Really liked this video and the way you explained your perspective! I haven't been on dating apps ever, but I feel your observations may hold true for dating in a general sense. I see, you already have a lot of videos. Keep at it, in my opinion you are very analytic and have interesting things to say!
Thanks for a really balanced view of a sensitive topic. Having been single a few years now and been on a few dates since, both men and women are confused about what they want either to remain single or give love a chance. We are really not as different as people think 💞
The issue lays in how dating apps work. "let's say I want a wife" The algorithm will gives me mostly women that is either way above me (meaning they won't swipe right on me) or just women looking for sex. This differs from dating IRL. that is much better, but the issue is. We are very atomized and don't meet many people outside of our circles. So it is hard to find a woman who seeks a husband. I fully agree. Men are super complicated. Also, most tinder dates I went on. The women just want to sleep with me, I don't want it.
divorced 50/50 dad here lol dating is actually pretty easy if you are honest. dont rush things. dont hold expectations too early. let sex and commitment happen naturally. meanwhile just enjoy getting to know someone and going out and experiencing new things. a lot of your personality was developed with your ex so now you get to find out who you are as an individual
Thank you for this. I haven't watched the whole video yet but I would also add that this breakdown is applicable to any man who is approaching you online including Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat, etc...non dating sites.
Thank you. I know. I don't think people realise that I still don't get paid for this. I don't make any money off RUclips. (Get no ad revenue despite ads on my videos). People watch and don't subscribe. I used to get pissed about it, but now I figure, if I'm meant to blow up I will and karma will get them for not supporting me haha.
@@text_ghost_love I'm starting a channel and I know how hard it is. Just keep doing what you're doing and keep talking about what you're passionate about. Getting subs and recognition on YT is a challenge. I really do wish you all the best.
Male dating coaches (and some female) keep saying that the reason why men fail with women is that they have "confidence" issues. Maybe but in my experience it's all about the situation. Thoughts?
Well, any female that does dating advice for men is a pure grifter. They don't care about the men they are 'helping' and wouldn't date half of the men in their comment section! I don't think it's to do with confidence personally; people like who they like. It's a sad fact of life and most people have been rejected at some point. If a girl likes a shy guy she'll usually do something to help him out imo as long as he's a decent guy.
@@text_ghost_love I do seem to recall that when I was rejected at work quite a few of my male colleagues told me that they wouldn't dare do what I did.
I agree that 80% of women want a husband. But you forgot the other side of this. Women don't know what the men THEY want, want. If you are on Tinder you will only see the bottom percent of men. Real men that are a catch will NOT be on tinder/Bumble/Hinge. Please if you want someone with similar values go and get a hobby and join a group of people that share the same hobbies. ONLINE DATING IS A DEAD END.
“80% of the women on dating apps are looking for a husband.”
“Some of them men on dating apps just want a wife - STAY AWAY”
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Really liked this video and the way you explained your perspective! I haven't been on dating apps ever, but I feel your observations may hold true for dating in a general sense.
I see, you already have a lot of videos. Keep at it, in my opinion you are very analytic and have interesting things to say!
That's lovely to say. Thank you so much x
i dont think breaking down what you want into a spouse or not would make women the simpler sex... the same could be said about men...
"The divorced man who just wants to f**k around..." You're on point with this.
Thanks for a really balanced view of a sensitive topic. Having been single a few years now and been on a few dates since, both men and women are confused about what they want either to remain single or give love a chance. We are really not as different as people think 💞
The issue lays in how dating apps work.
"let's say I want a wife" The algorithm will gives me mostly women that is either way above me (meaning they won't swipe right on me) or just women looking for sex.
This differs from dating IRL. that is much better, but the issue is. We are very atomized and don't meet many people outside of our circles. So it is hard to find a woman who seeks a husband.
I fully agree. Men are super complicated. Also, most tinder dates I went on. The women just want to sleep with me, I don't want it.
divorced 50/50 dad here lol dating is actually pretty easy if you are honest. dont rush things. dont hold expectations too early. let sex and commitment happen naturally. meanwhile just enjoy getting to know someone and going out and experiencing new things. a lot of your personality was developed with your ex so now you get to find out who you are as an individual
Thank you for this. I haven't watched the whole video yet but I would also add that this breakdown is applicable to any man who is approaching you online including Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat, etc...non dating sites.
You deserve more subscribers. You're a great speaker with great insights. I could have used your videos 5 years ago.
Thank you. I know. I don't think people realise that I still don't get paid for this. I don't make any money off RUclips. (Get no ad revenue despite ads on my videos). People watch and don't subscribe. I used to get pissed about it, but now I figure, if I'm meant to blow up I will and karma will get them for not supporting me haha.
@@text_ghost_love I'm starting a channel and I know how hard it is. Just keep doing what you're doing and keep talking about what you're passionate about. Getting subs and recognition on YT is a challenge. I really do wish you all the best.
"The psychopaths..." Lol, sad but true. Definitely don't go to anybody's house or apartment right off the bat.
This whole thing applies for women as well
Just wondering, has anyone else here used Twinby?
Male dating coaches (and some female) keep saying that the reason why men fail with women is that they have "confidence" issues. Maybe but in my experience it's all about the situation. Thoughts?
Well, any female that does dating advice for men is a pure grifter. They don't care about the men they are 'helping' and wouldn't date half of the men in their comment section!
I don't think it's to do with confidence personally; people like who they like. It's a sad fact of life and most people have been rejected at some point. If a girl likes a shy guy she'll usually do something to help him out imo as long as he's a decent guy.
@@text_ghost_love I do seem to recall that when I was rejected at work quite a few of my male colleagues told me that they wouldn't dare do what I did.
I agree that 80% of women want a husband. But you forgot the other side of this. Women don't know what the men THEY want, want. If you are on Tinder you will only see the bottom percent of men. Real men that are a catch will NOT be on tinder/Bumble/Hinge. Please if you want someone with similar values go and get a hobby and join a group of people that share the same hobbies. ONLINE DATING IS A DEAD END.