I’m 40 this yr and just learned that “you are their friend but they are not yours” not everyone you meet can be your friends those that speak kindly softly gives you hugs every time are the ones you should be cautious around.
You are amazing woman. Proud of you 👏. Kuv yog ib tus txiv tsev thov qhuas koj thiab nrog koj zoo siab qhov koj tsi yuam kev rov mus rau lub neej qub. 🎉
YES! The best revenge against a cheating ex-spouse is to become happy again in a new marriage and just continue living your new life. Ignore the loser and let him stew in his own misery that was of his own making. Let him live in regrets for the rest of his life for f*cking up his marriage. Typical of a cheater to try to deflect the blame onto you for setting him up---if he were an honorable, loving husband, then he would not have fallen for any setup.
Ok, I give it to you. You were stupid in the beginning. But you got smarter in the end. It is the progression of growth that made you smart and you deserve your happiness.
Sister, I’m so proud of you for getting rid of this dog for good! You are smart! Your backstabbing friend is a traitor and was never your friend to begin with. Your ex doesn’t deserve you. Let him badmouth you for he knows exactly what he did wrong. I’m happy you have a good husband who loves and treats you well now. Good luck.❤👍 👍
Poj niam coj li koj ces lam muab Liam rau koj tus txiv xwb qhov tseeb tiag tus neeg Liam yog koj . Vim koj tus txiv yuav ua zoo npaum twg Los ntev mus koj yeej yuav deer American koj yog niag pog liam tshaj . Tiam si koj yuav tsi kav laus li koj txoj kev ntshaws os poj hmoob aws.
Not everyone will be your friend after their benefits is done from you! Never trust never tell anyone your personal problems. I myself as a mother had learn my own listen even family can betray you too.
Yog li ces tus ruam los yog koj, tus neeg npam los yog koj, tus tau ris txojkev mob siab los yog koj vim koj ua tsis taus niam koj yog ib niag pojniam kem txab tsuas tau lub quaj xwb ces tsim nyog tshaj plaws rau tus neeg tsis muaj peev xwm ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb. Hu rau koj cov neej tsa 911 tuaj xwb ces plaub ntug tas sai xwb tiag !
You know cheated why do you need his admitting to cheating way. Just divorce him and file for child support . Once you have to chase him then get rid off him. Trust no one!!!! You were too trusting even after your husband cheating on, you were not too smart. That is why women get so easily fool is because they trusting and easily forgive and forget them after they have cheated on and married a second wife.
Right? Something about hmoob poj niam. They know and they know that the dudes dicking out, but they want to catch them dudes, they want to ask them why dudes’ cheating. Wouldn’t it be less headache, heartache, wasting effort, to just ditch them dudes, because at the end, cheating is cheating.
Lady looks like they both probably got the hots for each other when she first came married into the family. Always remember the meskas has a saying "your best friend is your best enemy". Never trust or share your personal life to anyone.
My friend betrayed me with my ex too. They only lasted 2 and half months. He saw me at the club after they were together for 21/2 months and decided to dumped her that same night to chased me again. I never gave him a chance. After 4 yrs, he decided to get married with another hoe but till this day, he still called to ask me to take him back. Doesn't matter how many times I blocked him, he'll go get a new phone number and called me again. A cheater will always cheat. The bad thing is, I can't love another man just yet even after 8 yrs due to trust issues. Today, I might not be with anyone but I'm very happy and have all the freedom I want😊
Proud of you sis. Enjoy being single while you still can. Love doesn't need to be rushed. Take your time. Use this time in getting to know yourself and taking care of yourself.
There is no true best friend in this world. Phooj ywg tuag tsis muaj tabsis phooj noj mas coob heev. Peb tsis toob kaa ib tug phooj ywg qhov twg li os. Tus phooj ywg es yog tus true phooj ywg ces yog yus cov me nyuam xwb nawb
First mistake was having your bff pretending to be a poj nrauj and talked to your husband. No mater how good of a bff NEVER let another woman get involved with your husband or marital life!
(Gasp) I can’t believe your friend did that to you! You cannot trust a friend with your spouse: wife’s friend to her husband, or husband’s friend to his wife. You just never know!
Nope even if you gave your husbands number for your friend to help you, he has his own fault in not being faithful. Hate men that play victim and and try to throw their wrong on some one else.
So proud of you for not taking your ex back. Remember, once a cheater, always a cheater. Everything happens for a reason. If your ex didn't cheat on you, you won't have the life you have now so consider it a blessing in disguise
Nrog koj zoo siab kij yeej txhua yam lawm nkawd yog ob tug neeg traitor xwb os peb pojniam tsi ua lawd ua ntej lawd muab yus hais phem xwb tsi k os hlub koj tus husband tshuab xwb mog
You are right. Hmong people just don't know, but it is a huge burden on the one who lend you money. If you are real cousins do not borrow money from them. That's what banks are for and if the banks deny you, you can only be mad at them. Never borrowed money to your close friends or family or anyone.
No matter what, your husband ain’t never turning back.. whether it was gonna be with your friend or someone else, he’s still Gonna be a cheating loser.. Good thing you found out both of them ain’t worth it
Txua yam yog tim tus poj niam xwb tus poj no nws tsis ntseeg nws tus txiv nws thiaj li ua txua yam kom tus txiv yuam kev es nws thiaj tau zoo los xyob lub neej poj niam zoo tus no tus txiv tsev txhob khuv xim man u got to on man never turn back to the same woman it gonna work.
I knew you're self called friend would betrayed you when she initiated to called your husband, pretending to court him. That was a stupid move , but take it as a lesson and teach other people not to do that.
@@itsmaichee yep. Those kind of friends just want to use that as an excuse to flirt with the husband. And she thought her friend was helping her . She fell for it.
Yog koj tus txiv e koj twb tsis muaj peevxwm control tau nws soj nws qab taug nws lw . koj xav tias koj ua thaj ntse ntse hais kom koj tus niam ntxawm take care koj tus txiv seb koj puas hnov good news or bad news ntawd koj tus txiv tabsis koj lam ntse tus ntawv xwb lub tswvyim ces koj ruam heev Koj yog tus qhia kom koj tus niam ntxawm nrog koj rhuav neb lub neej puas tag xwb as, vim licas e yus ho muab yus tus txiv rau lawv tham nawd. cuab thaj ntse 2 dhau qhov ntse lawm thaum kawg ces tau lub bye.. bye..or good bye my love 😭😭💔
She was never your friend. Not everyone is your friend. Be careful of who you tell your problems to, some people are just waiting for the right time to insert themselves into you life.
Shouldn't never trust another female friend in life. She will never be your friend. Nws twb xav tham koj tus txiv es nws lam ua txoj xav pab koj xwb. Qhov tseeb tiag nws twb xav tham koj tus txiv os.
Can’t catch him, that means he’s not cheating but you and your friend play your husband well….what you think lady? One trash is another man treasure so yea he’s gonna go after her until he realizes she’s trash🤪
Koj txheev rawm zoo siab tias koj tus txiv Meskas yuav hlub koj txog hnub kawg. Koj yuav tau tos txog hnub koj laus nkoos npaj mus nyob tsev laus mas koj mam tham tawm vim thaum no yog lub caij nyoog rau koj tham lawm.
niag poj ruam awd nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no ce ntshe muab sau tag nrho rau koj ib leeg ruam koj yuav ntseeg koj niag phooj ywg maum dev meb cab ko npaum li ko naw ! koj tsi paub tia ib niag poj niam tseem muaj txiv es yuav lee lo ua hlua nkauj mu tham koj niag txiv dev ko li ntawm naj ?
Why is this lady having her friend call her husband to trap him when she’s already caught him twice??? What more proof does this lady want/need??? I’m confused.
Yog li koj hais lawm me viv ncaus nrog koj zoo siab tias koj rov tau lub neej zoo lawm👍👍❤👍👍
When you have money thete is no problem it's quite simple😂😂😂
I’m 40 this yr and just learned that “you are their friend but they are not yours” not everyone you meet can be your friends those that speak kindly softly gives you hugs every time are the ones you should be cautious around.
You are amazing woman. Proud of you 👏. Kuv yog ib tus txiv tsev thov qhuas koj thiab nrog koj zoo siab qhov koj tsi yuam kev rov mus rau lub neej qub. 🎉
A true friend will never hurt you no matter what situation you are in.
Koj txoj neej neeg raug kuv siab kawg.
At the end I love it.
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I’m glad you have a better life now. I wonder what happened to your traitor friend and her husband.
YES! The best revenge against a cheating ex-spouse is to become happy again in a new marriage and just continue living your new life. Ignore the loser and let him stew in his own misery that was of his own making. Let him live in regrets for the rest of his life for f*cking up his marriage. Typical of a cheater to try to deflect the blame onto you for setting him up---if he were an honorable, loving husband, then he would not have fallen for any setup.
Typical narcissistic hmong man 🙄
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I can smell another white knight story from a galaxy 🌌 away 😅 you go girl hmong queen 👸 brave and independent sllllaaayyyy 💅
Kudos to you for not taking him back into your life ,sister!!!! A cheater will always be a cheater!!!!!
I am glad things worked out for you. Genuine love is what you wanted and now you have it.
Never trust anyone as friend
Such sad story but at the same time inspiring too. :) so happy for this lady.
Wow never truth any friends around you😩😩
Desperate people would never work out.
Ok, I give it to you. You were stupid in the beginning. But you got smarter in the end. It is the progression of growth that made you smart and you deserve your happiness.
Pab koj tu siab ua koj siv koj tus friend pab koj tabsis thaum kawg koj lub neej liam sim tag.. nrog koj zoo siab koj rov los muaj lub neej zoo thiab os..
Maum DEV!!!!! Ntsej muag tuab tiag2 li os!!!!!
nev nev nev txhob ua phooj ywg zoo zoo nawb phooj ywg ces yog yus cov me nyuam thiab yus tus txiv xwb o
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Sister, I’m so proud of you for getting rid of this dog for good! You are smart! Your backstabbing friend is a traitor and was never your friend to begin with. Your ex doesn’t deserve you. Let him badmouth you for he knows exactly what he did wrong. I’m happy you have a good husband who loves and treats you well now. Good luck.❤👍 👍
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Poj niam coj li koj ces lam muab Liam rau koj tus txiv xwb qhov tseeb tiag tus neeg Liam yog koj . Vim koj tus txiv yuav ua zoo npaum twg Los ntev mus koj yeej yuav deer American koj yog niag pog liam tshaj . Tiam si koj yuav tsi kav laus li koj txoj kev ntshaws os poj hmoob aws.
That's why in crime and murder investigation starts with the people closest to you. Never trust the people closest to you.
May zaj dag neeg no zoo li kuv zaj tab si kuv tus txiv tau kho lawm
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Not everyone will be your friend after their benefits is done from you! Never trust never tell anyone your personal problems. I myself as a mother had learn my own listen even family can betray you too.
Yog li ces tus ruam los yog koj, tus neeg npam los yog koj, tus tau ris txojkev mob siab los yog koj vim koj ua tsis taus niam koj yog ib niag pojniam kem txab tsuas tau lub quaj xwb ces tsim nyog tshaj plaws rau tus neeg tsis muaj peev xwm ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb. Hu rau koj cov neej tsa 911 tuaj xwb ces plaub ntug tas sai xwb tiag !
xob chim rau koj tu py niam txiv kiag twb tsi sib hlub tsi tham koj tu py los yeej yuav tham lwm tu
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You know cheated why do you need his admitting to cheating way. Just divorce him and file for child support . Once you have to chase him then get rid off him. Trust no one!!!! You were too trusting even after your husband cheating on, you were not too smart. That is why women get so easily fool is because they trusting and easily forgive and forget them after they have cheated on and married a second wife.
Right?
Something about hmoob poj niam. They know and they know that the dudes dicking out, but they want to catch them dudes, they want to ask them why dudes’ cheating.
Wouldn’t it be less headache, heartache, wasting effort, to just ditch them dudes, because at the end, cheating is cheating.
Lady looks like they both probably got the hots for each other when she first came married into the family.
Always remember the meskas has a saying "your best friend is your best enemy". Never trust or share your personal life to anyone.
This is why hmong people always say friend eat friend die.
So happy you loved yourself and moved on...we need our hmong women to be strong like you and be firm of your own decisions.
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My friend betrayed me with my ex too. They only lasted 2 and half months. He saw me at the club after they were together for 21/2 months and decided to dumped her that same night to chased me again. I never gave him a chance. After 4 yrs, he decided to get married with another hoe but till this day, he still called to ask me to take him back. Doesn't matter how many times I blocked him, he'll go get a new phone number and called me again. A cheater will always cheat. The bad thing is, I can't love another man just yet even after 8 yrs due to trust issues. Today, I might not be with anyone but I'm very happy and have all the freedom I want😊
Proud of you sis. Enjoy being single while you still can. Love doesn't need to be rushed. Take your time. Use this time in getting to know yourself and taking care of yourself.
@@chouayang81 Thank you
Yes, I'm just like you. I love being a single with 2 adults daughters and I'm ok 👍
Txoj kev ua sib pauj ces leej twg ntse thiab xub ua ntej ces tus ntawd kawg yeej xwb os
There is no true best friend in this world. Phooj ywg tuag tsis muaj tabsis phooj noj mas coob heev. Peb tsis toob kaa ib tug phooj ywg qhov twg li os. Tus phooj ywg es yog tus true phooj ywg ces yog yus cov me nyuam xwb nawb
Luag hais tias koj tus phooj ywg ua zoo tshaj yog tus ntxeev siab rau koj nas has. Txhob cia2 siab rau yus tus phooj ywg zoo nawb.
Hais tau zoo kwg! 🍹
Ppl say the true is face to face but not true she/he can easily lie face to faces
First mistake was having your bff pretending to be a poj nrauj and talked to your husband. No mater how good of a bff NEVER let another woman get involved with your husband or marital life!
Peb hmoob aw cag tug siab ưa luaj
Omg another story friend and husband are cheating. Never offer your husband or wife to anyone to play games with.
That was one crappy friend you had. I hope bad karma gets her for what she did to you. That was just wrong. So wrong of her.
Ua li koj Mas yog tshaj plaws li lawm o...tus neeg phem txawm nws yuav leej twg los yeej yuav phem mus li....vim kev Npam tiam no caum cuag ceev heev li....yus yog tus neeg zoo..muaj lub siab siab ..muaj txoj kev hlub nyob nrog nraim yus ...yus txawm yuav leej twg los yeej yuav zoo xwb...txiv hmoob siab phem dhau lawm yuav txiv Mikas los yeej yuav zoo tshaj li lawm thiab o
Dude your trash,but NOW Meskas Treasure!!….Amen
🐍 friend waiting to sneak in
Viv ncaus zoo kawg koj txiav txim siab yog,Thaum txiv neej vwm es xuam lub neej rau yus lawm khaws ceev22 ua ntej nws hloov siab.
(Gasp) I can’t believe your friend did that to you! You cannot trust a friend with your spouse: wife’s friend to her husband, or husband’s friend to his wife. You just never know!
Stop calling her your friend she ain't your friend.
Zoo lawm ntag !! Muab 15-16 lub xyoo rau tus Poj niam xwb yuav mis kas thaum kawg raug hlawv.
Doua I think you're just jealous.
First off. Never play that game of having your FRIEND call or having your CO-WORKER etc call your spouse. PERIOD!!! NEVERRRRR!!!
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Nope even if you gave your husbands number for your friend to help you, he has his own fault in not being faithful. Hate men that play victim and and try to throw their wrong on some one else.
So proud of you for not taking your ex back. Remember, once a cheater, always a cheater. Everything happens for a reason. If your ex didn't cheat on you, you won't have the life you have now so consider it a blessing in disguise
Nrog koj zoo siab koj tau lub neej zoo lawm os
Hahaha....raum tshaj os yom koj na
Nrog koj zoo siab kij yeej txhua yam lawm nkawd yog ob tug neeg traitor xwb os peb pojniam tsi ua lawd ua ntej lawd muab yus hais phem xwb tsi k os hlub koj tus husband tshuab xwb mog
Sister aw the idea you guys played was bad but is a listen to be learn n taught mog. Life goes on n God does have an eyes mog.
You are right. Hmong people just don't know, but it is a huge burden on the one who lend you money. If you are real cousins do not borrow money from them. That's what banks are for and if the banks deny you, you can only be mad at them. Never borrowed money to your close friends or family or anyone.
No matter what, your husband ain’t never turning back.. whether it was gonna be with your friend or someone else, he’s still Gonna be a cheating loser.. Good thing you found out both of them ain’t worth it
Txua yam yog tim tus poj niam xwb tus poj no nws tsis ntseeg nws tus txiv nws thiaj li ua txua yam kom tus txiv yuam kev es nws thiaj tau zoo los xyob lub neej poj niam zoo tus no tus txiv tsev txhob khuv xim man u got to on man never turn back to the same woman it gonna work.
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Koj ces liam tib yam, tsis txawv nyias qhuas nyias qhov zoo... 😅
I knew you're self called friend would betrayed you when she initiated to called your husband, pretending to court him. That was a stupid move , but take it as a lesson and teach other people not to do that.
Fr. I feel like friends should never do this.
@@itsmaichee yep. Those kind of friends just want to use that as an excuse to flirt with the husband. And she thought her friend was helping her . She fell for it.
Ngob zoo os
You’re very brave sister and I’m very happy for you. Thanks for sharing your story.
Yog koj tus txiv e koj twb tsis muaj peevxwm control tau nws soj nws qab taug nws lw . koj xav tias koj ua thaj ntse ntse hais kom koj tus niam ntxawm take care koj tus txiv seb koj puas hnov good news or bad news ntawd koj tus txiv
tabsis koj lam ntse tus ntawv xwb
lub tswvyim ces koj ruam heev
Koj yog tus qhia kom koj tus niam ntxawm nrog koj rhuav neb lub neej puas tag xwb as, vim licas e yus ho muab yus tus txiv rau lawv tham nawd. cuab thaj ntse 2 dhau qhov ntse lawm thaum kawg
ces tau lub bye.. bye..or good bye my love
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Come straight
She was never your friend. Not everyone is your friend. Be careful of who you tell your problems to, some people are just waiting for the right time to insert themselves into you life.
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Vim koj lub tswv yim ne tsam no koj paub lawm po
Tus vivncaus, kuv zoo siab koj txoj kev txiav siab thiab tau tus hlub tiag rau koj. Good job and enjoy your life.
Tej laus hais tseg tias "Tsev nqeeb tsis zoo sim taws. Txiv dev tsis zoo sim siab".
good for you sister
Sounds familiar. Ty for the advice.
Yes, self-love! Wish you the Best, sister ❤
It was your mistake to trust your friend too much. Even it’s a play you would never play with your friends in something like this.
Nej mas siab zoo kawg li twb sib ceg lawm los tseem hais me koj txiv me koj txiv kuv mas sib ceg lawm ces ntsej muag xuaj xwb hos 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Your so called friend had bad intentions in the beginning lol
Ab qhov nov ce yog tim koj xwb leej twg kom koj muab koj tus txiv tus xov tooj thab kom tham koj tus txiv ne los
Not a true friend
I'm glad u found someone who loves u. May your new found love, happiness, and husband last forever. U deserve it after what u went thru. 💕
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Sister, what happy ending for you? Very happy for you! Best wishes and many years of happiness ahead of you and your new husband.
Viv ncaus Aw ib tug neeg xyob txhiaj li tej niag txiv dev no ces yeej khwv npaum twg Los nyiaj yeej tsis nrog nws Nyob lawm os
Shouldn't never trust another female friend in life. She will never be your friend. Nws twb xav tham koj tus txiv es nws lam ua txoj xav pab koj xwb. Qhov tseeb tiag nws twb xav tham koj tus txiv os.
That lady had always had eyes on your man!!! God damn, that lady is shady as hell!!
Kuv xav xa kuv zaj tuaj rau koj hai thiab o , yuav sau tuaj rau qhov twg o
Sister you found value within yourself and you found someone who saw your worth.
W33 tr Udine? Khaudluag
Txob yuav lawm os me Viv ncaw aw
Tu txiv kom tsi zoo yuav lawm os mog
Can’t catch him, that means he’s not cheating but you and your friend play your husband well….what you think lady? One trash is another man treasure so yea he’s gonna go after her until he realizes she’s trash🤪
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Thaum pib, yog tim dab vaj dab tsev tso lus lawm. Thiaj yuam kev. Lub tshoob loj, zoo ib qho tshuav ib qho. Hos lub tshoob me, kuj zoo ib tshuav ib tuab yam. Cov niag tsis muaj tshoob noj, qee nkawv neej kuj nyob mus txog av quas thiab. Txhais tias, lub siab lub ntsws yog qhov tseem ceeb dua. Mus 9 tus 10 tug los, yog lub siab tsis ncaj ces ua neej xaus sai2 kawg twb yuav rov pib dua.
Nkauj hmoob zoo nkauj ntxim hlub cas tov hnav dub dua lawm thiab. Koj ma !!!
Koj txheev rawm zoo siab tias koj tus txiv Meskas yuav hlub koj txog hnub kawg. Koj yuav tau tos txog hnub koj laus nkoos npaj mus nyob tsev laus mas koj mam tham tawm vim thaum no yog lub caij nyoog rau koj tham lawm.
niag poj ruam awd nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no ce ntshe muab sau tag nrho rau koj ib leeg ruam koj yuav ntseeg koj niag phooj ywg maum dev meb cab ko npaum li ko naw ! koj tsi paub tia ib niag poj niam tseem muaj txiv es yuav lee lo ua hlua nkauj mu tham koj niag txiv dev ko li ntawm naj ?
Such a wrong and stupid move
U did good job no point to go back to your ex. He is a cheater alway a cheater.
Why is this lady having her friend call her husband to trap him when she’s already caught him twice??? What more proof does this lady want/need??? I’m confused.
Wv.. Nyuam qhuav haum nkaus cov txiv dev nyiam txoj kev plees thiab ua laib na 😂😂😂😂😂 xamthub xwb 🙏🙏🙏
May, your hair is getting thicker in these photoes. What hair products do you use?