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  • @millie-oliveiras
    @millie-oliveiras 3 года назад +4308

    “I am fully aware of how awkward I am, I just don’t know how not to be that”-
    I feel you

    • @kingdompursuit3472
      @kingdompursuit3472 3 года назад +12

      Right!!

    • @ninam.6997
      @ninam.6997 3 года назад +12

      I feel so seen

    • @RiRi-ku6xz
      @RiRi-ku6xz 3 года назад +2

      Sameee

    • @alinebarros6153
      @alinebarros6153 3 года назад +10

      Therapy has helped me. Even though everybody has your own way of being, too much introversion is not healthy. Relationships, as tiring as they are most of the times, are important for personal growth. Gotta step out of that comfort zone.

    • @sonettachi2033
      @sonettachi2033 3 года назад +3

      And it gets worse when they ask you "Why are you so awkward with me/us?" And then there's the panick so you'd be left with a response like "... I... don't know."

  • @girlfriend7558
    @girlfriend7558 4 года назад +13018

    “This sounded nice in my head, but now I regret this decision” LMFAO

    • @themilkyway6986
      @themilkyway6986 4 года назад +122

      Soo relatable!!

    • @kaeniquepsychic4315
      @kaeniquepsychic4315 4 года назад +67

      felt that....

    • @YoYo-nt7yf
      @YoYo-nt7yf 4 года назад +31

      Relatable😂

    • @jazzinikki01
      @jazzinikki01 4 года назад +25

      So freaking relatable 😅😂🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @marcovanstaden528
      @marcovanstaden528 4 года назад +72

      This is basically us at any type of social interaction when we lose the extrovert that invited us.

  • @elishaso
    @elishaso 4 года назад +12202

    "I don't hate _all_ people, there are a select few that I can trust."
    Yes.

    • @clairefarina8344
      @clairefarina8344 4 года назад +54

      Sameee
      0:53 for anyone wondering

    • @buoyana6534
      @buoyana6534 4 года назад +43

      and even fewer people that we can thrust

    • @shilohflowers878
      @shilohflowers878 4 года назад +8

      I read this while he was saying it! 😆

    • @blaze60997
      @blaze60997 4 года назад +3

      Elisha So I trust no one ever since my falling out w my ex best friend

    • @ookiett
      @ookiett 4 года назад +7

      Its called Natural selection...

  • @aurias42
    @aurias42 3 года назад +3261

    "I love having hypothetical arguments, those are fun"
    Dude I felt so called out why you gotta do that

    • @thehamlad
      @thehamlad 3 года назад +88

      They are quite fun though...

    • @aurias42
      @aurias42 3 года назад +105

      @@thehamlad Yeah, I mean just earlier today I was imagining how a conversation with a therapist would go... hmm perhaps that's not a good sign lol

    • @soph.b6054
      @soph.b6054 3 года назад +15

      Lmao same, it usually happens the most when I'm in the shower

    • @aurias42
      @aurias42 3 года назад +40

      @@soph.b6054 I was cooking yesterday and went on this long discussion with a hypothetically other party about how I came to have my current interests lol

    • @klbzplb
      @klbzplb 3 года назад +1

      Yes

  • @jayscot529
    @jayscot529 4 года назад +12386

    Introverts: “But I texted him...why does he keep calling me?”
    I FELT that.

    • @freeha6128
      @freeha6128 4 года назад +77

      Okay, it's not our fault we love talking to people ~w~ It feels more social
      I'm sorry

    • @jaxusr235
      @jaxusr235 4 года назад +174

      Freeha a.k.a Free The fact that it’s more social is the problem....

    • @freeha6128
      @freeha6128 4 года назад +16

      @@jaxusr235 Yep.

    • @Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet
      @Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet 4 года назад +38

      Ugh. Me and my Family.
      Solution - It's easier when you have a set schedule, whether or not it's absolutely true, you can state to certain people:
      "Hey, I'll be busy between X:XX to Y:YY due to work or other preparations for work. Preferably, if you must call, (consider a specific day and time frame) do so in the hours of 5-7pm on Tues and Thurs."
      This way, you can begin gaining more control over certain people's... phone habits against you.
      Simply stating "Text me before you call me to see if I'm free. If I don't reply, it means I'm busy." doesn't always work and people tend to forget who this applies to. People tend to remember the specified restrictions more.
      Hope this helps somewhat! Good luck with controlling your schedule and other environmental factors.

    • @K-TheGameFan
      @K-TheGameFan 4 года назад +7

      @@freeha6128 Damn right! I love talking on the phone too cuz im an extrovert too and i eventually get bored when i text for long periods of time and then i wanna switch for a phone call instead

  • @rowewills
    @rowewills 4 года назад +4471

    I feel comforted and attacked at the same time.

  • @musical.losers4436
    @musical.losers4436 4 года назад +8308

    "i'm pretty quiet with the people i don't know. but i'm an absolute freak with the people i do."
    i felt that

  • @insanityc0rn3r
    @insanityc0rn3r 3 года назад +4342

    "i texted him,...... why does he keep calling me-" is me asf

    • @bzzy968
      @bzzy968 3 года назад +35

      Lol I do this almost everyday

    • @catinspace887
      @catinspace887 3 года назад +101

      I let it just ring while staring at my phone(i feel guilty asf too)

    • @zhengawrintings
      @zhengawrintings 3 года назад +4

      Lmao

    • @amaliamerenda1699
      @amaliamerenda1699 3 года назад +6

      Oh God, you're not the only one😀😀

    • @deusvult697
      @deusvult697 3 года назад +4

      Yup lol

  • @plumpus1634
    @plumpus1634 4 года назад +4925

    How to punish an extrovert: "Go to your room"
    How to punish an introvert: "I'm signing you up for a party"

    • @Mesruksi
      @Mesruksi 4 года назад +500

      *how to make an introvert have a heart attack

    • @jakevideos11
      @jakevideos11 4 года назад +101

      Omg this comment section is gold

    • @101bookaholic
      @101bookaholic 4 года назад +155

      literally yelled "NOOOOOOO" as i read this comment oh gosh

    • @AquaStrategist
      @AquaStrategist 4 года назад +53

      NO! I DON’T WANNA! I don’t like a lot of people...

    • @marmolejomartinezjoseemili9043
      @marmolejomartinezjoseemili9043 4 года назад +18

      unless you dont have to talk in that party which is what i like eventhough im an introvert because i like dancing but not talking at all

  • @ruok3577
    @ruok3577 4 года назад +6614

    *When its a introverts birthday*
    Introvert: what if we just don't

    • @ladyj.9350
      @ladyj.9350 4 года назад +267

      “Can I sing?” “No” “Candles?” “No” “Well what if I just-“ “No”

    • @ruok3577
      @ruok3577 4 года назад +226

      @@ladyj.9350 When your at a restaurant and the employees start singing happy birthday to you uhh

    • @artyomxiii
      @artyomxiii 4 года назад +200

      Yes lmao why every birthday had to have big celebration, I'd rather ATTEND friend's birthday than being in center of attention, I hate that.

    • @pedrovinicius9753
      @pedrovinicius9753 4 года назад +41

      Thats me i hate birthdays but my family always forces me tô have some kind of celebration

    • @artyomxiii
      @artyomxiii 4 года назад +34

      @@pedrovinicius9753 is it just by dinner with families? If it is, it's fine then but I don't really like the kind of celebration where you had to make it like a huge party. I'm fine with going to my friend's but not for one myself

  • @qanh96
    @qanh96 4 года назад +3989

    I'm not antisocial.
    I'm *selectively* social.

    • @bojanav.7051
      @bojanav.7051 4 года назад +63

      Me too. I just feel people's energy fdom the moment i meet them. I notice everything about that person that could make us good friends,i found one girl i feel that can be my bff. Sadly she lives in another city. All the "friends"(schhol friends) are hella not my type,i don't like them because our energies do not match.

    • @groberti
      @groberti 4 года назад +12

      @@bojanav.7051 I can feel that but you still can be somewhat social and keep the distance at the same time or at least not be an asshole to them

    • @bojanav.7051
      @bojanav.7051 4 года назад +15

      @@groberti I do exactly that. I am kind to everyone.

    • @groberti
      @groberti 4 года назад +4

      @@bojanav.7051 That's cool! Not everybody is like that

    • @bratz-t3f
      @bratz-t3f 4 года назад +1

      😂😂😂

  • @crooked4827
    @crooked4827 3 года назад +1939

    "i'm not bad talking with people, i just don't care to"
    Wow, spot on

  • @joeking88
    @joeking88 4 года назад +4133

    "Introduce yourself to the class" still gives me anxiety even after not being in school for 15 years.

    • @zzhangfairy
      @zzhangfairy 4 года назад +61

      same, i hate pronouncing my name because i know white ppl will get it wrong

    • @ayekantspeylgud
      @ayekantspeylgud 4 года назад +75

      Same except now it’s at work lol. “Let’s go around the room and introduce ourselves!”
      *Can we not, instead?*

    • @roseaimee4377
      @roseaimee4377 4 года назад +1

      hahahaha

    • @kris2370
      @kris2370 4 года назад +54

      i remember practicing in my head what i’m gonna say and how i’m gonna say it

    • @caritadepizza
      @caritadepizza 4 года назад

      Agh yes

  • @emilys.1945
    @emilys.1945 4 года назад +2290

    The disgustingly confused/scared expressions at a ringing phone has never been more accurate

    • @yagirlsallie5512
      @yagirlsallie5512 4 года назад +18

      Exactly man I don't call anyone and if anyone calls me I don't answer 👁️___👁️

    • @dchristian1021
      @dchristian1021 4 года назад +8

      Lol that's when you hit them back with the, "I'm not able to talk, but what's up?" Hopefully they'll tell you and establish the preferred method of communication.

    • @brownskin_girl6014
      @brownskin_girl6014 4 года назад +5

      I thought that was just me
      I be like: 👁👄👁 - who in the actual FUCK is calling me right now?! Nobody I actually know because they know I’m strictly a texter

    • @observingatoms
      @observingatoms 4 года назад +3

      And dont forget those video calls with your relatives whom you havent met in years. Gosh i hate those and struggle to look on the screen.

  • @sailspo
    @sailspo 4 года назад +15307

    How to starve an introvert: strangers in the kitchen.

    • @bojanav.7051
      @bojanav.7051 4 года назад +558

      True,but i always find a way out. I would ask someone to bring me my food to my room.

    • @aurorachen5877
      @aurorachen5877 4 года назад +144

      Bojana K M Lucky U. I’m not allowed to eat in my room:(

    • @lukamodric7
      @lukamodric7 4 года назад +163

      @@bojanav.7051 Yeah I always ask my sister if she enters my dungeon.

    • @sheenocon673
      @sheenocon673 4 года назад +404

      i get PISSED when ppl come over at our house bc i cant go out of my room 😂

    • @critterboi5369
      @critterboi5369 4 года назад +27

      U could single hand-edly wipe out us

  • @archieese9176
    @archieese9176 3 года назад +833

    "Im pretty quiet with the people i dont know but im an absolute freak with the people i do". Boyyyy you really did your homework

    • @secre.e6870
      @secre.e6870 3 года назад +18

      I wonder if my friends think I'm weird because of this

    • @flwrden
      @flwrden 3 года назад +7

      maybe he's an introvert himself. lol

    • @Hm-dh1vu
      @Hm-dh1vu 3 года назад

      archieese , damn you gorgeous af ngl but ikr

  • @MahaliaAkatugba
    @MahaliaAkatugba 4 года назад +15953

    “how do i escape this meaningless small talk” I FELT THAT

    • @mangamez-2821
      @mangamez-2821 4 года назад +60

      SAMEEEE AAAAAAA

    • @yhanna4066
      @yhanna4066 4 года назад +18

      I died

    • @timesup2812
      @timesup2812 4 года назад +86

      Am I the only introvert who loves small talk? Especially when a conversation sparks up with a strangers on the bus or street or meeting people for the first time (only when they initiate it, I don't have the guts to, though I try). Mainly because you both start on the same page, you don't really have to open up much and you're probably not gonna see them again so you can just talk about random light happy things and have no strings attached, so you got nothing to lose. It's just an instant spark of happiness of making someone's day. I guess I'm not really an introvert then, just labeled an 'introvert' alot😅

    • @timesup2812
      @timesup2812 4 года назад +27

      @Park Chimchim Haha yeah maybe. Though I am usually quiet and in my head alot, I do love people😂. I guess it's just my anxiety that makes me come off as an introvert. Also Hey Army!😊🖑

    • @Rosa_fleurr
      @Rosa_fleurr 4 года назад +6

      Same everytime with my so called "friends" so I just play along since I have no choice

  • @dualtahunter4043
    @dualtahunter4043 4 года назад +2902

    "hypothetical arguments, those are fun"
    Well that hit close to home

    • @someonewhoexists7350
      @someonewhoexists7350 4 года назад +58

      Yeah, me too. One of the reasons I have trouble sleeping. 😉

    • @katchatt9827
      @katchatt9827 4 года назад +3

      100th like, yay

    • @chigozie123
      @chigozie123 4 года назад +53

      I literally have to tell myself to "shut up dude" in order to escape those moments

    • @SunFlowerpowers
      @SunFlowerpowers 4 года назад +5

      Yes! And 2:10 to 2:17 really hit close to home for me lol

    • @MidnightEkaki
      @MidnightEkaki 4 года назад +37

      @JessikaEmerald Its having an opinion on something and pretending someone asked you about it and you think up a response. I find its a helpful way to organise my thoughts and reassess my opinions on something if I start seeing faults with my own argument

  • @novabbe4627
    @novabbe4627 4 года назад +6235

    I hate having 1 to 1 conversations, because after talking for 20 seconds, I dont know what to say

    • @brady8877
      @brady8877 4 года назад +523

      Yeah. And if you try to come up with something right away it’s usually not interesting and they want to talk to soMe one else

    • @PinkCow0
      @PinkCow0 4 года назад +40

      Arthur376 13 :( yeah middle school

    • @deathlizard3047
      @deathlizard3047 4 года назад +61

      Maybe next time try talking with a topic you both like, you can learn different facts with them that you didn't know, For me things that get my head going are philosophy, Space, Neuroscience and shows that I like to watch.

    • @daveforz
      @daveforz 4 года назад +200

      I'm different. I'm alright with 1 on 1 convos, but I'm terrible in group conversation. I don't know what to say and when I do *think of something someone else says something. I just don't know when to interject.

    • @cloudsz4743
      @cloudsz4743 4 года назад +12

      that why I left my gf

  • @KBird204
    @KBird204 3 года назад +521

    Big props to the friends who know we will most likely decline an invitation because of anxiety but offer anyway so we don't feel left out.

    • @dontmindme7653
      @dontmindme7653 3 года назад +46

      Those friends are to be cherished

    • @torokami1109
      @torokami1109 3 года назад +9

      No probs to people who don't get introverts at all and try to drag them to every event possible

    • @zwyubawx9756
      @zwyubawx9756 2 года назад +1

      Angels in our lives ♥.

    • @vespercount6524
      @vespercount6524 2 года назад +4

      they're tired of me by now

  • @bodaciousbaxton2166
    @bodaciousbaxton2166 4 года назад +18746

    “I hope you don’t mind me following you, you’re the only person here I know.” I felt that

    • @edgat5046
      @edgat5046 4 года назад +428

      relate level: 💯

    • @way2percd
      @way2percd 4 года назад +161

      Bodacious Baxton me at parties

    • @meep7895
      @meep7895 4 года назад +42

      Relatable

    • @nogoaway8208
      @nogoaway8208 4 года назад +18

      Proud to be the 1000th like

    • @ArtienYT
      @ArtienYT 4 года назад +185

      And I always end up being left behind by that one "friend" 😭👏

  • @slab9034
    @slab9034 4 года назад +3657

    More accurately, "Things all introverts think but most of the time are too afraid to say"

    • @thevictorangel
      @thevictorangel 4 года назад +43

      i said it all the time, because people wouldn't understand my feelings if i don't

    • @updog1785
      @updog1785 4 года назад +8

      Same

    • @uyagraph
      @uyagraph 4 года назад +44

      True lol i say them a lot but in my head.

    • @luciellawliet
      @luciellawliet 4 года назад +2

      kaleiidospook, yep

    • @slab9034
      @slab9034 4 года назад +3

      @@uyagraph same lol

  • @naroimperium9133
    @naroimperium9133 4 года назад +1213

    "I'm fully aware of how awkward I am, I just don't know how not to be..." This speaks to my soul...

    • @tin.sindiong
      @tin.sindiong 4 года назад +10

      Me me and me

    • @kittenmeow1000
      @kittenmeow1000 4 года назад +8

      So painfully true 😭

    • @blackberry9766
      @blackberry9766 4 года назад +30

      "Why can't you just be more brave when meeting new people?"
      *Oh gee, why didn't I think of that? What a wonderful idea!*

    • @avaroseweisberg
      @avaroseweisberg 4 года назад +4

      FORWARD WE GO

    • @isa-4596
      @isa-4596 4 года назад

      Oh this one’s deep *deep*

  • @simp_1117
    @simp_1117 3 года назад +667

    Me during groupings/paired activities be like: I'll do the researching, write the essay/thesis, and PowerPoint, YOU present it in class

    • @hello-cv9ix
      @hello-cv9ix 3 года назад +8

      OMG A FELLOW MOA HII !!

    • @sirarthurconandoyle523
      @sirarthurconandoyle523 3 года назад +8

      Me too XD !!

    • @simp_1117
      @simp_1117 3 года назад +6

      @@hello-cv9ix uwu annyeong fellow moa!

    • @crookedbuns
      @crookedbuns 3 года назад +29

      This xD except when I was in school, everyone was required to say something so we had no choice

    • @simp_1117
      @simp_1117 3 года назад +5

      @@crookedbuns oh, I know that feeling.. And my thoughts went like "uwaaaa what should I do? Why do I have to say something? And in front of this many people? I can't think of anything.. What if I stutter? I'll just introduce myself and read one of the PowerPoint slide, then leave the talking to someone else. I hope this will be over soon.."

  • @shiggydiggy9801
    @shiggydiggy9801 4 года назад +8244

    A real introvert would say this things sure,but mostly in his mind.

    • @mugchicken
      @mugchicken 4 года назад +193

      SO FUCKING TRUE

    • @boaplitas101
      @boaplitas101 4 года назад +196

      No? There are different types of introverted. I still say words and often I find myself speaking to myself outloud.

    • @multijxde1855
      @multijxde1855 4 года назад +3

      Yep

    • @ilike2munch
      @ilike2munch 4 года назад +1

      agreeed

    • @HEEFHD
      @HEEFHD 4 года назад +32

      @@riptaiyo I don't agree with that, I am quite an introvert, but I can be really comfortable if I'm just acting for example

  • @Putindidnothingwrong
    @Putindidnothingwrong 4 года назад +2579

    "Im hungry but someone is downstairs, im not going downstairs" WAYY TOO RELATABLE

  • @amirajohnson12354
    @amirajohnson12354 4 года назад +11170

    “i’m just gonna follow you cause you’re the only person i know in here”
    felt that in my core

    • @emyshane368
      @emyshane368 4 года назад +50

      Yeah same

    • @_hehetmon_8503
      @_hehetmon_8503 4 года назад +32

      ARMY!! Hii 💜

    • @amirajohnson12354
      @amirajohnson12354 4 года назад +16

      oh hi!!! love your profile pic ☺️💜

    • @MyHeartIsOhMyGod
      @MyHeartIsOhMyGod 4 года назад +168

      YES. But like, what else are you supposed to do?? Just stand there?? I have no idea what to do at parties 😂

    • @marialndn
      @marialndn 4 года назад +16

      I literally gasped when he said that

  • @eurekasun_
    @eurekasun_ 3 года назад +511

    "I'm fully aware of how awkward I am, I just don't know how not to be that. So, *forward I go*
    "I hope you don't mind me following you by the way. It's just, you're the only person I know here"
    ^this one hit hard

    • @choppers9909
      @choppers9909 3 года назад +1

      Ruined the 69 likes

    • @toeclo7771
      @toeclo7771 3 года назад +1

      Yes yes yes same here

    • @trainosaurousrex4472
      @trainosaurousrex4472 3 года назад +7

      Until they decide to hang out with their other friends there 😅

    • @toeclo7771
      @toeclo7771 3 года назад +8

      @@trainosaurousrex4472 gosh man you just had to say that

    • @Mattstak
      @Mattstak 3 года назад

      @@choppers9909 ah yes, another classic introvert quote

  • @drengr8691
    @drengr8691 3 года назад +5009

    “I texted him....why does he keep calling me?”
    Bro fucking MOOD 😂

    • @haiderrizvi5057
      @haiderrizvi5057 3 года назад +29

      I just fooled a friend yesterday
      He said to come on voice call for today and I said YeAh OhkAYy because I knew he's stubborn so he'll keep asking that :! ... But I really knew I,m not gonna do it anyway ... he just called me 23 times already 😬
      I really regret saying OhkAYy tho. 😐😬

    • @Nooneeeeeeeeeeee
      @Nooneeeeeeeeeeee 3 года назад +43

      @@haiderrizvi5057 me too, I feel so awkward on calls i hate them

    • @IAteFortnite
      @IAteFortnite 3 года назад +5

      calling is a lot better than texting because you can actually talk to the person and hear their tone of voice, plus it's more efficient

    • @drengr8691
      @drengr8691 3 года назад +53

      @@IAteFortnite Clearly you’re not an introvert then lol

    • @haiderrizvi5057
      @haiderrizvi5057 3 года назад +4

      @@Nooneeeeeeeeeeee
      I hate it tOo YeS of course even sometimes I feel like I,m allergic to it or somethin 😆
      Well I,m just a TopiclesS ALIEN 😌✌🏻🙃
      And also hry stranger ?
      have a gOoD day or night maybe whatever you're having 🙃

  • @toasega
    @toasega 4 года назад +2794

    Them: "You overthink things."
    Me: "Someone has to."

    • @FyuyuR
      @FyuyuR 4 года назад +39

      Oh, I'm stealing that. Great answer !

    • @Desimere
      @Desimere 4 года назад +48

      Overthinking by definition is thinking TOO much about something. To the degree that the thinking becomes more harmful than helpful. So I just explain this definition to the people who say these things. Because by overthinking they basically just mean that I am analyzing the situation more than they themselves would. I think it would make sense to them if you explain for example with an analogy like a robot has to "overthink" emotions, because they don't just happen naturally on their own. Or with whatever the social aspect is, that requires a lot of analysis. Everyone tends to assume others are like them, so they think too much analysis is pointless because it would be for them.

    • @neogotmycrack7938
      @neogotmycrack7938 4 года назад +2

      @@Desimere this !!!

    • @thebestguy1
      @thebestguy1 4 года назад +1

      @@Desimere no kidding genius

    • @michelangelo5903
      @michelangelo5903 4 года назад +7

      S.A.M. overthinking has saved me a lot of times though

  • @00vulture
    @00vulture 4 года назад +12636

    Being an introvert is basically trying to disturb people as little as possible

    • @v0id_d3m0n
      @v0id_d3m0n 4 года назад +75

      Introvert = pushover
      Sometimes ?

    • @nukerubberducky
      @nukerubberducky 4 года назад +405

      @@v0id_d3m0n No, I'm introverted and it's quite the opposite, however there is a grain of truth in that - Introverts will back down (me included) when a peaceful option arises. Doesn't make them a push over though, because when push comes to shove most will handle themselves fine

    • @Exalted-
      @Exalted- 4 года назад +171

      Right. I can't stand when people are intrusive or don't have common decency.

    • @200mariahcarey
      @200mariahcarey 4 года назад +25

      Wouldn't that just be socially anxious?

    • @sahana6292
      @sahana6292 4 года назад +9

      OOOOOH 1,000th like that feels goooooood

  • @tristanbuckner1170
    @tristanbuckner1170 3 года назад +328

    The disdain in his eyes when he says “I didn’t ask, but she told me”, I feel that.

    • @writer0197
      @writer0197 3 года назад

      Lmao

    • @writer0197
      @writer0197 3 года назад

      For God so loved world that He gave His only Son that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but has eternal life

  • @oliviaabbots6617
    @oliviaabbots6617 4 года назад +1547

    "I'm fully aware of how awkward I am. I just don't know how not to be that. So onward I go"
    lmao I felt that dude

    • @bangtan_sonyeondan8
      @bangtan_sonyeondan8 4 года назад +11

      I reas this at the exact same time he said it. I love those moments

    • @gerda6132
      @gerda6132 4 года назад +5

      big mood

    • @MrShinCup
      @MrShinCup 4 года назад +2

      Its funny that I read this comment the same time he said it lmao

    • @MrShinCup
      @MrShinCup 4 года назад +2

      Bangtan Sonyeondan i see ur not the only one

    • @Whopcap
      @Whopcap 4 года назад

      M-E

  • @nicholemakesstuff331
    @nicholemakesstuff331 4 года назад +2554

    "I'm not bad at talking to people. I just don't care to."
    **nods in agreement**

    • @viperk8341
      @viperk8341 4 года назад +7

      1.5k likes no comments, how?

    • @heroricspiritfreinen38
      @heroricspiritfreinen38 4 года назад +1

      @@ZM-np8sv you say while talking

    • @tedmalley7636
      @tedmalley7636 4 года назад +2

      Me too..can't relate to most people.

    • @imsentinelprime9279
      @imsentinelprime9279 4 года назад +2

      @@tedmalley7636 me to my father keeps saying go talk to people and make relationships when I dont have a clue what im doing

  • @Alan_is_here
    @Alan_is_here 4 года назад +2404

    "I just texted him why is he calling?"
    Such uncomfortable situation.

    • @HollyAnneThePaganChaosWitch
      @HollyAnneThePaganChaosWitch 4 года назад +31

      I've been there and I hate it.

    • @sc3709
      @sc3709 4 года назад +25

      ITS THE WORST

    • @yagaloi5918
      @yagaloi5918 4 года назад +20

      Like you put me in such an uncomfortable situation like you know I'm not happy you know that I'm trying-

    • @lenjoyer
      @lenjoyer 4 года назад +26

      Or when they try to FaceTime you💀💀💀instant panic

    • @Raay.90
      @Raay.90 4 года назад

      Its a fucking nightmare

  • @Walterdecarvalh0100
    @Walterdecarvalh0100 3 года назад +1078

    Wow, he actually looks and sound like a real introvert. Unlike the "quirky" ones you see everywhere.

    • @bjrntykhelle2892
      @bjrntykhelle2892 3 года назад +80

      ...
      You have got to be kidding me. There's something called real introverts? Dont make this more of a cult than it already is

    • @cunningfox831
      @cunningfox831 3 года назад +152

      For real. People bully introverts in school and then suddenly now EVERYONE glorifies introverts and wants to say that they are one. Like... no. It’s so annoying!

    • @gottalivehappy
      @gottalivehappy 3 года назад +7

      @@cunningfox831 i kinda want to be an extrovert

    • @kitbracadabra
      @kitbracadabra 3 года назад +34

      @@bjrntykhelle2892 the comment section here is so damn weird, it really is a cult

    • @404rangernotfound2
      @404rangernotfound2 3 года назад +8

      @@bjrntykhelle2892 keep crying boy or girl, i dont care

  • @siddhantkolke8000
    @siddhantkolke8000 4 года назад +13306

    *seeing a familiar face in the crowd*
    Extrovert: Heyyy, I know that dude
    Introvert: Shittt, I know that dude

    • @rashedulkabir6227
      @rashedulkabir6227 4 года назад +634

      This is social anxiety not introversion.

    • @sped1220
      @sped1220 4 года назад +288

      I'm a weird mix of both

    • @lieberte
      @lieberte 4 года назад +288

      @@rashedulkabir6227 not necessarily, sometimes I just prefer being undisturbed and going with my solo-plans without wasting time talking about weather

    • @Jc50gt
      @Jc50gt 4 года назад +95

      Rashedul Kabir no, i do that because i just dont want to talk to people if i am out and about. Even if it is people i know. Nothing to do with social anxiety for me. I am in sales so talking to people is a nonstop thing for me. I like to not talk to a soul outside of work lol. It’s exhausting.

    • @fobo3361
      @fobo3361 4 года назад +102

      I go through like a wave first its "heyyy, i know that dude" to "oh fuck he spotted me, i can't run away now, we just made eye contact, dammit no going back now"

  • @oburimacha4306
    @oburimacha4306 4 года назад +9100

    “I dont like all people, just selected ones.”
    *Reasons why Introverts and Cats are of the same species*

    • @fbilovesyou8285
      @fbilovesyou8285 4 года назад +99

      No, my cat doesn't like anyone either except the scratch pole

    • @xVadRay
      @xVadRay 4 года назад +215

      @@fbilovesyou8285 That's why introverts and cats get along so well

    • @lolbagger4325
      @lolbagger4325 4 года назад +17

      hate* hahaha and cats are lovelyyy

    • @mementomori8922
      @mementomori8922 4 года назад +41

      So that's why I love my cat so much
      K that was edgy

    • @amilkshake3843
      @amilkshake3843 4 года назад +22

      Thats why I like cats so much

  • @SaphiraTessa
    @SaphiraTessa 4 года назад +17344

    "but I texted him, why does he keep calling me" this should be a crime!

    • @lilium9361
      @lilium9361 4 года назад +482

      Damn right it should!
      My anxiety can't take it.

    • @Buck1096
      @Buck1096 4 года назад +72

      I read this while rewatching at that part that timing

    • @danielandrade1214
      @danielandrade1214 4 года назад +48

      SaphiraTessa I love calling people... I feel bad now

    • @nerinablais6623
      @nerinablais6623 4 года назад +171

      I struggle talking to people in general, but it's even worse when I'm on the phone with them. I can't even talk to people I know over the phone with someone I know because I just struggle to formulate words into sentences. Small talk is the hardest for me, and most phone calls from my experience have always been small talk.

    • @dragontyrant5607
      @dragontyrant5607 4 года назад +45

      I hate when people do that

  • @abeanwithintentions
    @abeanwithintentions 3 года назад +266

    thank you. introversion ≠ antisocial. like, a lot of us absolutely love social interaction, its just absolutely exhausting. once we have our alone time for at least an hour, we can go right back to socializing.

    • @user-hj5io2wt3d
      @user-hj5io2wt3d 3 года назад +5

      welp now I have no idea if I’m introverted, extroverted, etc because I don’t often have conversations with people other than one of my relatives.

    • @found_it
      @found_it 3 года назад +8

      That accurately describes me too but mainly I have trust issues for reasons I don't want to talk to about because I'm afraid people will judge me for even though I fairly certain that they won't I just don't know what to say in a conversation and it's awkward and I want to form meaningful relationships with a few select people that I know but I ... I think I said too much.

    • @andreeacat7071
      @andreeacat7071 3 года назад +5

      @@found_it Sometimes in moments of deep thought I wonder if everyone I’m friends with is only friends with me because they pity me or because my parents made them be friends with me. It’s not an introvert thing, but hey haha funny thing that prevents me from making friends.

    • @nicolascarrilhohomem4031
      @nicolascarrilhohomem4031 Год назад

      Well... I probably need more time than this lol

    • @soyjoyy
      @soyjoyy Год назад +1

      Lies. More like a week, or a month.

  • @nabibi337
    @nabibi337 4 года назад +12387

    The fact that he's basically talking to himself is pretty much something an introvert would do.

    • @sethv2986
      @sethv2986 4 года назад +297

      Lmaooo thats just me 100%

    • @furbabylover1532
      @furbabylover1532 4 года назад +44

      Exactly

    • @TheGlory16
      @TheGlory16 4 года назад +207

      •夏美• I talk to myself everyday..

    • @anijaparidze3599
      @anijaparidze3599 4 года назад +136

      I discuss books characters and their behavior with myself or argue with those characters....I am not an introvert...?

    • @icewolfwolfie173
      @icewolfwolfie173 4 года назад +13

      That's not me...tho alot of things in the video is me.. like the weather talk thing in like "pls i dont care this isnt a intresting subject talk about something else....ANYTHING"

  • @neongravy1636
    @neongravy1636 4 года назад +2401

    “But I texted him...why does he keep calling me?” I felt that.

    • @nancyhernandez2271
      @nancyhernandez2271 3 года назад +64

      YESSSSS!!!! I hate that!!! Answering the phone is the worst thing😭

    • @Te3time
      @Te3time 3 года назад +33

      I never pick up the first time someone calls but some ppl don't get the hint

    • @nancyhernandez2271
      @nancyhernandez2271 3 года назад +20

      @@Te3time I usually text back, “did you mean to call?”. Lol

    • @말랑콩떡-d7l
      @말랑콩떡-d7l 3 года назад +3

      @@Te3time ikr loll

    • @Itslanaobvi
      @Itslanaobvi 3 года назад +4

      Felt.

  • @beepbop1740
    @beepbop1740 4 года назад +7116

    As a introvert, parties suck unless I can find another introvert.

    • @CaptainAmericaOfficial.
      @CaptainAmericaOfficial. 4 года назад +219

      Party’s do you mean like a ps4 part chat? That’s the only party’s I go to

    • @neerajbhatt700
      @neerajbhatt700 4 года назад +129

      Unless I can found my one friend , who don't want to be with me ...

    • @blackwidowbrigade5042
      @blackwidowbrigade5042 4 года назад +37

      @@CaptainAmericaOfficial. that hit too hard for me lol

    • @CaptainAmericaOfficial.
      @CaptainAmericaOfficial. 4 года назад +7

      Jared Stegman ha ha

    • @komlat253
      @komlat253 4 года назад +22

      @@CaptainAmericaOfficial. true has shit lol. I've been to like 3 real parties and each time i left before it started .but xbox party chat for 24 hours with really close friends in different places of the world is easy.i couldn't find in a crowd of people but i know that laugh anywhere lol

  • @addiehansen3671
    @addiehansen3671 3 года назад +224

    "I like fictional characters more than I like real people. Haha, I'm just kidding. I'm not kidding." That is what I say all the time.

  • @HawkinaBox
    @HawkinaBox 4 года назад +4231

    "I'm not bad at talking to people, I just don't CARE to." Relatable.

    • @lavenderjade8
      @lavenderjade8 4 года назад +14

      lol so true

    • @68plus1.
      @68plus1. 4 года назад +100

      well for me im both bad at talking with people and dont even care to lol

    • @StrvberryM0on
      @StrvberryM0on 4 года назад +21

      well im just bad at it

    • @hlaci98
      @hlaci98 4 года назад +4

      100% correct

    • @SwffjKk
      @SwffjKk 4 года назад +4

      Cringe.

  • @Queen-by7qx
    @Queen-by7qx 4 года назад +12721

    Being an introvert I feel so much at peace while in quarantine

    • @jemdie1013
      @jemdie1013 4 года назад +470

      This is my best dream come true

    • @Solidifiedtherat
      @Solidifiedtherat 4 года назад +551

      I haven't talked to anybody for 2 months
      Its perfect

    • @PeridotFacet-FLCut-XG-og1xx
      @PeridotFacet-FLCut-XG-og1xx 4 года назад +219

      I *_know_* but I feel so guilty for it

    • @Grace22110
      @Grace22110 4 года назад +308

      I feel so much less stress. I love being home.

    • @Solidifiedtherat
      @Solidifiedtherat 4 года назад +32

      @@PeridotFacet-FLCut-XG-og1xx why would you?

  • @f16airforce
    @f16airforce 4 года назад +15120

    The WORST is when you’re having small talk and then both of you run out of topic and there is just a 10-15 second silence of awkward.

    • @TheCollectiveHexagon
      @TheCollectiveHexagon 4 года назад +149

      @@juliana8374 You can literally start talking about life and end talking about how bread are made
      you dont need excuses to change the subject

    • @Daniel_JT.
      @Daniel_JT. 4 года назад +90

      I'm friends / not friends with this kid that goes the same church I go to and than my family and his family decided to go eat and here some context out of the way I dont talk very much and this kid is no exception sssSSSSO IT'S EVEN WORSE so here we are at the table and than we start talking about games because it's the only thing now how to talk about I talk about the games I likes he talks about the game he likes and than now we don't know what to talk about so know we're still sitting here and I'm trying to not make eye contact and eating my fries and this goes on for like 10 more minutes and what felt like forever after all that's done I can finally sit back and relax... oh and sorry if made any typos!

    • @sozio1124
      @sozio1124 4 года назад +110

      If there is this awkwardness. Just be random. I tried it a few times. Say things like "I ate a frog once". The other one will be suprised and mostly amused....its a nice icebreaker for introverts :)

    • @milanlg9097
      @milanlg9097 4 года назад +27

      Danny Thompson I know how it feels man, it’s the worst types of situations to be in

    • @Zeru64_
      @Zeru64_ 4 года назад +28

      That's my favorite part, actually. When people I don't know/care talks to me I look for the awkwardest moments, so they go away and, hopefully, never talk to me again.

  • @Brenda-tt7rb
    @Brenda-tt7rb 3 года назад +61

    "I'll come back tomorrow" I feel this in the depths of my soul

  • @minimayday5000
    @minimayday5000 4 года назад +13638

    As an introvert, You have the most conversations with yourself not people.

    • @BuizelCream
      @BuizelCream 4 года назад +730

      It's also interesting to compare why we don't get tired of talking to ourselves compared to someone else.
      I can talk to myself on and on and on and on and

    • @esmeralda1446
      @esmeralda1446 4 года назад +325

      @@BuizelCream I think that is because you don't have to like you. You can know what you think, but with people you can't control what they think about you. When introverts have friends is because they accept each other like they are :)
      Sorry if I have mistakes, English is my 3rd lenguage :/

    • @SKYxmusic
      @SKYxmusic 4 года назад +30

      its true

    • @indiangirl874
      @indiangirl874 4 года назад +103

      I can live my whole life alone with my pet.

    • @breda-lee7201
      @breda-lee7201 4 года назад +35

      Hahaha! And our pets!

  • @lakeishag76
    @lakeishag76 4 года назад +14044

    “I texted him. Why does he keep calling me?” *this is why I’m single*

    • @rh1no-m3v
      @rh1no-m3v 4 года назад +670

      I hate talking over the phone or FaceTiming with passion

    • @heatherfeather1293
      @heatherfeather1293 4 года назад +303

      SAME!! I forced myself to go on a few dates, and now he's whining that I don't text back enough or call. DUDE, stop being clingy LOL

    • @Jana-rs6mr
      @Jana-rs6mr 4 года назад +370

      I prefer texting over calling. It gives me more time to think lol

    • @elisabeth9951
      @elisabeth9951 4 года назад +190

      No, but seriously... why do they keep calling me when I text them?

    • @kxena2913
      @kxena2913 4 года назад +12

      amen

  • @eve3662
    @eve3662 4 года назад +3297

    "I'm really hungry but Mia's downstairs. Not going down there."
    Damn I felt that

  • @FantumEX
    @FantumEX 3 года назад +36

    "I'm fully aware of how awkward I am, I just don't know how not to be that."
    Hits way too hard how accurate this is.

  • @adsfea
    @adsfea 4 года назад +10795

    "i'm not bad at talking to people. I just dOn'T kNoW wHaT ToPiC sHoULd i TaLk AbOuT" is really me all the time

    • @mmiisshhaa
      @mmiisshhaa 4 года назад +468

      Yah! Like i literally just dont care or dont know about most of the things people talk about!

    • @yungsplash5408
      @yungsplash5408 4 года назад +255

      A lot of people waste breath when they talk sometimes

    • @user-rm8by9fm
      @user-rm8by9fm 4 года назад +377

      I tend to avoid people cause Ik I will just make them awkward cause I dont really know what to talk about to them lmao

    • @TwistedRagdoll
      @TwistedRagdoll 4 года назад +188

      i feel creepy when i talk to people and i dont want to annoy them

    • @t0aster_101
      @t0aster_101 4 года назад +16

      Ikr??

  • @monochromatic2808
    @monochromatic2808 4 года назад +2966

    I like being alone, but I don't like being lonely

  • @JimmyG01
    @JimmyG01 4 года назад +5878

    An introverts worst nightmare is when you're at home chilling in your room and there are guests over...
    So now you can't go downstairs until they leave T_T

    • @zeroslope1161
      @zeroslope1161 4 года назад +89

      Jimmy Gill why tf do I relate so much 😂😞

    • @inigo8740
      @inigo8740 4 года назад +267

      @@GhstInShadow even worse, they go into your room

    • @janjaspiganovic7685
      @janjaspiganovic7685 4 года назад +20

      THIS

    • @areleza
      @areleza 4 года назад +16

      AGREED.

    • @gustavomattos1902
      @gustavomattos1902 4 года назад +167

      Worst when you're hungry and the guests are at kitchen.

  • @Rolo-Tony
    @Rolo-Tony 3 года назад +105

    Being incredibly socially anxious, I'd rather be hanging out with a smaller group so I dont feel as much tension and feel "required" to talk so much...
    I hate my life, and wasted so much holed up in anxiety... I am 26 and missed so much...

    • @WouldntULikeToKnow.
      @WouldntULikeToKnow. 3 года назад +2

      Just started taking medication for social anxiety and it's starting to help. If you can access it is something to look into.

    • @luminoustorus548
      @luminoustorus548 3 года назад +5

      Ignore the other guy, try meditation before committing to some chemical dependency

    • @SirusStarTV
      @SirusStarTV 3 года назад

      It's not like we could change anything if we transferred back in time with our current brain...

    • @luminoustorus548
      @luminoustorus548 3 года назад +1

      @@acat63 meditation is therapeutic, try it with others more experienced

    • @vladraduandrei5227
      @vladraduandrei5227 2 года назад

      we re the same age then.

  • @iammaxhailme
    @iammaxhailme 4 года назад +1681

    "I love having hypothetical arguments"
    who let you into my brain??

    • @admiralthrawnbar4899
      @admiralthrawnbar4899 4 года назад +25

      Did you make any good points recently?

    • @iammaxhailme
      @iammaxhailme 4 года назад +78

      @@admiralthrawnbar4899 I tried but the idiot I was arguing with wouldn't listen to reason

    • @Jackenack
      @Jackenack 4 года назад +73

      Cut to a picture of me pacing around my room at 1 in the morning, pretending to have a discussion with someone about something they said today. This hits way too close man.

    • @radiocorrective
      @radiocorrective 4 года назад +6

      @@iammaxhailme You know we could totally have such an argument right now! Name a topic lmao
      (I can't promise that I won't bail tho... I sometimes do these things and then realize I have no time but with no time I mean I am bad at managing to do what I need to and entertain myself instead)

    • @aiden3627
      @aiden3627 4 года назад +2

      iammaxhailme right?! I have them all the time! I thought I was just odd.

  • @Gandalfs_hat
    @Gandalfs_hat 4 года назад +2030

    "I texted him, why dose he keep calling me?"
    So me

    • @MCiliberti1
      @MCiliberti1 4 года назад +21

      I text so you will leave me alone

    • @אסתריחזקאל-נ1נ
      @אסתריחזקאל-נ1נ 4 года назад +2

      טוב לראות פה עוד ישראלים

    • @Gandalfs_hat
      @Gandalfs_hat 4 года назад +1

      @@אסתריחזקאל-נ1נ חחחחח בהחלט😊

    • @nats4377
      @nats4377 4 года назад +7

      Omg yes

    • @Nuuu007
      @Nuuu007 4 года назад +3

      The way i was just thinking this before this video

  • @dollstylist041poll3
    @dollstylist041poll3 4 года назад +2335

    *"There are too many people here. We need a new plague."*
    - Dwight Schrute

    • @ethanpeterson5640
      @ethanpeterson5640 4 года назад +12

      I literally repeat this in my head every time I;m in a crowd

    • @sophia-222
      @sophia-222 4 года назад +42

      Dollstylist041 Poll well the Corona virus just hit the USA so 😳😬😂😭

    • @yvmni
      @yvmni 4 года назад +7

      Sophia DeGregoris I’m leaving to Canada bye sisters😳✋✋ anyways let’s go introverts

    • @odekipalace
      @odekipalace 4 года назад +8

      its already happening though 😂

    • @ivanbrnjo8927
      @ivanbrnjo8927 4 года назад +9

      Would I rather be feared or loved? Easy, both. I want people to be afraid of how much they love me.
      -Michael Scott
      I posted it on the wrong fn comment

  • @imdone-cat5200
    @imdone-cat5200 3 года назад +57

    I've never cry-laughed so hard to a RUclips video before, the accuracy in this video is just top tier 😂

  • @Jireninyourrecommendations
    @Jireninyourrecommendations 4 года назад +9422

    We don't say anything unless people are talking about a topic we know alot about

    • @vzvdm
      @vzvdm 4 года назад +872

      True and also we talk alot to people we relate heavily to

    • @luigidorigatti4588
      @luigidorigatti4588 4 года назад +139

      Yes this is me lol

    • @Kaleb.R
      @Kaleb.R 4 года назад +33

      Me

    • @zacorin
      @zacorin 4 года назад +34

      This is me all the time

    • @sharif47
      @sharif47 4 года назад +112

      Emphasis on the words "a lot about"

  • @suzusocool2928
    @suzusocool2928 3 года назад +3244

    "im hungry but Mia's downstairs, im not going down there" i cant express how relatable this sentence is

    • @cami5878
      @cami5878 3 года назад +64

      the worst is when you want to go to the bathroom "but mia's downstairs" lol

    • @mastod0n1
      @mastod0n1 3 года назад +22

      I had a similar experience this morning. My girlfriend had a friend from her hometown stay overnight at the apartment. I got home from work after they were both asleep but I woke up after the friend was awake and using the only bathroom in the apartment. The door was open because she was doing her hair and makeup but I really had to piss and couldn't bring myself to ask her to let me use the bathroom real quick. So I held it for like a half hour.

    • @lanzybear5314
      @lanzybear5314 3 года назад

      What does the phrase mean?

    • @mrs.h2725
      @mrs.h2725 3 года назад +3

      Due to the pandemic, I'm stuck back in the states until fall 2022 when my residency is approved in Norway (where my hubby is from). So now I'm back to sharing a rental with a housemate. He's perfectly fine, aside from being an alpha bro. As in he may randomly start doing pull-ups on the balcony. Or speak to me loudly about non-urgent things through my closed bedroom door instead of texting.
      this may end a murder/suicide....

    • @swynyz_
      @swynyz_ 3 года назад

      IKR HDSKDJSJ

  • @FurubaFangirl98
    @FurubaFangirl98 4 года назад +1721

    “I’m pretty quiet with the people I don’t know but I’m an absolutely fReAk with the ones I do”
    T H I S

    • @meh5812
      @meh5812 4 года назад +36

      now this is relatable

    • @FlashadoM
      @FlashadoM 4 года назад

      X2

    • @yesyouarecorrect1315
      @yesyouarecorrect1315 4 года назад +34

      oh that is me. my classmates like try to talk to me but meh our conversation isn't going anywhere and we only have minimal talk and its all quiet, meanwhile with my friends I be like "WTF REALLY BWAHHAHAHAHA WHYD U DATE THAT SHIT IN THE FIRST PLACE WAAGAHAHAAHAHA-"

    • @sussycatto30
      @sussycatto30 4 года назад +27

      Relatable.. I'm so talkative with my best friends but with other people that I don't know.. omg I wish I sink into the ground

    • @ennuisolar
      @ennuisolar 4 года назад +1

      Yeha this ones super relatable

  • @nightfurylover3913
    @nightfurylover3913 3 года назад +183

    My extrovert classmate: *texting me* UGHH it’s raining AGAIN I hate it I can’t go out with my frensss I hate being stuck at home
    Me: *quietly enjoying the cool rain with a nice book, tea and a few scented candles*

  • @nat6892
    @nat6892 4 года назад +1652

    “i’m not bad at talking to people, i’m really not. i just don’t care to.” felt that

    • @SKS6184-
      @SKS6184- 4 года назад +2

      1.4k likes and no replies

    • @funfunanime6563
      @funfunanime6563 4 года назад +1

      It's so true

    • @nat6892
      @nat6892 4 года назад +1

      Swansea S i didn’t even notice it had this much likes wtf😭😭

    • @SKS6184-
      @SKS6184- 4 года назад +2

      Nat well congrats :) it’s not everyday that you have over 1k likes on ur comment

    • @nat6892
      @nat6892 4 года назад +1

      Swansea S yeah it was just me quoting the video though 😭

  • @gorosaurussdad6876
    @gorosaurussdad6876 4 года назад +7786

    This one’s a classic on my book:
    - *Says something*
    - Oh I’m sorry, I didn’t quite catch that. Could you repeat that?
    - ... (Oh my god I think I’m gonna start crying.)

    • @xoxomwah
      @xoxomwah 4 года назад +488

      I never felt so understood

    • @rafasales4519
      @rafasales4519 4 года назад +626

      And when they don't get it twice, I freak out, like, they gotta be thinking I'm some kind of moron right? Like who doesn't know how to speak, you know?... ME, dude, me

    • @xoxomwah
      @xoxomwah 4 года назад +31

      @@rafasales4519 yassss

    • @Ranger_4878
      @Ranger_4878 4 года назад +247

      RafaSaless :/ after the third I just give up as it’s not important anymore

    • @xoxomwah
      @xoxomwah 4 года назад +51

      @@Ranger_4878 i know some people think thats funny.. I'll just silently curse them out

  • @rlndnr
    @rlndnr 3 года назад +4594

    “I don't hate [people] … I just feel better when they're not around.” ― Charles Bukowski

  • @torna2508
    @torna2508 3 года назад +13

    "OK, I don't hate all people, there's a selection of people I can trust"
    So relatable.

  • @UnoriginallyChrisLPs
    @UnoriginallyChrisLPs 4 года назад +5890

    The worst part of being an introvert, at least for me, are the rare times you DO try to speak up in a group and people just pretend they didn't hear you even though there's no way they didn't.

  • @mariamoutou9765
    @mariamoutou9765 4 года назад +3617

    "Why did you tell them it's my birthday?" SO RELATABLE

    • @lilacrolf9656
      @lilacrolf9656 4 года назад +33

      a devastating fact for me, my relatives know my birthday. guess whose anually experiencing hell?-,-

    • @Sleepy5.0
      @Sleepy5.0 4 года назад +3

      😂

    • @funky9188
      @funky9188 4 года назад +5

      For my birthday 1 friend new it was my birthday I told someone I was inviting to my birthday party a day before my birthday they didn't remember

    • @sOriginalMan-bw8de
      @sOriginalMan-bw8de 4 года назад +3

      Every year since I converted to being and introvert I never wanted to go to school because of people knowing my birthday. Although the teacher that did stuff for people's birthday didn't do anything for mine and I got lucky.

    • @Catlord98765
      @Catlord98765 4 года назад +13

      Sometimes I am afraid to leave my house on my birthday...

  • @JustNicole6400
    @JustNicole6400 4 года назад +1969

    The absolute worst is when someone tries to FaceTime you or... shows up to your place unexpectedly. Like are you kidding me? I need at least 2 weeks to prepare for human contact

    • @aliyacampbell
      @aliyacampbell 4 года назад +75

      Or when you run into them on the street and they say, "oh, I'll walk with you. So, what have you been up to? What's going on?......"
      AAAARRRRGGGHHHH!!!!

    • @aqwariate8419
      @aqwariate8419 4 года назад +1

      3*

    • @melonpang8898
      @melonpang8898 4 года назад +8

      aliyacampbell That happened to me twice and the person bumped into me was my crush
      I have never been so panicked.. 😣

    • @jn2263
      @jn2263 4 года назад +26

      FaceTime should be banned from everyone’s phones

    • @rickross80
      @rickross80 4 года назад

      M EEE

  • @banjobill8420
    @banjobill8420 3 года назад +12

    Some of my favorite memories have been performing full length plays, or ancient military campaigns, or even intense debates, all in the shower of course.

  • @iXCrasherXi
    @iXCrasherXi 4 года назад +1316

    “How many people are going? Do I know any of them” YEP

    • @theshellacstation78
      @theshellacstation78 4 года назад +1

      I form these questions in my head, despite the fact that I have few friends and never get invited to parties. When I get invited, I don't want to go, but if I do get invited I am offended that I didn't get invited. *_hehe_*

    • @zombieheart8312
      @zombieheart8312 4 года назад

      You should force yourself to go and you’ll find out that it’s fun

    • @anyahall1100
      @anyahall1100 4 года назад +1

      Zombie Heart
      I’ve done that a lot and every time I ended up miserable and sad tbh

  • @margaridavieira2786
    @margaridavieira2786 4 года назад +1685

    "but I texted him, why does he keep calling" THIS IS ME EVERYTIME AAAA

    • @cloud4015
      @cloud4015 4 года назад +4

      I didn't get that one

    • @darkseid856
      @darkseid856 4 года назад +26

      @@cloud4015 we introverts don't like to attend voice/video calls .

    • @cloud4015
      @cloud4015 4 года назад +1

      @@darkseid856 I know but I just don't understand why he is confused on why the person keeps calling. We are introverted but we are not dumb, we know extroverted likes to call. My reaction would be like "oh no, I don't wanna do this, I'll just wait until he/she gives up".

    • @clouds3002
      @clouds3002 4 года назад +1

      Same

    • @83uwb
      @83uwb 4 года назад +4

      @@cloud4015 I'm an introvert as well but I don't understand why a person would call when you're texting (unless it's an emergency).

  • @lotte_6956
    @lotte_6956 4 года назад +3372

    the thing is: i’m the extrovert when i’m with introverts but i’m the introvert when i’m with extroverts lol aka an ambivert

    • @ryn.999
      @ryn.999 4 года назад +244

      lotte _ ...I’m so glad you said that and I came across your comment because you just help me realized I’m the same exact way.

    • @sussycatto30
      @sussycatto30 4 года назад +149

      Yeah most introverted people are like that

    • @sr.g
      @sr.g 4 года назад +36

      and i am just not social

    • @CrowleysSadYellowBentley
      @CrowleysSadYellowBentley 4 года назад +40

      So your an ambervert

    • @dalisiam264
      @dalisiam264 4 года назад +10

      Same. Its like being at home then the home being somwhere with loud speaking people.

  • @heathencake9110
    @heathencake9110 2 года назад +3

    “i didn’t ask, but she told me” sums it all up

  • @manamejeff3995
    @manamejeff3995 4 года назад +823

    “I’m fully aware of how awkward I am I just don’t know how not to be”
    I felt that on spiritual lvl

    • @gardeniac.3782
      @gardeniac.3782 4 года назад +4

      Exactly!
      And then they tell you to stop it and you dont know how so it's like asking 4 year old deku to kill kachan

  • @MinerDiner
    @MinerDiner 4 года назад +2760

    "I'm not bad at talking to people, I just don't care to"
    No I'm actually horrible at conversation

    • @kitcat2449
      @kitcat2449 4 года назад +182

      I love when I have to small talk with strangers and I'm internally panicking like "oshit oshit don't say anything weird alright this is going well so far oshit what do I say next ah yeah ask questions alright alright wait I wasn't listening what did they say oshi okay uhh I guess I'll just nod my head and chuckle"

    • @amarisDePof
      @amarisDePof 4 года назад +86

      That's true. But the thing is, I'm more akward at talking to the people at school then random people I don't know. Not that I don't panic but maybe it's because I see these people everyday and...I don't know why!

    • @sinn4650
      @sinn4650 4 года назад +2

      Hello, how are you today?

    • @sanaeakira9040
      @sanaeakira9040 4 года назад +5

      amaris tirtotaroeno same hahha. I’m sitted in between my extroverted classmates, which is the worst haha😅

    • @Jo-chilin
      @Jo-chilin 4 года назад +11

      Oh me too, I’ve had to do it a lot because of work but I still suck horribly. I don’t understand how it’s just so easy for some people

  • @katie15732
    @katie15732 4 года назад +4910

    Saw this somewhere
    How introverts make friends:
    1% They talked to people and made a friend
    99% An extrovert found and adopted them

    • @multifandommania
      @multifandommania 4 года назад +142

      Very true lol

    • @HotOffTheWheels
      @HotOffTheWheels 4 года назад +78

      So..like..wanna be friends 😆

    • @icantthinkofaname1974
      @icantthinkofaname1974 4 года назад +151

      I feel like most introverts are friends with other introverts

    • @bonni6964
      @bonni6964 4 года назад +40

      Yes all of my friends except one is an extrovert

    • @jadegirl12
      @jadegirl12 4 года назад +14

      God bless those

  • @shotaaizawaofficial3939
    @shotaaizawaofficial3939 3 года назад +34

    Why is this so Relatable??
    *This is LITERALLY ME*
    🗿

  • @daniqued16
    @daniqued16 4 года назад +1860

    *Introverts friends:*
    50% *dogs count as friends*
    50% *an extrovert saw them, liked them, adopted them*

  • @PeterPing
    @PeterPing 4 года назад +2759

    Teacher: "There's is a group project for two persons, please find your pair"
    Me: *sweating profusely*

    • @aethyr9799
      @aethyr9799 4 года назад +164

      When there's an even number of ppl it's fine 'cause you just go with the last remaining person.
      But when there's not and teacher says: "ok just join one of the groups"
      Brain: *danger level over 9000*

    • @targitausrithux2320
      @targitausrithux2320 4 года назад +9

      Azelar nah just do it yourself ...

    • @avery_rayy
      @avery_rayy 4 года назад +28

      I have a class with an odd number of kids and I manage to persuade my teacher every time to let me do the project by myself

    • @_misatito
      @_misatito 4 года назад +10

      My teachers had always let me do it alone because they knew how I am

    • @eldendong4956
      @eldendong4956 4 года назад +22

      i dropped out of high school because of this. this new teacher comes and assigns a group project. ''make groups yourselves and make this presentation for the next class blah blah blah.'' ...and i was fucking done.

  • @nadinesimon2771
    @nadinesimon2771 4 года назад +906

    all these comments actually make me realize that I'm not the only one feeling weird about myself being an introvert and also experiencing anxiety, so that's kinda nice

  • @raymond8590
    @raymond8590 2 года назад +3

    The "hugging the pillow move" is soo relatable. idk why but it makes me weirdly comfortabler

  • @yeahspoiledmilk
    @yeahspoiledmilk 4 года назад +5370

    Me: *doesn't talk, literally just vibing*
    Others: "Are you okay? You look upset, did something happen?"

    • @Josnaci0
      @Josnaci0 4 года назад +280

      "No, I was just thinking about how you have beautiful hands."

    • @yeahspoiledmilk
      @yeahspoiledmilk 4 года назад +137

      @@Josnaci0 shhh I'm trynna hide in a peaceful comment section for once 😳
      No need to expose me 🤫

    • @Josnaci0
      @Josnaci0 4 года назад +41

      @@yeahspoiledmilk Sorry, please don't bite za dust me

    • @youdroppedsomething4334
      @youdroppedsomething4334 4 года назад +170

      Everyone thinks I hate them because I don’t talk 😂 Also I think I just look really depressed at school, all the time people saying “Are you okay?”

    • @yeahspoiledmilk
      @yeahspoiledmilk 4 года назад +10

      @@Josnaci0 great now gimme your hands

  • @susanaholufunke904
    @susanaholufunke904 4 года назад +1666

    When he kept looking at his phone ring until it stopped ringing. That is soooo me. I'm introvert for sure.

    • @dheaarintiara3550
      @dheaarintiara3550 4 года назад +48

      I thought it's only me, it really gives me anxiety when there's a phone call even tho I've muted my phone.

    • @melk322
      @melk322 4 года назад +3

      Yessssssss

    • @kaori7472
      @kaori7472 4 года назад +8

      @@dheaarintiara3550 Me too sometimes I got a number that I don't know who is it then I just wait the ring stop most of my contact, I just contact my mom

    • @mikunico7144
      @mikunico7144 4 года назад +2

      Me too. I do that all the time 😂

    • @johnrayordas
      @johnrayordas 4 года назад +5

      I hate people who call instead of texts. Like fucks sake man, I can read.

  • @caillienotcali4701
    @caillienotcali4701 4 года назад +8568

    When all your friends are talking about how isolation sucks and your just vibing in fricking paradise.
    Update- I'm back in the real world. Focking sucks

    • @intj_5398
      @intj_5398 4 года назад +306

      Long live isolation, would love it to last a few more months. You agree too?

    • @caillienotcali4701
      @caillienotcali4701 4 года назад +154

      @@intj_5398 hell yeah!! I'm so sad that school is coming back...

    • @intj_5398
      @intj_5398 4 года назад +67

      @@caillienotcali4701 look at Germany, they eased their lockdown and now they have new cases of covid 19. This wont go away any time soon, its like a trial and error except there is no vaccine. Its likely that more countries will have the same problem. So lockdown will be longer or it will be frequently on and off. I believe it would be set longer. Nothing is official so dont believe the news when they say schools "could" open.

    • @caillienotcali4701
      @caillienotcali4701 4 года назад +23

      @@intj_5398 Nah we got it solid, my sisters are at school rn and im going back next week

    • @chelsey45
      @chelsey45 4 года назад +25

      My school literally ends in 3 days, but next school year is going to feel like an eternity...

  • @insertunoroginalnamehere6189
    @insertunoroginalnamehere6189 3 года назад +30

    Me, sending my friend a text: hey wanna play roblox?
    My friend: calls me*
    Me: *anxiety*
    Also me: texts* ,*ohh umm i cant talk bccc ummm iiii dont wanna wake up anyone!*
    My friends dont understand me. Im usually the kid that loves to sing, but sounds like a crocodile bc im too nevous to sing. I also speak very silently, soo i always have to raise my voice so people can hear me...

    • @kathiv.3209
      @kathiv.3209 3 года назад +5

      Sameee it's so awkward and annoying when you have to repeat even though you really tried to say it loud and confident

  • @orangejuice8991
    @orangejuice8991 4 года назад +1546

    Don't you just hate it when you actually try to have a conversation with someone and actually say something and they just go like "yeah..." and then you start to suffer internally?

    • @roninboi1869
      @roninboi1869 4 года назад +20

      @Poké L thank you I think I'll try this technique for sometime and see how goes

    • @kao5789
      @kao5789 4 года назад +37

      Yeah...

    • @leahharper3175
      @leahharper3175 4 года назад +24

      EXACTLY! Like I don't talk to people I don't know that much but when I actually did and I told them like a funny story, they just said yeah..

    • @redbread6219
      @redbread6219 4 года назад +20

      @@leahharper3175 I hate that, like you know I'm not social and can't continue a conversation, why you gotta do that ;-;

    • @Autumn-ll9vh
      @Autumn-ll9vh 4 года назад +14

      Marilyn Kawaii I try to make conversations in my head for every scenario possible, so I can use them later on.

  • @flexmondt
    @flexmondt 4 года назад +5461

    this is like an introvert personality test. the more of these lines you've spoken out loud, the closer you are to figuring out your myers-briggs type

    • @braxtyboi123
      @braxtyboi123 4 года назад +36

      Actually the Myers Briggs test is very inaccurate. I asked the craetwe themselves, and they said theyvwoudlnt even use it.

    • @dizzydiddle123
      @dizzydiddle123 4 года назад +165

      @@braxtyboi123 Does craetwe mean creators? The last of the two died 40 years ago, so I doubt you spoke to them lol. I do agree that the test lacks accuracy though.

    • @lilium9361
      @lilium9361 4 года назад +38

      I've said almost everything in this video out loud at some point in my live.
      Safe to say I'm a introvert.

    • @braxtyboi123
      @braxtyboi123 4 года назад +2

      @@dizzydiddle123 you saw through my lie....but the creators say in an interview they wouldn't even use it....

    • @romy5154
      @romy5154 4 года назад +119

      @@braxtyboi123 bro that's so embarrassing wtf. You lose all credibility immediately

  • @bwubi5936
    @bwubi5936 4 года назад +1269

    "We observe the battlefield, and then we strike."
    - Sun Tzu

    • @aster6292
      @aster6292 4 года назад +36

      the art of war

    • @Parker_Lot
      @Parker_Lot 4 года назад +3

      Or you can be like me whos impulsive with a short attention span. Makes for great socialization

    • @bwubi5936
      @bwubi5936 4 года назад

      @@Parker_Lot only nerds don't do tha- wait, that means i'm one-

    • @carlospinzon8415
      @carlospinzon8415 4 года назад +11

      instructions unclear ended up farming potatoes

    • @noobiewatcherz9938
      @noobiewatcherz9938 4 года назад

      @@Parker_Lot yes , impulsive with short attention span is good for socialization because all the people around you are smart and cautious and doesn't want to be the target of attention .. It's not that what you are talking about (or doing) is of high value ,, but moreso that everyone around you is LITERALLY DOING NOTHING.
      But imagine someone whos impulsive with a short attention span (with guilt/shame/inability about doing what it is they're going to do before even doing it), that's me :(

  • @cjw8497
    @cjw8497 3 года назад +1

    Usually videos like this suck but this was actually funny. Rare.

  • @tinylight07
    @tinylight07 4 года назад +4565

    Don't you just hate it when you finally join in a conversation and everyone is like "OMG YOU CAN TALK?!?" like it just makes you never want to talk again.

    • @Sebastian-oz1lj
      @Sebastian-oz1lj 4 года назад +53

      exacly

    • @thecrimsonwolf2456
      @thecrimsonwolf2456 4 года назад +209

      sugakookie with tae mochi, people used to say that to me a lot until I stared replying with "Yeah and I can kill you with a spoon too I just choose not to."

    • @howl7998
      @howl7998 4 года назад +22

      damn it story of my life

    • @april812
      @april812 4 года назад +108

      and it is just cruel when you start talking and then there just silence 😂

    • @KillingLonliness
      @KillingLonliness 4 года назад +7

      I relate so much

  • @Icepetal01
    @Icepetal01 3 года назад +6438

    Extroverts tell introverts to talk more and get out of their comfort zone, but no one tells the extroverts to shut up and make the zone comfortable enough

  • @connormcneilly8829
    @connormcneilly8829 4 года назад +1605

    The “I’m not bad at talking I just don’t care really punches me”

    • @braxtondietz5973
      @braxtondietz5973 4 года назад +12

      So true

    • @cr1sprarchives408
      @cr1sprarchives408 4 года назад +12

      Same. It's to the point where I don't even care if people tell lies about me I simply don't have time to respond

  • @vishwas5371
    @vishwas5371 2 года назад +3

    "I texted him. Why does he keep calling me?"
    I relate to this on a spiritual level

  • @edkline6401
    @edkline6401 3 года назад +3052

    I can totally relate to the “ How many people are going to be there ? “ me ALL the time

  • @neonexus7144
    @neonexus7144 4 года назад +2081

    RUclips: Why are you reporting this video?
    Me: I'm in it and I don't like it.

  • @slaterwoman9237
    @slaterwoman9237 4 года назад +1489

    "Let's go around the room and introduce ourselves".
    Me: I should drop this class right now. lol

    • @x_diiamond_x9789
      @x_diiamond_x9789 4 года назад +45

      I've literally done it before. Fuck you geography

    • @teet3435
      @teet3435 4 года назад +2

      😂😂😂 I know exactly what you mean

    • @micaelarodriguez3889
      @micaelarodriguez3889 4 года назад +1

      Me this morning T.T

    • @514-d6w
      @514-d6w 4 года назад +2

      lol so true.

    • @514-d6w
      @514-d6w 4 года назад +3

      I dropped a class once so I did not have to give a presentation in front of the class.

  • @maple_vanilla
    @maple_vanilla 3 года назад +9

    "I've tried to walk away 4 times now with no success" OMFGG 😭😂 literally me at work 💀