Saying No to Prevent Sexual Abuse

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  • @asdfghjkl7840
    @asdfghjkl7840 3 года назад +14195

    like that one quote from Coraline, “not everyone who’s nice to you will have good intentions towards you”

  • @Tr1ppy_B
    @Tr1ppy_B 3 года назад +19691

    Just because they’re your friend, doesn’t mean you owe them your body.

  • @Tipsy_Turby
    @Tipsy_Turby 3 года назад +6734

    This should be taught in schools. People get away with sexual abuse in school way to often, they need to teach things like this to students instead of being upset if your dress is to short.

    • @jennyisa_moa
      @jennyisa_moa 3 года назад +79

      My school actually taught about sexual abuse

    • @1sabe11a-N
      @1sabe11a-N 3 года назад +90

      If I was a health/sex ed teacher I would definitely show this

    • @comradedyatlov4143
      @comradedyatlov4143 3 года назад +135

      A girl got raped in the bathroom last year and it sickens me how the school doesn't even mention it or talk about what to do

    • @Loaflie
      @Loaflie 3 года назад +80

      @@comradedyatlov4143 Wow, that's awful, I hope she's okay

    • @glitch_extras3760
      @glitch_extras3760 3 года назад +7

      IKR!!

  • @mrtrollnator123
    @mrtrollnator123 Год назад +1130

    Bro this hits hard. They play mind games on you, guilt-trip you, gaslight you, manipulation. You need to defend yourself, you dont owe them your body, respect yourself and call for help

  • @_gojira_and_fnaf_1964
    @_gojira_and_fnaf_1964 4 года назад +7346

    Andrew aint a true gamer , he forgot what sonic the hedgehog once said "Kids, theres nothing more cool then being hugged by some one you like, but if someone trys to touch you in a place or in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, thats no good ,Its your body, no one has the right to touch you if you dont want them to. So what do you do? First, you say no! Then, you get outta there. Most important, you gotta tell someone you trust. Like your parent, your teacher, a police officer. "

    • @ssxxxss
      @ssxxxss 4 года назад +133

      True

    • @bit-te
      @bit-te 4 года назад +151

      Aye police officer

    • @arminsgirl6532
      @arminsgirl6532 4 года назад +52

      Facts

    • @shio9517
      @shio9517 4 года назад +166

      lol you just literally typed the whole script of a video I just watched XD

    • @costeniadavie1338
      @costeniadavie1338 4 года назад +5

      Jfmamjjasond

  • @Deletainiaa
    @Deletainiaa 3 года назад +6707

    There’s a long line between joking and sexual abuse, it’s you that has to finally find your line of uncomfortableness if your not sure, go to someone.

    • @iiheartaddyy
      @iiheartaddyy 3 года назад +40

      I really needed to hear this. Thanks.

    • @whattheflimflam
      @whattheflimflam 3 года назад +147

      Very good advice. And remember. People will try to tell you "ITS JUST A JOKE, IM JOKING, YOU'RE TOO UPTIGHT" no. They're gaslighting you and a true friend would be like "Sorry, that was a dumb joke. I won't tell it again."

    • @polaryu
      @polaryu 3 года назад +1

      shut

    • @iiheartaddyy
      @iiheartaddyy 3 года назад +23

      @@polaryu no u

    • @love23music1
      @love23music1 3 года назад +7

      @@whattheflimflam right

  • @Gimmie_my_legoz
    @Gimmie_my_legoz 4 года назад +15099

    This is so realistic. They on a discord server and everything

  • @Venomwjsjwj
    @Venomwjsjwj Год назад +681

    I love how all of these videos are in the same timeline and are linked

    • @Venomwjsjwj
      @Venomwjsjwj Год назад +11

      Togther

    • @moonlight_grapefruit3797
      @moonlight_grapefruit3797 10 месяцев назад +31

      Literally like you can see the girl and the teacher from the other video behind them

    • @Dinosaur_Ducky
      @Dinosaur_Ducky 10 месяцев назад +12

      Yes like how some characters are in others stories it makes the series just that bit better

    • @am3z_ssbu
      @am3z_ssbu 8 месяцев назад +1

      matpat wake up

    • @Masky_Review_CB_OFFICIAL
      @Masky_Review_CB_OFFICIAL 8 месяцев назад +2

      The girl from the SA in the family video is the friend from friends can help stop SA

  • @bysscanna
    @bysscanna 4 года назад +2382

    He didn’t respect her boundaries that’s why they couldn’t be friends anymore

    • @fayeduncan9842
      @fayeduncan9842 4 года назад +11

      exactly

    • @MiniEarthmoverAriel
      @MiniEarthmoverAriel 4 года назад +21

      And then she accidentally got cancelled by twitter and tumblr for a lie that Andrew made, the end.

    • @ybn_alegend1843
      @ybn_alegend1843 3 года назад +2

      She didn’t say anything

    • @Kast3rr
      @Kast3rr 3 года назад +2

      Mhm.

    • @stealthskater5674
      @stealthskater5674 3 года назад +12

      I was born with autism and ADHD I'm not perfect
      but I can feel confident and I can sleep soundly at night knowing that I'm a proper gentleman enough to respect a lady's boundaries

  • @veronicalodgesawyer3099
    @veronicalodgesawyer3099 4 года назад +5566

    Man that hit a lot too close to home
    So apparently I made this comment over a year ago. To explain, I was exposed by a guy who I thought was my friend when I was 16 going on 17, he was 19, knew him for about a year and a half. I was already going through crap, and we were video chatting. That Monday, my friends told me my pic (that I didn't even know he took) was going around in the period before. After that, I had a depressive episode for about two months. My main regret was not seeing the signs and not asking for help instead of just venting. There were times when we'd talk on the phone and he said or showed something that made me uncomfortable, with our mutual friends laughing the background because they thought I was fine with it. I wasn't. He got mad when I called him a creep, and I didn't want to lose a "friend", so I tried to joke along.
    Please, try to speak up for yourselves. And if your "friend" gets mad at you for having boundaries, they are not your friend. Cut them out however you can.
    Also, it can hurt, believe me. But with time and support, it can be easier to bear. Lean on those who love you.

    • @gewritez
      @gewritez 4 года назад +73

      This hits a little bit too close to home for me too

    • @victoire7974
      @victoire7974 4 года назад +149

      Aw I’m sorry, I send you virtual hugs🥺
      (⊃。•́ ᴗ •̀。)⊃💕💕

    • @OrionVaritasIrene
      @OrionVaritasIrene 4 года назад +14

      Kassy1023 Same.

    • @djtundra8011
      @djtundra8011 4 года назад +45

      It legit does. Granted I only knew them for a year. But after a night of drinking with friends I woke up to them groping my leg and then like trying to finger me....

    • @saltytae
      @saltytae 4 года назад +11

      are you doing okay? :(

  • @xsxxnx4026
    @xsxxnx4026 3 года назад +13280

    Idk why these are so addictive to watch

  • @meganthealligator3465
    @meganthealligator3465 Год назад +233

    My mom said no one can touch my body unless im okay with it. This goes for anyone.

    • @Xiqch
      @Xiqch 3 месяца назад +2

      I hate when people touch me 😔

    • @mooncxxke
      @mooncxxke 2 месяца назад

      ​@Xiqch im sorry 😢❤

  • @clovermoon3322
    @clovermoon3322 2 года назад +3277

    "Can't friends be friendly?"
    Yes. They can be nice, friendly, without being CREEPY.

    • @Meowqueen344
      @Meowqueen344 2 года назад +22

      Agree

    • @nevermore-eternal
      @nevermore-eternal 2 года назад +9

      @@Meowqueen344 apple awesome

    • @Portugalisbased
      @Portugalisbased 2 года назад

      if we look at girls in a normal way we're considered creeps what are we supposed to do

    • @Meowqueen344
      @Meowqueen344 2 года назад +5

      @@Portugalisbased idk don’t make them uncomfortable 😣

    • @Portugalisbased
      @Portugalisbased 2 года назад +5

      @@Meowqueen344 how? if we don't look we're bullies but if we look we're creeps. WHAT ARE WE SUPPOSED TO DO?!

  • @pyromaniaccc
    @pyromaniaccc 3 года назад +6285

    This isn’t friendship,
    Save people who’ve been treated like this. Please.

    • @wael128
      @wael128 3 года назад +5

      @@reddeadleisure socially awkward? that type to people tend to follow their instinct they probably already get out of the house

    • @notrayder3408
      @notrayder3408 3 года назад +1

      No kid stfu you little bastard

    • @Cl0udy_days-11
      @Cl0udy_days-11 3 года назад +36

      @@notrayder3408 That was rude you shut up

    • @ilovememes3919
      @ilovememes3919 3 года назад +31

      @@notrayder3408 do you want someone to treat you like that?

    • @ilovememes3919
      @ilovememes3919 3 года назад +20

      @@notrayder3408 go buy some braincells kid

  • @bi-myself7628
    @bi-myself7628 3 года назад +24037

    They need to put this stuff in schools instead of the cringy stuff no one ever relates to

    • @twiw5207
      @twiw5207 3 года назад +349

      Exactly

    • @lauriex8832
      @lauriex8832 3 года назад +837

      I sAw YoUr WiLlY

    • @surreal-riley
      @surreal-riley 3 года назад +445

      Yeah they could put this in schools but after maybe two years of showing this it’ll become cringy just like every other Video they show.

    • @lizcastaneda1047
      @lizcastaneda1047 3 года назад +47

      thissss

    • @nymeria4623
      @nymeria4623 3 года назад +83

      @@lauriex8832 LMAO

  • @enzotakerian5488
    @enzotakerian5488 Год назад +1319

    I asked a girl to senior prom and she said yes. We did not kiss or "cuddle." We only just went there as friends and danced.

    • @Emmie1223
      @Emmie1223 Год назад +77

      We need ppl like u

    • @Seven-Rules
      @Seven-Rules Год назад +54

      We need more clean minded people in this world

    • @randomplayer469
      @randomplayer469 Год назад +31

      Missed opportunity
      (This is a joke, to clarify and NOT write an angry reply)

    • @YorktownClass
      @YorktownClass Год назад +12

      Lol, you think thats an achievement 🤣.

    • @chrisdawson1776
      @chrisdawson1776 Год назад

      Lol what a simp

  • @deedssattle1251
    @deedssattle1251 4 года назад +5057

    69: exist
    Everyone: everything is coming together-

  • @Nonchalantlyx
    @Nonchalantlyx 4 года назад +13912

    “Andrew69”
    *oh*

  • @cklounge2096
    @cklounge2096 3 года назад +3033

    “I honestly don’t see what you’re freaking out about”
    Ga... gaslight much?

    • @cklounge2096
      @cklounge2096 3 года назад +72

      @@702d02 it was mainly for comedic effect but yk, thanks for noticing

    • @french-ishtoast
      @french-ishtoast 3 года назад +42

      @@702d02 that was unnecessarily rude, what the what
      It’s called a joke lol

    • @702d02
      @702d02 3 года назад +7

      @@french-ishtoast well it was the unfunniest joke ever made

    • @1l9e9o4
      @1l9e9o4 3 года назад +30

      @@702d02 you actually bothered to type all that out....what a loser

    • @papasscooperiaworker3649
      @papasscooperiaworker3649 3 года назад +20

      @@702d02 It doesn't matter if it's unfunny to you. There's no reason to be a rude person over simply not having the same type of humour. How do you people not understand common sense? Seriously, It's fine if you don't find something funny, but don't start calling people "losers" just because they're not like you. You're bullying by calling people names, and that's not okay.

  • @asteriskwashere
    @asteriskwashere Год назад +366

    This really hits home because I've been recently harassed at school by someone who I considered a friend. I cut him out from my life and I will never forgive him.

    • @amask99
      @amask99 Год назад +10

      Are you safe now? Have you told anybody?

    • @Shellyissoawesomefrfr
      @Shellyissoawesomefrfr Год назад +9

      Yk, a boy did that to me too in grade school,after i told on him,i never saw him again

    • @silvergust
      @silvergust Год назад +4

      ​@@riqueman23Rlly bad advice in this context 💀💀

    • @riqueman23
      @riqueman23 Год назад

      ​@@silvergustNvm

    • @Mjentah
      @Mjentah 10 месяцев назад +4

      Same, and the fact they manipulated me and gas lit me to make me feel like it was my fault just still triggers me till today. The so called "friend ship" is over anyway but I'm still quite frustrated that I didn't stop it before they went to far.

  • @JoshuaFishIndeed
    @JoshuaFishIndeed 4 года назад +4660

    As an animator, I clicked this expecting a cheesey, overly-dramatic PSA, but this was actually really well done. The storytelling (even the fourth-wall break) feels realistic/natural, and the animation and art style is pro-level. I hope teens get to watch stuff like this in schools. Great message executed in a professional and interesting way. 10/10

    • @YourBoiWhis
      @YourBoiWhis 4 года назад +76

      It’s as if they know what they are doing and strive to put out quality content

    • @JoshuaFishIndeed
      @JoshuaFishIndeed 4 года назад +53

      @@YourBoiWhis I know, right! lol It's refreshing to see!!!

    • @dana-lc7uz
      @dana-lc7uz 4 года назад +22

      Ikr this is so satisfying to watch

    • @lapplandkun9273
      @lapplandkun9273 4 года назад +39

      I remember seeing my schools PSAs that were overly cringe and bad acting. One was based on suicide that a friend forced a student to get help instead of talking to them before actually attempt to get help. You don't force a suicidal person to get help. Dear lord, it was awful.

    • @jotahsbopas8569
      @jotahsbopas8569 4 года назад +8

      It kinda still lol I mean she friends a kid in her school that has the Dis name Andrew69 🤦‍♂️.

  • @gardenoffaith_6983
    @gardenoffaith_6983 4 года назад +2246

    He’s worth losing, girl. If someone like that can’t recognise their own wrongs, LET THEM GO!!

    • @aerianas
      @aerianas 4 года назад +9

      periodt

    • @gardenoffaith_6983
      @gardenoffaith_6983 4 года назад +3

      ggukz. Fellow Jungkooker I see😌

    • @aerianas
      @aerianas 4 года назад +2

      @@gardenoffaith_6983 yes 😼👍

    • @goneclearr1o
      @goneclearr1o 4 года назад +4

      Stfu Bts fan girl.

    • @PokiDoki-
      @PokiDoki- 4 года назад +6

      Ayaan Naseem shut up dude

  • @onionskin246
    @onionskin246 4 года назад +7495

    did anyone notice the game they were playing is called “betrayal”, and andrew literally betrayed her.

  • @xx_m-r-e_xx6333
    @xx_m-r-e_xx6333 Год назад +155

    …rewatching this a few years later makes me wanna vomit.
    This is exactly word for word how my relationship with a best friend of mine was.
    Even the final hang out and him being weird.
    Only difference is I didn’t stand up for myself. I endured it until I went home and the next day talked to my counselor.
    Proud to say I blocked him right after sending a long text letting him know just how awful of a person he was and how he made me feel. Haven’t seen him since and I hope he’s somewhere rotting. Stay safe you guys💕 Feeling like this is not worth it for anybody at all.

  • @m00bami
    @m00bami 4 года назад +4145

    my face went "HELL NO" when he made that joke in beginning

    • @m00bami
      @m00bami 4 года назад +59

      @@reeetawd k

    • @yami2114
      @yami2114 4 года назад +80

      @@reeetawd are you okay LMAO

    • @iimoonytoony7879
      @iimoonytoony7879 4 года назад +55

      @@reeetawd What’s your damage?

    • @reeetawd
      @reeetawd 4 года назад +5

      @@iimoonytoony7879 I'm based

    • @classified7619
      @classified7619 4 года назад +22

      It was a whole level of weird

  • @meaux7274
    @meaux7274 4 года назад +4145

    I like how you teach people to say “no” instead of victim blaming.

    • @heavyweaponsguy6284
      @heavyweaponsguy6284 3 года назад +16

      Isint this video kind of blaming males for every instance of abuse though?

    • @Luna-nw4tk
      @Luna-nw4tk 3 года назад +253

      @@heavyweaponsguy6284 They are using the most common example of a Man abusing (or attempting to) a Woman. You can still identify the signs shown in the video though and it applies for everyone.

    • @bubblvapor5783
      @bubblvapor5783 3 года назад +135

      @@heavyweaponsguy6284 no there’s literally one with a female abuser

    • @nat-oi2fh
      @nat-oi2fh 3 года назад +118

      @@heavyweaponsguy6284 they have a video of a woman being a groomer

    • @heavyweaponsguy6284
      @heavyweaponsguy6284 3 года назад +6

      @@nat-oi2fh Link?

  • @lovelyheaft9900
    @lovelyheaft9900 4 года назад +2118

    His grin is making me uncomfortable-

  • @Dudelol122
    @Dudelol122 3 месяца назад +55

    Never let bro cook with a joke again 😭😭🙏0:50

  • @azazellon
    @azazellon 4 года назад +6346

    A good friend, a REAL friend, would notice you're uncomfortable. A REAL friend would understand when you say "we're just friends". Not get mad or angry when you say no.
    Edit: what the hell happened here

    • @GardenfRedRoses777
      @GardenfRedRoses777 4 года назад +81

      My friend didn't notice... He groped me for two years straight and was encouraged to do so by some jerks he hung out with at the time... 😞
      Edit: Okay, so I see some people questioning me, so I'll go more into detail: I did try to stand up for myself, multiple times, it all started in 5th grade and whenever he groped me, I would run after him and attack him. He thought it was funny to make me angry to the point I was violent because he thought it was 'cute.' I even started bullying him in an effort to make him stop. However, no matter what I did, the teachers always took his side and I got into trouble (FYI: they never witnessed him doing it). I even opened up to my friends about it, however they always excused his behavior because "groping people was a guy thing. It's just what guys do." I started to feel hopeless, like nobody could help me. Then, I finally opened up to my parents about it and they were PISSED, they didn't allow him to come over for a long, long time. Then, after he stopped doing it, he and his sister tried to gaslight me by trying to convince me it wasn't him who did it, it never happened, and my mind was just making me think it was him. They gaslit me about almost every single shitty thing I remember them doing. I questioned my own sanity for a very long time. He died last year and I recently dropped his sister. I finally found the strength to realize I don't need these toxic people in my life, even if it means loosing my friend group.
      Edit: I forgot to also mention I was forced to live with my religious grandma, who was emotionally abusive and if I didn't behave a certain way, she threatened to take me and my little brothers away from our parents or take our dad away. So, it was very hard opening up to her about anything and I'd get scared to tell her certain things because she'd go off. I was also being abused and bullied by other kids and I reported about what they were doing to me, however nothing came of it. They didn't do anything about it either. The principal also had stuff against my family because of something my great grandma did, so I suppose that played a role as to nothing was done about the bullying or my friend. So, when we entered middle school, I had the mindset that the adult school authorities just didn't care enough to do anything about it. My friend was a part of a gang (the boys encouraging him were part of that gang) and whenever I stood up for myself (verbally or physically) all they did was laugh and continued doing it. By the time we got into middle school, I was living with my parents, but I still had the mindset I did while living with my grandma, despite my parents being loving, kind and understanding, so it did take me a while to open up. He also stopped touching me once he left the gang he was a part of and actually became a better person, in the sense he no longer touched women without their consent, not in the sense that he gaslit me constantly.

    • @azazellon
      @azazellon 4 года назад +58

      @@GardenfRedRoses777 that sounds like peer pressure to me, I could be wrong though. I'm so sorry that happened.

    • @tourmelion9221
      @tourmelion9221 4 года назад +21

      @@GardenfRedRoses777 ...
      Honey
      I don't think that's a close friend
      But just to be sure
      Tell them

    • @VongolaPrimero
      @VongolaPrimero 4 года назад +7

      A real friend would make you shut the fuck up
      [It's just a joke don't take it , I wanted to get it off my chest]

    • @CaptainChapin
      @CaptainChapin 4 года назад

      Red the Rose why’d you let it happen?🤨

  • @garfielffan6954
    @garfielffan6954 4 года назад +1648

    This video sends a really great message, but there’s another thing it needs to talk about. Sometimes the abusers won’t say sorry. They’ll get more aggressive and might hurt/force something onto you. If you’re feeling unsafe, bring something you can defend yourself with just in case. Please stay safe everyone

    • @ace6798
      @ace6798 4 года назад +19

      Lettuce Bouquet omg thye should talk about it

    • @MarialaSophia
      @MarialaSophia 4 года назад +17

      angel they really should. It doesn’t always end up the same way as the clip

    • @SDALLE99
      @SDALLE99 4 года назад +2

      Andrew is probably one of those fat ugly incel. Because if he wasn’t she would’ve jump into his arms. And so would I. And so would you.
      Let’s be honest, if the guy was hot enough, it’s not assault, it’s rough foreplay ;)

    • @xxsophixezxx4064
      @xxsophixezxx4064 4 года назад +4

      Thank you u too! I'm a girl and is 9 please stay safe from this and if it happens tell an adult friend or ANYBODY DONT be afraid of those sick people and help other that is happening to them too

    • @izzybzzydorkp568
      @izzybzzydorkp568 4 года назад +24

      @@SDALLE99 she sees him only as a friend and he wants more his looks doesn't change anything

  • @cheesegur
    @cheesegur 4 года назад +809

    If you ever feel uncomfortable in a situation, _NEVER_ ignore that feeling. *TRY* to get out of there quickly.

    • @mzflighter6905
      @mzflighter6905 4 года назад +2

      I'd kinda disagree. You don't fell awkward only when it somes to being abused. You sometimes can feel uncomfortable becouse someone smells bad, says some cringy shit or something. It doesn't mean you have to get the fuck out.

    • @cheesegur
      @cheesegur 4 года назад +29

      @@mzflighter6905 when I mean uncomfortable, I mean if someone is touching you or saying curd things to you. That kind of situation, you should either tell them to stop or try to get out the situation quickly.

    • @cheesegur
      @cheesegur 4 года назад +12

      @@mzflighter6905 that's what I'm talking about lol ;/

    • @joltyflare
      @joltyflare 2 года назад +1

      @@mzflighter6905 I have social anxiety and general anxiety. Lmao I'm ALWAYS uncomfortable

  • @5kibz
    @5kibz 2 месяца назад +8

    I love how the videos are connected in 2:35 there was another 2 people from another of there videos, the animation is perfect but it also sounds like actuall teenagers, and what they have been through, im glad this channel is here so we can all feel safe ❤!

  • @Retrosteampunk
    @Retrosteampunk 4 года назад +1543

    Bro should’ve confessed he liked her and when she hesitated or say no let it go and be friends. He ruined their friendship.

    • @JT5555
      @JT5555 4 года назад +150

      Bro Should Have Learned To Keep It In His Pants: He Did't Just Like Her,He Was A Flat Out Perv Trying To Hide His Creepiness With "Jokes". This Was't "I Like You More Than Just Friends",This Was "We've Known Each Other Long Enough That I Should Get Dibs On Fucking You".

    • @ciara7172
      @ciara7172 4 года назад +140

      It wasn't like an innocent crush or whatever though. From what was shown it was a sexual desire and he was disrespectful creep.

    • @notluke9059
      @notluke9059 4 года назад +47

      Just because you want to have sex with someone you can't confess them, love isn't just about sex that's not how love works

    • @theonpointheavy4401
      @theonpointheavy4401 4 года назад +17

      @@notluke9059 I agree with that, but I don't think everyone will, some believe sex is the ultimate demonstration of love.

    • @subpoena.
      @subpoena. 4 года назад +2

      issa fictional story homie

  • @hihihi_813
    @hihihi_813 4 года назад +13679

    Andrew69, how fitting for his personality

  • @killerqueen1170
    @killerqueen1170 3 года назад +3437

    "virgin being desperate"
    -My gamer friends, who actually have morals

  • @Craigy-234
    @Craigy-234 Год назад +28

    I ABSOLUTELY love how all the stories are intertwined!❤

  • @ESCL2004
    @ESCL2004 2 года назад +2314

    Andrew is the classic example of a "nice guy". Shows kindness and expects sex in return, is "being friendly", thinks you owe him your body without regards of *your* feelings.

    • @ellie8784
      @ellie8784 2 года назад +37

      Exactly

    • @babygirleriss_
      @babygirleriss_ 2 года назад +18

      💯💯

    • @cosmicreef5858
      @cosmicreef5858 2 года назад +31

      That is just some straight up psycho stuff.

    • @Portugalisbased
      @Portugalisbased 2 года назад +4

      well i respect your opinion but in my opinion andrew tate doesn't care about sex or kindness, he just wants to stop the rising growth of the power of women and reach total stability.

    • @elijahlmaooo
      @elijahlmaooo 2 года назад +56

      @@Portugalisbased where the hell did Andrew Tate come from? the guy in the video is named Andrew 😭

  • @Obi-Wan_Kenobi
    @Obi-Wan_Kenobi 3 года назад +6914

    Andrew actually felt guilty at the end there, I think there's hope for him yet. Changing his name to Andrew68 would be a pretty good start.

    • @Mimirules21
      @Mimirules21 3 года назад +567

      I wouldn’t have hope on him. If i were you. If he did feel guilty. He would have accepted her saying no from the start.

    • @grassblock7668
      @grassblock7668 3 года назад +79

      Hello There.
      It's the third time I find you under a YT video in a day,general

    • @valentiapauwels
      @valentiapauwels 3 года назад +38

      PFFFF 🤣

    • @o-ruff1483
      @o-ruff1483 3 года назад +14

      ahaha

    • @H0SANNA
      @H0SANNA 3 года назад +57

      Andrew68 😂

  • @Bee-q3v
    @Bee-q3v 3 года назад +3036

    "Friends can't be friendly?" SIR YOU ARE TOUCHING HER AND SHE WAS VISUALLY UPSET-

    • @harper-j6x
      @harper-j6x 3 года назад +90

      This is disgusting to say that its true. Not your comment but how he is treating her. It’s disgusting

    • @ElFlores1984
      @ElFlores1984 3 года назад +5

      Maam its just an animation

    • @dominique5631
      @dominique5631 3 года назад +90

      @@ElFlores1984 Sir, it's to show that shit like this happens far too often

    • @crawlythespider2255
      @crawlythespider2255 3 года назад +54

      @@ElFlores1984 sir it's a serious problem that you stepped on

    • @taleseylad1249
      @taleseylad1249 2 года назад +8

      there's a difference between intimacy and friendniless

  • @YellowCheese124
    @YellowCheese124 Год назад +46

    I didn’t realize now but the game they were playing was called “betrayal” a nice touch of foreshadowing.

  • @vexthebest69
    @vexthebest69 4 года назад +1750

    I’m not abused but these keep getting recommended to me

  • @jeejung9818
    @jeejung9818 3 года назад +854

    the type of guys who always leave a 'you can't take a joke' vibe

    • @dvdsynth
      @dvdsynth 3 года назад +10

      AND HE LOOKS LIKE A 47 YEAR CHILD (meaning he’s the oldest 11 year old I’ve ever seen)

    • @yourcrush4889
      @yourcrush4889 3 года назад +18

      And probably call someone who got offended a "snowflake"

    • @birdhousewatch3322
      @birdhousewatch3322 3 года назад +5

      @@yourcrush4889 Terms like snowflake and Karen are so overused

    • @ashleypisarts
      @ashleypisarts 3 года назад +1

      @@birdhousewatch3322
      It’s a nice way to describe him tho

    • @agnus_sunga
      @agnus_sunga 3 года назад

      @@dvdsynth I don’t think he’s supposed to be 11

  • @gigi4390
    @gigi4390 4 года назад +492

    remember guys: just because you’ve known someone for years doesn’t mean you owe them anything. set boundaries and if they can’t respect your boundaries then get out of that friendship/relationship. even if it’s hard.

    • @Gamer-kazinky
      @Gamer-kazinky 4 года назад +2

      Imagine I had friends.

    • @cinnamondreams
      @cinnamondreams 4 года назад +9

      Girls,Non binarys, anyone else. Follow this message

    • @ihavenoideawhatimdoing4
      @ihavenoideawhatimdoing4 4 года назад +2

      If nobody respects my rules and friendship then they're not my true friends

    • @reeetawd
      @reeetawd 4 года назад +1

      Remember girls just because a guy wants you in sexual way an makes moves on you by touching you doesn't make you a victim you can always just say no and leave and not make a big deal of it like Laura did. Dont be like Laura.

    • @gigi4390
      @gigi4390 4 года назад +5

      @@reeetawd you sound like an asshole. women have been killed just for saying no to a guy so don’t say “don’t be like laura” and just saying no doesn’t always work anyway.

  • @SafiaNOTSofia
    @SafiaNOTSofia Год назад +89

    you can never trust a guy that has a discord username ending with 69

    • @ZelinaPlayz
      @ZelinaPlayz Год назад +4

      😂

    • @peenutsbr
      @peenutsbr 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@2008hime becuase 69 is funny sex number and nothing else

    • @Tugar_Dumkin
      @Tugar_Dumkin 8 месяцев назад

      @@2008hime intercourse implications

    • @YukixMoonlight
      @YukixMoonlight 8 месяцев назад +2

      Why?

    • @Tugar_Dumkin
      @Tugar_Dumkin 8 месяцев назад

      @@YukixMoonlight sexual number, I think.

  • @xquenda275
    @xquenda275 3 года назад +2099

    Can we appreciate that the characters all live in the same universe

    • @ecoagito7242
      @ecoagito7242 3 года назад +85

      These animations are genius and the scripts are perfect.

    • @Nat-fz4yv
      @Nat-fz4yv 3 года назад +39

      @@ecoagito7242 DUDE ITS SO REALISTIC TOO

    • @funisinfinite.
      @funisinfinite. 2 года назад +16

      Really shows how our world is like. All this... It happens way to often.

    • @spydersoup8447
      @spydersoup8447 2 года назад +5

      Or rather, they all live in the same suburb town and go to the same school.

    • @ridleyplays766
      @ridleyplays766 2 года назад +7

      Fcacu (Fight Child Abuse Cinematic Universe)

  • @rowanheart8122
    @rowanheart8122 4 года назад +680

    Unlike a lot of animated story time videos, these feel more realistic

    • @ziahsheppard3717
      @ziahsheppard3717 4 года назад +17

      ikr

    • @faesieun
      @faesieun 4 года назад +9

      storybooth is good too

    • @Pvnkinnn
      @Pvnkinnn 2 года назад +4

      @@faesieun story booth is real story’s that’s why :)

  • @ikhotivus
    @ikhotivus 4 года назад +2574

    “Jon-a-than”
    What a perfect username

    • @kiyotakaishimaru2620
      @kiyotakaishimaru2620 4 года назад +60

      *Trish with a mask*

    • @ikhotivus
      @ikhotivus 4 года назад +10

      kiyotaka ishimaru yes Trish with a mask

    • @leackbrick
      @leackbrick 4 года назад +11

      KOCCHI WO MIRO

    • @spam_moth
      @spam_moth 4 года назад +34

      JOJO?! WHERE?!

    • @ikhotivus
      @ikhotivus 4 года назад +10

      Kono DIO XD JOJO IS NOT HERE!

  • @marilizediedericks6310
    @marilizediedericks6310 Год назад +5

    I just discovered this channel, and I've already watched so many of the videos. I wish I had seen these when I was 18.. it would have spared me so much abuse.
    Thank you for making these, I'm sure they are changing other's lives

  • @cheesestickhathreturned6875
    @cheesestickhathreturned6875 4 года назад +2192

    “Andrew69”
    *of course*

  • @pinkstrawberries82
    @pinkstrawberries82 4 года назад +2153

    what r they even talking abt y’all 👀

    • @shxrks07
      @shxrks07 4 года назад +13

      And Peggy yEs

    • @urfavcatlover69
      @urfavcatlover69 4 года назад +72

      Nah lets play Ourcraft

    • @slimyslimegod8576
      @slimyslimegod8576 4 года назад +1

      Naawww im a prive g kinda guy

    • @lex6081
      @lex6081 4 года назад +7

      Lol I remember one time, I accidentally touch someone while dancing and she got really mad and I tried to explain but she just left and I just sat there like:
      👁👄👁

    • @sciegion1040
      @sciegion1040 4 года назад

      Let's do histri

  • @windfalls238
    @windfalls238 4 года назад +1485

    oh so he's one of those "nice guys" then.

    • @ProGaming-db6ln
      @ProGaming-db6ln 4 года назад +40

      Neckbeards but worse

    • @inkedrays7744
      @inkedrays7744 4 года назад +34

      @ my ex best friend, the world’s largest “nice guy”. “Omg, you are so ungrateful to turn down the most perfect guy ever to be your boyfriend after I told you you were pretty to the point where you got uncomfortable”

    • @windfalls238
      @windfalls238 4 года назад +34

      @@inkedrays7744 exactly! these are the guys who think people they like owe them shit bc they told them they were pretty, personally I'm grateful for never coming across one, but my heart aches for ppl who had to deal with them, especially the ones who can get violent with this sort of thing, seriously, f*ck you're ex best friend, you owe him nothing.

    • @yjanimations3418
      @yjanimations3418 4 года назад +1

      Привет

    • @newfirerock2486
      @newfirerock2486 4 года назад +14

      nice guys be like: "idk why girls only like awesome people and have their own feelings, instead of nice guys like me, i mean i smell and im a complete disaster but ill treat her right"

  • @onetuxedocat
    @onetuxedocat Год назад +20

    Here's my story with a situation similar to this -- you are not alone guys!!
    There was this one male friend I knew in school. He was nice, extraverted, friendly, and we would always joke around in class. I felt especially more comfortable around him because I was a bit more introverted, and he knew how to make conversations flow and be funny.
    One day, we had that class after lunch, and I brought a banana with me to class. This day he was acting so weird, something I've never seen from him before. All of his jokes were really sexual and I was feeling uncomfortable, but I was laughing anyway because I felt I would make it weird if I didn't. He took my banana and put it in his lap and was fake masturbating with it under the classroom table while looking at me (in my school, the classroom had one oval table all the students would sit around). He kept asking me to look at him when he was doing it. Anytime I looked away, he would stop doing it, and would ask me to look again at his lap under the table to him fake jacking-off. I continued fake laughing because I felt uncomfortable. After him doing this multiple times, I said in a half-joking, half-serious way, "You are being weird". But he responded by saying, "Am I?" in an amusing tone and kept doing it.
    Then he look the banana and rubbed it against my upper thigh under the table. I immediately stopped him and put the banana on top of the table. Because I was really uncomfortable, I laughed even harder and buried my hands in my face. This caught the attention of the teacher (who by the way was teaching the entire time this was going on). She asked "what's going on over there?" and he just responded, "(my name)'s banana".
    At the time, I blamed myself for this happening because I was laughing at it like I was inviting him to do it. In reality, a man should know boundaries and you are NEVER to blame. You are not weird or a buzzkill for speaking up when you feel uncomfortable! Let's love ourselves and give ourselves the respect we deserve!!! love you guys

  • @procatzzz1507
    @procatzzz1507 4 года назад +938

    These animated stories are soo good and entertaining. They do a really good job of feeling natural, most videos like these that educate teens are really CRINGY, but these are so good.

    • @SkyYamiJackson
      @SkyYamiJackson 4 года назад +21

      they're so educating yet?? like. it pulls you into the video and you forget it's a PSA. I wouldn't say entertaining cause that comes off bad/weird for this subject matter but yknow

    • @hakkonn8273
      @hakkonn8273 4 года назад +4

      @@SkyYamiJackson Why am I sensing political agendas coming from this channel and I just found this channel because of this videos. I love the message they are trying to spread but most predator that I came across or had fought won't apologize.

    • @lilahphilips8098
      @lilahphilips8098 4 года назад +2

      @@hakkonn8273 yea they usually dont until like years later when the trauma has become integral to your very being

    • @regenxx983
      @regenxx983 4 года назад

      IKR

  • @nokii2238
    @nokii2238 3 года назад +955

    Anybody else catch that at 2:26 you can see the girl and the creepy teacher from the other story? I love how these all tie in together!

    • @sr6phim
      @sr6phim 3 года назад +17

      I just realized until now-

    • @taniyahaugustin1960
      @taniyahaugustin1960 3 года назад +9

      I just realized

    • @evildeadening9826
      @evildeadening9826 3 года назад +57

      everyone in this school has issues 💀

    • @cameron3786
      @cameron3786 3 года назад +53

      @@evildeadening9826 yeah i think thats also to represent that this kinda stuff happens way too often and all around us and most of the time we dont notice or help. its really messed up.

    • @kawaiifun2264
      @kawaiifun2264 3 года назад +1

      Which vid was it?

  • @saritasavage6439
    @saritasavage6439 4 года назад +1564

    You owe him nothing just because you guys of been friends for years that doesn’t meanYou all him you owe him nothing

    • @razrdemonic
      @razrdemonic 4 года назад +3

      Its fake

    • @ThemanthelegendKenny
      @ThemanthelegendKenny 4 года назад +36

      Razr ASMR yea but it can totally happen in real life

    • @othellobarker1291
      @othellobarker1291 4 года назад +7

      with friends you should never owe each other just help each other because your friends. But if the call for help something that's a border you don't want to cross and is making you uncomfortable think about how it could effect you and if it can hurt you. To determine whether or not you want to or not.

    • @GoldFittyCal
      @GoldFittyCal 4 года назад

      Andrew69 lel

    • @kingdj2343
      @kingdj2343 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@othellobarker1291I really don't believe men and women should ever be buddies. Friend yes but not buddies. It never workout.

  • @jasminecody1504
    @jasminecody1504 3 месяца назад +2

    I wish I had this when I was a kid. It’s even kind of healing watching it now as an adult. It’s sad to think about what I went through but it warms my heart and brings a tear to my eye to think about how many people out there would have protected me if they had the chance. Hope this vids reach more people!

  • @lotusgal313
    @lotusgal313 4 года назад +631

    Friendship is and should be the safest and most precious thing a person has and experiences

    • @total3117
      @total3117 4 года назад +1

      I am constantly trying to hock up with my female friends, but if the say no or they dont like it, i dont get angry or something. They just accept that.

    • @StudioUAC
      @StudioUAC 4 года назад +2

      This is why men and women can't be just friends

    • @silysister4815
      @silysister4815 4 года назад +2

      Guacamole Nigga Penis No what the fuck is wrong with you, if someone doesn’t want to fuck you thats there choice and you respect that, if someone doesn’t want to marry you that’s there choice and you respect that, and if someone doesn’t want to start a family with you that’s there choice and you respect that, and if anyone one is uncomfortable with you that’s there fucking choice and you respect I that, got it?

    • @imfabls
      @imfabls 4 года назад +1

      @@silysister4815 what made you so angry?

    • @silysister4815
      @silysister4815 4 года назад +3

      Imfabls Look at the dumbass i replied too

  • @luminentarchive
    @luminentarchive 3 года назад +3534

    I make a lot of sexual jokes with my friends- and these videos made me realize I should ask for their consent before making any kind of remarks- I often expect them to think it’s okay since it’s so normal between us... of course I’d never do anything (I’m asexual and not looking for anything) but I don’t want to make them uncomfortable- I feel bad. Definitely gonna work on communicating.

    • @k_e_e_c_h_a_n
      @k_e_e_c_h_a_n 3 года назад +483

      Yo, just wanted to say, It's a really nice decision. How you try to reflect on yourself and check whether your doing something wrong really shows that you care about your friends.
      It might just be a joke, but it's not gonna hurt to ask. Do it

    • @palesa8777
      @palesa8777 3 года назад +176

      As long as everybody is comfortable about the jokes

    • @waterteary8686
      @waterteary8686 3 года назад +114

      Yeah, same here, I would NEVER EVER EVER want to abuse my friends and if I knew it would make them uncomfortable I would stop. Today I joked about something like that and I was so scared I groomed/sexually assaulted them.

    • @Zing_Zang
      @Zing_Zang 3 года назад +81

      That’s awesome to think about! Sexual jokes are a very normal thing in our friend group lol. But it’s awesome to be that considerate.

    • @chrisprilloisebola
      @chrisprilloisebola 3 года назад +24

      Lol huh? How do you ask for consent before making a joke? What has the world come to 😭

  • @Tenshii_Artii
    @Tenshii_Artii 3 года назад +2097

    Oh Damn, it's that creepy teacher at 2:25 that was trying to get with Emilia's friend.

  • @purvisutrave3200
    @purvisutrave3200 9 месяцев назад +13

    This happened to me a few days ago. I am 13 years old and my guy best friend, made me uncomfortable and tried to touch and kiss me. I felt like crying because he wanted to take it too far. Thankfully, I told my mom about it, and she really supported me. He apologized to me, saying that he was a weirdo and feels bad about it. I forgave him, but I am not going to talk to him anymore. Girls who are in their teens should be extra careful and there is nothing wrong in voicing out your feelings and breaking friendship with someone who makes you feel unsafe and uncomfortable. Friends are supposed to respect your decisions, not take advantage of you. This video really helped me out!!

  • @MisterLiker
    @MisterLiker 3 года назад +600

    RUclipsrs: Sexual abuse, Beef, Drama, etc.
    RUclips: "It is dangerous to go alone. Take this!"

    • @astrobeans1807
      @astrobeans1807 3 года назад +16

      *pull out semi automatic glock with Acogg shotgun grip and flash hider*

    • @slowkape
      @slowkape 3 года назад +4

      @@astrobeans1807 tbh i would do that

    • @astrobeans1807
      @astrobeans1807 3 года назад +4

      @@slowkape Snubbed nose semi automatic glock with Acog shotgun grip 100 round magazine aheago camo knife attached and a flash hider

    • @sm1purplmurderedme583
      @sm1purplmurderedme583 3 года назад +4

      what?

    • @justamberish
      @justamberish 3 года назад +1

      Thanks RUclips

  • @21sara.o
    @21sara.o 4 года назад +815

    he’s a typical “nice guy” who thinks because he is nice to a girl she owes him a relationship. just gross

    • @StudioUAC
      @StudioUAC 4 года назад +9

      Why didn't the guy try to you know start dating her and start a relationship first

    • @hakkonn8273
      @hakkonn8273 4 года назад +13

      @@StudioUAC nah, he should have ask for a date and if she rejects him (cause she would play the "you are not my type" card or "I don't think of you in that way" card) he should vanish from he life as fast as possible.

    • @chairchior1745
      @chairchior1745 4 года назад +1

      @@hakkonn8273 why??

    • @lewisblakley8288
      @lewisblakley8288 4 года назад +5

      I really don't understand dudes now a days. All the nice ones are gay... Wait a second... I'm gay well good luck you guys.

    • @chairchior1745
      @chairchior1745 4 года назад +2

      @@lewisblakley8288 what does that have tp do with anything bro..?

  • @blackberrycherry3
    @blackberrycherry3 3 года назад +933

    i wish they’d show us these in school instead of the whole “just say no!” shit

    • @errortryagainlater4240
      @errortryagainlater4240 3 года назад +97

      "Don't accept candy from the men in the white van, fellow teens!!" 💀

    • @wolfkitty42
      @wolfkitty42 3 года назад +44

      A man steps out of a dark alley. The video pauses and a teenager runs on screen. “Just say no!” She says before running offscreen. The screen goes dark and you wonder wtf you just watched.

    • @minecloudd7852
      @minecloudd7852 2 года назад +6

      Yeah like it’s not that easy, chances are they have an advantage against you

    • @tahraethestoryteller6079
      @tahraethestoryteller6079 2 года назад +2

      I thought that was with drugs

    • @norieisapotato
      @norieisapotato 2 года назад +1

      This is still spreading awareness and its showing different ways it happens

  • @Melody____434
    @Melody____434 Год назад +24

    I just realized I was in this exact situation and I’m so sorry for anyone else that also experienced this ❤

  • @lukhw1n657
    @lukhw1n657 3 года назад +865

    "Jon-a-thon" username is creative.
    "Andrew69" bruh really? Out of all the names you could've come up with Andrew, is to put the number "69" behind your first name? Lame.

    • @ChrisTheMemeMan
      @ChrisTheMemeMan 3 года назад +38

      I just slapped some numbers in between my real name and put a 420
      Way more creative

    • @unclejoesph8477
      @unclejoesph8477 3 года назад +63

      @@ChrisTheMemeMan Should have done the classic Xx_Andrew_69_Xx

    • @ChrisTheMemeMan
      @ChrisTheMemeMan 3 года назад +19

      @@unclejoesph8477 ah, just like every name on modern warfare 2 during the early 2010's

    • @Abyssal_s0mewhere
      @Abyssal_s0mewhere 3 года назад +5

      that's the j o k e

    • @ndhart3213
      @ndhart3213 3 года назад +7

      Andrew is a redditor confirmed

  • @rafputin4659
    @rafputin4659 3 года назад +1765

    If you like the girl, you confess not sexually abuse 'em,
    Respekt to GIRLS

  • @skylervlogz
    @skylervlogz 4 года назад +909

    Wait...
    *Weren’t “Lucas” and “Jonathan” the same people from the Grooming and Sexual Abuse one?*

  • @londonjones9842
    @londonjones9842 9 месяцев назад +3

    I love how, even though he tried to say sorry, she still walked away. Shows kids that sorry doesn't fix anything, and you don't owe it to anyone to be their friend if they did something mean.

  • @ella3505
    @ella3505 3 года назад +442

    This is the struggle of being a girl. Many people go through it even boys. Its terrible.

  • @EraMovies
    @EraMovies 3 года назад +891

    Boy in this video was nice enough to understand, mine just forced himself on me and pinned on the bed covering my mouth. I tried resisting but didn't have the strength to stop him. Thanks to God that his mom suddenly walked in his room to ask for dinner and saw everything and I just ran away from there, changed schools. I'm a college freshman now and still haven't told anyone about this. It's nice to know I'm alone.

    • @fakefreckles6253
      @fakefreckles6253 3 года назад +77

      I'm so sorry you had to go through this, it's not your fault and I hope you're better now. We stand with you

    • @errortryagainlater4240
      @errortryagainlater4240 3 года назад +55

      That is reprehensible. I hope you're safe now and that you can get the closure you deserve one day.

    • @bensmith8957
      @bensmith8957 3 года назад +24

      I'm sorry that happened

    • @yourdaddywhowenttobuymilk
      @yourdaddywhowenttobuymilk 2 года назад +10

      You should have complaint it to your parents !! Being weak is not an option be strong enough!

    • @king_of_nothing1808
      @king_of_nothing1808 2 года назад +6

      I had my first kiss forcably taken by a guy two yrars older than me

  • @bodaciousdoggo8971
    @bodaciousdoggo8971 4 года назад +408

    Kinda sad behavior like this is kinda normalized especially on the internet and the idea of “becoming a woman’s friend=sex” is horrible

    • @ZackSantiago
      @ZackSantiago 4 года назад +18

      I am insanely sorry, but the out of context “becoming a womans friend=sex” made me chuckle

    • @nobodyv9983
      @nobodyv9983 4 года назад +19

      @JHeints - bro wtf, it's like you are saying women have nothing more than sex on them

    • @GabidenZhazylbekov
      @GabidenZhazylbekov 4 года назад +3

      @@nobodyv9983 he is just trolling. But he told little bit true. It's almost impossible to have good friendship with girl if you're boy. One day you or she will crush. What you gonna do? Right, this is when friend zone starts.

    • @nobodyv9983
      @nobodyv9983 4 года назад +20

      @@GabidenZhazylbekov i have had plenty of friends of the other gender, some ended as you said. But a lot of them stayed as just friends with no attraction whatsoever. The point is that people doesn't draw the line or comunicate on time their desires. You cannot avoid you liking them but dont pretend like theres no way to have friends of the opposite gender.

    • @GabidenZhazylbekov
      @GabidenZhazylbekov 4 года назад

      @@fionar9468 lol, so aggressive, I won't tolerant such aggression. So, fuck you

  • @viviixe
    @viviixe Месяц назад +2

    This is a good reminder that we don't owe anybody more like our body, If this was shown in my school everybody would've been saying "EEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!"

  • @mentalbreakdown4114
    @mentalbreakdown4114 4 года назад +4671

    Stop! Don't touch me there! This is my no-no-sqare!

  • @PirateOfTheNorth
    @PirateOfTheNorth 3 года назад +724

    I wish these videos were around when I was a teen

  • @whattheflimflam
    @whattheflimflam 3 года назад +476

    These stories are well animated and well written with stuff that actually happens to young men and women. Like it hurts to watch because it is so realistic. Thank you for this.

  • @ceilphantomhive1288
    @ceilphantomhive1288 3 месяца назад +27

    2:29 there is another abuse happening behind them the teacher and the poor girl. . you know the teacher dating the minor. It's wild how we never noticed it but this shows how abuse is everywhere

    • @Mari-g5y1m
      @Mari-g5y1m 2 месяца назад +2

      You're... Right...

    • @nooneseesme522
      @nooneseesme522 Месяц назад +2

      Nice catch

    • @Jmyth14
      @Jmyth14 Месяц назад

      It’s sad actually, it’s sad that harassment, assault, abuse and sexual abuse even exist.

    • @TMBNevula
      @TMBNevula Месяц назад +3

      They actually have a video on it if your want to check it out

    • @Beauty_Monky
      @Beauty_Monky Месяц назад +2

      Oh my gosh I never noticed this until you mentioned it😨

  • @arigreenz
    @arigreenz 3 года назад +151

    There's ways to tell long-time friends that you like them. Touching them is *never* a respectful or viable option. *Never.* Thank you for making this video.

  • @catsarereal
    @catsarereal 2 года назад +314

    As a person who has a friend like this who repeatedly say sexual stuff even tho I said I felt uncomfortable and touch me and sometimes even ''accidently'' touch my boobs, I really love this story. Remember just because their your friends doesn't mean they can touch them without consent and don't be afraid to set boundaries and if they don't obey them it's better off leaving them.

  • @freneljaneninavillarta6053
    @freneljaneninavillarta6053 4 года назад +681

    Having sex with your friend and stay being friends is fine but if you will have both sex you must have each others consent,Not just because of your thought that its okay.

    • @tourmelion9221
      @tourmelion9221 4 года назад +40

      Yeah
      You can't force yourself on someone or pressure them

    • @methegamerx
      @methegamerx 4 года назад +5

      What thats bs

    • @WarriorLL
      @WarriorLL 4 года назад +11

      Sad how our generation truly has taken the love out of sex.

    • @Youtubnium
      @Youtubnium 4 года назад

      I.E.D MAKER69 facts

    • @ethernitylovesme
      @ethernitylovesme 4 года назад

      @@WarriorLL literally it's so sad

  • @NachoBusniess
    @NachoBusniess 8 месяцев назад +43

    As soon as Andrew tried kissing Laura it INSTANTLY made me uncomfortable and especially when he tried playing it off
    YALL, don’t be scared to tell a trusted adult if u feel uncomfortable with situations.

  • @idontlikepans
    @idontlikepans 3 года назад +311

    These videos helped me recognize that I was being sexually assaulted by a kid in my choir class. We had just met that year and I didn't know him well but we quickly became friends. As soon as I met him I knew something was off but I thought it was just because I didn't know him. My friend was quarantined most the year so it was mostly just me and him. Our 1st semester we really didn't sing and my teacher was always in her little office so we just talked about stuff and he started to get touchy he would play with my hair, grab my bra strap, ask to tie my hoodie strings (may I remind you my hoodie strings lay on my chest) and right before Fallbreak I told him he was a flat out creep and he needs to leave me alone. Then he would sit across the room. 2nd semester we got 2 new girls. Now he would look me up and down and lick his lips. We've told the councilor about it multiple times but made no effort to try and help. One day he was calling me a ho* and saying disgusting stuff, so I told him if he laid his hands on me again I would either sue, file a police report, or take him to court. Luckily it's summer so I don't have to deal with him for awhile but next year I'm not gonna be so nice.

    • @hotaru8309
      @hotaru8309 3 года назад +21

      You okay now? I mean, are you back in that situation now that Summer is gone?

    • @gabiixpiscesendanimalcruel5125
      @gabiixpiscesendanimalcruel5125 2 года назад +9

      @@hotaru8309 true we need update

    • @pair4409
      @pair4409 2 года назад +4

      r u safe i hope u got better friends to support e/o

    • @hitsugatatsuro9978
      @hitsugatatsuro9978 2 года назад

      Did you lynch that sucker like he deserves?

    • @muimisthashira
      @muimisthashira 2 года назад +3

      @Unknown-user instead of update just ask politely, like "hey hows ur situation rn? is he still doing that?"

  • @buzzyboo3837
    @buzzyboo3837 4 года назад +227

    My number 1 rule: You dont owe anyone anything. Especially not things you're uncomfortable with.

    • @SKn6426
      @SKn6426 4 года назад +4

      I'm gonna go tell that to my jewish friend

    • @toaster83
      @toaster83 3 года назад +5

      Unless you owe them money?

    • @Eros_is_calling
      @Eros_is_calling 3 года назад +1

      @@toaster83 that's different

    • @toaster83
      @toaster83 3 года назад +1

      @@Eros_is_calling right, got it

    • @n3jay325
      @n3jay325 2 года назад

      HA! Take that tax collector! /jk

  • @alecryankevinbryanrjdelila7334
    @alecryankevinbryanrjdelila7334 4 года назад +2455

    lol i blame tiktok for those kissing best friend challenges.

    • @majora_03
      @majora_03 4 года назад +37

      Lel yea

    • @zarrowthehorse
      @zarrowthehorse 4 года назад +18

      nobody cares that you hate tik tok

    • @majora_03
      @majora_03 4 года назад +148

      zarrowthenorse nobody said they hate tiktok now did they?

    • @cinemactsvr1416
      @cinemactsvr1416 4 года назад +17

      I don't agree, but I respect your opinion

    • @Anquevious
      @Anquevious 4 года назад +9

      zarrowthenorse ok pokimaine simp

  • @chocolatebar147
    @chocolatebar147 11 месяцев назад +6

    I love how all the stories and videos are connected with hints as well.

  • @djtundra8011
    @djtundra8011 4 года назад +712

    I can’t be the only one thinking that I like the animation art right?

    • @anastasiacook5768
      @anastasiacook5768 4 года назад +18

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @ohmygod5677
      @ohmygod5677 4 года назад +32

      It's definitely professional

    • @IHateMyChanneI
      @IHateMyChanneI 4 года назад +25

      I love the animation, That's why I'm watching these again. They should show these in schools.

    • @inkedrays7744
      @inkedrays7744 4 года назад +6

      3DEMON AGREED!!!!! The animation is beautiful, this would be perfect to be shown in a health/personal development class when they talk about domestic and dating violence

    • @angelofchaos8233
      @angelofchaos8233 4 года назад +8

      Honestly I agree I'm 2 old 2 be watching these. but the animator in me is impressed on how these videos look.

  • @samuentaga
    @samuentaga 4 года назад +146

    If Andrew was more upfront about his feelings and told her, even if she didn't feel the same way, they could have still stayed friends. The primary issue with Andrew's behaviour was that he felt entitled to her body and her affection. Nobody is entitled to anyone else's body and affection. Not even married couples can do that stuff without mutual consent. Communication is key.

  • @dhampir_days
    @dhampir_days 4 года назад +464

    yeah this hit close, not a friend but a boyfriend, especially not wanting to lose him. please, if you're suffering from sexual abuse or unwanted advances, whether at the hands of someone you do or don't know, please inform someone. if not parents, then teachers, if not teachers, there's helplines that will deal with it for you
    Also, the frame where she walks into the light after confronting Andrew was really good!

    • @mariae6041
      @mariae6041 4 года назад +7

      I went through the same thing with a romantic relationship. it took me such a long time to heal again. thank you for posting this.

    • @1truthbegettingtold275
      @1truthbegettingtold275 4 года назад +2

      If the guy is older than 14, you being his girlfriend.. You picking him taking him away from other girls that would be more likely to do him, taking away his opportunities. He will feel trapped in relationship, if he left you because you reject his slightly touchy advanced with no intention of sex he will lose confidence. You women dont realize the situations you put men through. Andrew in this story his best friend being a girl makes other girls stay away or think they hook up.

    • @mariae6041
      @mariae6041 4 года назад +9

      truth be getting told so you’re saying his touchiness with full knowledge he is making the other person uncomfortable is okay?

    • @1truthbegettingtold275
      @1truthbegettingtold275 4 года назад +1

      @@mariae6041 What attracted you to him? Body or personality? In the case of best friend is girl, other girls see that, makes him less approachable or more likely to get rejected by other girls. If this best friend girl is spending so much time with him it takes up opportunities to talk to other women, because she is always there. So when teenager goes to make his moves there is nobody else. Thats how you get the depressed guy having his best friend who is a girl comfort him about not having relationship or "you will meet somebody". But then the best friend girl gets jealous of the time he spends with new girlfriend and wants that same treatment where she didnt before. The girlfriend will also get jealous of the best friend.

    • @mariae6041
      @mariae6041 4 года назад +5

      truth be getting told he made me really happy and i never hung out w him otherwise. his humor was the first thing i was attentive to. i just started to text him and told him that i wanted to be friend. i asked him out and he rejected me. he asked out one of my friends and she denied him and they never hung out. so for revenge he asked me out and i said yes. i didn’t know this beforehand

  • @jazlynestrella540
    @jazlynestrella540 Год назад +5

    Laura you did the right thing telling Andrew that you are best friends and that he should never abuse you if his parents found out what he was doing to you he would be grounded for a month ❤

  • @rofuentes8996
    @rofuentes8996 2 года назад +126

    And this is important because this touches many "why" people are forced to say "yes" or nothing even when they want to say no. People usually says after a sexual abuse "you should had to say no" "it's too easy to say no" BUT HELL NO, sometimes people feel like they owe something, or are manipulated to accept.
    I hope with this people understand that IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT IF YOU WEREN'T CAPABLE TO SAY "NO".

    • @cad168
      @cad168 2 года назад +2

      Yes agreed

    • @cad168
      @cad168 2 года назад

      Not if you want to…

  • @madalynmoore
    @madalynmoore 4 года назад +776

    Andrew= friends cant be friendly?
    Me= oh honey that’s far from friendly
    edit- tf! i thought i would get like 10 I got so many this is the best day ever i cant belive the highest number of likes ive ever gotten is 26

  • @andrewwarner4434
    @andrewwarner4434 4 года назад +733

    I know gamer girls who talk and act exactly like “Andrew” I’d just like to note this PSA goes for everyone

    • @SKn6426
      @SKn6426 4 года назад +57

      Agreed but this was just an example

    • @euphoria_ma3
      @euphoria_ma3 4 года назад +6

      Yes

    • @carolinafields361
      @carolinafields361 3 года назад +50

      It goes for EVERYONE it’s just an example

    • @voiddaddy7210
      @voiddaddy7210 3 года назад +44

      Yes Andrew, I completely agree with your statement, Andrew.

    • @beans6765
      @beans6765 3 года назад +19

      ANDREW?!?

  • @TseringDickey-k6v
    @TseringDickey-k6v 4 месяца назад +5

    my respect to the Girl who Genuinely stood up and educated people really well: 📈📈📈📈📈📈

  • @luvsdeceit
    @luvsdeceit 4 года назад +124

    This needs to be broadcasted as a whole commercial because this stuff is real

    • @reeetawd
      @reeetawd 4 года назад +1

      Yes they need to teach kids (girls especially) that harmless sexual advances like Andrew did was not abuse.

    • @alexdean6108
      @alexdean6108 4 года назад +12

      @@reeetawd But what Andrew is doing is not okay tho. He's making "harmless" sexual advances of which she's not okay with and has said no to. At that point if he's still continuing, it's not okay. So yes they should show it in schools to show that this type of behavior after you said no already is not okay.

    • @wxlii
      @wxlii 3 года назад +3

      Maam and u need to become a reporter on this ( ˘ ³˘)♥︎

    • @wxlii
      @wxlii 3 года назад +2

      Bootifel

    • @hangfire5944
      @hangfire5944 3 года назад +2

      This would be a PSA, not a commercial. But I do agree with Yvung on this one.

  • @maddiemccroskey
    @maddiemccroskey 2 года назад +97

    That’s why boundaries are very important in friendships including relationships. There always needs boundaries regardless to whom you’re close to.

  • @cameralens4386
    @cameralens4386 3 года назад +173

    Why is this so goddamn realistic, like the f*ck
    BRO DISCORD TO TF

    • @AYARU11
      @AYARU11 3 года назад +6

      ikr like what the f*ck bro-

    • @skullcruncher76
      @skullcruncher76 3 года назад +2

      John-a-thon

    • @kooltyme
      @kooltyme 3 года назад +2

      OMG YEA ITS SO REALISTIC LIKE THEY INCLUDED DISCORD?!??! AND DISCORD IS IN REAL LIFE TOO?!?! NO WAY THIS IS REAL LIFE

  • @classicxlolita
    @classicxlolita 2 года назад +25

    This is important. Especially for survivors… As someone who said no and still got violated I need to see more examples of when it works because once you have an encounter like that… it makes you want to give up.

  • @DaichiXEdward
    @DaichiXEdward 4 года назад +402

    These are amazing and helpful. it's not too cheesy and the artstyle is nice. I wish I had these in highschool. everything she felt i felt. but I didn't say no...

    • @chloeprice6592
      @chloeprice6592 4 года назад +6

      But now you know you can say no!

    • @hannahhdrawz
      @hannahhdrawz 3 года назад +3

      Nice Satori pfp! Also oh geez.. I'm sorry if something happened to you.

    • @techy4607
      @techy4607 3 года назад

      'its not too cheesy'
      Andrew:hey you wanna play forknife?

    • @Tmaxgirl28
      @Tmaxgirl28 2 года назад

      Just here to remind you that just because you didn't say "no" or fight back does not mean it was your fault. Yes, ideally, you should fight back. Sometimes, they'll back off, but sometimes they won't. Either way, you didn't do anything wrong. No one is entitled to make you uncomfortable whether you say "no" or not.

  • @certifiedstar
    @certifiedstar 4 года назад +209

    Did you guys notice that the two guys that were playing with them in the beginning were also victims of Sexual Abuse in the other video?

    • @Alias_Linear
      @Alias_Linear 4 года назад +32

      Oh yeah, I'm starting to feel bad for this group of friends

  • @jonmcintyre1144
    @jonmcintyre1144 4 года назад +394

    Laura looks a character who should be in Overwatch. She looks a bit like Tracer mixed with Mei.

    • @moonbased7796
      @moonbased7796 4 года назад +11

      She kinda does now that you brought it up

    • @crabrave2360
      @crabrave2360 3 года назад

      I don’t see it

    • @Zack-wc5mv
      @Zack-wc5mv 3 года назад

      @@crabrave2360 thats a good idea

    • @habibasaeed772
      @habibasaeed772 3 года назад

      yeah she could be like a scientist with like a portal gun or something

    • @Jackexo_Legendary
      @Jackexo_Legendary 3 года назад

      Yea smart idea

  • @DublikoDublyc
    @DublikoDublyc 3 месяца назад +1

    This is good lessons, teachers should put these videos so kids and teens know what to do in a situation like this. The team who made this video are life changing! Keep it at it