A lot of Hmoob men’s Booty hole is hurt from this story. Hmong men, if the story doesn’t pertain to you, don’t let it bother you! This is her point of view. I know A LOT of Hmong men are NOT like this but A LOT also are! I’ve seen 50% bad and 50% good. It is what it is. Hmong women can also be bad too. She is just letting her talk from her experience. 🙄
I agree with you sister! My ex husband is Hmong and i went through a lot of hardships especially from his parents amd relatives. After divorce him and being single for a few yrs, i met my non-Hmong bf and he treats me very well along with his family. They do not judge and always give me hugs. Im grateful!
So many Hmong guys here upset about the D being compared in this story. But y'all missed the point of her story. She finally found someone who treated her right and love her. Lucky her, he happened to have a big D. But whether your D is big or small, your woman will love you as long as you love and respect her. Most women just want to be loved and want to hear kind words from their husbands. They don't want to constantly hear that they're going to be getting a second wife or be traded in for a younger wife.
Glad you found a wonderful, caring, and loving husband. My husband is hmong but he does a lot for me and our family. My husband always encourages me to be beautiful. There's always good and bad in ppl.
So happy you found happiness! Not All Hmong Men are old fashion like your Ex-husband. Only those with a Mindset of 1975, No matter how old they are. My husband is Hmong and we live a stress free & happy life because he's a God loving man.
I totally agree 👍 👌 👏 🙌 💯 I'm married to a non Hmong husband too, he treated me far better than my ex husband which was Hmong. Life is great as ever so thankful to God.
Very nice story, thanks for sharing sister, if only all hmong sister learn to do and walk the way you walk, we all hmong sister will be free,from abuse hmong husband.....well said sister,, I'm glad you come out and share your beautiful life with other racist....well said... ❤❤
Not ALL men r like that...hmong or meka men they can still cheat on you...no matter what color they r....this story is more of I choose a BIG dingdong over a SMALL dingdong....😅😅😅
Everything’s in your story are true and thank you for the kind words for the all the Hmong ladies around the world to learn then love themselves more ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sister, I'm glad you did what you did. You deserve to be happy. Please don't live the life of niam hlob niam yau. Be strong and stand your ground. Let go of tus txiv dev no. Karma will get them.
Love that you've found the right person for you. But I really dislike how so many hmong women talk down on our hmong men. Not all are as you say, only compare your man and not all hmong men. Our hmong brothers has come a long way and I still stand by them. If meeka ppl are as great as you say there wouldn't be any divorces and split up. Every race/ethnicity has its own good and bad, every human being is their own, don't group them. Thanks 😊
I agree with everything this lady said. I came from a traditional BIG Hmong family and we women are overworked, overused and way under appreciated. Lady....I am glad you found someone who loves you.
Only old hmong guys are what she describes. Not us all guys are like that. We younger guys are more modernized. Hate beaches like this that categorized us as one.
I’m so thankful and blessed to have found my husband now. He’s hmong but he was raised and grew up with so many meka, he genuinely loves me differently from typical hmong mens. I totally understand where this lady is coming from. Hmong mens has no love and respect for their wife. I’m so glad this lady found her true love
You have only met Hmong boys. There are plenty of Hmong men’s who respect and love their wife unconditionally. Plus, just because you grew up with meka doesn’t mean they will all love and respect their wife.
That could go both ways. Your ethnicity doesn’t mean you act a certain way but what influence are culture and religion. Hmong culture/religion just have a very very low care for morality/justice/righteousness.
It takes a strong and smart woman to know her worth and leave that kind of man behind. Good for you for standing up for yourself and finding a real man that loves you and respects you.
Niam hmoob lawv tsuas cob qhia lawv tej ntxhais kom ua txiv neej qhev, ces thiaj qhia 1 phaum dhau ib phaum es poj niam hmoob thiaj tsis paub hlub lawv tus kheej. I stopped slave away since newly married and not teaching my children that way. Son or daughter, they are do chores. I don’t ever use words like you are the girl, you do such chores or you do such chores because you are a boy. My children, whoever available at the moment do the chores. Whoever see something dirty, clean. Whoever want to eat, cook. My now young adult daughter started dating and the boy would comes over, my husband would say to her to offer her boyfriend drinks or food. She just goes, - do you want to drink or eat? - water is there. And if we eat, she just say let’s eat. And if he wants, he come join. If he’s not, he just seat out, no pressure.
How can you come on here and bash our Hmong men?? You speak for yourself only. We have great Hmong men too. I’d respect your story more if you just preach to our sisters to love themselves and find someone to love them back, but you started bashing our Hmong brothers, I’ve lost respect for you. Yes, we all can work every day to be better but that applies to all HUMANS, not just Hmong.
Ua ntej koj hais Tus txiv hmoob ua li nes koj hos puas tau hlub koj Tus txiv hmoob li nws xav thiab dua li nws coj koj mus taug kev koj puas kam ntag nws mus thiab mas, nco ntsoov ua neeg nyob feem coob yog koj hlub luag lawm ces luag yeej hlub koj ib yam thiab Nco ntsoov tias peb txiv neej hmoob tsis phem txhua Tus mog cov phem yog feem tsawg xwb, hos txiv neej meskas yuav tsis zoo txhua Tus li thiab mog.
Koj tau txiv mekas zoo koj siab txhob tuaj khav2 kom peb cov poj niam khiav raws koj qab tsam koj tsis tau zoo neej ua nawb hmoob muaj kab li kev cai tsis mekas kev cai kom koj paub li ntawd.
It’s only your own experience, don’t make all Hmong men look bad. Some of us Hmong men cook and clean and love our wives and don’t force our wives to do all that.
Yog tshaj li os yav tag dhau lo kuv kuj muaj ib tug txiv hmoob ma cem tau tshaj plaws li ziag no kuv mam mu yuav tau ib tug txiv neeg txawv teb chaw lawv yeej txawj hlub yu tshaj li tsi nco qab nyuaj siab tsi nco txhawj txog dab tsi lawm tiag
I learn how to do my dish that way too. Wash and wipe down dry right away n put them in place!! Done!! ( back in the days in high school, cooking classes)😂
Hmob ces kev sib hlub sib pab tsua yog kev hau dej hau cawv xwb ho cov poj niam ces khwv ua txiv neej qhev tuag ntis twb tsi muaj txiv neej hmoob yuav lo hlub lo pab li
Another white knight story 😅 please HMONG shethers follow this shether foot 🦶 step if you want a non-Hmong happily ever after life. Goooooo queens 👸 slllllaaayyyy 💅
It just depends on the guy. My husband is Hmong, raised in a traditional Hmong house. But he loves me and loves me exactly the way I dreamed of. Not all Hmong mam have the “Hmong men” mentality!
niam laus zoo li kuv e tsi muaj txoj hauv kev mu li o kuv lub neej lwj siab heev vim tu txiv mu ua hluas nraug heev li tso lub neej rau yus yog tus ua ib sab ua niam ib ua txiv xwb lub neej tu siab heev li o
Great story! Glad you have a happy life . I totally agree hmong life style is different from others kind they don’t respect and don’t treat woman right.
Yeap… it’s our Hmong cultural. I call it Stone Age ways/mindset. The men Treat women like a possession… they own women, kinda thing. It’s so retarded. But, I called these selfish perverted Hmong men weak! Weak to pussies… 😂
Yog ma kv yuav txiv hmoob ces ua qhev xb kv los tham tau ib tug hluas nraug nplog zoo2 lawv hlub yus kv nyiam li cas yeej txaus siab rau yam kv nyiam thb nws ua rau kv noj xb ho nws g khes txog tias neeg yg txiv neej li nws saib yus muaj nqis heev yus ces nyob2 cia li tub nkeeg lm o
Koj muaj hmoo xwb os tsis yog txhua tus os mog lawv xav yuav ces yuav tsis xav yuav ces lawv kuj nrauj yus thiab os mog tsis txhob tuaj qhua2 li ko mog
Hahaha, Hmoob khwv khwv vim peb muaj cov coj noj coj ua coob heev ne. Hmoob tsis tseg ces tsiv ntev peb cov poj niam yuav khiav mus yuav Meskas tag lawm tiag. Cov Hmoob coj qub qub li no ib txwm ruam ces tsawg tiam los yeej tseem ruam
I agree with you that Hmong culture does need to be revised to fit our Hmong American lifestyle. However, my Hmong husband treats me the same way your white husband treats you, but in his own way, of course. I think you were just married to the wrong guy.
First off , before I even start to comment on this story : I wanna hear the ex husband's side of the story as well. To me , her side of the story sounds more like she cheated on her husband with the mekas guy. Ain't no woman would go to some strangers house on there first meeting. She's just making her story look so good. You said the mekas guy is so nice , why did his ex wife left him. He wants to keep you around, wait until he finds someone else. He'll surprised you by kicking you out to the streets and you'll realize that your living in a fantasy. Better enjoy your moment because the thunderstorms coming. PLEASE, keep me updated when he done with you!!!!
Um, she divorced her husband.... before she got with the meka husband. But the Hmong man she was dating, is the one that she was cheating on with, the meka guy.
I don’t agree with the feet part, I work really hard but I take care of my feet, it’s always smooth and painted. It’s really up to the person to take care of themselves.
She's biased because she's sharing her own experiences. She states alot of false claims about Hmong or Hmong men. She's saying that she's better because she's married to a white guy.
@@ouradventuresnspecialmoments lol, buy one of those smoothing rocks, every time you take a shower, just smooth out your feet. Put lotion on after and your feet will be smooth. You don’t have to spend money in pedicures.
Researches show that people who married within their community are more happy and last longer than with other different community. Maybe you are lucky to find a good husband..and you know how to adapt but not everyone can do what you did. No need to criticize your hmong community so much. I believe a lot hmong men are better than you thought but you don’t understand how hmong people are just helping each other when their have an event or working at the funeral. Wait until the end before advertising so much your husband meska!
Lol this isn't a hmong/meka guy issue. This woman finally learned to love herself. Her issue was that she didn't love herself when she was married to her ex. She let her ex take advantage of her. Then she moved on and realized what she wanted in life. But woman, just because you're married to a meka guy doesn't mean you should stop helping out at gatherings.😂😂
I am Hmong guy in my early 50's not all Hmong men are 1975. I was raised here in America at 5 year old. It depends on who you date or married to. Race are not important it's the person in the race that are important. There's good and bad men and women in every race.
Moral of the story again, don’t listen your parents and relatives when you’re relationship is not working out. Make your own decision to leave or stay. Don’t listen to anyone else’s opinion especially old Hmong timers!
The broadcaster is Niam Ntsuab Teev. The story provided by an individual, no proof of a fiction or nonfiction story and who is that Hmong woman?. Anyway, Niam Ntsuab Teev's husband is a Hmong person. We do have good and bad people in any nationalities or ethnic groups. Some Hmong people, we sometimes do not know or understand the Hmong culture including the roles of Hmong men and women that lead us to look down on our own Hmong people. This story is about the Hmong woman, her ex-husband and her white husband. It had nothing to do with all the Hmong people. It's not just wrong to label Hmong men as bad people, but the broadcaster may be culturally and legally liable for the broadcasting of the story contains bias or discrimination. We have many good Hmong men and women. This kind of story is bad for the Hmong people.
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A lot of Hmoob men’s Booty hole is hurt from this story. Hmong men, if the story doesn’t pertain to you, don’t let it bother you! This is her point of view. I know A LOT of Hmong men are NOT like this but A LOT also are! I’ve seen 50% bad and 50% good. It is what it is. Hmong women can also be bad too. She is just letting her talk from her experience. 🙄
I agree with you sister! My ex husband is Hmong and i went through a lot of hardships especially from his parents amd relatives. After divorce him and being single for a few yrs, i met my non-Hmong bf and he treats me very well along with his family. They do not judge and always give me hugs. Im grateful!
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So many Hmong guys here upset about the D being compared in this story. But y'all missed the point of her story. She finally found someone who treated her right and love her. Lucky her, he happened to have a big D.
But whether your D is big or small, your woman will love you as long as you love and respect her. Most women just want to be loved and want to hear kind words from their husbands. They don't want to constantly hear that they're going to be getting a second wife or be traded in for a younger wife.
So true! The D 😛🤣😅
100!
Glad you found a wonderful, caring, and loving husband. My husband is hmong but he does a lot for me and our family. My husband always encourages me to be beautiful. There's always good and bad in ppl.
So happy you found happiness! Not All Hmong Men are old fashion like your Ex-husband. Only those with a Mindset of 1975, No matter how old they are. My husband is Hmong and we live a stress free & happy life because he's a God loving man.
Agree. Not all hmong men has the same typical mindset and values.
Im so glad you spoke up. I really think this lady over paint her marriage with this mekas guy.
Lol i agree, they categorized all the 1900s hmong men generations with the 2000s hmong men generations. 🤣
I totally agree 👍 👌 👏 🙌 💯 I'm married to a non Hmong husband too, he treated me far better than my ex husband which was Hmong. Life is great as ever so thankful to God.
Very nice story, thanks for sharing sister, if only all hmong sister learn to do and walk the way you walk, we all hmong sister will be free,from abuse hmong husband.....well said sister,, I'm glad you come out and share your beautiful life with other racist....well said... ❤❤
Yeah 🙏🏻👍🏻😊
I love this story! She has a good point! Great advice from the sister for all our hmong couples.
ใครคิดจะมีลูกเพื่อพันธนาการอีกฝ่ายไว้เป็นการคิดผิดมหาศาลเลยล่ะ อย่าคิดมีลูกเยอะเชียวอนาคตเป็นสิ่งไม่แน่นอน มีลูกเยอะใช่ว่าลูกจะดูแลยามแก่เฒ่า ยิ่งสมัยนี้ที่อะไรๆก็เงินทอง อย่าหาทำเด็ดขาด
Not ALL men r like that...hmong or meka men they can still cheat on you...no matter what color they r....this story is more of I choose a BIG dingdong over a SMALL dingdong....😅😅😅
Who wouldn’t?😂 It’s time to think outside the box and move on to bigger and better things.😊
Yes, I would choose big boobs and round butt over small boobs and flat butt that hmong women have too hahaha
@@ooinkssies1142 sometimes bigger things ain't always great....that bigger thing will leave u too...lol
Everything’s in your story are true and thank you for the kind words for the all the Hmong ladies around the world to learn then love themselves more ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wrong. Not everything in this story is true. Especially the part about the night day care! 😂
And also the part where all Mekas are like her husband.
Sister, I'm glad you did what you did. You deserve to be happy. Please don't live the life of niam hlob niam yau. Be strong and stand your ground. Let go of tus txiv dev no. Karma will get them.
Txaus siab tiag2😍😍
Love that you've found the right person for you. But I really dislike how so many hmong women talk down on our hmong men. Not all are as you say, only compare your man and not all hmong men. Our hmong brothers has come a long way and I still stand by them.
If meeka ppl are as great as you say there wouldn't be any divorces and split up.
Every race/ethnicity has its own good and bad, every human being is their own, don't group them.
Thanks 😊
Totally agreed.
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I agree with everything this lady said. I came from a traditional BIG Hmong family and we women are overworked, overused and way under appreciated. Lady....I am glad you found someone who loves you.
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Only old hmong guys are what she describes. Not us all guys are like that. We younger guys are more modernized. Hate beaches like this that categorized us as one.
I certainly hope so which is a great sign of course.
Nah, you’re all the same. 🤮
And we use pills and pumps so we have decent size now hahahah
It’s also just her side of the story. What if she was cheating at the gym to begin with. We’ll never know….
Lols..dude..Thai Vang..you missed what the point of this story is about.
Zoo tiag li os thiaj li tsim nyog los ua ib zaug neeg rau lub ntiaj teb no ib zaug koj mog❤
I’m so thankful and blessed to have found my husband now. He’s hmong but he was raised and grew up with so many meka, he genuinely loves me differently from typical hmong mens. I totally understand where this lady is coming from. Hmong mens has no love and respect for their wife. I’m so glad this lady found her true love
Everyone's love is different! Not all men are like that.
😊 probably; pp ppo poor ppl lolpp I live lol pp PPP PPO; ppl PPO😅 PPO
You have only met Hmong boys. There are plenty of Hmong men’s who respect and love their wife unconditionally.
Plus, just because you grew up with meka doesn’t mean they will all love and respect their wife.
That could go both ways. Your ethnicity doesn’t mean you act a certain way but what influence are culture and religion. Hmong culture/religion just have a very very low care for morality/justice/righteousness.
I agree with you, Hmong men ergo are different, they think they are better than any race out there .
niai laus aw koj zaj dab neeg zoo heev li koj muaj txoj hmoo es koj dim hmoob lub neej lawm o
Yog 💯 percent
I like this story ❤
agree with you I like it too
Ntuj aw ca kv ma los mloog tau zaj no e nw yuav hai tau raug peb ua luaj li o😢😢😢
It takes a strong and smart woman to know her worth and leave that kind of man behind. Good for you for standing up for yourself and finding a real man that loves you and respects you.
Tus viv ncaus koj hais yog lawm peb cov niam tsev hmoob ces txawm yuav txawj ntse npaum twg los tsuas yog cov txiv neej hmoob tus qhev
One man’s trash is another man’s treasure! Make yourself worthy and God will lead you to the right person. 🎉
Another bedroom story 🙄. Pass. Just bragging about the mekas D.
It’s not bragging about mekas D it’s about how they treated us hmoob women better then hmoob men
She's lazy now!
Once they go BBC they never go back
😂 wear heels, offers no help nor chooses to help her own people (family), only attends to noj mov 👏 okurrr‼️
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m glad you are happy now. I used to live the life of 1st and 2nd wife too.
tug niam laus aw koj hais yog tshaj li os
I agree ❤
Muaj tseeb tshaj plaws hais txog yuav txiv hmoob.. peb cov poj niam ua nqeb xwb lov peb cov txiv twb tsis hlub.
Agree with you sister
Oob koj qhuas mr tawv dawb siab zoo thiab khoom nchav npaum ko ces peb cov maiv maum hmoob ham tsis muaj siab tag rau cov dawb lawm xwb. Peb cov txiv neej hmoob ces kawg tas!
Niam hmoob lawv tsuas cob qhia lawv tej ntxhais kom ua txiv neej qhev, ces thiaj qhia 1 phaum dhau ib phaum es poj niam hmoob thiaj tsis paub hlub lawv tus kheej.
I stopped slave away since newly married and not teaching my children that way. Son or daughter, they are do chores. I don’t ever use words like you are the girl, you do such chores or you do such chores because you are a boy.
My children, whoever available at the moment do the chores. Whoever see something dirty, clean. Whoever want to eat, cook. My now young adult daughter started dating and the boy would comes over, my husband would say to her to offer her boyfriend drinks or food. She just goes, - do you want to drink or eat? - water is there. And if we eat, she just say let’s eat. And if he wants, he come join. If he’s not, he just seat out, no pressure.
Yog kawg yuav lwm haiv neeg yeej g khwv npaum li yuav hmoob
Hais yog thiab txaus tu siab kawg li os Ua tsaug qhov koj qhia kom peb hlub peb tus kheej nawj
Uatsaug qhov koj qhia Mekas zoo qab dua Hmoob😮
How can you come on here and bash our Hmong men?? You speak for yourself only. We have great Hmong men too. I’d respect your story more if you just preach to our sisters to love themselves and find someone to love them back, but you started bashing our Hmong brothers, I’ve lost respect for you. Yes, we all can work every day to be better but that applies to all HUMANS, not just Hmong.
I believed the story until she said the part about the night day care for kids 😅😅😅
Koj yeej hais yog kawg tias peb cov poj niam hmoob yog cov khwv tshaj los tus txiv tseem tsis hlub tseem ua hluas kawg. But nyob ntawm tus xwb ib txhia txiv neej hmoob yeej hlub lawv poj niam kawg tabsi tu siab yog feem tsawg xwb.
Ua ntej koj hais Tus txiv hmoob ua li nes koj hos puas tau hlub koj Tus txiv hmoob li nws xav thiab dua li nws coj koj mus taug kev koj puas kam ntag nws mus thiab mas, nco ntsoov ua neeg nyob feem coob yog koj hlub luag lawm ces luag yeej hlub koj ib yam thiab Nco ntsoov tias peb txiv neej hmoob tsis phem txhua Tus mog cov phem yog feem tsawg xwb, hos txiv neej meskas yuav tsis zoo txhua Tus li thiab mog.
Cas zoo nkauj li nej cov txiv hmoob mes Kas cov Liam txwv coob ua luaj li os yom
Koj tau txiv mekas zoo koj siab txhob tuaj khav2 kom peb cov poj niam khiav raws koj qab tsam koj tsis tau zoo neej ua nawb hmoob muaj kab li kev cai tsis mekas kev cai kom koj paub li ntawd.
It’s only your own experience, don’t make all Hmong men look bad. Some of us Hmong men cook and clean and love our wives and don’t force our wives to do all that.
I agree...Only those Hmong Men that are still very traditional. Keep doing what you're doing.
@@ouradventuresnspecialmoments not traditional, just loser pos. Some of us hold our pride as a good husband.
Zoo hv li os
Yog txiv hmoob tsis hlub lawm es kwg nriav lwm haiv neeg yuav lawm xwb
🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️MAY VANG DO YOU LEARNED ANYTHING FROM ALL THESE STORIES YOU HAD TOLD??….🏀🏀🏀🏀🏀🏀🏀🏀🏀
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Yog tshaj li os yav tag dhau lo kuv kuj muaj ib tug txiv hmoob ma cem tau tshaj plaws li ziag no kuv mam mu yuav tau ib tug txiv neeg txawv teb chaw lawv yeej txawj hlub yu tshaj li tsi nco qab nyuaj siab tsi nco txhawj txog dab tsi lawm tiag
It's still early don't be too happy. Only time will tell. Good luck to u.
Koj hais yog lawm peb hmoob más yog ib cov ruam yog feem coob.
Peb hmoob ces nej yuav ces nej paub tsis zoo xwb tíag 😂😂😂
Yog tshaj plaws tsis tau yuav txiv meskas txhob rawm tuag nawb tsis tsim nyog yug los ua ib tug poj niam nawb
I learn how to do my dish that way too. Wash and wipe down dry right away n put them in place!! Done!!
( back in the days in high school, cooking classes)😂
Cinderella story ❤️
Tsam koj cov nyab mus yuav me kas tas lawm ces koj cov nus tsis muaj poj niam nawb
Don’t have too high of a hope for your mekas guy cause it might not last forever. Once both candies are no longer pleasing, they move on to the next 😂
Your biggest mistake was tolerating him in the beginning. Value yourself woman!!!!!
Nyob zoo nkauj hmoob tus me ntxim hlub hnub no koj hnav dawb koj zoo tau ntxim hlub ntshaj plaw li ok ok
Tsis yog koj tus txiv phem xwb es txhua tus txiv neej hmoob yuav phem tas!
Txhob thuam yus cov hmoob thiab saib tsis taus yus cov hmoob yog yus tsis nkag siab hmoob txoj kev Sib Hlub thiab Sib Pab os Poj niam hmoob.
Hmob ces kev sib hlub sib pab tsua yog kev hau dej hau cawv xwb ho cov poj niam ces khwv ua txiv neej qhev tuag ntis twb tsi muaj txiv neej hmoob yuav lo hlub lo pab li
Big d- - k always win!!!!
Another white knight story 😅 please HMONG shethers follow this shether foot 🦶 step if you want a non-Hmong happily ever after life. Goooooo queens 👸 slllllaaayyyy 💅
I’m sorry but mekas love you more and unconditionally and I have a mekas husband for 19 years and never trade him for cheating hmoob man anymore
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It just depends on the guy. My husband is Hmong, raised in a traditional Hmong house. But he loves me and loves me exactly the way I dreamed of.
Not all Hmong mam have the “Hmong men” mentality!
You're right about married to Mekas.
Meka marry easy but cheat and divorce easy 😂😂😂😂
Very true about funeral stuff, n happy for you
niam laus zoo li kuv e tsi muaj txoj hauv kev mu li o kuv lub neej lwj siab heev vim tu txiv mu ua hluas nraug heev li tso lub neej rau yus yog tus ua ib sab ua niam ib ua txiv xwb lub neej tu siab heev li o
Cov tseeg dab vaj tswv los. Dab txwg nyoog tus ntoo cuam quav dev xwb ok ok leej twg mus coj ces yog raug txim xwb ok ok
Nws yeej muaj tseeb os, lawv pheej hais tias yuav lwm haiv neeg lawv yuav tsi kawg, tab sis yuav hmoob los yeej tsi kawg ib yam thiab. Haiv neeg twg los yeej muaj tus zoo tus phem . Tab sis kuv ntseeg tias peb cov ntxhais mus yuav lwm haiv neeg yog peb hwm peb tus txiv meskas li peb hwm txiv hmoob mas lawv hlub Peb heev li os.
Great story! Glad you have a happy life . I totally agree hmong life style is different from others kind they don’t respect and don’t treat woman right.
Yeap… it’s our Hmong cultural. I call it Stone Age ways/mindset. The men Treat women like a possession… they own women, kinda thing. It’s so retarded. But, I called these selfish perverted Hmong men weak! Weak to pussies… 😂
Koj ua tsi taug niam koj thiaj pheej mloog cov niag ruam uas hai tia ua siab ntev koj ruam koj thiaj nyob lub neej ruam likos xwb
Yog ma kv yuav txiv hmoob ces ua qhev xb kv los tham tau ib tug hluas nraug nplog zoo2 lawv hlub yus kv nyiam li cas yeej txaus siab rau yam kv nyiam thb nws ua rau kv noj xb ho nws g khes txog tias neeg yg txiv neej li nws saib yus muaj nqis heev yus ces nyob2 cia li tub nkeeg lm o
Sister glad you found the one love you👏👏
I’m a Hmong men I agree with you
Koj muaj hmoo xwb os tsis yog txhua tus os mog lawv xav yuav ces yuav tsis xav yuav ces lawv kuj nrauj yus thiab os mog tsis txhob tuaj qhua2 li ko mog
Txhob txhawj koj cov nyab os...tsav tsij txhawj koj cov nus xwb yog hnub twg koj cov nyab muab koj pab niag nus ntsaws thoob khib nyiab ces tu yuav quaj niag nplaig hlauv leg yog koj pab nus ntag...tsis yog niam yau yuav lo hos yog nyab yuav coj txiv yau lo ntag nawb
But when they want to leave you, they leave you for no reason lol
Easy come easy go
I’m glad that u not my sister…..
Hahaha, Hmoob khwv khwv vim peb muaj cov coj noj coj ua coob heev ne. Hmoob tsis tseg ces tsiv ntev peb cov poj niam yuav khiav mus yuav Meskas tag lawm tiag. Cov Hmoob coj qub qub li no ib txwm ruam ces tsawg tiam los yeej tseem ruam
I agree with you that Hmong culture does need to be revised to fit our Hmong American lifestyle. However, my Hmong husband treats me the same way your white husband treats you, but in his own way, of course. I think you were just married to the wrong guy.
Agree. My Hmong husband treats me like her white husband too. She just married the wrong person.
Sister, you are very to find a good American rich man. No all of them are like yours! You got lucky!!.
First off , before I even start to comment on this story : I wanna hear the ex husband's side of the story as well. To me , her side of the story sounds more like she cheated on her husband with the mekas guy. Ain't no woman would go to some strangers house on there first meeting. She's just making her story look so good. You said the mekas guy is so nice , why did his ex wife left him. He wants to keep you around, wait until he finds someone else. He'll surprised you by kicking you out to the streets and you'll realize that your living in a fantasy. Better enjoy your moment because the thunderstorms coming. PLEASE, keep me updated when he done with you!!!!
As opposed to bringing home another wife rightttt? When a Hmoob guy F up, there’s always a “second side to the story” 🙄🙄🙄
Gurlmong , there's 3 sides to a story. Her ex side , her side and the truth.
Um, she divorced her husband.... before she got with the meka husband. But the Hmong man she was dating, is the one that she was cheating on with, the meka guy.
Her husband was the one that was cheated on her throughout the marriage and he married a second wife.
Listening is very critical.
Zoo tshaj li os.
I don’t agree with the feet part, I work really hard but I take care of my feet, it’s always smooth and painted. It’s really up to the person to take care of themselves.
She's biased because she's sharing her own experiences. She states alot of false claims about Hmong or Hmong men. She's saying that she's better because she's married to a white guy.
🤣 got me checking out my crusty feet too!
@@ouradventuresnspecialmoments lol, buy one of those smoothing rocks, every time you take a shower, just smooth out your feet. Put lotion on after and your feet will be smooth. You don’t have to spend money in pedicures.
I think you shouldn’t compare white men to Hmong men. You just married to the wrong person that all.
because of her bad experience with Hmong man she is comparing from a bad of an experience to a new and fresh experience with her white man.
Researches show that people who married within their community are more happy and last longer than with other different community.
Maybe you are lucky to find a good husband..and you know how to adapt but not everyone can do what you did.
No need to criticize your hmong community so much. I believe a lot hmong men are better than you thought but you don’t understand how hmong people are just helping each other when their have an event or working at the funeral.
Wait until the end before advertising so much your husband meska!
Lol this isn't a hmong/meka guy issue. This woman finally learned to love herself. Her issue was that she didn't love herself when she was married to her ex. She let her ex take advantage of her. Then she moved on and realized what she wanted in life. But woman, just because you're married to a meka guy doesn't mean you should stop helping out at gatherings.😂😂
She has some good points and it’s true Hmong don’t value their women.
Yog tshaj plaws! Ua hmoob poj niam yeej khwv dua os. Ua neeb, muaj ploj muaj tuag los yog poj niam ua mov xwb nawb
Well, this story makes me want to marry a Mekas if I was a woman
Cas nej yuav nrhiav tau hluas nraug los Yog txiv yooj yim ua luaj li
So happy you have found love❤
Just don’t get old and have a plan B.
Mis Kas ha hlub las. Cov tsi hlub ces yog moob ntaag mas
I am Hmong guy in my early 50's not all Hmong men are 1975. I was raised here in America at 5 year old. It depends on who you date or married to. Race are not important it's the person in the race that are important. There's good and bad men and women in every race.
Tus ntxhais aws yog luag yuav ib tug lawm ces txhob yuav lawm thiaj tsis mob siab mog.
niam nruab teem kuv yos ib ntxhais nyab laj kuv nyiam koj cov dab neeg txhuA zaj li
Moral of the story again, don’t listen your parents and relatives when you’re relationship is not working out. Make your own decision to leave or stay. Don’t listen to anyone else’s opinion especially old Hmong timers!
The broadcaster is Niam Ntsuab Teev. The story provided by an individual, no proof of a fiction or nonfiction story and who is that Hmong woman?. Anyway, Niam Ntsuab Teev's husband is a Hmong person. We do have good and bad people in any nationalities or ethnic groups. Some Hmong people, we sometimes do not know or understand the Hmong culture including the roles of Hmong men and women that lead us to look down on our own Hmong people. This story is about the Hmong woman, her ex-husband and her white husband. It had nothing to do with all the Hmong people. It's not just wrong to label Hmong men as bad people, but the broadcaster may be culturally and legally liable for the broadcasting of the story contains bias or discrimination. We have many good Hmong men and women. This kind of story is bad for the Hmong people.