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  • @nita8619
    @nita8619 3 года назад +233

    I'm single, but it's better than being with the wrong person and being without Jesus. It could be worst. Thank you Jesus for saving🙌 me

    • @rockstar-kp2jy
      @rockstar-kp2jy 3 года назад +2

      😃🙌🏼

    • @bereanist
      @bereanist 3 года назад +4

      I was married for 30 years and he and his demons left last year and I am enjoying Jesus a lot more in my life! I will not ever trust another man & all I need is Jesus🙌
      You’re wise Nina! I had to learn as I grew spiritually in the Lord.

    • @MrMusicboi85
      @MrMusicboi85 3 года назад +1

      Amen amen amen

    • @piweyanga3488
      @piweyanga3488 3 года назад +1

      Amen!!!! May the Lord honour you for waiting on Him🙏.

    • @lovefelix1566
      @lovefelix1566 3 года назад +1

      Nina B.... so true!!!!

  • @imtheprize
    @imtheprize 3 года назад +117

    I have faith in God's timing and I trust Him 100%. I just get a little impatient and needy from time to time.

    • @monaedawson4523
      @monaedawson4523 3 года назад +3

      So true 😇. My Faith is strong and I'll admit this past week, I experienced the neediness(hoping to meet my God sent). I'm grateful to have an awesome team of accountability partners. God bless you Sis #Gods Plan🙏

    • @bereanist
      @bereanist 3 года назад +6

      It is hard to be patient with anything. Keep close to Jesus. 😇

    • @safi.4537
      @safi.4537 3 года назад +1

      When I read relationship stories in the Bible, I have yet to find a woman looking, yearning, waiting to find a man to get married. But I do see Isaac, Jacob, David, I see the King seeking for a queen, I read that A Man must leave & cleave, when HE FINDS a wife, it’s a good thing. Marriage is for PURPOSE, why do we women sooo want to get married??

    • @Womenswell022
      @Womenswell022 3 года назад

      @@safi.4537 But there are account of women who prepared for marriage too: Ruth, Esther. It has to do with how we were designed by God. We are helpers. So, we need to locate that person. It is not the parrot's fault or stupidity that makes it want to chat. It was created, wired and designed that way. Infact, even if you make up your not to marry and have a child. Someday, you will just find yourself wishing you had children...And you wouldn't know where the thoughts are coming from. This may not be the case for every woman due to so many cofounding factors. But remember, Jesus always responded to questions like this, by taking us back to the original counsel of God at the beginning of time. Blessings

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад

      This alright we all been there but once you realize that God is saving the best for you because don't want you to settle

  • @theinstructionalarchitect
    @theinstructionalarchitect 3 года назад +41

    I was among some women last night and I had to say that I'm grateful that none of the relationships I thought I wanted ended up in marriage because now that I have greater understanding I realize that I would have been in some serious marital problems because they were not the right ones and it wasn't the right time. Marriage isn't as the world leads us to think...a marriage has a greater purpose than just satisfying physical needs and wants. It also requires us to be our best selves; being able to love and accept love, forgive, give grace, be patient etc. If we are honest with ourselves; we struggle with those things so I say - Thank you ABBA! You see the end from the beginning and be it unto me when you see fit🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @vineyardprophecy5073
    @vineyardprophecy5073 3 года назад +62

    Mandisa you’re stunning! Your hair is your crown of glory!

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 3 года назад +4

      And her makeup is flawless

  • @jennahope4353
    @jennahope4353 3 года назад +60

    love the transparency mandisa always leads with. the random "why" moments..... childless and ended my engagement.

  • @TiffanyBTV
    @TiffanyBTV 3 года назад +62

    Such an on time word. 🙏🏾 I’ve been struggling with Gods Timing. I’m learning to take the back seat as God is the Pilot.

  • @orlenecharles6590
    @orlenecharles6590 3 года назад +18

    I know Mandisa is finding it hard to be single...for years every show shes on shes talking about being single. Its super hard to live satisfied and single if you're sooooo focused on it. When I was single...I asked God if I was getting married one day or naw. Because if God, If youre giving me the gift of singleness, PLEASE tell me. So I can focus on ministry. But if I am going to get married, tell me and I promise I won't ask who or when...I'll just trust you and wait.
    Well, at that moment the lord answered me yes, you will get married one day. Then I said..ok....I forgot about that prayer...focused on school, work and church...I was married 10years later.

  • @steflondon88
    @steflondon88 3 года назад +64

    I'm so in the same boat as Mandisa.... It's not easy!!!

    • @daniellep12
      @daniellep12 3 года назад +6

      This is so good. I serve at church & lead a YA ministry. I have always felt where is the person that God has for me.

    • @tsuemafcon6860
      @tsuemafcon6860 3 года назад +3

      Me too. Not easy at all

    • @keishamcneil1865
      @keishamcneil1865 3 года назад +1

      Amen

  • @kahnicacole5692
    @kahnicacole5692 3 года назад +7

    I just love that she reminded us that God knew us before we were formed. That He created us for a purpose. All of us.

  • @steflondon88
    @steflondon88 3 года назад +51

    I'm like "God this don't feel so good". But its His good and I have to surrender and respect that, trusting that someday Ill see the big picture.

  • @LavenderGreer
    @LavenderGreer 3 года назад +27

    I'm single.. Enjoying it.. Also waiting for the man god wants me to be with

  • @safi.4537
    @safi.4537 3 года назад +30

    I found this verse during my devotion; Isaiah 54:5...I said really that’s in the Bible? And the Lord whispered and said” marriage is for purpose, MY purpose”. Every woman does not have to want to be or get married. It’s a social & traditional push on women & not Men.

  • @CherylThomasSpeaks
    @CherylThomasSpeaks 3 года назад +8

    Yes! God he’s not afraid of our honesty. He actually welcomes it. It’s not like He doesn’t know what we are thinking anyway. So I agree. The best place to bring those questions is to God. He’s the only one with the true answer.

  • @mianaomipost9885
    @mianaomipost9885 3 года назад +6

    I will be honest, I’m married to the perfect man for me and there’s still hardships like loss of kids that we have to endure for the perfect timing. I had gotten to a point where I resented hearing the words timing...We’re like Abraham and Job mixed into one story-that’s tough! It’s tough whether single or married to wait.

  • @mikeskybrowser
    @mikeskybrowser 3 года назад +8

    At one point I was also wondering why am I still single when I was willing to find someone and marry. During a particular church service it became clear to me through the pastors teaching on preparation, I wasn't ready. It hit there's a major difference between being willing and being ready. This was about a year ago and since then I've learnt so much about relationships and marriages, the more I learn the more I realize that if God had provided me with someone earlier then I probably would've messed it up.

  • @LisalovesMichael
    @LisalovesMichael 3 года назад +17

    I don't want to settle. I almost did. And God saved me. His true character came out...and it was ugly😔

  • @rezhabte2447
    @rezhabte2447 3 года назад +3

    Amen I trust your timing Father God . grant us the grace to wait for your perfect timing in Jesus name Amen

  • @deborahmyers7120
    @deborahmyers7120 3 года назад +10

    First I want to say Mandesa you look so beautiful!
    Second, you women are so blessed. I wish I had known God and had women like you in my life when I was younger. I am single, 64 taking care of my 90 yr old mom :) I divorced at 49, never dated or remarried. I feel I am where God wants me right now. Be patient, live your life for the Lord. He will bring you what you need and when you need it. Have a blessed day ❤

  • @untrappedwithasandasibobi3758
    @untrappedwithasandasibobi3758 3 года назад +15

    I agree with Mandisa, going straight to God is the best. I did that a while back and He told me what I need to work on. I am busy with that and it brings me such peace and comfort to know that He is at work even if that "work" has nothing to do with anyone else. Ask.

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  3 года назад

      Amen! Thank you for sharing your testimony of how God is at work in your life! 💜

  • @RoyalMasterpiece
    @RoyalMasterpiece 3 года назад +11

    Thank you, Mandisa, for your transparency. You have been a huge source of encouragement for me. God bless you. ❤️

  • @shantechavis2489
    @shantechavis2489 2 года назад +1

    Love you Mandisa! U always speak what alot of us are thinking😊

  • @karenpelletier412
    @karenpelletier412 3 года назад +4

    I so admire Mandisa. She is Real, not like the plastic, botox christian women that pretend to care about you.

  • @2bethankful48
    @2bethankful48 3 года назад +6

    Amen Perfect word ! I know Gods timing is always on time. Psalms130:5 I wait for the Lord , my soul does wait . And in His word do I hope. Ladies so good! 👍☺

  • @marjorymsuku9312
    @marjorymsuku9312 3 года назад +1

    "Nothing happens to me;
    it happens for me."❤❤

  • @missmlb3842
    @missmlb3842 3 года назад +14

    Mandisa is lovely! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏I know the feeling. 46 and single...never married / no children

    • @Florenge777
      @Florenge777 3 года назад +1

      It is hard 😞 trust on God

    • @beverleyreid7572
      @beverleyreid7572 3 года назад +1

      So what though? Not everyone is going to be married & have children. Be content with self and have a purpose. Be a big sister/brother

    • @missmlb3842
      @missmlb3842 3 года назад +15

      @@beverleyreid7572 and then there were Job's friends. Correct and great religious counsel but not much compassion for folks going through a process of grieving that fact.
      Read the story of Hannah. She cried and cried ...and cried until she couldn't get the words out. Then the Lord heard her cry and opened her womb. She bore Samuel the prophet. Never say never to a God who can do the impossible if marriage is His will.

    • @DrTanika
      @DrTanika 3 года назад +8

      @@beverleyreid7572 my great grandma died in the early 1980’s. She had her 13th child at 60. My paternal-grandma had her 9th at 50. So miss me with your harsh critique in an effort to snap someone back into what you deem is reality. Btw my great grandma died at 106 and lived to raise all of her children. My paternal grandma lived till 90 and raised all of hers too. Carry on “big sis.”

    • @DrTanika
      @DrTanika 3 года назад +2

      Be encouraged! It ain’t over till you leave this physical world. Job friends almost got themselves killed by God. Job had to do sacrifices on their behalf❤️❤️❤️

  • @gacrrab
    @gacrrab 3 года назад +9

    God bless you ladies! So encouraging ❤ God really is with us in every moment of our journey, this video coming at time is evidence of that. Thank you all! 🙏

  • @shantechavis2489
    @shantechavis2489 2 года назад

    Yes Robin!!! Thanku for that reminder! 🙌🏾💚🙌🏾💚🙌🏾💚🙌🏾💚🙌🏾

  • @charityowusu-asare7965
    @charityowusu-asare7965 3 года назад +2

    Thanks so much Madisa! It's so interesting hearing you speak. I am single and been trusting God for my God ordained husband.
    Completely being honest with God has been very helpful. One day I got back from work to an empty apartment and I just found myself say" God I have no idea what you are up to....I do not understand you at this point but I trust in you!
    It's a deep seated assurance I have that God is too faithful to fail me. The journey hasn't been easy but so WORTH IT!

  • @meccajohnson7773
    @meccajohnson7773 3 года назад +2

    Thank you lord for caring about your children. Help me lord to trust your timing and for the one that you set apart for me. 🤲🙏🙏❤

  • @jasmineadjei2552
    @jasmineadjei2552 3 года назад +1

    How powerful! Yes the word 🙌🏾

  • @treasurewithinu
    @treasurewithinu 3 года назад +1

    Amen! Much needed word. Refreshing.

  • @ulricka2131
    @ulricka2131 3 года назад +1

    Humm nothing happens to me but everything happens for me. Indeed.💡

  • @jyvonne2051
    @jyvonne2051 3 года назад +1

    OMG...I am not alone! This message uplifted me today!! As God's beloved...no hurry..no worry..my God is on time for me!!🙌🏽💛!! Thank you women of GOD!!💖💖

  • @nicolersmith432571
    @nicolersmith432571 3 года назад +5

    I love you ladies!! God bless you all always 🙏 ❤

  • @jillpruett3444
    @jillpruett3444 3 года назад +6

    I heard that you should become the kind of person you're looking for, since we are attracted to people like minded.
    Pray your future spouse is obedient to what the Lord is telling them to do or be. They could be running from God.
    Don't settle because of loneliness.

  • @jenniferclark1217
    @jenniferclark1217 3 года назад +1

    Awesome Word!! We have to know that there is a purpose for the right now and that every day matters. Yes- thank you for the reminder!!

  • @terrenceemmanueledidembass1315
    @terrenceemmanueledidembass1315 3 года назад

    Thank you LADIES JOB WELL DONE each of ladies HAVE LEAD THE WAY FOR GENERATIONS THAT COME AFTER YOU KNOWING YOUR WORDS WILL BE TRUTH TODAY, TOMORROW AND FOREVER MORE I ACKNOWLEDGE THR SACRIFICES THAT HAS BEEN MADE BUT LOOK HOW THAT SACRIFICE WORKED OUT FOR YOUR LIFE TO BE BLESSED DOING SOMETHING THAT BRINGS YOU JOY AND THAT CAN BE SHARED WITH OTHERS THROUGHOUT THE WORLD YOUNG AND OLD.

  • @ZariahsCreations
    @ZariahsCreations 3 года назад +1

    Awesome session!! Thank you for tapping in on this.

  • @themavilakazi
    @themavilakazi 3 года назад +1

    I think it's a good question. Nowadays I feel it's up to me to remain single and up to me when to date. This just made me realize God is the one who knows why I am and just be in my mind that it's not really up to me but God.

  • @LimaB30
    @LimaB30 3 года назад

    Love it, honest and open

  • @MrMusicboi85
    @MrMusicboi85 3 года назад

    Amen this is an awesome word

  • @yanettethomas6002
    @yanettethomas6002 3 года назад

    Amen,love this message

  • @ihama99
    @ihama99 3 года назад +8

    Single Parents too.

  • @victoryfire4750
    @victoryfire4750 3 года назад

    Beautiful & Mighty women of God ❤🔥😇 Thank you 😇

  • @kathywherry9810
    @kathywherry9810 3 года назад +3

    I’m single and I say the same and ask the same.

  • @CoachKarenOliver
    @CoachKarenOliver 3 года назад +1

    Amen! So True

  • @aubrey__
    @aubrey__ 3 года назад +1

    The energy of this video was so funny😂 I love this channel!❤️

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  3 года назад +1

      We are so happy to hear how you enjoyed this clip! Thanks for watching! 💜

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 2 года назад

    Amen this is honest truth about being single I love what Dr Roylan said about how God see us But sometimes we look at others we think we'll they didn't have wait that long before God brought their husband.. Then on the other hand God have others to wait lot longer sometimes it's probably we not ready yet or the person who God has for us he have to prepare they. Either way it's still all in God timing we definitely don't want go out pick someone on our own that's being desperate.But if we be about God business doing what he called us to do, before you know it that's when the blessing show up yes I love that song he on time God yes he truly is he never late about anything God give it to us when know we are ready

  • @YolandeBeyala
    @YolandeBeyala 2 года назад

    I'm single and really need this season in my life... I need to be the woman Jesus wants me to be for my Kingdom husband and it feels good to WAIT for him... Now I'm just praying to be ready when it's the right time...😊🙏🏽

  • @jcsgrl359
    @jcsgrl359 3 года назад

    Can I just say Melinda you look so amazing! I have not seen her onscreen since AI.

  • @theroberts596
    @theroberts596 3 года назад +1

    "Understanding the purpose of things will help you use and enjoy things the way they were created to be enjoyed. The purpose of marriage is not so you can be happy. You are supposed to help bring happiness to the marriage."
    (The Art Of Being Still-Single)

  • @MDGirl8911
    @MDGirl8911 3 года назад +1

    I feel the same way. Lord what's going on I see so many ladies with husbands that they don't even treat their husbands right, and I'm like Lord let me get my husband and see how good I will be to him, and You too Lord I'm not going to leave you out Jesus, or my family/ and or friends!! November 14 2020 7:51 PM

  • @allieblack8475
    @allieblack8475 3 года назад +2

    Heavenly Father ❣️ in Jesus Name Holy Spirit thank you Lord Amen

  • @thelords3394
    @thelords3394 3 года назад

    Amen!🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @jillianf8th
    @jillianf8th 3 года назад

    Amen

  • @lifeembassy623
    @lifeembassy623 3 года назад

    Nothing happens to me everything happens for me amen god has a plan

  • @aleciariddick7719
    @aleciariddick7719 3 года назад

    Can you imagine having the right person at the wrong time cause I do and I’m mad. I want him now but he’s not ready for God or me. I keep asking God if he is the one and he says yes but wrong time. The thing I hate most is I can’t walk away in peace for the right timing. I already love my future husband but he gets on my last nerves because it’s not time.

  • @Ladeeluc7
    @Ladeeluc7 2 месяца назад

    So sad 😭 God Never answered her prayers and then she died. She was never married. 😢Rest in Heaven and Peace Beautiful Queen Mandisa. 🕊️🙏🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜💜🙏🙏🙏🙏🕊️

  • @irenekaweesa2761
    @irenekaweesa2761 3 года назад

    Nothing happens to me...things happen for me

  • @rashidalyles1428
    @rashidalyles1428 3 года назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @marlainacerdas2569
    @marlainacerdas2569 3 года назад +4

    What if it’s Gods will for some of us to be single? Will we still be content with Gods will. Not saying that’s you but still.

    • @Womenswell022
      @Womenswell022 3 года назад +4

      I asked God that question and he gave me an answer. Everybody should ask him for his will...

    • @AshAlexander212
      @AshAlexander212 3 года назад +2

      God puts a desire in our heart and then he brings to pass that desire(whether it be singleness or marriage or whatever else). As we grow in Christ we may realize we only wanted marriage because we thought that’s what we should want or that would make us complete or we may truly discover it is a desire God has put in us. We just have to trust God in that process and be patient with ourselves. We are content with Gods will when we are mature.

    • @marlainacerdas2569
      @marlainacerdas2569 3 года назад

      @@AshAlexander212 Amen.

    • @EmmaneTheCreated
      @EmmaneTheCreated 3 года назад

      @@Womenswell022 What did He tell you?

    • @Womenswell022
      @Womenswell022 3 года назад

      @@EmmaneTheCreated I wished I could tell you...

  • @LimaB30
    @LimaB30 3 года назад

    💖💖💖💕💕💕💕💕

  • @patiencekatusiime9056
    @patiencekatusiime9056 3 года назад

    Am single and I just don't care anymore I prefer God's works to marriage no commandment says and thee shall get married

  • @joannabean2907
    @joannabean2907 3 года назад

    Leave it to Him who judges justly.

  • @sochiumadia6738
    @sochiumadia6738 3 года назад +14

    Omg I hardly hear these women talk about things like career and trusting God’s timing with careers, finances, etc. It’s always about singleness. We really need to deviate from this topic and talk about other issues that also affect our lives!

    • @meshiawarren4167
      @meshiawarren4167 3 года назад +5

      I was thinking the same thing. I would like to hear more word and the power of the Lord and how they are being used. It becomes so cliche as if this is only thing women can get together and talk about. I have been married for 10 years and married when I was 33. I remember being in a singles group and this was always the conversation. I left the group and dove deeper into the word. God open doors for me to experience him and not just sitting around for a man. I encourage all single women to tap into your purpose for your life and God will take care of the rest. Marriage is a ministry and if you are not being prepared to serve, don't rush the order.

    • @ericastone3998
      @ericastone3998 3 года назад +24

      @@meshiawarren4167 Mandisa is 44, its a topic that is needed to be discussed for those who have been waiting a long time. you have not experienced what women like her have experienced and because you married at 33 you have no idea how difficult it gets at times. Its a very important topic that needs a lot of attention.

    • @mawia9004
      @mawia9004 3 года назад

      True

    • @ifeo.9774
      @ifeo.9774 3 года назад +4

      @@ericastone3998 thank you for noting this. Everyone is not in the same space. I am 41 and I want to be married to the right man. It doesn't stop me from pursuing my career and serving God. But it helps to hear the journey of others and how their Faith in God is playing out.

  • @NavyLady82
    @NavyLady82 3 года назад

    Im tired of looking up and Mandira is still single. Her energy is that of a single person. No one is perfect but there is something under the surface. Just because married women are married doesn't mean they are perfect,it just means they are married.

  • @tracey1brave.
    @tracey1brave. 3 года назад +8

    GOD doesn't tell us to wait to Marry but be Wise in who you Choose to Marry. The Church tells women to wait but not GOD you won't find wait to be Married in the scriptures. You will see in the scriptures to choose to be Married or Stay Single. Every man we encounter we can Choose to Be his wife or not. Also don't limit yourself with your preferences on looks rather than, character, responsibility, integrity, relationship with JESUS and others. Be open to other Nationalities. Be confident and don't go looking but Live and enjoy your life by yourself with yourself. As the scriptures say Marriage brings Trouble.

    • @esteeut
      @esteeut 3 года назад +2

      You said a lot of good things. I like your reference to scripture supporting that we can choose to be married or to be single.

    • @tracey1brave.
      @tracey1brave. 3 года назад

      @@esteeut Wonderful. I hope it encourages you to go Live the Abundant Life JESUS gave us.

    • @Gabriellecrio
      @Gabriellecrio 3 года назад +1

      Yes. I agree with this cos we began dating and the way marriage used to be was arranged and helped by parents. It may be that no one has paid attention to who we are but if a woman isn’t chosen yet, she’s free to live without law and restrictions of marriage, to serve God and grow tremendously on her own. God knows the why of all things. Though it may not be easy.

    • @tracey1brave.
      @tracey1brave. 3 года назад

      @@Gabriellecrio I agree during Biblical times arranged Marriage was a custom and in some religions it still is. It is the man's responsibility to seek a Wife, (Proverbs) now if a man isn't seeking a Wife, but oftentimes today in American Society not many man want to get Married. He may just want to have sex and/or cohabitation which you're correct the woman suffers. She wants a permanent commitment but he doesn't. Sadly, many women lower their standards and settle for less by being a girlfriend or a sex mate instead of a Wife and/or Help mate. (Genesis)

    • @EmmaneTheCreated
      @EmmaneTheCreated 3 года назад +1

      I agree with what you're saying at the mean time I think it's important to be with someone you're attracted to

  • @dellascott163
    @dellascott163 3 года назад +2

    Sometimes, God has sent the right person ladies, but he doesn't look like what you want because you're looking for your idea of a husband.

  • @qwaxerty
    @qwaxerty 3 года назад +2

    I don't trust God's timing and probably never will and this has nothing to do with being single 🤣.

  • @Eaststoriestv
    @Eaststoriestv 3 года назад +2

    Her husband could be her photographer,her graphic designer friend,Her drummer or a barber etc etc. But usually successful women think they “Deserve” someone equally rich because they the women are rich. I have stopped having pity on rich women who are single because 9% out of 10% are just stubborn waiting on their“ideal” partner. They conveniently hear Gods word when the guy is rich or fits their spec sheet but if a guy is making less than them or not in the same social standing,They shut out Gods word about the guy and refuse hear what God is saying.

  • @canduscanty8583
    @canduscanty8583 3 года назад

    Mimicking worldly tv shows is what's wrong with the world today the most High isn't an imitator smh

  • @paulettepoole5476
    @paulettepoole5476 3 года назад +1

    GOD'S TIMING IS PERFECT
    JOE BIDEN FOR PRESIDENT🇺🇸🇺🇸