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Hey Men, Acting This Way Will Kill Her Libido
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- Опубликовано: 25 дек 2022
- A new study has indicated that the popular term "man child" is actually a real phenomenon, and contributes to low sex drives in women. Cenk Uygur, Jayar Jackson, and Sharon Reed discuss on The Young Turks. Watch TYT LIVE on weekdays 6-8 pm ET.
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"Indeed, they found when women perform more household labour than their partner, they tend to see them like a dependent child. This, unsurprisingly, reduces their sexual desire for that person. Ongoing inequalities in domestic labour have even been cited as why more women file for divorce than men."
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According to one American housewife, signs inlude: being lazy, incompetent, releasing a series of NFTs of yourself...
Some 45 years ago, one of my aunts told me never to marry a man who needs a mother. There are women who've known this for a long time.
So true! It seems like there's a fine line regarding men's relationship with their mothers and how they function in relationships. For example, it's often a red flag if a man isn't close with his mother at all (but not always, as some mothers are abusive and understandably cut off). But it's also a red flag if a man is too close with his mother! Mature men will typically have a healthy relationship with their mother, meaning she's in their life, but not suffocating them. My ex's mother was so demanding of his time, and he always put her before our child and myself.
@@0blivvy8 I don’t see it as a red flag at all, I would prefer if they weren’t close with their family or glorified family members. Being neutral and distant saves a lot of long term grief and problems. It just gets worse over time.
Omg I feel this soul deep. I'm 46 and broke up with my man child , of 49. He has absolutely flayed my libido. I'm done, but unfortunately breaking up in 2022, means they ain't going anywhere soon. I'm stuck with a roommate that sleeps in my bed. It's exhausting and disappointing. Seriously it's not that hard to rinse a dish and put it in the dishwasher.
All parasites are dependent on other life forms.
Can we hear his side, or is this just an Adelle/Taylor Swift fan club meeting?
@@SamLanena Sam Sam Sam Sam Sammy Sam Sam Sammy boy...... We have already heard enough from your fearful bigoted incel group.....
If you cannot treat women and other humans with any sort of respect or humanity, then please just STFU. You have no humanity.... Real men do not need to harm women in order to feel more manly..... Real men respect human rights and value other humans.... Real men see women as human persons worthy of the same respect we expect..... Real men hate the cowardly f***ks that are delusional enough to believe they have anything worthy to offer women other than hate and misogyny..... Real men are disgusted by the likes of people that speak as you do, Sammy boy. GTFOH
@@SamLanena You don't want to hear 'his side', you already know what you think about all of these situational examples being expressed.
What do you expect for his side to be? "I'm tired when I get home from a long hard day at work, I just don't notice the minutiae of a few dishes in the sink or a stray sock on the floor. I don't see how this is a big deal" Newsflash, Everyone's tried. Everyone still needs to contribute to cleaning up their own messses, at minimum.
You hit the wall 💥
I can understand that. One day I came home from work and my gf had assembled a dresser we bought from IKEA all by herself. It was a turn on. I thought I would have to do it, seeing her be resourceful was hot.
You're a wierdo.
@@cyber6sapien you're an incel
@@dtfonmyballs8752 I'd rather be that than be a guy who gets turned on by seeing his girl do "manly things".
@@cyber6sapien wow you would rather be someone who is laughed at and reviled than a person who likes equality? Yep your right changes are coming. Just not the way you think.
The 'not noticing' the dishes until I stop doing them for a few days is bad enough but whenever he does ANY task he makes a big show out of it, announcing that he had to put dishes in the washer and "we" really should not let them pile up because there's a smell in the disposal (sure. Not like I put my dishes directly I to the washer...to avoid the sink stink or anything) or will literally text to say that there's a load of clothes in the wash just kills me. If I announced every time I did the wash, or dishes, or vaccumed, or restocked the fridge, or changed the channel/show after something ended it would be like a depressing FOX News ticker. Weaponizing incompetence is such bullshit. You're an adult, you're very intelligent, you don't get to pull "well I don't know where {dish/utensil/whatever} is supposed to go...". C'mon guys, you don't get to have it both ways.
Sounds like you should start texting them when you do the chores too. That’s the only way to show the silliness. But that is if you want to be petty. But that tit for tat is a sign of a failing/toxic relationship; re-evaluate.
What I find amazing about the "revelation" of adult-children is that men can recognize the expressed behavior in a woman, but don't recognize the behavior in themselves.
Literally most women I’ve dated, and yeah having to clean up after a grown adult is definitely a mood killer.
Exactly, this isn't a male/female thing. This is a responsible adult thing.
@@demontooth i agree 👍
Really? Maybe it's time to question your choices.
@@demontooth it is an adult thing but the culture of teaching boys outdoor chores and girls indoor chores makes the issue prevalent among more men than women. It’s a social construct that needs to go away.
Used to call that a "mama's boy", because mama had to do all the shit for him & he was worthless.
Your wife is your partner, not your mom.
Preach it!
Unless you've opened a law firm or a bank, she's not your "partner." Your wife is your wife.
@@georgecrumb8442 wrong
@@georgecrumb8442 Exactly. If men are expected to protect and provider, we are not partners. When women want to be equal when it comes to paying bills and dangerous situations, we can be partners.
Appreciate the person you are with and don't take them for granted. Help them out like the way they help you out. Don't take advantage of someone's kindness because it became "the usual"
💯💯💯💯
People don't like adult children period. Regardless of gender.
Men-childness has to be an unconcious situation, because Weaponized Incompetence is FOR SURE intentional and also much worse
I have been in a relationship were I did everything in the home. And she wondered why I was in no mood for sex. It goes both ways.
So… it's unattractive, to be incompetent, irresponsible, insensitive, and ungrateful?
…
Good.
That's what happens when mothers spoiled their sons.. because they don't want a woman.. they want another mama... smh
Women-childern aren't desirable either. Two divorces and I am done. My children are more of a help than my ex-wives ever were.
I was in a fraternity in college in the 1980s. The chapter had a program to get girls to do their work for them. They were called Little Sisters. The girls were given the meaningless title so they would think it was their chapter too. The amount of work it took to organize the girls took away from the time spent on being a fraternity. It made the members dependent on others to get things done. Basically they were infantilized as 3 year olds who needed a girl to do everything for them. The term Little Sister also infantilized the girls. When I suggested that real men shoulder their own responsibilities and not dump them on a girl they threw a giant tantrum like 3 year olds. I had no respect for any of them so I quit.
criminy, that sounded like a hellhole of a college to go to. good on you to jump ship when able to.
Sounds like a hellhole of a fraternity, run by idiots.
Were the women *really* doing the work, or just going along with it to hang out with a bunch of infantile guys they were hoping would grow up once they didn't fail out of college?
ETA: I, too, am glad you left the frat. What a nuisance.
I was never involved in the Greek system, but the people I knew who did this viewed it as basically a dating service/meat market.
The Fraternity-Sorority 'system' is also why we see so many people in business and government 'rise to the level of their incompetence'... the system is 'designed' so that wealthy and would-be wealthy lazy parasites can illegally give each other 'preference' in hiring and promotion.
Soooooo...when are women going to start teaching their sons again to start cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, taking care of babies the exact same way my mother taught and raised me?
I would rather do that than get under a truck.
I just recently got out of a 10 year relationship with a person I would describe as "emotionally and maturely stunted". This sounds about the same. What a waste of 10 years. Most of that time I spent feeling too guilty to leave him because I know he can't take care of himself and will most likely end up homeless again. There was quite a bit of emotional abuse as well. Don't let guilt override your life.
Congratulations! Staying with someone because he can't take care of himself is never going to end well.
But try to not view it as a waste. Every experience is valuable somehow, and if only for you to know what you do not want in a future partner.
How many kids did you have together?
He can't take care of himself and has been homeless? What a prize.
Not just guys who are allergic to housework.
Everyone, male, female, or non-binary, needs to take personal responsibility for vetting their partners BEFORE they let the relationship get so serious that they are living together or married. If you see the person is not responsible and competent, end the relationship.
Sister Kathleen, thank you!!!
Ladies, how hard is that?
@@ericfitzpatrick5319it gets easier every time. Just dumped mine and feel great about it.
It works both ways. People just need to be independent in general. If you can't live on your own, you have no business living with someone else. Go move out on your own. Grow up. Learn how the real world works, and then go find someone else who you like and also understands. That way life can get easier for both of you. Less stress = higher libido.
When you blame others, you affirm your own weakness. Women acting like they didn't pick these men in the first place...
Lol. That part. 😂
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Funny, but dealing with a Women-child is an equal turnoff. (Oh and they sure do exist)
I have been in a relationship with such one. She slept to around 4pm and then expected everything to be handed to her. Even when I came home at 8:45pm, after a long day, I was expected to do the shopping, make dinner and then wake her up. Laundry, cleaning and all that, fully on me. And she demanded sex on top.
@@brostenen I had a roommate like that. And the winner? She used to cut her toe nails and leave them on the coffee table while watching day time TV. Her boy friend supported her. I don't know if she knew what a toilet brush was either. This is not a subject that's native only to women regarding ,man/boys. LOL
@@AOK3x3 Oh yes. Not usually how woman is. But some never clean up after them self, clear anything from any table, take food into the bedroom and leave glasses half full of milk that goes sour. Like that stuff is in the league of those toe nails. And I am like, woman, why are you worse than a child in these things?
Ive seen an increase in womanchildren as well
Try having parents like that. It fucks you up beyond recognition.
"Man up and provide" really does sound like genuinely progressive message...
What, being Republican?
My mother actually taught me how to do all that. I'm honestly thankful. I have learned that a quick way to a woman's heart is to know how to cook and cook for her.
@@meh5561 what?
@@falchion1966 Ignore the pathetic troll. They just want to get reactions.
Your mother sounds very wise 👌
same here. but i prefer doing the dishes over doing laundry; prolly b/c it's a weekly chore compared to a daily chore (like aforementioned dishes), and i tend to forget to move the laundry from washer to dryer.
Good for your mother! Wish all mothers did this. I think more of them from the younger generations will do so. It certainly wasn’t that way in the “old days” (1970s and earlier).
Totally, I had an ex who expected me to do all the chores and he didn't even work. I worked full time. He was also emotionally abusive. It was a total turnoff. I hardly ever wanted to have sex with him. It was like once a month and he blamed me 🙄
Sounds like you don't know how to pick good men everything you just complain about was entirely your fault.
That's putting up with too much, nobody is that cute! I went through it myself, the horrifying part is I did it more than once, Omg!
@@jason618 yeah I don't where people find these garbage partners, why do they stay with them? I stayed single for years after finding out potential partners wouldn't do basic chores, immediately kick'em to the curb! I'm lazy as hell but if the dishes need doing, then I do them.. But if my ladyfriend has a sink full of dishes when I go by her house, I ain't interested.. I'd be mortified allowing anyone to see my house in disarray, idk how people stay with garbage.. It ain't just a guy thing, women can be just as bad and I moved on if they can't handle simple task, I'm far from perfect but you've got to have standards and don't allow people to use you.. If people stopped dating garbage these "adult-children" would grow up or be incels, either way they'd be away from good people..
@@jason618 Yeah let’s pretend men and women don’t lie and front about who they don’t really are until you’re trapped. Abusive people will lie to you for years if that’s what it takes.
@@SuSpInTiOn I didn't stay with him, hence he's my ex, guys can come across looking and acting totally different in the beginning and then morph into lazy, abusive slobs over time
Been saying this for years. If a man acts like a child, you're going to start thinking of him as one. And that's not sexy.
I don't think not knowing how to do something (eg. laundry) in particular is a problem. The problem is the attitude toward taking responsibility. If he's willing to learn and does learn, that itself is kind of sexy.
Really? I’m shocked🙄. I can’t believe scientists thought they actually had to do a study on this as if we couldn’t figure this out ourselves😂.
Only scientists can study human behavior.🤣🤣
I THOUGHT, THEY KNEW!!!!!!!!!!! REAL WOMEN, HATE THAT SH#T!!!!!!!!!!!!
How, TF, can you NOT USE A WASHING MACHINE?!??!
I can change I promise 😭
It’s not about not knowing how to work a machine- men pride themselves on that. It’s the man saying this thing is for woman’s work, let her do it.
They know, its called weaponized incompetence.
@@leothenomad5675 i used to use this at work as well
We know how, we just pretend not to because that's her job. 😂
I'm autistic, mentally and physically disabled and have trouble taking care of myself but hell im not that bad.
Yeah plus the average person wouldn’t group you with the rest due to your disabilities. You have an excuse, they don’t.
Darn right. We do NOT want to be a second mother to an adult. I've dated many man children, and had to teach them how to cook and everything. It's sad their parents never raised them properly. One ex couldn't even fry an egg!
Loser
Scientists discover that immature and selfish individuals are not attractive partners! Next up: New study shows dirty showers and toilets make people feel less clean after using them.
As much as women complain about these men, they keep dating them.
You know why? Cause we generally look better than the short nerds who committed themselves to making money in order to prove themselves, we just don’t care cause we get sex anyway
No we don't. Idiot.
@@anna8328 Horseshit! Women love dealing with man-children and love when these men treat them like shit. 100% of tge time, they will pass up the stable, grown man who had his crap together in favor of a Man-Child who will mistreat them and cheat on them.
@@sidimightbe3246 Tell me you're a TROLL without saying you're a Troll.
@@taylormanes5492 I’m deadass serious this is my life
People are always bringing up man-children, but the amount of grown women I've seen who can't take care of themselves is staggering.
Hmm. I wonder what variable accounts for that 'staggering' sample of incompetent women? The census tells us there are plenty of highly competent women---supporting themselves, supporting families, supporting spouses... but you seem to suggest you mostly see 'incompetent' women... i wonder what could explain the limitations of the sample?
@yishnir Don't misconstrue my words to suit your narrative. "Staggering amount" is not the same as "mostly." Not once did I infer that men were not part of the incompetence. I'm merely bringing up that it's naive to center the issue solely on men.
@@beech5950 Heh. It's also 'naive' to comment without listening to the whole video. Maybe start at 3:40. Also, as others have pointed out, they're discussing some specific published research on 'Man Children' in heterosexual relationships... while 'also' doing exactly what you're claiming you want them to do.
@yishnir I did watch the whole video and apparently my short term memory is shit. I concede. Congratulations, you won an internet.
@@beech5950 Hmm. All internet denizens appreciate your demonstration that acknowledgement is possible. Maybe there's hope for our species after all.
...and then they run for office to strip women of their rights so they can finally get the dishes washed
This is why, at the age of 50, I will never live with a man again. I’m honestly fed up with men treating me like I was their mother, washing their clothes, making them dinner, tidying up around them while they play video games, cleaning the house, looking after the kids etc etc. Even though we BOTH had full time jobs.
And then still wanting sex everyday and having a tantrum when I say no.
And it wasn’t just my ex husband, it was every guy I ever dated and lived with.
So for the past 10 years, if I dated someone they had to have their own place.
H ell, I still have to run around after my dad, who lives alone but is somehow still incapable of using a hoover or washing a dish! And this is someone who spent 23 years in the army.
OMG... SO true. You want a mother...stay with your mother....you want a sensual, loving partner...step up and be a decent human being.
You could blame his mom for not raising him right
I TOTALLY AGREE!!!! Libido goes poof!
I see a lot of butthurt men in the comments who didn't even watch the whole video.
My mom raised my two brothers to be able to cook and clean. And boy, could they cook!
I knew a woman whose husband retired before her and lived in their retirement home. She would go up there on the weekends and cook and freeze meals to last him the weekdays because he couldn't cook. What a waste of a waste of a weekend.
And people wonder why I don’t date anymore
I just watched a TikTok of a girlfriend explaining to her boyfriend that, in a relationship where she works 40hrs/week and he works 40hrs/week, it's not fair that he would expect her to do all of the housework, the cooking, the cleaning, the child-rearing and all of the household's mental labor... only for him to respond by saying that it WAS fair, because she's girl, that's what she's there to do... And, when she responded back by asking what was his role, then? He said "to be the man"... and everyone was, like, what does that mean?
Men, you are not owed women's labor and your time isn't more valuable than ours.
A woman's work should be inside her house, where her boss is not some stranger in a faceless corporation that does not have any loyalty to her till death do us part, but her own husband. Where she does not pay taxes to the government, because her housework cannot be taxed by any authority on earth. Where she is safe and protected from unsolicited eyes and other things. Where she takes care of raising the next generation according to her own traditional values.
Wow! If all a man brings to a relationship is half the household income, then he is easily replaced by a child support cheque... just saying.
@@DesertVox Guess what, you don't get to decide people's destinies because the voices in your head told you you're special.
Women are people, not toys. Die mad about it, I don't care, but I'm not submitting to some looser who can't even wash his own underpants.
@@kristenungstad3252 Buy cats.
@@DesertVox What creepy, decrepit, retarded hole did you crawl out of? Like, what the actual fuck???
Heyyy, I've had my own apartment for four years and at least two jobs for seven and I still ruin any woman's libido on sight!
I definitely have a had relationships myself with man children. My exhusband is a good example. I was shocked when I met my fiancé and he did dishes & was the only one in his house that cleaned. Let me tell you - it’s a world of difference.
I like men who allow themselves to have feelings and who express them in healthy ways instead of hurting me. I've dated plenty of "masculine men" and while not all of them were bad...A lot of them had other issues they needed help for but they expected me to be their punching bag even though I've lived through hell and back and am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. For close to 9 years I was physically, mentally, and sexually abused and I need a partner who will understand that it's hard for me to get up in the morning, it's hard for me to remember to do basic chores, and it's hard for me to go out because I'm scared I'll run into one of my many abusers or victim blaming people who were once in my life but not anymore. I am a survivor and I don't want to end up with a man who will abuse me like my father did to my pregnant mother and me when I was a wee baby.
Funny how it's always about the women's satisfaction in this case, but the topic of men's satisfaction never comes up. But when the topic of child support comes up: "it takes two to tango".
Tyt is misrepresenting the data the so called manchild is the bums. The research also states if the man is high value woman is willing to cook and clown stay af home. They not gonna mention that.
😂🤣😂never comes up🤣😂🤣 and yet here you are, mentioning it in order to hijack a conversation with whataboutism
It's getting annoying I agree. The subtle man hating has gotten out of hand lately. Reverse the title of this video and try and see things from my perspective
Because women’s perspective is considered right these days.
it's called "Weaponized Incompetence"
Women are really choosing these dudes
They act like there aren't women like that
There are women like that but TYT just won't acknowledge something that doesn't fit their far-left men are scumbags narrative.
No, they don't, it's just that this story isn't about that. This story doesn't mention the disproportionate suicide rates between men and women - because it isn't about that. Are you genuinely so special that you'd go to an article about a mass shooting and complain that it doesn't address the plight of endangered whales? Who am I kidding - you might be that stupid.
If you're dating a "Man-Child", just like dating a "Princess", then I'm looking at you funny. Kind of obvious yo don't want to be in a real and worthwhile relationship.
Millennial babies.
Reading the comments here has me busting a gut laughing. Immediately, all the defensive men come out hating on women and saying this is so wrong, and whatabout women? Guys, this discussion isn’t saying ALL men are man-children or that ALL men do this. If you don’t do this or you’re not like this, you shouldn’t get your hackles up….it doesn’t pertain to you. If you don’t do this, the appropriate response is “gee, I’m glad I’m not like that, and it’s too bad a lot of immature men are like that. I take pride in the fact that I help my woman, and she helps me, and we are happier together because of it. It actually makes me feel like more of a man that I share responsibility equally with my woman and don’t expect her to wait on me hand and foot and don’t think of her as nothing but a servant. I like feeling like we’re equals in life, and we have a really good sex life because of it”. Yes, there are “bad women” just as there are “bad men”, but we should all strive to be good to the people we love, and see them as equal partners in life so that we can walk proudly through life side by side. If you have a partner you really don’t like or who treats you badly, leave them and try to find someone who suits your needs in life. You will also be freeing them to find someone who hopefully suits their needs in life as well. And when you make an effort to be a better person you will attract better people.
No one is reading that paragraph of horse manure
@@jeannedarc3890 How do you know it was “horse manure” if you didn’t read it? Apparently, eight people did (probably to the end) and liked it. If you read it to the end you’d see that it wasn’t man-bashing.
Interesting. Lots of men in the comments, deflecting and dismissing.
I can attest, this is real. Seriously, cleaning up after a man--a grown-ass MAN--who can't do the most basic chore, is a gigantic turn off. Every time his partner has to go behind him and clean up his messes, it sends the message that he doesn't respect her. It's not cute. It's not endearing. It's not even about women being perfectionists. It's immature, disrespectful, selfish, and aggravating.
Truth
I’m going through this with my female partner. She has almost zero participation in domestic labor and when she does do stuff it’s half assed and need to be done again by me. I think it’s a human thing not a man or woman thing.
This just in, you don't need testicles to be manipulative and useless. Also, you don't need a uterus to be manipulative and useless. Up next, do more mothers or fathers kill their children? Because one thing can't be one thing. If it isn't directly impacting someone else, they become the minority, and then who the **** am I supposed to side with? We can't all be unemployed, lesbian, homeless, veteran, african American, Muslim, transgender, midget single mothers. Get your **** together, America.
This goes both ways I’ve seen women who act like kids it apples to both sexes
Wrong
@@shalotthazzard7010 how
Wait a minute.
The guy the woman interviewed said she lived with had moved out of his parents home 7 years prior but didn't know how to use a washing machine or make his bed? Flooded the kitchen really?
How did this guy survive ?
I don't get guys like this.
Same!
The man child starts at the parents. I’ve known too many men that can’t function without someone kicking their ass or leaving them over it
Definitely goes both ways. My baby momma used to have the house completely trashed when I came back from being on the road working for 2 weeks... everytime. And as soon as I got in tired as hell from working 7 12s then the drive home from out of state I would literally have to do everything for her snd the kids because she was sooo tired from being alone with the kids the whole time! Completely turned me off. Later found out she'd have her friends watch the kids while she went out cheating on me. All while I'm on the road working my ass off. Lol it didn't work out... p.s. I never wrote this. Bc now we get along as coparents which in a way makes up for the bullshit. And no I wasn't perfect. Noone is
@@allsaints1951 no shit. Every comment isn't correcting someone. It can be in agreement too... good job being a dick though
@@allsaints1951 I appreciate that! And I apologize for calling you a dick! Lol 😆
What is a woman?
Who won the election?
A woman gives life from between her legs. That about cover it? Then it's a man who gives himself a vagina these days. I knew right 🤯
My son does all the house work, and gets his daughters off to school and takes them to work when school is cancelled, my daughter in law does very little around the house. So there are women who do not much around the house. It can go both ways. Both parents need to teach both boys and girls how to care for a home and kids!
Please… let’s not as as if collectively girls aren’t given more household responsibilities than boys in general.
Both men and women can be children in action and thought. Way too many women are entitled, feeling like they should be supported to whatever level of life they decide they are accustomed to. I personally have experience with the male variety, too. Asking the most basic things was like I was speaking French, and I ended up just doing whatever I asked over again. Might as well just done it myself, so that's what I did. It saved time and frustration. A lot of times I felt like I was not only raising my young child, but two kids. But yeah, it definitely does go both ways, so that's why it's so important that you vet any future partner. Find out if they are used to being cared for instead of being independant. If they know how to do certain chores or tasks that you know you will need to ask them to do, and vice versa. You should be a fit for them, too. You have to know each other's expectations. So important.
Healthy people in general are turned off by other people's incompetence. I feel society mythologise women sexuality around the most obvious subjects.
I know being treated like someone's maid or mommy makes my lady bits dry up. Disrespect is not a turn on.
Lmao ty I needed that today 🤣
@@Ho-opono I'm happy I could bring a smile to your face!
Two common strategies were missing here:
1. The (usually) man who does routine chores so badly or messily that it's less effort for the (usually) woman just to do them herself.
2. The (usually) man who turns some routine chore into a mountain of sacrifice or effort for which the (usually) woman should admire and be grateful.
I say "usually" because I have known a heterosexual relationship where it was the other way round. But that is very rare. "Man children" on the other hand are two a penny.
My only other observation from the perspective of old age is that things are less bad now than they were in my parents' generation, people born before about 1920. In that generation, and I daresay earlier, it was more or less compulsory to be a "man child" or you were viewed as no man at all. A man would never be known or seen to be doing "women's; work". Did things change, to the partial extent they have. because men woke up or because women weren't having it any more? I think probably the latter.
I think "Man Child" is an oxymoron lol, I call them PA Children (PA = Physically Adult) because the only thing adult about them is their body
Guys get a passport it’s $150 and experience women OUTSIDE of the western world it’s a real eye opener
I used to live with a man-child. We had a huge argument about house cleaning, shortly after moving in together, & he thought I cleaned the house because I liked doing housework, not because it just needed to be done. 😒
I have been living with a woman, who never even thought about what actually got done. I did everything, because it needed to be done. Some times she slept to 8:45pm, because there were no reason to get up if I was not home. If you and I were living in the same house, it would be clean and spotless. And we would fight over the other taking jobs from one self. Not what is never been done.
Nearly every bloke between 18 and 30 are looking for a maid and a sex toy, if they haven't changed by 30 they never will. There are a lot of women do this too
Women-Children are also terrible.
“Weaponizing incompetence.” LOL.
“But it’s Shark Week!”
Especially the first guy.
This is all true of any gender. A lot of children actually do chores around the house, are expected to be quite autonomous (clean their own messes, take care of their room/stuff, do their own laundry) and take active concern in their other family members well being. So calling these idiots "manchildren" is actually insulting actual children. "Parasite" might be more accurate term for these people. Also, lol, obviously being an uncaring toxic parasite is going to be a turn off and that is what this is really all about.
Well said!
100% man children exist but this segment does underline how ok it is now to dump on men.
I know several people in relationships where the opposite is in fact true and that the woman in the relationship is high maintenance. I’m guessing it’s maybe taboo these days to have segments focus on that side too.
That’s the way it should be…and if the man has a problem with it he can date a more clueless woman that fits what he wants. The problem is you don’t understand the difference between a man and a woman. It’s not supposed to be equal in the way you’re implying. That doesn’t mean those relationships don’t exist, it’s just a scam for the woman and she won’t realize it until 10-20 years later and by then the man already benefited from her ignorance.
@@pinkroses9320 😂
It’s not dumping when you are addressing a
Specific behavior
@@shalotthazzard7010 good point but they wouldn’t have a segment the other way that’s what I was trying to get at
Why do you guys waste time with stories like this?
Because TYT doesn't want to do actual journalism unlike Jimmy Dore, Glen Greenwald and Max Blumenthal. It's kinda ironic that TYT is becoming the thing that they despise the most i.e. The mainstream media.
I know many women that do the same.
The algorithm gives u what u want...apparently u want to be annoyed/prejudiced. Ta da!
So if I brag about how much chores I do and how responsible I am when i'm on a date, I 100% am gonna smash that night?
🤣🤣🤣 hellllll no
To stop man-childism you have to teach them empathy. It’s a lack of the ability to feel what the other person is feeling.
tbf there are women out there like this too, just as annoying.
Communication skills are a must. Nothing is sexier than a good listener.
I don't where people find these garbage partners, why do they stay with them? I stayed single for years after finding out potential partners wouldn't do basic chores, immediately kick'em to the curb! I'm lazy as hell but if the dishes need doing, then I do them.. But if my ladyfriend has a sink full of dishes when I go by her house, I ain't interested.. I'd be mortified allowing anyone to see my house in disarray, idk how people stay with garbage.. It ain't just a guy thing, women can be just as bad and I moved on if they can't handle simple task, I'm far from perfect but you've got to have standards and don't allow people to use you.. If people stopped dating garbage these "adult-children" would grow up or be incels, either way they'd be away from good people..
But they “need to soak” 🤣
I think you're failing to grasp just how lonely and dependent some people are. Some people would rather be beaten than be alone. Mental health.
the amount of women I've dated that can't take care of themselves is STAGGERING.
Hmm. And yet, the world is 'also' full of highly competent women. I wonder why only incompetent women date you?
@@yishnir because they need someone to take care of them dumbass
@@LegendaryBrandon1 Oops. Over your head. Sorry. Maybe you'll put two-and-two together some day.
So why do you keep dating those types of women ? Let me guess...they’re hot.
In some cultures, the woman is expected to do all of the house chores, and they are taught this from a young age. And the men are raised to expect the woman to do all of the domestic chores, which would sometimes include taking care of any livestock and gardening chores. If this study is correct, then these women hate having sex, but are expected to perform because it's what the man wants. How horrible that must be.
A “man-child” was my last roommate. After much fighting, I watched a 31 year old operate a vacuum cleaner like a 3 year old trying to fly an airplane. Absolutely nfc what to do.
He had lived alone for 2 full years in a place his parents own. No housekeepers or cleaners.
I've met several women who don't know how to cook a meal. Complete losers, who needs a woman like that?
@@yarpenzigrin1893 that’s nice. Cooking, beyond simple recipes, is a skill I chose to acquire. Also, I’m a dude and not everyone likes to cook. Vacuuming your carpeted home requires the skills of a 4 year old and really is necessary for any semblance of cleanliness.
@@yarpenzigrin1893 Someone who likes to cook.
@@yracpontiferous4846 Yeah, I bought a roomba years ago because nobody enjoys running around with a vacuum. I also have a dishwasher and a washing machine for the same reason. Cooking is the only thing a woman has to do around the house these days. If that's too much then she's clearly not a wife material.
@@yarpenzigrin1893 just taking your statement at face value, let’s look at where you are empirically wrong, shall we?
Roomba needs to be emptied by someone. It also needs the floor to be free of clutter, which requires human intervention.
Dishes should be pre-washed/rinsed, need to be loaded and unloaded, requiring human intervention.
Laundry needs to be inspected for loose items/stains needing pre-was, loaded, unloaded, folded, and put away, requiring human intervention.
So, assuming these were tasks appropriately delegated to women, there’s obviously more to be done than just cook.
In conclusion, you’re not just inconsiderate, but you’re also clearly lacking some gray matter.
I had female when in college housemates who were the same sort of irresponsible.
How come there isn’t the term “woman child?” I’ve had women who I had to do everything because they were like children before.
There is truth to this. The quickest way to make me uninterested is to expect me to be your domestic worker and personal chef.
Lol, these days women don't know how to do domestic chores. I dated 7 women last 5 years, one knew how to cook.
@@robertcarlclayton7724 so you date to find a cook ? Haha 🤣 why not just hire one
The element you all are missing is the tantrum/rage. It goes hand in hand with this type and they never apologize or acknowledge.
When are they going to do a video on women-babies who do nothing but complain?
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I think they're covering a single topic right now. Maybe in the future they'll have a rebuttal, but for now feel free to see their other videos when they call out "Karens" and other entitled women.
Make one. Or search. There’s a million on the internet. Your wish has been granted.
@@shalotthazzard7010 big left leaning channels know their audience- they will never randomly drop a story on all the annyoying behaviours / things women do that men hate.
These guys need a stint in the military! I hate to recommend that, but it would be good training for cleaning and house work.
Or church, right? Guns and bibles - it's the American cure for everything.
This describes half of the women I've dated. Adult-child is definitely more appropriate... though inherently the phrase is nonsensical.
I've had my man-child moments... dishes are not fun and I'll cook in exchange for someone else cleaning up... but many hands make light work.... and leaves you time for more fun activities.
Like gaming. 😈
So women hate when they have to do all the chores. And men hate when they have to pay all the bills. The moral of the story is, people hate a useless partner.
Maybe people should work together as a team to accomplish things instead of doing them separately
Majority of women are also working and contributing to the household. Majority of men with a family are in two income households.
@ogolden8315
True. But over 30% of households still have one breadwinner. While the rest are either single or Married with two incomes.
And 93% of homemakers are women. Compare that to the 7% being men.
So again, women hate useless men who dont help with chores. And men hate useless women who dont help with bills.
@@catulytown8051 What you being deliberately obtuse about is the fact that the majority of the married/partnered women who aren’t paying bills and homemakers are using taking care of child(ren).
Now… I know I’ve seen some studies/data done to quantify the dollar value of what the average SAHM do, and it was more than what the average man could afford if he had to pay of those labor separately.
@ogolden8315
I think it's funny how you are bending backward to justify useless women within the confined of a relationship.
But at no point did you try to play devil's advocate for useless men. 🤔
But my stance is simple. If you are an able-bodied adult woman and you watch your husband struggle to pay ALL the bills, you are a useless partner. AND if you are a man who stands Idly by as your tired wife struggle to clean/cook, you are a useless partner.
As a man who's progressive and knows many couples, this goes both ways. I know alot of couples where the man is the responsible one and the women is a woman child as well. Three day benders with her girlfriends and all.
I agree. Men are probably more common to have this behavior but there are plenty of women out there like this as well. Sometimes its even both adults in the household. I was in a relationship with a live-in girlfriend where I did all the chores and even took care of her kid from a former boyfriend and she did absolutely nothing except go out with her friends. Needless to say, I left her.
@@TheGreatplaidmoose dude. You got straight up scammed
Of course. There is room for that conversation as well. But we are having this conversation right now. Jus be specific we are not talking about all men. We are talking specifically about men who… listen carefully
@@shalotthazzard7010 the thing is, I can't remember the last time TYT did a story on all the annoying things women do that men hate. it starts to paint a picture
Weaponized incompetence! Yes they just described my life for 20 years, this study is spot on.
Would that include Melania Trump's reaction to the biggest man-child, Donald Trump? 🤔
I'd be curious how this relates to homes where the man is the only one working... Do men have any effect on libido when they have to do things they dont like all day too? I'm not sure that women are burning with desire for all men that wash dishes... Seems like the data was interpreted to prove a previously held ideas and didn't explain any other dynamics or at least it wasn't shared with us. We're constantly being told more modern marriage designs lead to success meanwhile, it seems like those are the first marriages to go... The people in traditional marriages are staying married... maybe low sex marriages but everybody else seems to get divorced eventually, so which is worse?
Marriage is a means to an end not an end itself. If you are unhappy and your children are unhappy what good is a long marriage. It just become masochism to serve some pretend societal idea.
🤔 I never thought about it that way.
Finally somebody who gets it
It depends on the situation. Sometimes people stay longer in traditional marriages because of 1. Religion 2. Lack of financial independence and better options leave.
Who was this segment for?
Don't get offended, fellas.... it's good advice, that makes sense! Just don't forget to check your ego...at the door. A Woman's mind, like her body, is a terrible thing to waste.
Thank you... Thank you so much