Ep. 17 Parkinson’s and Quitting My Job

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  • Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
  • Admitting to myself that I couldn’t do my job anymore because of Parkinson’s disease was one of the most difficult things I’ve ever had to deal with. In this video, I tell my story.
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Комментарии • 78

  • @patrogers6297
    @patrogers6297 Год назад +7

    I’m struggling to express how much “humanity” comes through in your videos. Nothing artificial. Just very genuine feelings.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад +1

      Yep! That's always my goal. Thank you for noticing!

  • @MyPDDaily
    @MyPDDaily Год назад +5

    I feel you. Tears came to my eyes. I had similar experiences but with teaching. I physically walked into work like a little old lady. It was all I could do to get through the day. Now, all I can manage is teaching one college course two quarters per year. And that has to be carefully timed for my medication and sleep issues. Thank you so much for sharing. You don’t know how important this is to me to hear. But I know one thing if anybody could know you would. God bless you.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад

      Thank you so much! I’m glad you found some comfort in what I said. Best wishes on your journey 🙂

  • @judymueller8089
    @judymueller8089 Год назад +4

    Jeremy, i am so proud of you for hanging in there as long as you did. You have family that would love to re-connect whrn you are ready.

  • @1983mojo1
    @1983mojo1 2 года назад +7

    I was laid off from my job of 38 years in 20020 about 3 years after Iwas diagnosed with PD.I knew it was coming because I could see my performance dropping fast. My memory has gone way down hill and I cant read my own writing . But I will say I have enjoyed being retired though I really wanted to leave my job on my own terms. I was 59 when I got canned and knew no way to get hired any where else.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  2 года назад +3

      That’s rough, but I know the feeling. I was just glad that I left on my terms and wasn’t escorted out! But life is still good just different.

  • @terryoreilly9365
    @terryoreilly9365 Год назад +4

    Thank you so much for sharing. I was diagnosed seven years ago. Somehow I’m still working which I’m grateful for as I live alone. Nine months ago however I fell down a full flight of concrete stairs. I sustained a couple of brain injuries in different spots. Parkinson’s was never brought up as I still have not told anybody. However I know the paramedics read my bracelet but not sure if they told my boss or not. I’m still off work. My time to walk away is coming very rapidly and it’s terrifying. Thank you for sharing your story. It does help.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад +1

      Terry, thanks for sharing your story! It's feedback like this that makes it worth the effort it takes to make these videos!

  • @misslori66
    @misslori66 24 дня назад +1

    Working as a school secretary was brutal after my diagnosis. I thought I'd be fine. I experienced almost blacking out twice, experiencing sleepiness at work, and while driving to work too! Insomnia kicked in and that made functioning at work extremely difficult. I got a note too and that was a sad day. I miss the kids I would see everyday at work.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  23 дня назад +1

      I don’t miss the work, but I do miss the people! Thx, for sharing!😎

  • @Michele2Alpha
    @Michele2Alpha 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for sharing. I know that had to be a hard step for you. I was diagnosed last month and started Sinemet a few weeks ago. I was dealing with slowness, limping, and occasional tremor (all on left side). I totally understand what you mean about feeling almost back to normal after starting the pills. It's been nice typing fast again. I'm extremely independent, and I TRY not to think about what my future looks like now. I think like you....I'll work until to the bitter end. Hope all is going well for you now.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  2 года назад +1

      Thx, Michele! Don't spend to much time worrying. Everyone has their own journey with PD. Stay positive and keep in touch!

    • @Michele2Alpha
      @Michele2Alpha 2 года назад +1

      @@JeremyMcdonald Thank you

  • @dasmiths69
    @dasmiths69 5 месяцев назад +3

    Love ya man! Thank you for your transparency. As we spoke a couple of weeks ago, I am worried about my ability to work. Physically I am ok for now, but I’ve noticed my cognitive abilities diminish over the past couple of years. Hoping that will level off and I can get 8-10 more good years in (I work from home).

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  5 месяцев назад +1

      Stat positive, Troy! We all have our own journey. 😎

  • @wayneteague9266
    @wayneteague9266 6 месяцев назад

    Thank You...I'm at the quitting point but hard to bring myself to stop. I'm at the breaking point.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  6 месяцев назад

      I have been there, Wayne. It’s an incredibly difficult situation to be in. Keep me posted!

  • @elizabetholiviaclark
    @elizabetholiviaclark Год назад +2

    My work life was part blue collar, coming from the fire service and occupational safety and health, so I get the physical aspect. I retired under similar conditions, not pd although I have pd now. The process was humiliating as I had to describe, in writing, the many ways in which I had become a liability. It's the worst way to leave a career. Now, I just have a part time cashier's job in an arts and crafts store, but I love it. I'm having a bit of trouble already, though, and I see what's coming down the road eventually. So, here we go again, I guess.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад +2

      It is truly a struggle some days to stay positive in the face of the circumstances. I can totally relate!

    • @elizabetholiviaclark
      @elizabetholiviaclark Год назад +1

      @@JeremyMcdonald I know you can, Jeremy.

  • @Mrtd318
    @Mrtd318 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing🙌🏻 my husband is currently having his early symptoms of PD. Listening & learning on what you’re going through makes me anticipate & understand the process& how heartbreaking it is to have the limitations that you didn’t expect ..It will be tough,but as they say, when the going gets tough, the tough gets going!🙏🏻

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  2 года назад +1

      It is not easy, that’s for sure! Tell your husband to be easy on himself and learn what his new limits will be. You will both find a way through this.

  • @Texastentialist-ls9kz
    @Texastentialist-ls9kz Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing!

  • @cannontrail348
    @cannontrail348 2 года назад +2

    That was a tough place even for able bodied people. I couldn’t do that job today. 2nd shift stacking cases yuck. Best of luck to you.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  2 года назад +1

      Thanks so much! It was brutal, that for sure!

  • @LifewithParkinsons
    @LifewithParkinsons 2 года назад +3

    Hey Jeremy, thanks for sharing such a difficult and painful story that we all live out in some way. Saying goodbye was hard for me too, but I knew I couldn't win anymore. Well done!

  • @aurorascott6829
    @aurorascott6829 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing such a personal and touching video. I was officially diagnosed just a week ago. I turned 58 yrs old this past March. I subscribed to your channel because your videos offer me comfort and a way to relate to someone that is going through what I'm starting to go through. God Bless.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  2 года назад

      Well, you just made my day! I make these videos to help people who might be struggling like I did. I just hope that I can bring something positive to others.

  • @user-dc2ot2tj2b
    @user-dc2ot2tj2b Год назад

    What ever happens mate do not give up, i have it i know it and have being there

  • @ashlax
    @ashlax 2 года назад +1

    I can relate you, God bless us all

  • @scottfannin5051
    @scottfannin5051 2 года назад +2

    I’m at this point right now and have the same worries you did. Thank you for the video.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for watching. Good luck!

  • @GoProGoalieUzi
    @GoProGoalieUzi 2 года назад +1

    Buddy….man…it is getting tough me as well..I walk/hustle 23-28k steps per day for over 22yrs. I can still do my job effectively, actually I’m one of the best in the business (LP)..we will see how it goes..that day might come for me at some point..thx for sharing ❤️

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  2 года назад +1

      Keep it up, bro. Peace and love from Blues Country!

  • @ParkinsonsWigglesProject
    @ParkinsonsWigglesProject 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for the heartfelt video! Watching it, even if I didn’t have Parkinson’s I could still feel your pain and totally relate. Having a supportive and loving spouse is one thing I am so thankful for!! You too have that support, your wife sounds like a great woman!!

  • @steveswoodworking2504
    @steveswoodworking2504 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @danpalmer7676
    @danpalmer7676 Год назад +1

    Just seen this and i totally know how you felt.I have Parkinson's(2014) and i have hit that wall of 'can i keep doing this'.
    I wont bore you with a list of things i am struggling with physically and mentally but it's the realisation that your best days are done.
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts and i hope you are well.

  • @56deedles
    @56deedles 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing 😢.

  • @johnr.5475
    @johnr.5475 2 года назад +2

    Wish you all the best Jeremy. I was diagnosed 4weeks ago and your story helps. I’m glad you have a supportive wife. She’s a great help. Good luck and I hope you can find some laughter to replace your work place laughter.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  2 года назад

      Absolutely! My ten year old son provides me with plenty of laughs! Good luck to you on your PD journey. Stay in touch!

  • @inezzbeadz
    @inezzbeadz 7 месяцев назад

    Thankyou for sharing, I too recently dxPD. Worked for medical field over 16yrs. I had a hard time accepting my dx. I accept now but also quit my job due to health. Left side tremors drop foot n left leg n shoulder pain. I can barley get out of my car, no energy. I am looking into oxygen therapy tomarrow have a consult. I hope ins will cover this

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  7 месяцев назад +1

      I completely understand. Admitting that I couldn’t do my job anymore was so upsetting.

    • @inezzbeadz
      @inezzbeadz 7 месяцев назад

      @@JeremyMcdonald so I didn't choose oxygen therapy ins didn't cover n it's expensive! I am on a schedule every day at 1pm for red light therapy. I hear alot of positive out comes so hopefully will help my inflamation n legs n shoulder. I try it every day for a month

  • @ricksuvanto5009
    @ricksuvanto5009 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing a personal and honest part of your vourney.

  • @jeanninehill6009
    @jeanninehill6009 Год назад +1

    Hi Jeremy, this is the first time that I've come across this video and I have to say that you have made a powerful statement with it. It breaks my heart to know that a good, hardworking man like you would feel embarrassment, shame, and ridicule because of a medical condition that you have no control over. You would think that, after giving 20 years of your life to a company, that your friends would offer support and encouragement, and that your bosses would recognize all that you had given and make allowances for you to take extra breaks or redistribute your work load. Maybe in a perfect world....I believe that you can walk away with your head held high, knowing that you gave this job your all, and that you worked to the last possible day. Much respect to you!

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад +2

      Thank you for saying that! It was one of the toughest things I've ever done. At least now I can spend time with my son.🙂

  • @lvhdmya4807
    @lvhdmya4807 Год назад +1

    You have great taste in music, sir!

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад +1

      Ustad Imrat Khan was my sitar teacher for 2 years! I love that man.

    • @lvhdmya4807
      @lvhdmya4807 Год назад

      @@JeremyMcdonald I don't know much about Hindustani but I love listening to it.

    • @lvhdmya4807
      @lvhdmya4807 Год назад

      @@JeremyMcdonald are you still able to play? I'm sorry this condition afflicted you.

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад +1

      @@lvhdmya4807 I can’t play like I use to but I manage to still enjoy it. I’m planning on posting a video of me playing soon.

    • @lvhdmya4807
      @lvhdmya4807 Год назад

      @@JeremyMcdonald that's awesome! Thank you for posting all your videos, I'm 38 and have just been diagnosed and your videos help immensely.

  • @MikeMercury
    @MikeMercury Год назад

    hello to you
    from montreal canada
    I also have parkinson

  • @chinaconstructions
    @chinaconstructions Год назад

    Jemery, have you tried some functional medicine including dietary change, nutritional regimen, physical exercise, etc?

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад

      All of the above. Unfortunately, I have levodopa induced dystonia. Not much, short of DBS(maybe), can be done about it.

  • @Lenteja77
    @Lenteja77 Год назад +1

    I am waiting for Parkinson glove to be aproved by fda

  • @jacquelinerivera3919
    @jacquelinerivera3919 Год назад +1

    What you do after you quit

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад

      I am no longer able to work so I stay home and clean my house!

    • @jacquelinerivera7866
      @jacquelinerivera7866 Год назад

      @@JeremyMcdonald Do you get disability and if so how long did you have to wait to receive benefits

    • @JeremyMcdonald
      @JeremyMcdonald  Год назад

      @@jacquelinerivera7866 Yes and over 2 years

  • @pepsijoesadventures5198
    @pepsijoesadventures5198 2 года назад +2

    I work with your buddy Bruce. I also have Parkinson’s. Check my page