I totally relate with Lornzie. When I was younger I had a sort of fairy tale view of love and relationships, but experience kinda just changed me. I struggle with the "we" thing too! I think and kinda operate as an individual and I think my partner struggles with it. Please pass these lessons Jules. Love this episode!!!
Jules ...You are a gorgeous, vibrant, intelligent woman who would get so much appreciation from a guy who's ready. As a mature woman who's traveled widely, I meet really good guys who think your kind of look is everything...so, what I'm trying to say is, maybe the Nairobi pool is too limited...spread your wings, date internationally...you never know where your person could be located. Good luck!
I saw this tweet where a guy was telling men not to open up to their mamas coz that vulnerable moment will be brought up in an argument and it will hurt a thousand times more....felt so sad
@@kendih362 lol,yes I know mama is a girl. I am just wondering why a girl would use a man's vulnerable moment during an argument??...It just sounds so unkind 😥😥😥
Me na Jules pamoja...if he is HOT FIRE,me i will just pretend like my mind is in jupiter hata sionangi...yaani i CANNOT,where will i get the strength,no please
Loved this sesh. Jules I felt that personality shaming things. Homeboy came for my out outspokenness, short hair, chill, and stuff. Some people can't handle you to be honest.
yes please it would be amazing to have a professional tell us the problems men have that they cant speak of to us..good idea Jules❤️ and i love you girls💖💖
I agree with Shikie on communicating when out or even when you change locations. What if smth happens to you and you told me uko Lang'ata and now uko Naivasha., if smth happens to you nitajuaje uko Naivasha????
Ako Julez... I feel you on that personality shaming... And mine is that one of being loud too... It really makes my pants catch on fire... Yaaaaani Then addin insult to injury, pple always assume they know you because of such traits...
Personality shaming is real! People feeling the need to tell you "you're noisy! You're too loud, you're too assertive!" nkt! Get out of here! I feel you Julia...
I just bumped into this channel and you guys have really nice content. I watched one video and now am trying to watch all of them. Much love from the +256
Me to mans : so you can be alive and not check up on me? Then he tries to ask how I'm doing and I be like..this is my call boo,if you want to know how I am feeling, call to ask ..then I proceed with my agenda....lool.
Jules you are saying no one is perfect in a relationship. Okay, I concede that point but from where I'm sitting, today Lorna is looking perfectly fine to me. 😉
I love this.... Its opening my eyes coz honestly am learning that i have been giving guys chances they dont deserve..Thank you for this... I hope one day I'll enjoy this relationship thing
Mimi napenda tu we called when we wanted to talk, if she missed me she called, if I missed her I called, there was no protocol from the start, granted tulikuwa maboys for a couple of years before dating, this wife tumetoka mbali na bado hehehehe hizi njaro za kuangalia we are all using the same tactics, ubaya you women are too smart not to notice 😂😂😂😂.
You see, my girlfriend tells me when I look, "umependezwa na hiyo matako? Ifuate." And I am like, I am a man of science and I am impressed by brains not vitimba." Now naitangwa man of science. We make fun out of it.
Another thing is: don't use something your partner told you about his/her past breakup to get at him/her during an argument... Like "now I even understand why your ex John used to abuse you" or "that thing you told me your ex complained a lot about, now I get it" ....... It cuts so deep to have something so hurtful you told someone in a moment of vulnerability used against you. It amounts to hitting below the belt
On the first date issue, I’m always about the man paying I don’t even do the curtesy reaching for my wallet, however if the date didn’t go well I may pay or ask for a split bill, and that’s cause I don’t want any expectation.
Damn!!! I did not know Derrick is your brother? What a small world. He's a pal of mine from Bapo. I love dating and relationships advice it very relatable.
Allow me to changia hapo pa in-laws. It is your responsibility and NO ONE else's to protect your partner from your family members. PERIOD. Prayers wachia Pastor Ng'ang'a.
This was a great video. Lakini you could have made it to a podcast if it was 30 minutes. It gives space to stretch the convos more. Come see in kando kando tuongee 😃
Jules spoke of Personality shaming, but I think another unspoken rule should be that of Body-shaming. e.g if she's got some weight don't say that you wish she were skinny. If your guy got a belly don't say to his face that you like guys who have toned muscles and abs more.
I love this! I feel so educated and affirmed. Am watching this with paper and pen. I just like how raw and honest all this is. This is real life!!!Amazing. Also Jules....You are my twin!
from my understanding, if family is being a problem to beloved, id talk to them without saying it out loud with beloved present. the actions after will show if the take my wishes seriously. if she's present when i address it, it will make matters worse coz the family may double down. may be wrong, my take all the same
I am cooking while watching this episode but guuuuys I had to put everything on halt just to come and comment after hearing Jullz statement of personality shaming 😂😂 I swear am loud as well and there isn't any good conversation coming from us if you are going to try use that against me or just trying to hint I should shut up 😂😂abeeeeeeg. How now?!
Okay, I tried to not comment but I had to. I'm from South Africa and I've watched damn near every episode and I can't, for the life of me, stop watching because of Julia. I love the topics too though....but Jules just makes the show for me. And the Over 25 merch looks awesome, can we purchase some over here?
Jules energy is such a vibe!
Fr fr
How Does Lorna Keep Getting Hotter EVERY SINGLE YEAR.
This channel has never been boring ❤️
The personality shaming is the deal breaker for me too.
Loved this episode 💛😊
I totally relate with Lornzie. When I was younger I had a sort of fairy tale view of love and relationships, but experience kinda just changed me. I struggle with the "we" thing too! I think and kinda operate as an individual and I think my partner struggles with it. Please pass these lessons Jules. Love this episode!!!
I was surprised about this as Lorna grew up as one half of a set of twins. 🤔
Renato Awuor me too! Am married and it’s a real struggle! I don’t even consider his money as mine! It’s that bad for me
kijana 192030 actually triplets...
Jules ...You are a gorgeous, vibrant, intelligent woman who would get so much appreciation from a guy who's ready. As a mature woman who's traveled widely, I meet really good guys who think your kind of look is everything...so, what I'm trying to say is, maybe the Nairobi pool is too limited...spread your wings, date internationally...you never know where your person could be located. Good luck!
I totally agree!
👌🏾💯
@@lmuchemi14 love ur style
true,totally agree
A shot for every time "yeaaaaah" is said. I've blacked out. Lol
Hahaha
I saw this tweet where a guy was telling men not to open up to their mamas coz that vulnerable moment will be brought up in an argument and it will hurt a thousand times more....felt so sad
This is true
Woiyee...but why would a mama do that?
@@kristenmukami3185 mama as in girl lol not their mother
@@kendih362 lol,yes I know mama is a girl.
I am just wondering why a girl would use a man's vulnerable moment during an argument??...It just sounds so unkind 😥😥😥
Right?😭😭😭
hey ladies, here is a video suggestion... 'How babes can/should initiate Lungula" subtle hints
oh yeah💖🤗🤗
Can we please! I agree 100%
Totally agree
It's the 21st century already. Be bold. Subtle gets you nowhere.
is it so hard to just be direct about it
Lornzie you look really cute
Me na Jules pamoja...if he is HOT FIRE,me i will just pretend like my mind is in jupiter hata sionangi...yaani i CANNOT,where will i get the strength,no please
Hahahahaha to finish off in the bathroom. Quarantine binge 🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾
Loved this sesh. Jules I felt that personality shaming things. Homeboy came for my out outspokenness, short hair, chill, and stuff. Some people can't handle you to be honest.
yes please it would be amazing to have a professional tell us the problems men have that they cant speak of to us..good idea Jules❤️ and i love you girls💖💖
It would truly be nice. My ex suffered from ED and he truly struggled.
i can want ti volunteer on this hahaha
I didn't hear a word you guys were saying coz the whole time I was highly distracted by Lornzie 😍😍😍
I thought I was the only one!!🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰🥰
Lol, me too she gorgeous 😍
Samee
Me too😭😍😍
Me and jules are just the same person am here like. Same! Same!😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree with Shikie on communicating when out or even when you change locations. What if smth happens to you and you told me uko Lang'ata and now uko Naivasha., if smth happens to you nitajuaje uko Naivasha????
Shiks is shocked that she might initiate and the guy does not want it.
Wow, Mr. Shiv I see you. 😎 My man.👊
Julia 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i just love her! Your personality is everythang 👏🏽
Ako Julez... I feel you on that personality shaming... And mine is that one of being loud too... It really makes my pants catch on fire... Yaaaaani
Then addin insult to injury, pple always assume they know you because of such traits...
Now I understand why you guys are loved n my friends are obsessed with you. From today henceforth you got one new subscriber.
I need those warm smiles every time that the daylight saving prolongs this horrible winter chills. One love ❤️!
Personality shaming is real! People feeling the need to tell you "you're noisy! You're too loud, you're too assertive!" nkt! Get out of here! I feel you Julia...
I just bumped into this channel and you guys have really nice content. I watched one video and now am trying to watch all of them.
Much love from the +256
Me to mans : so you can be alive and not check up on me? Then he tries to ask how I'm doing and I be like..this is my call boo,if you want to know how I am feeling, call to ask ..then I proceed with my agenda....lool.
😂😂 what???
So meeee
😂😂😂😂pettyy!!!
Soooo meeeee. Then he hangs up and calls me.
Meeeee
Jules you are saying no one is perfect in a relationship. Okay, I concede that point but from where I'm sitting, today Lorna is looking perfectly fine to me. 😉
We concur
That clip about how to look secretly! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lornzie i love your look here ,simple but catchy 😍
I love this.... Its opening my eyes coz honestly am learning that i have been giving guys chances they dont deserve..Thank you for this...
I hope one day I'll enjoy this relationship thing
In my proud opinion, don't be that insecure about your partner looking at a guy or a girl. Eye candy is everywhere.
its not insecurity... its just looks disrespectful sometimes.. esp when they look for too long
Charming Queen very true! It’s all about respect. Do it if you have to, but not in my presence!
Heeeey. Looking lovely ladiees 😊.
Juleeess....I love your energy and vibe and the extranesss(💯😂)...yaani! Bless.💫
Great job😊
Mimi napenda tu we called when we wanted to talk, if she missed me she called, if I missed her I called, there was no protocol from the start, granted tulikuwa maboys for a couple of years before dating, this wife tumetoka mbali na bado hehehehe hizi njaro za kuangalia we are all using the same tactics, ubaya you women are too smart not to notice 😂😂😂😂.
This is sweet.. Friendship definitely makes the relationship stronger and more mature👌
@@dianamichael2130 mature with an extra dose of fun and stupidity hehehehe, date a friend, it makes life a lot easier.
16:29 Hillarious 😂😂😂😂. Julia could play Goofy anytime with what she did with her eyes
You see, my girlfriend tells me when I look, "umependezwa na hiyo matako? Ifuate." And I am like, I am a man of science and I am impressed by brains not vitimba." Now naitangwa man of science. We make fun out of it.
😂😂Man of science
😂imagine I adressed that first issue jana with my man..heeeh. this guy he looks too long.looking isn't bad I also look lakini kuna ingine🤨
Another thing is: don't use something your partner told you about his/her past breakup to get at him/her during an argument... Like "now I even understand why your ex John used to abuse you" or "that thing you told me your ex complained a lot about, now I get it" ....... It cuts so deep to have something so hurtful you told someone in a moment of vulnerability used against you. It amounts to hitting below the belt
Ken preeeeeeeeach! 🙌🏽
On the first date issue, I’m always about the man paying I don’t even do the curtesy reaching for my wallet, however if the date didn’t go well I may pay or ask for a split bill, and that’s cause I don’t want any expectation.
Jules kwa ground vitu ni DIFFERENT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.....LOVE U GUYS and your content ❤
Damn!!! I did not know Derrick is your brother? What a small world. He's a pal of mine from Bapo. I love dating and relationships advice it very relatable.
I could rewatch all week, Julia you give me life ...... and it’s awesome how you guys compliment each other
Allow me to changia hapo pa in-laws. It is your responsibility and NO ONE else's to protect your partner from your family members. PERIOD.
Prayers wachia Pastor Ng'ang'a.
Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Jules and I same wozzap; look in the direction the person is walking that way you can eat up all the gorgeousness 🤣
Just discovered this channel and now I'm hooked 😝
Welcome aboard Samantha!
This was a great video. Lakini you could have made it to a podcast if it was 30 minutes. It gives space to stretch the convos more. Come see in kando kando tuongee 😃
Good idea
Got to work… and what is the first thing I watch using the office wifi… over 25
Meeee tooooooo
Hey gals..Shikie which hair is that?it looks good
🔥🔥🔥
Ladies looked faaayiiiin🥴
I love you gals unconditionally. This is a chanel i vibe with kabisaaaa. Much love.
Great way to start the week
Way to start my week😘😘😘almost forgot it's a monday
No Monday Blues with you guys💖
Truuuuu
Jules spoke of Personality shaming, but I think another unspoken rule should be that of Body-shaming.
e.g if she's got some weight don't say that you wish she were skinny. If your guy got a belly don't say to his face that you like guys who have toned muscles and abs more.
Jules you're 100% my spirit animal..such a vibe!🥰. Your bro is👌😜.
Well done queens please upload more often.
U guyyyysss I missed u.please post every week
What camera are you guys using coz damn 😍
Canon G7 X mark 2
Love you guys....super entertaining never miss an episode
About paying dates...I think the men should still pay even on the second date🙂
Why stop at 2?
The man should pay,ALWAYS
@@kijana2030 exactly
He should always pay.. Unless I decide to spoil him on his birthday
I am obsessed with Julia...
I love you guys so much...this video is really helpful
I love you guys!! 100k subbies by the end of the year1🤞🤞😊😊
Jules is such a vibe!
Lornzie, that Over25 tatt is 🔥
I really enjoyed this video 🤩
Loved this episode!!
I love this! I feel so educated and affirmed. Am watching this with paper and pen. I just like how raw and honest all this is. This is real life!!!Amazing. Also Jules....You are my twin!
from my understanding, if family is being a problem to beloved, id talk to them without saying it out loud with beloved present. the actions after will show if the take my wishes seriously. if she's present when i address it, it will make matters worse coz the family may double down. may be wrong, my take all the same
I am cooking while watching this episode but guuuuys I had to put everything on halt just to come and comment after hearing Jullz statement of personality shaming 😂😂 I swear am loud as well and there isn't any good conversation coming from us if you are going to try use that against me or just trying to hint I should shut up 😂😂abeeeeeeg. How now?!
Aaaiiii I was born that way oooh. I can't help it 😂😂😂😂😂 big up Jullz. You won my heart
That part ya initiation then ukataliwa hurts😀yooooo nitapata feelings haki😂plus the communication thing really matters in a relationship
Lornzie shame on you, all this sexiness, all this hotness. What have we done to deserve all this beauty you are serving us?🥰🥰🥰
i need such a brother. my brother drains my pockets woi!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jules nakutafuta till nimesubscribe. Anyway great conversation.
I really like how y’all are not homophobic 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Lornzie at the end looked at her beer like: where'd my drink go?
Shikie which shoes did you match with your outfit? 😊
I loved this episode more.. your experiences felt real
Why can't we download the video??
hey girls..you guys are such an inspiration..me and two of my other friends in camps want to start a channel too..your blessings please
@misstiramisu where do we get the over 25 merchandise the teee is a bombb
Its 1am and am here laughing my ass like crazy. I just love you guys.
I haven't watched in a while, still great content!!! But wait, Lorna isn't single anymore? She was my WCW 😱
Personality shaming point 👏👏
still not over 100k views?? cmon people.they deserve that youtube silver play button
Why are you doing this😭😭I have a class right now😭I’m here for it anyway😂❤️
Guess who just missed her class because she also sat in her towel watching these girlies😂
😂😂😂I just opened my books to feel better as i watch
@@elsiemuliebi3592 life😂😂
@@dr.ohuruc.1511 me too giiirl
You ladies are just the best ❤
Yes over 25 please get a proff to talk about those problems. We also need to know so that we know how to tackle them .
Warembo! Ya’ll hit the nail on the head with all your points. Mad love❤️🙌🏾#ALMOSTOVER25😜
rewatching this and I just realized Julia said it's related I promise flash forward to her podcast that has the same names what are the odds 😂😂😍❤
Jules is literally my alter ego 😍😍
😂😂😂weh...bae wa Jules itabidi amezoea
Jules is such a vibe
Julia amekasirika 😂😂😂. I feel you babe. Personality shaming is a no no!!!
Thanks for sharing xx, blessings everyone ❤
Waaah, I have learnt so much. Kwanza the swearing one haki I didn’t know. Thank you for teaching me
New Subie..loving you guys
Okay, I tried to not comment but I had to. I'm from South Africa and I've watched damn near every episode and I can't, for the life of me, stop watching because of Julia. I love the topics too though....but Jules just makes the show for me. And the Over 25 merch looks awesome, can we purchase some over here?
Your best episode yet
Waaaahhhh.... Jules that turning before hand...pregame😂😂😂😂
Haha. Derro 👋🏽 Campus drinks up were always fun when he was around. Lol
distracted by how good you three look today
But i relate so much with you Jules!!
mko wapi warembo