The Power and Benefits of Silence

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  • Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
  • New Years is a time for new resolutions and fresh starts. They're a time for new goals. In this video I share a skill that I will be deliberately working on acquiring this year and I hope other Muslimahs will as well.
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    00:00 Intro
    00:52 The Skill of Silence
    04:15 Benefit 1 - More Conscious
    05:43 Benefit 2: Better Listener
    06:55 Benefit 3: Less Arguments and Regret
    08:56 Benefit 4: More Mysterious
    10:12 Benefit 5: More Wise and Smart
    12:29 Benefit 6: People Like You More
    13:17 Benefit 7: More Confidence
    14:13 Benefit 8: Protection from Gossip
    15:44 Benefit 9: Makes Your Islam Better
    16:33 Benefit 10: Following Qur'an and Sunnah
    19:13 Tips on How to Get Started
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Комментарии • 112

  • @AvaStudioLORE
    @AvaStudioLORE 6 месяцев назад +96

    My goal this year is to make my dhikr more than my words, every single day, this year. If I talk a lot on the day, I have to dhikr a lot more that night. It really helps me to watch what I say

    • @AsifKhan-vt6or
      @AsifKhan-vt6or 6 месяцев назад

      i testify that Muhammad Qasim's dream are true and those are from Allah and Qasim is imam mahdi
      ruclips.net/video/Zcyqg78jvE8/видео.htmlsi=--yTFXl-W9Mw95r-

    • @hamdakhadar361
      @hamdakhadar361 6 месяцев назад +3

      Masha Allah ❤sis

    • @nikhathkhadri3372
      @nikhathkhadri3372 6 месяцев назад

      Alhamdulillah jazakallah khair 👍👍

    • @misbahailia3345
      @misbahailia3345 6 месяцев назад

      This is do true, especially making zikir Astugfurullah.

    • @LAila-qf4ww
      @LAila-qf4ww 6 месяцев назад

      The best thikir sister is sending salaawaat on nabi, look it up InshaAllh
      Me too
      May Allah bless you

  • @Officialoctober_rsa
    @Officialoctober_rsa 6 месяцев назад +12

    This is educating....
    Planning to implement this tip when i go back to school.
    And please make dua for me i want to study nursing next year

  • @sukut_kg
    @sukut_kg 6 месяцев назад +15

    _"The art of knowing is knowing what to ignore."_ ~ Rumi Hz. _(Peace be upon him)_ 🌼

  • @enneaf1676
    @enneaf1676 6 месяцев назад +27

    I needed to watch this more than I thought. (The title just came up via youtube algorithm) Boundaries in speech and thought! I am not Muslim, but all of this is something I needed to hear. I will watch this over and over until I internalize it fully

  • @romanaashraf9267
    @romanaashraf9267 6 месяцев назад +6

    I made dua to Allah to help me in keeping my tongue in check . And it's a continuous dua .

  • @MASwalih
    @MASwalih 6 месяцев назад +22

    Mashah Allah☝🏻
    I'm from Kerala.. May Allah grant your Mom Magfirah and Marhamah, for us Aafiyah and Barakah as well Inshah Allah 🤲🏻🤲🏻
    Expecting more videos..👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

    • @AsifKhan-vt6or
      @AsifKhan-vt6or 6 месяцев назад

      i testify that Muhammad Qasim's dream are true and those are from Allah and Qasim is imam mahdi
      ruclips.net/video/Zcyqg78jvE8/видео.htmlsi=--yTFXl-W9Mw95r-

    • @shibushalu2608
      @shibushalu2608 6 месяцев назад +1

      Aameen 🤲🏻

    • @asiyahad-deenislam5289
      @asiyahad-deenislam5289 6 месяцев назад +1

      🤲🏾Aameen

  • @waheedakarim4559
    @waheedakarim4559 6 месяцев назад +9

    Salam o alaikum bachey, you’re a reply to my duas. I m relieved and hope it will go the long way. You will be in my duas as you’re helping me to recite more Quran and make this loneliness into solitude please pray me n my children become sahib e Quran and we become a source to change someone ‘s life for the betterment like you A’ameen. Respect n love from Dallas,Texas.

    • @reyfx963
      @reyfx963 6 месяцев назад

      SUBHANALLAH
      MAA SHA ALLAH ❤

  • @monkeypolice3048
    @monkeypolice3048 6 месяцев назад +5

    Assalamualiakum sister, hopefully you don't get me wrong. I just wanted to say I agree with you, except a fresh start on a new year. It's neither wrong or right, but the sooner, the better. This idea of doing it on New years is from the West. We follow whatever is prescribed sunnah, Hadith, and the Quran.

  • @fareehan1
    @fareehan1 6 месяцев назад +6

    Mashaa Allah, a young girl with deep wisdom.

  • @khadijafayyaz6184
    @khadijafayyaz6184 6 месяцев назад +5

    Silence for Allah and speaking for Allah 👌🏻

  • @ansar735
    @ansar735 Месяц назад

    Oh Allah, I seek protection in you from the evil of my hearing, from the evil of my sight, from the evil of my tongue, from the evil of my heart, and from the evil of myself.

  • @dietetics.2
    @dietetics.2 6 месяцев назад +4

    I'm new here and i have decided to change myself alot this year 😊😊😊
    Inshallah this channel will help me❤

  • @rayneparker7421
    @rayneparker7421 6 месяцев назад +5

    Alhamdulilah your recitation almost made me cry. Subhanallah. New follower thank you for the content

  • @1OnlyOneOnlyOne1
    @1OnlyOneOnlyOne1 6 месяцев назад +3

    Mashallah Sister. I haven't seen many youtube videos on this important subject. Most people talk for the sake of talking. The worst thing about talking too much is you will reveal your weaknesses and say stuff that will embarrass you, possibly for the rest of your life. Its better to stay silent most of the time.
    May Allah reward you for doing the good work. Stay strong in this world of degeneracy.

  • @minasiddiqui9000
    @minasiddiqui9000 6 месяцев назад +11

    Allahumma barik sister. This is such a needed skill and reminder especially for the women and girls because it is difficult as is .

    • @AsifKhan-vt6or
      @AsifKhan-vt6or 6 месяцев назад

      i testify that Muhammad Qasim's dream are true and those are from Allah and Qasim is imam mahdi
      ruclips.net/video/Zcyqg78jvE8/видео.htmlsi=--yTFXl-W9Mw95r-

  • @ozlemguneri-dk3cb
    @ozlemguneri-dk3cb 6 месяцев назад +7

    With one word “It is awesome”jazekallahu hayran sister.😊

  • @adeena2781
    @adeena2781 6 месяцев назад +10

    Totally relatable topics on this channel.. especially as a girl

  • @terapfloralsulasouza
    @terapfloralsulasouza 6 месяцев назад +1

    In other words, practice the Intelligent Silence to make progress as Muslim. Very good video ❤

  • @DahrenT
    @DahrenT 4 месяца назад

    Ma shaa Allah, listened to this while working from home during Ramadhan. Again, a very beneficial podcast. May Allah swt reward you, increase you with beneficial knowledge, and bless your channel and business with much rizq and success. 🤲

  • @AhmedKhan-ol3sv
    @AhmedKhan-ol3sv 5 месяцев назад +1

    Mashallah. Your point is just up to the mark literally yapping so much leads towards ultimately leads you towards destruction.

  • @Oneislamway
    @Oneislamway 6 месяцев назад +7

    Maa Shaa Allah sister you are the gem of our ummah.Alhamdulillah you gave very nice tips to remain silent.you actually. Revived the forgotten sunnah.I was desperate for this as I have so many arguments with my children to follow the islamic principle .jazakAllahukhairan .

  • @wallendegen1
    @wallendegen1 6 месяцев назад +3

    Assalamualikum. I was once waiting for an eyecheck up and was caught in a moment of akward silence. I was trying to be nice so I said to the attendant how many months was she pregnant, she had a bump or so I thought. To my shock she was not pregnant. I felt the earth should swallow me. I now try utmost to endure the akward silences. I was always a quiet person growing up but people around me "african aunties" always commented on my lack of being outspoken. As a young adult I tried to compensate by starting dialogues but I have mostly regretted talking in many instances. Silence is golden.

  • @sanayasam5393
    @sanayasam5393 6 месяцев назад +5

    MashaAllah. It to the point, easy wording and effective
    This will be my goal as well InshaAllah. I'm the one who always try to people happy by my saying something, not to support myself a good person.
    But yes sometimes we eventually became in defense mode whenever will have the word( :you're wrong).and many more things happened that we don't want.
    And my 2nd goal to reduce my friends circle..
    I was use to make friend who around me. And i even didn't released their nature.
    Thank you so much jazakAllah.
    Its gonna helpful for me❤

  • @anujarahim8533
    @anujarahim8533 6 месяцев назад +2

    Jazaki Allahu khairan katheerah habibti

  • @kneelowkhan
    @kneelowkhan 6 месяцев назад +2

    In groups settings I used to be the talker now instead I try to listen and ask questions instead- in aim to speaking less which was a goal of mine last year

  • @IMPERFECTMUSLIM99
    @IMPERFECTMUSLIM99 6 месяцев назад +2

    MashaAllah aliki ya ukhti 🤍

  • @qizrarefath5190
    @qizrarefath5190 6 месяцев назад +8

    Ma sha Allah sister❤ may Allah bless you with khair in everything, you have shared the best video 😍

  • @hudaismail6735
    @hudaismail6735 6 месяцев назад +4

    Manshallah. JazakAllah sister❤

  • @youdontcare3
    @youdontcare3 6 месяцев назад +8

    Allahuma bareek your recitation is calming and beautiful 😊❤

  • @saadaaboubaker5161
    @saadaaboubaker5161 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you my sister god bless you jazaqallah

  • @shaheenr24
    @shaheenr24 6 месяцев назад +3

    Assalamualaikum sister ma sha Allah you r doing a great job , may Allah swt reward you n keep you going for the benefit of this ummah , for Muslim ladies and keep you steadfast Ameen

  • @nubaishazia
    @nubaishazia 6 месяцев назад +7

    Powerful words that are so rare. Thank you 😊

  • @Brad51896
    @Brad51896 6 месяцев назад +3

    I would’ve booked and one of the chapters mentioned this as well this I read a couple years ago and I did it. I felt amazing and I had more energy for myself. Great video.

  • @Sincerelyheba
    @Sincerelyheba 6 месяцев назад +1

    Assalamu Aliakum! I loved your video so much. SubhanAllah may Allah increase you with wisdom and blessings. I immediately liked how you said your mom used to go make zikr instead of talk. What a beautiful thing to do with her time. May Allah swt bless her and grant her Jannah. Barakah Allahu feeki.

  • @Ch0coIsl4t3
    @Ch0coIsl4t3 6 месяцев назад +4

    Allahuma Barik!! This video is rlly underrated ⭐

  • @NZAYNM
    @NZAYNM 6 месяцев назад +3

    I find this video at the right time 😊

  • @muhammadmustafa8293
    @muhammadmustafa8293 6 месяцев назад +3

    Wa alaikumussalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

  • @fatimafarid9613
    @fatimafarid9613 6 месяцев назад +9

    This was an amazing video with great tips and straight to the point ❤❤

  • @Youbettersaysubhanallah
    @Youbettersaysubhanallah 6 месяцев назад +1

    سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك أشهد أن لا إله إلا أنت أستغفرك وأتوب إليك

  • @khanzz560
    @khanzz560 6 месяцев назад +1

    Asalamu Alaikum ❤
    Lots of l0ve n prayers from Pakistan 🇵🇰

  • @FreeP4l3stine
    @FreeP4l3stine 6 месяцев назад +5

    Excellent video sister. May Allah bless you💚

  • @rejiakhatun2599
    @rejiakhatun2599 6 месяцев назад +2

    Jazakallah sister it was beneficial advice

  • @thisuseriscute
    @thisuseriscute 6 месяцев назад +3

    thank you for the video! haven’t seen someone paying attention to it in such details
    i’m already working on it and this video has definitely helped me a lot! جزاك اللهُ خيرًا

  • @sanjidaislam1396
    @sanjidaislam1396 4 месяца назад

    I relate to 3:30 so hard. SubhanAllah

  • @arfanashraf9116
    @arfanashraf9116 6 месяцев назад +1

    Jazak Allah Kher

  • @asmachoudhury1231
    @asmachoudhury1231 6 месяцев назад +3

    Jazakillahu khairun sister, this is what i needed to hear❤️

  • @ayeshafarooq6455
    @ayeshafarooq6455 6 месяцев назад +4

    Such a helpful video my daughter. I really really needed this video at this point of my life ❤

  • @cos_maya_mos9622
    @cos_maya_mos9622 6 месяцев назад +1

    Jazakaallu khairan Maryam.

  • @hashemel-lakany286
    @hashemel-lakany286 6 месяцев назад +1

    This channel is amazing. Keep going. I'm gonna watch them all inshallah❤🎉🎉🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @peaceeoutt
    @peaceeoutt 6 месяцев назад +1

    Barakallah feek ❤

  • @toumast2006
    @toumast2006 6 месяцев назад +5

    Amazing recommandations...❤

  • @inamulislam7141
    @inamulislam7141 6 месяцев назад +5

    Assalamualaikum warahmatullah my dear sister. You're amazing. Lots of love from India. Today first time I visited your channel and I subscribed now.

  • @MohammedArshed-ib5ez
    @MohammedArshed-ib5ez 6 месяцев назад +1

    Jazakallaaah❤

  • @niningsetia4213
    @niningsetia4213 6 месяцев назад +2

    Masha ALLAH tabarakallah 😂😂❤❤❤❤

  • @Bb-pw1zi
    @Bb-pw1zi 6 месяцев назад +1

    True. It is rare these days to see a Muslim who is friendly and looks happy. Muslims should try to work on their behaviour

  • @safi158
    @safi158 6 месяцев назад +3

    Quran ayath which is related to this topic
    : وَقُل لِّعِبَادِي يَقُولُوا الَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ ۚ إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ يَنزَغُ بَيْنَهُمْ ۚ إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ كَانَ لِلْإِنسَانِ عَدُوًّا مُّبِينًا
    “And tell My servants to say that which is best. Indeed, Satan induces [dissension] among them. Indeed Satan is ever, to mankind, a clear enemy.” (Al-Isra’ 17:53)
    O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice.
    33:70
    He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment. 33:71

  • @bembeyazcan
    @bembeyazcan 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for great advices!❤

  • @bmary8283
    @bmary8283 6 месяцев назад +5

    Really beneficial video, thank you so much. ❤❤

  • @kimberlybyrd1148
    @kimberlybyrd1148 6 месяцев назад +1

    I desperately need to squire this skilll

  • @Bad-bishh
    @Bad-bishh 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much for thia video i hope i take some advice from here and try follow it

  • @justondeen
    @justondeen 6 месяцев назад +4

    I needed all of these tips so much. Thank you ♥️

  • @ModernMusliimah
    @ModernMusliimah 6 месяцев назад +3

    Mashallah thank you sis ✨

  • @justinraw1481
    @justinraw1481 5 месяцев назад +1

    jazakallah khair.. much love... great vidoe!!!

  • @maryanabdullahi9852
    @maryanabdullahi9852 6 месяцев назад +2

    JazakaAllahu kheir sister, its really beneficial topic

  • @nargishomecooking2203
    @nargishomecooking2203 6 месяцев назад +5

    Great advices, thanks for sharing!

  • @maimounakone8055
    @maimounakone8055 6 месяцев назад +2

    Loved the video.

  • @saharaiqbal9973
    @saharaiqbal9973 6 месяцев назад +2

    Allhamdullilah I found this gold thank u❤

  • @mgenihamed5710
    @mgenihamed5710 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much sis for beautiful video, please keep making beautiful videos❤

  • @ChimmyQ
    @ChimmyQ 6 месяцев назад +3

    MashaAllah sis! I needed to hear this

  • @mamadoudrammeh8448
    @mamadoudrammeh8448 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks sister,for your wonderful video

  • @raghadalshadidi2901
    @raghadalshadidi2901 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @ItsHusna528
    @ItsHusna528 6 месяцев назад +3

    I love this
    So much ❤

  • @UncleSaif
    @UncleSaif 6 месяцев назад +2

    Superb

  • @naemanordien7888
    @naemanordien7888 6 месяцев назад +1

    Aslm I love this message thank you and Mashallah

  • @HassanSaddouk-qb8oc
    @HassanSaddouk-qb8oc 6 месяцев назад +3

    MachaA Allah my sister

  • @naqiyamuhammedmadambillath6596
    @naqiyamuhammedmadambillath6596 6 месяцев назад

    ❤ jazakallah kairan

  • @MuslimahTiktok
    @MuslimahTiktok 6 месяцев назад +2

    Allahumma barik.

  • @ridwaanmohammed
    @ridwaanmohammed 6 месяцев назад +1

    this is good it shoed me alot

  • @oromochic1993
    @oromochic1993 6 месяцев назад +1

    Lovely messaged 😊❤

  • @I57.O347
    @I57.O347 6 месяцев назад +1

    Kazakh Allah kheir

  • @Coppercop
    @Coppercop 6 месяцев назад +4

    Assalamualaikum sister this is my goal for this year actually and your explanation made it more easy to focus on my consciousness, MashaAllah and you have beautiful recitation voice I am really trying to beatify my recitation but it’s very hard for me may be you can share some tips on that
    Jazak Allah khair

    • @ResilientMuslimah
      @ResilientMuslimah  6 месяцев назад +2

      Waalaikumusalam! Just keep trying for the sake of Allah and Allah will make it easy! Always have the mindset that you can do it iA

  • @NiaPgn
    @NiaPgn 6 месяцев назад +1

    Allah Yerhama 🤲🏼🌸

  • @12irtezasaheem7
    @12irtezasaheem7 6 месяцев назад +1

    This video worked for you!!!! The thumbnail and title . Mubarak. But I don't know why youtube recommended me😂, though you created for muslimahs🤔

  • @chernojalloh768
    @chernojalloh768 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks

  • @MPzoid
    @MPzoid 6 месяцев назад +1

    mashallah smart and beautiful eyes

  • @sabirfurqan1421
    @sabirfurqan1421 6 месяцев назад +1

    In order to face oppressor and especially the oppressing system, you will need to raise your voice. And you will need to be repeating things again and again due to complex nature of human interaction and confusion resulting from it. In such cases you will need to speak a lot and at same time intellectually with good communication skills. To reach that point you will need to put yourself in a difficult, learning situation. There is no other option:
    Abu Sa'id al-Khudri reported that the prophet Muhammad said, "Whoever amongst you sees an evil, he must change it with his hand. If he is not able to do so, then with his tongue. And if he is not able to do so, then with his heart, and that is the weakest form of faith".

    • @kausamsalam8543
      @kausamsalam8543 6 месяцев назад

      Excellent point, especially in our turbulent times -knowledge is a key factor in minimizing violence in society.

  • @saidamoin1739
    @saidamoin1739 5 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @abukarhassan9811
    @abukarhassan9811 6 месяцев назад +1

    saw

  • @erwin5731
    @erwin5731 6 месяцев назад +3

    You seem to have your mother’s intellect. الله يرحمك

  • @allenarrows9347
    @allenarrows9347 6 месяцев назад +1

    💪🏼🐟🥩🥥🥩🐟💪🏼

  • @maimounakone8055
    @maimounakone8055 6 месяцев назад +2

    Just say less.