CNA | The Family Affair S2 | E02: Being Dad and Mum
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- Опубликовано: 9 июн 2019
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FROM THE ARCHIVE: This programme first aired on TV in 2017.
With no guidebookto turn to, how do mums and dads face their parenting trials and tribulations? An emergency incident, a "complaint diary", and a family lunch shake up the households.
In the new season of The Family Affair, four families across Asia open their doors to viewers as they embark on new beginnings in their marriage or business.
Ritonga Family, Indonesia
Yip Family, Singapore
Li Family, China
Misra Family, India
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The Indian mom should support her husband. The kid needs rules and discipline or he will become such a spoiled brat. Parenting includes saying no and correcting your child's bad behaviour. She wants him to become her kid's father but does not allow him to act like one.
I agree. She just wanted a husband and she got one, seeing that marying a divorced woman is taboo in most Indian culture. He seems to be in an ok financial position, and she wants security for her son and herself. I felt as though she was repremanding him ( the husband) all the time. The kid needs a firm hand and disciplining. Too much bloodly pampering. At 5 years he behaves as an adult, and that came about due to his mother and her mother's pampering! Geez, talk about dysfunctional.
He's already a spoilt brat
"I notice that Za Za has been spoiling her..." Eh hello, you want to be a parent while disciplining your kid? Then stay home and do it. Otherwise don't question how your helper is dealing with the little monster. Even you admit to running away from her screaming tantrums because you 'need a break'.
Correct to a certain extend but Za za is your helper she : and she might not know how to : Discipline your child
Exactly.she doesn’t do any better when it comes to family matters and focuses more on work.I understand work is important but she doesn’t rlly spend time with her children and even ran and passive aggressively told her daughter to keep crying. The father seems more supportive and considerate of his children than the wife.
The helper is still an outsider... YEAH!!! OUTSIDER WHO COOKS FOODS AND SERVES YOU. IF SHES NOT GOOD ACADEMICALLY THEN YOU SHOULD QUIT YOUR JOB SO YOU CAN TAKE CARE "YOUR HOME"
Seriously, this kid will be on track within a day if his mother understand parenting
the maid is me LOL she looks soooo done with the kids
No wonder the Indian kid is such a demanding and spoilt brat, all thanks to his mom and Grandmother who said their lives revolve around him since the day he was born. If the adults let kids take centre stage in everything and cater to their every whim and fancy, they will grow up as selfish, obnoxious and detestable adults. When a kid misbehaves, it says a lot about his parents and their parenting skills. Children are a total reflection of the kind of parents they have. Instilling right values and good character building have to start from young and it's only possible with good parenting skills.
The mom complaining about the helper... The kid doesn't respect the helper, how can she be firm with the kid? She doesn't have the same authority as the parent, they didn't gave it to her, so ...
The kid does not know the helper is actually her superior so she really treats her as a personal butler
a tip for indian mom, call your husband papa in front on you kid.
that will help a lot and he will also call him papa.
A much better tip, just punish him every time he does not call him papa. Problem solved. Eventually he will do it.
These Singaporean family looks down on Zaza
Sadly yes. They should giver her the authority to discipline the children. Then they would not missbehave that much and trow that mant tantrums. Also they do not understand that the child will love the helper more than the parents because the helper has no choice but to let her do everything she wants and give her everything she wants as well.
Oh my lord... if my kid behaves the way Raghav did at 5:56.... boy would my kid be in so much trouble for hitting...... Raghav is so damn spoilt...
Seriously. He should spend the entire day facing the wall writing A-Z x100.
@Crim Sin All of them are Asians. That's the title of the documentary.
I love how the grandma was giggling and so happy that she has a boyfriend, but my concern was the indian kid. He was too spoiled, and the chinese girl, her mom seemed to have all these BIG plans for her daughter, but what does her daughter want. And very little was mentioned about the son, it was like he didn't exist.
I think it's obvious that when the kid is in pain she wants to be with someone she is close to- the helper!
After these kids I need to go sit in a dark quiet room with a bottle of brandy!!!..I might also need counselling 🤣😂😂😂🤣
This is what a lack of discipline will do. Maybe those parents are so afraid of disciplining those children because they think their children then will not love them anymore.
Idk why whenever the Indian family part, I'll skipped it. The boy's attitude.. My goodness.): He's super rude.
Me too!!!!!😡
Grandmothers can spoil grandchildren but dad and mom must be the bad COPS or that child will grow up to be a dangerous selfish adult!!!
This Silas guy is really selfish. He only wants his mum to move in with them to take care of his kids, not really for his mum's health to recuperate and have a helper to take care of her in his house. I cannot believe it!!!
He only has a job because of his wife. Nepotism is truly alive and well in Singapore.
spare the rod, spoil the child 🤷🏻♀️
"we need a family like my mom to take care of my erratic children" bruh let ur mother live!
Season 1 Family Affair
Me : I want to have a child!
Season 2 Family Affair
Me : Um, never mind. I should've known better.
My God, if that was my kid, he bloody well wouldn't be able to sit down for a week!!
Love your channel!
This Singaporean wife is so hypocrite as hell.
Most of the people say that the singaporean child is very spoilt or the parents is doing a very bad job, Singaporean’s are spoilt...It depends on the parent’s teaching methods like that kid Vicky she is spoilt because the parents do no give their fullest attention to her unless she do something wrong because she is an attention seeker, and if she does not get her attention...she will get the attention by the hard way which means, whining, throwing tantrums and also disobeying...personally I think that she needs to have a fair share of attention too! If the parents keeps on being busy working...and rely on ZaZa(the helper) Vicky will take advantage because she can do whatever she wants which is like a dream to her. She can whine, throw tantrums and no get scolded because she feels like the queen when ZaZa is around so if you give a child no attention and on the other hand lots of attention it will backfire like what happened to the singaporean family and also the part when Vicky said “I DON’T WANT YOU! I DON’T WANT YOU DADDY!” She said that because she feels that the father will not give her anything she wants unlike ZaZa will and her mindset is if I yell and cry I will get what I want because that happened with ZaZa she cries and ZaZa gives out of fear that she will lose her job. My personal thoughts is that the Indian family’s child is the most spoilt or the most rude because he not only is yelling at the parents and elders when he already has a sense of logic that you should not do that to your elders he will hit someone out of stress and if you are not close with someone like your step-father just accept the fact that you actually told your mom you are ok that you mom is marrying again! You also can tell that he (Step-father)is trying his very best just to make that child closer to him which I think it is great and they should not get a child added to that family because his temper will come back again after you try your very best to let him get closer with you. And if he is sooo close with the mother, I think that the mother should spent time to go outside or even just go on a family date and bond together so the whole family can get closer! 😁😁😁 Sorry if it is too Long your you to read but please like if you made it here!
The Indian grandmother doesn’t like her new son in law and blame her daughter for her choice and at the same time, she find the opportunity to blame the kid’s poor behaviour one the poor son in law.
Well, he was enough in love to overlook the daughter previous marriage and the kid but looks like grandma can’t see that.
That Indian mother is not even scolding her child.
Indian kid misses his biological dad.
Wife and husband must have the same stance on discipline for kids whether they agree or not. They can talk later when kids are not around.
OMG the indian kid is freaking spoilt
That boy ruined the entire season.
GIRLYS STOMACH RLLY NEUTRALISED LMAO
I don’t think it’s the case of your housekeeper is spoiling your child I think it’s the case of your child is not listening and following instructions from your housekeeper therefore to get the stuff done that you require her to get done she is just doing it herself rather than putting up with the child having a fit or not doing what she should be doing.
It’s not your mothers responsibility to move into your home so that she can raise your child and clean your home she did that already she raised you!
The fact that these women allow this little boy to hit them, shouted them, disrespects them with his vocabulary is utterly ridiculous!!!!! You do not correct this problem immediately you are going to have a big problem on your hands when he becomes older and stronger! 😱😱😱😱🤔🤔🙏🙏🙏!
Does this elder understand that her older son does not have a shut-off valve in his reproductive system? Why was she so relieved that he inherited a ready-made family? Poor Vikrant. Smh
It's very uncommon for Indian men to marry single mother.
TBH that Singapore grandma doesn't have the aptitude to take care of kids.
27:45 I feel so sorry for Grandpa Yap. 😂. 29:35 it’s ironic what Lavanika says specifically when she does not regulate Raghav’s behaviour 🤦♀️.
What happened to the Indonesian family?
Does that Indian father ever leave that bed?
Both parent working..
hire helper help them..
don haf time take care..
work long hrs
The China girl is so sweet
Zeez I hope I dont kill my kid if he/she is that annoying
Luckily i have no kids and do not want any. Kids are very spoilt waaaaaay too much
If u want food, then cook your own gawd damm food and not depend on your helper. I get she's your helper, but quit complaining about food when you yourselves are more than capable. Singaporeans really need to respect helpers. And yeah I'm singaporean 😂
space..space..when im visit spore..
(spore synonim with materialism)
Sorry but I think it’s very unfair to blame your mother/ grandmother… Way your child is your child is out of control because you have not taken the upper hand as the parent and taught them respect taught them how to communicate when they were upset rather than going under a table and screaming and crying… It is not your mothers fault that your child is the way she is because of how in frequently she can travel to spend time with that child she is old she is quite a distance away that is very unfair of you
I feel sorry for the Indian guy. Certainly he could do better.
The indian family is not middle class at all. Believe me im an indian
Upper middle class?