Lisa, this Bible study was one of the best, although all of your Bible studies are great. I have a tendency to personalize just as you said today. If someone has to change plans on me I take it that they really don't want to be with me. The Pre-decide theory is awesome. Love that. I read the book,. and there is so much in there. I have resentment from a previous relationship who stepped out on our marriage, told me I want good enough, but now am happily married to a wonderful man who appreciates me for who I am.
This Study has been great for my daily living, specially in my Workplace, this last Video was the best closure...I'm more than thankful. God bless Lysa TerKeurst and P31 staff!!!
This has been the best practical application of any OBS I've done. Thank you for your transparency & genuine honesty throughout. Godly wisdom & truth brings beauty to an ugly, messy process
I'm sad to see this Bible study come to an end, but tbh, it's been one of the most difficult study to go through, because forgiveness is a difficult subject to discuss.....and especially difficult to live out in our everyday lives. But Lysa, thank you for sharing your story with us and letting us know that forgiveness is a healing choice we are giving to ourselves
WOW - this was such a pertinent lesson for me as I struggle with the exact same thing: personalizing how people treat me and telling myself wound-confirming stories about those things. 'Trust but verify' is a great motto to start operating under!
Thanks Lysa for helping us embark upon a much needed journey on forgiveness ❤️ I hope you will keep posting videos on inner and emotional healing in the days to come in ‘therapy and theology’ to help us stay connected. Praise God🙌🏻
This was wonderful. I read your book over the summer after a devastating betrayal by a sibling and to understand it’s a process that can take time has made forgiving this person much easier. Thank you Lysa
Takeaways: Manage your responses to offenses. Pre-decide to forgive the offense, not personalize the offense. Our part is to manage the misperception we create by pulling past pain into the present reality. We can trust others by verification. Then pre-decide the person is coming from a broken place. Don't give others control over our moods. Don't be emotionally devastated by the small stuff that happens in life. When you know the truth and live the truth, it changes everything.
Truthfully I couldn't still afford the book. I'm incredibly sorry.. The Bible studies I tend to forget and they become buried in my busyness and so I may have to cut back on these sadly. I am overwhelmed and I just can't keep up anymore on anything . I'm trying but I don't remember hardly anything she said in the last five weeks unfortunately
Lisa, this Bible study was one of the best, although all of your Bible studies are great. I have a tendency to personalize just as you said today. If someone has to change plans on me I take it that they really don't want to be with me. The Pre-decide theory is awesome. Love that. I read the book,. and there is so much in there. I have resentment from a previous relationship who stepped out on our marriage, told me I want good enough, but now am happily married to a wonderful man who appreciates me for who I am.
Thank you, Lysa! I’ve really enjoyed this study.
Me too!!! Sad to be ending, we need at least 6 more...!!!
Thk you team and Lysa!!!! You hv made a huge difference in my journey to wholeness
This Study has been great for my daily living, specially in my Workplace, this last Video was the best closure...I'm more than thankful. God bless Lysa TerKeurst and P31 staff!!!
Thank you so much for this study...May I live my life with forgiveness.
This is so for me, thank you for sharing, your such an inspiration to so many people 😊 God bless you and your staff.
This has been the best practical application of any OBS I've done. Thank you for your transparency & genuine honesty throughout. Godly wisdom & truth brings beauty to an ugly, messy process
Sad 😢 to be ending this study . It’s been great
such a good teaching
I'm sad to see this Bible study come to an end, but tbh, it's been one of the most difficult study to go through, because forgiveness is a difficult subject to discuss.....and especially difficult to live out in our everyday lives. But Lysa, thank you for sharing your story with us and letting us know that forgiveness is a healing choice we are giving to ourselves
Amen to EVERYTHING you said!!!
WOW - this was such a pertinent lesson for me as I struggle with the exact same thing: personalizing how people treat me and telling myself wound-confirming stories about those things. 'Trust but verify' is a great motto to start operating under!
Incredibly helpful study for me! It will definitely be a lifelong work for me. Thank you very much.
Thanks Lysa for helping us embark upon a much needed journey on forgiveness ❤️ I hope you will keep posting videos on inner and emotional healing in the days to come in ‘therapy and theology’ to help us stay connected. Praise God🙌🏻
Thank you so much for this study
This was wonderful. I read your book over the summer after a devastating betrayal by a sibling and to understand it’s a process that can take time has made forgiving this person much easier. Thank you Lysa
Excellent video! This is incredibly helpful!
I agree wonderful message to end on
This was a great journey to be on ,i always like to do bible study with proverbs 31 much love.
I believe I've learned a lot from this study though great sound advice on forgiveness
Always helpful, thanks for sharing personalized info, I am working on it too. Thank you Blessings
Thank you
She's right
Sounds like a good idea
Forgiveness is re occurring. This I have to remind myself everyday. 70 times 7 the lord says 😊 a day lol.
Takeaways:
Manage your responses to offenses. Pre-decide to forgive the offense, not personalize the offense.
Our part is to manage the misperception we create by pulling past pain into the present reality.
We can trust others by verification. Then pre-decide the person is coming from a broken place. Don't give others control over our moods.
Don't be emotionally devastated by the small stuff that happens in life.
When you know the truth and live the truth, it changes everything.
Truthfully I couldn't still afford the book. I'm incredibly sorry.. The Bible studies I tend to forget and they become buried in my busyness and so I may have to cut back on these sadly. I am overwhelmed and I just can't keep up anymore on anything . I'm trying but I don't remember hardly anything she said in the last five weeks unfortunately
I've dealt with that with my ex husband a cousin or two and possibly my brother
Where can I get the rest of this study, that was missed? Thank you all, God Bless!
That sounds easier said than done
I really am too busy I mean if I wasn't I'd drop everything and make time for others
Yep my mom has made my mood bad