How to THRIVE After a Toxic Relationship, STAND UP & Set Boundaries For Yourself | Milck
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- Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
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Through the power of music, Milck has given a voice to millions of women around the world with her songs like Quiet, the 2017 anthem of the Women’s March. She has stood beside powerful women like Oprah and Michelle Obama speaking up for women to be empowered, be uplifted and be resilient. In our conversation we’re going deeper to help the women that are over being silenced and in need of a little support and a lot of inspiration to become the hero of their own journey.
In this episode, Milck opens up to share the journey of a girl that’s struggled through abuse, self-doubt, and insecurities. She lays out the tactical steps she’s taken as a woman and as an artist to come into her own to find her voice and become the voice for millions of women around the world.
Milk exposes the greatest lie we tell ourselves keeping us broken in toxic relationships, how to break away from feeling trapped in patterns of abuse, and the power of personal responsibility
If you’re looking for ways to get more out of gratitude, a better way to respond to rejection, and make a massive change in your life starting today, you’ve come to the right place.
As a bonus, I’m including this powerful conversation with Jenna Kutcher, the host of Goal Digger, the podcast that delivers life struggles, reframes, clarity and value through the lens of a mom, entrepreneur and marketing guru. She takes this dive discussing her first book, How Are You Really, and gets to the heart of what so many women are struggling to articulate.
QUOTES:
“After I got sexually assaulted, I became a floating head.”
“My life has taught me to leap frog over anger.”
“Once I stopped defending my stance, [...] it changed everything.”
“I’m so happy but I still have this anxiety, and it’s like this echo from the past, so I have to tell myself I am sovereign and I am safe.”
“If the answer is that ‘I’m not okay,’ then I’ve got to face that, and I think we’re afraid to face it.” -Jenna Kutcher
“I feel stretched thin because of the fullness of life. Nothing is bad and nothing is broken and nothing is wrong, but life is full, and I don’t know if I can always carry that.” -Jenna Kutcher
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so, you are not talking to people on telegram ? lol , wow
Hi Lisa. There's one more thing that the evil narcissist hates.😤😠 It's when you let them know they cannot live because they don't have Jesus. Jesus is the way the truth and the life. And according to Exodus 22:18 you shall not permit the sorceress to live (NKJV of the Bible). Some of these narcissists are witches and sorcerers and they have been consulting with dark powers and astro projecting to find out certain information, which for them is spiritually illegal. Therefore they cannot live, they only can exist on their way to hell, because they are the spirit of rebellion/rebelliousness, which is as the spirit of witchcraft (found in the book of 1st Samuel 6, I believe) Jesus is the way the truth and the life, and since to live is to have life, they simply cannot. We don't permit them to, upon discovery of this knowledge of the book of Exodus 22:18, and the points made in this comment. Jesus lives in me. And Jesus does not practice witchcraft. Greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world. The evil narcissistic witch or sorcerer can't say that without lying. And they can't live either. They have no life(JESUS). Literally. Amen. ✝️🙏
@@Love-Thyself. I believe she is telling us a way to keep safe & took that the wrong way. This is only my 2nd time here, however :)
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I would still give it. and my bank account
The courts are destroying domestic violence survivors who attempt to protect their children from abuse. Many protective mothers and children have lost their lives.
Thank you for this wonderful channel and sharing about domestic violence❤️🙏
Yes they are! I tried to protect my son from my ex husband’s partners son, and the courts wouldn’t help me. I felt so helpless as a mom and thought so many times to just take my son and run.
@@krystalgardiner5591 I am so sorry to hear of your suffering. My thoughts and heart are with you and your son❣️🙏
Many thanks for your kind words and thoughts❣️🙏
KK You are VERY WELCOME❣️🙏
I am no longer chasing, I am attracting. I am sober. I am safe. ~Milck
I lke how Milck is in the flow. You can see that she overcame great challenges to get into this state. When that happens then aunthenticity is very easy. Living and having grace for the moment is our true nature.
22 minutes in and I'm like OMG this is an AMAZING episode already. I am so excited to hear the rest. I am so grateful for you and your guest. Thank you thank you thank you 🙏
Amazing. Everything I needed to hear and understand at this point in my life. Thank you
Yes!! The heat I get that too!! Your instincts know where to go and what to do. Listen to your body and your gut instincts!
I let my parents to decide for me for many years so I suppressed my own wishes and desires. That's how we lose our ability to even know what we want. I knew what I can and who I am but that portion of me wanting something was turned off literally. I'm still learning what I really want...thanks for the video as always Lisa you're the best.
Lisa my dear, you are simply beautiful. I love your heart so much. Thank you for all you and your hubby have done to help enlighten us all!
I was marveled at by my Spanish teacher when I said, I'm gonna miss learning when I graduate from high school. I'm not dead. I can further my learning in the library in my smart phone.
Wow, what a great interview
Beautiful conversation ❤
Your timing homie...💖
Amen on the 14 w/o the vocabulary ! Mine wasn't abusive... but I found it hard to know what to do to guard my boundary. That was in 1982! I'm 56 & I'm still learning stuff...I didn't know or think I could do!!?? Whoa!..oh my gosh .yes anger .. fast-forward to.reconciliation . I did this too. For me its Cause calling someone else out..like what do I say?!! & BE HEARD. AT LEAST BY myself!.
Thank u ..l9ve this episode ❤
It took me along time
I could have stayed away if I was further away and if I had supportive help and acceptance for my child it’s so difficult leaving with a young child
Mom told her mom, as soon as God blessed mom, she'll bless her mom.
No captions today? 😢 As an outreach case manager this subject is near & dear to my heart.
This is so powerful ❤
I was a stay at home dad with two kids. Had no of this 'tuf shit'. cuz I knew I chose it. And I do not need external validation
Thanks to the cop that didn't want me in the treatment room with him. My ex that took care of him told me, she kept telling me, I belong to her. Nice to belong. But she threatened to kill me if I leave her. He kept trying to convince her that, I'm not gay. Maybe. She was toxic.
I have numbness in my feet and legs. I'm b deficient. Water has b in it. So, I better when I apply it by hydrating. Putting the work in it. 🙂
Please if someone understood that part of how much it take us to leave an abusive relationship she said 7 but I didn't get it.
I would love to climb the red Rocks!😭 I have vertigo.
It's taking me 21 years, sadly. .. I'm still trying to leave. 😔
I hope you stay safe depending on your situation. I’m sorry. Just remember you have to love yourself more 💗! Wishing you all the best!
You can do it
Sometime not knowing what or how to do something can seem terrifying just take it one day at a time and it's like someone once told me it's either you keep living your life like this and watch your life pass you by or you can do something about it and live the rest of you life the way you want to either way your struggling so why not struggle while having peace of mind and freedom to think for yourself and do things that make you happy, or even find a hobby. It won't be easy and you'll miss your abuser for awhile but then time will go by and you find that you can't even remember the last time you thought about, then you'll find yourself smiling for no reason and the best part you won't miss them anymore. God doesn't close a door without opening another. 🙏 trust God and the process it won't be easy but definitely worth it.
I need more self control
I dreamed of making robots like the Short Circuit who caused other robots to act like the The Three Stooges.
Seven times Been there
I didn't get this part of 7 times , what does it mean?
@@kaoutar6921 hi it took me and my young child 7 times to physically leave . in the beginning of all of this, I didn’t understand how manipulative that partner was so when we went to court, I would always listen to his bargaining and believe it and go back thinking you know I can I could work with him we could go to counseling we could do all the things that they say to do by the book, but it never worked and always have to leave sometimes fleeing sometimes leaving for months on end and waiting to get placed in housing and it never happened and I was feeling so desperate and lost and it was so hard being a single mother with a disability so I went back and I finally was able to do it I separated by leaving the state and we both my daughter and myself began the process of healing …
So many people didn’t understand what we were being subjected to I remained dedicated to protected her as much as I could I know I did the best that I could
I’m glad people are talking out loud online everywhere really peeling back these hidden layers of abuse so many women and their children have endured
@@kaoutar6921 so answering what does it mean … I recall reading and hearing
DVsupport staff say it sometimes takes survivors up to 7 times before the finally escape It has been written about and evaluated so seven is the number
So, it's the of my teeth that kinda give me hope as they're drinking my medicine. 😊
Eating junk food buries our issues deeper worsening issue one and two and so on.
Hell majority of all the relationships i was involved in were all abusive 💔
Good video, but being in a relationship at only 14 years old WTH?
Exactly, absent parent
babys are joy
Leaders Workers And Game Changers , what for God's People living out my values and just by God's Grace Who Works Mysteriously in our lives ? Turn on the iron and use it when it's HOT .
I love watching these, however I would caution to not get so caught up in politics. I think it draws a line in the sand, it feels like this line is saying “this is good, and that’s bad”… which really alienates the people on the other side of the line.
Maybe I could have learned from some of the things she said about reconnecting with the body after trauma but I’m 23 minutes in and it’s nothing but political issues.
Men cant unable to love dot😮😇
I love you Lisa but this girl needs therapy
what the hell is it
You make no sense
You know I have a problem with being upset with the roe v way being overturned. No one seems to care about equal rights for the unborn woman. It's just so sad
What the hell does that with this subject???
I’m grateful as I was coerced. I should have just left and carried on. It still pains me. And the dr was nasty, I remember my follow up exam. He pulled a duckbill tool out of a drawer and stuck it inside of me and put it back into the drawer. I felt less than an animal. They, as well, are the abusers.
Meanwhile there are millions of women worldwide who think killing unborn children is wrong.
Lisa. As a so called 'real man'. I have one advice. STOP over analysing the female take on the world if you want a man