntws li qub.
Thank you for sharing your true story about some family in the laos that like that sister hope you get a better financial with your family.
Tus me niam hluas koj Mas hais tseeb tshaj plaws li os. Nej hmoob nplog yeej tsis muaj lub siab hlub leej twg li os. Yus noj taus yus tsev neeg lawm ces tsuas lim hiam npaum no lawm xwb mas. Ua tsaug qhov koj hais qhov tseeb nawb mog.
Soo true hmong nplog siab phem tshaj plaws yeej tsis hlub yus li. My cousin spent 10k in one month bc of relatives saying they have no money. Same issues 😪 😕
Over 20k on a wife who isn't here yet. So I see where your coming from.
Wow
Tu siab heev li nas lawg kuv los tu siab heev li nas lawg
Our welfare system is with our US government, but the Laos people welfare system is the goodwill of people from the US and other wealthier countries. I blame their government for not taking care of their own people. End of Story!
Can't compare apple and oranges. Not the same. The welfare system here in the States is created to give only enough for those on it to get by. The welfare system Hmong Meeka created oversea is to make Hmong nplog rich beyond their dream. Now why would the country of Laos want to promote more laziness?
@@monkeybanana9269 I try not to past judgement on anyone, but the system they are placed in created by their government. You say Apple and Oranges, and yet are labeling all Hmoob Nplog as lazy. SMH!
Can't blame the government, blame on how lazy the people are. They don't even try, they don't do sht but expect handouts from those from America.
@@pengvang5831 : Pffff. Go read my comment again. I said why promote laziness. What?!!! So it isn't promoting laziness when giving someone money nonstop that all they do afterward is eat, sleep and never have to EARN anything anymore? Cause that seems to be the growing case with a lot of these overseas now. May not be all of them but a lot of them are sure adopting a new attitude different than from what they used to have.
@@pengvang5831 : There's no need to get upset at the Laos government. Laos already has it's own system set up. It may be different than ours but it still work for its people. Laos doesn't tax its citizens like here. Laos allow their people to hunt, fish and eat off the land for free. They can use whatever natural resources available and to even build their homes. If they want more than what the government offers them, they will just have to earn it themselves. There is nothing wrong with this.
Zoo kawg qhov ua nej cov ntxhais uas rov los qhia qhov tseeb rau sawv daws paub os vim muaj ib co nkauj hmoob los tsuas hais tias tsis kam xa nyiaj rau lawv niam lawv txiv ces yog ntxub ntxub lawv li no es ces nej rov los hais li no es thiaj tsis tub qaug neeg nawb mog. Yeej paub zoo kawg tsis muaj peb lawv yeej tuag tsis taus li os ua ntej yuav xa rau lawv los yuav tsum yog yus muaj ib pob tseg rau yus tso mam li xa nawb mog.
Zoo heev tus niam tsev no. Hmoob nplog lub maib ces yog li koj.
Good job sisters we well list to you , thank you to share your idea
Yog txhua tus ntxhais hmoob nplog tuaj es zoo li koj ces zoo lawm mas.
Hais tau qhov tseeb tshaj plaws li os yog lawm nawb thov qhuas.
Hais tau raug siab tshaj!!
Thanks for sharing your story re your family in Laos/Thailand. I wish them over there will realize we in America are not an ATM. We have our struggles too and our own family to provide for. I'm sorry you are going through that, sister.
The lady tells her story, but yet she funded her whole family's life style in Laos, and brought her parents over, and is still funding them? LOL!! This one should be titled, "Yuav Hmoob Nplog ces Pluag Tag Nrho Yus Lub Neej Ibtxhis!"
Bravo, you’re right on the title……
Nay. Paub lawm po.
I really appreciate your honest story about your difficult life. Life in America is hard to earn a living night n day while those in Laos continue to ask $$$$ left to right and live life easily.
Zoo siab tau hnov koj hais zaj dab neeg no, tej zaum muaj tseeb tiag
Thanks for sharing your story. Hope listeners out there take it into consideration. Kuv yeej ib txwm hais yog yus hlub yus tus poj niam los yog yus tus txiv npaum li yus niaj hli muab nyiaj mus rau lawv noj los yog div rau nplog teb ces peb yeej tsis muaj kev sib cav sib ceg li.
Koj yuans tsaum Hlubteevkua koj Niam koj txiv, kuv yog Niam mos Ab thuan kuv nyob America kuv them hlub kuv tsev neeg nyob laos
You need to help your family in laos, they live poor country you need to kmow
Nyob zoo os kuv tuaj koom koj lawm sib ua phooj ywg os
I don’t ever send money to those people overseas. I don’t owe you anything. I worked hard for my money.
Hais tau lus zoo heev ntxim lub me siab thiab lub me ncev nkauj xwb los yuav ntxim hlub tiag li ??? Koj ma
Tus me vivncaus aw, koj zaj neej neeg no mas txaus tu siab tiag tiag nawb. Yog tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws thiaj tsis tu siab xwb. Cov neeg nyob tim Nplog yeej tsis hlub leejtwg li os. Lawv tsuas xav kom yus hlub lawv xwb lawv yeej tsis hlub yus. Txawm yus tuag lawm los lawv tsis k txog li nawb. Hlub yus tuskheej os. Yeej tsis muaj leejwg pub ib dualas rau yus.
I think you done your part as a daughter. It is your time to take care of your family.
Yog lawn tus muam aw peb raug ib yam li this os
Tus sister Ua tsaug koj muab hais qhia sawv dawv paub os
Tshuav hmoob nplog nqe tiag tiag
Zoo kawg ,, kav tsij pab lawv lub neej ,, Es txhob pab koj lub ,, thiaj tau ntuj ntoo os 😂😁🤣
yog kawg kuv niam lawv lo zoo li thiab
Life isn't easy no matter what country you live in. Learn how to help yourself first before helping others. It's good to be generous but never at the cost of your own well-being.
Tus viv ncaus aws, koj hais yog tshaj li os.
Huag Me sister aw ca koj yuav hai yog tshaj plaw koj zaj neej neeg no ce ntob kiag kuv ntag os ca muab xav lo kuv chim siab thiab tu siab ua luaj kuv zaj ce yog kiag zaj no ntag Lau kuv mloog ce chim siab tshaj rau cov niam tai yawm txiv hmong nplog no li os
Feem coob yeej muaj tseeb li zaj Neej neeg no ua tsaug rau tus niam tsev ua share koj lub neej . Kuv lub neej los zoo ze2 li neb lub thiab , niaj hnub no niam Tais & yawm txiv tuaj g tau muaj 6 hli kev nyuab siab twb los txog lawm
Yog tshaj plaws li os. Lub neej ua tos hmoob nplog cas zoo li no mas.
Good lesson for those who goes and marry overseas!
Sister U ua zoo los tsi tau zoo ces kam Liam os mog Kv yeej nrg kj tu siab kawg li os 😢
Viv ncaus ua tsaug ntau rau koj lub siab zoo tuaj hais qhia peb qhov tseeb kawg nkaus li nawb
Good story 👏 🙌
Sawv daws pab share tus viv ncaus no zaj neej neeg kom txhua2 cov niam txiv hmoob plog uas coj li no na.
May…..This story sounds like your??…You’re one of those girls huh?….👏👏👏👏👏👏
Kuv mloog zaj neej neeg nos tas kuv ntsav siab tiag2 tsov tom hmoob nplog dab toj txas dab lim hiam dab tuag ntshaib.
Xas rov qab mus nplog los pob pheej cias nyob.
Ua tsaug pab qhia rau sawv daws ua kev Kawm kuv raug ib yam li thiab os lawv yeej tsis hlub peb hmoob meskas li nawb
I've never met folks more money hungry than our own folk's left behind in the motherland. It's freaking sad.
Well I have and she is from Laos. She has confirmed to me that she needs money. So it confirms that she came here to the US for money. Now with the luck we will be or hopefully another Laos relative who has the same interests. So I am turning a blind eye when there are issues.
Yog peb yog hmoob nplog tuaj nplog teb tuaj tiag tiag tabsis peb hmoob nplog tawg rog, peb lub siab tsis phem vim peb tsis yog koomsam li cov hmoob nplog xaijmaim no. Koj hais yog kawg……pab tu siab thiab.
Yog lawn os tus muam aw
Leej twg yuav hmoob nplog ces tshuav lawv nqi. Yog Muab tus ntxhais pub dawn rau kuv mas tej zaum kuv yuav pab zaum puav thiab, yog sau nqi tib si ces tas li ntawd lawm.
Nkauj hmoob nplog zoo ces tag tus no lawm lawb lawm.
Mloog ma pab npau taw hmoob plog os hmoob plog aw
Me ntxhais nrog koj tu siab tias koj muaj niam muaj txiv los zoo li tsis muaj ..Koj yuav tau hlub koj tsev neeg ua ntej txij hnub no mus.Koj yuav tau nug koj tus kheej kho koj txoj kev xav(1) koj tus txiv yog koj txoj sia. (2) Koj cov me nyuam yog koj lub neej.(3) Koj pob nyiaj yog koj lub zog..
Koj yuav tau pauv koj txoj kev xav txhob coj li qub lawm .?.Kuv ua tsaug rau koj txoj kev ua zoo.Thov qhuas koj
Thank you for sharing your frustration about families in Laos.
Tsim nyog kj yuav zoo siab tias kj pab tau kj niam nkawv lub neej zoo lawm os txhob tu siab os mog
Zaj no yog ib zaj zoo heev li
You should have left your parents behind for your brothers to take care. Then after you came back home, you should have shut the door behind them for good
Nej cov niag Hmoob nplog siab yeej phem yus niam yus txiv los yeej yuav Kaus yus Tej viv ncaus tej nus los yeej yuav dag kaus yus Hmoob nplog mas yog ib cov niag tsiaj tsis paub hlub neeg phem tshaj plaws ua tsaug Koj los mus qhia peb neeg ntiaj teb thov vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau Koj os mog Tus viv ncaus los es txhob tug saib qab lawm vim lawv siab phem heev pab Koj tu siab 😭😭😭😭
Txawm li cas los tsuav koj Tus txiv tsis xa koj rov qab ces zoo kawg
zaj neej neeg no mas zoo li yus tiag os cas yus yog ib tug ntxhais os lawv