ASHLEY’S FORMULA for SUCCESS: Staying Motivated & Getting out of Depressive Slumps - BTSP #33

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

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  • @demigreen6495
    @demigreen6495 Месяц назад +136

    I trained myself to give gratitude to the most smallest things! My most favorite thing in the world is the sky, especially at sunset, and I look forward to seeing it everyday and I feel for grateful to be alive. Also im an artist, and when I look at my hands and it’s perfect functionality, I literally tear up because I know some people don’t have that and I couldn’t paint or create without them. So stuff like that reminds me that I’m so lucky and life’s worth living 🎉❤

  • @soybean2006
    @soybean2006 Месяц назад +130

    my mom heard y'all saying inshallah and now she loves you guys, btsp army is growing mashallah XD

  • @hi___m
    @hi___m Месяц назад +55

    aww as a Muslim girlie that loves being part of your community those inshallahs elhamdulillah and mashallah were sooo cute and precious lolll you used them correctly btw also loving another epic episode of btsp I needed this talk sooo I'm literally hugging you back, accepting all the good energy, sending the same, thank you girrlllss

    • @hvsnd
      @hvsnd Месяц назад +1

      yess it was so cute and made me really happyy!!

  • @Aa-ui1nl
    @Aa-ui1nl Месяц назад +80

    17:24 I was so shocked everytime they used inshaAllah, you guys used it perfectly zont worry

  • @nhsyaf
    @nhsyaf Месяц назад +4

    as a muslim and a huge fan of yall, ive never been happier hearing insyaallah, maashallah & alhamdulillah from u guys my inspirations AND in this podcast being about motivation AND at a time personally ive been struggling with motivation. im very grateful for u guys

  • @Lunaa2209
    @Lunaa2209 Месяц назад +48

    I love the random inshallah😭i just got hit by seasonal depression so the timing is perfect

    • @tmilky51
      @tmilky51 Месяц назад

      Exactly! Like this pulled me out of the funk ❤

  • @Soulzk2001
    @Soulzk2001 Месяц назад +17

    I don’t think I’ve ever loved an internet figure as much as I love the Alexander family 🩷
    Also, you used the Arabic expressions perfectly! For those who don’t know, Inshallah translates to 'if God wills,' and we use it when talking about future plans. Mashallah means 'God has willed it,' and we say it to express admiration for something. Lastly, Alhamdulillah means 'all praise is due to God.’
    Inshallah, may all your dreams come true 💐

  • @demigreen6495
    @demigreen6495 Месяц назад +25

    Yall are so right, when you realize you have free will and the world is your oyster, and all those doubts you have or you think people have about you doesn’t matter, life becomes so simple and fun! There’s this quote from Everything Everywhere All at Once, where the main characters realize “nothing matters” and they become depressed about it because what’s the point, but at the end of the movie, “nothing matters” becomes something positive and they aren’t depressed anymore because they realize that if nothing matters they can do whatever they want to be happy. So it all depends on your perspective 😊
    “Nothing matters… 😢”
    “Nothing matters! 😃”

  • @Alyssaa948
    @Alyssaa948 Месяц назад +22

    Noo what Amber said was not stupid!!!! And what yall talked about at the beginning is a clear example of time being a social construct. The weather change… we’re supposed to be hibernating right now!!! Not working this hard. That’s why we’re so depressed!!! We’re supposed to be snuggled up… no time for farming, just sleeping and resting.. If we followed the seasons, sunrise/sunset and the stars, we would be much happening. All of these things are telling us what we should be doing but instead we’re focused on how much money we should make instead of just living life with the earth and the always changing patterns…

  • @kzjsrn
    @kzjsrn Месяц назад +44

    The Arabic was so good my beautiful twin sisters

  • @Evalution307
    @Evalution307 Месяц назад +20

    I graduated from art school this summer and I’m struggling a bit with the direction I want to take in my life/managing my time without school but Ashley’s vids always give me a boost of motivation bc she’s just so driven even when life throws curveballs, she’s just so real and genuine and we appreciate you and your motivation and bits of wisdom 🩷 she even helped motivate me to join a gym and start regularly exercising and I’m there rn!! love btsp one of my fave podcasts to listen to while I’m drawing 🫶

    • @YezminOsorio
      @YezminOsorio Месяц назад +1

      Do not be discouraged and stay creative and inspired!!! Practice your craft. :) Art block is normal.

    • @BeautifulTwinSistersPod
      @BeautifulTwinSistersPod  Месяц назад +2

      AW🥹❤️ that’s so sweet, sending you all the love!!

    • @Evalution307
      @Evalution307 Месяц назад

      @ thanks!! 😊 keep being yourselves guys! We all appreciate the extra dynamic in our lives 🩷

  • @tmilky51
    @tmilky51 Месяц назад +6

    This has been my favourite BTSP episode so far. My man is a practising Muslim and we both were swooning and giggling when you guys (accurately) used words like Mashallah, Inshallah.
    It was really fun, this whole thing. ❤

  • @emmaazzi6750
    @emmaazzi6750 Месяц назад +18

    You used every Arabic words perfectly! I’m so impressed 🙌🏽 kisses from France 😘

  • @ArunimaMandal15
    @ArunimaMandal15 Месяц назад +14

    Honestly my menstrual cycle has such an effect on my productivity so as a girl I try to work WITH IT not against it. Like make most of my energetic days, taking regular breaks the week before period and literally allowing myself to get extra rest and sleep during periods help a LOT!

  • @wichtigerhinweis100
    @wichtigerhinweis100 Месяц назад +3

    Elhamdulillah-Thank God -is the best way to incorporate and practice gratitude, even the sound of it brings me calmness and peace ❤❤

  • @michelleandraade
    @michelleandraade Месяц назад +16

    I really was interested in your father’s episode, when his talk about mental health, how he educated you guys. You , all siblings, looks feet grinders, go and get, I really want a episode like that. Talking about stuff like that, so im glad with this episode.

  • @linasaid6776
    @linasaid6776 Месяц назад +1

    Yes u used “inshallah” perfectly it gave me so much serotonin 😊😊

  • @annabethraffield9652
    @annabethraffield9652 Месяц назад +1

    I was really struggling today with motivation and this really helped me. Thank you guys so much! Being the same age as Ashley, I really take inspiration from watching you thrive so much at this young age in THIS ECONOMY and I just feel like watching you two every week, it's like we're girl bossing together.

  • @Aokiji30
    @Aokiji30 Месяц назад +1

    This is a reminder to everyone who’s struggling to keep a positive habit going: it’s better to do less than you hoped than to do nothing at all

  • @sevss
    @sevss Месяц назад +1

    as someone who been dealing with depression n recently diagnosed with adhd im so happy to listen to this episode, you guys' positivity makes me feel like I can do anything (: keep it up ! loving this podcast

  • @kellyvu
    @kellyvu Месяц назад +9

    Couldn’t have been better timing ilyyy guys 🥹🫶🏻

  • @digiaeri
    @digiaeri Месяц назад +4

    I LOOVEEE DOING MY ASSIGNMENTS WHILE LISTENING TO THE BEAUTIFUL TWINNNSSS

  • @MissDeenaBooks
    @MissDeenaBooks Месяц назад

    they are so humble, i love them so much

  • @lozawondimu6770
    @lozawondimu6770 Месяц назад +5

    shoutout exxon mobil for the beautiful warm fall we’re having

  • @danaalamah
    @danaalamah Месяц назад +2

    mashaAllah the two beautiful twin sisters made me feel way better about my seasonal depression love you both 🤍

  • @tonniphilline
    @tonniphilline Месяц назад +3

    btsp merch better be avail internationally, sisters! 🛐

  • @lauraolariaga2408
    @lauraolariaga2408 Месяц назад +2

    literally your podcast (and your yt videos) is the best thing of the weekkkk 🤩 loving your vibes and energy!! thank you so much for the positivity and authenticity that you put out 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @ms.soapii
    @ms.soapii Месяц назад +16

    i always feel like im the only one in my family who experiences seasonal depression so im so glad ygs talk abt it 🥹

  • @misakikawachi2422
    @misakikawachi2422 Месяц назад

    The best way to get out of a slump journal and listen to BTSP✨
    Thank you for this. Much needed for sure especially with everything going on right now people are feeling it.

  • @crankyfloridian
    @crankyfloridian Месяц назад +2

    Twix is KING, Asheley you have a great singing voice, Amber the Podcast host with the most. GREAT Podcast.

  • @vivian.d.lee.
    @vivian.d.lee. Месяц назад

    i like when the podcast episodes have a topic and u guys go in depth and cover it. reminds me of ashley’s old podcast, it had a lot of structure and i learned so much from it. keep it up :D

  • @msulagna
    @msulagna Месяц назад +1

    Ashley and amber, thanks for such adorable podcasts and coming up with great topics , i love how it’s not very formal but it’s like we are sitting on the couch and having a discussion with our friends. Sometimes we talk about diff things and that’s what makes it so real and authentic. Thanks for this one, much needed as I have taken a gap year, and feeling a lil slumped 🎉

  • @mxriasaho
    @mxriasaho Месяц назад +1

    Love the uses of Inshallah, Mashallah, and Alhamdullilah 🥰

  • @ibtissam5304
    @ibtissam5304 Месяц назад +1

    17:24 i heard INSHALLAH ..i was like WAIT 😭😭😭😭

  • @elijahturbides
    @elijahturbides Месяц назад

    For sure needed this, been stressing about how long I’ve been editing my next video recently, much appreciation to the btsp as always

  • @poppet322
    @poppet322 Месяц назад

    Someone probably already commented about this, but also refer to the "Everything Is Awful and I'm Not Okay" list of action items when you feel depressed! It includes the things you mentioned--bathing and going outside--but adds things like eating nutritious food, drinking water, and taking medication (as prescribed). Seasonal depression is real, though, and I would strongly recommend a lamp with a "natural" light setting! The ones for actual seasonal affective disorder can get expensive, but a craft lamp that mimics natural light should do the trick. At the very least, reading a book by a window during daylight hours and getting some indirect sunlight should genuinely help.

  • @aleeshakhan5641
    @aleeshakhan5641 Месяц назад +1

    'the world is deadass my oyster' is my new mantra

  • @RUBIX4833
    @RUBIX4833 Месяц назад +2

    This is all so true i relate to all of it spiritually...thanks a lot....had a lot of fun watching this one as well..

  • @traishah
    @traishah Месяц назад

    amberr i miss your vlogs so much 😭😭

  • @micahrae8284
    @micahrae8284 Месяц назад

    yo this pod was actually so inspiring and GORGINA, ilysmm

  • @jiyadoshi8077
    @jiyadoshi8077 Месяц назад

    im literally on my period having the worst cramps ever but this is helping me take my mind off of that so much😭❤

  • @acechanahceah
    @acechanahceah Месяц назад +2

    i needed this today AAAAA ily my beautiful twin sisters!! ❤❤

  • @iffxth
    @iffxth Месяц назад +2

    the insha'allah caught me off guard loll, but yesss inshaallahhh

  • @alainacriscuolo1016
    @alainacriscuolo1016 Месяц назад

    “We’re pulling out the quotes” amber- sadness likes company? Made me cackle so loud 😭 love you guys

  • @hellointernet334
    @hellointernet334 Месяц назад +1

    I'm so glad you guys uploaded. I'm having such a bad day.

  • @hadas_wertheimer
    @hadas_wertheimer Месяц назад +1

    Amber’s hand agreement👌
    16:41

  • @alexaanne
    @alexaanne Месяц назад

    short n sweet being ashleys fave rn is !!! yesss the whole album is so good and Dont Smile is one of my favs

  • @user-ug2qv9nn2j
    @user-ug2qv9nn2j Месяц назад +1

    slushy noobz mentioned again in the btsp istg i started watching them bc of u guys from that one episode and i guess im a slushie now.. so thank you so muchs.. love them.. and love you guys btsp my favorite podcast 🤗🫶🫶🫶

  • @anm1684
    @anm1684 Месяц назад +2

    That inshallah hits ❤️‍🩹

  • @Kewlkidsid
    @Kewlkidsid Месяц назад +2

    Needed this so badly!!!
    Congratulations on the Merch btw I wish I lived nearer to get things sooner.
    Also ash has been like my elder sister and amber like a sis my age I love u guys sm keep growing lovies

  • @toptech2866
    @toptech2866 Месяц назад +1

    Perfect timing love your podcast ❤

  • @zoeywonghappy126
    @zoeywonghappy126 Месяц назад

    Completely agree with the hair theory!! If I wash my greasy hair, instant mood boost ✨

  • @Yasminmuffincloud
    @Yasminmuffincloud Месяц назад +4

    SLUSHY NOOBZ MENTIONED 💥💥💥💥

  • @samridhisingh2601
    @samridhisingh2601 Месяц назад

    Right when i needed a dose of Btsp the twins post❤️
    Love you both❤

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 Месяц назад +1

    Love the new logo, merch & cozy motivational podcast-vlog! ❤❤

  • @hanajaci
    @hanajaci Месяц назад

    I’m so excited to see the merch design!!! and thank you for filming this podcast💘

  • @weston7995
    @weston7995 Месяц назад

    the 5pm segment actually got me deadthat's so funny

    • @weston7995
      @weston7995 Месяц назад

      why it looks like slime kinda

  • @ryanvillagomez
    @ryanvillagomez Месяц назад

    really loved this video ashley and amber!! was such a good topic and vibe 🫶🏻 made me feel good thank u ❤️

  • @bodalonzo
    @bodalonzo Месяц назад

    I really enjoyed the business diaries video ashley did and i am really hoping to see more of the series soon!

  • @veronikalu6967
    @veronikalu6967 Месяц назад

    I live in Siberia, so I understand very well the depressive state that comes with the arrival of autumn and winter

  • @sabrinanguyen1755
    @sabrinanguyen1755 Месяц назад +1

    omgg i was hoping there’d be a new podcast to listen to while i workoutttt🤩🤩

  • @baehbee7583
    @baehbee7583 Месяц назад +1

    also texas doesn’t get snow it just gets really barren and frozen over like dead trees but nothing to show for it its so sad 😭

  • @Yasminmuffincloud
    @Yasminmuffincloud Месяц назад +1

    YAASSSS MERCH 💥💥💥💥💥💥

  • @juniorcabrera7096
    @juniorcabrera7096 Месяц назад

    DONT SMILE IS AN UNDERRATED BOPPPP

  • @earthangel.k.
    @earthangel.k. Месяц назад +1

    Amber you were eating it up when you were talking about how time is a social construct, to piggy back off what you were saying, humans are supposed to know how to provide for themselves, us being so disconnected from Mother Nature, because Mother Nature provides everything we could ever need not just to survive but to thrive, and not being able to provide for ourselves because we’ve been conditioned to believe we need the current system in place is a major contributor to seasonal depression and so many other things, but yeah the Industrial Revolution was the start of the slow burning death of us and this planet, literally, but it can be stopped if we take our power back from this system. I know this sounds crazy but sooner or later we gotta face it because global warming isn’t natural, being fed cancer causing chemicals isn’t natural, being so dependent on a system that a majority of our species barely even thinks about Mother Nature is not natural, and so on

  • @zooba533
    @zooba533 Месяц назад

    Im from Saudi Arabia and I LOVE when u guys say inshaallah jajaja u guys used them perfectlyy cultured queeens mashaallah. Alhalmdlilah is being grateful so giving thank you God “Allah”

  • @demigreen6495
    @demigreen6495 Месяц назад

    EARLY 🎉❤ CANT WAIT FOR THE MERCH!! and Kelly’s!!

  • @tokkitori
    @tokkitori Месяц назад

    MY FAVE DAY OF THE WEEEEEEK IVE BEEN REFRESHING MY YT ALL MORNING 🙂‍↕️

  • @yuki_me1158
    @yuki_me1158 Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful besties Mashaalah 💗
    And yes you used the words very well mashaalah , I will wait for ur next episode inshaalah and alhamdulilah you liked those words🫶🏻🌝
    Thanks for the tips and btw appreciation is actually a very important thing to feel ok, appreciation of everything we have and being grateful everymorning and evening and night is such a GORGEOUS thing hhhh ,and yes girls being grateful is an important part of islam,which claims that it should be a part of every person's routine (Thanking God:"Allah" for everything he gave us ) . Im sure you will like islam if you know more about it♡
    Love you girls 🩷🩷

  • @letsrolloutnyc
    @letsrolloutnyc Месяц назад

    Love this motivational podcast. And you definitely have to appreciate things to get through it. Great podcast as alway. 💪🏽

  • @twillie29
    @twillie29 Месяц назад +1

    Omgggg I am sooo early let’s go beautiful twin sisters! Also go out and vote today if you haven’t!!!

  • @lanasleep
    @lanasleep Месяц назад

    ouuuu yall were spittingggg on this one 🔥 great episode guys!

  • @alangelio
    @alangelio Месяц назад

    DWE AANDD BTSP MERCH!! Bruuuhhhh 🤙🏽🤙🏽❤️

  • @PaolaGutierrez-wh5ch
    @PaolaGutierrez-wh5ch Месяц назад

    i absolutely needed to hear this

  • @baehbee7583
    @baehbee7583 Месяц назад

    yall always know exactly what i need like HOW

  • @user-sh3tz4eu4c
    @user-sh3tz4eu4c 20 дней назад

    love this topic 🥳

  • @abcdefg.tuvwxyy
    @abcdefg.tuvwxyy Месяц назад

    this pod is reminds me of what i done before.. big shout out to sis thxxx

  • @Yasminmuffincloud
    @Yasminmuffincloud Месяц назад

    11:24 I FEEL SO CALLED OUT 😭😭😭💀

  • @mayyy6924
    @mayyy6924 Месяц назад

    ok but pit stains are so real ashley 🤣🤣😭 ill literally breathe and im already sweating. i realized that i start to sweat when i DO put on antiperspirant so today i skipped it and just used glycolic acid instead. currently the afternoon and i have not sweat as much as i usually do! glycolic acid also works for the smell so maybe buy some (not from the ordinary ofc due to 🇵🇸) and wipe it on ur armpits morning and night. even a little spray bottle of it can be handy!

  • @ashleykim1043
    @ashleykim1043 Месяц назад +1

    16:49 I’m not listening in Central Park but I’m in my dorm hunched over my computer doing homework can that compensate

  • @delilahhellokitty
    @delilahhellokitty Месяц назад

    its 8:40 am in sandy eggo WHAT A BEAUTIFUL START TO MY MORNING RAHHH LOVE YALL🩵

  • @user-kc5qz9ty8v
    @user-kc5qz9ty8v Месяц назад

    Me: 😕
    Me after sitting in my room staring at disco ball: 🎉🪩🤩

  • @bba134
    @bba134 Месяц назад

    guys in the clurb we all fam is from broad city and its an AMAZING show of two young women living in NYC doing crazy stuff its so funny and made by women, you should rlly watch it!

  • @Randomvideos0999
    @Randomvideos0999 Месяц назад

    Helped me so much thank you guys

  • @itstonycia
    @itstonycia Месяц назад

    Right on time girls

  • @itstonycia
    @itstonycia Месяц назад

    Halloween night was warm at in nyc. Felt like a summer night. No jacket needed for the girls going out!

  • @hanasamee9102
    @hanasamee9102 Месяц назад

    love this podcast so much MashaAllah!!

  • @FlixVBN
    @FlixVBN Месяц назад

    Great podcast episode. Zoomed out frame is preferred but this is fine

  • @sevss
    @sevss Месяц назад +1

    breakfast is hereeeeeeeeeeeee

  • @finsfables
    @finsfables Месяц назад

    in elementary school i did a science project on Gobstoppers 😭😭💀 i don’t remember how i did but that was wild

  • @Yasminmuffincloud
    @Yasminmuffincloud Месяц назад

    LET'S GOOOOO

  • @fiz17
    @fiz17 Месяц назад

    thanks for the pod

  • @DominiquePonce-l1m
    @DominiquePonce-l1m Месяц назад

    100% on the don’t smile by Sabrina

  • @Literally_dangeleeen
    @Literally_dangeleeen Месяц назад

    I don't have snow at all where I live 😅😅 we rarely have a winter in my state if we do its very rare , you have had christmas be 80⁰? 💀💀I live in Mississippi , and literally when it gets cold which my cold is 65⁰😭😭 i be so happy and i get seasonal depression more in the spring for some reason , prob cause i hate spring here , so many unknown bugs and agressive wasps who need anger management classes , like why are they so aggressive 🥴

  • @emilymann8443
    @emilymann8443 Месяц назад

    Me watching this at 5:32 lololol - got me wanting to open up a beer (I don’t like beer)

  • @SEOKJlN
    @SEOKJlN Месяц назад

    MERCH AHHHHHHHHH

  • @NeriyaHajaj
    @NeriyaHajaj Месяц назад +2

    5 minute gang🤙

  • @hi___m
    @hi___m Месяц назад

    I literally just sat down to eat great timing girls

  • @Myriam25mariam
    @Myriam25mariam Месяц назад

    Love you ❤❤

  • @Yasminmuffincloud
    @Yasminmuffincloud Месяц назад

    What is 5 o'clock
    5 o'clock can be disorienting experience, especially if you're not used to it
    The early morning darkness the silence and stillness make it feel almost surreal
    As the world hasn't fully woken up yet
    In such a moment U might find urself questioning why you're awake in the first place
    Put U remember to pray
    and u finish praying and u just set back and think to urself hemm maybe I can me productive
    and u just end up going back to sleep