Omg!!! Waving a knife in the air! He did EXACTLY that, while screaming at me with his face bright red and veins popping out, it was terrifying! And what was he screaming? "I TOLD YOU NOT TO PUT THE STEAK KNIVES IN THE DISHWASHER!!!"
@@BognaZone hi Wow I had a similar experience. Some foam came from the washing machine and a roommate started fussing about it..on steroids probably a cocaine user suddenly starting shouting with a big kitchen knife in his hand. When I finally stood up to him about his mess,total meltdown 😂
Narcissist just need to stay in their place. Nobody has time to tip toe around what goes on in their heads. The biggest mistake narcissist make is thinking that their survivors don't feel the same.
@@Rebeccax0x0 You know what's so crazy, I watched this actual segment on H.G's channel and segments that coinside with this. He stated that if a narcissist kills someone, it means that they didn't mean to kill someone, it means that they push the envelope too far and it accidentally kills someone. It was never intended to kill, but to harm and cause harm but never to kill. It basically comes off as a misfire that went out of control.
Yes but that is the law of unintended consequence. Accidents (as in, I wanted to hit you but not to kill you - the nullification of threat to control _in the now_ but not a permenant state of affairs) do happen during heated ignited fury and this dovetails into the legal concept of _Mens rea_ It also explains why many unaware narcs look so absolutely confused and perplexed by the Prosecution who will argue _Mens res_ It is the narc dog wagging the tail of the unaware ‘Master’
Why does the narcissist say they will kill themselves if you leave them? I have heard this statement from two different narcissists, and I think they are both still alive. Got out, stayed out. Thank you HG.
1. You declaration that you will leave them is a threat to control. 2. The suicide threat is preventative hoover designed to guilt you into remaining in the relationship and thus remaining under control. If the narcissist issues this threat and you have not suggested that you will leave them, they are using the scenario as a means to control in that particular moment. They are using a suicide threat in relation to a potential future event to make you feel bad/upset/frightened so that you respond in a manner (e.g. Of course I will not leave you) which signals to the narcissist in that particular moment that you are under control.
My husband pulled the suicide stunt twice, first two times I pleaded with him. The third time he went further and said he would shoot himself, I called his bluff and listened to him change it to cutting himself. Then I knew he was manipulating me so I packed a bag and left, then pulled over and called the cops, I added his gun threat to ensure they showed up. He's more scared that the neighbours think he's crazy than what I think, he has never repeated this particular game since.
I didn't respond correctly on last time they threatened after a failed attempt in front of me as well as threats to do it again for years, plus blaming me. Because of this I endured non stop torture along with them finally "killing" me off. It was horrible.
Chilling to hear the description of the “ rarity” occasion at behest of an ultra.. it’s just not as rare as HG portrays it because they can rage and take you out ( or nearly before maybe coming back to senses & they let you go)… however, the next battle phases are just as brutal but we can survive with no contact or any kind of response. Even after 24 yrs/3 kids -I have not for 4 years and owe a lot of my strength to HG’s wisdom/advice. Its the only thing that’s brought me peace/some control-although I know I will have a lifetime of maintaining the boundary. Wishing everyone peace, health & resilience!
The narcissists dont see anything wrong with the damage and death of a persons personality if their primary source. True. Seen it in my sister. She is unrecognizable to the woman she was before marriage.
@ The sad thing one of her daughters married a narcissist. She complains the daughter has changed, given up on her values and dreams. Sad, she does not see it in herself or justifies it in herself.
Perhaps it's the other way around. The empath or codependent sees no other way out so fantasizes about the narc being dead and having a different life. Not to say they'd act on that but in seeing no other way out one must allow oneself to fantasaize, if you will.
I bet this is more common than anyone knows, and yes they wouldn't act on it but when a person feels imprisoned with no other options I could understand them fantasizing about this.
Remember you do not belong to any narc,you are free, and have so much more power than you know, you just need to realize this.They need you,you do not need them its all energy,turn away from them,they truly are nothing( this is not meant to be cruel,but the soul died along time ago,made way for dark energy to live in them, if not fed ,will find another host!
The moon and crows make a mask, if you look on the top right corner of the thumbnail, or at least when I take off my reading glasses I don't think anyone wants you dead either HG Tudor. Thank you.
If you can look at this from a curious stand point,you can see they need a enemy ,so they don't have to look within,the goat the Bible speaks of,you cast your sins onto the goat and send it off into the wilderness and you are free.This is built into every family line to some extent, free will stops it dead in its tracks.
1 , Thank you HG , for this video . A lot was explained , which fits detail . Theres been a " lifeline " thrown , but forvhow long will it be effective ?
Could you please explain more widely “narcissistic control”. Simple one ordinary day life examples. Let’s say I am wife and my husband narcissist. We opened eyes in the morning and day started. How he sees each my movement. I want to see the world through his eyes. Thank you for yes and thank you for no.
When you understand the narcissist you understand they have died spiritually and wish the same upon you.
Narcissists are convinced that they are making you live in a romantic movie when in reality it is only a horror movie with a lot of paranormal.
Indeed.
@@remembermyname718 really like a serial killer movie of the psychopath doing his dirty dastardly deeds!!
All narcs and psychopaths eventually fall
Absolutely!
Just like your pleasure is their pain and vice versa; when you live, they die and when you die, they live!
😢 I wish it wasn’t my mom and my sister.
Omg!!! Waving a knife in the air! He did EXACTLY that, while screaming at me with his face bright red and veins popping out, it was terrifying! And what was he screaming? "I TOLD YOU NOT TO PUT THE STEAK KNIVES IN THE DISHWASHER!!!"
@@BognaZone the popping out eyes are scary because you know they have lost control. This is when anything can happen.
@@BognaZone Same..
@@BognaZone hi
Wow I had a similar experience.
Some foam came from the washing machine and a roommate started fussing about it..on steroids probably a cocaine user suddenly starting shouting with a big kitchen knife in his hand.
When I finally stood up to him about his mess,total meltdown 😂
“I should’ve never had you kids!” -the mother losing control of everything.
....heard that over & over as a child....😒
Narcissist just need to stay in their place. Nobody has time to tip toe around what goes on in their heads. The biggest mistake narcissist make is thinking that their survivors don't feel the same.
💯
I got a raging screaming mess. in my face, for not having an affair with a neighbor like he planned.
Imagine you wake up nd the narc is looking at you, first thing they say is “I was picturing how you would look dead” happened to me
@@monteblazilla7776 run!!! 😲 😱
"A dead appliance is a useless appliance" .....What about the narcs that kill? They lose control of their fury....makes sense, but still upsetting.
@@Rebeccax0x0 You know what's so crazy, I watched this actual segment on H.G's channel and segments that coinside with this. He stated that if a narcissist kills someone, it means that they didn't mean to kill someone, it means that they push the envelope too far and it accidentally kills someone. It was never intended to kill, but to harm and cause harm but never to kill. It basically comes off as a misfire that went out of control.
Yes but they would rather you do it by your own hands so they can further label you as unstable and disturbed.
Those are narcopaths, comorbidities with antisocials.
I believe some will in pure Fury. Thankyou HG❤️🌻
Yes but that is the law of unintended consequence. Accidents (as in, I wanted to hit you but not to kill you - the nullification of threat to control _in the now_ but not a permenant state of affairs) do happen during heated ignited fury and this dovetails into the legal concept of _Mens rea_
It also explains why many unaware narcs look so absolutely confused and perplexed by the Prosecution who will argue _Mens res_
It is the narc dog wagging the tail of the unaware ‘Master’
Ego wounding on an already dysfunctional ego, lol! That’s it. Probably explains all of the problems! 😄
Why does the narcissist say they will kill themselves if you leave them? I have heard this statement from two different narcissists, and I think they are both still alive. Got out, stayed out. Thank you HG.
1. You declaration that you will leave them is a threat to control.
2. The suicide threat is preventative hoover designed to guilt you into remaining in the relationship and thus remaining under control.
If the narcissist issues this threat and you have not suggested that you will leave them, they are using the scenario as a means to control in that particular moment. They are using a suicide threat in relation to a potential future event to make you feel bad/upset/frightened so that you respond in a manner (e.g. Of course I will not leave you) which signals to the narcissist in that particular moment that you are under control.
Simply manipulation
My husband pulled the suicide stunt twice, first two times I pleaded with him. The third time he went further and said he would shoot himself, I called his bluff and listened to him change it to cutting himself. Then I knew he was manipulating me so I packed a bag and left, then pulled over and called the cops, I added his gun threat to ensure they showed up. He's more scared that the neighbours think he's crazy than what I think, he has never repeated this particular game since.
I didn't respond correctly on last time they threatened after a failed attempt in front of me as well as threats to do it again for years, plus blaming me. Because of this I endured non stop torture along with them finally "killing" me off.
It was horrible.
Chilling to hear the description of the “ rarity” occasion at behest of an ultra.. it’s just not as rare as HG portrays it because they can rage and take you out ( or nearly before maybe coming back to senses & they let you go)… however, the next battle phases are just as brutal but we can survive with no contact or any kind of response. Even after 24 yrs/3 kids -I have not for 4 years and owe a lot of my strength to HG’s wisdom/advice. Its the only thing that’s brought me peace/some control-although I know I will have a lifetime of maintaining the boundary. Wishing everyone peace, health & resilience!
The narcissists dont see anything wrong with the damage and death of a persons personality if their primary source.
True. Seen it in my sister.
She is unrecognizable to the woman she was before marriage.
@@justanopinion_really think mine is the same she’s a shadow of herself.
@
The sad thing one of her daughters married a narcissist.
She complains the daughter has changed, given up on her values and dreams.
Sad, she does not see it in herself or justifies it in herself.
They steal or try 2 destroy ur character
Part of this video reminded me of HG's excellent analysis / video series on GabbyPetito / BrianLaundrie.
Thank you for the videos & premieres, HG 🤍
Thanks!
Because they are dead already
Yup, and hell awaits...
No soul, you is correct.
@@Susanweston-q8i walking vessel causing harm.
This explains what I’ve been going through 😢
Thank you for the wonderful premiers and videos HG! ❤💚
Narcissists are the in thing!
Yes he said he could "k ill me" he terrified me
And some will most definitely follow through. Be careful
Yes they will 🙋♀️
Perhaps it's the other way around. The empath or codependent sees no other way out so fantasizes about the narc being dead and having a different life. Not to say they'd act on that but in seeing no other way out one must allow oneself to fantasaize, if you will.
I bet this is more common than anyone knows, and yes they wouldn't act on it but when a person feels imprisoned with no other options I could understand them fantasizing about this.
Become a daily occurrence for me
Remember you do not belong to any narc,you are free, and have so much more power than you know, you just need to realize this.They need you,you do not need them its all energy,turn away from them,they truly are nothing( this is not meant to be cruel,but the soul died along time ago,made way for dark energy to live in them, if not fed ,will find another host!
Fascinating and spot on!
Thank you.
Very edifying!
This is so my ex husband.
Moral of the story recognize what is really going on!! You are not the goat,the sins,so called sins are not yours,game over!
Poor Tracy got hit in the head one two many times, one fear
Thank you
The moon and crows make a mask, if you look on the top right corner of the thumbnail, or at least when I take off my reading glasses I don't think anyone wants you dead either HG Tudor. Thank you.
I beg to disagree because of experience - first the words - then the attempt to kill! His new friend was waiting to jump into my spot!
If you can look at this from a curious stand point,you can see they need a enemy ,so they don't have to look within,the goat the Bible speaks of,you cast your sins onto the goat and send it off into the wilderness and you are free.This is built into every family line to some extent, free will stops it dead in its tracks.
very compelling title 😂
What if a greater narcissist had someone about to escape to another country
Hell foreeeeeevvvvveeeeerrrrr
1 , Thank you HG , for this video . A lot was explained , which fits detail . Theres been a " lifeline " thrown , but forvhow long will it be effective ?
What about an ex who uses your kids against you as power
Stay neutral like 🇨🇭 Switzerland guys.
Could you please explain more widely “narcissistic control”. Simple one ordinary day life examples. Let’s say I am wife and my husband narcissist. We opened eyes in the morning and day started. How he sees each my movement. I want to see the world through his eyes. Thank you for yes and thank you for no.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Who is Naller Haleef? RIP ⚰️🥀
The ignorance of it to think of it as an ally 🃏
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Sounds fine to me. Adjust your settings.