I watch a lot of RUclips videos but I generally only subscribe around every 6 months. What you're doing is saving the world. I'll be listening. Thank you.
I found your video accidentally, and I'm so glad I did! Well, there are no accidents. ;) Your content is on point and articulated beautifully. I'll be sharing with my clients. Thank you!
Your wisdom to act, think, and choose from your big picture is so illuminating. This makes and would have made all the difference for how I showed up in my relationship. I just can’t understand (here comes the tears) why I found you *after I sabotaged my relationship. 😢 But I am glad I’ve found you.❤
Your short insightful and down to earth encouraging videos are worth so much more than alot of the complaining "drama" that goes around. It really comes down to how we manage ourselves and our needs so we may sincerely connect with others and their needs. Intentions are key.
really really enjoy your content! Just discovered it like 10 min ago and subscribed immediately. Like the straight forward approach without big talks around it. Thank you :)
Hi Mika, I’ve noticed you saying we all have natural attachment needs which assuming this means working towards the secure attachment. My question is what does it mean to become detached as many podcasts and some people suggest? Thanks, Grant
Aloha Dr Maika. Love your name and I think you’re beautiful 💜 I am so grateful I came across your channel(algorithms🤓)… I absolutely appreciate your content and how you articulate such important points in this area. You have helped me see where MY work is and how to approach it all. So thank you. Blessings to you🙏🏾🤲🏾and what you share here💜🌺
Disagreeing in an attachment-friendly way means to make sure it remains clear that the disagreement lies solely on the level of the issue that's causing the disagreement and not on the level of the relationship bond /attachment. It means making sure no one thinks they're being rejected as a whole person or that they're not loved. I'll be talking about creating an attachment-friendly atmosphere in a relationship soon (next couple of weeks). Here are two videos that explain attachment-friendly conflict resolution: How To Settle Disagreement Gently Instead Of Shouting Matches Or Angry Sulking | Conflict Resolution ruclips.net/video/PLM4uXOzXGU/видео.html 5 Steps To Processing Emotional Injury In Relationships ruclips.net/video/gk9oLVaVFTc/видео.html
Dear Dr. Maika, I struggle with a Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I struggle to cope with my anxious feelings. What would you advise me to do in order to better cope with my anxiety?
Hi! I recommend seeing a therapist and/or working through this workbook: www.newharbinger.com/9781626251519/the-generalized-anxiety-disorder-workbook/ All the best 🌱✨
I watch a lot of RUclips videos but I generally only subscribe around every 6 months. What you're doing is saving the world. I'll be listening. Thank you.
I‘m glad my content resonates with you - welcome to the channel!
Thank you for this video! Loving your channel
You are underrated, meine Teure.
Thanks for all the insights, hints and the calm, positive and assertive tone.
Thank you ☺️🙏🏻❤️
I found your video accidentally, and I'm so glad I did! Well, there are no accidents. ;) Your content is on point and articulated beautifully. I'll be sharing with my clients. Thank you!
Your wisdom to act, think, and choose from your big picture is so illuminating. This makes and would have made all the difference for how I showed up in my relationship. I just can’t understand (here comes the tears) why I found you *after I sabotaged my relationship. 😢 But I am glad I’ve found you.❤
Welcome to the channel ❤️
Your channel is going to blow up, mark my words. At the time of this comment your sub count was 34.2k and I predict well over 200k by the end of 2025.
Thank you ☺️🙏🏻 - I hope you’re right 😀
You are such a gift!!! Thank you for sharing So Much wisdom and insight🥰🙌💛
Your short insightful and down to earth encouraging videos are worth so much more than alot of the complaining "drama" that goes around.
It really comes down to how we manage ourselves and our needs so we may sincerely connect with others and their needs.
Intentions are key.
Thank you 🙂 🙏
really really enjoy your content! Just discovered it like 10 min ago and subscribed immediately. Like the straight forward approach without big talks around it. Thank you :)
Thankyou for your sensitivity in speech ❤
I’ve needed these videos for years!
Great breakdown! Thank you!
Thank you so much!
Hi Mika, I’ve noticed you saying we all have natural attachment needs which assuming this means working towards the secure attachment.
My question is what does it mean to become detached as many podcasts and some people suggest?
Thanks,
Grant
As I understand it the common phrase “becoming detached” means to work towards secure attachment.
Aloha Dr Maika. Love your name and I think you’re beautiful 💜
I am so grateful I came across your channel(algorithms🤓)…
I absolutely appreciate your content and how you articulate such important points in this area.
You have helped me see where MY work is and how to approach it all.
So thank you. Blessings to you🙏🏾🤲🏾and what you share here💜🌺
Welcome here ☀️🙋♀️☺️ I’m glad my content resonates with you!
Really difficult subject! Thanks a lot dear Maika!
Can you elaborate on how to disagree in an attachment-friendly way?
Disagreeing in an attachment-friendly way means to make sure it remains clear that the disagreement lies solely on the level of the issue that's causing the disagreement and not on the level of the relationship bond /attachment. It means making sure no one thinks they're being rejected as a whole person or that they're not loved. I'll be talking about creating an attachment-friendly atmosphere in a relationship soon (next couple of weeks). Here are two videos that explain attachment-friendly conflict resolution:
How To Settle Disagreement Gently Instead Of Shouting Matches Or Angry Sulking | Conflict Resolution
ruclips.net/video/PLM4uXOzXGU/видео.html
5 Steps To Processing Emotional Injury In Relationships
ruclips.net/video/gk9oLVaVFTc/видео.html
@@DrMaikaSteinborn That makes a lot of sense. Thank you for the elaboration and links! Looking forward to that upcoming video too.
Dear Dr. Maika, I struggle with a Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I struggle to cope with my anxious feelings. What would you advise me to do in order to better cope with my anxiety?
Hi! I recommend seeing a therapist and/or working through this workbook: www.newharbinger.com/9781626251519/the-generalized-anxiety-disorder-workbook/ All the best 🌱✨
@@DrMaikaSteinborn Thank you for your advice! 😊
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Quite the irony since, interdependence doesn’t work with a narcissistic partner and yet emotional maturity is to narcissists like garlic to a vampire