My life started in my 30's and Im 33 now. I was in school till I was 29, and I can tell you this much, my 20s weren't a blast. I can't complain, cause I chose this path. But I feel like Im only starting life now, let alone saving up, partnership, marriage and kids. But I absolutely do agree with his wise words on meditation. Meditation saved my life in my 20s (I had alot of issues- anxiety, depression, childhood trauma, and it helped me get over it.) Find a deeper spiritual meaning in life. It helps you question your self and grow into a more mentally healthy, calm and wise person.
Literally me, glad to know they are more people on my same situation, it felt really lonely being the only almost 30 guy surrounded by early 20s talking about things I didn't understand.
Very similar situation here because I'm 28 and just about to graduate uni. Looking back at my twenties so far it's just been dealing with a lot of mental problems from my youth and trying to get ahead. What I'm wondering is how do you feel about having had a difficult twenties? I'm hoping I'll find a few years to just be young and experience things like I feel I haven't been able to do, but not sure how doable that is in your early 30s
I didn’t have a family. After living on streets as a teenager I got blessed to have school but didn’t make it to college. I am 30 years today, I will be back in school for a diploma then degree. Though life is difficult to get tuition, I am determined to fight hard and get school done. Once I get a degree in 4 years I will be able to get a job to help me sustain family. That’s how I plan to start a family. Your comment helped me with encouragement though. Thanks for sharing.
@@Kebabje96 Regarding that question you asked, there was a qoute that I heard from a Buddhist monk (I've seen it being mentioned here and there too), "Your karma isn't your fault, but it is your responsibility." It makes alot of sense to me now. PS- In your 30s? Yeah, you totally do. I get to travel around alot and I enjoy new experiences as they come, meet new people. I've learnt to listen better and not be anxious.
Good advice. Half way through my 30’s and here is what i have learned: - You are not defined by your career. You need to define who you are today and the validation of what you do needs to come only from you. - Health empowers everything. For me the key things were gut and mental health. - Organization and prioritization of work and life helps keep the balance. If work is taking too much then it’s time for a change - Family, friends, and community is key to life success. Prioritizing these over work is the most important because work will come and go. People are forever
There is no family without a stable job. Women select men on their level or above. Hence, you as a man are defined by your income at least in some way or form.
@@hablabamosa do you have a wife and kids and mortgage? I left a high paying job 3 years ago. Wife is still happy. Kids still happy and bills are still payed. Not all women are what you’ve described. You need to find the right one.
@@Nedskiee Because the bills are payed. The idea that friends are more important than your job is incorrect and I've seen it many times. People who chase friends get left behind.
Hi! For anyone who’s life didn’t follow the life partner kids track, your life path is also very valid. Advice? Self care is a non negotiable. Maintaining your emotions (through eg. Therapy or even journaling or just thinking deeper about your emotions) Cultivating hobbies. Learning that you only have control over yourself, so becoming your own best friend. Just some thoughts
Thank you! I'm still in my early 30's, but I'm figuring these things out as well. Slowly but surely. Glad to know I'm not the only one who was like "wait a minute, I don't have kids or a partner... So now what?"
That’s me I’m 32 I never want a girlfriend or to get married to me I find it gross having like a human around you all the time relying on you desperate for attention. Has wants and needs that you need to please for them. I’m tired working on myself that’s enough. Let these other guys work even longer and harder for the wife that leaves them and the kids that end up stop talking to them when they get older and you’re left broke alone and old after . That’s a big risky route for minimal to no reward payout. If you think about the risk vs reward on getting married, you’ll realize there’s very little to no reward but all risk (for a man).
Thank you, I don't like the obsession with "you have to find a life partner and have kids" mentality that so many have, live your life how you want as long as you aren't harming anyone
I made 30 today. A lot going on in my mind. Just came from a heartbreak that left me with anxiety and depression. As a person who grew up with no family, I was able to leave streets and got blessed that I am no longer homeless. I want to be back in school and hopefully I can start a family.
In my 20s everything went well, i graduated from college then started working and had financial stability and work was giving the fulfilment that i needed. Once I was in my 30s the problems started one after the other, job instability, heartbreak, had to go back to my home country and I'm seeing my parents growing older. I'm trying very hard to finally have a stable and good life financially but it seems that it's far from happening any time soon and knowing the 30s are crucial it makes it feel even more difficult.
Not saying this is a bad mindset, just make sure that "things working out better" isn't because other people that you love are picking up YOUR slack. I'm assuming that's not the case here but just calling it out.
@@LuKiSCraft So the whole point of not taking everything so seriously is to free myself to be myself because myself is enough. The whole idea of someone picking up my slack contradicts that and I don't spend my energy worrying if that's happening. If people feel that's happening, they have expectations that I just don't live up to and have every right to remove me from their lives for the sake of their peace 💛
@@BriaNikole-o5l Whatever works for you. Although I can see this mindsight being a problem in a relationship. But that depends on who you're dating I suppose. It is very subjective.
30s is the time where you'll ask yourself "are you catching up?" Social pressure to be successful, have family, is at an all time high. Life is not a race but people, they judge. It's time for making your life's decision.
I'm 31 and my career is budding/ I'm single (By choice). Family can't be forced, so in the mean time it feels like an evolved more efficient version of my 20's.
Dont fall for overly wishfull, optimistic or dramatic, depressive stories. Plan your life according to your personal conditions and possibilities. A few years ago, my wife and I were making good money and we had just welcomed a beautiful daughter. 1.5 years after the birth of my daughter, my wife was diagnosed with a rare kind of breast cancer at 33 years of age. Our whole life and plans were disrupted. 2 years after a succesful treatment, we're still struggling to plan for our future because of the high uncertainty cancer brings, even after treatment. In our case our 30s might as well be our 70 or 80s. My family is nr1 for me.
The things you say are almost known by everyone but the simplicity, comfort and relief your words bring is a gift to all of us. Thank you for your service SIR 🙏
Interesting that you asked what you “should” want. I’d suggest using rays meditation advice to consider what is important to you. To me it seems as though very few people think about this in a meaningful way.
My life started when i was 12 and thrown out by adopted parents. Slept on the streets and found a job at 14. Now am 43, own a 3 bedroom house, fat 401k and 2 cars, beautiful wife and 5 kids. Gotta be tough in this cruel world.
As much as I appreciate advice, life is a journey and the journey is different for everyone. Don't take life for granted and be grateful for waking up every morning. Do not be afraid because there is nothing to be afraid of.
As if it was recoded specifically for my. 100% resonated with my current situation. Work - kids - starting my own agency - stress and low energy 😮💨 Looks like I’m not a unique case here lol. Thank you for the wise words, Sir! 🤝
Mid thirties here. And yes my wife and kids are more important to me than career. I work so i can take care of my family. People who work to look cool are obsessed with their image and i dont respect them honestly.
I turned 30 in july and yes stress is real. Lucky are the ones for whom 20s were a blast for me it wasn't. Worries about future have put me a state of constant anxiety. I have started taking my health seriously now unlike in 20s when I ate whatever I felt like with no exercise nothing
Life is one big party when you're still young, but who's gonna have your back when it's all done? It's all good when you're little, you have pure fun. Can't be a fool, son, what about the long run?
Can confirm, I'm 32 and I cannot squeeze in all the things I want to do. I need to keep a high paying job to service the mortgage and family costs, but I have a personal creative streak that I need to feed to feel like it's all worth it. Ideally if I stay lucky with investments I can be free and clear of financial hardship by 45-50, and hopefully have enough creative energy still to persue my passions more single-mindedly
I am humbly significantly younger than yourself , however I may want to give some advice to people out there, if you are in your 30's, you need to be able to control at least 60% of market investments, I am Going to prefer to Ray Dalio's Percentage of 66% Accuracy and Morgan Housel's Percentage of at least 60 in his book of "The Psychology of Money", Time is your best Asset, Better than money, so you need to Take Faith in Allah (The proper title for "The God" or "The Deity" in Arabic) make sure you achieve your financial goals by the best time you should, it's best to get financially stable early in life, it's always healthily early!
See in my opinion this is a trap . They tell you to go to school get a job get married have kids. But now you’re trapped. If you get laid off you’re screwed. I think people should first set themselves up financially before having kids . Not having extra time for your creative stuff to me is a huge mistake . You rushed the story everyone feds you “go to school, get a job…..” you just let society rush you into your place and now you have no time for you. Congratulations . Stop listening to everyone else and think about you first. You have to love yourself enough to also enjoy yourself and life. It’s not all about family . It’s about you as well. You’re the most important person in the world to yourself. Without you, none of anything would matter or exist. It starts with you. Be a little selfish they penalize you in society for it but fuck society . Society is sick and twisted
Learn about yourself, your work and co-workers. Care for yourself and family. Communicate, vent if need be. Life's short. Accept the truth that everything will come to an end at some point. Live in the moment. Live n let live🙏
Im in my 20s in my 30s..Studying, living on res, but serious, don't party like these kids and feel super out of place. No kids either while all my friends kids and families etc. It's hard spot to be in
He's right about managing family but i don't agree with meditation. I have tried it for 2 months. Those were the most boring, stressful and worst 2 months of my recent life. Here's my advice, always try to find at least 2 good reasons for making decisions.
29. If there is one thing I could tell myself in my younger 20's is that emotjonal intelligence is the most important navigational skill that you can have. More important than iq by far. At times when there is no way and you dont see it, and there will be many, that will be the thing to show you the way foward. Also life is long, you have until you die to make it.
I retired by 30. 30s are awesome, just travel, spend time with the wife & kids. Don't wait to be falling apart to retire, it's not the same as being young, vibrant, active and retired 😊
My advice for people in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond. Everything will make sense once you begin to fear the lord. The rest is just extra. Every problem, every detail will sort itself out the way it gotta be. You are not in control of anything but being with the lord.
What about mine that’s always failing at approaching a Girl and also now seeking a secure job after another . I’m 33 and I think I need to jot down that I’m not meant to have a partner like anyone else so I can start unwaver my mind . Need Pals’ Advice ..
You either have it or you don't. Some people are managing empires and have two or three or more families and don't even sweet. They get bored often not overwhelmed. They simply have the entitlement in their veines and found the people to work for them.
You should find someone you love while you’re young. It becomes much harder the older you get, and loneliness is the leading cause of depression. Compromise is absolutely necessary when it comes to having a partner, but it’s worth it. Both of you need to compromise, it shouldn’t be one sided. The whole idea of “finding someone who accepts you exactly as you are and you should never change” is completely bogus. No one is perfect, and there is always room to grow and better yourself.
I am 32, it just bothers me that i am so left behind, i do have a job but i hate this job so much because of the amount of stress it gives me.i dont have a partner or anything, feels like i am wandering in this universe, my whole existence is questionable
Do you have advice for a 50 year olds that have done good investment but their afraid to retire I think the older we get the more afraid we are to invest or sale some investments to invest in other things and afraid won’t have enough for his older age with inflation getting crazier every year
My life started in my 30's and Im 33 now. I was in school till I was 29, and I can tell you this much, my 20s weren't a blast. I can't complain, cause I chose this path. But I feel like Im only starting life now, let alone saving up, partnership, marriage and kids.
But I absolutely do agree with his wise words on meditation.
Meditation saved my life in my 20s (I had alot of issues- anxiety, depression, childhood trauma, and it helped me get over it.)
Find a deeper spiritual meaning in life. It helps you question your self and grow into a more mentally healthy, calm and wise person.
Literally me, glad to know they are more people on my same situation, it felt really lonely being the only almost 30 guy surrounded by early 20s talking about things I didn't understand.
Very similar situation here because I'm 28 and just about to graduate uni. Looking back at my twenties so far it's just been dealing with a lot of mental problems from my youth and trying to get ahead.
What I'm wondering is how do you feel about having had a difficult twenties? I'm hoping I'll find a few years to just be young and experience things like I feel I haven't been able to do, but not sure how doable that is in your early 30s
I didn’t have a family. After living on streets as a teenager I got blessed to have school but didn’t make it to college. I am 30 years today, I will be back in school for a diploma then degree. Though life is difficult to get tuition, I am determined to fight hard and get school done.
Once I get a degree in 4 years I will be able to get a job to help me sustain family. That’s how I plan to start a family.
Your comment helped me with encouragement though. Thanks for sharing.
@@Kebabje96 Regarding that question you asked, there was a qoute that I heard from a Buddhist monk (I've seen it being mentioned here and there too), "Your karma isn't your fault, but it is your responsibility." It makes alot of sense to me now.
PS- In your 30s? Yeah, you totally do. I get to travel around alot and I enjoy new experiences as they come, meet new people. I've learnt to listen better and not be anxious.
Everyone’s path is different this guy is generalizing
Good advice. Half way through my 30’s and here is what i have learned:
- You are not defined by your career. You need to define who you are today and the validation of what you do needs to come only from you.
- Health empowers everything. For me the key things were gut and mental health.
- Organization and prioritization of work and life helps keep the balance. If work is taking too much then it’s time for a change
- Family, friends, and community is key to life success. Prioritizing these over work is the most important because work will come and go. People are forever
There is no family without a stable job. Women select men on their level or above. Hence, you as a man are defined by your income at least in some way or form.
@@hablabamosa do you have a wife and kids and mortgage? I left a high paying job 3 years ago. Wife is still happy. Kids still happy and bills are still payed. Not all women are what you’ve described. You need to find the right one.
@@Nedskiee Because the bills are payed. The idea that friends are more important than your job is incorrect and I've seen it many times. People who chase friends get left behind.
I say people come and go as well.
@@hablabamosa on the opposite foot, I’ve seen many people get left behind by friends while chasing money. It’s a double edged sword my friend.
I'm 28 now. I was in depression from 21 to 28. But I won. Life is just starting.
How you won ?
Hi! For anyone who’s life didn’t follow the life partner kids track, your life path is also very valid.
Advice? Self care is a non negotiable. Maintaining your emotions (through eg. Therapy or even journaling or just thinking deeper about your emotions)
Cultivating hobbies.
Learning that you only have control over yourself, so becoming your own best friend.
Just some thoughts
Thank you! I'm still in my early 30's, but I'm figuring these things out as well. Slowly but surely. Glad to know I'm not the only one who was like "wait a minute, I don't have kids or a partner... So now what?"
Wise words ❤
Thanks 👍🏿. I fall in that category. Good advice
That’s me I’m 32 I never want a girlfriend or to get married to me I find it gross having like a human around you all the time relying on you desperate for attention. Has wants and needs that you need to please for them. I’m tired working on myself that’s enough. Let these other guys work even longer and harder for the wife that leaves them and the kids that end up stop talking to them when they get older and you’re left broke alone and old after . That’s a big risky route for minimal to no reward payout. If you think about the risk vs reward on getting married, you’ll realize there’s very little to no reward but all risk (for a man).
Thank you, I don't like the obsession with "you have to find a life partner and have kids" mentality that so many have, live your life how you want as long as you aren't harming anyone
I made 30 today.
A lot going on in my mind. Just came from a heartbreak that left me with anxiety and depression.
As a person who grew up with no family, I was able to leave streets and got blessed that I am no longer homeless. I want to be back in school and hopefully I can start a family.
In my 20s everything went well, i graduated from college then started working and had financial stability and work was giving the fulfilment that i needed. Once I was in my 30s the problems started one after the other, job instability, heartbreak, had to go back to my home country and I'm seeing my parents growing older. I'm trying very hard to finally have a stable and good life financially but it seems that it's far from happening any time soon and knowing the 30s are crucial it makes it feel even more difficult.
Everything passes. You will find a way out, my friend.
Start your own business / side hustle it’s the only way today to really get ahead while also having time for yourself
I'm in the same boat, bud.
Thanks for the advice, watching this in my mid 30s feels like you're a calm friend that I need right now
I'll be 30 next year and what I've learned is don't take everything so seriously lol things work out better when I let go of outcomes 💛
Not saying this is a bad mindset, just make sure that "things working out better" isn't because other people that you love are picking up YOUR slack. I'm assuming that's not the case here but just calling it out.
@@LuKiSCraft So the whole point of not taking everything so seriously is to free myself to be myself because myself is enough. The whole idea of someone picking up my slack contradicts that and I don't spend my energy worrying if that's happening. If people feel that's happening, they have expectations that I just don't live up to and have every right to remove me from their lives for the sake of their peace 💛
@@BriaNikole-o5l Whatever works for you. Although I can see this mindsight being a problem in a relationship. But that depends on who you're dating I suppose. It is very subjective.
@@LuKiSCraft ah yes! I've chosen not to date lol 💛
Keep that mentally 😂 till your 40s
For me i'm just getting started in my early 30, while I was in school until mid 20s. Not everyone gets an easy head start.
Same bro same, we'll do fineee🤗
Same here, already feels bit late, but doesn`t really seem to be late tho^^
30s is the time where you'll ask yourself "are you catching up?" Social pressure to be successful, have family, is at an all time high. Life is not a race but people, they judge. It's time for making your life's decision.
I'm 31 and my career is budding/ I'm single (By choice). Family can't be forced, so in the mean time it feels like an evolved more efficient version of my 20's.
Dont fall for overly wishfull, optimistic or dramatic, depressive stories. Plan your life according to your personal conditions and possibilities. A few years ago, my wife and I were making good money and we had just welcomed a beautiful daughter. 1.5 years after the birth of my daughter, my wife was diagnosed with a rare kind of breast cancer at 33 years of age. Our whole life and plans were disrupted. 2 years after a succesful treatment, we're still struggling to plan for our future because of the high uncertainty cancer brings, even after treatment. In our case our 30s might as well be our 70 or 80s. My family is nr1 for me.
Do your own path ✨️
The things you say are almost known by everyone but the simplicity, comfort and relief your words bring is a gift to all of us. Thank you for your service SIR 🙏
"You can have anything you want, but you can't have everything that you want"
What if you don't know what you should want anymore?
Interesting that you asked what you “should” want. I’d suggest using rays meditation advice to consider what is important to you. To me it seems as though very few people think about this in a meaningful way.
My life started when i was 12 and thrown out by adopted parents. Slept on the streets and found a job at 14. Now am 43, own a 3 bedroom house, fat 401k and 2 cars, beautiful wife and 5 kids. Gotta be tough in this cruel world.
As much as I appreciate advice, life is a journey and the journey is different for everyone. Don't take life for granted and be grateful for waking up every morning. Do not be afraid because there is nothing to be afraid of.
36y, Ray feels me deeply - I'm closer to bournout than ever - every morning its a fight
I feel you!
As if it was recoded specifically for my. 100% resonated with my current situation. Work - kids - starting my own agency - stress and low energy 😮💨
Looks like I’m not a unique case here lol.
Thank you for the wise words, Sir! 🤝
I’m 28 years old, this is great to know while going into my thirties. I appreciate your advice very much, thank you!
Mid thirties here. And yes my wife and kids are more important to me than career. I work so i can take care of my family. People who work to look cool are obsessed with their image and i dont respect them honestly.
I don’t have a family I also don’t work to look cool. I work so I can retire . You missed that one
@@b-rare everyone works to retire of course. Why no family? Is it by choice?
Thanks, this really helped ❤
I turned 30 in july and yes stress is real. Lucky are the ones for whom 20s were a blast for me it wasn't. Worries about future have put me a state of constant anxiety. I have started taking my health seriously now unlike in 20s when I ate whatever I felt like with no exercise nothing
Burn out is a real thing 😢
I don't usually say it, but yes, a 100% true. Thanks Ray!
Prioritizing is not easy. I don't know!
Life is one big party when you're still young, but who's gonna have your back when it's all done? It's all good when you're little, you have pure fun. Can't be a fool, son, what about the long run?
Shaggy speaks the truth! 😉
😀
Most important decision we will ever make will probably come in our 30s...who we marry. Choose wisely.
Who we marry? Bt no one is marrying me? So who I'll choose. If no one is choosing me😂
Pray,meditate,relax.Avoid unwanted stress
Im almost 40 and I'm burnt out with working I'm done. It's too hard
Wife? Kids?
Marry a rich 70 year old
Should’ve saved money in your 20’s
I run 4 youtube channels, making videos for them everyday, I'm not tired at all, GIVE ME MORE WORK.
@@alexjulius69 what is your job exactly? Video editor?
Here in Mexico most don't have the financial stability to aspire supporting a family
Así es mano, para países no tan desarrollados valen otras reglas
In Brazil, same thing
LatAM, all together 🤙
Thanks, Ray! Would love to hear more from you.
Grandparents are the best advisers!
“Serious“ 😂😂😂😂😂
I am having too much fun.
I wish the best for others too.
Let’s go!
don’t meditate when you’re stressed, meditate (TM) every day no matter what. try for two 20-minute sessions every single day!
Well said.
Additional tips: Read books named Mindfulness In Plain English & Eight Mindful Steps to Happiness
by Bhante Henepola Gunaratana
20 not for beginners. 15 minutes is already hard ( no calming music, no meditation guide)
who has time for 40 minutes of meditation every day?
@@djuriusalmost everyone. Look at the time we spend watching yt shorts/insta reels etc
Everybody has time, they choose to waste it instead by staring at their screens, using apps, doom scrolling, talking about others, etc
Can confirm, I'm 32 and I cannot squeeze in all the things I want to do. I need to keep a high paying job to service the mortgage and family costs, but I have a personal creative streak that I need to feed to feel like it's all worth it. Ideally if I stay lucky with investments I can be free and clear of financial hardship by 45-50, and hopefully have enough creative energy still to persue my passions more single-mindedly
That’s so depressing
I am humbly significantly younger than yourself , however I may want to give some advice to people out there, if you are in your 30's, you need to be able to control at least 60% of market investments, I am Going to prefer to Ray Dalio's Percentage of 66% Accuracy and Morgan Housel's Percentage of at least 60 in his book of "The Psychology of Money", Time is your best Asset, Better than money, so you need to Take Faith in Allah (The proper title for "The God" or "The Deity" in Arabic) make sure you achieve your financial goals by the best time you should, it's best to get financially stable early in life, it's always healthily early!
See in my opinion this is a trap . They tell you to go to school get a job get married have kids. But now you’re trapped. If you get laid off you’re screwed. I think people should first set themselves up financially before having kids . Not having extra time for your creative stuff to me is a huge mistake . You rushed the story everyone feds you “go to school, get a job…..” you just let society rush you into your place and now you have no time for you. Congratulations . Stop listening to everyone else and think about you first. You have to love yourself enough to also enjoy yourself and life. It’s not all about family . It’s about you as well. You’re the most important person in the world to yourself. Without you, none of anything would matter or exist. It starts with you. Be a little selfish they penalize you in society for it but fuck society . Society is sick and twisted
Learn about yourself, your work and co-workers. Care for yourself and family. Communicate, vent if need be. Life's short. Accept the truth that everything will come to an end at some point. Live in the moment. Live n let live🙏
This advice is so spot on. Pure Gold.
lol funny cuz dalio recommends to buy gold
Thank you Ray for giving advice to normal people
Im in my 20s in my 30s..Studying, living on res, but serious, don't party like these kids and feel super out of place. No kids either while all my friends kids and families etc. It's hard spot to be in
I’m with you . 31 started school . Time will go by anyway .
It's true, there's so little time I have to do anything.
it's like he is speaking directly to me....
Excellent advice! Thank you for sharing this. 🙌✨
38, Boston university degree, worked in real estate, did a startup from 33 to now and it failed. Now unemployed and depressed.
Most challenging decade indeed. Life's getting serious to the point i started having panic attacks
All i do now is to invest ❤❤
Hit the like button when he said meditate. Also good advise is subjective. Good advice maybe actually bad advise. Oh the mind field
He's right about managing family but i don't agree with meditation. I have tried it for 2 months. Those were the most boring, stressful and worst 2 months of my recent life.
Here's my advice, always try to find at least 2 good reasons for making decisions.
He is my favorite adviser
Never practiced my degree, and now I want a new career path. Still figuring it out in my 30s.
29. If there is one thing I could tell myself in my younger 20's is that emotjonal intelligence is the most important navigational skill that you can have. More important than iq by far. At times when there is no way and you dont see it, and there will be many, that will be the thing to show you the way foward. Also life is long, you have until you die to make it.
"The 20s were a blast" oh how times have changed.
Im turning 30 next month ... my back and my right knee are killing me
Thank you Mr Dalio
I retired by 30.
30s are awesome, just travel, spend time with the wife & kids. Don't wait to be falling apart to retire, it's not the same as being young, vibrant, active and retired 😊
😂 fu
My advice for people in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond. Everything will make sense once you begin to fear the lord. The rest is just extra.
Every problem, every detail will sort itself out the way it gotta be. You are not in control of anything but being with the lord.
Thank you for this values...
Thank you Sir
Thank you sir 👏
Meditation, the real kind, is good.
I'd also add: prepare
Only money can help to solve every problem life rest i can take care myself.
Oh great that made me feel so much better ..
ray is right, the burnout is real thing.. especially when you have young kids
Thank you Ray !
Age 30 here. No kids, no wife, no stress lol. And completely fulfilled. And no I’m not lonely
Thank you again Ray
Awesome post! Thanks!
We have no retirement.
Yeah, we do. Turn your on switch to off. Ah, peace finally.....
What about mine that’s always failing at approaching a Girl and also now seeking a secure job after another . I’m 33 and I think I need to jot down that I’m not meant to have a partner like anyone else so I can start unwaver my mind .
Need Pals’ Advice ..
Good advice in short time
Thanks gang 🤞🏾
Thank you for your advices, which you have provided through all of the videos in this channel and elsewhere!
Thank you Ray.
I quit my job. So no more work was the way for a good work life balance.
Being single is easier, still have to support my parents eventually.
Wow. Thank you 💗
Can you advise me on where you got that killer shirt
You either have it or you don't. Some people are managing empires and have two or three or more families and don't even sweet. They get bored often not overwhelmed. They simply have the entitlement in their veines and found the people to work for them.
Sir I great respect for you ❤❤❤are U my mentor....
Damn i cant see him grow old, what a absolute legend
Thank you
Thank you Sir!
Than ks Ray ❤
fml do i really have to get married and have kids?
I'm really enjoying just traveling and taking care of my health...
You should find someone you love while you’re young. It becomes much harder the older you get, and loneliness is the leading cause of depression. Compromise is absolutely necessary when it comes to having a partner, but it’s worth it. Both of you need to compromise, it shouldn’t be one sided. The whole idea of “finding someone who accepts you exactly as you are and you should never change” is completely bogus. No one is perfect, and there is always room to grow and better yourself.
@@SynthD okay fine but do i need to sign a legal contract with the government? I'm trying to have my cake and eat it too here
@@laughoutmeow nah, personally I don’t think marriage is completely necessary until your ready.
Ty sir.
Simple as that. ❤
I needed to hear this. Thank you.
I am 32, it just bothers me that i am so left behind, i do have a job but i hate this job so much because of the amount of stress it gives me.i dont have a partner or anything, feels like i am wandering in this universe, my whole existence is questionable
30 is the age of you can earn everything you get serious.
Or lose everything if you mess
Geez I think being single seems like the way to go
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Do you have advice for a 50 year olds that have done good investment but their afraid to retire I think the older we get the more afraid we are to invest or sale some investments to invest in other things and afraid won’t have enough for his older age with inflation getting crazier every year
"Who you choose to have as your partner"
Lmao I cant choose 😂😂😂
Thanks ❤
All these stressors are man made
You know how hard its gets when someone says "meditate" - you are having really bad time
"The twenties is a blast" .....when?
Good thing I’m only 29 and a half so these things don’t really have to worry me
i failed both getting a job and having a blast in my 20s
90s days very good.. now a days trusting someone is very hard and loneliness in life... fake world
This is what I needed to hear. Nobody around me would give this nugget of great advice thank you!