WE LOST A BABY :(
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024
- Welcome to the first episode of No Kids Allowed. This is something new, a new space for myself and Anna hang out without the kids, so much of our content on all the different platforms we publish on have involved all of us, but now we have a place just for us two and no kids allowed!
I want this to be an interactive experience so please leave your opinions and thoughts on this subject in the comments and if you enjoyed this please do subscribe.
In todays episode we talk about chrissy teigen and John Legend and the backlash they received after publishing their story of their lost baby and about our own experience with losing a pregnancy and how that affected us.
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I lost a baby in April. My first baby and I felt like I couldn't share this with anyone. Like nobody cares.. so I completely understand and support Chrissy. I'm currently pregnant again with a baby girl and I'm halfway there 💖
Congratulations 🎀
I am so very sorry for your loss. I think that people care but just don't know what to say and are uncomfortable talking about it with you. That's why this conversation that Anna and Jonathan are having is so important! Talk about your lost baby if you want to. I lost my baby almost 28 years ago and still think about him all the time. I'm so happy for you to be expecting your little girl! Congratulations!
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you all the lucky dust in the world for a smooth, amazing labour and delivery of your little girl. Good Luck ❤️
Congratulations!
So sorry for your previous loss and wishing you an easy and successful pregnancy and delivery.
I'm not the only one who remembers when Squid went to heaven,I cried for Anna and Jonathan..Miscarriage and the heartbreaking loss of a baby,child,is horrific..In most cases it either strengthens or tears apart a relationship and clearly it has brought these two stronger,better than ever!!Thank you for this new channel I think it will help so many people(not an easy thing to talk about)👍❤️🙏🏻
I find Chrissy’s situation to be so so incredibly heart breaking. It wasn’t only a miscarriage, she had a stillborn. And all the criticism on top of all of that. I can’t imagine the pain of holding their dead baby in their arms. I think it’s so important that people speak about it as it’s so common. It’s amazing that you guys are using your platform to share your experience. It can’t have been easy, especially as it was happening Xx
So important to say it was a stillborn, not miscarriage. Both are devastating and heartbreaking but there’s a big difference x
Both situations are incredibly heartbreaking, however 'technically' a miscarriage is until 20 weeks of pregnancy. Losing a baby after 24 weeks is considered a stillbirth. There is a grey area in between that depends on different health systems as to what they classify it as. In Australia when we lost our 21 week baby it was classified as 'miscarriage' on our insurance statements.
@@Sazzay96 I’m sorry that happened to you, sending love to you! Xx
Ah I think she was a week or two short of 24 weeks then, I seem to remember her sharing she just had to get through a few weeks before her pregnancy was viable and they were in a safer spot. Devastating non the less xx
I also always think about how this was her miracle baby without IVF. As someone going through infertility that adds something extra painful.
Caroline. "ONLY" a miscarriage. For some women that miscarriage was their only chance at being a Mummy. Please do not dilute the term.
I remember Annas video about the miscarriage like it was yesterday . I never realised at the time that I'd find myself in the exact same position. So greatfull for the video you put out Anna xxxx
So glad they discussed such a taboo topic. Baby loss is so devastating and is something that should be discussed more openly
Little Squid will never be forgotten
I agree, things like this should not be something to be ashamed about.
Each person *survives* differently. My heart was so broken seeing Jonathan trying to comfort you in the doctor's office. And the lanterns, omg I could hardly see the video through the tears.
I was so emotional when I watched that! ❤️
@@EvelineUK everyone feels grief differently. And their entire life is documented, so why should they not document one of their saddest days? I'm sure it's to make sure they don't have a chance of forgetting anything of the day years and years later with 4 kids and 6 dogs later.
@@EvelineUK Yes, that was just not right. I mean it is such a hard situation and I can imagine how weird it must have been to set up a camera :/ I was shocked. I generally like them but after that I stopped watching them on regular basis.
I have been waiting so patently for this. I can't believe how chrissy Teigen is getting so much backlash for being so public about her experience with loosing her Baby. No woman should be told how to grieve it's so upsetting how people treat people.
Who ever said those things about Chrissy is very mean spirited.
All i wanted to do was to tell everyone about my miscarriage but i didnt feel safe to which is really sad.
I just physically cannot comprehend how someone who has never been through something can possibly tell someone who has, how to feel or grieve? It’s absolutely beyond me. Sending love and thoughts to anyone reading who may have gone through or going through something like this now. 💘
It wasn’t just a miscarriage, it was a stillborn. They are different things. Any loss is absolutely heartbreaking, if it was 1 week or 8 months you’ve still lost a baby.
I had a stillborn in June this year and I’m struggling tremendously. My baby was 36 weeks when I gave birth to him and taking pictures of my angel is now the only thing getting me through not having him. I shared pictures of my baby the same way she did. Nobody would be moaning if that baby was still alive but because he’s sleeping the pictures should not have been shared, that breaks my heart. That baby is still a baby, if she wants to show me him off then good on her. I will talk about my baby until I die, so I’m completely on her side!👼🏼💙
Emily Henfrey my heart breaks for you. Rest in peace your little one . Sending love
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I had a stillborn in May. I am so sorry for your loss. From one Momma to another, I am sending you all the love. We will get through this. I don't know how, but we will. ♡♡
I'm so sorry. I lost a baby girl in June at 36 weeks.. I feel your pain.
It was a miscarriage. The fetus died due to a weak placenta, which led to her having to give birth to a stillborn.
I remember when you went through that miscarriage,I remember crying with you,especially as I was pregnant at that time with my little boy,I just couldnt imagine losing him but I think it's so healthy to talk about it. I think we all grieve in different ways and you have to do it the way that helps you. Really enjoyed this guys! 👍🏼♥️
My heart breaks for anyone that has lost a child in any way. Everyone is different and we have different ways of grieving. I don’t criticize anyone for the way they choose to deal with their pain. I lost my baby girl in 2007, she was stillborn. Personally I wouldn’t have been able to be so public about my pain... but that’s just me. Chrissy and her family as well as many others, are entitled to grieve as they wish. God bless all of those families that have gone through the horrible pain of losing a child. Blessings to all the precious angels❤️👼🏻we will carry their memory forever in our hearts💕💕💕💕
It’s absolutely crazy and harsh that for long women are/were expected to handle miscarriages “gracefully” or “quietly” or just to “deal with it” or handle it quietly. The graphics these two describes about what a miscarriage actually entails, no one should have to keep that secret or carry on like nothing happened. We should talk about this and support women ❤️ thank you so much for talking about this
Proud of you both I could not picture the pain you went through when you lost the baby and speaking out about it on social media I could not begin to imagine what you went through x
Hand on heart, thank you for speaking out. As a mum of 3 children but also a mum who’s lost babies through miscarriage it’s such an emotion to see women and men speaking out! It happens and as sad as it is, we shouldn’t have to hide it.
No one should tell anyone how to grieve. My Mum had a stillborn baby when I was a toddler many years ago and she still struggles with it.
I am really saddened with the backlash Chrissy has faced. I think celebrities being open about situations like this can help others who suffer the same.
I am also on Chrissy's side. I hate people hating on other women who talk about miscarriage because many women go through it. Women need to know it is not their fault, and other women need to know they are not alone. Anyone hating on Chrissy is wrong and needs to stop because I know you would not want people to do that to you. Just treat people with kindness and treat people like you want to be treated. I feel bad for Chrissy and John.
People even said its Karma!!! That she deserved it. They believe she is a pedophile which is ridiculous imo. She made some weird tweets about Toddlers and Tiaras and that's it.
I had a miscarriage in July and it was my first time being pregnant. I was a day away from 9 weeks but the baby has stopped growing at 6 weeks and 5 days. Due to Covid 19 I had to go through both hospital visits and scans alone to be told no heartbeat could be found. I was devastated. I remember watching Anna's video at the time and it helped so much because yeah it wasn't just a bad period. Thank you guys for talking about this taboo subject. Ita good to see yourselves and the the likes of chrissy putting their story out there so more people like myself dont feel so negative or guilty when talking about it. 💕
This happened to me. Due to covid my Partner couldn't come in with me. So they told me the bad news alone
@@kringlekeep4821 its horrible isnt it. And because I wasn't thinking at the time I forgot to ask for a scan picture to show my partner and close family. That took me a few weeks but with the miscarriage associations help I found out how to get them and have now got a copy. Its crazy times this year.
Love this!! I would love to hear an episode about Eduardo's preferences/interests as not what is traditional for a "boy" and how you guys teach total acceptance. I admire that!!
My dear niece just miscarried a week ago, and even though they're blessed with their son, who's 2, it has truly left her so wounded. Thankfully she is surrounded with a loving husband and family. We're just letting her know we love her and are here for her. Thank you for sharing♥️
This is so raw and uncut. Respect you for letting us in on this! Everyone has their own experience and deals with it different ways. No one should ever be judged. Watched you guys since Emilia was born. Congrats on the new channel 🥰
Hi Guys, I feel so guilty regarding my miscarriages I had. I did not grieve a lot over the 2 miscarriages one at 5 weeks and 11 weeks. Nearly 30 years ago this happened. The reason I did not grieve so much is before I had to two miscarriages I had a stillborn of my son, this went to 37 weeks of the pregnancy I grieved for my son I got to hold him and say goodbye, we had to bury him. I was pregnant 4 x times . My last pregnancy I went to 37 weeks and had an emergency c section. I had another son and I am so grateful I finally had my child. He is now 27 years old. I hate when I get asked by people is he my only child? I usually have to say yes, as I don't not want to explain to people what had happened. I always feel so guilty that I have not acknowledge my other children /miscarriages
thanks Aussie Linda.
I love this kind of video, a full half an hour of Jonathan and Anna chats! BUZZING!
ps. Would it be possible to make these available as an audio only podcast too, on podcast shops like Spotify etc
Probably one of the best podcasts on RUclips . Authentic.
Nothing about these two is authentic
I’m going to really enjoy this channel. You two are so raw and honest and it’s so lovely to sit back and watch, you went through a hard experience but like you said, it’s how you deal with it and I hope that people can accept that, you have a lovely family and it’s true... everything happens for a reason! x
i love you guys talking about „adult“ topics so much. i appreciate your perspectives and humour! really happy this format exist :)
Honestly think you've pointed out something really important that every body will have different emotions to something like this if they've been through this. There isn't a right or wrong way but what is wrong is shaming someone for sharing their loss and trying to grieve it shocking xx
I just can't believe anyone could be so heartless to give a woman a hard time for talking about her miscarriage. That in itself is such a traumatic thing why add to that. I think most people have compassion but 20 percent are anti social personalities and sadly try and harm social personalities. I love your whole family. I have watched you since Emilia's first Christmas. God bless you all.
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Diana Dubin
I love how honest and frank you are discussing this, especially Anna. It’s hard for women to tell the truth about their experience when there can be such judgmental assholes out there telling you how to be, think or feel. It’s such an important topic so thank you xx
Us muslims believe that when you go through a miscarriage the baby pulls the mother into heaven with the umbilical cord💕 love you guys x
Wow that‘s beautiful!!! Never heard this before❤️
I so enjoyed this video! My heart broke and I cried when you miscarried! I don't understand the criticizing how different people grieve. It isn't possible to grieve wrong. There is only the way you (universal you) grieve. I respect you both, that in your sorrow, took the time to discuss it in detail so others experiencing the same thing would know they're not alone and what they are experiencing is normal.
Such a hard thing to go through, I’ve lost 4 babies,and it’s the worst pain to go through....I’m so grateful for the rainbow babies I have
Mummy Hayz ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My four rainbow babes are playing with your 4 I reckon. Sending all the loves 💘
I totally agree with you Anna! Everyone grieves in a different way. By talking about it, not only can it be theraputic, you may help others going through the same. My heart goes out to her.
Great job on this first video of many..I hope! It’s nice to hear you guys chat without feeling like your always holding back, worrying about what people might say. I love hearing your genuine, honest opinions. God bless 😊💕
I remember Squid. I loved the lantern ceremony you did for him. I cried ❤️❤️
First episode and I’m already singing to the intro 😂😂 *Anyone else?*
I love this podcast, is making me know you guys deeper than the vlogs and I've been a viewer since I don't know, maybe 2010, so over 10 years. It's great to still get to know you, thank you for opening your hearts and minds.
I have never experienced baby loss, but this is heartbreaking. I remember watching your pregnancy and baby loss all those years ago and I’m crying for you, remembering your grief. Thank you for talking about this ♥️ you are a beautiful family xxx
I was at that meet & greet at playlist. I remember telling you congratulations on the new baby and then immediately regretting it for some reason. I can’t believe the strength it would take for you all to be going through that and then meet hundreds of people who have no idea 🖤
Well done!! As a long long time watcher and someone who is old enough to be your Moms....proud of you both!💞💞💞
I’ve been looking forward to this for so long, words can’t describe how happy I am that it’s actually here 🥰
And you got first 🙌👍🏻
Its not they lost it
Anna, a year after your miscarriage I had my own. You were the only person talking about it at the time, and I felt SO comforted by you and your experience. Watching your loss, really helped me cope with my own, and allowed me to fully experience my loss and move forward. Thank you SO much for that.
Amazing! Baby loss needs to be spoken about and I’m glad people express it the way they feel needs be I lost my daughter at 19 weeks and to this day I still talk about her xx
That's how I started following you guys i was pregnant with my son when Anna was prego with Emilia and been watching every since and they're 12 days apart
I found it very interesting, an adult conversation,, ‘No kids allowed’, and your entire discussion was about kids!!lol
I lost my third baby at 14 weeks over Christmas. I also feel grateful for my two beautiful children I have but pain runs deep and the memory of holding his tiny but perfectly formed little body is one that will never leave me. This is a topic that should be spoke about and understood to stop ignorance and start supporting others who have and are going through this pain with compassion and kindness. Thank you for speaking about this and I’m sorry for what you have been through X
I’ve watched your other RUclips channel here and there but I’m 26 so I feel your content isn’t for my age range, however THIS, this is what I can get into. Such a good idea to cater to your older fans. Thank you!
I joined your channel because I was pregnant with my first daughter at the same time you were pregnant with your first and loved following your videos. Now I’m 3 kids in lol and still following along/
I lost my baby in october 2019 and when I see old friends they ask how am I dont mention my son because upsets me but hes always in my heart that's all that matters to me
No kids allowed is the new date night that we get an insight on! Gotta love it!
Emily Rose 😀
If I could put a giant heart on this instead of just a thumbs up, I would 🤍
THANK YOU!
I look at it like the baby just goes back to heaven because it’s not the right time however that soul could come back in again in the form of the next child.
Aw I love that. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
So comforting to think of it like that. I believe they go to heaven and that you get to meet them when you get to heaven yourself.
I was in that Meet & Greet and I gave presents and felt SO TERRIBLE when I found out. I didn't want to cause you two any more grief than you were already having... but please remember that was just after the WORST loss of my life and you made my entire year, so thank you so much for making that happen even though you were going through it. Love you guys so much!
Yea I think people talking about it is so important because it makes us realise it's more common than you think. I suffered a loss this year and my sister in law suffered a loss last year and you guys talking about it really helped, I kept referring back to those videos ❤
Such a humbling first podcast topic. Thank you both 🙂
I've been watching you guys since 2014 and I love this idea of "no kids allowed." Something I have always loved about watching you guys is your relationship and how you guys handled being young parents on top of eventually working together and this youtube career you have! I would love if you could discuss the early years of dating and how your relationship is different or the same as it was pre-kids. As a 22 year old in a committed relationship these are the things I'm beginning to wonder about so hopefully you could offer some insight. Thanks guys!
Speaking from experience of losing a baby, I really commend you both for sharing your experience of such a heartbreaking loss 💔 grief is grief, everyone deals with it their own way, so if it makes you feel better sharing it like chrissy teigen and helps you process that loss and explain how your feeling, no one and I mean absolutely no one has any right to judge you for it xxx
Losing a child must be the worst pain to ever have to go through. Being shamed for how you deal with it is just awful
Feel like I should help you guys answer some questions- seeing as I am one of those people that didn't know I was pregnant!
I had completely normal periods the whole way through! And then when in "labour" I didn't have any stomach cramping, let alone a bump! All my pain was in my back. I'd had a lumbar puncture 2days before, and I had just assumed that they had hit a nerve in my spine. It was only when I was crowning did paramedics realise that I was pregnant.
No one, including myself, realised I was pregnant! Even after having Urine&blood tests, MRIs, CTscans - nothing!
Love you guys! I'm enjoying this throwback to just the two of you :) its nice too because I'm a mom and can't really keep up with your family vlogs but I can listen to this while doing chores etc and not feel like I'm missing out if I'm not catching all the video! Thank you for being so open and honest, its really enjoyable.
I love that you guys are doing a podcast. I was watching before you guys even got married so I go way back. I sometimes miss the vlogs just being you guys so this podcast is going to be nostalgic in a way!
Love the family vlogs but also really enjoy just the two of you chatting openly and honestly as always. Loving this new format and looking forward to the next one. xx
Firstly, thank you so much for shedding light on this subject. Secondly, and selfishly, thank you for starting this new venture - as an old subscriber It’s so nice to enjoy both of your company again as individuals/ a couple ❤️
Have just listened to your first two podcasts. You guys have done such a great job. I feel like this is the perfect next step in your growth and trajectory. So many of your viewers ( like myself) are done with the baby stuff now, and I feel like this is a time of reflection and looking back on our journeys through parenting, relationships etc. This is going to work so well with your more mature audience. Great concept, great convos and such a great couple 💯🥳👏
So excited to watch this! Can’t wait for this new adventure❤️ To anyone else watching this, happy Monday!! Let’s smash the week.. we’re all in this together😋 stay safe and remember to keep smiling, lots of love a small time RUclipsr trying to spread positivity❤️❤️
The best podcast I’ve heard. So real and authentic and helpful. I’ve been through the same thing and gone onto have a healthy baby boy but his pregnancy was so traumatic and scary and everything went wrong. I can definitely identify with everything you spoke about and it definitely helps to not feel like your the only one feeling those things. I only ever say I have 1 baby when i have had three pregnancy’s. Medical staff can be so awful about it too. I remember my midwife asking if I’d ever miscarried and when I said yes at 7 weeks, her words were ‘oh that’s doesn’t count’ as if the pain I had been through had been for nothing. Thank you for being so open about your experience
I remember watching your guys' video about the miscarriage and sobbing😭❤ i went through a miscarriage just under a year ago with my ex and just seeing this now and rewatching the old video has honestly helped me so much
The comments about nature was so powerful and I’m so so glad you said those things, thank you. X
This is such an important subject, I believe these podcasts will give a lot of people hope so thankyou for being so open💜 you both now have your rainbow baby alessia and Dre Dre 🌈
Thank you! I lost my second baby at three months literally after we told family and friends. For me it was one of the saddest times of my life.. 💕👏🏻
i think this video is so important. that you for being honest with us. i’m 31 and have never been pregnant. i appreciate so much your vulnerability and transparency. love you guys.
Thank you for talking this. I’m 30 and struggling to get pregnant with my first baby. I’m 1 of 4 who deal with infertility. I’ve gone onto RUclips, watched over 100 hours in videos on why and watching others talk about it. Has really helped me. Ive also opened up on my Instagram and Facebook publicly about my infertility, I’ve had so many people I know talk about their own troubles. It’s like you can come out of the closet and be free about it. I’ve also had a few friends that has gone through a miscarriage. I can’t even imagine how that feels. Even my mother had one before she had me. She also thinks the same way as you Anna. I, thank you both for openly sharing your thoughts. Can’t wait to watch and listen to more to come. I’ve been watching over the last 10-11 years of your lives.
I lost a baby last year. It was my first pregnancy and I was also 21 years old. Although it wasn't a planned pregnancy it did feel like the world was gonna be falling apart, both for me and my boyfriend. I still feel the pain nowadays but its a bit different. Now I'm married to him and we decided to wait a little more to start building a family. Everything happens for a reason, just like they said, maybe there could've been something wrong and nature decided to do whats best. Loved the video xxxxx
I've never been pregnant but hearing you talk about your miscarriage now and when it first happened it made me realize how it can happen to anyone and it lead me to have an open conversation with my mom about kids and miscarriages which helped me learn different ways to deal with if it even happens to me
Great 1st podcast guys. Love how ''real" you both are. Thank you. Xx
I had a very similar situation to you Anna. I lost a baby at the end of 2014 at 12 weeks. I had to have a D&C on New Years Eve. I took it just Jonathan. The moment we saw a positive test, we considered it our baby. My husband didn't take it like I did. It hurt me that he didn't take it like I did. In time we have grieved together in our own way.
I totally agree that Chrissy Teigan should post whichever photo she wants and to express herself in what ever way she feels best. I also agree that’s it’s good to show awareness and to update her large following who were invested in her and little jack. However I also think she (or her PR team) could’ve posted a Trigger warning, just a little “TW: Baby Loss” and therefore it could prepare anyone who this has effected or anyone who didn’t want to see and or read the entire post. I support and stand by anyone who has suffered baby loss. It’s the one of the worst kinds of pain. You are not alone xx
I am so crazy about your children that I thought I was going to hate a simple chat with just the two of you, but I loved it! Thank you. I look forward to the next one.
It's so lovely of the two of you to offer your support to Chrissy and John! ❤ That's what the community of social media should always be. I love the new channel, and think you'll be able to do a lot with it. It's good to have your parent side and your couple side! 😍 I've really neglected your other channel, so I need to get back there soon. 😁 I hope you are all well! Love and health from across the pond!!! 💜💜💜
I love how real this was. Nobody talks about this stuff and I’m glad you are open to x
I enjoyed your first podcast. It was a difficult topic and I think you managed it well. There are so many people who have had similar experiences to you two , and John and Christie, who never speak of them. I don’t. I have had an ectopic, then my daughter, a miscarriage, then my son. There has been despair in those bad experiences but joy in my beautiful babies (who are young adults now) but the bad times are behind me and don’t define ‘the now’.
Wow this is a really enlightening view alongside from the vlogs. Big up to you both for doing this as I am sure your viewers are itching to see a different perspective to the vlogs! Please do more and this long too is great ❤️
You guys really know how to bring in an audience with so much honesty! Thank you so much for sharing
your story ❤️
No disrespect but Jonathan needs to let Anna talk. He does talk over her a tad too much
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Y’all stop hating on the dad y’all just are so rude
@@calvabostwick762 boooo
I think as a mom we allow ourselves less time to take care of ourselves mentally as well as physically. We find ways to stay sane so that we can proceed. Sometimes I think if I stopped and allowed myself to feel some things I wouldn’t be able to keep going. The world would fall if we allowed ourselves to feel the terrible things.
I relate to this heavy. I had a still born baby boy in July 17th this year at 37 weeks due to a placenta abruption. - I’m very proud of him, and he’s not a secret and he was real, he was here. It’s not something to be shamed over.
That's how i dealt with my miscarriage in 2016 - it was my body's way of saying something is wrong and Anna's videos really really helped me through that.
Absolutely talk about it!! We lost twins and it was terrible and painful and it helped so much to grieve and talk about it with others and my husband.
I can’t have children, I had a premature menopause at 20 years old . I told my boyfriend at the time that If by some miracle I got pregnant I would terminate (controversial I know but) because I had a dream to be a professional dancer. I lived that dream and still am. Don’t judge anyone for their choices ever and what they choose to publish because you don’t know the back story. So happy you guys are talking about this and so happy I subscribed ❤️
I forgot to add I had a miscarriage at 18 years old
Gosh, I remember this like it was yesterday and Im so sorry that yall went through that. You have no idea how much your story and being open about it helped me through a rough time myself. And congrats on the podcast! This is amazing and Im excited for the future of this! Sending so much love and tons of cuddles! xx
Thrilled you two are doing a podcast, thank you for being so raw and real sharing your experience 💕
Thank you for sharing! Your stories have helped me through many dark days to remain hopeful.
I remember that time so well and I was so glad you shared that with us - I’m sure it’s helped so many people! I wish Chrissy and John another healthy pregnancy too but that was their miracle baby (naturally conceived) compared to their last 2 ivf babies which makes it even more heartbreaking 💔
Absolutely love this! I’m currently in my final year of training to become a midwife and I completely agree it is so important for women and their families to be able to talk about their loss. Everyone deals with loss differently and also every loss is different and no one can ever judge an individual for dealing with loss in the “wrong way” 👼💖 The amount of women and their families who go through this horrible situation and yet we all are told to keep quiet about it 😢💕 thank you both for talking about your story so openly! We need more people who talk 💖 I watched your video about the miscarriage at the time and I thought it was so amazing that you guys were able to share your loss with everyone and show how you guys dealt with your loss 💕💖
Congratulations on becoming a midwife! You bring them into the world and I help them journey out of the world being a Hospice nurse. Both rewarding experiences!
So glad you did this video. I know so many couples this will help!
I always feel like talking about these things is really important. I was watching your videos and was a teenager when you first spoke about this and it was educational on the emotional and physical side of these things, which can and do happen to women and families regularly. Otherwise, lots of people would never know until they experience a miscarriage. So thank you :)
Thank you for sharing this podcast with us. I really hope you continue on with this because it's so nice to actually see the two people behind the face of the RUclips channel and get to know them fully like you would a friend. I wish all RUclipsrs did these kinds of shows where they're authentic because it really does just prove that all the people you watch on RUclips are real people who have feelings , values and beliefs which are what make us all different and interesting in the first place. Thank you so much for this xx
Also I would love if you could cover parenting and your childhood and any childhood traumas or childhood incident or memory that affected you or your mental health as you grew up .
And how you changed it in your parenting style with your own kids .❤️
Thanks For doing this -i love being able to listen to both of you talk and discuss things without the kiddos (sometimes you just need some adult time).
One thing I wanted to share- I was always taught and believe that the marriage partnership should come first, before the children. You have to have a good stable marriage in order to give the children a good stable life, if you aren’t in a good place with your marriage you won’t be able to be the best parents to your children. The kids need parents to be the solid foundation of the family, so you have to make time to do things together to continue to nurture and grow your relationship . Once you are stable in your marriage, you will be much better parents for your children (all people not just you) so even if you don't get to go on holiday just you two very often, still taking the time to talk, have meals without the kids around and not talking about the kids during your adult only time are all great ways to nurture you’re relationship and put each-other first. Not at all neglecting the kids, just making sure your spouse and marriage is where you want it to be. start with little things- go on a walk together, or walk the dogs together, doing this no kids allowed podcast, having date nights (in or out) just that bit of special time between two people will build the marriage up and maintain it, thus allowing you to tend to and fulfill all the children’s needs because the two of you are United and parenting together . 💕 I think you do a good job of this alread and have such a playful relationship so maybe that’s why it seems like the kids come first. But again I’f the parents aren’t in a good place the kids probably won’t be either so it’s important to do some things to nurture your marriage as well. 💕
Beautiful #1 first episode. Enjoyed the share of your feelings and I am confident it is helpful to others who have had the loss of child prior to birth. I very much love the intro song and intro and looking forward to more episodes. Great job!
Love hearing just the 2 of you! Your banter is so entertaining to me. I look forward to these!