The morning after you find out it’s damn hard to be a parent these days.

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • My mom and I dive into differences of being a parent now vs. back when she was, her first impression of Matthew, and how she handled hearing here daughter was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Just talking about real parent shit, no filters.

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  • @nme41473
    @nme41473 3 года назад +13

    1st: I am a lifelong Michigan resident and long time Lions and Stafford (both you and Matthew) fan. Just want to say how happy I am for Matthew he deserves this. He always played his heart out for Detroit!
    2nd: No one walks your path so don’t ever let someone guilt you into second guessing yourself. Especially with your children.
    3rd: Love your podcast. Thanks for being you!

  • @kekevolume2
    @kekevolume2 3 года назад +8

    I love you more every week. I'm a full-time working mom of 3 and full-time student listening while I cook, this was so encouraging.

    • @willcarella
      @willcarella 2 года назад +3

      God bless you mam. Keep working hard because it WILL pay off for you and your children

  • @traciehertzer1552
    @traciehertzer1552 3 года назад +2

    Life long Michigan resident! Always loved you and Matthew. I love you even more after watching these!! Thank you for being so relatable to us and just saying it like it is!!!

  • @sanzzz26
    @sanzzz26 3 года назад +5

    You and your mom nailed all of us Lions fans’ reaction to the loss yesterday. 😳🤭😭 Lions are definitely cursed.

  • @jennahays8030
    @jennahays8030 2 года назад +1

    I had my daughter at 17. I’m 25 and she’s 8 now. Her entire life I have been in school, working, working multiple jobs, etc. the “mom shame” and the guilt I’ve always made myself feel from not being able to handle or being in the place to be a stay at home mom. Your mother saying she was a better mom being outside then coming back in, that and everything you two talked about after that. I needed it. Thank you ♥️

    • @bobby_D
      @bobby_D 2 года назад +1

      I hate that women/moms go through this. I just want good moms to feel great about what they’re doing. Forget these people man. Half of them that are shaming and critiquing you guys probably have miserable kids and miserable existences. Just be yourself and you’re an awesome mother I guarantee it!

    • @jennahays8030
      @jennahays8030 2 года назад

      @@bobby_D That’s really sweet and truly appreciated more than you know. Thank you ♥️🥰

  • @bryceolsen8740
    @bryceolsen8740 3 года назад +8

    "kids don't want seabass" put that on a The Morning After T-shirt and sell it. 😆

  • @jackieheldt7740
    @jackieheldt7740 3 года назад +2

    LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your podcasts!!! They are so relatable and so honest! Thank you for sharing your Hamburg Helper story - I'm like you and your Mom - I hate to cook too and that story was the best, I was laughing so hard :) - As a lifelong Lions fan, you and your Mom's reactions to the Lions' loss on Sunday was spot on. We all feel the same pain, it truly is unbelievable what happens to the Lions! So happy for you and Matthew though - I love seeing him prove the haters how they were wrong! Hope he wins it all! We miss you immensely in Detroit - but love seeing him succeed and showing the Sports world how great he is! ♥

  • @bobby_D
    @bobby_D 2 года назад

    Nobody ever packed my lunch! Kelly sometimes you just have to go old school. You can’t always feel like you gotta keep up with the Jones’s, just be the Stafford’s girl!! You’re crushing life right now!!

  • @sarahrayl7569
    @sarahrayl7569 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing! Your mom is so cute! I love how raw and real you are. ❤️

  • @FindtheRightRoad
    @FindtheRightRoad 3 года назад +4

    The Hamburger Helper story made me bust out laughing! You are doing a great job. Looking forward to next week. GO RAMS!

  • @theresawienandt3128
    @theresawienandt3128 3 года назад +1

    There is no perfect mother as a whole. You just do your best and be the best mom for your children and your life style. You are doing amazing!

  • @abbiehoward3117
    @abbiehoward3117 3 года назад +2

    Love these Shows, Kelly! Thank you!

  • @acegvlgal
    @acegvlgal 3 года назад +2

    You and your Mom are so great together! And you're both phenomenal Moms!! Go Dawgs! Go Rams!

  • @shelbyzdrojewski342
    @shelbyzdrojewski342 3 года назад +3

    Loved the entire thing! As a Michigander, I feel that the Lions organization is absolutely cursed lol but we’re so happy for you guys having some success and fun out in LA finally! I want to hear more about the college Matthew and Kelly!

  • @jamiedeschamps621
    @jamiedeschamps621 3 года назад +5

    Best one yet, I have done both working and staying at home and staying home full time is rough!

  • @mallorypeil2284
    @mallorypeil2284 2 года назад

    Thank you Kelly! I needed to hear this today, more than you can believe. Happiest of Holidays to you and your AMAZING Family.

  • @abigailvickers4597
    @abigailvickers4597 3 года назад

    So so excited to have Matthew as our quarterback, and so grateful for your funny ass podcasts every week. It really is nice to see you and Matthew just be regular ass people!!!!

  • @levifrancisco34
    @levifrancisco34 2 года назад

    Let’s go Matthew!!! I’ve been the biggest Stafford fan since I was 9 years old! Go kick some ass and get that ring buddy. Sending love from Michigan❤️

  • @brentsowers1034
    @brentsowers1034 2 года назад +1

    Hi Kelly; life long Lions fan. First time Rams fan! Go Stafford!!! :) Not sure if you're familiar with the Pontiac Silverdome; Lions haven't played there since 2001/'02, but a few years after that, April 9th, '05, we went there for Supercross and between races we were walking the perimeter (concessions, restrooms) and as we were in a sea of people in a really busy pedestrian intersection I lost my son. I had my 7 yo, Branson, in front of me with my hand on his shoulder 'steering' him and I was holding my 5 yo, Mathew's, hand 'pulling' him behind me. I let go of Mathew's hand for what was supposed to be 2 seconds to wipe sweat off my hand, but when I reached back, again, his hand wasn't there. I immediately turn around and, "holy hell", he's gone. I look left, right, further behind us, ahead of us, where in the %&#$ is Mathew?!?! I frantically run Branson over to a wall by the restrooms and stress to him "Stay. Right. Here. I have to find Mathew". I scramble all over the area, down into the adjacent stands, back up, the whole time praying Branson is where I left him; no Mathew. I go back to Branson feeling defeated, track down a Silverdome employee and then, feeling like the worst dad in the history of forever, I explain what happened as best I can in my panicked state of mind. Anyway, they walk me to a cop, he calmly radios someone, walks away and within a few minutes comes back with Mathew. Not only had he and I got separated, but at one point he walked outside the stadium!!! Luckily a woman noticed him looking confused and helped him find a stadium employee and we were reunited. The whole thing turned out fine, Mathew never even got scared (I sure was) and the cop turned out being a biker cop so the kids thought he was cool; he gave Mathew his business card, I thanked him for basically saving my entire day/life and then we went back to our seats and watched the rest of the races. Wow was that ever scary! Glad to hear I wasn't the only one. Tell your mom she isn't either!

  • @brandonramos4755
    @brandonramos4755 3 года назад +2

    Ay this is a great video! This is like a behind the scenes video of your life. I love it maybe one day you can vlog or add clips. Thank you for sharing this!💙💛

  • @kellypervine6000
    @kellypervine6000 2 года назад +1

    Love your realness

  • @kellypervine6000
    @kellypervine6000 2 года назад

    OMG, love your Mom!!

  • @bobby_D
    @bobby_D 2 года назад

    I love how they still care so much about the Lions. And obviously they’re going to, but it’s so sweet and cool of them. These people are the absolute best.

  • @mirissamelvin5897
    @mirissamelvin5897 3 года назад

    YESSS to the lunch topic! I feel the conversation about the fancy lunches some moms make, so much!

  • @kenwirth8572
    @kenwirth8572 2 года назад +2

    HEARING KELLY TALK IS LIKE DRIVING NAILS IN YOUR EARS

  • @meaganmh09
    @meaganmh09 3 года назад +1

    When you said “how does that happen!? terrible parenting!” when your mom was talking about losing you in the mall I died laughing 😂 My parents did the same thing with me around Christmas when I was like 3-4. I decided to play hide and seek in the clothes racks and they had the shut down the entire mall to find me.

  • @clavaute
    @clavaute 3 года назад

    You were 💯 with all of your parenting thoughts, thanks for always telling it like it is and being truly authentic ❤️❤️ so much Stafford love coming to you from Detroit!!

  • @awhitten32
    @awhitten32 3 года назад

    Thanks for being relatable AF. I cracked up the 1st time I heard you say fuck and seriously like you more every time you swear because yup that’s #RealLife. Life long Detroiter and Lions fan here-but obvs rooting for the Rams this season!

  • @claudiaflores7535
    @claudiaflores7535 3 года назад +1

    I’m not even a mom lol but I loved this episode! great talk

  • @bryceolsen8740
    @bryceolsen8740 3 года назад +2

    I think y'all are amazing parents and amazing people and doing an amazing job, parenting is fucking hard, but I would just reiterate what your mom said, I think it would be good for them to wait in lines like the "real world" kids.

  • @theresaresendez8471
    @theresaresendez8471 3 года назад +1

    Wow! I truly love this podcast! You're so entertaining and truly relatable! I'm really proud to have you as the Matriarch of our Ramily! God Bless! #StaffordStrong #GoRams #RamsHouse

  • @dianestephenson4662
    @dianestephenson4662 3 года назад

    Love our Leslie! Enjoyed this a great deal!

  • @bobby_D
    @bobby_D 2 года назад

    That is everything I ate as a kid. Hamburger helper (so freaking good, hamburger meat with noodles uhhhgg yum!) spaghetti, sloppy joes, tacos, soup, and that’s about it. Unreal that we had like the same shit! Haha

  • @alisoncarr9038
    @alisoncarr9038 3 года назад

    Love Love Love these Podcasts Kelly!!! Been following you on IG for yeaaarrrrssssss!!!! Love watching Matthew play behind a great team! Please keep being you and sharing this raw content we all love! From a fellow Michigander!

  • @belovednada
    @belovednada 2 года назад

    I don't know why: I just love Kelly Stafford: she's so natural: I'm a long times Rams fan first, but this is so cool!

  • @Michele-vl6mf
    @Michele-vl6mf 3 года назад +1

    Hello from Michigan! Love your podcast/youtube channel. Looking forward to more.

  • @darlenemasich8727
    @darlenemasich8727 3 года назад

    You ladies are great people miss you as my customers and Tatiana

  • @brandon3898
    @brandon3898 2 года назад

    this happens in every family.... step it up

  • @zachrizzo6525
    @zachrizzo6525 3 года назад +2

    Best new podcast award

  • @GoldenSportsEnt
    @GoldenSportsEnt 3 года назад +4

    A nut free school? 😭 California is something else lol

  • @DudeTubing
    @DudeTubing 8 месяцев назад

    Haha that loss last night. Go Lions!

  • @annetteklepadlo8819
    @annetteklepadlo8819 3 года назад +2

    I don't think the refs like us Lions 😡

    • @annetteklepadlo8819
      @annetteklepadlo8819 3 года назад

      Not that I play for the Lions 🤣 but you know what I mean.

    • @JohnnyCage333
      @JohnnyCage333 3 года назад

      We got screwed again by the refs. No call on an obvious delay of game. Sigh. Onto the Chicago Bears. We will win!👍🏻🏈

  • @jaya1000
    @jaya1000 3 года назад

    I dont do Disneyland lines either. Knotts has 1/2 the food options, which is enough, and some great coasters.

  • @kenwirth8572
    @kenwirth8572 2 года назад

    WHEN THE REMOVED THE TUMOR IT WAS SO HARD BECAUSE THEY COULD NOTTT FIND A BRAIN AT ALL!!!!!!!IT WAS ALL MUSH

  • @doloresmanakis3995
    @doloresmanakis3995 3 года назад

    Great podcast Kelly. Dont worry what people think. I think you maybe put more pressure on yourself beause you are in the spot light. Don't worry about the Karen's out there. I really don't give a s**t what people think of me. Like your mom said we are out here just trying to get through the day and doing our best. Like I tell my adult children I did my best you seem to have turned out great💜💜💜 Your children are going to turn out great💚

  • @thouzenhanced6492
    @thouzenhanced6492 3 года назад +3

    When will Matt be in one of your Podcast videos?

  • @PB-pl4vn
    @PB-pl4vn 3 года назад

    Kelly: I get critiqued
    Kelly's mom: But there is so much put out there ruclips.net/video/TeBQCYCqpXQ/видео.html. LOL

  • @willcarella
    @willcarella 3 года назад +3

    When is Matthew coming on :)

  • @vincenthernandez2299
    @vincenthernandez2299 8 месяцев назад

    RUclips KIDS! And monitor what they watch you can legit add a passcode for certain videoss where they have to put it in to watch and only us parents know the code lol

  • @cindymckee5831
    @cindymckee5831 3 года назад

    Your mom is a hoot! Great video.

  • @buncherdaniels9756
    @buncherdaniels9756 2 года назад

    Did you quit making these? I enjoyed em 😞

  • @sherrya3545
    @sherrya3545 3 года назад +1

    omg that was the best, you guys are just alike.....lmao You
    have 4 kids under 4, if their fed, clothed and in one piece your rocking girl!!! Bless your heart I would prob commit harry carry....lol

  • @AmandaHayes_16
    @AmandaHayes_16 3 года назад

    you are SO STRONG!!! how do you feel now after surgery? would you say you are basically back to feeling normal?

  • @abigailvickers4597
    @abigailvickers4597 3 года назад +2

    Please start filming while watching the games!!!!

  • @melvindodson6827
    @melvindodson6827 Год назад +1

    You are so wonderful and beautiful

  • @CraigBrandvold
    @CraigBrandvold 3 года назад

    Raising kids is hard. I don't believe there is a right or wrong way to do it. Instead, you have to do what's right by your own kids and by YOU. And that may be different for each one. We have two, both are now adults. They had different rules, different chores, a lot of different things. They are different people. Both have turned out wonderful. We didn't have means when they were little, but we tried to show them unconditional love in everything. Today, they only remember the fun times as a family. Keep being YOU. Do what you feel is best for your kids and your family. You seem to have a wonderful foundation (thanks Mom!) - trust it and your kids will be amazing people. Thanks for being transparent. It gives me hope! ("only the Lions" is so true and has been for a LONG time, oh my poor heart)

  • @philwhipple4557
    @philwhipple4557 3 года назад +1

    Just wait until those little girls become teenagers. You've got it easy now.

  • @zachrizzo6525
    @zachrizzo6525 3 года назад

    Love to hear some Bulldog talk on the next one. They look even better than Alabama

  • @kenyataliaferro8825
    @kenyataliaferro8825 3 года назад

    I understand the lessons & values you're trying to teach your children, but I find nothing wrong with giving your children the privileges you've worked hard to be able to give them. I don't have children, but I'll be damed before I'd wait in line for anything if I could afford not to lol. No one should tell you how to raise your children

  • @aintenidA
    @aintenidA 3 года назад

    Hamburger Helper !!!! I love it

    • @tonidreist7134
      @tonidreist7134 3 года назад

      I was cracking up! Helper is the second word, no hamburger/beef included LOL. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ethanrios1010
    @ethanrios1010 3 года назад

    Try to forget the lions your a ram now

    • @JohnnyCage333
      @JohnnyCage333 3 года назад +1

      Their hearts will always be in Detroit😉🏈