THE LIFE AND DEATH OF MY HAIR - *My hair journey

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    In Todays video I will be taking you through the entire journey of my hair through the ages.
    I have had a lot of different styles trying longer hair at different times.
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Комментарии • 3,2 тыс.

  • @MYTHIC_PRODIGY
    @MYTHIC_PRODIGY 5 лет назад +7622

    Who else is watching with a full head of hair scared af

    • @IcyBandicoot
      @IcyBandicoot 5 лет назад +159

      Get his stupid Ass agreed. His story is terrifying.

    • @benjadahle2948
      @benjadahle2948 5 лет назад +417

      My ass got bald at 19

    • @josegarcia303
      @josegarcia303 5 лет назад +100

      I ain't scared of getting bald

    • @josegarcia303
      @josegarcia303 5 лет назад +164

      Aint nothing wrong on being bald

    • @benjadahle2948
      @benjadahle2948 5 лет назад +155

      Been rockin that bald And shitty beard for years now

  • @jefferyguillen4848
    @jefferyguillen4848 5 лет назад +2840

    Damn, you had legit no indications of balding at all

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +338

      Jeffery Guillen I was caught off guard for sure

    • @mandalorian4620
      @mandalorian4620 5 лет назад +53

      @@Baldcafe
      Man, I am scared rn.
      Did your male relatives also lose their hair?
      But tbh, you look more masculine when bald.
      I guess its the beard :D

    • @firstlast8703
      @firstlast8703 5 лет назад +53

      u look exactly like tyson fury

    • @Orangeyougladx3
      @Orangeyougladx3 5 лет назад +21

      Jankawass Fissawwr my friend lost his hair at 21. Sometimes it just happens, being bald isn’t too bad

    • @mandalorian4620
      @mandalorian4620 5 лет назад +4

      @@Orangeyougladx3
      Hm, I personally think it is but maybe I am just overthinking it

  • @brendonwhartonfit
    @brendonwhartonfit 4 года назад +918

    Every time he got a haircut he looked like a completely different person.

  • @yourlocalgoon5740
    @yourlocalgoon5740 4 года назад +699

    I’m 25, finally tonight I’m committed to shave off my hair after 3 years tomorrow morning. With the quarantine going on I think it’s perfect timing for me to accept it. I get emotional some times talking about it because I always wanted to rock them cool hairstyles to see how I would’ve looked. But tonight I just decided to be strong and open up a new chapter in my life. Wish me luck ✊🏾

    • @tiagocoelho5583
      @tiagocoelho5583 4 года назад +15

      Good luck pal 💪💓💓♥️

    • @yourlocalgoon5740
      @yourlocalgoon5740 4 года назад +19

      Tiago Coelho thanks bro I went through with it and actually felt relieved and made jokes about it ✊🏾

    • @jackpotmasterpiece7789
      @jackpotmasterpiece7789 4 года назад +9

      Im 16 and i shaved my head at 2 am on my own lol dont sweat like a pussy nigguh

    • @MashPatayta
      @MashPatayta 4 года назад +5

      You're gonna love it bro. Takes a minute to adjust, at least for me; I didn't love it the second I committed... it was just such a big change that it was weird, but after a few days when the shock of catching myself bald in the mirror died away, I never looked back. Especially once I started filling out my beard, I felt like a beast. Still do. Complete 180 from the ultra-goober look of trying to hold onto thinning hair.

    • @Andres-qm1xx
      @Andres-qm1xx 4 года назад +8

      Minoxidil men and Finasteride... being bald at 25 is horrible

  • @brucewayne8172
    @brucewayne8172 5 лет назад +2259

    Would never have guessed you would go bald looking at your pictures

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +288

      You and me both man.

    • @CynfarLP
      @CynfarLP 5 лет назад +110

      Makes me scared loosing my full hair one day

    • @vincenicholas7743
      @vincenicholas7743 5 лет назад +39

      I’m guessing it’s a phase and he’ll promote some snakeoil down the road that grew back his hair. He had way too much hair to let it go.

    • @Brickcellent
      @Brickcellent 5 лет назад +24

      I'm gunna guess he got his prime hair from his mothers side of the family but inherited his dads male pattern baldness gene! I'd be interested to know what age his dad lost his hair at.

    • @vincenicholas7743
      @vincenicholas7743 5 лет назад +2

      Caoimhín Ó Caoimh go back and look at his first video. He’s barely thinning at the back of his head.

  • @AllGodsDue
    @AllGodsDue 5 лет назад +1945

    Its really understated how much a blow hair loss is to young men. People mock it/comedy it and laugh about it frequently, but it can cripple your confidence which can lead to various mental issues. I lost my hair at the ripe age of 19. I went from the popular long haired/emo boy to some extremely skinny, pale, and balding kid. People would ask me if I was sick, and all the girls who hanged with me completely disappeared. I lost the ability to make eye contact with people and spent most of college in my shell, uncomfortable to the core. I didn't regain my confidence till the age of 26 after spending years body building and reinventing my look. Imagine having to completely change yourself just to make yourself comfortable and not be frequently mocked. It didn't help that the people often trying to make me feel better were oblivious to the constant bullying and disrespect I had endured. They thought I was just being vain. Respect to all my fellow baldies and those scared they will join us soon!

    • @187onaPigeon
      @187onaPigeon 5 лет назад +27

      This 100%. It is a taboo. I still look in the mirror and get sad 2 days after shaving.

    • @boozcheez
      @boozcheez 5 лет назад +4

      You got too emo bro. I'm happy though for you that you figured it out and adapted

    • @thewolfateandthegoatremain2454
      @thewolfateandthegoatremain2454 5 лет назад +27

      Bullshit, you'd get bullied for something else if you had your hair. You've got same mental attitude like I had, pointing your problems at external causes without trying to understand. Many people are WAAAY too focused on their looks and judging others while hiding their own inadequacies, often by putting others down. Trying to hide their own shitty feelings, in a way that'll never help them. Have you tried to get out, go on a big, full week or longer hike in the woods? Live like our ancestors a little bit, sleeping on hard ground? That'd kill most of them. When you're all muddy and dirty, without comfort you're used to, no access to grooming, when people are thrown in pit full of shit, then they become equal, when there's survival on the table, skills and abilities count, not looks. Quality and worth of human being is measured by their soul, who they are, how they act, what they do. It's obvious how deep we fallen and how complacent we've grown without constant struggle for food and shelter if one's world consists of worrying how he or she looks and it rules his life. I hate this subject with passion because I lived most of my years under impression that I'm ugly and that's why no girl wants me, while it was all lies. It took some amount of girls, homo and even hetero guys (now that's a pointer you look good lol) telling me that I'm good looker to actually start listening to them and understand it's all in my head, and that's something hard when you're closing on your 30's and had that impression for most of your life. This whole beauty affair is horseshit, have you tried watching people and study them a bit? Look at girls these days. They're doing their best to look best, work their ass off in gym and in front of mirror to achieve that beauty queen look, so they can all look the same, one next to another, like a copy of a copy. I started to date girls that are under my former standards of atractiveness, those I wouldn't consider pretty enough before, because you know what? They're more beautiful to me than all these clones I see all day everyday, it's pleasing to lay my eye on someone who doesn't look the same, someone interesting, and it makes me happy. Cherish individuality and persona, judge not and listen to others, speak with as much people as you can and at least pretend you care for their problems if you don't. Try your best to love people, even if you can't. World's much easier to handle with a smile (even a fake one) than with pure hate towards everyone because people let you down in your life. That's my story, at least.

    • @MyNameIsMalachi
      @MyNameIsMalachi 5 лет назад

      AllGodsDue my hair is really thin at 14
      Well it’s fine , but my scalp is thin

    • @Anth230
      @Anth230 5 лет назад +2

      @@thewolfateandthegoatremain2454 All too true.

  • @bmo1428
    @bmo1428 4 года назад +452

    This man really went through 30 different hair phases in just a couple years

    • @graal3894
      @graal3894 4 года назад +8

      Harvard prob why he’s bald, so many haircuts. Shouldn’t have fallen under pressure so many times.

    • @Expulsium
      @Expulsium 4 года назад +35

      Graal that’s some bullshit

    • @aidanschram9652
      @aidanschram9652 3 года назад +19

      @@xL0stKIlah I don't see how getting a haircut could be damaging to your hair/scalp in any way. If anything, Id place more bets on hair product having some influence on his hair loss

    • @blustgt8814
      @blustgt8814 3 года назад +5

      @@xL0stKIlah bruh? Hair cutting has been a thing since the stone age, the fuck are you talking about?

    • @aidanschram9652
      @aidanschram9652 3 года назад +10

      @@xL0stKIlah Bro you sound like someone who has never witnessed a haircut before. With the way you described a haircut, I would think a gorilla has been cutting your hair.

  • @jamesgoodwin7742
    @jamesgoodwin7742 4 года назад +977

    My hairline started receding when I was 20 and everyone talked shit about it. A lot of those guys were totally bald by 35. And I still have a lot of my hair at 40

    • @justchilling704
      @justchilling704 4 года назад +166

      James Goodwin There is a difference between a “mature hairline” and a “receding hairline” sounds like you had your hairline mature, which normally happens around 20.

    • @justchilling704
      @justchilling704 4 года назад +6

      jamey smith Sounds like he got a mature not receding hairline.

    • @samuelabbottchannel
      @samuelabbottchannel 4 года назад +42

      My hairline started receding when I was sixteen but it was always very thick and strong, now I’m in my mid thirties and still have a load of hair that I cut short when others with great hair in college are now bald.

    • @justchilling704
      @justchilling704 4 года назад +1

      Samuel Abbott Uh, you do know the difference between a mature, and receding hairline right? I have a link to a video on how to naturally treat hair loss hmu if you want a link.

    • @ronan22
      @ronan22 4 года назад +2

      @@justchilling704 that would be dope

  • @thisisaverylongname5805
    @thisisaverylongname5805 5 лет назад +1247

    He trained so hard he lost his hair, 100 pushups, 100 situps, and a 10 km run EVERY DAY

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +93

      I did go HAM but I don't think thats what made my hair fall out.

    • @nillerh8236
      @nillerh8236 5 лет назад +27

      so thats how you got your strength, sensei

    • @piersquarless7731
      @piersquarless7731 5 лет назад +8

      hahahaha I cant wait for the next series

    • @bonkersdonkers7381
      @bonkersdonkers7381 5 лет назад +10

      Baldcafe working out can increase your dihydrotestosterone levels

    • @saiyansnake
      @saiyansnake 5 лет назад +13

      Don't punch me bro.

  • @pigeonlover5333
    @pigeonlover5333 5 лет назад +1109

    It's hard to believe you lost all your hair when you had such a strong hairline

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +269

      I never saw it coming. I thought I would get away with it. It was always so strong at the front but it took my by surprise from the back 😆

    • @vincenicholas7743
      @vincenicholas7743 5 лет назад +26

      It’s bullshit. I can see his strong hair outline even though he shaves it.

    • @jlbarrrea
      @jlbarrrea 5 лет назад +14

      Your hairline went away 0-100 out of nowhere..

    • @patootie3529
      @patootie3529 5 лет назад +35

      @@vincenicholas7743 Did you even read his reply lol… it came from the back and ruined everything

    • @badass6930
      @badass6930 5 лет назад +41

      @@vincenicholas7743 why are you on every comment pretty much calling him a liar? lmfao are you that insecure buddy?

  • @queenofhearts6127
    @queenofhearts6127 Год назад +19

    As a woman I can say that losing hair is equally as traumatic. I’d had the thickest, blonde, waist long locks until the age of 42.
    It actually got thicker as I got older to my surprise.
    But, suddenly at almost 43 my hair started falling out in handfuls although it was still growing in length.
    After washing and conditioning it, it would take me 2 hours to untangle all the lost, matted hair.
    I didn’t wash it for weeks at a time as it was such a nightmare to untangle.
    I felt like I was grieving and went into a depression.
    I was constantly covered in shed hair - my clothes, blankets, carpet - it was everywhere.
    This went on for a year and I was down to about half my hair volume.
    I had a crap diet for years (vegetarian also) so I started taking vitamin c, zinc and magnesium supplements.
    The hair loss stopped pretty much right away. I can now wash my hair and brush it within a minute or two.
    It’s starting to thicken up again and I have hope again!
    I recommend trying supplements if you are losing hair. I realise it can be genetic but in my case it seems to be due to deficiencies.

  • @shanemaddalena-vlogs9827
    @shanemaddalena-vlogs9827 4 года назад +680

    17 years old finally shaved my head today. Been losing it since age 13. I guess the loss of my favorite player Kobe Bryant who was also bald made me just got for it. Rest In Peace Mamba

  • @davidpierce2690
    @davidpierce2690 4 года назад +592

    At least he made the most of it while it lasted.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  4 года назад +82

      I tried my best thats for sure 👍

  • @drecools
    @drecools 5 лет назад +584

    You didn't lose it, just migrated to the other side

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +22

      Dan Cullo 💯 😃

    • @gaminglegend
      @gaminglegend 4 года назад +5

      That’s a nice way to think about it

  • @AzrallDRG
    @AzrallDRG 4 года назад +1

    Fantastic video! I've recently discovered that my hair is receding at a rate of knots, glad to know that I'm not the only one who's struggled with dealing with hair loss!

  • @jamesgoodwin7742
    @jamesgoodwin7742 4 года назад +15

    Magnificent head shape. I’m jealous.

  • @demamat
    @demamat 5 лет назад +255

    Hair or no hair, you look great bro!

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +6

      Thank you!

    • @oskarmihalovic3903
      @oskarmihalovic3903 4 года назад

      well you are luckie cose you are tall, but imagine to be a shortie and be bald, like its not enough confidence downgrade , and almost every girl give up when they see that they are taller than you, a short bald guy

    • @sacing3512
      @sacing3512 2 года назад

      @@Baldcafe bro have u ever tried propecia

  • @Justin-baxe
    @Justin-baxe 5 лет назад +305

    From boy to man. Your confidence and personality radiates thru the screen. Best youtube channel

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +11

      Thank you my man. Always the best support.

    • @Justin-baxe
      @Justin-baxe 5 лет назад +5

      Baldcafe man its crazy how having hair makes you look like a different person.

  • @mickey5515
    @mickey5515 3 года назад +40

    its crazy how fast the balding progressed because it seemed like he had really nice thick hair most of his life

    • @masterexploder9668
      @masterexploder9668 2 года назад +4

      Some start balding early, but then can stay at let's say NW3 for most of their adult life, while others can start a bit later like early 30's and it happens lightning fast. You will never know until the Norwood Reaper comes for you as well.

    • @HansensUniverseT-A
      @HansensUniverseT-A Год назад +1

      @@masterexploder9668 Still got a full head of hair at age 31, while i am not out of the clear regarding genetic hairloss i think it is more likely with time that i will lose my hair due to aging than genetics, i'll probably be fine, also my mother and my grandfather have good hair.

  • @jan.46
    @jan.46 4 года назад +5

    Damn man! You had seriously full head of hair... it must have been tough giving it up, but i'm glad to see you confident today.
    I've been balding since I was 18 (2012), but some big progression came to my scalp in 2016. I was buzzing it for some time, now i let it grow, but still thinking about buzzing it again... it gave me freedom and no need for covering up my loss. I think I'm gonna go short soon again! Thanks for your encouragement. :)

  • @Xanivert
    @Xanivert 5 лет назад +563

    This dude got the perfect head shape. I would probably rock the bald look even with a full head of hair if I looked like this dude

    • @kareemwalid
      @kareemwalid 5 лет назад +6

      Same

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +43

      Rock your best look man l. This is the best I can do now. You do yours 👌 👍

    • @Xanivert
      @Xanivert 5 лет назад +18

      @@Baldcafe Not gonna lie, your bald + beard look reminds me a lot of Travis Fimmel in Vikings, which looks cool af

    • @clapcheeks2085
      @clapcheeks2085 5 лет назад +10

      @hij not all all, he looks more masculine with a shaved head, brings out facial features more aswell, Also he has a good head shape, the fact his head is basically perfectly flat on top, with no weird bumps, not so high forehead,and the sides of his head are also straight, makes his face more symmetrical, even more so then when he had hair. No homo just facts. This guy looks way better bald and with the beard.

    • @cortingat
      @cortingat 5 лет назад +1

      hij Just look at him bald. You can’t possibly say that.

  • @frederick3811
    @frederick3811 5 лет назад +917

    You look better with a more short beard

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +56

      You'll be ready when I get back to the UK and I can give it a solid trim back.

    • @baldnbearded
      @baldnbearded 5 лет назад +8

      @@Baldcafe NOOOOOOOOOO

    • @sevos6359
      @sevos6359 5 лет назад +21

      @@baldnbearded YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES

    • @vincenicholas7743
      @vincenicholas7743 5 лет назад

      I agree. Think Yul Brynner the OG of the bearded/bald look

    • @winterrobot1942
      @winterrobot1942 5 лет назад

      No

  • @dishippy
    @dishippy 3 года назад

    Recently found the channel. Serious props to what you do to help guys out to embrace the bald! I think I’m close. Been receding for years now after having long hair through high school, etc. I’ve been #3 or #2 buzz cutting my hair for quite some time and now it seems I find myself noticed my thinning hair even with the short short cuts. So I’m thinking it might be time. I don’t know what’s really stopping me. Your channel’s certainly helped push me in a more positive direction.

  • @MJV150
    @MJV150 Год назад +5

    I’m 35 and have been receding for the last 10 years or so. Today was the day I finally embraced my thinning hair and buzzed it all off. I feel amazing!

  • @kratos218
    @kratos218 5 лет назад +1020

    *B O Y*

  • @alanwilder1549
    @alanwilder1549 4 года назад +8

    Dear Harry, you got my full respect and all thumbs up for telling your story in such an open way with all feelings and emotions encountered during the different stages.
    I wish I had only 5% of your courage and self confidence to deal with hairloss.
    Unfortunately I am still a „trying to hide not ready to shave be afraid of other comments“ guy...

  • @jdn645
    @jdn645 3 года назад

    OMG! What a great video of your journey. Thanks for sharing. You are doing a tremendous service to guys everywhere, myself included. I'm 60 and in that tweener stage of hair loss, so even at my age, I appreciate the candor and honesty. Keep up the great work!!! Whether I shave my head or not, the stories you share are inspiring and I love watching them.. I didn't lose my hair at 18, but my sons were graying in the teens, so they dealt with similar insecurities. My youngest son had gray hair in middle school and he tried dying it to mask it. At 30, he embraces being half gray, but masking it is never an answer. Similar but different. My take is, just be you. The hair is cosmetics, and I think you make that perfectly clear in every video. Kudos to you!!!

  • @Pekanzo27
    @Pekanzo27 4 года назад

    Great story, great video, love the new look, thank you for opening to us, you are honest down to earth, I’m sold!!! You got a new fan 👍🏾

  • @awan266
    @awan266 5 лет назад +156

    You are lucky to have that face bro. Looking good with and without hair.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +7

      Sami96 thanks my guy 👍

  • @benjoyce5853
    @benjoyce5853 5 лет назад +3

    I'm 26 and have been feeling the stress of receding/thinning hair. Trying to build the confidence to buzz it and just get it done. Glad to hear you felt liberated by braving it!

  • @dunnotck1
    @dunnotck1 4 года назад +1544

    "When I was in college I was with my first girlfriend" *shows photo hugging a dude*

    • @music-cafe-4-you
      @music-cafe-4-you 4 года назад +40

      dunnotck1 lol I thought that the dude is his girlfriend hhh

    • @JanLordLuga
      @JanLordLuga 4 года назад +5

      hahahahahaha

    • @monsterkis
      @monsterkis 4 года назад +7

      Ok and?

    • @Digger-Nick
      @Digger-Nick 4 года назад +27

      Do 2 gay guys call each other their boyfriend or girlfriend? Or partner maybe?🤔

    • @importantstuf8870
      @importantstuf8870 4 года назад +16

      @@Digger-Nick we call them boyfriends...

  • @derickharshbarger
    @derickharshbarger 2 года назад +3

    Epic video, and end result. Really fits you. Been shaving my head for the past 5 years or so starting at around 22. Beating it before it starts lol

  • @labeandistort6213
    @labeandistort6213 5 лет назад +33

    Same here mate...tried a lot of styling, but when I realised this is getting so close to a combover....just took it all off...never felt better! Balding gave me more confidence. Great video BTW!

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +3

      Thank you 🙏 Really glad to hear you also dealt with balding the right way 👍

  • @brace6136
    @brace6136 5 лет назад +4

    Although I have a looming fear of going bald, I respect your mindset and attitude. If I do go bald one day, I’ll try to have the same attitude as your and accept it rather then letting my insecurities control me

  • @Skip2105
    @Skip2105 11 месяцев назад

    I keep watching this throughout the week. I just find the whole journey so interesting

  • @osahisworld1284
    @osahisworld1284 3 года назад +1

    Today is my first day of going bald 19 years old and I accept it now and i’m feeling much better. Straight after i went on my phone trying to find other people their going bald story and i found you nice video keep it up!

  • @andrewcluer597
    @andrewcluer597 5 лет назад +10

    It was good that you were able to experiment with different hairstyles. i was 23, going bald, and my barber suddenly cut off my comb over. in the 1970`s shaven heads were taboo, but now, I shave my head every day. it suits me, like you, being bald. Bald men can live happily ever after ! Thanks for sharing !

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад

      Thank you for watching. I hope we can continue to further improve the perception of bald heads 👍

  • @hi3694
    @hi3694 4 года назад +10

    I'm 23 and chose to go bald last week. The release of the stress and worry is immense. I'm blond fortunately so a no1 guard is enough for me to look the part. Props on making this channel, I think it'd be better for men if male hairless was more accepted and baldness not ridiculed, so appreciate you doing what you can.

  • @nobie0713
    @nobie0713 4 года назад +15

    I started losing my hair at 14. By age 17 I started to use a razor blade. Though I accepted it at a young age I still felt greatly insecure. Seeing vids from this channel made me realize that I wasn't alone. Helped me accept and feel more comfortable about myself.
    Thanks mate. I'm 20 now btw and I feel proud AF about being bald

    • @shanemaddalena-vlogs9827
      @shanemaddalena-vlogs9827 4 года назад +1

      Same shoes as you brother started to lose mine at 13. I’m now 17 and today I finally shaved it. I now have more confidence than before

    • @shred9475
      @shred9475 2 года назад

      Lol

  • @Superherokarthik
    @Superherokarthik 4 года назад +5

    My hair is becoming thinner and you're my inspiration❤

  • @firstmotorhome8024
    @firstmotorhome8024 5 лет назад +7

    I had to stop by and like this . 👍🏻
    I hope you are well mate .
    Great honest and upfront video as always .

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад

      Nerf family Uk Thank you 👍 I’m glad you came around.

  • @deez8734
    @deez8734 5 лет назад +8

    I dont know whats worse..
    I've started balding with 16 and I was bald with 19/20. Because I've started balding so young I forgot how it feels to have hair. I only have a desire to get this feeling how it simply feels like to have hair..its not a good feeling at all but you man, you had so nice hair and it disappeared rapidly.. and you still rock it
    huge respect

  • @BD-vm5nn
    @BD-vm5nn 4 года назад

    You look good, I also had alot of hair on my head and have now accepted my scalp as it is. All part of getting older and wiser through life, as well as trying to stay healthy as much as I can.

  • @pssthnrvn
    @pssthnrvn 3 года назад +10

    To be honest man I can see you being a great actor, you have the looks, physique & specially the great personality of yours.

  • @danieldacosta4350
    @danieldacosta4350 5 лет назад +4

    I honestly think you're doing a great job - quite inspirational and you've convinced me to grow my beard back! All power to you brother!

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +1

      Thank you and more power to your beard! keep me updated on how it goes! I love mine at the moment.

  • @CrotalusNM
    @CrotalusNM 5 лет назад +5

    Great looking, beginning to end! (You are blessed!) I like the no-beard shots best, but all are great!

  • @AbrasionUK
    @AbrasionUK 4 года назад +2

    Dude you actually had really thick hair for the majority of your life. It came on really suddenly.
    Mine is more of a typical receding pattern. I'm rocking short sides longer on top look at the moment, but I know eventually I will have to buzz it off. Watching this channel has helped ease my anxiety about it. As others have mentioned we tend to laugh it off in our society, but it can genuinely crush a young guys confidence.
    Thanks very much man. Keep up the good work.

  • @deftlefthand9964
    @deftlefthand9964 Год назад

    This has been incredibly inspiring to watch. I watched a different video on your channel with a guy who lost the wig and shaved his head. Powerful!!
    I'm going to continue watching until I see (and I'll know) the one I think my son will find most relatable. He's 33, his hair has lost volume and he's balding at the crown. He acts cavalier about shaving his entire head but I'm not convinced. My niece suffered from hair loss (never diagnosed as any kind of alopecia but she put her body through a lot.) She used a powder that was nothing short of miraculous and when I moved to the same state, I cut her hair for her. Gentle little curls that wafted to the floor. Sorry, I digressed but now I need to cry. Thx for all you do. 💛

  • @R1get
    @R1get 5 лет назад +9

    The bald/0 Shaved look suits your very well, looks awesome.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад

      Emil Carlström Thank you 🙏

  • @czhousehold
    @czhousehold 5 лет назад +11

    Its crazy how fast balding occurs. One moment you have such thick hair and the next its gone. Going through it myself, but if ever it gets bad enough that I'd have to shave it, I'll just grow a beard and embrace the bald look. Lovin your look ma man; glad I came across your video.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +3

      Insomnia Rock Thanks man. Glad you enjoyed the video. It’s the best action to take for sure.

  • @hitmanlowe3562
    @hitmanlowe3562 3 года назад +1

    You should have a million subscribers. Great channel!

  • @maro9282
    @maro9282 4 года назад +23

    Man, I really appreciate your work! I'm currently 22, almost 23 and balding very quickly due to stress, a lot of activities, lack of sleep and genetics. I decided to go full bald with the 2020 year. I know it's going to look better and I'm super confident about it. Thank you for the inspiration. No more hiding or acting like it's still there.

    • @nirupampratapgiri7757
      @nirupampratapgiri7757 4 года назад +2

      I’m exactly your age and I’m heading in your direction!

    • @Instfitter5150
      @Instfitter5150 2 года назад

      How is it going

    • @maro9282
      @maro9282 2 года назад +1

      ​ @Shayne Dill It's going great. I'm bald and it realy gave me a huge relief when I shaved my hair off. It's funny how i feel it even boosted my confidence, because I stopped covering it and I stopped wondering what others can see and if they think about my balding head.

    • @arthurlouiskarl
      @arthurlouiskarl 2 года назад

      Oh yes stress. Right

    • @wy2041
      @wy2041 Год назад

      @@arthurlouiskarl What? I’m 22 and I deal with a huge amount of stress every day.

  • @samueldias9240
    @samueldias9240 5 лет назад +10

    It's really hard to believe that this happened to you so fast. However, you are gorgeous anyway. Your beard is incredible. I love when you wear glasses too.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +2

      Thanks Samuel. gotta do whatever you can with what you got right! and even spice it up with some glasses once in a while 👌

  • @curubalibreify
    @curubalibreify 5 лет назад +4

    man, what a great video!
    Thank you soo much for sharing this!!! You are amazing bro and you give so much positivity and strenght to everyone who is going through balding.
    Keep up with this channel and this amazing work. You are doing an amazing work for everyone who is going through this situation, including me.
    I'm 28 and i have decided to shave my head last year because my hair got so much thinner that it really bothered me. I've tried to cover up my bald spots with powder and so on. I became really unsecure and it really impacted my life in a negative way. You and Max Da Silva inspired me to shave my head and i really thank you for your videos!
    Big love from Germany and i wish you all the best:)

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +1

      Wow thank you for your amazing words! Its my pleasure and I'm really happy to hear you have built up the courage to tackle it head on. Great work man, stay in touch!

  • @silvervisage5096
    @silvervisage5096 4 года назад +2

    I salute you! Great channel and content. I started going bald when I was 20. Hair getting thinner by the minute. I will be 30 years old this year and I've been shaving my head shiny bald for about 3 years now. I wear it proudly along with a goatee or full beard. It has become a lifestyle if you can call it so. I don't give a flying f*** what other people think of it, and as a matter of fact some women actually prefer and embrace the bald look. I have a saying: "If you don't like it then look the other way". Anyway, Cheers and best regards to everyone.

  • @suvojitbhattacharya9626
    @suvojitbhattacharya9626 4 года назад

    Thanks bro... For reigniting the confidence in me once again......

  • @blakesmith4441
    @blakesmith4441 5 лет назад +4

    Man you are awesome! Thanks for the encouraging videos man! I am 18 and I am already going bald I used to be really insecure about it but watching these videos has helped. Thank you and keep up the good work.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад

      My pleasure man. You keep watching and I'll keep making. Very happy to have you here 😃

    • @blakesmith4441
      @blakesmith4441 5 лет назад

      dominic A couple of months ago I was a Norwood 2 but here lately it’s more of a 3.

    • @maxsettings2906
      @maxsettings2906 4 года назад

      you better start working out . cause its gonna be hard to get laid

  • @varg2315
    @varg2315 5 лет назад +21

    Honestly this video makes me feel at ease. My plan was exactly this, if I ever started to lose hair I wouldn't hesitate to go bald because I'd have my beard that would save me, and I love that kind of look. You sir have given me confidence, first of all you look fucking great I wish you'd keep this style (that's just my opinion though haha) and second, I know I'm gonna get there one day cause baldness is pretty common on my father's side so I wouldn't be surprised. Time to grow that beard out!

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +3

      Yeah man! awesome attitude and its the only one to have if you really want to be happy and content without hair imo. Great beards come with time, be healthy, shave the receding hair off and just be happy man 👍

  • @trust1092
    @trust1092 4 года назад +147

    video would be better if you mentioned your age in the photos so we had an idea of timescales.

    • @MMOfreakOUT1
      @MMOfreakOUT1 3 года назад +1

      Considering how many times he grows out his hair, you can try to go out of the inches per month.
      Hair grows about ½ inch each month. If he goes for a manbun it will take around 6 months if you start off with a casual short haircut I believe.
      He noticed his hair loss shortly after turning 26, where he cut it short again. So in that way you can kind of follow up the last years.
      The picture of his curly long hair is probably around 23 or after turning 24? That would be my guess.
      I am terrible at math, but yeh

  • @Timotimo101
    @Timotimo101 Год назад

    Honestly, you look great in all the hairstyles but the look now, with such an awesome beard, is the most striking. Very nice. Well done.

  • @ubtrio08
    @ubtrio08 5 лет назад +12

    Keep up the good vids man! Fantastic

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +1

      Will do man 👍 Thanks for watching.

  • @barracuda3488
    @barracuda3488 5 лет назад +3

    Wow so strong and confident huge inspiration to be honest🙏

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад

      •Barracuda• Thank you! Everyone can do it with an open mind.

  • @apoormansempire
    @apoormansempire Год назад +1

    I gotta say, I see a lot of these videos, these days, and props to your beautiful community of bald men.
    I grew my hair shoulder length at 14 (with shaved sides cause it was the 90s), but after that, I was constantly worried about going bald. My dad was balding in his 30s. His dad was only really thinning by the time he died. My mom's dad, full head of hair til he passed. So, it was really hard to judge the path my hair would take.
    Fast forward to now, I'm 40, and I've been super lucky to keep it as long as I have. So far, it's just a bit thin around my hair swirl, but full at the front. But I'm well aware that thinning can progress pretty quickly at any age if that's how it goes.
    I wear my hair messy with faded sides now. A look I love, but I'm well aware baldness could be right around the corner, so I've shaved my head twice. I don't particularly like how I look, but it's tolerable.
    All of this to say, I love that there is a community out there that knows the fear and is there for some support.
    And you've also shown me that I'm quite lucky to still have so much. Even though my wife teases me about my bald spot pretty regularly lol.
    All the best

  • @DavidDiMuzio
    @DavidDiMuzio 3 года назад +149

    I've had two hairstyles in my whole life. This video makes me feel inadequate 😳

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  3 года назад +15

      Time to spice it up man 👏 2021 man bun?

    • @rabingajmer3293
      @rabingajmer3293 3 года назад

      @Seosamh MacAoidh yes it will but grows back eventually.

    • @MMOfreakOUT1
      @MMOfreakOUT1 3 года назад

      @@rabingajmer3293 Not necessarily. But yeh permanent damage from traction alopecia mostly occurs in dreadlocks I think..

  • @omarrochet
    @omarrochet 5 лет назад +23

    I’m 23 and I can’t let go of my hair yet. My hair was following the same path as yours, went to dermatologist, got Propecia & Rogaine and hairline has fully grown back like a Senior High-School student in 4 months. No side-effects. Crazy.

    • @Alpha-gk6hd
      @Alpha-gk6hd 5 лет назад +1

      There are side effects, some people get man boob, kill libido levels which your libido will definitely drop. But for a lot of people except for libido they are fine but some people get really shit side effects

    • @omarrochet
      @omarrochet 5 лет назад +5

      Alpha Stormz Yes I’ve read al about it in every single existent forum. However I haven’t suffered none at all. I think libido is even a little higher, no gyno, mental fog, no shed, no nothing. If you see the clinical trials people taking placebo reported lower libido, erectile dysfunction, gyno and other sides. So the people who had legit sides from Propecia were actually less than %2 percent. So that’s a risk I’m willing to take. I’m don’t think I’d feel as confident being bald at 23.

    • @Alpha-gk6hd
      @Alpha-gk6hd 5 лет назад

      Omar Rochet thanks dude, you are giving me confidence as well, im 15 but i have a chance to go bald. Hopefully i dont suffer side effects just like you. After im done with puberty if i see balding will surely give it a try

    • @onkarshete9559
      @onkarshete9559 Год назад

      Can I contact u?
      Instagram I'd?

    • @isaiahdoble4182
      @isaiahdoble4182 6 месяцев назад

      Same here. It's crazy how well medical intervention can work if you're proactive!

  • @TheMensch
    @TheMensch 5 лет назад +4

    This was an awesome video! Subbed! I think youre still a really handsome guy and so it may be easier for you to feel confident bald than the next guy. But I still think the beard-bald look is cool af, and its great that youre creating an exclusive club for guys so they might , dare I say, actually look forward to going bald and joining the community!

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +1

      Thats awesome man. Really glad you liked the video and welcome to the channel 👍 😃

  • @chessandmathguy
    @chessandmathguy 4 года назад +5

    Very honest video, took guts to make. Liked and subbed! I still struggle with hair loss myself, having had 5 (!) transplants, but still being unsatisfied with the density and considering my 6th or even 7th procedures.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  4 года назад +2

      Put an end to the struggle man and just move on from it as a new you! 👍

    • @sergiorobledooud3632
      @sergiorobledooud3632 3 года назад

      @@Baldcafe I am bald too from the back I am dont worry the good thing is I dont have to cut a lot. True hairtransplant dont fix the problem, but hair transplant make the problem bigger he had two hairtransplant he is already bald from the back and got smp check this. the hairtransplant depeleted your donor makes your donor thin out it already is and it reduce the destiny. ruclips.net/video/VzIfzj1lH84/видео.html

    • @sergiorobledooud3632
      @sergiorobledooud3632 3 года назад

      @@Baldcafe This is a repair Hair Transplant case where we have used Synthetic hair as a solution for repairing the hairline. The Donor area of the patient was very weak since he had already gone for transplant earlier with other doctors but still did not get a good solution.

  • @brianalvarez3354
    @brianalvarez3354 3 года назад +3

    This man looks good with like every look

  • @D34DLYFL0W
    @D34DLYFL0W 5 лет назад +20

    Hi Harry , crazy how quickly it progressed for you, I’m in a similar situation where I noticed slight recession at 23 and i I’ve probably thought about it every day since and I’m now 28. Don’t get me wrong if you saw me now you may not say I was losing hair but in the last year it’s got so much thinner and the recession has got worse. Your videos have shown me that there is light at the end of the tunnel. I’m seriously considering getting that razor out and nipping it in the bud as the mental game is next level now and I’m getting really insecure about it.
    Nothing but the upmost respect for you. Thank you for your content and keep it up.
    DW

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +6

      Hey DW Thanks for your comment. Thats the thing that is most striking about this hair loss stuff... the mental aspect. I can't even imagine having to endure it for all those years but you are 100% correct. There is a very positive light at the end of a dark hair loss tunnel. I'll be here when you are ready to take that action! we're all routing for you!

    • @erko78
      @erko78 5 лет назад

      Dude just shave that hair off. I was so insecure I went as far as getting an FUE hair transplant and 2-3 years later I ended up shaving my hair anyway. I’m fortunate to have a manly face so maybe that helps me but the more time goes by the happier I’m with my shaved head. The mental torture of always worrying about hair was so unhealthy.
      My wife (was gf at the time) shaved my head off the first time and started giggling midway and I got worried wondering if it looks ugly and she said no she couldn’t believe that I’m even hotter with a bald head.
      Obviously not everyone will look good with a bald head but you won’t know until you try it. Look at people like Derek Jeter who has a weird shaped head but is still considered “hot” by most women.

  • @tyson9392
    @tyson9392 5 лет назад +3

    The bald look is absolutely EPIC. You have a great head shape. The beard too🔥🔥🔥

  • @mooviedude141
    @mooviedude141 4 года назад +19

    I had a thick curly long mane of hair before I started thinning out in my mid 20s. I watched my diet and exercised regularly yet still experiencing hair loss meanwhile my 40 year old brother lived a life of drugs and alcohol and still has a full head of hair.

  • @James-rf5tn
    @James-rf5tn 4 года назад +143

    I'm more than halfway though the vid and this dude still has all his hair wtf??

    • @BigBoss7777777
      @BigBoss7777777 4 года назад +9

      I'm 16 minutes in and he still has his hair

    • @kshitizavasthi5804
      @kshitizavasthi5804 3 года назад

      Lol🤣

    • @Patrick.Basedman
      @Patrick.Basedman 3 года назад +1

      He went "just shave it bro" at the first hair of a hair in the sink.

    • @mephisto9435
      @mephisto9435 3 года назад +1

      You could tell from his shaven head he would still have a lot of hair if he grew it, actual bald people have shiny heads from where there is actually no hair at all compared to just shaven hair

    • @escanoreldifunto-sama4044
      @escanoreldifunto-sama4044 3 года назад

      @@Patrick.Basedman he didnt even tried finasteride hahahah

  • @timzstr
    @timzstr 5 лет назад +3

    Keep on shining

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад

      Oh I will 👍 loud and proud.

  • @just4all1
    @just4all1 4 года назад +3

    I'm 30 yo, i always felt secured with long hair ever since I can remember, until this year I noticed a some hair loss, pecially from the front sides, I started panicking and freaking out, and i've decided to shave it all and let me tell you, I FELT RELIEVED, I'm rocking a shot beard style and I'm feeling FANTASTIC.

  • @s.e.3172
    @s.e.3172 4 года назад

    And you rocked the good old legend of aesthetics hoodie. 👌🏽

  • @tremainenelms2165
    @tremainenelms2165 Год назад +1

    That's awesome man looking Smoove styling and profiling love it 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @YoYo73
    @YoYo73 5 лет назад +6

    You had such an amazing hair with amazing thickness and hairline. It's amazing that you embraced your baldness. You are very handsome man. Hair or no hair both suits you. Most of the guys these days try to prevent hairloss by medicine and transplantation which has made people think that baldness is bad. Many younger men are insecure. If many men embraced and rocked baldness like you then bald look will be embraced instead of being embarrassed. Thank you for this video.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +1

      Thank you for the kind words. im doing my best to help others do the same and embrace it 👍

  • @DeltaSniperZRR
    @DeltaSniperZRR 4 года назад +40

    Damn, no way anyone would have guessed that you would be bald years after that photo at 12:48.

  • @LifeinUSofA
    @LifeinUSofA 3 года назад

    I am going through all the stages you are going through !

  • @ivanjovanovic8915
    @ivanjovanovic8915 2 года назад +4

    Today is the day i went full bald . And I feel free to be honest. Free from some pressure I putted on myself when I was losing the hair. It's so hard to accept that you had really thick hair and boom just like that you are losing it and you lose your confidence. And I really feel free now!! I'm so glad I choose to go bald and the part that is awsome is that it suits me !

  • @Bangkok46
    @Bangkok46 5 лет назад +4

    Been watching you for a while now.. all I gotta say is keep up the good work 👍🙏

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +2

      Thank you for watching and being a part of the channel. It means the world 🙏 and keeps me so motivated to make more content.

  • @lujoviste
    @lujoviste 5 лет назад +4

    not gonna lie i loved the pictures not because of the hair loss progress but just to know how your life progressed aswell really interesting stuff mate.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +1

      Ilovecookies Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it 👌

  • @tonyjenkins3937
    @tonyjenkins3937 Год назад +1

    BALD IS BEATIFUL YOU ARE A LEGEND

  • @sanjayrajagopal6951
    @sanjayrajagopal6951 4 года назад

    Awesome story man!!😊

  • @tea-rex5390
    @tea-rex5390 4 года назад +13

    It's kinda interesting that hair loss can occur in different shapes and speeds. Some people start losing their hair in their 20s but it progresses really slowly, while others seem to have the thickest hair for the longest time and all off a sudden they lose their hair extremely fast.

    • @orvos1459
      @orvos1459 Год назад

      “…others seem to have the thickest hair for the longest time and all of a sudden they lose their hair extremely fast.”
      At which age does that normally occur?

    • @lordwiadro83
      @lordwiadro83 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@orvos1459I used to have nice long hair until around 37. I am 40 now and just shaved my head for the first time. It went pretty quickly in those last 3 years...

  • @fabiocabral6574
    @fabiocabral6574 5 лет назад +4

    I loved this new project of yours, I follow you since your time on Brazzers. Really proud 💪🏼💪🏼

    • @frankied9276
      @frankied9276 5 лет назад

      77AM 7and 5566666666y9rwaa

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +1

      😂 This is the best one yet.

  • @jamskof
    @jamskof 2 года назад

    amazing channel. great work fella

  • @toddgoogle4387
    @toddgoogle4387 4 года назад +1

    You are lucky you can pull off any look. Some of us aren't able to do it. I had a little bald spot a 44 and start finasteride and my hair is coming back in thicker....no sides. I'm a happy man.

  • @RockyC89
    @RockyC89 4 года назад +5

    I actually shaved my head for the first time during quarantine (March) I had been running the double zero clippers for the past two years so I hadn’t really seen the extent of my baldness. For the first three weeks I let my hair kind just do it’s thing, after i had seen enough growth is when it became apparent that I did not want to rock the George Costanza lol. Shaving my head was one of the most liberating things ever, it definitely helps that I can grow a beard like my man hear.

  • @Tdld77
    @Tdld77 4 года назад +7

    Started shaving my head for the past two weeks really enjoying the look. These videos though kinda gave me the "it's okay just take a razor to it."

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  4 года назад

      Nice one man ✊ respect

  • @adrianruvalcaba2896
    @adrianruvalcaba2896 4 года назад +4

    Kinda strange that it seemed to go so quickly. Usually it progresses over the years. Also most of the time the balding starts at the hairline so it is peculiar to see that it just went bald on top while the hairline seems unaffected. Thanks for sharing, I guess most of us have to go through this eventually.

  • @anthonymedina7737
    @anthonymedina7737 4 года назад

    I think this style fits better on you, bald and and the beard looks great

  • @ChiefLA
    @ChiefLA 3 года назад +3

    Just started the buzz cut cause I’m noticing my hairline
    ty so much for this.

  • @francokills
    @francokills 5 лет назад +48

    Oh man, the pain I went through college, trying to hide my balding crown from the ladies. The feeling of someones looking at your head from behind. Tough time. Now I just went full bald and grew a beard, never felt better.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад +2

      You and I both man, its the only way to go and the only thing that lasts! well done man.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 лет назад

      Also welcome on my podcast any time to share your story 👍

  • @davidfoulkes8907
    @davidfoulkes8907 4 года назад

    I’m bald n a silver beard .. let’s keep rocking the style brother 👍

  • @roms3
    @roms3 4 года назад

    You have a perfect head shape. Also your eyes are pretty. So you totally rock the bald look.

  • @davidgatt6513
    @davidgatt6513 4 года назад +5

    Off to shave my head tomorrow! Also a fellow Revs baby - legit when I started my hair loss journey and remember doing a cocktail MasterClass and a women pointing it out!!

    • @thetroubledmonk
      @thetroubledmonk 3 года назад

      I remember my good friend who was a hairstylist and cutting my hair pointed to the top of my head and said "What's happening here?"
      I still had enough hair to not quite see it, but then as the years passed I started to see what she saw more and more. I lived with this for over 15 years, just secretly thinking about it every day at least once, and then I came across this channel...
      Thanks to this community I too am going to shave it all on Tuesday.
      And funny thing, now that I want to do it I can't get this thinned hair off my head fast enough!

    • @thetroubledmonk
      @thetroubledmonk 3 года назад

      @Seosamh MacAoidh it went well. Took me a day to get used to, but it feels so much better to own being bald than to try to accept balding.

    • @thetroubledmonk
      @thetroubledmonk 3 года назад

      @Seosamh MacAoidh It worked out well (thankfully), and to be honest, it seems.like it's working out well.for all the men on this channel which is great!

  • @D3ft0ne
    @D3ft0ne 4 года назад +6

    Never thought mr. Corgan would go into so much detail about his head ; )

  • @simonpayne5475
    @simonpayne5475 Год назад

    Really enjoy your videos. You look better without hair, as so many men do, especially when they have beards.

  • @richardevans7035
    @richardevans7035 4 года назад

    Great video and nice to see you wearing my 2nd favourite football side in the pilgrims